I would say my overall thoughts about BDSM and kink are positive. I’m fairly young in the kink scene but I have had interest in these kind of things for some time now. As long as it is consensual and everyone is safe/aware of the risks, then I’m all for it.
Exploring My Interest In Bondage
My interest in bondage started in my teens. I just enjoyed the thought of being restrained in general. When I was about 20, I was really interested in the art of Shibari. Of course, I had no idea how to do it and where to even begin but, as an artist, I did find a lot of beauty in it.
I really didn’t get to explore bondage until a year ago. I finally immersed myself in my local kink scene and within a few months, I was getting tied up consistently. It just felt natural to me.
Why I Love Being Tied & Gagged
I guess it depends on how tight I’m getting tied and gagged haha. This will of course be subjective but when I’m in a more “comfortable” tie, it is relaxing. I go into a sub space and have a natural high. I also get very silly and joke around.
When I am in an extremely tight or difficult tie, it requires more processing. In something challenging, it is quite easy to panic because things feel difficult and you no longer have physical control. That is when you have to really meditate. I tell myself to stop and relax. I know I trust the person who is tying me and that they will take care of me. I know that if it is ever too much I can always get out. I also had to teach myself how to breathe in tougher ties because once you start hyperventilating, it’s a wrap. That’s a great way to get lightheaded and possibly pass out. It is almost like a mind game where you are constantly giving yourself a pep talk to continue. Once I can get to a calm place where I am meditating, I can then go into sub space and ride the high.
When I get out of those difficult ties, there is a sense of gratefulness that runs over me. I then get this wonderful natural high. I get it after I’m tied every time and it just feels like I got a boost of serotonin in my brain or like I just took some kind of natural upper. I love it! I also sleep really well that night haha.
I guess that is why I enjoy it. It is like a challenge and a way of meditation for me. It also makes me incredible happy and turns me on as well. It doesn’t turn me on to the point of orgasm on it’s own, but it definitely gives me what I need from rope.
My Favorite Bondage Content
I think one of my favorites is one I created with Cinched and Secured. It was the last forced orgasm bondage video for his website. I don’t know if it will be up just yet but there are more like it on his website CinchedandSecured.com. It is obviously my favorite because I love everything to do with forced orgasms. It is just so hot. I definitely recommend it if you like that kind of content too. It is just always a good time with him and our friend ILoveRopeBondage, who also joins us.
Another one of my favorites are some of the videos I do with JJPlush. It is such a turn on to be tied and roughed up by another woman. If you really like girl on girl bondage, then I wholeheartedly recommend checking out her site borntobebound.com.
As for a favorite video of mine that I sell, I think it’s my Birthday Bondage series. I uploaded 25 different bondage videos for my 25th birthday this year. My favorite ones in that one was when I was naked and chained up in my basement. It just had a nice dark and dirty aesthetic. All of those videos are in my ManyVids Store at Jayda Blayze.
Favorite Positions To Be Tied Up
I honestly don’t know if I necessarily have a favorite. I like all kinds of positions in their own way. I do really like to be suspended upside down. I think it reminds me of when I was a kid and I would hang upside down on the monkey bars haha. It’s just relaxing. I like to be suspended in general. I don’t get to do that as much but I really want to explore that more.
Incorporating Sex & Orgasms Into Bondage
I honestly have yet to incorporate sex and bondage. I hope to start doing that soon. As I have mentioned before, I have used toys in bondage in my forced orgasm scenes.
The way I like to incorporate it in my bondage is by using a vibrator or a dildo on a stick. I find them very pleasurable. I don’t have a particular position I have to be in to take the vibrator or dildo. As long as there are access to the holes, then it’s all good haha.
Jayda Blaze – I am a 25 year old, part time art student and a full time fetish model. I produce my own content as well as work with other producers. If I’m not making content, then I’m probably getting tied up, creating art or playing video games.
I am a 25 year old, part time art student and a full time fetish model. I produce my own content as well as work with other producers. If I’m not making content, then I’m probably getting tied up, creating art or playing video games.