Humiliation by Mistress Violet

Humiliation is a word used in the fetish scene and has 100 meanings. For some, humiliation is being forced to shag a blow up doll because they are not worthy of real women. Others find it humiliating to be used as a human toilet (My personal opinion of the toughest form of humiliation) either for watersports purposes or hardsports. Sometimes it can be having their arse trained and forcing them to suck a strap on. For others, it’s as simple as calling them a fat bastard or a virgin.

There are such things as SPH (small penis humiliation) that some submissives and slaves say that it ‘does nothing for them’ and others who can’t get enough of being told that their pathetic little cock would never please anyone, that they’re not allowed to use it and locking it away (in chastity) is the only option.

I think some, at the point in time really don’t enjoy what they’re doing. For example, if I’m forcing my divine caviar down a slave’s throat, some will cry, some will beg you to stop but they don’t mean it. They want this to happen. I’ve been told by many that it comes from hindsight, looking back and reliving the humiliation over and over again.

I think the sexual relation to humiliation often comes from a certain amount of anger or embarrassment towards what you’re making them do and the adrenaline that comes with it, the equal balance of excitement and fear. Humiliation slaves like to be used. Of course each individual’s kink is different but each kink is easily manipulated into what I want it to be. I can use anal and strap on play as a reward to a slave for pleasing me during sessions and I can use it as a chance to dress them up like a sissy slut, punish them and humiliate them.

Many submissive men like mind play, it’s as simple as telling them that I will rent them out to other men, I will force them to suck real cock if they don’t do as I wish. I find that mind play and humiliation is often key in financial domination. The act itself that they have to ask for their own money to get anything they require is humiliating for them.

In addition, I also have a lot of requests for either another mistress to watch or a ‘vanilla’ audience, someone to watch them who isn’t really aware of what is coming and whose laughter is true, someone who will truly find them to be disgusting or ridiculous.

So what is humiliation? There is no one answer and it is subject to the individual, a wide variety of fun and wonder to be discovered. Entertainment for me at a submissive’s discomfort.

In all d/s relationships, limits must be respected and are discussed beforehand but don’t expect to get out of it lightly. If you say ‘no’ I will push you, it’s my job and in my opinion. After all, I wouldn’t be any good at it if I gave you a ‘get out of jail free’ card.

All images courtesy of Mistress Violet
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