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  • Interview with the authors of Taken By The Sheikh

    Interview with the authors of Taken By The Sheikh

    SimplySxy: Hi Christina, thank you for taking your time out and for sharing your exciting upcoming project with us. Could you tell us more about Secret Confessions and the inspiration behind this story?


    Christina:     Thank you for having us! My brief for my Secret Confessions heroine was New Age/old money. Willow came to me soon after Escape invited me to join the continuity. She’s been in love with her best friend Seb since she was 17, nine years ago. I had a lot of fun with rose petals in this story (and so did Willow and Seb!)
    Cathleen: Our publisher Escape Publishing gave us the general storyline. I had to write a domme which I found terribly difficult as it is opposite to my nature. Mind you, I could learn from Nella and I think I’ve grown tougher since I wrote her. The dog obeys me sometimes now. Still working on my husband.
    Mel: My storyline is a Cinderella type of story. The wealthy, handsome man who sweeps the penniless waitress and uni student off her feet. She’s the much younger wife in this series who adores her husband as much as he adores her. It’s a sweet romance with hot sex scenes. I loved writing this.

    SimplySxy: Congratulations on Taken by the Sheikh for topping the best seller lists on Amazon UK. We would like to know about the collaboration efforts behind this series. How did the idea of having three novels with different writers come about?

    Christina: I’d wanted to be involved in a boxed set for a while but had no idea how to go about doing it. Then Cathleen contacted me to ask if I’d be interested in a collaboration with her and Mel. The three of us have been good friends for several years and I love their work, so this was a very easy decision to make!
    Cathleen: I really like Mel Tescho’s and Christina Phillips’ work so I asked them to collaborate in a boxed set. Mel was already writing a sheikh story so I said lets run with that. We have come up with other ideas too. Taken by the Biker, Taken by the Highlander, Taken by the Yeti.
    Mel: What Cathleen said! But umm, Taken by the Yeti?? Lol—maybe we’ll do a purple prose book with lots of silly OTT characters!

    SimplySxy: One of the challenges we can think of with having different writers is to keep the story and tone going on. How did Cathleen, Mel and yourself work to put everything together?
    Christina: We worked out the overall story arc and figured out which bits of information needed to be shown in each book, and once we knew where we were going with that it wasn’t so hard to write our own stories. As for the cover, I wanted Henry Cavill 🙂
    Cathleen: For some reason this didn’t seem so hard. We workshoped ideas. Christina is the most romantic of us all so we stuck her in the middle. I have the toughest hero so I rounded the books off, but for the next boxed set we will change places. I think the concept of having three brothers in terrible trouble worked well. Getting the right hero for the cover was the hardest because Mel fancies anemic looking heroes. Fortunately we all had one vote on the cover choice and Christina went my way, which was lucky because Mel’s choice of cover male really needed a good steak.
    Mel: We did work really well together, and our critiques for one another were brilliant in different ways as we all have our strengths and weaknesses. If anything came up we weren’t sure on, or we had a brainwave, we’d email and then agree/disagree pretty quickly. We had to make certain we were all willing to give and take. And I still like my Johnny Depp lookalike cover model …

    SimplySxy: The three of you are also doing Secret Confessions: Sydney Housewives. Please share with our readers some insights into each of your individual novels?

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    Christina: Willow is the daughter of a beautiful socialite who always manages to make Willow feel inadequate, and an A list Hollywood action movie star. Although Willow’s been in love with Seb for years, there’s a huge obstacle preventing them from getting together. But Seb is nothing if not resourceful!
    Cathleen: My readers have said Nella is the most shocking of the housewives to read. It made me proud and glad I write under an assumed name. I really had to dig deep as a writer to come up with some of the things Nella did to her husband. I think I scorched my eyeballs.
    Mel: Camilla is the young, innocent, gorgeous redhead who is a little too trusting. Her husband, Drake, only wants to protect his wife. The trouble is most of the women in her husband’s circle aren’t so enamored by her.

    SimplySxy: What’s your favourite genre within erotica and why?

    Christina: I’m currently into bad boy heroes. It’s part of the fantasy of taming the beast; that love brings even the baddest boy to his knees.
    Cathleen: I’m really enjoying heroine abduction stories and zombies so long as the zombies are the external conflict and not the hero.
    Mel: I love alpha heroes, particularly a hero with some kind of superpower—I’ve been reading a lot of dragon/phoenix/vampire (paranormal) stories and hope they make a big resurgence soon! I’m working on a paranormal story with a mutant hero.

    SimplySxy: If you could bring one of your characters to life, which one would it be?
    Christina: I still have a real soft spot for the hero of my second historical romance set in Roman Britain. Bren has been through hell and is so tortured I just want to wrap my arms around him and make everything better. I’ve recently had the rights returned to me on this book by Penguin and will be self publishing it (along with the other three books in this series) later this year.
    Cathleen: I want to meet my captain of BASE, a novel I’ve just turned in to Escape publishing. I lived on a navy base for some time next door to a navy mine clearance diver. He had the best body I’ve ever seen and personality to match. Actually the truth is I can’t remember his personality.
    Mel: Definitely my mutant hero—talk about tortured! Also, not many men could carry me in a hurry, but he’d do it with ease …

    SimplySxy: Do you have any unusual writing rituals and how do you get yourself in the mood to write?
    Christina: I don’t think my rituals are unusual, as I need to check my emails before I start writing. Then I need to check Facebook and maybe Twitter. Then I put some lip balm on (this helps me think …) As for getting in the mood, when you have deadlines poking you in the eye you just have to get on with it no matter how much you’d rather be doing something else!
    Cathleen: I have to tire my dog out by taking him to the park, otherwise he slams down my computer lid with his paws, which is really annoying. I also have to go, Where’s the possum,” so he runs around looking for it, which buys me more two-handed writing time.
    Mel: I like to write freehand where there are no distractions. I find at least half of my book is written that way. Also looming deadlines really tend to get you in the mood LOL.

    SimplySxy: There are a lot of aspiring erotica/erotic romance writers who aim to be successful, which usually translates to having a best seller or being nominated/winning an award. What is your advice to them?
    Christina: Read across the genre and also outside it so you’re aware of what’s out there. I belong to RWAus and highly recommend joining a writing organization for the support, encouragement and advice. Consider teaming up with critique partners or entering contests for honest feedback on your work. This not only helps strengthen your writing, it helps toughen your skin which is vital since when you’re published not everyone is going to love your work. And they will let you know…
    Cathleen: Be prolific, work at your craft all the time. If you self publish make sure, you use a good book designer and editor. Be professional at all times. Practise, practise, practise.
    Mel: Don’t just jump in and expect to write a best seller first go around (though this has been known to happen). Most authors spend years honing their craft, entering competitions and joining writing groups like RWA. It’s a HUGE learning curve.

    SimplySxy: A well written and descriptive sex scene is always loved by most readers as it allows the mind to imagine things to the last detail. But erotic novels are surely more than just steamy sex scenes?
    Christina: I’ve always enjoyed writing steamy romance and while I also write erotic romance the key word for me here is “romance”. I find reading a sex scene without any emotional connection between the characters very meh. That doesn’t mean the characters need to be in love with each other. My characters often don’t love each other until towards the end of the book, but there’s always that emotional connection as well as the blazing hot lust. For me, the sex scenes are pivotal to the characters’ growth, and afterwards dynamics between them have changed in some way or another.
    Cathleen: I tend to write romance and erotic romance rather than erotica these days. You still have to have well-rounded believable characters, a goal they are trying to reach, a well thought out internal and external conflict that makes your reader want to read on and a good story. As a writer you are still using all the writing techniques you would for any genre, the difference is when I write a sex/love scene I slow the camera down and put in more detail. Sex itself is not enough. As an author, you have to hook your reader with a compelling story. If it is erotic romance, then the hook needs to have a sexual premise and the sex can happen sooner than in a traditional romance. The couples often have sex then find love.
    Mel: A sex scene without showing the characters emotions is like watching something mechanical unfolding. I’m presently writing a story (Ours to Share) where two women and a man have amazing chemistry at first sight, but translating the sex scene into something emotive when they don’t know one another isn’t easy.

    SimplySxy: A creative mind and vivid imagination can definitely bring a story to life, but there is definitely a ceiling to it. Surely experience between the sheets and in the bedroom is going to help in coming out with these stories?
    Christina: Authors are always going to bring some of their own experience into their books, whether directly or indirectly. And when you need more, there’s the fun of research. For example, I’ve never been in a d/s relationship but that’s something I can research so my characters are authentic. Love and sex are two very primal human needs which make them fascinating to explore and read about, but the imagination is a wonderful thing and doesn’t always have a ceiling.
    Cathleen: My husband is very embarrassing, telling anyone who will listen that he is my muse and while there are certainly some elements of truth in that statement, there is only so much the body can do. You still have to have a compelling story. The lovemaking has to be a plot point, moving the romance forward in some way. You can’t as an erotic romance author write a book full of vanilla sex. You do have to be more creative. Sometimes I do test out the husband guinea pig but not all the time. When writing my Secret Housewife, I wrote scenes I personally don’t find remotely erotic nor did I try out the things Nella did to her husband, so imagination can play a large role. It had to in this case because Nella was plain scary to me.
    Mel: My husband wishes he was my guinea pig LOL. If only he could do half the stuff my paranormal heroes do (gusty sigh)—still, there’s bound to be a grain of experience in every sex scene.

    SimplySxy: Thank you very much for your time and taking the effort to answer these questions.

    Taken by the Sheikh Boxed Set by Mel Teshco, Christina Phillips, Cathleen Ross
    Three desert Sheikhs. Three captive brides…
    Bound by duty to honor their father’s dying wish, three royal brothers must marry their destined brides … by whatever means necessary…

    Book 1: Hostage to the Sheikh ~ Mel Teshco
    Book 2: The Sheikh’s Mistaken Bride ~ Christina Phillips
    Book 3: Sold to the Sheikh ~ Cathleen Ross

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    Secret Confessions: Sydney Housewives

    From the hottest writers in Australia comes a scintillating new series. Enter the world of Sydney’s elite, and find out what goes on behind the doors of the most exclusive addresses in the country…

    Meet the Housewives of Sydney. They are wealthy, elegant, poised, and constantly in the public eye. But what goes on behind closed doors, in the private homes and parties where the cameras and paparazzi aren’t welcome? Delve into the most personal details of their relationships, their friendships and their lives. The only question is: can you handle the heat?

    Nella by Cathleen Ross

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    Willow by Christina Phillips

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    Camilla by Mel Teshco

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  • Sukki Singapora – The World’s First Burlesque Artist from Singapore

    Sukki Singapora – The World’s First Burlesque Artist from Singapore

    Sukki Singapora, the first international burlesque performer from Singapore, is a global star who has performed in world class shows around the world.  She has been recognised for her efforts and achievements worldwide, having been nominated for London’s Asian Women of Achievement Awards for being a role model to all Asian women and men in the Arts scene.  Sukki has been featured on FHM India and Esquire Magazine, and was the first ever Burlesque performer to receive a Royal Invitation to Buckingham Palace.  SimplySxy takes this unique opportunity to interview Sukki on her amazing costumes, her role as the founder of The Singapore Burlesque Club and the Sexhibition cinema commercial.

    SimplySxy: Hi Sukki, we are really pleased to have you on SimplySxy. We have watched a number of your splendid performances on YouTube and are intrigued by the eclectic mix of indie Bollywood that you have injected into the classic Hollywood glamour that is synonymous to burlesque acts. Who and where do you draw your inspiration from?

    Sukki: When I first found out about burlesque, it was via the old American stars—as Asian burlesque performers were few and far between!—so much of my inspiration came from that old style “bump and grind.” However being the first burlesque performer from Singapore, I felt it was important to portray my heritage in my acts, and pay homage to Bollywood and Chinese performers such as Barbara Yung, so as time went on I began to develop my own style. Much of my inspiration comes from my cultural upbringing—I literally wear my heart on my sleeve when it comes to my costumes!

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    SimplySxy: You have some of the most amazing stage costumes! Do you work exclusively with any designers in particular?

    Sukki: Every stage costume starts with an idea or an emotion which I turn into a sketch on paper. I draw out how I imagine the pieces to look like, and then work with different people to help turn those sketches into a reality. Most of my outfits are created with the incredibly talented Kiku Boutique, from the UK, who are the best in the world at turning my dreams into reality!

    SimplySxy: What are the common stereotypes in burlesque and in light of your recent victory in legalizing burlesque in Singapore this week, do you think the Asian community in general is ready to accept burlesque as a mainstream performance?

    Sukki: I think many people expect every burlesque performance to be a carbon copy of the American style—there’s a stereotypical Hollywood silhouette in burlesque, and as an Asian performer, although I do hark back to traditional burlesque costuming, I like to challenge it, and put my own twist on it. In terms of acceptance, it’s never going to be easy to go up against traditional values and ideas, however I think the more understanding there is for it being an art form, the more countries will follow the example of Singapore this week.

    SimplySxy: As the founder of The Singapore Burlesque Club, can you share with us more about it as well as the type of burlesque events and workshops that are conducted?

    Sukki: I founded The Singapore Burlesque Society in 2012 when I was approached by many other Singaporean women (and men!) who were interested in burlesque, but were too afraid to try it or didn’t know how to go about it. It started out as a community to support each other creatively, and then workshops and shows were introduced when it grew to become The Singapore Burlesque Club. Until this week, however, full burlesque performances and tuition in Singapore were a legal grey area, and so many of the workshops were conducted in secret or outside of the country by my incredibly brave members—those were some pretty challenging times for me! All of the shows also had to be held internationally, however members and students knew that if ever they wanted to make a career out of burlesque, that the Club would always be there to support Asian burlesque talent.Sukki Singapora burlesque My Boudoir A

    SimplySxy: I am sure our readers are very interested in your upcoming projects. Could you share with us some of these and also let us in on the sexhibition cinema commercial?

    Sukki: Of course! This August, I’ll be headlining my Henna Diamonds burlesque act at Sexhibition—The Erotic Event of the year—and in the run up to that I’ve just finished filming my debut UK cinema commercial for it which comes out on Friday 13th February. This year I’ll also be returning to New York to co-produce my 3rd annual run of the largest Asian burlesque event in the world, The Asian Burlesque Spectacular on May 30th as well as returning to Singapore for some extremely special events, which I’m both emotional and excited about, I can’t say any more than that! But if you want to see me sooner, I’ll be debuting the first peek of my Henna Diamonds act in London at the Café de Paris on Saturday 21st and 28th February this month, which is going to be my biggest, most elaborate act yet. I can’t wait!

    SimplySxy: Burlesque is associated with sexiness, performing hot dance moves with alluring outfits. Do you have any tips for our readers who wish to bring burlesque into the bedroom to spice things up but have no clue how to start?

    Sukki: Burlesque is all about body confidence and feeling sexy about you. Instead of thinking what will the other person like? I think it’s important to ask: what do I feel great in? Because at the end of the day, if you feel sexy and confident, then you will exude sexiness.

    SimplySxy: One last question before we sign off. How do you define “sexy”?

    Sukki: For me sexy is a mindset – feeling confident in your own skin. There’s nothing sexier than a person’s smile when they’re feeling great!

    Visit Sukki Singapora to find out more about her at http://www.sukkisingapora.com/blog/ and follow her on Facebook http://www.facebook.com/SukkiSingapora and Twitter https://twitter.com/sukkisingapora

    All images courtesy of Sukki Singapora
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  • My Saucy Valentine Sex list

    My Saucy Valentine Sex list

    Valentine’s Day. I love this day. It gives me the perfect excuse to spend my days leading up to it dreaming of endless possibilities and lists in pampering my partner, to indulge my partner in a night of unforgettable memories amidst our busy schedules.

    I have always created different possibilities when it comes to Valentine’s Day. Questions of: What can I do to make this year a little more special, to create a magical night of discovery and exploration, a night of uninterrupted explosive sex that would push boundaries and create new undiscovered sensations. Why, I create a sexlist of course. My Valentine’s Sexlist. A sex list gets me prepared for a night of good expectations. It gets me psyched up and ready for what is to come.

    My sex list always starts with the mood. How do I set the mood right for Valentine’s Day:

    1. Candles. Nothing screams mystery and romance more than entering a dimly lit room, inhaling the scent of sweetness mixed with candle wax burning, flicking in the darkness of the room.
    2. Wine. Alcohol in small amounts will increase your libido and make you feel flushed. Now imagine this setting where you enter into a dimly lit room, with wine by your bedside. As you start sipping wine, allow yourself to be pampered by engaging in long foreplay and by teasing each other ever so slightly. A slight nibble on the ear, hands moving up thighs, sharing a sip of wine between kisses. There are endless possibilities when it comes to spicing up the mood with some wine at the beginning!
    3. Chocolates. Just like wine, chocolates are known to increase desire, arousal and sexual satisfaction. After all, you are getting ready for a long exciting night, aren’t you?

    With the mood set, my sex list would carry on to things that would create an exciting adventure for an unforgettable Valentine’s Day night. I want to treat my partner to a full sensuous feast, to tantalise every sensation and every fibre possible.

    1. A sexy lingerie. Valentine’s Day is the day to be creative and open, to wear something that you might not wear on an ordinary day. Be it a crotchless panty; which could open up a ton of creativity, or a sexy two piece lingerie, it is the day to give your partner a visual treat for the eye, and to make him yearn for your body simply by teasing his sight. Guys, do not worry, for you can do the same. Put on a piece of tong, or a C-String and you can be assured that your lady appreciates more than just the visual treat she receives.
    2. Get your partner a sex box which comprises everything needed to create an unforgettable, explosive and intimate Valentine’s Day. Our Saucy Secrets, a Singapore based company (www.oursaucysecrets.com) , has made my dream come true by putting together creative, intimate, fun and exciting packages for every one of us. Each box has been carefully thought through to ensure that couples not only have all the necessary tools needed for an unforgettable night of pleasure, but that there is a central theme running through these boxes, tying in every item in the box. It is an adventure waiting to be explored. I had the luxury of exploring Saucy’s Valentine’s Box with the theme (Back to Basics), and Saucy’s Kinky Box, and I got to say, it sure blew my mind with the sensations I encountered with my partner. Not only did I get to know my partner’s sexual preference better and experienced such heightened sensations through the Valentine’s Day Box, I also got to explore my kinkier side with blindfolds, handcuffs and whips with the Kinky Box. It was sensuality at its best.Untitled1Untitled
    3. Foreplay. My Valentine’s Sexlist cannot do without foreplay. This is the night of romance and sexuality, the night where I want to take as much time as I can, pampering and teasing my partner slowly. It is a night that should result in an explosive orgasm, a night of unforgettable memory.

    All images courtesy of Our Saucy Secrets.
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  • Interview with Roc Solid on Interracial Sex, MILFS and BBWs

    Interview with Roc Solid on Interracial Sex, MILFS and BBWs

    Roc Solid is an up and coming male pornstar from Philadelphia, PA who loves interracial sex, MILFS, and BBWs.  SimplySxy takes this unique opportunity to find out more about his interests!

    SimplySxy:  What do you think is behind the phenomenon of interracial sex involving a BBC that makes it so fascinating?

    Roc Solid: Well for me I truly believe that colour contrast is largely behind this phenomenon between a black male aP1370270nd a white, Asian, or Latina female. Not only is it a wonderful sight to see but the fact that black males have bigger dicks is what I think really turns a lot of women on. I have gotten plenty of compliments on that and also that our stamina is better than other males. Women love the fact that we can go for long hours at a time. For me, I love to add that dynamic in my films because people enjoy seeing a women getting pounded relentlessly. I also think that porn has had a lot to do with turning peoples attention to interracial sex, some good and some bad. I would say the common misconception is that everyone thinks that all black men are very well hung and that is NOT true. You see in porn films black men that are 10” and more, and plenty of women will tell you that taking a dick that size does not feel good all the time. I truly think that it’s how we fuck that women love so much.

    SimplySxy:  What is it about the Swingers lifestyle that turns you on?  Can you give our readers who are keen to host a swingers party, tips to have one that does not disturb the neighbours or rooms next door?

    Roc: The swingers lifestyle has been very good to me these past couple of years. I have been able to meet plenty of ladies who would be considered your “next door neighbour” but when they get behind closed doors turn into freaks. I also think that the “Hotwife” dynamic has played a huge part in how I am able to meet so many wives. Lets face it.  Husbands love seeing their wife fucking a black man and are very happy with them doing it. Nothing turns me on better than seeing a husband sitting and watching me fuck his wife and her cumming so many times because of it.

    Well the huge tip that I would give is that if you’re going to host at your place, to do it at night and in a place where your neighbors won’t hear it. Also if the woman is a screamer, then playing music in the background is a great option.

    SimplySxy: Can you share a kinky and memorable sexual experience and how it came about?

    Roc: Well for me, it would be finally meeting Creampie Cathy last year when she came to visit Philly. We had been talking for quite some time and she does these road trips a few times a year. Now going into this, I had no idea what to expect since seeing her movies she goes all out. When I finally did arrive to shoot our scene, I realized that she is even more beautiful in person, and man can she FUCK. I am able to say that I ROC’d her for sure and giving her a signature creampie that she loved. If any of you ever get the opportunity to meet her during her travels, please do so because you WILL NOT regret doing so.

    For more information on Roc, check out his blog at http://rocsolidxxx.blogspot.com/. He can be reached anytime at bbcrocsolid@yahoo.com and follow him on Twitter at https://twitter.com/RocSolidXXX

    Images courtesy of Roc Soild.

  • What lingerie looked like in the early 20th Century

    What lingerie looked like in the early 20th Century

    A fantastic infographic from Sheer Luxury Lingerie on what lingerie looked like in the early 20th Century!  Visit their website at http://www.sheerluxurylingerie.com/ for their sexy outfits!

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    Feature image courtesy of Sheer Luxury Lingerie
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  • Interview with xSync

    Interview with xSync

    Hi Alan, you’ve got an interesting product here. Tell us more about it.

    Hi there SimplySxy, I’m enthused to tell you more! And thank you so much for having us! xSync is a wireless technology that hyper-synchronizes your favorite vibrator to precise sensory cues in adult videos and all other media. When one watches porn by themselves, the typical “self pleasure” routine can get a bit, well…mechanical, and rehearsed over time. What I mean by this is, it can gradually lapse into a mundane routine lacking in true sexual fulfillment.

    But xSync changes the game. Instead of you fiddling with buttons, xSync lets you enjoy the experience while allowing you to deeply immerse yourself directly in the peaks and valleys of the hottest scenes. It really is about as close as you can get to experiencing your favorite porn scene fall right into your lap, all without having to leave your own room. (Or office. Or car. Etc.)

    So how does that immersion feel?

    According to our beta testers—little short of mind-blowing! In fact, let me share a little anecdote about one of our first test users, we’ll call her ‘Sarah’.

    Sarah was nestled cozily in her room while checking out our first demo flick, accompanied by her favorite vibrator. Scene 1: a blow job. Now, I’ve been told by numerous times that women often “skip” or fast forward blowjob scenes so they can get to the “good parts”, so to speak. Keep in mind, it’s not that they don’t like giving blowjobs, it’s just that watching them on video simply fails to turn them on like real life sex.

    But here’s the plot twist for Sarah when the blow job scene started…

    Her jaw literally dropped to the floor. The sensations hit her—in real time, and she found herself planted in the exact moment, enjoying every single detail of every single second. The afternoon she relayed this to me, I knew in that single moment that we’d built something that was not only sensational and realistic, but could change the way porn was viewed and experienced for everyone.

    And one more interesting detail about xSync. It can control multiple vibrators at the same time, as long as they are near the wireless signal. That’s it! So now you and a friend, or even a group, can put on a sexy adult flick and simultaneously enjoy the delicious details. Talk about a party! Or you can go on a solo adventure and play with multiple toys at once. Either way it’s a brand new experience that’s never been available before.

    Needless to say, the range of experiences one can have with xSync are vast and varied. And we know that when our customers get to experience what it can do for them sexually, they aren’t going to go back to the old traditional way of watching porn with their vibrators buzzing monotonously ever again.

    Does it work with all porn?

    Yes, it sure can! But one thing I’d like to point out is that we don’t host any of our own videos. Instead, xSync actually powers the syncing technology behind existing websites. Many sites are already fully compatible with xSync, so it’s a piece of cake for us to add new and exciting websites as our service continues to grow.

    A very common misconception is that we sync merely the sound in the videos. Sure, this may work well in some situations, but when it comes to syncing with adult videos and porn, it’s limiting and frankly—not a complete picture of the scene.

    Instead, we have an awesomely elite team of engineers who run our proprietary software to analyze specific on-screen actions and sync them to the precise intensities and patterns of the vibrator. Then it’s in our library.  Users can enjoy it all immediately.

    We’re also thrilled when we receive requests from our users. In fact, our entire library is built around our users’ favorite adult videos. If any user wants to try xSync with their favorite adult video, we welcome them to hit up  www.xsync.com and we’ll get them set up on our pilot program. That’s it!

    By the way, it’s crucial that I point out that ALL of the videos we support are sex positive. I think that’s pretty self-explanatory. My fiancé, team, and I, are outspoken advocates of the sex positive movement, and it doesn’t matter if you’re gay, straight, lesbian, BDSM, hardcore, or a little in between. We plan on having you covered on all levels and tastes!

    Now tell us, what inspired you to create xSync?

    For a long time in the making, I wanted to be able to re-create the natural spontaneity of sexual stimulation in an intimate encounter. A few years back I started to closely examine all the sex toys available in the market and, honestly, there wasn’t much that really filled that “missing gap” that I was looking for. I finally began my research, and several months later I finished the now patent-pending design. And the results couldn’t have been any better!

    Shortly thereafter, I met my fiancée, Kathleen, and since then, she and I have been jointly helming xSync. While I handle the technical aspects, Kathleen has this uncanny, intuitive ability to connect with people. She’s had that gift all her life, and it’s like nothing I’ve seen before. She lovingly gave xSync a character and identity that resonates with people. It truly has been an intellectual labor of love and fun for us…and I’d like to quip that we’ve experienced first-hand just how easy it can add to a couple’s intimate life.

    Our #1 inspiration for xSync has been to help women, couples, and our friends in the LGBT community to explore their own sexuality by completely immersing themselves into the erotic fantasies from their favorite videos. These videos can range from your run-of-the-mill sex flick, to the mainstream 50 Shades of Grey. We truly feel we’re only getting started, and that the future applications for xSync to help and entertain people will only continue to grow.

    We’re seeing a ton of new and innovative toys come out on the market, from the We-Vibe Couples Vibrator, the Revel Body Sonic Vibrator and now the xSync. It’s like Sex is going high tech. As a toy designer, do you think that it’s just human nature to find new ways to get off?

    Yes. Absolutely. I do think that it’s human nature to always be seeking something new and exciting. People love to be entertained. People love to feel good. People love to explore, to be sexual, to push the boundaries and have mind-numbing orgasms. Why wouldn’t they? It’s exciting, it’s liberating…and it’s great for the mind and body!

    As for the sex toy market, sure, there are always new sex tech products coming out and we’re thrilled to see this. We aren’t actually toy designers, we’re instead filling in the gap between technology and toys. To do this we’ve created xO—our wireless remote for LELO vibrators. It’s a cool little piece of technology that jumpstarts your existing sex toys.

    In short, we are a sex-positive technology team vividly syncing up your favorite videos.

    Thanks Alan, before we close off, tell us, how do you define “sexy”?

    Oh, that’s a fantastic question! A part of me wonders if the word “sexy” could even be defined. Or should it? “Sexy” is such a subjective word, and over analysis potentially subtracts from that “je ne sais quoi” that keeps it secretive and alluring.

    But if you ask me personally what you think my definition of sexy is, I think it comes down to being truly authentic, being confident in yourself (and even your body and sexuality), and your own unique, magnetic spark. We can’t fake being sexy. It doesn’t work that way. It has to be truly felt. When you feel it at the core of your being, it radiates around you, and other people sense it.

    When you take the time to explore your sexuality, you unlock what it means for you to be sexy.
    It’s been a pleasure. Thank you for having us, SimplySxy.

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  • Interview with Dr Shannon Chavez

    Interview with Dr Shannon Chavez

    CBP-265-EditHi Dr Chavez, thanks for taking the time for us to get to know you better. So tell us, what made you decide that you wanted to be a sex therapist?

    I believe sex is one of the most fascinating and diverse topics that exists and affects every single human being. I also learned from very early on that sex caused the most pain and pleasure in one’s life. There are so many mixed messages about how much one should know about sex, how to behave sexually, and when and how it’s acceptable to be sexual. Sex is how we all got here and becoming empowered and informed around sexuality can change someone’s life forever. I knew I wanted to be a part of this change and to help bring awareness to the importance of sexual health to overall health and well-being. My mission as a sex therapist is to break down the barriers that hold individuals and couples back from experiencing their full sexual potential, help resolve sexual concerns that cause distress and pain, and encourage sexual self-exploration and discovery at any age.

    So what exactly is the mind-body approach which your work focuses upon and how does it translate to the variety of programmes that you offer?

    The mind-body approach that I use incorporates the connection between our thoughts, values, and beliefs around sexuality to our sexual functioning in the body. This approach looks at the brain as our biggest sex organ and how understanding our sexuality helps to alleviate problems we may experience in sexual expression. I use techniques of mindfulness, somatic experiencing, cognitive-behavioral therapy, and sex therapy to create an integrated treatment modality for different sexual concerns. My goal in using a mind-body approach is to give each client a sense of control over how their body functions and to reduce stress, anxiety, and trauma that gets locked up in the body and becomes a barrier to sexual satisfaction. At the end of my work with clients, it is my hope that they feel more sexually empowered, reconnected, and informed.

    Is the Big ‘O’ something that’s crucial for sexual success?

    Every person’s experience to orgasm varies and it is not a crucial factor in experiencing sexual pleasure. My goal for every client is to learn to give and receive pleasure. I want my clients to experience sex as a whole-bodied experience and to not get lost in the focus on performance or the outcome. Orgasm is a reflex and learned response that can be incorporated into treatment for specific sexual concerns, if indicated.

    What’s the most important sex tip you can share with our readers?

    The first relationship you should work on is the one with yourself. Get to know your body, how it works, and what your needs are. This is crucial before you can share and communicate sexual desires with a partner.

    Self-stimulation is also important for sexual health. Break down your taboos about “masturbation” and know that self-stimulation has mental and physical benefits and can improve sexual self-esteem and confidence. Give yourself the pleasure you deserve!

    In your opinion, what’s the most game changing sex toy on the market today?

    I am a big fan of the We Vibe 4. It works great for direct clitoral stimulation, has a new design that can stimulate the internal clitoral shaft, or G-spot, and can be a couple’s device that allows for penetration—with a remote. It has a comfortable fit and is made from 100% medical-grade silicone. Great form, design, and fun for individual or couples play.

    One last question before we close off, how do you define sexy?

    Sexy is all about attitude. I like to think about the word as “sex-e” or “sex educated”. The more we know about sex, the better we feel about our sexuality and sexual expression. Becoming sexually educated and informed creates sex-positive attitudes that can improve confidence, appeal, and awareness.

    All images courtesy of Dr. Shannon Chavez
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  • Sex as a slutty MILF

    Sex as a slutty MILF

    SimplySxy: What do you enjoy most about sex now as a slutty MILF as compared to sex before?

    Classy Eve: Definitely more exciting, for sure! If I was 25 years younger and acting and doing what I’m doing right now, everyone would treat me like a real slut. With totally no respect! Just a girl that guys only want to fuck and that’s all! That’s tough, I guess, for a young girl today to explore and discover her sexuality. She can’t dress the way she would like, take control in bed, etc. She will be considered a dirty and nasty girl that she’s only good to suck cocks but not to hang out with at a restaurant.DSC00244

    It’s the opposite now as a MILF. Guys want to go to a restaurant, hang out, be seen with me in town. And they’re waiting for the thing—to have sex with me. That usually won’t happened because I’m controlling the situations. And that’s the fun part of it. I give them what they want, glimpse of my tits and legs, tease them, good times. It often doesn’t go further because it appears in a business relationship context. But I may organize to make things happen if I want. That guy I jerked off under the table at the restaurant, make him cum in my hand, take a spoon, take the cum, put it in my coffee and drink it while I looked at him directly in the eyes. I gave him an heart attack because he didn’t see nothing happen. Just because I thought he could have something to tell to his colleagues and nobody would believe him. Next, I resumed my night out with my husband and we started a photo shoot. Lol!

    SimplySxy: There is something sexy and alluring about MILFs which attracts men. What is this sexiness which guys love that makes MILFs so attractive?

    Classy Eve: I think it’s a question of maturity and confidence. Men tend to believe that older women have more sexual experiences. That’s possibly true sometimes. I observed from the emails I received from my website, that guys are searching for approvals from older women. That’s why they like us MILFs so much.

    They’re always asking if they can cumtribute my pics, which they don’t ask when they’re talking to younger women on Twitter, asking about the size of their cocks, etc.

    And sophistication. The way we dress, how we take our glass of wine, walk in high heels for example. I understood all these pretty fast and apply them everyday. At work, because of my position, I use it to smoothly make people around me grow in confidence. Femininity, maturity and sexiness— those three words are constantly in my mind as a MILF.

    SimplySxy: Share with us, a recent memorable slutty sex experience you had with our readers

    Classy Eve: I have a couple of hot stories to tell but this one could be fun and reflects pretty well how we deal, as a couple my husband and I, in real life.

    A couple of years ago, for a business convention in Houston, Texas, I really love this place though, we had this great dinncl22x007er with all the executives and bosses. I was sitting between my husband as well and an older guy on my left, with his wife sitting on his left. Get the picture? We have a tradition my husband and I. When we’re at a restaurant, he’s constantly playing with my pussy during the meal to make sure I’m always wet.

    Coming back to the story. The older guy on my left, accidentally I guess, rubbed his knee on my legs. It’s okay to me as it happens a lot of time during these soirées as we’re too close to each other. But I noticed that he came back more and longer each time. So I thought: “Why don’t I gave him back what I’m best at? Jerking guys under tables.” I gently began to play with his cock over his pants while my hubby kept teasing my pussy.

    The guy put his hand on my nylons and I unzipped his pants and began to play with his cock under the table while we were eating. Next thing, he tried to reach my pussy, stopped and freaked out. He had touched the hand of my husband on my clit. Didn’t matter totally to me! I took his hand and put it back where he was supposed to put it, in my pussy. So my husband and the guy were finger-fucking me under the table at the same time. Four fingers in and out of my wet pussy. It was Heaven on Earth! I sipped my glass of wine and bit my lips because I was on the urge of cumming right there in front of 10 executives with their wives.

    I made the guy finally came on my nylons, wiped it all over my legs, biting my lips to not scream while having four fingers in my cunt. My hubby kept entertaining people as well, while the guy on my left was sweating as I put his cock back in his pants.  His wife didn’t notice anything BUT the guy in front us, likely aged around 60 years, couldn’t understand what was happened in front of him.

    As I told you, grab the opportunities, baby! That’s the reason for moving from a classy wife turned into a slutty MILF as a way of life! And I like it!

    If you haven’t read Part I of the interview, you can check it out here http://simplysxy.com/articles/2015/01/11/interview-with-lady-classy-eve/

    Images courtesy of Lady Classy Eve
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  • Interview with Lady Classy Eve

    Interview with Lady Classy Eve

    SimplySxy: A very good day to you Classy Eve. Could you give our readers at SimplySxy an introduction of yourself?

    Classy Eve: Thank you, the same for you! Well, I’m 49 years old and I’m from Canada. My first photo shoot was in 2007. My hubby asked me to do this for a while, always showing me some amateur website telling me that I was “hot enough” to send some pics of myself. That wasn’t easy at first even if we were looking through porn mag and videos. I had to work hard to find a look that I was happy with, the pose, etc. I’m not a natural, you know. By the way, I admire those women who do this professionally. Boy! They’re really good. After a couple of trials and errors, I sent my first set, corset, boots and a glass of red wine. Something between sweet romance and a naughty bad girl. A concept that we had in mind and still using today. DSC00851

    Maybe I was lucky enough I don’t know but with this first photo session, we did the cover of an amateur’s website. Got a lot of nice and really hot comments from the readers. So I finally conclude that “maybe I was cute enough to do some more”. And we did!

    Seven years later, I have my own website trying to find new ideas and keep posing for you, which I love to do. But because of my professional life, working in the financial domain, I’d wish I could do it on a regular base but I can’t. Maybe one day!

    SimplySxy: How did the name Classy Eve come about?

    Classy Eve: I’ve been always attracted by the 50’s fashion, the movies, the music. I found, one day, in my father’s drawers a really beautiful picture of Bettie Page. Thanks Dad for this! I think I have it somewhere in my things at home again because I stole it from him. Don’t tell him, please, lol! I was 10 or 11 years old and it changed my life! I knew that one day, I‘ll be wearing those tight skirts, dresses and really high heels shoes.

    When I started modeling, it was so clear and evident in my mind that that was the look I was searching for, a classy one mixed with this little edgy side, you know! The “I’m a good housewife but I’m also a…” look!

    SimplySxy: Did you always have a high sex drive from a young age or did it come as you got older?

    Classy Eve: Boy, no! As a teenager, I wasn’t the hot ticket at school. I have big tits and especially my nipples, were always hard! A fact that I admitted later was an advantage as a woman. They’re long and pointed. At that time, I was shy to have those long nipples. I was always trying to hide them, using big sweaters, etc. even if Bettie Page was my number 1 hero.

    I had a moderate sex life, a couple of boyfriends, casual sex, BJs. No anal even if they asked me for it. No lesbian sex though. Strangely, I wasn’t into lesbian sex at first. A strange story happened one day to my hubby that got me into lesbian sex. He’s really into older woman and I caught him with his boss’s widow. That’s turned me on so much that I couldn’t resist to play with this beautiful lady instead of my husband. Now I considered myself a total bi-woman and I’ve some really memorable sex sessions that way. One day, if you want, I will tell you the whole story. Pretty amazing!

    I met my hubby at university and got married, nothing special, even if we were experimenting in new areas, such as using toys, anal sex and flashing. It was like “OK let’s do it to see if it turns both on”. If you’re into porn videos, there were a lot more hard things than we were experimenting in those movies at that time.

    And one day, we found it by accident. It started at home as some kind of a joke, my husband began to talk dirty to me, told me I was his fucking bitch and would used me as his whore in the streets. And that was it, we found a way that stimulated our sex life so much. At home, I was his personal whore and he was my pimp! We were hooked to that lifestyle. Serious by day but dirty and naughty at home. 24/7.

    SimplySxy: Please share with us your journey from being a classy lady to a slutty MILF today

    Classy Eve: I’m with my husband for more than 20 years and am 49 now. At the beginning, I wasn’t, as I said, into sex that much. We had some good hot fucking sessions as you know. Remembered this one time in our car while I was driving and jerking him off at the same time. I would pretty much do everything with him but the sparks wasn’t really there. You know, THE thing.

    I knew that my husband liked to watch porn movies and read magazines, like every guy on earth. 12 years ago, he showed me an amateur porn site and I was blown away. I don’t know if I can tell you the name of the site here but let me tell you that the woman I saw was the hottest woman on earth. She’s from Hawaii. You probably know her very well. And she’s now, I guess, 60 or something years old. Her style was so awesome. She influenced us to find our look and style. I’d do everything to meet her. Anyway…DSC01658

    At the beginning, my hubby bought a lot of kinky outfits like boots to enhance our sex life and he began to call me a slut, bitch and whore when we were doing our role plays. That was strange but after a while, I discovered that when he wasn’t there I was thinking about those fuck sessions.

    So, I asked myself why guys were looking at porn so much. And I understood that they’re always looking for new excitement, probably because they think that they’ve missed something because they’re engaged, married and whatever …

    So I said: “Let’s do it this way!” And I remembered how awesome was Bettie Page the first time I saw her. So I transposed it in a real life situation easily. A new slutty attitude. From the bedroom to the boardroom. Lol!

    One day, I went to see my hubby at his office dressed like a real lady, more like a whore actually. Nylons, 5 inches heels, tight skirt, etc. Even the secretary didn’t recognize me at first. I entered the office and he was finishing a short meeting with his younger employees. I played the game, sliding smoothly my heels on the floor to get a glass of water, the way which I sat down, and I played the total slutty MILF. And when I began to play with my heels, dangling them, the guys stopped talking and began to take a glimpse at me. That was it!

    After that, it was a part of our sex life, teasing, flashing, etc. My hubby pushed me more and more in this direction. Only grab opportunities was our motto!

    We’re not into the swinger’s scene but if we had a chance to have some fun, why not? Guys wanted to flirt with me in bars? I could play with their cocks while my hubby was sitting beside me drinking; go to the restroom flashing off my tits and letting them play with it. We haven’t had a properly threesome, we were only aware of those moments to tease people and see how they would react. And we talked a lot to put things really down and clear. That’s really important. Bottom line, it definitely glued our relationship together really.

    Read Part II and find out what is Lady Classy Eve’s most memorable slutty sex experience here http://simplysxy.com/articles/2015/01/11/milfs/

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  • Miss Poison & Luna Wolf | Evil Twins Feature

    Miss Poison & Luna Wolf | Evil Twins Feature

    SimplySxy is excited to feature Missy Poison, an alternative model published worldwide in tattoo, horror and fetish publications.  She has been involved in the modelling industry for 6 years.MLE045AA

    Recently transitioning into acting and known as a scream queen due to the love for all things horror, 2014 saw the beginning of a brand new project for Miss Poison – the birth of the evil twins with her fellow model Luna Wolf.  Together they specialise in all things horror and aside from being models, they produce their own films and photograph events, both are models and have works published in their respective specialist fields.
    As Missy Poison puts it, “There is no such thing as spare time in my world … I am a workaholic and like nothing more than to stay as busy as possible and with an array of projects already lined up for 2015, I am eager to start off the twins year with a bang so any spare time at the moment is spent making sure we all we need to take on conventions and finally be able to take our products and ourselves to our fans, to be able to share our love for all things evil and SYNister and to continue supporting indie horror.”

    It’s okay … it’s okay to express yourself, to not hide away for fear of what people may think.
    It’s not okay … it’s not okay to live in fear of any form of prejudice for being different.

    Bottomline, people can be nasty, judgmental and scared of things they don’t understand. Long term educationMLE027AA is key. Missy Poison being Dominant to Luna Wolf shows a great responsibility of control and focus; she knows and trusts Luna, knows all of Luna’s strengths and weaknesses, psychologically and physically.

    Luna trusts Missy unconditionally and hands over the control to her and through this, they can please each other safely. But this is not something to be afraid of. All this are the results of two people expressing their enjoyment over acts of love and friendship that are not socially accepted yet. As long as two people consent in a safe expression to the point where no one will be seriously harmed, why should this be seen as wrong?

    Luna’s personal opinions on her role as a submissive to Missy: (may not be the opinions of others)

    I enjoy handing control over to Missy, I get to let someone else make the decisions. I let go of the stresses and my body can relax fully to let my mind rest, to trust her to know me well enough to make me walk a path that is good for me and that I will enjoy. Being boMLE006AAund tightly reminds me to let go, allow being controlled. To be spanked gives me adrenalin and a natural feeling of being alive and aware. I thank Missy regularly with the utmost respect, which in turn gives her a feeling of appreciation to her actions. The feeling that someone I trust will pay attention to my needs and thoughts … to help me get there without me questioning others options, to be straight and direct. Without wondering what other people may think about the actions I take … Missy is giving me the ultimate power to be myself without hiding anything. For me, this is unconditional love and freedom. But it doesn’t end there, if I’ve been spanked, I have taken on pain, to ensure my thoughts don’t get confused and my mind can heal, Missy spends time with loving actions and non-punishment acts to remind me there is unconditional love between us, that there is not always pain in this world.

    Check Missy Poison out at www.team-synister.com or follow her on facebook or twitter!

    Images courtesy of Missy Poison and photography by CJ Chmiel
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