Category: Sex Ed

  • How To Handle A Huge Penis

    How To Handle A Huge Penis

    I love sex and can’t get enough of it!

    What It’s Like Taking A Huge Penis

    At first it hurts. No dildos can prepare you for the real thing.

    Lube is SO important! We use all natural coconut oil.

    My Ideal Size

    Ten inches. I looooove big dicks.

    How Not To Feel Intimidated By The Size

    Just relax and breathe. I feel like the tip hurts the most, then once you’re in, you’re in!

    Blowjob Tips For A Huge Penis

    Whatever you do, do NOT try to fit it down your throat. You’ll probably scrape your teeth on his penis, and hurt him all because you’re trying out something that’s popular at the moment.

    Best Sexual Positions

    Doggy, and my favorite, missionary!


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  • Enjoy The Best Escort Service When Searching For NZ Escorts

    Enjoy The Best Escort Service When Searching For NZ Escorts

    There are premiere escort agencies in New Zealand, and they provide exclusive personal escort girls for any purpose. Usually, the best NZ escorts sites in New Zealand are interested in the confidentiality of their ladies, and quality of service to clients. While offering professional companionship, these adult service directories display the aesthetics and features of their escort girls. They often categorize their services as strip show performers, BDSM, topless dancers, erotic massage providers, independents, erotic clubs, and agency escorts.

    Getting Started With NZ Escorts

    New Zealand (NZ) is filled with ethically-run brothels and escort agency directories. You can enjoy a plethora of beautiful and scenic views in most NZ cities. Most adult males need a hot date or two without facing unnecessary competitions. Unlike asking a girl out, our online adult service directory saves you from the hassles of talking. Usually, men often do not have the patience caressing sexy girls before sliding their penis into their cunts when lonely and horny. So, the escort agency serves as a sex-negotiating community that connects clients with prostitutes. 

    After subscribing to the social platform’s service, you can have a conversation with your ideal companion. The type of escort service (short or extended time), dirty talks, pricelist, and the designated place of sex are often negotiated. 

    During your NZ escorts trip, you’ll find the right choice of sexy adult mate. Most of the pretty and luxurious girls with curvy features and elite escort ladies often have expensive hire rates. In New Zealand, the rate per hour for call girls varies according to their elegance, age, and taste. Generally, the high-class adult service providers are very classy, and intelligent. They can provide escort services for formal or corporate functions, and give you mouth-watering sex outside office hours.  

    Do you need a beautiful blonde or brunette as a partner during your business meeting? It’s not all escort services that requires sex because there are companions for business trips and career meetings. However, you might need to prep them so they can work as a team member. It’s not difficult to find corporate escorts for business meetings because high-end adult advertisement agencies display brief descriptions of their portfolios.

    Do You Have High Sexual Demands For Our NZ Escort? 

    We provide an online platform for elite escort services, and regular ‘privates’ to work in your apartment. We also make advertisements for ex-porn stars, independent adult entertainers, and university undergraduates that are prostitutes. While satisfying both foreign and domestic clients, our high-class escorts are capable of offering unforgettable moments. Depending on the negotiation with clients, most of these erotic companions can perform nude dances, offer sex from different positions, use sex toys, costumes, and massage therapy.

    A stylish client that need NZ escort service from luxurious ladies will get fashionable and sensual women from elite escort directories. This rich clientele might choose the fantastic atmosphere of a nightclub for pleasure. Also, the demands could be a private striptease with great music with plenty of drinks to trigger the right mood. I’ll advise such foreign client or domestic gentleman to arrange for a gang bang with some exotic New Zealand escort.

    Are you interested in travelling around? Try Wellington Escorts

    When travelling around New Zealand then Wellington escorts are the ones who you have to try. The city itself is very beautiful and will offer a lot of different activities what sex tourism can offer. There are strip clubs, private houses, agency houses, you can get a happy ending massage or all the things what you can dream of. In my mind escorts wellington are the most beautiful girl in the country. I haven’t tried them all but according to the sites and the research what I have been doing, escort in wellington is an experience what you have to try.  

    Travelling to Prague? Try a search word “bezpasaka” or “naprivat”

    SecretGirl also offers a wide selection of eskort girls in Ceczh Republic. If you happen to visit Prague you can recognize similar adult entertainment as in New Zealand. There are private girls and also agency girls available. The regulation of the industry is quite liberal and you can basically order any service what you can dream of. When searching for the best place to contact girls, try secretgirlprague.com. Or if you want to browse different directories, you can try to search by “bezpasaka” or “naprivat” from Google.


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  • What To Know About Head/Brow Shaving Fetish

    What To Know About Head/Brow Shaving Fetish

    Alternative lifestyles intrigue the hell out of me. I love watching people go against the norm, I love seeing people flourish in ways where they were told they can’t. I just love seeing people live their truth and be completely and wholeheartedly who they are, their individual selves. That’s what makes humans so fascinating and interesting to be around, their individuality.

    I have always known I wanted to live an alternative lifestyle. I grew up with Catholic and Evangelical Christian influences, very conservative people. Very bland, very boring. I knew from a young age I didn’t want to be like them, look like them, or conform in the ways they wanted me to. They wanted me religious, my hair kept long and natural, no tattoos, no crazy styled clothing, no “weird” relationships, they wanted me to be some cookie cutter kid- but that was never on my agenda.

    Since a kid I’ve been researching kink lifestyles and now that I’m older and understand myself, my dream of being that “alternative weird girl” was finally coming true. Sorry mom, but I have plans to tat my whole body, I have already started piercing myself, I have been in a few relationships where BDSM and taboo roleplaying has been a huge part of who we are as a couple, and of course, I have shaved my head.

    What Does The Head/Brow Shaving Fetish Constitute?

    Honestly, I never thought I would EVER shave my head, let alone shave my eye brows! If you told me two years ago when I started this job that I’d be shaving my head and then doing it for money, I would’ve laughed at you. I used to be so damn attached to my hair, I still am not 100% sure how I feel about my brows being gone, but I absolutely love my head buzzed or smooth.

    It all started about five months ago, I decided I was serious about the big shave. I had been thinking about it seriously for maybe six months before that, my hair was so damaged and it started killing my confidence. I was watching tons of YouTube videos trying to get used to the buzzed look, I was afraid my head was going to be shaped weird and because I wasn’t seeing many pictures or videos of plus size women with a buzzed head, I was scared it wasn’t going to look good on me.

    One day, I just did it. I’m always asked why I didn’t film the initial shave but long story short, it was emotional for me. I love this fetish because my confidence has grown a ton. I was unsure of it at first, because of how drastic of a change it was, but I truly love it now. It makes me feel free, I don’t have to worry about styling my hair, my showers are shorter, and I’ve gained new fans from it too. I still have fans from my cam days, still following me from over a year and a half ago, telling me how much I’ve grown in my craft and how confident I’ve grown to be. Other’s in the industry tell me the same thing and that makes me so happy to hear.

    How Common Is This Fetish?

    Once I gained new followers from the head shaving clips, I was offered to do a custom head and brow shave and then I had two more people come to me for the same custom fetish clips. So, for me, I think this fetish has gained quick traction! My first brow, head, and pubic shaving custom is $29.99 on all platforms and has resold nine times in under two weeks. That’s really impressive for me and I will only keep improving!

    Personally, before I shaved my own head, I thought this fetish was very rare. The first two people to approach me about creating this content has told me not many women participate, that’s when I knew I needed to try it out.

    Common Misconceptions About Head/Brow Shaving Fetish

    The first question is always “So you just shave your head on camera and, that’s it?”. In a short answer, yes, but the longer answer isn’t quite as simple.

    The men that have inquired about this fetish have said a lot in common. What I have gathered, is that they love the transformation of seeing all of the hair come off, how different It looks after. I have also been told they like women who go against society’s standards, browless and bald women do exactly that. So, what do I do on camera if I don’t just plainly shave on video? My first few inquiries have also had a BDSM theme to them. A few ideas, including the video I released, wanted to act reluctant to shave, or doing it because I want to make them happy. I enjoy expressing my submissive side so this was an added bonus for me. I hope I keep getting interesting shaving inquiries, I love custom work especially when creating fetish/taboo content.

    Another misconception about these men is that they are lonely, creepy, or grossly perverted men because “who would ever become sexually aroused by that?”. They are ordinary men from all different parts of the world. They’ve emailed or direct messaged me very appropriately, making sure not to offend me by their requests – which is always adorable and refreshing compared to how I’m usually approached. The head shaving community has made me the most money for this one fetish, they appreciate my work and actually PAY my worth and it feels absolutely amazing. They may be perverts and they may watch porn, but they’re the best perverts who support small businesses and pay for their entertainment, I appreciate them.

    How Does One Explore This Fetish For The First Time?

    Well first, decide that shaving your head, or shaving another person’s head, is right for you. Some people are aroused by watching others shave, some want to watch someone shave another person, some want their own head shaved, or they enjoy all of these ideas. Just make sure you are two consenting adults and give it a go! Buzzcuts only require clippers, but if you want to go smooth, make sure you or your partner know how to handle a straight razor or just grab a regular four blade handheld shaver and your favorite shaving cream.

    If you are using clippers for the first time, make sure you’re buzzing at the level you want, I go down to a zero (no guard) with clippers, and when using a razor, I shave with my hair growth, not against it like I would when I shave my legs. Any new fetish you’re interested in should always be handled with care, do your research! Understand what you and/or your partner likes, and have fun with this.

    The reviews on my brow and head shave clip were positive because they loved how real it was, the role I played for this person actually felt real, so if you’re looking to film this type of content, keep that in mind. I see tons of videos of people just shaving, no talking, not even engaging with the camera. Although some viewers enjoy this, most want a personal experience, so create a theme or short story line, look directly into the camera when speaking, and be yourself.

    No matter HOW you enjoy this fetish, just have fun with it!


    Briana Black – Briana Black has been an online Sex Worker since July 2017 and recently started pro shoots in January of 2019. Specializing in fetish content, her favorite kink related clip topics are submissive themes and shaving. You don’t want to miss out on this 5’7, plump, bald headed woman bringing your most secret fantasies to reality.

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    I want to keep shooting with TheScoreGroup (XLGirls.com) so go check out my first pro porn scenes there and let them know you want to see me back! Here’s the direct link to my profile: https://www.xlgirls.com/bbw-models/Briana-Black/8838/?nats=MTAwNC45LjcuNy42ODQuMC4wLjAuMA

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  • Benefits Of NZgirls Independent Escort Service

    Benefits Of NZgirls Independent Escort Service

    The NZgirls escort industry has come a long way and now there are a plethora of services to choose from. Independent escort services offered by independent service providers tend to weigh better than agency escorts. Basically, an independent escort service evokes the impression of being confident in your own work and being liberated in your own work. 

    They are the most customer-friendly and favourable service providers than other contracted agencies out there. Independent Auckland escort provide a first-hand experience of true companionship with high-end sophisticated ladies. The major benefits of going for an independent escort in New Zealand.

    Price

    The main benefit of hiring NZ escort independent services is the price. Compared to contracted escort agencies, the relative price you pay for independent NZ escorts is relatively cheaper. Most of the time, the price is slashed by half when you go the private route. What you would pay for a one-hour session with an agency would take two hours with a private escort. 

    If that wasn’t enough, the pricing is usually not fixed as it is with agencies. It is always open for negotiation between you and suited companion. The price varies depending on what you want services you would want to be included for your session.

    Versatility

    Even though the escort industry is majorly dominated by escort agencies, independent escort services are more versatile compared to what you can get from an agency. It is the main reason that motivates Auckland escort to tap into the private market. With agencies, you never know what could happen. For instance, when a back page is gone, what can the agency do now? The inconsistency of agency sites is what birthed the onset of private escort service providers. Now, the ladies have become wise enough to go solo but sourcing their services on directory websites such as SecretGirl NZ.

    Auckland escorts are more open to service clients in more distinctive arrangements. Since independent escorts are not under any authority of being dictated, the freedom between the client and independent escort is genuine and unlimited. Some agency escorts tend to be more grumpy and frustrated especially when the agencies are taking a huge chunk of the profit. 

    It is up to you and the escort to decide what both of you prefer without rushing things over. Due to this negotiation window period, clients are more likely to get a better deal and leave more satisfied than ever before. Everything is more straightforward, and that is why NZgirls escorts are more desired.

    Customer-oriented Services

    Independent escorts focus on providing first-hand services to all the clients. Back page escorts Auckland are more diligent when it comes to serving their clients. For any independent Auckland escorts, escorting is not an employment to them, but rather, it’s a self-imposed engagement or hobby that they wish to provide services for. 

    Therefore, they take more time and energy to invest in the engagement and meet people with whom they can connect with and spend some unforgettable time with NZgirls.

    Travelling to Prague? Just search Sex Praha from Google

    Secretgirl has a website in Prague as well. When travelling to Prague in Cezch Republic you only have to go to google and type in Sex Praha and you can find us there. Prague nightlife is quite mesmerizing and vivid when going there for the first time. Sex tourism is booming there and people go there from all over the world. As in New Zealand the Praha sex tourism is categorized between private and agency houses. Private workers are more open and willing to try different things. Agency escorts are mostly sex workers from abroad and they are not that keen on trying different things and they are for sure pricier than their co workers from independent sex industry. But, as always there is a but, agency workers tend to be more beautiful. So there you have it, now it is your time to act!


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  • How to Pick the Right Dating App for You

    How to Pick the Right Dating App for You

    We’re no longer relegated to only being able to find romantic partners through our circle of friends or personal level of adventurousness. In the digital age we live in, there are many options for finding a potential date. In fact, it might be challenging to figure out which dating app is best for you.

    There’s every dating app you can imagine – from dating apps for biking enthusiasts to dating apps for people who want to go to clown college one day. That last one is made up, but it honestly isn’t too far out of the realm of possibilities. All we’re trying to say is that there are thousands of dating apps, but only one you. How do you narrow it down and start putting in some work? Here are some tips:

    Figure out your level of commitment.

    Not everybody is looking for a long-term commitment right off the bat. To avoid awkward exchanges later in a relationship that might end with tears and broken hearts, you should figure out exactly what kind of relationship you’re looking for. Is this something casual, something a bit more serious, or are you explicitly looking for a spouse? Different apps service different needs. Typically, apps that use just a few photos and a quick 100 to 250-character bio section are more for no strings attached hookups, while services that require lots of personal information are for finding long-term partners, so choose accordingly.

    Check reviews online.

    Many people are willing to go to pretty far lengths to secure a relationship. The people who make these services know this, and some are less genuine than others. That’s why it’s of utmost importance to do your homework and look up reviews to see how legitimate a site is before signing up. Searching up something as simple as Interracial Dating Central review is all you need to see real reports of people’s experiences with a particular service. Just type in the name of the service, and then add a review to the end of your query – as simple as that!

    What kind of person are you?

    Most dating apps are pretty simple. You can make a profile, and from there, you can send a message to others who have made a profile, or they can send a message to you first. Other apps do things a bit differently. For instance, Bumble only allows women to message men first. It’s something some men appreciate as it shows that the woman is interested in them on at least some level before proceeding to talk to them. Other apps work like online speed dating, and some even let you enter a group with your friends to then meet different groups of people. If you know what kind of social situations you’re most comfortable in, chances are you can find a dating service that best caters to your needs.

    Conclusion

    Thankfully, in today’s day and age, nearly everybody can find the right person for them as long as they’re willing to put effort into their search. Dating services, both free and paid, are a great way to make romantic connections that would otherwise be extremely difficult, even if that person has been living right under your nose the whole time. Best of luck to anyone out there looking for love. It isn’t always easy, but it’s nearly always worth it in the end.


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  • How Men Should Behave On A First Date

    How Men Should Behave On A First Date

    I’ve been dating for over five years, from once-off first dates, casual relationships to long term boyfriends. At present, I’m currently happily single, however, I have the luxury of experiencing all the common dating scenarios at once – I just get paid for it.

    Dating can be easy yet so hard. I started my first dating profile on RSVP when it was seen as taboo to meet someone online. Effort was required to have a decent set of photos and an engaging “about me” section. I definitely remember the anticipation to check my inbox to see if I received a new message!

    Today, I see that online dating applications are widely accepted and you just require your best profile image and maybe one line to draw attention to the high volume of users. A first date sounds easy as mutually swiping right, however the opportunities can be lost just as easily.

    Regardless if I am dating for leisure or business, once the first date is locked in – it is exciting as ever! Meeting different people of various backgrounds, personalities and experiences has provided insight into how I view my life and decisions. Even for the not so great dates, this has definitely challenged my interests and tolerances to certain behaviours.

    How Are First Timer Clients Different From Experienced Ones?

    I tend to attract all different experience levels when it comes to meeting an escort – a significant portion would be first timers. A common trait of a first timer would be the lack of confidence and nervousness which is completely understandable, in most cases I would say this isn’t something someone does on a whim. There is time and money which is invested for a meeting and you never know what to expect for a first date. Even I can feel a little nervousness with the first date however this usually subsides not long after building the connection and chemistry.

    Ways To Impress You On A First Date

    As with any type of meeting, the first impression really does count when it comes to dating. When I think about the individual memories of the lovely people I meet, I always remember the introduction. I cannot guarantee this works for everyone, but the simple and free way to impress me is through engaging and intelligent conversations. I am genuinely interested to get to know my dates and it’s great when they also want to discover my thoughts and interests. After a great date, a follow-up appreciation message is always going to guarantee a smile on my face.

    Common Mistakes Men Make On A Date

    As mentioned, I indulge in engaging conversations, however this can be difficult if a man isn’t talking at all or isn’t interested in asking any questions.

    Another turn off for myself would also be lack of respect or manners towards individuals of certain ethnicity sexuality, occupation, appearance etc. Funnily enough, I even have had my dates disrespect the industry I work for.

    Ways To Ease Nerves For First Timers

    It is completely understandable that meeting an escort for the first time would be incredibly nerve-racking. In the back of their mind, there will always be questions such as “Is she real?” or “I hope this is worth it for this amount of money” or “I hope I can perform.”

    The best advice I can give prior is to relax (in a nice way of course) and have a good time. You have already taken the first step to be in contact with an escort, you’re ready to meet her and he/she is ready to meet you – it should only be getting better from here!

    Signs You’re Enjoying Your Time

    I would say the continuous eye contact as well as my smile will guarantee I am having a good time. I don’t expect my dates to be mind-readers, however observing my body language is key.

    I’m not afraid to make any moves so I’ll naturally touch my date once we establish the connection leading to a touch on the arm or the thigh. Things should get steamy quite quickly before there is even time to ask if I am enjoying my time.


    Vivienne Law – My name is Vivienne Law and I am genuine provider of the girlfriend experience. I have a true passion for building and maintaining personal relationships with men which has resulted in regular relationships that are still on-going today. Primarily based in Sydney Australia, I have had the luxury of travelling to multiple cities to do what I love.

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  • Exploring Different Kinks & Fetishes

    Exploring Different Kinks & Fetishes

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    I love different kinks, and I aim to embrace them in my community. I myself am a big fan of kinks and fetishes. My work is specialized in FinDom, JOI, tease and denial, sissification, and humiliation to name a few.

    How My Interest In Kink Started

    I knew I was a fan of more than vanilla sex from the age of 16/17 but didn’t have the ability to explore my kinks. I discovered my specific interests initially through porn, but have been able to divulge into every fantasy as a dominatrix/switch.

    How Does One Know What Kink They Are Into?

    Sometimes it’s completely by accident; you might see something in a film, or someone walking past you in the street and see something peculiar that turns you on. It can be a trial and error, especially for specific kinks, but porn and the Twitter dominatrix/camming universe is a good place to start.

    Tips To Get Into The Kink Lifestyle

    Try joining a community such as Fetlife, which is like facebook for us kinky folk, and start talking to people about it. Reading up on things online is good too. I have a folder on my computer with images and links of all the things I want to try.

    Websites like this one is a good way to learn more too. The talented people who are featured in articles will know even more than what they can put on a page, so try joining their community.

    Popular Fetishes & Kinks

    The most popular I’ve found is DDLG (daddy domme, little girl), JOI (jerk on instruction), feet worship, ass worship, sissification, and humiliation. These are all amazing kinks to have a start with, especially JOI which is really good to look into as beginners.

    As a Domme, I’m into FinDom (financial domination), JOI, body worship, humiliation, sissification, blackmail, chastity, and tease and denial. In my personal life away from work, I’d consider myself more of a sub/switch, into knife play, asphyxiation, DDLG, bondage (there’s this really tasteful Japanese art form of rope bondage which is really cool) and more.

    I find that being a Domme and camgirl as a job is amazing as an outlet. There’s just something about telling someone they can’t cum, or telling them they’re pathetic, that really relieves stress.

    Tips For Beginners To Explore Their Kinks

    Fetlife and Twitter is a good place to start. There are also some amazing dedicated discord servers to specific fetishes that can be found online. From there, Domme cam models are a good place to try out the experience tailored to you.

    If you have a partner, it’s always good to be open sexually and talk about what you would like to try, with both of you respecting each other’s boundaries. If your partner isn’t into, do not pressure them into trying something they don’t feel comfortable.

    As with anything else, consent must be given first. This also goes to cam models and other people you might go to try our possible kinks: if a Domme or anyone whose job is to do that says they do not cater to or are uncomfortable with that fetish or kink, don’t push.

    All in all, have fun, stay safe, stay sexy.

    Poppy Swallows xoxo


    Poppy Swallows – I’m Poppy! Camgirl and fet-lover, I spend most nights performing and pleasing the masses. I love sleep, food, animals, gaming, and food. I specialize in JOI and sell custom videos and photos too. I do skype sessions and I’m always up for a casual chat.

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    I don’t have anything coming up, but I am planning on going to the SuicideGirls/MFC show in London in June, so if you’d like to see me there, come along and make it happen!!


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  • Girl On Girl Fantasy

    Girl On Girl Fantasy

    I am for girl-on-girl. I love girls. Sex with a girl is very aesthetically beautiful for me. I like to look at it and especially to participate.

    Do Women Fantasize About Girl On Girl?

    Of course. I think quite a few girls who at least once have kissed their girlfriend or watched Lezbo videos. By the way, I mostly just watch Lezbo. People want diversity sooner or later, but why not do it with a girl? If this is a new experience. Only after that you can say whether someone likes it or not and whether they will continue to fantasize about it. But of course I think girls want girls. And they represent it.

    How Is Having Sex With A Girl Different From A Guy?

    Girls show more sensuality, attention to detail and interest. It seems to me that girls are even more liberated in sex with a girl than with a guy. Plus, no one will understand a girl better than another girl.

    First Time Girl On Girl Tips

    Relax, give pleasure and receive it. Sex with a girl is very emotional and sensitive. It is important to pay attention to the little things, light touch, breathing, facial expression and sound, mandatory eye contact. It is important to feel the partner and try to give pleasure.

    Do not be afraid to say if something is wrong. This is the way to the usual sex applies. It is important to feel the person. Have an emotional connection with them.

    Ways To Kink It Up

    Love.

    Any fantasies and experiments are possible with the person you love.


    Hayli Sanders – Erotic MODEL and ACTRESS

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  • The Importance Of Communication Before Foreplay

    The Importance Of Communication Before Foreplay

    Foreplay is great. The end.

    In all seriousness though, I believe foreplay is wildly important to any sexual encounter. I also believe that it comes in many flavors. Foreplay can be the subtle touches and teases before we get even closer. It can be the scintillating correspondence shared between us before we meet (I have personally received some emails that have left me wet and wanting).

    Foreplay can be a passionate political argument that escalates, leaving us to find that our intellectual impasse has become more of a carnal intrigue. Foreplay is just as diverse as the people who engage in it, and personally, I am fascinated to find out what turns people on. One might say that I found the right career path. **wink**

    Do Men & Women View Foreplay Differently?

    I’ve just never been able to swallow this particular bit of foreplay folklore (and swallowing has never been my problem). I don’t have statistics on this one, but in my experience this issue is more nuanced than people make it out to be. People like to say that women enjoy more foreplay and men like to “get down to business,” or that men tend to be more physical whereas women require more mental stimulation.

    But, I can honestly say that I have not found this to be the case. Most of my clients are men that are seeking intellectual stimulation (to go with a healthy dose of physical stimuli, of course). I have had the absolute pleasure of having sexual encounters with people all along the gender spectrum. I would conclude from my astute observations that there are no gender-correlated trends in the realm of foreplay, except that almost everyone enjoys some variety of it. The kind and duration of foreplay that people enjoy differs depending on personality, rather than gender identity.

    I think this misguided myth just speaks to a different cultural time, one which I am elated to leave in the past.

    Is Communication Key To Great Foreplay?

    Communication is key to great foreplay, great sex, great relationships, great restaurant experiences, etc. If one can effectively communicate their needs and desires, life in general becomes a lot easier.

    As far as foreplay is concerned, everyone is different. Despite what magazines would have us believe, there is no singular “Miracle Move” that will make every partner you ever have come back for more (pun entirely intended). Language is one of humanity’s most brilliant and beautiful creations. Why waste hundreds of thousands of years of honing our communication skills by withholding some of the most brilliant and beautiful details of ourselves? I want to know what turns you on, what makes you tick, and what is an absolute non-starter. I want to know what you want, what you truly desire, what peaks your curiosity.

    Like an artist must fully understand her medium, I like to know what I am working with. Clearly communicating with your providers or partners helps them to understand how to pleasure you in the most effective way. And, who doesn’t want to be effectively pleasured?!

    I believe communication is integral for any relationship, which is why my website includes a section specifically addressing communication. It reads:

    “This is quite possibly THE most important element of our relationship.

    Before: Know exactly what you like? Awesome. Tell me, and I will do my darndest to make it happen. Don’t know what you want just yet. Let me know. We can explore some options and discover together.

    During: In order to explore the deliciously complex realms of pleasure, we must trust one another to voice our limitations. We all have them; we are human after all. At any point in our encounter, if there is anything you do not like, say so immediately. I will never judge you for this. In fact, I find knowing one’s limits to be incredibly sexy. I promise to voice the same.

    After: I appreciate your feedback. Let me know what you enjoyed, what you’d like to try for next time, or any other thoughts that seem worth mentioning. The more we can communicate about our needs and desires, the deeper and more fulfilling our connection can become. “

    I think the worst thing someone can do in a session is show up with new toys and provide no explanation at all. I can guarantee that they aren’t going to get what they want from that encounter. I am a firm believer in securing consent. If someone hands me a toy and lets me assume what they want, that’s not consent. You’ve got to use your words.

    What & How Should Both Parties Communicate Their Needs

    First things first. Before you can share anything, make sure the other person is ready to have that conversation. It can be quite taxing for some people, or they may just prefer to have it at a particular time or in a particular space.  Just make sure they are ready for it. Many providers prefer to have this conversation in sessions (myself included). Not only is this safer for all parties, but it decreases the chances of miscommunication. If you’re seeking something specific, I strongly encourage clients to inquire about when this conversation should take place. Do not spring this information on your provider in an email or during a phone call, unless they have consented to having that conversation.

    Now, you’re ready to share your needs and desires with your partner or provider. How do you even start? Two words: Honestly and completely. It’s intimidating. I know. I used to self-censor when I would share my desires with partners, because I was afraid to scare them away. When I became honest about what I really liked, there was no going back. Even when they didn’t want to do some of the things I desired, they had a better understanding of what gave me pleasure. Honesty. It’s a game-changer.

    If someone can’t get down with something you’re into, don’t take it personally. This is easier said than done, because our desires are very personal pieces of our identities. Pieces that cause many of us to experience shame from being steeped in a culture that vilifies the “Other,” or anything out of the ordinary (Someone did well in her Sociology class!). They’re not trying to hurt you. They aren’t judging you. They just don’t want to do a thing they don’t want to do. Be as gracious as you’d hope they would be if the roles were reversed.

    Tips To Make Foreplay Even More Enjoyable!

    Yes! Try different things! Try new things! Mix it up. You know what you like? Great. You know what they like? Awesome. Now, take a risk. Ask to try something you don’t know if you would like. You may have a new favorite position or toy or scenario.

    What could you possibly lose? Just make sure you ask and clearly communicate how the trial will go down and what you may not like about the new thing, so the experience is enjoyable even if you end up not liking it.


    Parker Westwood – If a grunge-punk activist became an engaging sociology professor and was then trapped in the body of a burlesque dancer who had the most illuminating laugh, THAT would be Parker Westwood. She is an elite companion and artist based in Metro Detroit. Keep an eye on this one. She’s full of surprises.

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  • How To Have A Successful GFE

    How To Have A Successful GFE

    Sex as we know it, is a highly physical interaction between two or more people who share the common interest in the act of it. Although sometimes given a very vague definition by society, sex plays an important role in our lives as social beings.

    I personally enjoy sex and I love to indulge in its various forms. I believe in having the freedom to express your sexual desires without inhibitions. Sometimes I wish that we speak about sex more openly. Once everyone realizes that it’s not something we should be ashamed of, I believe that we will have a wider and more extensive understanding of the need for physical human connection. This will then help us break differential barriers and the stigma that surrounds sexuality, gender identity, and even the world of sex work.

    If we keep a more open mind as to how we achieve pleasure through connection, we’ll have a greater understanding of one another. It will help expand our horizons and help us understand our constant need to express affection— which if you ask me, is the most complex yet most beautiful part of our life.

    Why Do Clients Want The GFE

    GFE means Girlfriend Experience and just from its definition we can already see why it’s popular in the world of companionship. I can’t speak for other providers but from my knowledge of the industry, GFE is the most popular request and it’s because of the dynamics involved during the session. When a client requests for it, it’s my job to make sure that the whole experience is as comfortable and as welcoming as it can possibly be. It involves assuming the “girlfriend” role and playing the part as organically as I can. The fantasy offers the client a chance to feel the special bond that two people share in a relationship. The main key to this experience is to be as real as you can. Sometimes this means that you get to know your clients on a more personal level therefore deepening your mutual understanding with them.

    Clients often desire this experience because it offers the most important part of every interaction. Connection. Often, clients will tell me that the sex is just the cherry on top of the sundae because connection is more important to them. Without it, the whole session is pointless. It has no substance, no meaning.

    Personally, I enjoy the GFE because I get the chance to connect with my clients on a more intimate level, therefore elevating our sexual experiences. There’s no better feeling for me as a provider than instantly finding a commonality between me and my client and the GFE is the best way to achieve it.

    What Is Considered A Successful GFE?

    Every encounter will be different because every client expects different things but a successful GFE session is definitely achievable. To me this means that I was able to cater to my client from the first point of contact  until  we give each other a kiss goodbye.

    Every encounter starts from the moment the client reaches out to book a date. I make sure to reply to their inquiry as soon as I can and make sure to answer any questions they may have. This also gives me a chance to speak to my potential clients about my services and the restrictions I have in place. This ensures that there will be no conflict during our date and it it gives us a great understanding of what we both expect during our time together. Once this is done, you can almost always expect that the session will go well.

    Location plays a big part in making sure that you get a successful GFE session. I personally host from a more comfortable incall like an airbnb or short term rental condo unit because I believe that it helps ease the client into a more homely vibe. It also provides a bit of privacy compared to hotels. Clients value the extra step you take to make sure that they are in a safe environment. Plus, he’s supposed to be visiting his girlfriend after all. Having fun in her place, in her room, and on her bed feels a lot more real than a hotel suite.

    When the time comes for us to finally meet, I make sure to open the door in my best lingerie. This shows the client that you put an effort into making sure you look your best for him. A good welcome hug helps nervous clients calm down and more excited  ones to get a chance to express their enthusiasm to meet you.

    I often ask my client to have a seat with in my living room for a little chat before we start. Getting to know each other in person helps us establish connection before we have some fun. Once we proceed to the bedroom, I choose to be a more passionate lover. I take things slow and take my time with my client. I get to know their body and what turns them on. For me, making out is essential. Teasing and foreplay is a must. I like to build the anticipation for a greater orgasmic reward later on. After sex, I like to chat while cuddling. Often, I talk to my client about how our intimate session was. I ask questions on things I can improve or moments that drove him crazy during our time that he would love to repeat for next time. This helps you formulate a more personal interaction with your client for when he comes back.

    Once the date has come to an end, I make sure to send my clients with a warm farewell hug and kiss, leaving a lasting impression. Then, just to make sure he knows I’m still thinking about him, I send him a message to let him know how much I enjoyed our session and that I would love to see him again. Your client will love you for that and that’s because you showed him that you have him in your mind. That’s sexy.

    Again, it’s different for everyone but this is my basic definition of a successful GFE.

    How To Experience A Successful GFE

    It’s hard to ensure anything during a session but with communication it’s possible to set yourself up for success. I personally developed a way to read clients through our conversations prior the appointment. This proves quite difficult if you’re new to the industry because it takes some time to familiarize yourself on how to read people. I take note of certain requests and how my client is coming across through his messages.

    It helps me see a little bit of his personality and I use that little bit of information to help me prepare for our date. If I encounter some trouble trying to read him, I often just ask questions. It’s better to know what they like than to guess during the session. Different clients, different needs but they often look for one common thing which is connection. If I can provide that for them, I’m sure everything else will fall into place.

    How Does The GFE Evolve?

    There is no perfect formula for this but I find it helps me when I piece together their story. The more you see your client regularly, the more you get to know him. This usually means that you both will share his life experiences during conversations and perhaps even a little bit of yours. This can only be achieved if your client finds that he can trust you. Yes. Trust. It has a very big role in your relationship with your client.

    As a companion, I value trust more than anything. It will bring you a long way. Although very important, trust doesn’t always just mean respect for privacy. If your client trusts you, he will be willing to explore new things with you. You can both be adventurous with your encounters. You can bring them to the edge of their sexual desires if they know you’re putting their best interest at heart. This then will ensure that things will be kept interesting and that no encounter is ever the same. It keeps them guessing and wanting more. Personally, I enjoy this dance with my client’s mind. I find satisfaction in helping him discover new things about himself that he never knew before. Quite honestly, this works both ways as I find myself getting surprised by my personal sexual discoveries as well. It’s a perfect way for both of you to explore each other. This can take some work from your end because you have to constantly learn new ways to bring forth pleasure.

    One thing I can say is that I find most clients enjoy the orgasms you cause in their mind than the ones you cause in their pants. A simple way to try this out is by surprising them with your looks and outfits. Be unpredictable with your hair, make up, and even your sexual personas. One day be a girl next door, the next be a sexy secretary, then be total goddess. An unpredictable girl is very sexy.


    Asia Mendez – I live a positive life, possess a positive mind, and create positive vibes. I am fearless to say that I am in pursuit of what sets your soul on fire. I want to be the first thing you touch in the morning and the last taste of ecstasy that you have at night. I present a highly sensual, supremely confident, and alluring experience — offering endless pleasures and a chance for adventures.

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