What It’s Like To Be An Over 50s Provider
For me, an escort is providing more than a simple in/out service. There can often be meals shared, events attended, holidays taken together, deeper and more personal conversation, cooking and in many cases the development of genuine relationships with long term clients. All held within the boundaries of the amount of time booked and the envelope.
I consider escorting to be a branch of Health and Wellness work because intimacy and natural sexual expression is so critical to our wellbeing, far more than our society tends to recognize or feel comfortable acknowledging. Imagine if it was supported by your healthcare plan! So, that’s my way of saying I am a big fan of it. And may I add, I wish there were more men in Canada offering it for me!
My Impression Of Sex Work Before I Started
I of course have always been aware of the providers on the street but until I began this work I actually had no real awareness of escorting, of another dimension of sex work so to speak. During my Social Services education, I did a big paper on pornography as it was such a presence in my childhood through my father and really impacted my body image and sexual identity. That was more on my radar than anything else. I think I was craftily saving myself a sweet surprise for later in my life.
Is Being A Provider Over 50s Unique?
If it were not for Twitter I would have next to no awareness of the amount of beautiful, passionate mature women in the field. I think if you could do a census, you would find the majority of women are younger but I am beginning to think it would not be by as much of a big margin as I would have previously thought.
What Inspired You To Become An Escort As A Mature Woman?
After making my way though the dating and hookup sites and becoming exhausted, my last civilian lover suggested I join an agency, just to see if that would be different. I went from researching agencies in my city on a Thursday, to an interview on Friday, a photo shoot on a Saturday and my first client on a Monday. After that encounter I lay back seeing that my access to men could now be unlimited and there was now an envelope to enjoy as well. I went independent within 3 months and have never looked back.
What Makes Me Ideal?
You will never meet another Mila. I am insatiably curious, open to experience yet grounded in the wisdom of lessons learned. I am my boundaries now, they are not something I impose or force, I am centered in myself and have nothing to prove to you. I adore the masculine and men! I do not identify as a feminist but rather am an avid promoter of common sense equality. I love exchange, of thoughts, insights, opinions, breath, touch. Eroticism, sensuality, seduction, the slow burn of good foreplay and anticipation all feed my spirit. If I choose you, I am with you totally. The Slavic woman that I am loves to host, to honor and indulge the guest, and the woman in me enjoys opening to male touch. And I am doing it all in a body that won’t quit!
Best Duration To Spend Time With Me
For me, 2.5 hrs has become my happy place. It allows enough time for you to arrive and ‘land’, to move naturally out of the entry to conversation and catching up to physical intimacy, if in fact that is what is desired, and then to being able to shower and dress without feeling forced out the door. My 1.5 hr visit is great for someone pressed for time, as that is how we can tend to feel in those 90mins which can contribute to a sense of delicious urgency. But it is best for a gentleman who knows how to help keep time because so often there is the potential to stay over time . And that, dear gentlemen, means you should always tip.
What Can A Gentleman Expect Or Prepare When With You?
First impression, you are going to meet a woman confident and comfortable in her skin, fully present with her attention and interested in you. Be prepared to enjoy conversation with someone who is eloquent, aware and informed, not just by information but by life. I enjoy sharing the opinions and perspectives I have on a great variety of personal and global topics and I am also always open to hear other perspectives, to be informed in new ways. A few decades of life, experience and experimenting have brought me to a place personally that is grounded, well cultivated and relaxed and that in turn allows a curiosity and passion that burns in me like a wildfire to express itself freely.
Plus, I get all the memes, from all the decades! But really, what is mature except a sense of life lived, with enough time to see how things work out, and that can bring a deeper presence with less to prove and more to give. One of my most treasured quotes in this regard is this one from Anais Nin: We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension and not in another; unevenly. We are relative. We are mature in one realm, childish in another. The past, present and future mingle and pull us backward, forward or fix us in the present. We are made of layers, cells, constellations.
Mila Doval – I am a woman who loves being a woman and is deeply wired to indulge and enjoy men. I live on the youthful side of mature. I am cultured, experienced, travelled and bring a contagious enthusiasm and presence to all my encounters. Why? Because I love the play between the masculine and the feminine. I am wild about men who make an effort and who are enthusiastic about our time together. I will receive you in my private home. I do not entertain more than once per day or more than 4 times per week. When you are with me, I am all yours.
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