How To Have Self Bondage Fun

BDSM for me is like the deepest level of sex and intimacy.  It’s about more than basic pleasure, it’s about exploring every level of physical sensation, or controlling that sensation in others depending on what side of the leash you’re on at the moment.

What I Love About Bondage

Oh gods, do I have to pick just one thing?  Well, if I had to settle on one main thing I love, it would be the wild variety.  There is no one way to Dom or sub and there is no one way to get tied up.

What Is Self Bondage?

Well, it’s exactly what it sounds like.  Usually it involves tying yourself up or handcuffing yourself and just enjoying that sensation not helplessness.  A lot of people will add in toys as well, usually vibrators, to stimulate areas while being unable to easily remove them. 

Self Bondage Tips For Beginners

A lot of people shit talk fuzzy handcuffs, but to be honest, this is exactly the kind of thing they were made for.  You can pick them up in just about any adult store or section, and they have these nifty little release latches in case things go wrong or it’s just not your thing.

As for tips, the biggest one I can give is to just relax and enjoy yourself.  This is not something you should do spontaneously, this is something you should set up a scheduled time for.  And there are a ton of websites and resources online for tips and tricks depending on your exact situation. 

Favorite Items & Props Of Mine

I’m a huge fan of Shibari, have been for years, so rope is my usual go-to.  As for props, there are no beating the classics, and I have yet to meet something that beats the sheer versatility of my Hitachi wand.  However, my absolute fave prop is Lola, my fucking machine and reoccurring co-star.  There is no feeling quite like being tied up and having a piston ram into you at a constant rate and rep.

Ways To Kink Up Self Bondage

The best way to kink up self-bondage is to add more.  Get yourself a gimp hood and go full sensory-deprivation.  Freeze the key to your cuffs in a water bottle, so you can’t get out until it melts.  Get a webcam and livestream the whole thing to your partner. Take some edibles before hand, if that’s legal in your area.  The only limit to self-bondage is your own experience and imagination.

My name’s Roxxie Rae Page, I’m just your typical pan trans goth freak who loves dabbling in the kinkier side of things.  I’m a lifelong gamer, I love just about every genre of music, and I’m a firm believer that pineapples do in fact belong on pizza. 

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