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  • 7 Things You Didn’t Know About Your Penis

    7 Things You Didn’t Know About Your Penis

    There’s more to the penis than the long fleshy organ you see. For most males, it’s just an organ for excretion. Nevertheless, it’s also used to engage in sexual activities. However, there are other interesting things to know about your penis. Many men focus on the physical features of their penis—like size or length. 

    This article will tell you some facts you didn’t know about your penis.

    1. What Is A Penis Like? 

    The penis is a male organ made up of smooth muscles. The penis undergoes erection regularly to keep its shape and size. But how does erection occur? When blood flows into the penis to supply oxygen to the smooth muscles, erection happens. This is essential to prevent the penis from being less elastic. 

    Meanwhile, some men have PPP (Pearly Penile Papules), which is often hard to treat. A papule is a small, pimple-like protrusion on the skin, typically seen around the head of the penis. Having Pearly Penile Papules doesn’t affect your sexual libido or ability to get an erection. However, you can have your home treatments at PPP kit to remove them.

    Speaking of getting an erection, you don’t need to worry about not getting enough sexual stimulation. The brain helps to regularly maintain the functions of the penis even in the absence of sexual stimulation. When you sleep, your brain sends an impulse to the organ to induce an erection. 

    Therefore, using your penis makes it better. It stays healthy, in the right size and shape. Without erections, your penis would be about one to two centimeters shorter. However, when males have certain irregularities, it can prevent them from getting erections. These include diabetes which can lead to blood vessel damage or nerve damage.

    1. Your Penis Is Longer Than You Think

    Don’t feel too bad if you look at your penis and consider it too short, against your preference. They’re longer than you can see. It’s known that about half the whole length of your penis is kept inside your body. This is important in keeping your body’s anatomy in a normal and healthy form. So, your penis is longer than it looks. 

    If you think you have a short penis, you should take solace in that fact. If you have a long one, then you have more in store.

    1. Penis Size Does Not Affect Erection Size 

    You cannot completely conclude that the size of your penis determines the size of your erection. This is why you shouldn’t feel bad about the size of your penis. A small-looking penis might have big erections as much as a big-looking penis. 

    Some penises grow much longer during erection, while others don’t make much difference. Nevertheless, the size of your penis doesn’t tell how much erection you would have or how well you would enjoy sexual activities.

    1. Your Penis Is Not The Only Main Pleasure Zone

    It’s mostly believed that the tip of the penis and the underside of its shaft are the most sensitive parts, especially for sexual pleasure. However, other erotic sensitive areas include the nipples, anus, scrotum, neck, etc. However, this doesn’t change the fact the tip of the penis and the shaft often have the highest sensitivity.

    1. Penis Becomes Less Sensitive As You Age

    It has been discovered that as men grow older, their penis loses its sensitivity. This isn’t a one-time thing, as the sensitivity declines gradually. It’s hard to know the exact ratio it reduces as age increases. You can measure penile sensitivity as the lowest sensory threshold to which you can still feel the stimulation. 

    Studies say that penile sensitivity starts to decline right from age 25. It falls rapidly between ages 65 and 75. However, most people are more bothered about loss or difficulty in ejaculation than a decline in penile sensitivity.

    1. Your Shoe Size Has Got Nothing To Do With It

    You might have heard of the myth that there’s a relationship between your shoe size and penis length. Let it be known from now on that it’s not true. There’s no clear correlation between your shoe size and the length of your favorite organ. 

    For the sake of correlation, there’s a more significant relationship between your penis length and index finger length, age, and height. So, drop that myth and cut yourself some slack regarding your shoe size.

    1. Morning Erection

    Although the reason has not been fully discovered, erections usually happen about three to five times at night. One of the possible importance is that it helps to prevent bedwetting because an erection suppresses the urge to urinate. This might not be a complete explanation, though.

    Conclusion

    These are some of the things you may not know about your penis. Frequent erections help keep your penis in shape and the correct size. Also, the length or size of your penis doesn’t directly relate to how big your ejaculation is.


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  • Influencer Natasha Conceicao

    Influencer Natasha Conceicao

    SimplySxy catches up with digital creator Natasha Leah Conceicao to learn more about her love for food, travel wishes and what turns her off on a date!

    How is your fashion style like and where do you draw your fashion inspiration from?

    I think over the years I’ve realised that I really like solid colours. I’m not a mega fan of patterns too. I also like to think that my style is more on the chic side.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    People are always telling me that I have very long legs haha, and I guess that’s my favourite part of myself!

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you and do you have any favourites?

    I consider myself quite a foodie, every other weekend you can find me at a new cafe or restaurant that had opened up! One of my favourite cafes that’s worth checking out is coexist — they have one of the prettiest spaces and I love their sweet pear tea! 

    Is there a city or country you’ve always like to travel to for a holiday?

    I’ve always wanted to go to Dolomites in Italy or Lake Como, I keep seeing reels of these places and it’s always so dreamy!

    Would you rather be able to control fire or water?

    Water for sure, because then you can low-key control humans since we’re made of 70% water haha.

    If you could time travel, what will you like to witness or experience?

    If I could time travel, I think I’d like to be those by standers in the background during ancient greek or the Egyptian empire.

    What turns you off on a date?

    I think if a guy is bad at conversation it’s a total mood killer, like honey I can’t be doing all the talking now can I?

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Natasha. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy to me is putting in the time and effort to do what makes you feel good, be it make up or wearing something cute. As long as you’re feeling yourself, that’s all the sexy that you need queen.


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  • What Is The Standard Sexual Frequency For Each Age?

    What Is The Standard Sexual Frequency For Each Age?

    It is a mistake to think that age does not interfere with sexual intimacy between four walls. This is because studies have shown that age plays an important role in factors such as frequency and quality of sex life.

    But… what is the average number of sexual relations for each age? Do young people have much more sex than adults, as one might imagine?

    No doubt this varies by age, depending on various factors, such as health, libido and lifestyle.

    According to an American study by the Kinsey Institute for Research on Sex, Gender and Reproduction, the tendency is to decrease over the years and even vary from once a week to once a month.

    Sexual frequency by age

    In summary, the study says that young people between the ages of 18 and 29 have approximately 112 sexual relations a year, corresponding to three encounters a week. Then adults between the ages of 30 and 39 have an average of 1.6 sexual relations per week. And those known as mature, have 69 relationships a year, or 1.3 relationships a week, which is a little more than half compared to the youngest.

    But, what are the factors that influence each stage?

    Undoubtedly, the research result is related to the passing of the years, the stress of daily life, the obligations and family routine, including also the loss of physical and mental fitness, which are certainly aggravating for the decrease of sexual frequency.

    The scientific journal The Journal of Sex Research, also published that the physical changes that happen as the years go by, added to feeling older, can influence overall ability.

    In short, these studies point out that as we age, our chances of developing chronic health conditions increase and end up negatively affecting the frequency and quality of sexual activity.

    Marriage and sex

    Naturally, as you can imagine, marriage has its share of blame when it comes to sexual frequency. This is because 34% of married people have sex between two and three times a week, 45% have it a few times a month and 13% only a few times a year. This often leads to infidelities with acquaintances or professionals, such as escorts from Skokka.

    In other words, marriage is an essential reason for sexual frequency, because in addition to 34% admitting to having sex between two and three times a week, the research concludes that married or engaged people who have sex on a regular basis are arguably happier, not having frequent need for the practice. Sex is more enjoyable when relationships per week reach an average of four or more times, compared to those who have sex only once in the same period.

    As far as this “enjoyment” is concerned, the researchers state that it is the more mature and committed women who enjoy relationships more, because with age they get to know themselves, and also the couple, since even though they don’t have sex as regularly as in their younger days, the quality undoubtedly outweighs the quantity.

    No doubt, with time, women focus less on the sexual frequency and more on the emotional and intimate points of sex, also emphasizing the knowledge of their own bodies.

    It is clear then that relationships without commitment do not compare in quality with those of a steady, married relationship.

    Does sexual interest wither with age?

    We immediately reassure everyone by answering no. According to another study conducted on the sexuality of men and women between the ages of 40 and 80, it was found that interest in sex does not decrease as age advances.

    On the contrary: for 80 percent of men and 60 percent of women, sex is an important part of their lives and essential to their well-being and happiness.

    For the experts involved in the research conducted by the University of Chicago, the numbers are higher than imagined. Perhaps because we always consider that only young people have a sexual appetite, but the research proves that no, age does not influence sexual appetite. This is why a considerable percentage of the clients of the sexy escorts in Sunshine Coast are elderly.

    Scientists have realized how necessary it is to make sure that the quality of these sexual relations remains good as men and women enter their old age.

    The sexual behavior of 26 thousand men and women between 40 and 80 years of age were evaluated in 28 countries, including Brazil, where the research was conducted by the Oswaldo Cruz Foundation (Fiocruz).

    Contrary to what specialists have always thought, men and women over 40 continue not only to find sex important, but also to practice it with regular frequency.

    More than half of those who participated guaranteed that they have sex between one and six times a week. In Brazil, 75% of the men and women interviewed said that they have sex at least once a week.

    The scientists said that the data are very similar to the times that younger people have sex. On the other hand, doctors point out, however, that the quality of relations tends to get worse with age. Between 39% and 44% of those interviewed claimed to suffer from sexual problems.

    What are the most common problems?

    They are related to difficulty in erection in men and reaching orgasm in women. Therefore, it is important to take care of sexual health because it has been proven that sex is essential for human beings practically until the end of their lives.

    It is essential to develop new therapies, medicines for sexual problems, and also to deal with sexology without taboos, naturally, as it should be.

    Having sex frequently is good for your health

    With all the research, the benefits of sex have also been proven to help lower blood pressure, reduce stress, anxiety, and help with sleep quality.

    Let’s take care of our sexual health!


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  • Influencer Vannesa Chong

    Influencer Vannesa Chong

    Normally I buy my clothes from Cotton On, Reishop, and some others clothes that I didn’t wear before with different shops.

    Do you have any favorite pastimes or hobbies?

    I love to dance and sing. I also love to learn new skills in terms of talent.

    Which beauty products are a must have in your collection?

    Innisfree, as long as it is suitable for me also can.

    If you could meet anyone past or present, who will it be?

    I guess no one, no regrets.

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do or learn but yet to find the time for it?

    Yes, I wish that I can learn to play the piano. 

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of an outdoors person are you?

    6, as I also need me time for myself. 

    What turns you off on a date?

    Attitude problems.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Vannesa. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Nice body shape, include internally personality to it out, and the clothes that bring fashions to bring out more.


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  • Vietnamese Cosplayer Meizy

    Vietnamese Cosplayer Meizy

    Meizy here; it’s nice to meet you everybody. I was born in Vietnam. First an introvert, then an extrovert, I’m highly sensitive to everything.

    How long have you been cosplaying and why do you love to cosplay?

    Since 2019, and what makes cosplay so enjoyable for me? Not sure… Honestly, I just want to see what it’s like to be beautiful for once. Because I lack confidence in my own physical appearance, and I’d like to experiment with assuming a new identity.

    Which character have you enjoyed cosplaying most so far?

    I feel so strongly about Mashu that I’ve already cosplayed her for six versions.

    Do you follow a beauty regime to look so beautiful?

    Absolutely not… To top it all off, I just had a baby, so my figure is still a bit plump lol.

    What is your favorite food or drink?

    Milk teaaaaaaa~

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    I can make money appear from nowhere if I just snap my fingers haha.

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    Since having children, I go to bed and get up at unusual hours… Consequently, I have no idea what personality.

    What is a funny attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Actually… I’m confused by this inquiry…

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Meizy. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    A person who is naturally alluring and appealing :>


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  • The Ultimate Guide to the Best Sex Tape Sites

    The Ultimate Guide to the Best Sex Tape Sites

    The internet is a vast and wonderful place full of all kinds of content to keep you entertained. And while there’s plenty of PG-rated stuff out there to enjoy, sometimes you just want something a little more explicit.

    If that’s what you’re in the mood for, then you’ll be happy to know that there are plenty of great sex tape sites out there. Whether you’re looking for amateur couples, porn stars or Dating Sex Tapes, there’s bound to be something to suit your taste.

    To help you out, we’ve put together an article about sex tapes and the best sex tape sites. So whether you want to watch some steamy footage or even upload your own, be sure to check out our article.

    What is a sex tape and why are sex tapes popular?

    A sex tape is a video or photograph that captures sexual activity. It is usually made with the knowledge and consent of one or more of the people involved.

    People can have different reasons for enjoying sex tapes. Some people might find them arousing or exciting, while others might enjoy watching them for the voyeuristic thrill. Some people might also enjoy seeing their favorite celebrities in intimate situations.

    What kind of content can be found on sex tapes sites?

    There are a variety of different types of content that can be found on sex tapes sites. This can include everything from amateur videos to professional productions. 

    There is also a wide range of different genres and categories of content available, such as porn videos and XXX tapes, so there is something for everyone. 

    Whether you are looking for something specific or just want to browse, there is sure to be something that interests you.

    What to look for in a sex tape site

    There are a few things you should look for in a sex tape site. 

    First, make sure that the site is secure and that your personal information will be protected. You don’t want your sex life to be made public, so make sure the site you choose is discreet.

    Second, make sure the site has a good selection of videos. You don’t want to be stuck watching the same old thing over and over again. There should be a variety of different videos to choose from, so you can find something that interests you.

    Third, make sure the videos are high quality. You don’t want to end up with a grainy, low-quality video that you can’t even enjoy. Choose a site that offers high-quality videos, so you can get the most out of your experience.


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  • Where to Find the Best VR Porn Online

    Where to Find the Best VR Porn Online

    If you’ve been hearing about how intense and exciting VR porn can be and want to try it for yourself, it can be hard to know where to start looking. Sure, you’ve got a VR headset and have clocked a few hours playing Beat Saber or Tetris Effect but now it’s time to take things to a more adult level. This look at the leading VR porn providers aims to remove all difficulty in finding VR satisfaction for all kinds of users.

    VRPorn.com

    Hosting free and premium virtual sex from a huge range of studios, producers and indie creators, VRPorn.com has rightfully earned the nickname “The Netflix of VR porn.” From top-tier experiences from major studios (including all those listed below) to seriously exciting efforts from amateur outfits and independent porn creators, this massive site could easily fulfill your every adult VR desire. Hetero, lesbian, and gay sex featuring couples, trios, and groups all exist side-by-side in perfect digital harmony. Ease of use is also very high here as VRPorn.com not only provides formats to suit all the major VR devices but offers guides on how to get up and running, and make the most of your chosen hardware. Providing Ultra-HD streams and downloads of hyper-realistic and vividly immersive content, the 6K and 8K experiences found at VRPorn.com can match anything you might find elsewhere.

    VR Bangers

    Bringing users high-quality virtual sex encounters with world-class performers in a glossy, colorful style, VR Bangers has become a world leader in VR porn. From its beginnings in 2015 to the present day, VR Bangers has maintained a consistent style and approach: cast a stunning porn performer in a story-based scene that’s fun, lively, and fantasy-based, and shoot it with a high degree of style and skill. VR Bangers continues to impress as it grows its collection of original creations.

    RealJamVR

    Producing original encounters with world class pornstars and impressive newcomers, RealJamVR sits in the upper echelon of VR porn creators. Offering users a great range of viewing options including 6K and 7K resolutions, and 180° views, RealJamVR’s strengths lie in its casting of both European and North American stars, realistic fantasy-informed scenarios, and booming collection of more than 250 original encounters.

    VirtualRealPorn

    A true standout even among the world’s leading VR porn studios, VirtualRealPorn takes a different approach than most to its original immersive sexual encounters. Often using dark or dimly lit scenes to excite a more sensual and erotic response from users, VirtualRealPorn’s distinct style and breathtaking European cast has earned it huge acclaim. Throw in impressive tech specs like 8K resolutions and teledildonic capabilities, and and this booming collection of sophisticated productions not only packs incredible erotic power but visual potency, too.

    Flingster

    Flingster is an adult video sex chat site where people go to meet strangers online. Through a webcam, users meet and chat with others from all over the world. The site has chat rooms for people with various interests: roleplay, BDSM, mature, lesbian, stranger chat, sex chat, and more.

    Best of the Rest

    Although these highly regarded studios and content providers may deliver pretty much anything and everything a VR porn fan, new or veteran, could want, there exist plenty of other outlets catering to more niche interests. TadPoleXXXStudio presents amateur gangbangs so realistic they’re almost alarming. CovertJapan showcases gorgeous Japanese women in epic (and uncensored) hardcore encounters. VRedging teases rock hard men and keeps them (and VR viewers) right on the cusp of ecstasy for intense fetishistic fun. And there are no prizes for guessing what kind of women VRLatina focuses on… Thankfully, the aforementioned VRPorn.com features all these studios along with many dozens more, giving you a complete overview of just how far adult virtual reality entertainment has come, and where it’s headed in the future.


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  • The Most Popular Apps and Platforms in the Current Dating Scene

    The Most Popular Apps and Platforms in the Current Dating Scene

    It’s no secret that people and trends change a lot. So, with all the trends and changes people are making in society, it’s no surprise that the dating scene is following suit. Simply saying “oh well things are more online now” is wrong. If you’ve ever used online dating services or know someone that does, you’ll quickly realize that a dating app or service just acts as the middleman prior to two people meeting each other in person. People spend almost no time talking back and forth in the dating apps or websites and move on directly to meeting each other for lunch or for a drink. 

    Rarely you’ll have people meeting on an app or website and getting to know a person there. 

    The getting-to-know a person always either happens through a phone call or video call if distance is a thing, but mostly starts off like mentioned, with going out for a drink or lunch. That’s where you then actually get to know the other person. You don’t get to know people on an app or a website – you get to know the other person when meeting them face-to-face. 

    In the current day and age there are so many online dating services, hookup sites and dating apps that virtually anyone can find their match. No matter if you’re looking for a simple one-night-stand or something more long-term, chances are you’ll definitely find it online. Here, we’ll discuss just some of these websites and apps that can help you out. 

    Tinder

    Tinder is a dating platform suitable for anyone, no matter what your sexual orientation may be. Tinder has been around ever since 2012, with the global roll out in 2017, bringing people together internationally. 

    Tinder is one of the most popular services out there, more focused on serious orientated relationships rather than hookups. However, that doesn’t mean you can’t find both there. As it is international you may see people being in a LDR meaning a “Long Distance Relationship” which almost 100% takes place online and through video calls. 

    Tinder is considered a part of the “big tech” companies since it makes use of in-app microtransactions which allow users to buy credits and upgrade plans. Although tinder is mainly free for everyone, many features are blocked behind this paywall, which is kind of putting a limit on the growth of the company. 

    Grindr 

    Grindr is an app mainly frequented by gay people. This is the first one on the list that is officially labeled a hookup app. The platform briefly featured an online web version but now is just sticking to the mobile app. How Grindr works is you get a list or roster of people nearby who you can directly message and then meet up in future. It is labeled as a hookup app but long term relationships also arise from this app often. However, about 85% of the user base active on the platform are mostly just looking for a hookup. The platform allows for nudity to be posted in certain “special” albums and profiles, but certain criteria must be followed.

    Bumble 

    Bumble is almost exactly the same as Tinder. Some may argue that it is a so-called “copycat” but the one key takeaway of this platform is that more features are free rather than on Tinder, which is making you pay for everything. Bumble is a dating platform suitable for any gender or sexuality. On this platform, one can find both hookups and serious relationships, as well as friends with benefits and similar arrangements.

    Also, long-distance relationships often start on platforms like Bumble. 

    Bumble has been around since 2014, which makes it 2 years younger than Tinder. Both platforms offer upgrades on your account for a set monthly fee. 

    Badoo 

    A lesser popular one, more popular in Western Europe, Badoo brings the best of both worlds all the while keeping microtransactions at a minimum. Badoo was early to the party and was released in 2012, just like Tinder. Badoo is a safe space for LGBTQA+ people and straight people alike. Badoo has been kind of turned into a more of a hookup culture app over the years. It was never the original intent of the developers to make it operate in that kind of way. 

    Badoo is also not afraid to implement new and experimental features, which continue to make the app relevant and attractive to modern-day users.

    Let’s talk all things money 

    The majority of dating platforms make money through advertisements and microtransactions, which is really not surprising. Many patrons also commonly buy things over these platforms. But aside from these means, platforms often provide a way for users to pay for a monthly subscription to unlock features that were otherwise not accessible. Often an app will tell you that you are way more likely to meet someone whilst using one of their plans but in reality the chances are more or less exactly the same. 

    Here are just some of the prices of plans you can expect:

    Tinder

    Tinder Gold and Tinder Plus start at $29.99 and $19.99 per month, respectively, but drop in price the longer you commit. Boosts cost $3.99 each, and Super Likes will run you $0.99 each for a pack of five, but both get progressively cheaper the more you buy.

    Grindr 

    This new, Unlimited version goes for $300 per year. It is not a stretch to say that Grindr is a staple in the gay community. You can also choose to pay 49$/month for the unlimited version of the app. 

    Bumble

    Bumble is free to use, but you can pay to unlock new features like advanced filters and profile boosts. The Bumble Boost plan costs $16.99 per month, and gives unlimited likes and “rematches.” Bumble’s more expensive Premium subscription costs $39.99 a month, or $229.99 for a lifetime plan.

    Badoo

    Badoo is initially free to use. But if you want to buy Badoo credits to use premium features, they must be bought in packages that range from $2.99 (USD) to $19.99 (USD). You can also buy Badoo Premium subscriptions that cost from $0.79 (USD) per day to $59.99 (USD) for a lifetime.


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  • How To Spice Up Your Sex Life In A Long-Distance Relationship

    How To Spice Up Your Sex Life In A Long-Distance Relationship

    Long-distance relationships pose many challenges, though perhaps the biggest downside of being apart from your significant other aside from, obviously, not seeing each other, is not being able to enjoy sexual intimacy as frequently as most folks do. Your relationship’s sexual wellness and physical intimacy are not only one of the most important aspects of a relationship, but it’s also the area that is heavily impacted when in a long-distance relationship. If you’re not working to keep your sexuality connected to your partner when you can’t physically touch them, it becomes less of a romantic relationship. You lose the intimacy that you have when you’re with someone in real life. 

    The solution? Work at it tirelessly and be creative. Both you and your significant other should be willing to get open, playful, and inventive to keep the sparks of your love life burning. To keep a fire ablaze, you tend to it. You position the logs just right, add kindling, and fan the flame. Paying close attention to and caring for the fire keeps it from burning out. Here lies the secret to keeping the spark alive in your long-term relationship, whether you’re 200 miles apart or 2,000.

    Exchanging Sex Toys Gifts

    If you’re already using sex toys in your intimate play, chances are you can already see where all the buzz is coming from. Including a new element of titillating fun to your steamy FaceTime rendezvous keeps your long-term relationship fresh, dynamic, and vibrant.

    Whether you’re on the prowl for the perfect naughty gift for your long-distance significant other or simply want to spice it up, sex toys such as vibrating dildos can be a wonderful idea, and with a good reason. To begin with, it’s literally everything the sexperts say a perfect gift should be – fun, thrusting, thoughtful, and useful. Plus, if you’re giving it to your partner-in-crime, it’s the type of gift you’re likely to benefit from as well!

    When we give a toy to ourselves or others, we’re not just giving that person a piece of silicone – we’re also inviting them into a conversation with their body, their pleasure, and with us.

    Set the Mood

    When you’re apart and haven’t seen each other for a while, intimacy can feel like it suddenly requires a lot of groundwork and planning. Needless to say, it can be both an awkward subject to bring forth and also a difficult adjustment to make. It’s hard to feel hot under bright LED lights that make you feel you’re in a very important meeting or a calibration call with your EMEA colleagues. So, turn off that harsh bedroom light!

    Instead, opt-in for a bedside table or floor lamp, sweep by Walmart and buy bulbs with warmer, more sensitive hues. Candles? If that’s your flavor, lighting some candles or hanging string lights around your bed can also help create a more romantic, emotionally-dense atmosphere. Not only will it help create an intimate environment for you and your partner, but this kind of lighting is also more flattering and will help you feel more sensual and sexy.

    Sexting

    What about 👉🏻👌🏻💦💦? Or maybe 🍑👅? Serenading your beloved by the window of his or her house, sending handwritten love letters through the mail, no one ever does these things anymore. Nowadays, it’s all about sexting, online dating, and maybe even a sex emoji here and there. If you want to show your affection, express your passion, or just create a more easy-going atmosphere in your long-distance relationship, sexting through sex emoji combinations is just what you need for a great end result. They can be friendly, cute, or pretentious, but they′ll always be very dirty. Just like you are 😈!

    With anything sexting, timing is everything – find out what your partner is doing before you jump into it. Start slow and slowly build up like you with the conversation. You’d be surprised that sexting feels and looks almost like regular sex. Don’t deprive your significant other of the important details, don’t hold back, and include anything and everything that comes to your mind. Sexting is a great way to spice up your long-distance relationship, moreover, it’s one of those helpful tools to help you reminisce about the days of old and all of the gratifying intimate experiences you’ve shared together. 💋🍆👅🍑💦

    FaceTime Sex

    Some folks say that having cybersex over FaceTime builds faux intimacy. Think phone sex or sexting but on steroids. Now that you’ve sexted your brains out, it may be the perfect moment to culminate together over FaceTime and show each other the real goodies that made you fall in love with each other those years ago. Steamy FaceTime sessions bring a different layer of intimate wellness by providing you and your partner with exciting visuals. Whether you haven’t had sex IRL before or have been for years, exploring being your naughty self over video chat with your partner can help you learn about their sexual preferences in a new way. You’ll get to see exactly how they like to touch themselves, which is a great way to better understand how to please them when you are together.

    Have Meaningful Conversations

    Did you know that your brain is the most powerful sex organ? That’s right! We won’t lie if we say meaningful conversations are exchanged between sapiosexual humans. While sex is important, most long-distance relationships are built on meaningful conversations. A sapiosexual is someone who finds intelligence sexually attractive or arousing. One of many keys to a long-lasting long-distance relationship is the process of having regular, meaningful conversations – whether it’s about that new vibrating dildo you’re gifting your partner or the plans of Elon Musk to colonize Mars, thoughtful convos remain one of the best ways to keep the spark between partners lit.


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  • 4 Sex Tips For Same-Sex Couples

    4 Sex Tips For Same-Sex Couples

    You think you know it all and that’s fine. Yes, when you first started dating, everything was exhilarating, just looking at your boyfriend made you want to rip his clothes off and eat his cake right there. Perhaps there were even times when you couldn’t even control yourself and you would just do it in a bathroom at a friend’s party. However, this ‘hot, heavy, and always ready’ stage, regrettably, always wanes.

    Even when gay couples presume they’ve mastered the art of lovemaking, they come to realize that they can always learn new ways of being erotic and sexual with their significant other, leading the relationship to a whole other dimension that was never thought plausible before.

    Change Up Locations

    Getting your freak on doesn’t always have to take place in the bedroom. Smart same-sex couples are stepping up their game and taking their lovemaking sessions to the restaurants, clubs, outdoors, and even at church. By changing up the usual locations where you lay the hammer, you and your partner adjust the depth of your emotional connection by hitting right at home in a plethora of new, previously unthinkable, ways. Changing up locations isn’t just for the sake of new, exciting, and fun intercourse – different locations can act like that dash of salt you and your partner have been yearning for.

    Sleep Naked

    Ready to score TONS of health and sex benefits? Sleep naked with your partner. Sleeping in the buff with your partner definitely has its perks and benefits – like getting to snuggle up against their warm body instead of their boring banana pajama set or an overworn-out t-shirt. But that’s not the only benefit of going to bed in your birthday suit. Actually, whether you sleep alone or with your significant other, snoozing with nothing but your skin on can improve both your health and sex life. Ready to look fall asleep faster, enjoy deep sleep, look younger, reduce stress and anxiety, boost your confidence, and have waaay more sex? We bet you are!

    Don’t Skip Foreplay

    While same-sex couples are sometimes having a quick hot session, it’s important to remember that both partners go through a lot of trouble to ensure they’re ready for action and some salacious slip-and-slide action. Sex is so much more than just penetration – lots of foreplay helps prolong the act of pleasure and elevates both your and your partner’s arousal and desire boundaries. Touch and kiss everywhere to stimulate his entire body with hot kisses in varying pressure, moreover, gently bite here and there (you know where!). Explore each other’s bodies and learn where your erogenous zones are so that both of you are aware of how to stimulate more. Get that cake ready for grand entrance by teasing and stimulating with your fingers, tongue, perhaps a realistic dildo, the tip of your penis, etc. Either way, you are both going to show each other some great time, however, ideally, you’d like to have your partner writhing in ecstasy, begging to be mounted on your piercing pole.

    Talk About It

    If you are having a hard time talking about sex with your lover(s), you might want to start with non-sexual emotional vulnerability and intimacy. Talk about your fears, your dreams, your insecurities, and your passions that have nothing to do with sex. Doing so will help you realize that vulnerability is a very rewarding and safety-building process. Log some time experiencing just how safe vulnerability can be and how much emotional intimacy it can create. In this context, you will create an exciting climate and will learn to trust the process of healthy vulnerability, which will lead to meaningful talks about sex. Pave the way to talking about sex by being vulnerable in other areas.

    Fantasies are a healthy for a relationship, and in addition to that, if you go along with one or all of them, you might find unknown levels of pleasure. You may actually discover that you enjoy getting your booty worked up with a realistic dildo or are aroused by a certain fetish or role play that never crossed your mind before.


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