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  • Take Your Love Life Into The Kitchen

    Take Your Love Life Into The Kitchen

    We all know that food and sex are two of the things that we most enjoy in our lives. Therefore, if you are planning to make dinner and you are going for delicious tortillas because you love food so much, you might also be interested in knowing how this space of your home can be used in creative ways in your sex life.

    Dining is also a very important part of the whole dating process, so it’s not difficult to think about bringing food to the next level from an intimate point of view. If you have not tried it before, it can certainly spice things up in the bedroom. After all, both food and sex are comforting activities that we usually share with the ones we love, and they both tend to get messy.

    If you are intimidated by the idea, you really shouldn’t, since these are both areas in which you can explore as much as you want, and doing so can really build up trust as well in a relationship. However, before we go into details about how you can approach this matter, let’s take a look at the connection between the two from a psychological point of view.

    Why Do They Work so Well Together?

    Ever since people have been around, food, love, and sex have been in a close relationship. It’s rather difficult to feel romantic if you are hungry, but it’s also true that when we meet someone new, we tend to forget about food. Our brains and bodies work in interesting ways, and the chemicals that they produce in various situations can definitely impact the way we physically feel.

    However, the close connection between love and food is important, especially in a relationship, as it can deepen the bond between two individuals. On the other hand, it’s also a definitely fun idea, even if you are in a committed relationship or not. There’s a basic human need for both food and sex, so they are part of our nature, which is why they work together so well.

    No matter if we’re eating or having sex, we are using our senses. Taste, touch, smell, they all come together in each of these activities, so it’s only natural to enjoy heightened sensations if you combine the two.

    Food Ideas

    Now that we covered the essentials, let’s see how you can use various types of food in the bedroom, to bring your experience to the next level. The first idea used by many is sushi. There’s something inherently appealing about sushi, and you can definitely think about eating it off your partner’s naked body.

    If you have skills and can prepare the rolls yourself, then that’s even better, but there’s no worry if you rely on take-out for this one. The important part is to have fun together and explore this aspect further.

    Since we’re more in the main course area, it’s a good moment to mention spaghetti and tomato sauce. This is one of the all-time comfort-food favorites, associated with great taste and relaxation. Therefore, you can safely take it to the next level and prepare a great dinner together with your partner for a night of fun.

    You can also try the classical spaghetti kiss if you haven’t done so already, and make sure you have napkins around, as the situation can easily get messy.

    Desserts

    Of course, if you are into sweets, you can definitely give them a try as well. In fact, they do tend to be the more popular option, with whipped cream being among the top choices. Of course, you can and should get creative, depending on what you like to eat. Many people also go for chocolate syrup.

    It’s good to keep in mind that it tends to be a little messier than its whipped cream counterpart, and it drips a lot, so you and your partner might have to be on top of the situation from this point of view. If you have calligraphy skills as well, you can use the chocolate syrup to write things on your partner’s body, using the larger areas, such as the back or stomach.

    No matter where your imagination takes you, food and sex work great together, so don’t hesitate to explore everything that these two can offer together.

    Images From Nadia Eve

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  • Freelance Model Kazuko Otsuka From Japan

    Freelance Model Kazuko Otsuka From Japan

    Hi! Thank you for having me today. My name is Kazuko Otsuka. I’m a half Japanese and half Filipino born and raised in the Philippines. After I graduated college, I move to Japan. It’s been three years since then.

    I’m quite introverted and like to spend my time at home playing video games and watching series.

    A year ago, I tried my hand at modeling and came to really enjoy it. It’s not a very “Kazu” thing to do given my personality, but I’m really thankful I tried it out. I’m really challenged doing it and feel like a different person when I see the work created. Now, I mostly do freelance modeling.

    What inspires your fashion style?

    To be honest, I know nothing about fashion. Growing up, I was that kid who wore the same shirt and jeans three days in a row. I don’t know anything about coordinating clothes and such. It is my boyfriend who styles me for my shoots. He has more fashion sense than I could even dream of.

    How much of a foodie are you and what are your favorites?

    I’m not a big foodie. However, being that my father was a sushi chef, I was surrounded by food and know a lot about it. Back in the Philippines, we have a family owned Japanese restaurant called Hanakazu. My favorite Filipino food is Menudo and my favorite Japanese food is Ebi Fry.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    I’m definitely not vanilla or strawberry. My personality is not too outgoing for that. If I were to pick a flavor, I’d probably be caramel? I’m not the main attraction but like to complement others. I’ll be the topping on vanilla ice cream.

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    Growing up in the Philippines, I always heard different superstitions. I never really paid much attention to them.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now when looking back?

    On the top of my head, the only embarrassing situation I can recall was when I got called out in high school for having a blog. It’s hard to explain everything for it to make sense, but let’s just say I grew up in a very strict environment where our pastors were also our teachers. I made a blog where I uploaded my poems, and I almost got suspended for it. When this happened, I was so embarrassed and felt so bad about it. Now, I realize, there was nothing wrong about it.

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    If I could learn anything in this world and be good at it, I’d want to learn how to code.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    The funniest or maybe lamest attempt a guy tried to get to know me must have been when someone took my name down during an exam and searched me on Facebook. Everyone’s names were called out one by one before the exam. The guy must have jotted it down during that time. I found his message a year after in my inbox and it cracked me up. His message went something like, “Your name was so interesting that I had to look it up.”

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Kazuko. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy for me is definitely tied to one’s intelligence. Sexiness lies on the eye’s of the beholder. One person could be considered sexy to another and not sexy to someone else. When it comes down to it, the outward appearance of a person is not enough for that person to be called sexy. A person’s maturity level is sexy.

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  • Why I’m Proud To Be In Sex Work (Part II)

    Why I’m Proud To Be In Sex Work (Part II)

    Read Part I here

    To me as a SW, It is important to look past peoples’ flaws, and to cater to their needs. If someone is disrespectful or totally unpleasant, I will simply not see him again. If he is respectful and caring, that is all that matters to me.

    You are not gonna get along or have chemistry with everybody and not everyone is gonna like you but that is okay too.  Not everyone is going to be a repeated client, and that is ok too. I think if I meet someone where it doesn’t click, or if it gets uncomfortable I try to lighten things up with a small gesture, initiate contact, take their hands, and place them on me. At the end of the day, they pay for your services, they crave your body, and your pleasure, it does not really matter if you get along or not, as long as they are respectful. If they are not respectful or totally unpleasant, I will either tell them to leave or block them after our meeting to prevent them from contacting me again. To avoid such situations, I usually only see clients that are 30 or older and I try to read them through their initial communication with me, but sometimes it is not enough, and you are gonna come across people that you cannot stand.

    I had people making me extremely uncomfortable. I can give examples, some men I have experienced focus on what they expect from you instead of focusing on you. “Call me daddy, when you first open the door, hug me, take me to the bedroom and bend over.” I mean that might sound sexy coming from a boyfriend, but with a client that you meet for the first time, it takes time to get comfortable and it is totally out of place to behave like this.

    I am shocked to hear from some of them. ”Pardon me? I am not a sexual robot, I am a person with feelings that you are supposed to be considerate towards to make this an enjoyable experience” I want clients that are trying to get to know me because they first liked my profile and description. I will refuse any immature clients that see me solely for my body and treat me like I am not a women with feelings too. It really takes two people to make a sexual or any experience enjoyable. Men with this attitude will never please any women.

    Some will tell you how to behave in the bedroom, it is such a turn off for me because the whole beauty of sexuality is to be 100% yourself even it can get weird or gross, it does not matter as long as it is enjoyable for you and in accordance with the provider rules. I also do not like when men ask me what I like while we are at it. I mean it is totally respectful and a normal behavior to wonder if the other person likes it or not, but I would rather have me tell them or them trying it on me. Just go for it and if I don’t like it, I will say so. I think every women likes a men that can be confident, is in charge and expresses his own desires without asking how it is done even if it is not done perfectly. And the same goes for women. I think the biggest turn on for everybody, is a person that is fully herself and doing what makes him/her enjoying himself/herself while being considerate of the other persons’ pleasure of course.

    Some will mention their wife to me, that is something that I hate. “Let me talk to you later, I am with my wife right now.” It is ok to mention it or discreetly let me know but sometimes it gets too much. I am a woman, and like any other women, I like to feel special, and feel respected and your first contact and communication with me will greatly change how I feel about you and how much I will enjoy our experience.

    But again, every service worker is different and their style and type of services is also different. I would rather provide a girlfriend experience, but I am always open to different requests and trying new things and fetishes with a client that likes me. It is not always the action itself that I like or not, that turns me on or off, but the connection I have with the men that I meet.

    Why I’m Proud To Be A Sex Worker

    I would say that I am proud to talk and to be open about it because it shows how confident I am as a person. A lot of people rely on other peoples’ opinions to make their own, but I think we should rely on ourselves and on who we are, on how we feel and on what makes us truly happy. It reminds me everyday to never ever let someone bring me down for what I do or any decision I make, no matter what the majority of people think, it reminds me everyday how important it is to stand for yourself even if you are standing alone. And not a lot of people understands that. It takes a lot of wisdom and courage.

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  • South African Model Christenn Cloe

    South African Model Christenn Cloe

    Hello 😉

    I’m from South Africa, I’m an internationally published model and a mom to my son Connor.

    Where did your inspiration to be a model come from?

    My mom entered my images into competitions from a young age. When I got to high school, I became extremely shy so I stopped completely.

    What is the toughest or most challenging photoshoot have you experienced before?

    The most challenging shoot I had was with my favorite photographer Danny Steyn. It was my first nude shoot, I had no idea what to expect and I had to be beside an experienced Playmate.

    How is a typical day like for yourself?

    I have an engineering company with my partner, a typical day I would be at work till late in the night.

    Do you have any favorite quotes or mottos you use?

    “I think the female body is exquisite so, I don’t feel funny about nudity”

    Candice Swanepoel

    If you could live the life of someone else for a week, who will you like to choose?

    Taylor Selfridge, she is drop dead gorgeous, and down to earth.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    0, I don’t go to clubs at all, I’ve never been drunk, and not interested in that lifestyle.

    What is a lame or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    A guy created different Instagram profiles and tried with each one to contact me. I’ve seen catfish LOL so I Google searched the images and discovered the real person.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Christenn. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    When someone is direct, that is sexy to me. I’m not interested in six packs etc. I prefer someone that can make me laugh.

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    Instagram: @christenncloe_official

    Images by photographer Danny Steyn

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  • Why I’m Proud To Be In Sex Work

    Why I’m Proud To Be In Sex Work

    I am totally acceptant of sex work and have no shame in regards of the topic, the only reason I wouldn’t be open about it with just about anyone I cross path with is because a lot of people don’t understand or do not accept it, and it is better to just keep quiet to avoid drama.

    But the main reason why I am open with it now is because I know why I do this. It is has brought more good than many other things in my life has. Of course financially speaking, it has allowed me to be fully independent, live on my own terms, have the freedom I have always seeked, live on my own, buy a car, travel, pay for aesthetics procedure, invest on myself, save money in a short time period, live a life I wouldn’t have been able to without it. Not to mention how unfair the minimum wage is.

    Second, the job itself, you meet a lot of different people that are willing to spend on you, to take you out, to buy you drinks and to make you feel special, to appreciate you and to respect because you respect yourself. I know people who would do this for free, or that would pay to do what I am paid for, so yes I feel lucky at times but luck has nothing to do with it, it is hard work and decisions that I took to be here today. And of course every sex worker is different and every encounter with different persons is also different. But mainly, most of the time it is fun and a learning experience, like any other job.

    Also they do not pay for a good that you sell, they pay for your company, and to spend time/intimate time with you, so unlike other jobs where you have to learn different products, all you have to do here is to be the best you can at this is to be basically be yourself and to take care of yourself and sometimes dress up, meet many different people, develop different connections.. Who wouldn’t want to be paid to do that? Sometimes I feel like I am paid to live, where others are to work.

    How I Felt About Sex Work When I Started Out

    I was hiding my face and really reluctant to talk about it or to share with anyone what I was doing, and a lot of SW feels the same way. I think like many other things, partially because of society views and judgments and people who feed their ego on bringing other people down. It is like we have two lives and two jobs and two social circles.

    1. The ones we are when we work and everyone in the industry who knows what we do, and

    2. Who we are when we are not working, our personal lives and those who do not know about it. But at certain point, the two worlds clashes, and this is what happened for me. You cannot be two different people and as I got older and more confident, I stopped caring about what other people think of me, and I stopped being around judgmental people and those who did not accept me fully for who I am.

    As I first started, it was really intimidating, And it is a lot to learn before getting fully into the business. A lot of businesses teach you to take as many clients as you can without considering your needs and that might be your first thought or approach when starting in the business, but it makes it hard work to provide a good service and totally un-enjoyable, as most agencies do not let you speak to the client before meeting him. I had to learn that to be able to be successful as an independent provider and make a living out of this alone, I had to focus on deeper connections, on the service I provide, the needs that I fulfil, the people that I meet instead of a dollar sign, and that’s how I was able to start to enjoy it and to work smarter, not harder.

    Here comes the importance of talking to the client and screening or reading him prior to booking just by his approach and initial introduction email or text messages. It takes a little bit of practice but you can tell who is as a person, and your first impression about him. It is important to refuse a client that you know will give you a bad experience. I now rather focus on quality people who I can be real and build a connection with that I know are gonna come see me again rather than a lot of clients that do not appreciate you, that is how I’ve been able to charge a higher rate and be successful with a limited number of bookings.

    Are Sex Workers Supportive Of One Another?

    Totally, SW are totally supportive of each other and that is where I met the most loyal, intelligent, and open people I know, that have taught me to be the person I am today, strong and confident despite all my weaknesses, and to be able to speak up and to express myself.

    And it is another reason why I will never ever bring down sex workers, any form of sex work or be ashamed of it. Also it is where I met people I grew strong bonds and real friendship with, exactly because you are allowed to be yourself and it is a judgment free world in this industry.

    Challenges Balancing My Private Life & Sex Work Life

    I am not saying sex work is always easy, it has been a long road but like anything else that is worth it in the long run, does not come easy. First, one of the most important things as a sex worker is to respect yourself. I know it sounds totally ironic that most people view sex work as degrading. But yes, I had to learn to respect myself and to know my boundaries. This is certainly the biggest challenge.

    You are gonna meet a lot of people that will try to take more than they give, people that will try to take advantage, people that are disrespectful, it is totally up to you to let them know what you are ok or not comfortable with, what your rules are. At the end of the day, what most men enjoy is to make a woman feel good in their company, and to provide for us, so again it is up to you to learn what you want and to let them know and communicate your feelings with them. I am far from perfect and far from knowing everything about myself but I am trying my best and I think that is all it takes, that and putting in a lot of time.

    The difference between love life and sex work is that you don’t always enjoy the company you are with. I myself love to create real and genuine connection with people and I am used to be paid for it so it is difficult for me to do this while maintaining a relationship. Some sex workers choose to have a partner while doing this, but I consider my clients as men I am dating and I’d rather not have both.  If I would meet someone that I would want to settle with, be willing to commit and putting in the work, I’d probably be just less emotionally invested in my work, but I’d see myself being able to manage with both. At the same time I do not want to give up my lifestyle. I would have to meet someone that is ok with what I do. And that person has to be very special if he is not paying me.  *laughs*

    Men are looking for beautiful women that are also smart and fun to have a conversation with. Yes in an ideal world, there would be that perfect partner for everybody, that meets all of our needs, but the truth is it is hard to find, and if you are a person with personal issues, like anger issues or obesity or too busy with work or whatever it is, your sexual and emotional needs cannot be fully met, and that is why we are here as sex workers.

    Also there are technical details you have to deal with, just like owning a business it is a lot of work and expenses, creating a website, photoshoots that can cost up to 1k (ranges from 500-1k for reputable photoraphers, not to mention the expenses for outfits) , constantly replying to emails and phone, paying for advertisement and staying up to date . A lot of SW have two apartments/condos, a work location and a place to live, two phones, two email addresses, etc… to protect their identity.

    To be continued…

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  • Malaysian Model & Face of Malaysia, Gwen Chin

    Malaysian Model & Face of Malaysia, Gwen Chin

    Gwen Chin is a regular fixture in the Malaysian modelling industry ever since she won the Face of Malaysia 2012 title, after which she represented our country to compete at the annual Asia New Star Model Contest 2013 in Seoul, South Korea.

    Not long after, she took a couple of years off for personal reasons but this oriental beauty, who stands at 175cm in height, made her modelling comeback around mid 2019, stronger and better!

    During her time away from active modelling, she was also appointed the official Pageant Walk Coach for the Miss Astro Chinese International Pageant (from which the winner represents Malaysia at the annual Miss Chinese International pageant) from 2016 to date, consecutively.

    Besides that, she is also actively teaches as a modelling instructor for both aspiring kids and adults.

    Currently based as a full time model in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia, Gwen is represented by boutique talent and model management company Evenstar Management.

    Thank you for featuring me, SimplySxy!

    I was born in Kota Kinabalu, Sabah; grew up in Kuching, Sarawak; and currently living in Kuala Lumpur. I’m just a simple and ordinary girl who loves fashion and lucky enough to be able to do what I love – modelling.

    Where do you get your fashion inspiration from?

    My fashion inspiration pretty much comes from various Malaysian fashion designers. To be honest, I did not have much fashion sense to begin with… It was only after I entered the modelling industry when I was 19 that I got exposed to the wonders of fashion and style. Getting to work with these talented and amazing designers really inspired my career as a model.

    Do you have any favorite quotes or mottos you like to use?

    The two quotes that I live by are simply “no pain, no gain”, and also “tasting the bitter at the beginning and feeling sweet at the end”. I believe very much in life, no matter how hard something can be, there will always be something good waiting for you at the end, somehow.

    What if your proudest achievement so far?

    I’m very proud to be a teacher who can help groom the future models of Malaysia, but my proudest achievement so far would be being a catwalk instructor for the Miss Astro Chinese International pageant, which is one of the biggest televised pageants in Malaysia. 

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?

    In terms of being a foodie, I don’t consider myself as one, so I’ll rate myself just a 5. I’m not much of a food hunter, so long as the food is good and it fills me up, I’m happy.

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    This is a little tricky as I don’t really have a long bucket list… Whenever there is something that I want to do, I’ll make sure I’ll make time to go after it as soon as I can. But if I really have to choose, I would say what I want to do most is to have a nice long holiday.

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    The super power that I would like to have is mind reading. I’m sure this will help me a lot in my job as a model because when I attend castings, at least I will know what the casting directors are looking for exactly, helping me land jobs easily. Besides, I’m sure mind reading will improve my interpersonal skills and relationships too.

    What is an ideal date to you?

    My ideal date is not so much about the actual date itself but more of the person I’m going on that date with. As long as he is someone with positive vibes who can make me laugh all the time, any date with him will be ideal. And if he has dimples too, he gets bonus points!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Gwen. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To me, sexy is about your temperament and how you carry yourself. Take Angeline Jolie for example, she never fails to be sexy even if she is dressed all covered up. I’m a huge fan of hers!

    Thanks very much once again for having me, SimplySxy!

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    Instagram: www.instagram.com/gwenchin

    Facebook: www.facebook.com/gwenchinofficial

    • Courtesy of @evenstarmanagement 
    • Photography by @zoroproduction
    • Makeup & Hair Styling by @backstageacademymsia

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  • Indonesian Gaming Cosplayer & Influencer Berliana Effie

    Indonesian Gaming Cosplayer & Influencer Berliana Effie

    Hi, my name is Berliana Effie. I am from Indonesia and stay in Jakarta. I have studied psychology and am now working in Human Resource in medical company. I like to be a cosplayer, gamer, and streamer. I started as photoshoot endorsement model on 2016 then come to be cosplayer. For now I have become a part of gaming cosplayer team and join every event of it as an influencer. As a gamer, I have become an official gaming streamer for one of the platform games since 2017. I stream any kind of games. Now I still stream on other platforms and I also stream as an official creator make up in live video apps.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    I like casual styles, especially Korean style and Korean make up, because it looks simple and cute. Sometimes I also try another style of make up and fashion like dark, swag style, etc. For me, it is interesting to try many kinds of fashion styles and make up to see how would I look like different from usual. 

    Where did your inspiration to be a Streamer come from?

    It starts when I was in college and I have much free time. Then I became a model for apparel products and also tried to participate in photo contests. I often participate in many photo contests and surprisingly always win it. After that, there was a talent manager that had a look and was interested in me. He offered me to join and become a streamer. And after I tried, it was fun too because it got me many friends and gave me more knowledge. Then after graduating from college until now, I am still a streamer and do freelance/ side jobs along with my primary job in HR. 

    Which favorite quotes or mottos do you live by? 

    Never be limited by other people’s limited imagination. Never tired to achieve my goals. Because no one knows my capabilities except myself.

     

    Is there any food or drink you don’t take?

    I like all kinds of food and drink because I like to eat as a hobby. However I don’t take fish because of the fishy smell. But except for sushi, I like it and it’s my favorite food although it is made from fish too. So actually nothing that I don’t take because I take it all.

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    Honestly I don’t really believe in things like that. When I was in college studying Psychology, I read one research journal about supernatural things like that and it was quite reasonable. Then I began to think rationally and logically. I am not a paranoid person or easily afraid of something. But people in my country still believe in superstition. So because of the surrounding environment, maybe I should believe in it too.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now when you look back?

    I have when I was tired after doing overtime work and just arrived home but I felt like wanting to stream and play games. There was an event that I should join to a party playing game with viewers so I should stream at that time. Then in the middle of the stream, when the viewer asked a lot of questions I started answering strange things that were not connected and when the viewer asked again why the answer did not connect I began to realize that I was digressing or actually fell asleep but still kept my eyes open. It was an embarrassing thing and also a situation that was very funny. But from that incident I learnt lest to do it again (falling asleep when streaming) because I have to try to keep up my spirits and entertain the viewers when I stream.

    What is a lame or funny attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I have a funny moment from when I was college. There was a guy that in the same class with me. He was too shy to meet me, but one day he got the courage to meet me. He tried to sit beside me in class and greet me. He asked me for my notes because he didn’t bring his notes for the class. I lent my notes and let him bring it home.

    Then in another day of class he gave back my notes again and thanked me. After the class he met me again, and offered to give me a ride home as a way of saying thanks. But I had planned a date with my boyfriend, and suddenly my boyfriend came. He became very ashamed and said sorry for the offer. A month after that, I broke up with my boyfriend and I became single till now. Maybe I will get more funny attempts from another guy next time.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Berliana. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is not all about the body, but is the comfort to become yourself. Smart women will look sexy from her knowledge, and a good woman will look sexy from her kindness. Every woman is sexy depending on the perspective of the person who sees it. Be the best of yourself and it is a sexy of you.

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    Instagram: @berliana.effie ( http://www.instagram.com/berliana.effie/ )

    Fanspage Facebook: Berliana try to play ( http://www.facebook.com/Berliana-try-to-play-411800359281015/ )

    Trakteer Fanpage:  https://trakteer.id/berlianaeffie

    I will keep on update gaming videos content on Facebook Fanspage. And upcoming project for Cosplay content on Trakteer Fanspage.

    Images from Berliana Effie

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  • Be Inspired By New Jersey Model Yuli Castellanos

    Be Inspired By New Jersey Model Yuli Castellanos

    Hello! I am a model from New Jersey and I concentrate in fashion, print and commercial.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    I do have a few hobbies, in my free time I dance, sing and exercise.

    What inspires your fashion style?

    I look up to a few female singers and models who inspire my sense of style on a daily like Selena Gomez, Hailey Bieber, etc.

    Photo: @tmaxtt

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Best compliment I have ever received has been people telling me how much of a great soul I have and how much I inspire them.

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    A typical day for me is being booked at least twice for the day with a clothing brand or music video, meeting new people and networking.

    Photo: @divzimedia

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    I have done a few acting gigs like comedy skits and a few commercials, but I would actually love to start in a movie and take some acting classes.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?

    I had a magazine shoot for the first time and I usually don’t wear fake nails so I went to the beauty supply and got myself the ones you press on and OMG, every time I pose, one of the nails would fall off haha. Totally embarrassing at the moment.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Lamest attempt would have been trying to make me believe that we know each other already to make a whole dialogue.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Yuli. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I define sexy as empowerment, as women we can conquer the world with self love, when we show that sexy side we have we demonstrate power towards our body, towards our confidence and most importantly reflecting it on others, women and men.

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  • Get Inked By Tattoo Artist, Cosplayer & Model, Moo

    Get Inked By Tattoo Artist, Cosplayer & Model, Moo

    Hello! I’d like to start off with a big thank you for the feature. I’m a budding tattoo artist in sunny Singapore; I’d like to describe my style as small, cute and occasionally spooky!

    Photo: @7xwnie

    What hobbies or interests do you have?

    Tattooing aside, I also cosplay and model in my free time. I’ve been doing it for around 7 years now! I also love to sing and write poetry, albeit I may not be very good at it haha!

    Where do you usually love to shop from?

    In all honesty, I get most of my clothes from Taobao, I’m a sucker for cheap deals LOL. I enjoy shopping at Uniqlo and H&M as well, their basics are to die for!

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    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    Well on work days, it’s the usual coffee, tattoo, more coffee and then head home to draw more tattoos! However, on my rest days, I’m quite the homebody. Nothing beats staying at home with a good TV show on and a mountain of snacks for me to munch on!

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    Do you follow a beauty regime strictly?

    No, not quite.. I always tell myself to start on one but I never get around to it (I don’t have the dedication and I’m simply just too lazy haha). But I do exfoliate and slap on a face mask every now and then when I feel like it!

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    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    I’ve never really thought about this! I suppose I’ve fallen into a routine and haven’t thought of breaking out of it. But if I really had to pick something, I’d like to bring my mom for a trip overseas.

    She’s been working very hard to support me and I want to take time off to have that ladies’ holiday with just us two. She deserves a break to travel to Korea and live out her K-drama dreams (and I want to be the one to achieve it for her hehe)!

    Would you rather have the ability to talk to animals or time travel?

    This is a rather interesting question! I would love to be able to speak to my pets as well as other animals but I also love the idea of being able to revisit history to see what it was like, so this is actually quite a tough decision.

    But ultimately, I’d definitely have to go with the ability to talk to animals. I believe it is best not to meddle with time!

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    What do you not get about guys?

    Oof. This question was a really hard one. I think rather than just guys, there’s a lot that I don’t get about people in general. I think certain people find it difficult to understand themselves as well, me included haha.

    I’d like to think that there’s no “fixed mold” for an individual. And therefore the number of things I will never get are endless unless, though near impossible, someone else has the exact same mindset and personality as me.

    Photo: @irid3scent_

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Moo. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To me, sexiness is confidence and kindness. The ability to go, “This is who I am.” and embracing one’s own accomplishments and positive traits is incredibly sexy. Paired alongside a good heart with the will to help others, that’s sexiness overload for me!

    Thank you for having me, I really enjoyed wrecking my brain for certain questions.

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  • How To Introduce Sex Dolls To Your Girlfriend

    How To Introduce Sex Dolls To Your Girlfriend

    Getting your girlfriend to like sex dolls can be a bit tricky. Although they have a lot of advantages, this is a subject that one has to bring to the table cautiously. If you follow the right steps, then this will be very easy and smooth.

    People perceive sex dolls differently, so this is not a shocking fact. Some love them, while others find them awkward. This way, you need to be careful when introducing sex dolls to your loved one. The following steps will help you to do it calmly and win her over.

    Choose the right time

    Choosing the right time to introduce sex dolls is the first thing you should do. There is no fixed time that we can say it’s the right time, but don’t do it on the first few dates with her. Conversely, do not wait for a long time because this is not something that you should be hiding from your girlfriend.

    After you get to know her for some time and have had a few sex sessions, then you can bring up the topic. At this level, your girlfriend will have gained trust for you inside and outside the bedroom.

    Break the ice

    After choosing the best time, then the next step is breaking the ice. The best way to do this is by having some sense of humor around it. Do not go straight to the point right away but wait until when you are having a decent conversation about sex.

    If you go straight to the point, you might put her off. Try breaking the ice when you are having a heated discussion about sex. Remember to be so casual by adding some humor, and she will laugh it off. Do not tense if she gets shocked as that is perfectly normal.

    After breaking the ice, do not rush to show her your collection unless she asks for it.

    Don’t be a freak

    It’s not a bad thing to have a sex doll if you are a regular cool guy. The problem comes when you start being creepy and weird. For example, talking about your sex doll all the time, even when your girlfriend doesn’t seem to be interested.

    If she asks questions, give her some short replies. Lingering too long on your sex doll is not a right way to get your girlfriend to like it. Also, make sure that your answers make the conversion fun.

    Have confidence in yourself, and it won’t be hard for her to like your sex doll. Furthermore, how hard can this be for you if you dated and won her over?

    If she has toys, don’t judge her

    Don’t judge your girlfriend for having sex toys the same way you wouldn’t want to be judged. Sex toys make sex great, and they are awesome. Furthermore, they open us to better techniques and better experiences.

    Some guys will get angry at their girlfriends just because they own sex toys. This is so wrong, and it will make it hard for her to like your sex dolls too. Also, you need to stay open to her collection, and she will easily like yours as well.

    Don’t be jealous but instead help her and become a sexually aware person.

    Reassure your girlfriend

    You need a good reason as to why you have a sex doll. Of course this very straight forward that you want to have sex. But this reason might not be enough reason for your girlfriend.

    Reassuring your girlfriend is important because you don’t want to make her feel threatened. You can tell a lie to make her satisfied. For example, it was recommended on a blog, and you got a very good deal. Remember, not to use strange reasons, try to be as realistic as possible.

    You can tell her that you are super busy and you needed something better than a regular handjob to give you a quick release. Some girls will take the time to understand.

    No pressure

    Do not overthink it. Also, do not pressure or force her to like your sex doll. Overthinking about this whole situation too much will not do you any good. Because it may result in an awkward moment when you finally decide to break the ice.

    You don’t have to worry about it as a large number of people use sex toys and dolls across the world. When this topic comes up, do your explaining and move on. Being casual is the key to making your girlfriend like your sex doll. Furthermore, everyone has that weird part of them, so you are absolutely normal. Another great way to avoid piling pressure on her is by making fun of your sex dolls because they are just dolls.

    Show her your collection

    This is not an easy part. Because it will be weird if she hasn’t seen one before. Also, it’s essential to wait until she asks to see the collection. Do not rush before she asks as she may not be interested.

    If she hasn’t asked to see your sex doll, give her time. However, if she asks for it, then you have no other option but to show her. Do not have it dressed or connected so that it can look like it has not been used for some time.

    Calling your doll by name during the first date can be awkward for her. Remember the first time you saw a sex doll? Put yourself in that same position, and things will be very easy for you when introducing your girlfriend to your sex doll.

    Shop for sex dolls together

    When she finally meets your doll, you can ask her to help you in customizing or shopping for more dolls. Remember that it’s her own choice whether to accept or disagree. For instance, you can ask her to help you choose clothes and some accessories. You can take an advantage of this situation and note her favorite designs so that you can buy better ones for her. This will make your girlfriend feel involved and appreciated. She will never see it as a threat as long as you keep it simple.

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