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Author: Arden Moon

  • How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

    How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

    My personal views on sex are vast. I find most people acquaint their sex life to dating type relationships. What most refer to as vanilla. To me sexuality is a huge playing field, from trying out new toys to swinging and fetish. It’s a chance to explore and become more self-confident while satisfying inner most desires. Sex is an important factor of a balanced life whether I’m in a relationship or not. Sex is beneficial for the mind and body. As long as no one is being harmed, there is no right or wrong. It’s all about what’s right for you. I actually categorize sex as a form of self care.

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    Experiment!

    Experimenting is something I find to be really fun with a partner. I’m a visual person. Toys are a lustful interest of mine. I have several luggage bags full of vibrators, dildos and such from my experimental journeys, whether alone or on a group venture. It’s my feeling that experimenting brings couples closer together. My consorts always keep me mentally stimulated with an amazing variety of interests. I adore going along for the ride. Sometimes we have to play a little naughty doctor or maybe dress up. A man isn’t a man until he has strapped on a garter and heels. Other times they like diving into a true release with a little domination or sensual bondage. As long as there is no physical or mental damage taking place. I am all about experimenting. Fear doesn’t belong in the bedroom. You need to push boundaries to discover new areas of enjoyment. You may even learn something about yourself along the way.

    Non-Existent Sex Lives

    Any relationship is work. To have a great sex life, you have to put effort into it like any other aspect of your relationship. Very often, kids and a busy lifestyle are the main issue for couples trying to stay intimate. It’s really hard after a long day to feel sexy. Unresolved arguments, or lack of communication can also be the culprit. Feeling like you’re never on the same page is an easy way to hinder sex. When you’ve been together for years things are bound to get boring. If your intent is to have a healthy sex life, some efforts in the right direction are easy to spice things up.

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    Ways To Spice Things Up

    The first step to spicing up a couple’s love life is communication. I know this may sound cliche. You would be surprised how often couples are not even on the same page when it comes to sex. Building trust through open communication is the step that launches you into a better sex life. I’d advise setting aside time to have an open honest, non-judgemental conversation about things you’ve been dying to try. This can lead to experimenting with different toys and positions. It can start off simple, perhaps a strategically placed vibrator during oral sex for him or her. Often, role play or a trip into a bit of submission territory with her at the wheel.

    I find that many couples who have gotten that far have an amazing sex life. Playtime can then escalate to new adventures. Encounters such as threesomes may come into play. Which for this I always advise hiring a professional escort. It’s just a safer way to go both emotionally and professionally. It alleviates any concerns of affairs or gossip after the fact. Women or men well versed in entertaining couples can help guide the way to a truly intimate, exciting and eye opening experience.

    Another suggestion I like to make is separate bedrooms. If you have the space to do, it’s not wrong to have your own space to sleep in. This aids in two ways. One, you always get a good night sleep. Two, when you do come together for sex it can almost be a bit of a date night. It actually takes some effort and thought. There’s something special about it. No one is rolling over for a quickie. Although you may argue over who has to sleep in the wet spot.

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    The Benefits Are Endless

    Adventurous couples are very often best friends, lovers and life partners who live enriched lives through these experiences. The act of experimenting together helps create a deeper level of trust and intimacy. The openness to communicate desires, boundaries and curiosities can only make a relationship stronger when approached as a team effort. Physical benefits also prevail. Sexually active men and women tend to be healthy and carry less stress versus their less active counter parts.

    Endorphins are believed to help fight depression. Serotonin has a euphoric effect on the brain. This is why humans are often in “in love” after having a sexual encounter. Women can greatly benefit from regular orgasms. These muscle reactions actually help to tighten the vaginal walls, which helps fight off muscular atrophy which occurs as we age. The perks to spicing up your sex life are amazing to the mind, body and relationship in more ways than most people truly recognize.

    I’m Arden Moon a career courtesan and industry adviser. When I’m not planning the next erotic adventure. I can be found enjoying my fitness routine, golf or writing. I’ve authored two books relating to the internet escorting industry. Residing in the playground called Las Vegas. Life is a non stop party. You can catch me in a city near you as I tour the US in 2016. Follow me at ArdenMoon.com, Twitter @VipArdenMoon and Instagram @ArdenMoon

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  • Sexy Reads – Dear John, Escorting Bloopers and Blunders

    Sexy Reads – Dear John, Escorting Bloopers and Blunders

    Arden Moon is a career courtesan and author of “The Courtesan Handbook”. Her passion for the centuries-old art of companionship has led her to adventures across the globe. Each escapade lighting the way to the commonalities all escorts share. Years of experience have gone into educating those open to learning more about the art of the professional companion. “Dear John” is comprised of the salacious, awkward and sometimes comical events escorts find themselves in. A humorous look at the familiar situations for both escort and client. Arden Moon brings her own brand of wit to this satire on escorting in the digital age.

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  • Sexy Reads – The Courtesan Handbook

    Sexy Reads – The Courtesan Handbook

    Do you dream of designer clothes, fine jewelry, five star dining, and vacations to luxury resorts? For centuries, certain women have made their living simply by living a fantasy lifestyle. Historically, such a woman was called a “courtesan.”

    Today, women who live this luxury lifestyle, and get paid to do so, are known as “high-end escorts.” It is a world that can provide a woman with financial security in addition to glitz and glamour. It has also been a world that few have been able to enter. Until now.

    In The Courtesan Handbook, Arden Moon mentors her readers using her years of experience and a passion for the art of escorting. The author has had enormous success in the industry both before and after the business transitioned into a mainly digital industry. Escorting can lead to an incredible lifestyle for any woman. However, entering the upper echelon and mastering the craft is virtually impossible without the sort of valuable knowledge offered within this book. If you have ever thought about being an escort or are a novice wishing to expand your knowledge and increase the caliber of your clientele, then The Courtesan Handbook is your perfect step-by-step guide.

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    After getting down to you under clothes the fun begins. In my sexy bra and matching g-string I’ll ask him to lay face down. From my bag I pull out the massage oil and harm a bit between my hands. Take the warm oil and spread it across his back. Gently spread it over the entire back area and across the shoulders. Start with the neck area and a gentle kneading motion. Begin to work your way down to the shoulder blades.

    Be sure to pay equal attention to both sides. You will work your way down the back to you get to the lower back, the lumbar region. If he still has on his boxers then this is a good time to slowly remove them. After you have slipped them down and off around the ankles. Begin to massage his lower back and buttocks area. Now you want to turn this to more of a full body massage. By this point you are most likely a good 20 minutes into your hour. Begin to stimulate him sexually at the very base of his back and his buttocks. I suppose most would refer to that as the booty crack. Do this with your tongue, an exposed nipple, or by blowing gently blow on the oil.

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    However, if you want him to cum good oral skills can be a blessing. Many times men have a hard time reaching ejaculation with a condom. Many times I have lubed again and again followed by every position. Some men will not be able to cum with a condom on. You will want to have good oral skills to help finish him off. Good technique includes if you are able to take most of him in your mouth. Men who enjoy this typically enjoy nice long strokes with both mouth and hand. I find in this area men are never shy to let you know what they like. If you do this while gently stroking the shaft you may get a quick response. Other men are what I refer to as ‘headers’. This means the tip of the penis just under the head is their weak spot.

    Often licking just right, along with sucking a stroking of the head will also bring a man to his knees. A type of stroke for those with a sensitive tip is called ‘the twist’. The twist is where you take him in your mouth about half way down the shaft. Usually just enough the make it moist and warm. You stroke the shaft but alternate with you mouth and hand caressing around the tip. As you bring you hand to the top of the penis you twist your wrist. This creates a rotating sensation as you come up and go back down the head. This followed by your mouth causes and unending chain of stimulation. Learning to control the stimulation is important. Your client will probably tell you when is he is getting ready to reach his peak. By this point it may be too late to turn back. Learning to control the action is important and only comes with practice.

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