Kink Up Your Sex Life Through Self Gagging And Bondage

Sex is a kind of artistic expression with which you can explore so many sensory experiences, for me pursuing kinky activities is as much about performance as it is getting to cum in a new exciting way. To me I think exploring the ways in which you can experience sex has opened up my mind to other ideas even outside of the bedroom, becoming more accepting has certainly has benefited me in University.

The idea of BDSM and fetish communities can be a bit contrived and can illicit some very stereotypical images in peoples minds, I really like to get away from the old images of dank, dingy basements and leather to bring in some more cuteness and fun. I think being girly and kinky is something that’s has really framed my aesthetic for a while.

I think I’ve been curious about ‘different’ things my whole life and when I began to discover porn I think my interest extended into what weird and wonderful things I could find there. Let’s just say I had a verrryyy interesting search history in my teens!

My Very First Self Gagging Experience

I got an email from someone who found me on Twitter asking if I’d be interested in trying out self-gagging and at first I was a little apprehensive and especially so after looking at the other videos on his website as it was new territory for me. Gagging yourself feels a bit silly at the start but I really got myself into it.

I’d done a lot of videos surrounding solo BDSM activities but this one was different, I really had to replicate a feeling and a look that you’d expect to achieve with another person, it was a challenge! I really enjoyed it in the end, it’s a very psychological experience, I feel like I’ve really gone on a sexual exploration adventure after each video.

Favorite Self Gag Items

Well, ‘traditionally’ it’s panties, socks and ball gags that are used for this kink but my favorite so far has totally got to be a dildo. It was a challenge to deep throat the dildo AND tape over it to keep it in place but I was really pleased with the result, it’s very visually exciting and not something you immediately associate with these kinds of videos.

Why I Love It

I think it’s like a lot of submissive play, there’s elements of humiliation and limitation, which is really hot for me. I like that there’s a narrative created in the videos that people can project their own fantasies on to, I really get turned on knowing that I’m turning other people on, especially when it’s humiliating. It’s like a distant BDSM that gives people a range of ways with which they can view the experience and for me that’s amazing, it’s like choosing your own adventure book!

Self Gags With Bondage

I think the element of self-participating in self-gagging can really bring an interesting dimension to BDSM scenes. Usually with things like gagging, it’s something that’s done to you to be humiliating or limiting but when you begin to humiliate yourself in that way it really diversifies the experience and experimenting with experiences in BDSM is totally what it’s about.

Favorite Bondage Positions

I’m not a favorite having kind of girl but at the moment I’m really taken in by those anal hooks that are sometimes used in bondage. They are really visually stimulating and I’m really curious to find out what they feel like in action!

Misha Mayfair is an adult entertainment performer and escort living and studying in London. She started as a webcam model and has since ventured into lots of other exciting ways to explore her sexuality alongside working and studying. She really likes dogs, the colour green, drinking lots of wine and anal sex. Follow her on Twitter (@mishamayfair) and her gagging works www.selfgags.com

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