Category: Sex Ed

  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 17) – Polyamory

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 17) – Polyamory

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 17 Teaser – Polyamory

    Communication in a Hotwife lifestyle is even more important than in a monogamous lifestyle. There are obstacles in scheduling and when some fuckboy tells you he wants to see you but then can’t answer texts about when, it can be frustrating. That goes for single people in the dating world too but I have a husband’s schedule too. We have agreements about how many nights I go out per week and how many I need to be home to take care of his needs or for my reclaiming nights. When I first start seeing a man, I always point out that scheduling and answering messages is a requirement for me.

    I have to clear times on my schedule with Scott and they know this. They usually start off good about communication and scheduling but get lazy. If they get too lazy, I tell them to fuck off. That’s when they try again. I will allow a little room for error but that’s one of the rules between my husband and I, pre-scheduling times for me to see lovers. If they want to continue fucking his wife, then they damn well better respect his simple rules. It’s just good manners and if they don’t have good manners, I don’t want to fuck them anyway.

    Purchase and read the rest of this amazing book by clicking here: The Secret Life Of A Hotwife 


    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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  • How To Explore & Enjoy Watersports Play

    How To Explore & Enjoy Watersports Play

    I’m thankful to exist in a world/time where certain lifestyles and sexualities aren’t considered taboo. I’ve lived both sides, the vanilla lifestyle and my sex work lifestyle, and on both sides of the fence I never feel judged. I think that says a lot about society’s acceptance of alternative lifestyles and kink. 

    How Did You Learn To Squirt?

    LOL I don’t think anyone learns how to squirt. I was in a very complicated engagement a couple of years ago, the physical attraction was lost and I felt like my pussy was “dead” metaphorically speaking. While I was single, a girlfriend of mine gifted me a cute rechargeable bullet.

    After months without any sex, one day in the parking lot of a local grocery store I decided to give myself pleasure. I had never been comfortable with masturbating but I was desperate from so many months without sex. I squirted all over the car in embarrassment. I’m not sure why it was embarrassing before but now I love it and I love masturbating. 

    Why I Love Squirting

    The thing I love most about squirting is that I can only squirt when I’m extremely relaxed and in absolute pleasure. It’s almost like heaven. It’s my biggest stress reliever to just sneak away for a moment and please my body.

    Once my pussy squirts I feel tired, dizzy, hungry, and adrenaline all at once. I have trouble sleeping most nights but a nice squirting orgasm can cure the insomnia in an instant. 

    Why Men Enjoy Watersports

    Most of the men that enjoy squirting are submissive in some way. Either that or they’re trying to execute something from their bucket-list LOL. Some are so vanilla that they don’t even realize they’re subs. They will meet my every need and or command just for a chance to get their face/body soaked by Miss Trina. I give them just what they need but not without making them drool first.

    Preparing For A Watersports Session

    You would think that I would have some type of set up ready but fortunately, I enjoy the impromptu clean up after I squirt. Generally I keep a towel close by but that’s only after the first round. I like to keep it spontaneous, maybe he will catch it all in his mouth so we don’t need the towel LOL.

    One of my favorite lovers would hurry to the bathtub and lay down in it with me standing over him squirting uncontrollably. There’s really no way to prepare. 

    What To Expect For First Timers

    One of the biggest myths about squirting is that the liquid is urine and it really isn’t. Before I became a squirter, I didn’t know whether it was urine or not. I didn’t really believe that it was possible for someone’s pussy to squirt but I made a girlfriend of mine squirt and that was the first time I found out that what I saw in the porn shows wasn’t fake.

    It also wasn’t urine. It doesn’t taste like anything to me. If you are with a woman who squirts, you are a special kind of lucky. 


    I’m Katrina. I have light gray/blue eyes and nice natural DDs.  I’m 5’6” 140lbs of exotic beauty. Art keeps my attention along with the right man. I am selective but very easy to please. If you can make me laugh We’ll probably hit it off. Planning a trip to Miami? spend time indoors, go on dinner dates, or a night club and anything else we want to keep us both satisfied.

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  • My Journey Into Cuckolding

    My Journey Into Cuckolding

    It wasn’t that long ago that I had heard about cuckholding. As a matter of fact, it was three years ago. I had just started dating a Black man who was, shall I say, very adventurous. He would mention the phrase “cuckold”, but I was too embarrassed to ask what he was talking about. So I just sat there quietly smiling. I must have looked as awkward as I felt! Because he pulled up a slew of videos from cuckoldsessions.com and proceeded to show me. “I’ve done that! And that! And that!” He told me over and over again as the videos rolled past the screen of his phone. I was taken aback by it that first time. But, I was open and found myself more curious than disgusted.

    I never imagined myself participating in a cuckold session. As a teen in the midwest, I dated white boys. But, by the time I was twenty-two, my wishes turned into realty and I found myself dating Black men. With that new found attraction to the dark side came an entirely new and exciting world of sex and sexual awareness. I knew at that time that I was done with white boys for good. I even vowed that I would never let myself be seen undressed by a white boy ever again! So, how did I manage to get talked into cuckolding a white boy for my Black lover? To me the idea alone was gross! 

    Enter: Timothy. “Who’s Timothy?” I screeched to my best friend, Rene. She laughed and told me not to get too excited, “He’s a white boy”. The confusion I felt seemed to last forever, but it was soon offered some explanation. Rene and I have both been enjoying the same Black man, Micheal, for months now. Threesomes have certainly become common practice between us, needless to say. So when she said that Micheal was bringing over a white boy named Timothy, I was dumbfounded. “He’s going to be our little white boy cuck!”, she finished. I had mixed feelings right from the start. I didn’t want a white boy in the same room with me while I was having sex. However, the thought of showing a white boy what he couldn’t have -me- while Rene and I had wild sex with a big Black man was arousing to say the least! Nevertheless, my thoughts were racing back and forth. 

    It wasn’t more than an hour later that Micheal brought Timothy over to the apartment. There was the expected awkward introduction and the mild exchange of small talk. The tension was still pretty thick though. Within the first few minutes, we set up some guidelines (and if you are interested in having a cuck of your own, quickly laying down guidelines is a must!): Timothy would no longer be called by his name, but instead he would be addressed to as “cuck”, “cuckboy”, “white boy”, “white loser”, even “pathetic little white boy”. Anything in fact, as long as it was insulting and belittling. At the same time, Micheal was to be referred to as “Master”, “King”, or “Black King”. The goal of cucking was to humiliate the cuck and praise the Black King. And believe me, we did just that!

    At first, the mood was pretty routine. We had forced Timothy to a chair before Rene, Micheal, and myself engaged in some strong foreplay on the couch. Micheal’s pants soon came down and we sucked him. So far so good. Somewhere during the time, Rene and I were sucking and stroking on Micheal, I turned to see our faithful cuck boy sitting naked on the edge of his chair, tiny pasty pee pee in hand. To say that a shiver of disgust ran up my spine would be an understatement. “He’s so gross!” I cried.

    We decided that some real humiliation was in order. First order of business was to force Timothy to put some super tight rubber bands around his little dick. Then it was comparison time! It seems that a size comparison between the cuck and the King is common formality during a cuck session. And yup, you guessed it, Black is bigger! Tie the little white boy to the chair and it’s back to having real fun on the other side of the room. 

    I must admit that having a cuck changed the way that I feel about having a white boy in the same room while I’m having sex. I don’t mind it as much, so long as he’s tied up and slapped periodically. It’s a form of justice perhaps. Revenge. Or, just plain fun! Find your own niche and be creative! I think what I love most about having a cuck is that we can agree that anything goes. The Black King has total control and can do what he wants to the cuck at anytime. This may include anything from slapping and belittling to as much as pissing on him! The cuck is at his mercy. Use benches for multiple cucks and cages for their pee pees. Explore cuckoldsessions.com or search “interracial cuckolding” for more ideas. Any way that you dice it, having a cuck is exciting and a little kinky. I highly recommend!


    Andrea Dillinger – 26 year old Scorpio. Interracial for over four years and counting! 

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    All links to websites and social media find me on Instagram @annie_the_dredre and I’ll be happy to answer your interracial questions!


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  • What People Don’t See About Sex Work

    What People Don’t See About Sex Work

    I love sex work. I have gone through a rollercoaster of feelings regarding the industry. There’s a lot of shame due to the stigma society has placed on it. In my first year in the industry, I was outed by a companion who did not even know me. She found out my personal information from a photographer. I am very active in non-profit volunteer work, and this woman contacted them. Shortly after that, I retired then eventually rebranded. Because of this, it made me not trust any other women in the industry until these two beautiful women, Ava and Miranda, took me under their wings and showed me how beautiful relationships in the industry could and should be.

    I have met the most amazing people in this line of work. These deep connections are something that I will always hold very close to my heart. A month ago, I released my face and showed all my tattoos, it was a scary decision, but I decided to do this because I love what I do, and I am tired of pretending that I don’t. I am even more tired of hiding.

    Misconceptions About Sex Workers

    A lot of people view sex workers as not being smart people. I am educated, and I am currently working on another degree. Most of the women that I work with are also educated. I know from when I have shared my secret with people in my “civvie” life that think it’s dirty or gross. I am a very clean person.

    When I hear sexual stories from my civvie friends, I am like, woah; I would never do that. I do a lot of research and background check the people I see. And the people I see I truly do connect with – If I sense that anything is off in the screening, I will not book. My safety is of the utmost importance to me.

    All sex workers are different. We are human, and just like in any industry, all the people involved are different. Yes, I like money. Most people from normal society view us as gold diggers or money-hungry. With the money I make in the industry, I have created impressive businesses, events, volunteer opportunities, and non-profits. 

    How Competitive Is The Sex Work Industry?

    I recently moved to Tampa from Michigan. And have spent a significant time in NYC. My favorite city hands down is NYC. I’m still new to Tampa, so I am still feeling out the industry. I think my price point for this area is much higher than the average rate.

    I haven’t met with a lot of people since my move here. I have heard from other ladies in the area that it’s not a super busy place, but I am close to the airport so it is working for me! 🙂 I have amazing people who book Fly Me To You’s, which is my preference anyway. 

    Challenges & Difficulties Facing Sex Workers

    How we connect to people is on a deep level. I can’t speak for all sex workers, but for myself, I’ve had challenges when I see the same person every week, then all of a sudden I don’t hear from them again. This is part of the work and part of the transaction piece, so I get it, but I am still human and have a very big heart.

    My main duo partner retired amidst a tour we were supposed to do together. She was one of my closest friends. When she retired, it felt like a breakup. I am still pretty sad about it all.

    But another huge challenge is keeping the lies straight if you’re hiding your secret life. Many people will ask me where I am and what I’m doing. I can’t tell them that I’m flying here or there because that will get more questions. People in my personal life who do not know all of me assume I sit at home with my cats all the time. 

    Will The Situation Change For Sex Workers In Future?

    To be successful in this career, you have to keep a strong balance. Open your heart enough to connect fully. Connection is the main piece of fully healing. But also, keep up a boundary so that you don’t become too attached and hurt. The tools that I use in sex work are the same tools I use with therapy clients.

    For me, a good self-care routine is essential: Meditation, yoga, rituals, journaling, reading, and being out in nature. It is also vital that you feel yourself coming out of balance to take a step back, deep breath, and process it all. To me, sex-work is healing work, and if you, the healer, aren’t healed, that energy will transfer over to your client. 

    Advice For Aspiring Sex Workers

    Sex work can be a very beautiful experience. If you are not mentally aligned though, it can chew you up and spit you out. Good friends in the industry help, having support, community, and advice has changed my life. Be careful who you allow yourself to connect with, though, not everyone is nice. 


    Brooklyn Monroe – Sacred Confidant, sexual healer, partner in crime.

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    2020 has been an incredible year. I sold my business in Michigan. I am currently working on a brand new holistic/witchy online store where I will be giving special discounts for sex workers. I am in a training program to facilitate plant medicines. And once planes start flying, I plan to open a center in Central America. I want to create large retreats for sex workers where they can process everything and heal. If the retreat is only for sex-workers, I feel like no one will have to hide, and that is where true healing will come. I am working on a degree in Behavioral Sciences that I will be finishing in August. My goal is to become a therapist for sex workers. Good Mental health is critical to me. When people know that I am a sex worker, they will feel comfortable talking to me about everything. Some ups and downs come with sex work, and I want to help when the downs are there. Additionally, I’m working on a clothing line where all profits will go to a non-profit in Detroit, Answer Detroit. 

    My home base is currently Tampa; I would love to meet more friends in the area.

    My upcoming tours are:

    12.11: My Birthday 🙂

    1.18-1.19 Detroit, Troy MI w/ Zara Brooks

    1.19-1.22: Michigan w/ Zara

    2.5.21-2.8.21: Tucson


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  • The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 16) – Punishments & Rewards

    The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 16) – Punishments & Rewards

    Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

    Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

    Chapter 16 Teaser – Punishments And Rewards

    Michelle also disagreed with us on the normality of polyamory. It’s not God’s plan according to her. I said to her that if there was a God, I didn’t understand why he wouldn’t want more love in the world. Polyamory is just that, more love, although it involves romantic relationships with more than one partner. It also maintains a basic belief of knowledge, honesty, and trust between all partners. These qualities are difficult in many monogamous relationships but since they are critical points in polyamorous relationships, more effort is made by polyamorous people. My husband was even able to be friends with my lovers, especially Mark, Nick and Tanner, oddly enough, the three other men I loved most other than Scott.

    I told the ladies it’s because we don’t keep secrets amongst one another. Whether it’s sexual, friendly or any activities we might do together, I am always honest about how I feel about them and what I do with them. If we have no secrets, everything just seems to work better in Scott and I’s primary relationship. There are a wide variety of ways in which polyamory can work. Some couples live together as all equals. Others, like Scott and I, have a primary relationship with external lovers permitted. In the beginning, I planned on anything external just being sexual, but I couldn’t help but develop feelings for these people. Scott knew they mattered to me and he loved me enough to let me have more love in my life.

    Purchase and read the rest of this amazing book by clicking here: The Secret Life Of A Hotwife 


    Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

    “mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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  • Ways To Enjoy London With The Ideal Companion

    Ways To Enjoy London With The Ideal Companion

    Companionship fulfils a multitude of social and intimate needs. It can be a way to find a missing spark or passion that is missing in someone’s day to day life. To explore desires and sexual fantasies. Sometimes, it is simply to reach out and spend time with someone who is understands a need for human connection, seduction and intimacy.

    I entered this world as a university student and quickly discovered there are many misconceptions about companionships and there is no ‘one size fits all’ companion or client.  That’s what makes it so exciting.

    Being A Companion In London

    Before the pandemic, which has altered life for many people, London was a vibrant and exciting place in which to be a companion.  It has an array of nightlife, restaurants, modern and classical art galleries and museums, beautiful parks and historic hotels that have been the basis of many wonderful dates.

    Many of my clients are familiar with London from previous business trips and so sometimes, playing the tourist was a wonderful experience that I sorely miss.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I would say I’m quite warm, lighthearted, non-judgmental and curious about people. My degree is quite heavy so it’s nice to change tack and just enjoy listening to people’s stories and life experiences without labelling them.  This world attracts fascinating people and I adore finding out what makes people tick and why they studied the discipline they did, chose the career path they did…all useful research for me! 

    Regarding intimacy, I consider experiencing pleasure, sexual exploration and having an open mind as vital to our happiness. I revel in relaxed, intimate GFE private encounters, though consider myself vanilla with a hint of spice.  ‘Never say never’ is a wonderful mantra to live by. Mutual respect, courtesy and communication allow this to happen. I make my clients, feel relaxed and be able to express how they feel and how they would like our time together to unfold. 

    My Ideal Date & Dating Turn Offs

    An ideal date would be spending time with someone interesting, courteous and respectful. Someone who has taken the time to discover me and my interests, (we all leave breadcrumbs!) and brings a small gift, even just chocolates or a book or a card, makes me feel special!  Unlike a relationship, and knowing that our encounter is temporary, I always feel it’s best to make it as wonderful and romantic as possible. 

    I don’t have many turn offs and to be honest I haven’t had any terrible dates yet, (knock on wood) but I imagine someone who has bad manners, is rude to waiting staff or unhygienic would definitely turn me off.

    Best Things To Enjoy London Together

    I love art and also dining out so, if I were being greedy, a perfect date would involve visiting the National Portrait Gallery in Westminster which is a favourite of mine, Lunch at J Sheekey, a wonderful classic British restaurant, and to end with private time in a beautiful luxury hotel.

    What Should A Gentlemen Do Prior To The Appointment?

    A gentleman should approach me as he should all companions, by reading our website in full to get an idea of who we are and whether we’d be compatible. We have particular contact and screening methods detailed on our site and prospective clients must ensure they are comfortable with and can provide them.

    A perfect introductory email to me would contain a little introduction, something that tells me who you are and why you’d like to meet, your screening information and a range of dates and times we can meet. A compliment at the end never hurts!

    Etiquette Rules To Follow

    Just to be respectful, clean and courteous. Time is a precious commodity in life and when you have the chance to spend it with a beautiful woman in beautiful surroundings, treat it as a ‘real’ date and as such, talking about other providers is off limits.  It is, after all, a wonderful chance to escape for a while. 


    Kio Jones – Your London lover. An exotic au naturel siren who is  adventurous, open minded, and authentic. I’m adept at drawing out your most secret desires and fulfilling them completely.

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    Twitter: @KioJonesLondon

    I’d like to announce that I’m taking selected multi hour dates in London from December 5th 2020


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  • How To Have Anal Sex For The First Time

    How To Have Anal Sex For The First Time

    I think anal sex is something every person should do from time to time. It’s not only human nature, but also a healthy activity for everyone’s day to day life.

    Do You Remember Your First Anal Experience?

    Yes haha. My first anal experience was around when I was maybe 16. It was during Christmas. Back where I am from, we usually have a basket of tangerine (I guess it’s mainly duo to the lack of vitamins from the old days). I had a couple with me in my room and probably was horny at the time, so I thought “why not?”.

    I shoved one up there (I don’t remember if it hurt or not) and then shoved another one. After that moment I kept shoving things up my butt, like a kid shoving keys into an outlet.

    Is Anal Training Required?

    DEFINITELY.  As much as I love the act of anal, it’s a very risky and dangerous act if not done properly and can do some serious harm even in the long run.

    Riley Cross

    How Important Is Lube?

    Very. When I first started I couldn’t afford lube for a long time, so I mostly used spit. Spit is also a very good lubricant, since it’s natural and goes well with the body, but you gotta stay hydrated since you gonna be using a lot of it.

    I don’t think you can ever have enough lube (better safe than sorry) , but if your ass is covered in it and starting to feel like you rubbed raw eggs all over it, then I think you have enough for the time.

    Recommended Positions For Anal Sex

    I just like riding mostly. Since it’s easier to push down and get even the bigger stuff inside, plus your hands are free to do what they want. But if it’s someone else, then doggy, since it opens up the outer rectum really well and makes hitting that G-spot feel amazing.

    Tips For First Time Anal Sex

    It isn’t a race. Go slow and at your own pace. You may not be able to get it on the first try, so try the next day. If you feel any kind of pain, then try to stop and do it sometime later (you don’t wanna hurt yourself and then never be able to do anal again).

    A good way that anyone can do is just use your fingers. It’s easy to put one in, but not everyone can fist themselves, so you can always work your way up.


    Riley Cross – Amateur pornstar you just like making anytime of porn and having fun. I also enjoy video games and anything that other people are interested in.

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  • How To Have A Good All Female Threesome

    How To Have A Good All Female Threesome

    I like threesomes! Of course, there needs to be chemistry and cooperation, but they are really fun when they work out.

    How Does An All Female Threesome Feel?

    In my personal experience, there is less of a central focus on one person in an all female threesome. In MFF or MMF threesomes, where the people involved are straight, the focus tends to be mostly on the one man or one woman in each respective group. In an all female scenario however, everyone is attracted to each other so the focus is divided more equally.

    Why I Love It

    All female threesomes feel less ‘goal oriented,’ which I really love. In a sexual scenario with a man (cis men in particular), the sex seems to revolve around making him cum, and the sex often ends after his orgasm. Threesomes just with women don’t have such distinct end points and orgasms often don’t feel like ‘goals,’ but just bonuses 😉

    Favorite Positions & Activities To Do

    I shot a threesome with Jay Taylor and Serena Blair once where Serena put me in a chokehold with her legs while Jay rubbed my clit until I came and it is one of the hottest things that has ever happened to me, so maybe that position!

    Other than that, I love positions that are comfortable, like laying on your back or side. In porn, we often do a lot of crazy positions to get good shots of the sex, but they’re not always practical for real life.

    Do’s & Don’ts To Follow

    This goes for any sexual experience, but consent and communication are the number one most important thing. Check in with your partners throughout the threesome, and ask for consent before trying something new.

    Communicating what you like sexually will also help you achieve more and better orgasms!


    Lyra Lockhart – I’m a slutty college student that found her way into the porn industry a couple years ago! I love creating sexy content and shooting all sorts of scenes, from lesbian to anal to fetish. When I’m not being a slut, you can find me baking cookies, doing yoga, and hanging out with my cat.

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  • How To Satisfy A Lady Through Oral Sex

    How To Satisfy A Lady Through Oral Sex

    Being a male sex worker for women – I love sex.  It is – and should be – a fun way to explore and experience your body and your partner’s.  It shouldn’t be a source of shame.  It should be a way to grow as a person

    Why I Love Giving Oral Sex

    I love giving oral sex just for the experience itself, but also to be able to do something that a woman enjoys and is just about her.  I like feeling her respond and finding what works for her best and hopefully helping her to reach orgasm.

    Are There Men Who Don’t Enjoy Going Down?

    Most women tell me that the men they have been with, short and long term, simply aren’t interested in giving oral sex, or actively don’t like to do it – or in some cases are just really bad at it.  Despite a lot of progress in the last several decades, there are a lot of men who still feel no pressure (by example, education, or even porn) to give their partner oral. 

    Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky (to some degree) made men receiving blowjobs from women more acceptable.  Perhaps we need an equivalent political scandal to let everyone know that it’s ok (actually good) to give women oral too…

    John Oh

    What Do Women Want?

    Every woman is different in what she wants.  Some women are *really* sensitive.  Some women aren’t.  Some women like intense oral.  Some don’t.  Some women like deep G-spot stimulation with fingers, or a toy.  Some don’t. 

    You need to ask her what she likes and wants and listen when she tells you – even (especially?) if she says “I don’t know“.  Biggest mistakes that men make: not asking/listening, being in a rush (to do other things), putting too much pressure on their partner to have an orgasm (plenty of women love oral even if they don’t orgasm from it).

    Ways To Kink Up Oral Sex

    There are plenty – but before you do anything that pushes boundaries, you need to ask for and get consent from your partner and make sure you continue to do so during play.  It could include: anal play, which most women enjoy *if* they are introduced to it responsibly and consensual (and with plenty of lube). 

    You can also just add any other kinky play you can think of, like restraint, spreader bars, voyeurism – whatever works for you and your partner.


    I am John Oh, a straight male sex worker for women.  I live and work in Sydney, Australia and have been a male sex worker for women since 2010.  I offer everything from virtual online experiences (text and email chat and video), to in person bookings (from an hour or two, to overnight, to multi day bookings), to interstate and overseas travel (pandemics permitting).  I am in my late forties, tall and medium of build.  I’m Australian born and university educated.

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  • How Important Is Attraction On A Date?

    How Important Is Attraction On A Date?

    To me, real intimacy means an authentic connection and a sense of comfort. It’s rooted in feeling safe enough to be vulnerable but also aware and conscious enough to hold space for the other person. I feel there is nothing more intimate than focused attention.

    My Ideal Date

    My ideal date would begin with drinks somewhere beautiful like The Beekman Hotel bar or Bemelman’s Bar at The Carlyle Hotel and catch up over bubbles. Then we’d go to Sushi Nakazawa – my favorite restaurant in NYC – for their incredible Omakase. If time isn’t a factor, a trip to the top of the Empire State Building makes for a lovely nightcap before dessert…

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I’ve been described as fun, lighthearted and easy going. I love getting to know people, especially from walks of life other than my own. I consider myself a lifelong learner so I’m always reading and researching subjects that pique my interest, quite a few inspired by my dates.

    My variety of interests means I have just as much fun snowboarding and racing supercars at the track as I do shopping at Saint Laurent and sipping champagne at the beach. One thing is for certain – I’m a sucker for a good time!

    How Important Is Attraction On A Date?

    I think it’s a myth that attraction must be instantaneous – in my experience, the most authentic attraction may start with a spark but grows in intensity as you get to know each other. I have been fortunate enough to experience relationships and attraction that grows even more extraordinary over years of seeing each other and creating lasting memories.

    My Dating Turn Offs

    My biggest turn-offs include suboptimal hygiene, stinginess, and a negative attitude.

    I like to be around people with open hearts and minds.


    Brooke Nichols – All-American Bon Vivant & Champagne Bubble About Town

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