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  • How To Spice Things Up With Roleplay

    How To Spice Things Up With Roleplay

    Whether between a heterosexual or homosexual couple, sex is sex. Beyond that however, sex is an addition to body language as it’s a way of communication through touch and sound. You can learn to know someone’s interests through the arch in their back or moans of satisfaction. Even with sex by yourself, you’re able to understand your body better. Some find sex to be a dirty thing and in actuality, it isn’t all about a sweaty race to orgasms. Sex can help with sleep, reduce tension and ease stress. It’s healthy, natural and best between consenting safe playing partners.

    I genuinely love sex and would have it every day if I could. Whether it’s in a committed relationship or a no strings attached one, it’s best when we’re both interested in mutual satisfaction. Selfish lovers aren’t welcome here. I like to switch it up by having sex in different positions, places and even acting as someone other than myself. As a matter of fact, at the age of 19 was when I roleplayed for the first time. Using my baseball player Halloween costume, I enhanced the look with heels and surprised my boyfriend at the time. You can say I took one for the team and had many hits out of the park.

    Why Roleplay Is Popular

    Roleplaying is popular for spicing things up because new additions are being brought into the bedroom. In some cases, sex and most importantly foreplay, can become quite of a routine resulting in a diminishing desire for intimacy between couples. Roleplay allows for an escape and exploration into a new world while having the ability to try new things. Imagine coming home after a long day of work to your partner laid back on the couch. A note for you reads “Congratulations on your new Dreambot! Kiss, lick and squeeze. Yes, I’m ready to please”.

    Favorite Roleplay Scenarios I Love

    Two of my favorite scenarios are daddy/daughter and teacher/student roleplaying. Though both consist of a couple elements within BDSM which include the “DS” being dominant/submissive, they are different in their own way.

    Acting as daddy’s girl, I generally portray two types of personalities. One being somewhat naïve and innocent, I hesitate but don’t resist. I’m compliant and unbeknownst to me; ready to please.

    The other is boldly ready and willing with an “I won’t tell” type attitude. I don’t take control but I’m easily seduced. When it comes to acting as a schoolgirl, I’m sweet but I could be bratty. I don’t care for much and always in trouble. That is, until I get my one on one lesson.

    Is Roleplay Difficult The First Time?

    When trying roleplay for the first time, it shouldn’t be difficult to act like a character outside of yourself but it may be challenging to take things seriously. You may find your partner and especially yourself fighting away the giggles as you go through a series of dialogue and that’s ok. Burst out laughing, continue or start again.

    Don’t expect perfection the first few times because it will be a bit awkward. There are the few that will feel comfortable in roleplay while their partner may be nervous or shy. If your partner stops, don’t break your character in starting over but use that role to help them ease into theirs.

    Do’s & Don’ts When Engaging In Roleplays

    DO:

    Participate with a willing partner. No one likes to partake in anything they’re not truly interested in.

    Discuss the storyline. Who has what role? What are you interested in and looking to explore?

    Do your best at staying in character. Even if you mess up, try again. Encourage each other to continue in the role.

    Write a script. This allows for the scenario to flow rather than the delayed responses when thinking of what to say.

    Add props and costumes. Sometimes having the full illusion can increase enjoyment.

    Have a safety word if your scenario includes elements of BDSM (restraints, infliction of pain etc).

    Talk about your likes and dislikes once the scenario has finished to decide what can be changed for a better experience next time.

    DON’T:

    Don’t perform acts without prior permission. The fastest way to ruin the mood is having something done to you or another that wasn’t expected.

    Don’t assume that just because you initiated a surprise scenario that you could perform anything on your partner.

    Don’t expect perfection at the beginning. It will take some time to ease into the roles and especially become quick-witted with your dialogue.

    Don’t become upset if your partner doesn’t catch onto the hang of things as fast as you. Patience is key.

    Don’t talk out of character. While you may be doing a great job paying off the debt to your “pizza deliverer”, there is no need to remind them at that point that their mother called earlier.

    Tips For An Unforgettable Roleplay Experience

    To make the experience of roleplaying an unforgettable one, communication should be top priority. You and your partner need to discuss the type of scenarios that will be explored and whether or not the two of you are comfortable in it.

    If you’re really looking to step things up, take your scenarios outside of the bedroom. While at work, send an email or a text in character. Not only are you sexting but you’re building up anticipation through extended foreplay. You could also try picking each other up at the bar or grocery store. Acting like strangers meeting for the first time can make for an exhilarating experience.

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  • What It’s Like To Do Porn In Latin America

    What It’s Like To Do Porn In Latin America

    We feel sex as an energy that does not start with anyone. There always has to be a morbid and a connection, and without a doubt, we are not referring to physical attraction. We are creative people, we have 1000% our imagination and we also believe that this is an important part in each orgasm.

    Culture & Attitude Towards Porn In The Dominican Republic

    It is an island where the majority of the population is Catholic / Christian. The male chauvinist culture embraces everything it can and I really mean everything!

    Doing porn can be really demeaning and unacceptable for some but as is common, for others it generates a lot of curiosity and curiosity towards the forbidden. Our public would love to grow producers here in the country, and they support us even though for us, I think that would be too big a challenge.

    Dominican Republic has a few other actresses and porn actors, but very little of them is found. And currently they do not live in the country. Nor is professional content produced.

    We have been limited to just us on stage. Caring for our sexual health, which is the most important because the taboo is not only towards pornography but towards sex as such. There are many people who have never had an STD test in their life, perhaps out of simple shame and we do not want to put ourselves at risk.

    The Inspiration Behind Producing Our Porn

    Ria – When I was about twelve years old, I started watching porn and just coincidentally, one day I appeared late on television making of The Bunny Ranch. And I loved the idea of ​​being behind the cameras in those intimate moments, you could feel how the connection and naturalness in the intimate scenes was real and without worthy stereotypes.

    Carel – Just the detail of mixing art, beauty and curiosity, today brought us here. We flowed very well because one was very assiduous to porn and the other wise to see beauty through the lens. We only took the first step and from the point of our first idea, we try to improve each time.

    Favorite Scenes To Shoot

    Ria – My favorite scenes to shoot are those of blowjobs. I like the sound of saliva, and how dramatic it can be when the makeup runs.

    Carel – Mine is hardcore, many positions, lots of action, sweat and energy. I like to feel the adrenaline.

    How The Response Has Been

    AMAZING. We definitely did not imagine so much attention and support, from the beginning. They love the idea of ​​porn as a couple, they also love the idea that even though it is a couple, it is not romantic porn, and they know of course that it is not fake. They feel very identified.

    Does This Inspire Other Couples Too?

    Absolutely yes, we have received proposals from couples who would like to do the same, we often interact in our Instagram account (when it is not reported clearly, hehe) with other couples who ask us for advice about jealousy, orgasms, trust and self-confidence.

    What Couples Should Know Before Trying It Out

    They must be prepared and very sure of wanting to do this, and make sure they have the support of each other; they will become a team from now on. The work is in pairs that is what really matters.

    My advice is to show your true love, warm up as much as you can and let everything flow.

    Carel & Ria – XXX married couple and AMATEUR PORN MAKERS!

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  • Managing & Meeting Sexual Expectations

    Managing & Meeting Sexual Expectations

    For me, sexuality is a really important part on human relationships. I value respect and consent above all. I love looking into people’s eyes and seeing the story behind them, creating a real and deep connection.

    Also, we talk a lot about sex, but not in the best way, so I think there’s socially a lot of misinformation about this topic. Usually, when they talk to us about sex at school, is related to reproduction.  And it is not that everytime I want to have sex is to have kids. In fact, most of the times I have sex, it doesn’t involve a penis penetration. This practice is conceived to be the only possibility in Girl-Boy sex. Well, it is not. I love giving anal pleasure when I am sexually involved with a man. Rimming, penetrating him with my fingers or with a strap-on. A male’s anus is an incredible source of pleasure, and it is a pity so many men around the world are missing that because of gender roles and social impositions.

    Other sexualities are also invisible, as women who like women, fat people or people with different abilities’ sexual desire… We tend to conceive gender as something binary: women and men. But there’s also non-binary folks, transgendered people and loads of different identities that the system doesn’t let us express or see.

    Do Men & Women Have Different Expectations On Sex?

    I think everyone needs affection, attention and to feel desirable, independently on their gender. Either way, I think the way they express it, can be different because of the way we have been socialized in an oppressive system.

    When I was younger, I found myself getting in bed with men and most of them didn’t want to give me oral sex (but they expected me to do so), didn’t touch my clit (or they did it, but in an unpleasant way) and didn’t know how to make their fingers reach my G spot. As it is kind of difficult to reach an orgasm only with penis-in-vagina penetration, I used to fake my orgasms. Nobody ever told me that I could ask things I like or say “no”. In this situation, to decide I wouldn’t fake an orgasm in my personal life never again was something liberating.

    I’ve never felt the same pressure with other girls. I don’t mean us girls and other gender identities don’t have to check what we are doing as well, everybody can behave in an abusive way if we don’t take care of people we share ourselves with. But, also because of the patriarchy, women, trans and non-binary people I had sex with empathized more with me than men.

    Now I still have sex with other women, trans and non-binary people, but men I connect with this time, behave in a really communicative way and I also enjoy sex with them.  In the end, it’s all about deconstructing the behavior patterns we’ve learnt.

    How To Meet Differing Sexual Expectations

    Communication. And education, not only in sex, but in each part of our lives.

    Misconceptions About Consent

    I heard people telling that asking for consent and talking during sexual experiences turns them off.  What? Really, what turns me off is thinking my sexual partners can be uncomfortable, may want something different or even they’re feeling forced to make a sexual practice.

    All of us have boundaries, things we don’t like to do, things we would do in another moment but not right now and it is so important to be able to express them. In addition, nobody knows your body better than you, so why wouldn’t you want to express your needs and desires, as well as to hear your lovers’?

    What Everyone Should Know About Sexual Consent

    For me is the base to have, not only pleasant, but ethical sex. As loads of activists say, consent is not silence, consent is not “hmm… alright”, consent is not “no, no, no, okay, yes” (only for you to be quiet and stop being so insistent). Consent is a big YES (saying this I don’t want to invisibilize sex workers, we sometimes consent sexual practices without really craving about it and this doesn’t mean they’re raping us).

    The fact that I told you “yes” when it came to have sex with you doesn’t mean now we can do anything.  Maybe I want to get in bed with you, but I don’t want to be penetrated. Maybe today I don’t feel like giving or receiving oral sex. “But yesterday we did that, and it was so cool”, yay, but doesn’t mean I always want to do the same things. I don’t want to eat salad everyday, for example, so it happens the same in here.

    The fact that one day we had sex, doesn’t mean you’re entitled to fuck with me again. Or even if we have a strong relationship, doesn’t allow to have access to my body anytime you want. And the same works for me. We can always change our mind, as well. We both (or more) may be naked and wet, but if one of us suddenly changes their mind, then we have to respect that decision. Everytime we change the sexual practice, it is okay to ask if our sexual mate is in the mood for doing so. Also asking for the level of intensity, the speed, etc. is necessary.

    How Underrated Is Communication?

    There is the misconception that, when you talk during sex, the experience is not “flowing”, that something must be wrong. Socially, people doesn’t expect an opressed person to talk, so imagine in bed.

    To sumarize it all, I would like to encourage people to rethink the way they create and maintain their relationships so they can be more healthy. It’s time to speak up!

    Hi! This is Ivy de Luna, a feminist X performer who began her career one year ago. I want to make the kind of scenes I’d like to see on the screen. I love having sex with other women, trans, and non-binary people.

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  • How To Have A Successful Gangbang

    How To Have A Successful Gangbang

    I love being in a gangbang. I love the attention. I love being a slut. I love all these guys there to please me. I love seeing how horny I make a group of guys. As a female, if you haven’t been a part of a gangbang, then you are missing out. I have had three gangbangs and held eight BBC parties which just turned into gangbangs and they were all amazing.

    What Makes A Gangbang So Hot?

    It’s all about me. A bunch of guys show up just to have sex with me. That makes me feel hot. It’s dirty, wrong, and taboo.  It’s not how a lady is supposed to act.  I can be free and just be totally taken by a group of men.

    There is something empowering about the situation while also submissive, for a brief moment in time everything is about me. I just become a subject of desire for a group of men and all other cares and concerns of normal life are completely out the window.

    The Ideal Gangbang Number

    Eight has seemed to be perfect.  My personal record for number of a guys in a night is eight and that was a great time. I wouldn’t hold a gangbang with any less than six. Some can play while other’s rest. Eight usually allows you to always have at least two or three playing at all times or you can have five run a train and take a break and have three ready to go.  The options are endless. Most guys cum at least twice, I had one guy cum five times in one night, he was an all-star.

    You need to select a number which you think you can handle and also that you think you can please. You never want a guy to leave unsatisfied.  Also, it really all depends on what you are looking for. Something more casual and you may just want four guys. If you want to really feel used and slutty, maybe like twelve.

    Preparing For A Gangbang

    Getting ready is easy. I like taking a bubble bath and making sure everything is shaved up perfect.  A little makeup on my face and I’m ready.

    Setting up the gangbang is a different story.  First finding guys. We have used everything from Craigslist (now Doublelist), Twitter, Whisper, SLS, KIK, and then have a vetting process of getting pictures and verifying people and talking to them about their experiences.  Usually my fiancé takes over the planning. Then we get their phone numbers if they seem like a good fit and all information is distributed through text.  Communication is key, always over communicate. Send out some dirty pictures to make sure they stay interested and confirm they will show. Then expect half of them won’t show up. So, if I want eight guys, we will invite sixteen.  It never fails, half are no shows.

    Find a nice hotel and request a room far away from everyone else.  Get extra towels. Make sure to bring some water, hydration is key.  Text the guys the room number and explain to them where the room is, because it sucks when a guest ends up at the front desk asking where the gangbang is, yes that happened.

    Does Everyone In A Gangbang Get Equal Action?

    They don’t! Some guys can go three or four rounds. Some are one and done. Some guys end up not being able to perform in front of others.  Some guys show up and don’t get along well with others. I have found that the room generally self-polices so most issues work themselves out. I luck out because my fiancé is 6’7” so if a problem doesn’t work it’s self out, then he will.  So there are a ton of factors as to who goes when and for how long.

    I will say though, the guys gangbanging me have been some of the politest I have ever met.  I’ll be getting pounded really nice and deep and a guy will stop to offer my pussy to another guy. “Would you care for a turn?” I’m moaning for him to keep fucking me and he’s worried he’s taking up too much time in my pussy. Situations like that are actually much more common than someone trying to dominate the situation.

    Gangbang Do’s & Don’ts To Follow

    Do bring lots of lube and condoms – Safe play only in groups for this girl, and most. And condoms dry me up so you got to have lube.

    Don’t expect bareback sex – Meet me privately with a test for that. I can’t keep track of who does and doesn’t have a test in a group.

    Do clean up after yourself – I hate when guys throw condoms everywhere. It’s just disgusting.

    Do be courteous – There is plenty to go around, and everyone is there to enjoy. There is something charming about a bunch of guys working together to please a woman.

    Do be hard – There’s a bunch of guys there ready to go.  You need to be hard when you approach the girl.  Don’t expect everyone to wait for you to get fluffed.

    Don’t be smelly or dirty – Take a shower and be clean.  This goes for every sexual situation.

    Do be comfortable with yourself and relax – You should have already sent pictures of yourself and what you’re working with. No other guy is looking at you, they are there for the women. And she should have already selected you based on your pics and conversation.  You are already in, stay out of your head and enjoy.

    Do be able to perform in front of others – If you can’t then don’t sign up for a gangbang. It’s not for everyone and that’s ok.

    Do be on time – No one likes a hotel room door opening and closing while there are a bunch of naked people in there and it’s just rude to not be on time.

    Don’t get drunk – If you need to drink or use drugs to attend and gangbang, then it’s not for you.  No one wants to fuck or deal with someone drunk in a situation like this. It’s a good way to be asked to leave.

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  • Sexual terms dictionary

    Sexual terms dictionary

    ABC party – “anything but clothes” party. As the name suggests, it’s a type of sex party during which attendees must either show up naked or wearing something that is not conventionally considered to be clothing, e.g. drapes, boxes, etc.

    Acorn – a term used to describe the head of a penis, or a very small penis.

    Agnosexual – a sexual identity in which someone is unsure about how to categorize their sexuality.

    Alpha male – commonly used term to describe a man that plays into stereotypically masculine traits, i.e. being dominant, well-built, aggressive. 

    Anal beads – a sex toy used in anal sex that incorporates a number of balls tied together with a string or flexible rod. It’s important to note that it’s usually the act of extraction of these balls that is considered pleasurable, not insertion.

    Anal sex – sex involving penetration through the anus. May be homosexual or heterosexual.

    Banana hammock – a pair of tight underwear that accentuates a man’s bulge.

    Bareback – rough sex without the use of protection.

    BDSM – or bondage, discipline, and sadomasochism. A blanket term encompassing a large number of sexual preferences that can best be described as “kinky”.

    Bear – a term used in gay subculture to describe a large, hairy gay man.

    Bisexual – a sexual identity in which a person is attracted to men and women.

    Blow job, BJ – a commonly used term for Fellatio, i.e. oral sex with a penis.

    Bottom – a submissive sex partner that is penetrated by the top.

    Butch – a term used to describe lesbians who perform stereotypically masculine traits. They can range from a soft butch to a stone butch depending on how much femininity is thrown into the mix.

    CIF – come in face. This involves spraying the semen over the other person’s face during intercourse. Often called a “money shot”, its popularity has led to the prevalence of CIF escorts in London.

    CIM – come in mouth. The act of performing unprotected oral sex to completion. Its popularity has led to the prevalence of CIM escorts in London.

    Cisgender – a gender identity in which a person’s body matches their gender.

    Deep throating, DT – the act of Fellatio during which the penis is shoved down the receiver’s throat.

    Dildo – a type of sex toy that is used to penetrate the body. It can be used of plastic, rubber, or glass. Some dildos can also be vibrators.

    Femme – a term usually used to describe lesbians who perform stereotypically feminine traits. Often referred to as lipstick lesbians.

    Fetish – sexual arousal that is caused by a stimulus that is not necessarily normally associated with sex. Usually, this manifests on so intense a fixation that a person cannot achieve an orgasm without the fetish being met.

    Frot – a non-penetrative sex act during which two penises rub against each other.

    Gay – a common term used to describe a homosexual person. Though historically they’ve been exclusively used towards men, it is currently a gender-neutral term.

    Genderqueer – a person of ambiguous gender identity.

    G-string – a very skimpy type of thong that involves a veri thin piece of material between the buttocks.

    Happy trail – the patch of pubic hair that extends from a man’s belly button to his penis.

    Hermaphrodite – a person who was born with a set of both male and female genitals.

    Heterosexual – a sexual identity in which someone is attracted to members of the opposite sex.

    Homosexual – a sexual identity in which someone is attracted to members of  the same sex.

    Intersex – a person with sexual characteristics that are neither completely male or female, putting them somewhere in-between.

    Kink – a preference for unconventional sexual acts.

    Lesbian – a woman who is sexually attracted to other women.

    Masturbation – a form of self-pleasure, during which a person causes themselves to reach an orgasm without the input of any other person.

    Ménage à Trois – a threesome, or group sex in which three people are involved.

    Missionary position – the most basic sex position, in which the woman lies on her back, with the man penetrating her while lying on top of her.

    Orgasm – the release of sexual tension during the climax of an act.

    Orgy – a sexual act with multiple participants.

    Pansexual – a sexual identity in which someone is attracted to people regardless of their gender or kinks.

    Pegging – the act of males engaging in anal sex in the bottom position, with the woman using a strap-on.

    Straight – a common term used to describe a heterosexual person.

    Transgender – a gender identity in which someone’s gender does not match their body.

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  • What To Know About Feedism & Fat Fetish

    What To Know About Feedism & Fat Fetish

    When I first started, I had no idea what feedism or feederism even was.  My now current girlfriend gave little hints that she liked fat or liked it when girls ate. She slowly introduced me to the fetish. One day she got up the courage and just fed me. I saw how much it turned her on, which of course turned me on. It made me feel good. I enjoyed having someone look at me and be turned on that I was fatter.

    I got to enjoy eating like I always did and have someone want me for it. I didn’t have to hide enjoying food anymore. I didn’t have to be that fat girl that had to hide wanting to just eat. Feedism Gave me a whole new level of confidence I didn’t know I had. I never knew food could be sexual but feederism makes it sexual and I enjoy that.

    As time passed, my girlfriend would introduce me to more and more of the fetish and well, it led me to be a gainer model! I even won 2019 Feedee of the Year at the BBW awards show!

    What Does Feedism Involve?

    Feedism can be a number of things. For starters, it’s when a person enjoys feeding or being fed. I, for instance, am a feedee or gainer model if you will. I enjoy being fed till I feel like I’m about to pop. My girlfriend enjoys seeing me really stuffed and likes to feed me.

    Feedism or fat fetish is so many things. It can include funneling, squashing, wearing tight clothes, being degraded by being called pig, slob, cow whatever it is you like. Over the years, I’ve realized how sexual feedism can really be. It gets so hot! Getting hand fed by someone you find so sexy can be really erotic. A lot of feedee models enjoy getting their bellies rubbed after a long feeding session. I know I do!

    Popular Fat Fetish Play Activities

    I do a lot of stuffing videos. Not just eating but eating to the point where moving is unbearable sometimes. I’ve done funneling which is where you fill a funnel with soda, beer, weightgain shakes and chug it all down. Busting out of my clothes is something my girlfriend really enjoys seeing and I noticed a lot of my fans do as well. Funneling is another fun activity! Who doesn’t want to see how much soda or shake they can fit in their expanding bellies lol.

    Common Misconceptions About Feedism & Fat Fetishes

    A big one is not all feedees are unhealthy! My doctor always says how healthy I am for my weight and what I eat. I know fatty greasy food all the time is bad for you…eventually, but right now I’m enjoying the fetish and all there is to eat.

    Another misconception I’ve heard is people think because we are into this that we are gross and don’t take care of ourselves. I can rest assure you that I am just fat, not dirty. We have personal hygiene like everyone else.

    Tips For Those Keen To Be A Feedee

    Never be shy or embarrassed! You never know who else will be into the return as well. I went from not knowing anything about it to being 2019 Feedee of the Year!

    If it’s something you are dabbling in to see if you enjoy it, join chat rooms on Kik, websites relegated to feederism/feedism, search Twitter! There are so many platforms to find like-minded people! The community is huge and very welcoming!

    Queen Ivy – BBW/Fetish Model, Feedee, and gainer. Model since 2016. BBW awards show Nominee and 2019 Winner for Feedee of the Year

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  • What Can One Expect From The GFE

    What Can One Expect From The GFE

    Normally in dates with clients, what’s best for both parties… is to feel, act and think as if it was a real loving relationship.

    Make the other person feel what I would like to feel on a romantic date. Make them feel as special as I want to feel.

    I think that a person who is dedicated to being an escort should be complacent, loving, and patient. Try to improve yourself day by day in being a better lover and be innovating…with new fantasies to please the client and ourselves.

    What Exactly Is The GFE?

    It is a form of professional date where I provide a form of love, pleasure, and submission in certain cases, similar to a geisha. Being a rental girlfriend.

    Why The GFE Is Popular

    The attraction is to identify yourself as a date, girlfriend, or loving relationship for a certain amount of time, without the stress or problems of a real everyday relationship. Take care of the needs of the client and let them take care of you.

    It’s popular because being a professional, it does not feel like it’s work. It feels real. And that is what men need. A real person who cares about their needs and their times, who has patience and shows them affection, passion and who listens to what they have to say.

    One Common GFE Misconception

    The use of protection. Protection should always be used. Even in personal relationships. Many people think that providing a GFE means not using protection and that is not real. You always have to be safe and use protection.

    What Is Important To Make The GFE Work?

    It is important to put yourself on the other person’s shoes and try to understand their needs. Give them love, seduction, passion. Make them feel as if they are someone important in your life. Even if just for a moment.

    In my case, I have been doing it for many years and it really is a way of life that I did not have a hard time adapting to. I have fallen in love and I have married people from this environment and I liked it. I try to be better every day in what I do and I give everything of me so that people feel comfortable and safe.

    Valerie – Hi sweetheart! I’m Valerie from Argentina. I’m very open minded only want to meet with gentlemen over 50 years old! I’m so sweet and nice… I’m looking for new friends like me!!

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  • Etiquette Tips When Engaging An Escort

    Etiquette Tips When Engaging An Escort

    Sex is one of the most natural and potentially pleasurable things on earth! Not everyone has the time, social fluency, or luck to successfully seek out the kind of sex they desire. I see nothing wrong with consenting adults paying one another to engage in sex and intimacy, be it a run-of-the-mill roll in the hay or a unique and specific kinky fantasy. Of course sex trafficking is a problem, but the more we move towards decriminalization and allow consenting adults to make these decisions for themselves, the more time and attention we can put towards helping those in the industry due to coercion or financial constraints to find support and alternative income sources.

    I realized a number of years ago that a combination of attractive features, charm, intellect, conversational skills and a genuine enjoyment of sex and sexuality made sex work a natural choice for me. I’m very glad I looked past the stigma and explored a path less traveled.

    The Client Screening Process

    Screening begins with how one writes and introduces themself. I see clients of all backgrounds and certainly don’t judge the grammatical errors of non-native English speakers, but general lazy writing and one-word replies are telling.

    I do need to know a client’s name. We can communicate using a texting app if discretion is a concern, but I do generally need to receive a confirmation text from their regular phone number. Beyond that, I am flexible with regards to what screening info a client is comfortable sharing. References from an established provider with a website and social media presence are great. Workplace information is also great. I appreciate the way that American clients are much more forthcoming with screening information. Canadian clients, please take note!

    Try to understand that screening is done for escorts’ safety – I know sharing personal information is a little nerve-wracking, but as long as you have done your homework and chosen an escort with a website, social media presence, etc, you have little to worry about. Most escorts take their client’s discretion seriously and keep personal information private. And once your chosen escort feels confident that you are being honest about who you are, they will relax and enjoy themselves that much more during the date – resulting in a better experience for you!

    Expectations Of My Clients

    I expect prospective clients to visit my website and read through the info posted – it’s there for their benefit. I also expect clients to take note of how I prefer to be contacted (no phone calls, please!) and take the time to write a proper introduction. It need not be long nor especially eloquent, but they should be polite and include their name, where they saw my ad, and preferred booking time/availability.

    I don’t mind a few additional questions – provided the answers aren’t easily found on my website, of course 😉 Some clients are nervous and I want to help them relax and feel comfortable when we meet.

    Basic Etiquette Rules For Clients

    Remember that the escort you are contacting has a life outside of this profession – while you wait for a response, they may be with friends or family, completing some errands, collecting tax documents for their accountant, or simply taking some time to themselves. Please be patient, answer their questions and respect their procedures and policies.

    When the moment arrives – it’s ok to be nervous! Pay attention to your personal hygiene, and do make use of the shower, mouthwash, etc if needed or if she requests you to. Remember that she wants you to enjoy your time with her, so don’t be afraid to (politely) ask for what you want. Maybe you’d like a cuddle session, or more time chatting on the couch, or to massage her feet – if it’s a reasonable request, chances are she’ll be happy to oblige. That said, please respect her answer if she says no!

    For most escorts charging an hourly rate, the session isn’t finished as soon as you finish. Feel free to relax and chat for the full length of your session, but do keep an eye on the clock, and give yourself a few minutes towards the end of your time to get dressed and collect your belongings. She might be working in a shared space with other escorts, so it’s important to be respectful of her scheduling.

    How To Be The Client An Escort Looks Forward To Seeing

    For new clients, I take note of respectful, clear communication. I don’t require deposits or pre-payment, but I appreciate when a client offers to do so, as it allows us to simply get to know one another and enjoy our time together from the moment I open the door!

    Many of my favourite clients are those whom I’ve built a connection with over time. I enjoy good conversationalists, who ask insightful questions and have interesting anecdotes to share. When clients ask me about things I discussed during a previous date, or topics I’ve posted on my Twitter feed, it shows that they value my thoughts and ideas as much as the more physical side of our time together. I love feeling heard and appreciated!

    Ruby Labelle is an escort based out of the heart of Canada’s prairies- the humble city of Winnipeg- with a penchant for travel. She loves long bike rides, great books, good coffee, and discovering what makes a person light up with excitement.  Spend time with her in Winnipeg or take advantage of her ‘fly me to you’ option- she’d love to see more of Canada, or visit country #20!

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    Twitter: @rubylabelle_xo

    I have no upcoming events scheduled, however, I would like to visit Vancouver Island this summer and could either fly or make a road trip out of it! If you’re a prospective client in Calgary, Edmonton, Vancouver, Victoria, or elsewhere in Western Canada, please get in touch and express your interest. 🙂

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  • How Popular Is Cosplay In Porn?

    How Popular Is Cosplay In Porn?

    I’m the type of person who wants to monetize anything I can, especially things that I enjoy. Sex work gives me the choice to do both at the same time. As long as what’s going down is between two consenting adults, sex is a beautiful experience.

    Hell, I had my first time on cam! It’s fun, it’s an experience, and it’s different with every person. I’m attracted to anyone regardless of gender or sexual orientation as long as I’ve gotten to know them and vibe with them as a person. I love making content with people for the same reasons.

    Photo: Kit Kendal

    How Popular Is Cosplay In Porn?

    I find the cosplay genre is getting more and more popular, it’s basically a branch off of roleplay. There’s always a demand for new content of a character doing all kinds of things and the possibilities are endless. Every time a new movie, comic, anime, manga, etc. comes out, the demand for more cosplay porn goes up too.

    Current Seasonal Anime – Kakegurui – Character: Yumeko Jabami set by @xxjalbxx Twitter

    Why I Love Cosplay

    I love cosplay because it gives me not only a hobby, but a career where I can express myself and challenge myself in many different ways. Every single cosplay I do involves some degree of creativity. Some cosplays I buy are pretty much pre-made, some I thrift and modify parts, some I make 100% from scratch. That’s only the start of it though! Getting to embody a character that I like and having other people enjoy it as well is a super good feeling.

    Ramona Flowers from Scott Pilgrim vs. The World.
    Shot by @Zhuntsai Twitter

    Misconceptions About Adult Cosplay

    A lot of people think that cosplay is inherently a sexual thing or over sexualized. While it is a popular subgenre of cosplay, it’s not all about sex appeal. Some adults get sexual pleasure from doing things in cosplay, be it the fantasy of being with the character, or being that character.

    Not every adult though is cosplaying or looking at cosplay sexually. It’s not like that for the majority of people. It’s mainly about having fun.

    Photo: Kit Kendal

    Does Cosplay Make Porn More Enjoyable?

    If it’s your fetish, definitely! For me personally, I enjoy making porn as characters more than solo stuff where I’m just me. Figuring out the cosplay, lingere, set, toys, context and type of actions I’ll do as that character is really enjoyable and way more of a challenge. I love watching cosplay porn because seeing others bring characters I like appealing to my sexual preferences is always hot!

    Brigitte – Overwatch
    Shot by @Zhuntsai Twitter

    Choosing The Type Of Cosplay Content 

    There’s two main factors in how I choose what character I’m going to make cosplay content in.

    First one would be popularity or demand. If I see a lot of my followers or a lot of people in general crushing on a character I like to hop on the hype and deliver some cosplay content of them. I usually look out for seasonal or trending series and what I see getting lots of social media attention.

    The other way I decide a character is per commission. A lot of my content is per request of others, and most of the time if someone wants a specific character doing a specific sex act, they’ll commission a video or photoset of what I do as the character chosen is based off their personality and context of the source material. I’ll look into the character personality, events in the series, and even search for popular fan made art or animations to see what the audience would like. It’s definitely a fun process.

    Kit Kendal – I like to cosplay, play video games, take my clothes off, and fuck hot people in that order >;3c

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    Look out for my upcoming videos on Amateur Porn, ManyVids, and Pornhub!Come meet me or preorder custom content from the following upcoming Events : Louisianime Rocky Horror Show 4/20, MomoCon 5/23-26, XBIZ Awards Miami 5-28-31, Anime Expo 7/3-7/7, Mecha Con 7/25-7/28,  San Japan 8/28-9/1

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  • What To Know About Forced Bi

    What To Know About Forced Bi

    Hi SimplySxy, thank you for inviting me to feature in your article on forced bi. I’m a male escort and Pro Dom. I specialise in forced bi sessions and I’m the preferred duo partner of dozens of Mistresses in London who all regularly invite me to join in their sessions when clients ask for a male escort.

    I was kinky before I started escorting and my sex life outside of sex work is far from vanilla.

    My own sexual preferences are complicated and ever changing. I love new experiences in all things. Especially sex.

    As far as other peoples kinkiness, if someone isn’t kinky at all and enjoys their vanilla sex life, I’m happy for them. Why not? Not everyone needs to be kinky. If they are kinky and they’re having fun exploring their fetishes and fantasies with other consenting adults, that’s great too. And if they have fantasies but don’t have anyone they feel comfortable exploring those fantasies with, then I hope they contact a professional and make their fantasy a reality!

    Fortunately for me, I’m very good at what I do and there’s a large market for the services I provide.

    Finding a good male escort for forced bi isn’t easy. You should expect at a minimum that he can reliably show up to a session on time, not be high on drugs or desperate for his next fix, understand that the session is about the client’s enjoyment not his own, and be able to get hard, stay hard and cum. Guys who can perform under pressure with anyone and everyone are rare. Those who start in the industry with this ability often quickly lose it due to burnout and/or drug abuse. Fortunately, I have zero interest in drugs, a massively high libido and modest financial targets. This means I usually see just a few people per day and feel zero pressure to accept bookings when I’m tired.

    What Is Forced Bi?

    Forced Bi is a popular fetish role-play scenario involving a man being “forced” into sex acts with another man. Usually a Dominant woman is doing the “forcing.” The scene is one that has been requested by the man and the details of the scene have been negotiated beforehand so there’s no real force involved. Everything is consensual.

    Many submissive men who see professional Mistresses, enjoy doing one on one role plays whereby he can explore his curiosity about sex with other men by having a Mistress verbally humiliate him with talk of how she’s going to invite a man to come over and use him sexually.

    This fantasy role play is usually played as a kind of humiliation scenario. ie in the fantasy, he’s a straight man who doesn’t want to have sex with men but is being “forced” to do it. Like many fantasies that male clients visit female professional Mistresses to explore, it’s about power exchange. Giving up control. Submitting oneself before a powerful, dominant woman and then exploring different fantasies within that context.

    Some men with this fantasy go so far as to request toys and strap-ons up their asses. Some want bondage. Some want sissification whereby the Mistress dresses him up in women’s clothes. And some go all the way and arrange to pay for a male escort like me to join in the session.

    Plucking up the courage to take this step of inviting a male escort to join in a duo session with himself and his Mistress can take years or even decades for some men. It’s a big deal to them and I don’t take this lightly.

    When I’m invited I do everything I can to make sure that client has the best possible session tailored exactly to their needs. I want these guys to enjoy themselves and it’s very important to me to maintain my reputation amongst Mistresses as the best of the best when it comes to forced bi.

    Misconceptions About Forced Bi

    Clients who request me to come and join in a Forced Bi session all know exactly what Forced Bi is. The Mistresses I do duos with are all very professional so the session wouldn’t be happening if they weren’t sure that the client knew exactly what he was getting himself in for.

    I guess if someone was encountering the concept for the first time they might be confused about the “forced” part and worry that some kind of assault is implied. In fact I’m always very tuned into a clients reactions and always looking for any sign that he might be struggling or in any state of distress or discomfort. I always make sure any client of mine knows he can opt out at any moment.

    What Typically Happens In Forced Bi Play & Sessions?

    It’s different every time depending on the clients wants and needs. Some Forced Bi sessions involve sissification, humiliation, bondage, impact play etc. I’ve done forced bi scenes where the guy has been suspended with his back in a sling and wrists and ankles cuffed. I have one regular who I see with one of my Mistress duo partners who’s an adult baby so he’s in a big nappy whenever I see him. When we do Forced Bi with him, he calls her mummy and I’m mummy’s friend. In most cases they want to be told to suck my cock and/or to bend over and take my cock up their ass.

    Things To Know Before Trying Out Forced Bi

    If a Forced Bi client wants anal, most Mistresses will make sure he knows how to use an anal douche, or shower hose attachment to clean inside their ass beforehand. Some Mistresses will physically assist with administering an enema or similar. The anal sex should never be messy or painful. We always start slow, for example with a finger in a rubber glove, plenty of lube, start with smaller toys, Mistresses strap-on etc and work up to being able to take my cock only once he’s used to the sensations and relaxed and ready.

    Oz – Hi, see the number one male escort in the world! If you Google “forced bi male escort” or “cuckolding male escort” or “duos male escort” , I’m the top result on Google for an independent. If you do a Google news search for “Aussie Male Escort” you’ll see that dozens of newspapers, magazines and websites from around the world have published articles about me.

    I’m from Australia and usually based in London. My discreet, private, luxury incall studio is located in Mayfair, 1 block from Bond Street tube station.

    I’m tall (6’5?/195cm), very toned and athletic, very well endowed (9?/22cm) uncut and good looking. I’m a trained and licensed masseur having completed courses in Swedish, Thai and Tantric massage. If you’d like to read about my international tours and adventures, erotic and otherwise, please subscribe to My Blog.

    People often tell me I’m very relaxing to be around and they find me a calming influence etc so I’m great with nervous first timers eg bi or kink curious guys who’ve never been with a man or never tried BDSM, people trying out other fantasies and fetishes for the first time and couples trying their first MMF threesome or guys trying their first MMF escort duo always seem to go from being tense and nervous at first to feeling relaxed and horny very quickly when they’re with me. I only see a few people per day so there will never be anyone leaving when you arrive or arriving when you’re leaving etc. You won’t feel rushed and I don’t mind if you go a bit over the hour. I’m happy to extend if you want an additional hour.

    You’ll find that I’m always exactly on time for your outcall and 100% prepared to see you at the time you book for your incall. I never take drugs, never bareback and I get tested regularly. I don’t kiss men but I do enjoy oral and sex with men. I’ll get hard for you, guaranteed, and stay that way and if you want me to cum, I will.

    Let me know if you’d like me to arrange escort duos or four handed massages with female and transsexual escorts. I can arrange multiple escorts if you’re planning a party and I know a lot of Mistresses in London and around the world who I do forced-bi, cuckolding and double domination sessions with.

    I charge £200 for incalls and £250 for outcalls for 1 hour.

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    Please visit my friends page https://ozinlondon.co.uk/friends if you’d like to see me for a duo session with another escort or with a Mistress. Visit my blog page https://ozinlondon.co.uk/blog to read about my kinky adventures, and my contact page https://ozinlondon.co.uk/contact to arrange to see me.

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