Category: Sex Ed

The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 19) – Schedules

Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

Chapter 19 Teaser – Schedules

I found out quickly when I adopted my hot wife mentality that looking sexy make me feel provocative and horny. Scott has reaped the rewards of this part of my transformation. While I wanted sex more often for many reasons, I learned to love my femininity and embraced my sensuality. It’s great to be comfortable around someone and looking casual, even sloppy from time to time. Physical attraction and sex are key components of a healthy relationship, and we should continue to make an effort on our appearance even if it’s only for our own self-confidence.

Being a hot wife has definitely helped my appearance. It may sound crazy but since I have embraced this lifestyle, I have lost weight, dress nicer and put more effort into doing my hair and makeup. I’m not sitting home at night watching reality television, I’m out in the real world making my own adventures. Being active sexually does burn calories too and giving head can even improve one’s metabolism. It also helps to date a variety of younger attractive men, at least for me. Those guys have a lot of energy and I definitely have to work to keep up with them. They make me feel desirable when we’re together and when I go home, my husband makes me feel sexy all over again.

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Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

“mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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January 3, 2021
Disability & Sex Work

I love sex! LOL. The weirder the better, I love roleplays and kinks, and people being fully themselves during sex. But in general, I think sexuality is an opportunity for joy.

My Companionship Style

I don’t think I’m necessarily the ideal companion for everyone. I’m a fat and curvy redhead who is pushing 40, and I like seeing people who appreciate that about me and see all of those things as positives. I also love seeing people who are disabled and/or kinky and/or marginalized who are looking for an authentic connection based on mutual respect and fun!

I see all respectful clients 21+ and love vanilla sessions too, but I particularly specialize in clients with disabilities, Milf/mommy, and catering to non-impact kinks and fantasies. I have my own disabilities which limit things like hiking or going to the beach so an ideal match are clients who are comfortable with spending more indoor time. (smiling devil emoji LOL).

Misconceptions About The Sex Lives Of People With Disabilities

How much time do you have? I think it’s generally that disabled people aren’t sexual and aren’t currently having a ton of great sex. A lot of sex workers and clients are disabled but we don’t really talk about it that much, which is a mistake. It can give us an opportunity to connect and help me really be able to meet clients’ intimacy needs which includes their access needs.

Exploring One’s Sexual Needs With A Disability

I think the thing that is important is to know it’s okay to be disabled during sex. It’s okay to not want to do certain positions or not be able to do certain things, in fact – it’s normal. Everyone has sexual things that we like and don’t like, and this may or may not be related to our disabilities.

We should all be thinking about the way our minds affect our sexuality, and disability is just one aspect. I also really encourage people to reach out to disabled sex workers if they have the ability. The relationship between an escort and a client is unique and can be a great way to help you learn about what you like and don’t like with someone who has no other agenda than your (and mutual) pleasure and joy.

Recommended Sexual Activities Together

I recommend people work on seeing whatever makes them unique as a strength sexually, rather than a negative. While they also affect my ability to work as much as I’d like, my chronic and mental illnesses have helped me be able to connect to clients better, even non-disabled ones. I know so much more about bodies now than I did before I was disabled.

Don”t Be Afraid To Explore Your Sexual Needs!

I think a lot of times, stigma is the hardest part of all. I recommend that you talk openly about disabilities and the way they affect or don’t your sex life. Of course this is AFTER you are in a sexual relationship with a disabled person. It is rude to ask disabled people about their sexuality or what they are able to do unless you are in a sexual relationship with us.

But just like most things, I recommend having as much fun as possible and exploring whatever sounds the most pleasurable! Sometimes that may not be sex but may be a back rub or something else! There are a lot of ways that we can be intimate with each other and disabilities only increase those opportunities!

Kitty Milford is a Syracuse, NY based sex worker with big tits, a big, ass, and a big personality. She’s a BBW Milf redhead specializing in Milf/Mommy, non-impact kink/roleplay, gfe, and clients with disabilities. She is also a writer and used to be a lawyer and loves books, seltzer, and lingerie. Since the pandemic she’s been focusing on virtual services. See more at kittymilford.com or email her at kittymilford@gmail.com.

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December 31, 2020
What To Know About Slut Training

Kink and alternative lifestyles are a wonderful way to sexually explore your likes. Therapeutic for some and it’s interactive entertainment. I have always beaten to my own drum and when I discovered so many alternative lifestyles, I immediately thought, now this is me seeing people live the way they want to live safely that I’m always for.

What Is Slut Training?

Slut training consists of a Dominant partner teaching the submissive to behave in an overtly sexual manner, from their clothing, behavior and mindset. While some may see being a slut as a negative, slut training encourages very promiscuous behavior.

Reasons For Undergoing Slut Training

Most subs just want a feeling of being used. They want to let all inhibitions go and just please and serve being a toy for pleasure.

My Domme Style

I’m a natural sensual dominant who specializes in mental / psychological sadism.

Slut training is a highly mental training, and you are shifting ones’ mindset on how to behave. Most submissives undergoing slut training are going to be reluctant, embarrassed and shamed at times. I always help to make sure they overcome these emotions and sometimes use them for humiliation.

A Typical Slut Training Session

First and foremost, all of my sessions start with a brief reminder of RACK (risk-aware consensual kink) and a safe word is established.

I don’t have a typical training because each session is based on what I feel the submissive needs. So it can be focusing on learning how to properly suck cock, to undergoing intense slut training hypno.

What To Expect From Your First Session

You should know that while you are expected to oblige your Dominants commands, you should always partake slut training with who you feel comfortable with. You will usually be learning and trying things you never experienced and want to feel safe and have an open mind.

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December 29, 2020
The Secret Life Of A Hotwife (Chapter 18) – Dealing With Jealousy

Ever wondered what really happens on a hot girls’ night out? Meet Juliet Adelaide and her friends in The Secret Life of a Hotwife as they drive into the sassy world in this no-holds barred account of a hotwife’s lifestyle, and uncover all you’ve ever wanted to know, from the sensual and provocative to the risque and unspeakable.

Based on the steamy real-life experience of Juliet Adelaide, author of The Mrs Sexy Chronicles, this exclusive first-hand account of her exploration of sexual freedom and insight into the life of a hotwife will leave you begging for more.

Chapter 18 Teaser – Dealing With Jealousy

Kristin began checking the time on her phone again. It reminds me of the times when I was out and worried about coming home so late. It was usually with Mark, like most of my bad behavior, but a couple men have kept me out exceedingly late. Time and schedules may have been the most difficult obstacles that Scott and I faced. He didn’t really get jealous about other men fucking me, but he would get a little upset if they got to spend a lot of time with me. With work and family, we would only seem to have a few hours together at night when I was home. My dates with Mark had been known to last 12 hours with a rare overnight. Scott thought I somehow enjoyed Mark’s company to his, but the truth was, it was all about schedules. My husband’s work hours didn’t allow the same amount of free time as a part-time cook.

I would only get a couple nights out a week though, so I guess I always felt that I had to squeeze in as much time as possible with lovers because I didn’t really get to spend a lot of time with them in the grand scheme of things. In fact, it took me a while to be able to look at it from my husband’s point of view. I would go out with Mark for happy hour at four o’clock in the afternoon, then dinner, then a show, then a different place, then his place and then I would come strolling in with my panties in my purse at four o’clock in the morning. My hotwife lifestyle was supposed to be about sex, but Mark had become my boyfriend and it caused issues.

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Juliet Adelaide has a Bachelor’s degree in Humanities and Culture from Arizona State University. She started dating her husband at the age of 17 and they were monogamous for 25 years. They are a devoted couple who only recently opened their marriage to new sexual experiences allowing Juliet to become a hotwife.

“mrs Sexy” is the witty, erotic and true story of her experiences with this new polyamorous lifestyle. Juliet, (aka Mrs Sexy), takes you through the most personal moments of her romantic and sexual adventures.

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December 27, 2020
How To Explore Virtual or Remote Domination

Kink is a massive part of my life, both professionally and personally. I believe that folks come to kink for all sorts of reasons, from satisfying deep primal urges, to healing, to spicing things up in the bedroom. All are valid ways of exploring connection, validation, and catharsis.

How My Interest In Kink Started

Probably when I was kidnapping and tying up my Barbies. This has been a part of my life as far back as I can remember, even though I may not have always had the opportunity to express it.

My Domme Style

My style is playful. I’m quite a chameleon, so I can deliver anything from severe to nurturing, but there is always an element of playfulness. I laugh and smile, no matter what the vibe. It’s because I’m enjoying myself, and that’s how I express it.

Transition To Virtual Domination Due To Covid

It was as natural as could be, despite the circumstances. I think the way I Dominate translates fairly well to providing online services. I’m perfectly fine with monologuing to a camera for an hour. And I believe I have a knack for making people feel comfortable, even if it’s through a computer. It’s certainly a lot more work. You have to be on your phone constantly.

Luckily, I’m very good at online marketing, consistency, and branding, which worked to my advantage. Difficulties for me ended setting up boundaries surrounding how much I work. It’s very easy for me to never stop working, especially so if I’m working from home.

The other difficulty is that many kinks don’t translate super well to video sessions. It was a learning curve to find the ones that really work well.

A Typical Virtual Domination Session

Virtual Domination allows you to keep in touch more often, so it’s actually advantangeous, I find, to making deep and long lasting connections. For my regulars, we keep in touch throughout the week via text (I use Niteflirt), with weekly sessions or content requests. Each sub is different, but I like to start my sessions with a bit of catching up and relaxing into each other.

I ask them to show me what implements/toys they have on-hand. The majority of the session, just like in-person, includes whatever kinks they would like to act out. Because I can’t touch them, what this looks like, is me telling them what to do to themselves. And then I also leave some time at the end to decompress and chat about the scene. I always ask what they are going to do when we hang up the call for aftercare.

Recommended Sessions For Virtual Domination

It really depends. Sometimes it just doesn’t feel the same when you’re doing it to yourself, even if a Dominatrix is ordering you to do it. Some folks are simply not into topping while submitting. Also, virtual sessions depend on what equipment/implements/toys/wardrobe the client has available to them. Sometimes you end up ordering to fuck themselves with a margarine covered banana, because there’s literally nothing else around. Not that you can’t do a session without implements, but for some kinks it’s more essential than others.

Impact play, or other pain play can be really great for some folks, but not the best for others. Asking people to deliever pain to themselves can sometimes be tricky territory. Keep checking in, and really encourage them to listen, and stay focussed. Just make sure that the client is somewhat experienced with using the item. Even with your supervision, they can end up hurting themselves by doing something incorrectly. This could be using a hairbrush for spanking, clothespins zippers, nipple clamps, CBT, wax, ice, stress positions, and more.

Pegging or strap-on play is usually a good go-to. Most people are familiar with fucking themselves with a dildo. This could mean orally, vaginally, or anally. A suction cup is helpful. From the other side, the Dom(me) can wear a strap-on to give them the visual.

Humiliation or any other verbal kinks works well, because touching isn’t necessarily required to make the kink feel “real”. Your dirty talk skills will really shine in a virtual setting.

Tease and denial is also a fun one, especially if they have a vibrator on hand, extra points if it has bluetooth technology so that you can operate it. E-stim similarly so. Count downs are a common thing in virtual sessions.

Sissification, feminization, bimbofication, dollification all work fairly well virtually, just as long as the client has some items to dress up into. Even if they don’t, the language surrounding these kinks can still be very salient.

Gagging can be useful for parts of the session, but it also takes away one of the ways to connect with each other, which is not always conducive, since you already have touch taken away. But, making people talk through gags and drool on themselves is always fun. Again, make sure that this is done safely, since you are not there in-person to help them if they start choking.

Fluid play can be done too, just as long as they’re into being ordered to consume their own fluids.

Lady Pim – A Professional Dominatrix and kink educator, working out of The Ritual Chamber in Toronto. She takes in-person sessions (currently on hiatus due to Covid-19), sells custom content, offers remote/virtual sessions, teaches on a variety of kinky topics, and conducts one-on-one kink consultations. She is also the host of the multiple award winning Bed Post Podcast, a sex/sexuality show which features interviews of sex workers, sex educators, and other sexy people.

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December 25, 2020
How People With Disabilities Explore Their Sexual Needs With Sex Workers

I used to be very traditional when it came to sex, but over the years, Mr Jones and I have explored and grown together into a very sex positive couple who live a very open and sexually free lifestyle.

Misconceptions About The Sex Lives Of People With Disabilities

People often think those that are disabled can’t have sex or don’t want to. It’s important to not jump to these conclusions. Mr Jones often says we are still humans just like everyone else, and we deserve the chance to feel pleasure even if it may not be in the traditional way.

Exploring Mr Jones’ Sexual Needs

Mr Jones is 35 and born with Cerebral Palsy. He uses a manual wheelchair, but honestly lives a very normal life as a husband and a father. When exploring, it is important to have constant communication and not get too discouraged if something doesn’t work.

If we have an epic fail, we usually just laugh it off and go back to the drawing board. If we are both satisfied by the end, who cares how we had to get there as long as we got there.

Sexual Activities We Do Together

We do anything and everything we want, it’s just that sometimes, we have to adapt positions to match Mr. Jones physical abilities. We find it very helpful to include sex toys and even sex furniture to help enhance the experience.

Encouraging People With Disabilities To Explore Their Sexual Needs

Most importantly, talk openly, don’t be shy or embarrassed and communicate what you both need from each other. Do research, talk to others in similar situations as yours. Use the internet to connect and network.

We welcome anyone to reach out to us on our social media as we are always happy to connect and talk. We use a Reddit group called r/disablednudes to connect and explore with others, and highly recommend it.

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December 23, 2020
Sexting As A Lifestyle Thing In 2021

2020 has been a strange and difficult time for all of us. We’ve experienced changes in the way we have to live that will stay with us for a long time to come. That’s why the year of 2021 is going to be something that we’ve never lived through before. We’re still going to be limited in the ways that we can all interact with each other. Nowhere is that more invasive than it is in sex. Hooking up with new people is completely off the table and that’s why sexting will be a brand new lifestyle choice in 2021.

Have Sex Without Touching

The best thing that sexting has to offer us is the fact that it’s a way of having sex without actually touching each other. We can see the person we’re talking to and send them pictures and videos instead of getting together with them. It’s a way of getting off with someone without having to get together with them and it’s going to be the main way that most of us hook up in the near future. That’s why you have to find a great find to find great sexting partners right now.

Arousr Works The Best

A site like Arousr is going to be your best bet when it comes to finding your sexting partners. That’s because the women who use it know that they can find someone to get off with when they log on. That’s the only reason that they visit the site. There’s no reason for them to log on if they’re not horny. That means that the women you see on the site are ready to have a good time with you. They know how to sext and they want to do it all of the time.

There’s Always Someone On

The best draw is that the girls are coming from all over the world. That means that you can always find someone online and ready to play. It’s why so many people are using it right now. They know that there’s always someone to play around with and they never have to question it. The girls are all right on the home page so you can find the perfect girl to suit your mood, no matter what it is. It’s the easiest way to make sure you can always get together with someone and get off with them rather than sticking to long term relationships.

You Can Sext However You Want

There’s never going to be just one way for you to sext. There are just too many different people doing it all of the time. They’re come up with brand new ways of getting off without being together and that’s what makes it fun. You’ll be able to sext through text or just call someone for some phone sex. You can even turn on your cam and see exactly what the girl is doing to herself while you talk to her. It’s the best way to sext and it will be your preferred way of hooking up in the future.

Check It All Out Now

Don’t wait to start looking into sexting. It’s going to be too important in the future for that. Start checking it all out right now and you’ll be ahead of the game when it comes time for you start sexting. You can find any kind of girl that you want and have a good time with her. Check it all out for free and you’ll know that you’re in the very best place to make sure that you can keep on hooking up in the future.

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December 22, 2020
What Different Types Of Porn Media Are There?

I personally love porn. I’ve been a consumer of it for a long time and as weird it is to say, it actually helped me to realize that I was trans. The type of porn I was consuming pre transition was mostly written erotica and comics dealing with a male that gets turned into a female. I was initially embarrassed by the fact that this type of porn was my go to but slowly realized that there might be something to this and it got me thinking about the possibility that I was trans.

After having been deep in the closet for years and years, it prompted me to do a bit of soul searching which led me to a therapist which led to the realization that I was trans. It doesn’t seem like it from reading that last sentence but that realization process took years and a few more cringey experiences haha. I’m not so sure I would have had that realization or accepted myself if it hadn’t been for porn.

How Big Is The Porn Industry?

I think the porn industry caters to as many people as it can because the more content that you create that appeals to a lot of different people, the more money you’ll make. There are an insane amount of different genres out there in porn and chances are there’s something for nearly everybody.

However, there are genres of porn out there that will outperform others so it’s in the porn company’s best interest to create more porn of the more popular genres. If I remember correctly, the most search term and porn the last few years is lesbian porn, so porn companies will use that market knowledge and create more content and that genre because of its popularity.

That doesn’t mean porn companies stop producing in the other genres. It just means you won’t get as much content as the top searched terms. If there’s a big enough market for a particular genre, you’ll see a lot of content from that genre.

Why Are Videos The Most Popular?

It’s the visceral experience. It appeals to multiple senses and it allows you to kind of sit back and enjoy the ride so to speak. In other forms of porn, like art or comics, your brain kind of has to fill in the pieces.

Like in written erotica for example, you can read the story but you have to visualize the world or scenario or sex position etc. Whereas in video porn, there is no element of that. What you see is what it is, your brain doesn’t have to fill in the blanks and it can focus more on the pleasure. Having said that, alternate forms of porn can be a more preferable thing for some people to enjoy.

Other Types Of Porn Media Available

There are alot of different kinds out there but aside from video media, there are comics, which can vary greatly in art style and content. There are a huge amount of porn comics out there, some are very well done and you can see the care the artist puts into the art style and characters. But there’s also comics out there that aren’t so good, but I can guarantee you if it exists, there is porn of it out there and a lot of it is in the form of comics or erotic fan fiction.

Hentai is a big one as well and that is basically just pornographic anime or hentai and that can also vary greatly in scope and subject matter. It’s another one of those things that if there’s a kink you’re into, it probably exists in hentai or comics. For the most part, alternative forms of porn media consist in some way of a written story and art to accompany it, whether it be a photo or a computer-generated image or a gif or a hand-drawn page of characters etc. If you look hard enough, there’s something for everybody.

How I See The Porn Industry Evolving

In terms of adult media, with VR tech becoming more and more advanced and available, I think the industry will put a lot of its resources into that basket. With the price slowly dropping on quality VR headsets and more people buying them, the market for that is only going to get bigger.

The top two revenue streams for the VR industry is gaming and porn, and the VR porn industry is expected to grow into a billion dollar industry by 2025. So it would only make sense for companies to push more VR scenes and websites to eat up that expanding market.

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December 21, 2020
How I Met My Wife

For us, sex comes in different levels of work sex, which is for income purposes. Lust sex is that person you are itching to get it on with, we are that much in love, monogamous and not sharing sex. So we film other people.

How I First Met My Wife

I met my wife on a set in Las Vegas. I started 70Screw and needed a real hot female model, so my wifes’ ex-husband answered my film ad, they show up on time, and the husband filmed the scene. We made a good connection and stayed in touch.

Our First Date

On our first official date, my wife and I got some medicated rice crispy treats, and the plan was to hang out, and watch a movie. Well the weed rice crispy knocked us out till 4am. After which my wife jumped up and ran to the bathroom. Nothing happened but my wife was ashamed that she had no make up on.

What 70Screw Specializes In

We specialize in 70Screw style, not pro studio but not shitty cell phone video. We captured some of the wildest angles, we stand on sofas, tables, chairs, we sometimes get almost in bed with our models but our clothes stay on. We leave the work to the professionals (models).

Upcoming Work From 70Screw

We have created the Pro Amateur Adult Film Tour, featuring and promoting some up and coming new adult film models. We believe it’s time for some fresh faces, no offence to the veterans, they did pave the way, and I do believe it’s something all adult film fans can enjoy for a long time.

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December 17, 2020
Importance Of STI Safety In Sex Work

Sex is my love language. Ever since I was little, I’ve too much enjoyed touches, being exposed, and being voyeuristic. Once I lost my virginity. my entire world view changed. I went from devout evangelical to devout hedonist overnight, going to sex clubs, finding strangers on craigslist personals, and becoming a sex worker.

I believe there are ways we can tap into a shared consciousness through our bodies, through art, music etc., and sex is my my gateway into that shared consciousness. It’s a meditation on what it is to be human, and alive, and inside a body. And it’s beautiful.

Practicing Safe Sex For Myself

I get tested frequently and set boundaries. I feel most safe with someone who can express authenticity and communicating openly. I try to foster an environment where others feel safe to communicate openly with me so that the scary and gross topics don’t have to be off the table.

To that end, always use a condom in work encounters. I only offer bareback services under specific conditions after that client-provider trust has been built.

Misconceptions About Sex Workers & STIs

People are sometimes wary of sex workers because they think we have a higher rate of STI’s — which just isn’t true. While our volume of encounters vary from worker to worker, we are on average doing more to screen our suitors, to enact strict boundaries, to skill share and learn from one another. We are better at this than you, I promise!

Are There Rules & Boundaries?

Yes, absolutely. Rules and boundaries are how we keep ourselves and each other safe. Every person should have their own boundaries around work-life balance, regardless if they’re a sex worker or not.

What Activities Are High Risk For Sex Workers?

I think the term “high-risk” is made up; it’s a classist term that is used to shame people into thinking their behaviors are somehow immoral. We all take risks every day, and the sexual risks we take as sexual beings aren’t exacerbated by doing sex work.

That being said, it’s always risky to sleep with someone new. To kiss someone new. To meet someone at a bar. To fall in love. To have a child. It’s especially risky when your own economic situation is such that you have to ignore your instincts in order to make money. It’s risky to walk the streets alone, but doing so with another worker can lead to a trafficking charge.

It’s risky to fuck a stranger without a condom, but for many of us it’s one form of survival or another—”Either I take this risk, or I don’t eat, pay rent, or buy diapers until I do.” The best thing you can do to reduce “risk” is to educate yourself and use your autonomy wherever possible.

What Happens If A Sex Worker Gets A STI?

First of all — Most people have HSV (herpes, cold sores) or HPV (human papilloma virus). You should always assume any given partner has one or both of these and make your choices from a place of that reality.

When a sex worker contracts something other than those very common viruses, we do the same thing everyone else does — we try to get better and (hopefully) alert recent partners.

Mona Knotte – A GFE and fetish provider in Seattle, WA. She loves to drink coffee, watch stupid movies in her underwear, and cause a raucos on the internet. She is an avid harm reductionist, lover of 420, and long philosophical discussion. Her big tits match a big brain and acute-as-a-button smile. She would love to do more travelling and is passport ready!

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December 15, 2020