Kink and an alternative lifestyle should be normalized just a little bit more because more people than you realize actually live life that way or have some interest in kink, but since it is so outcasted by society, people don’t accept it.
It would be nice if people were able to just express themselves and be into what they are into and not have to fear judgement. The kink society is a very welcoming community and a really good support system for people who need a way to express themselves differently than what society considers the norm.
What Is Inside A Dungeon?
Generally, a dungeon has some equipment that you can tie a person down to, usually a St. Andrews Cross, a bed of some sort, or a cage. All dungeons are different, but typically hitting implements (whips, paddles, floggers).
I bring my own equipment for electrical play, strap ons, and sounding kits that I am comfortable using and have a lot of experience working with. I keep my things separate and every girl usually brings their own equipment well. They are so many different things you use in the genre of Femdom and kink, it’s never going to be a limited list. I am constantly being brought new presents and toys that are fun to use.
The list can really go on forever, but some of the more popular ones are ropes for bondage, cuffs, blindfolds, clothespins, and sensory deprivation tools.
What Is Your Dungeon Of Choice?
I choose Mystique Chamber because it is the closest and most convenient for me to go to, and it is the only dungeon in the San Fernando Valley area. I was happy to find that all the other Domme’s are very similar to me, and we have all ended up bonding, connecting, and becoming very good friends.
There is not a caddy element there, and since I have been there for so long I let myself in and out, it’s comfortable, it feels like home, and I really enjoy it there. Femdom is a very broad topic so all my sessions vary, but some of my most popular sessions involve foot worship, bondage, financial domination, ball busting, corporal punishment, and strap on/sissy play.
Misconceptions Of Dungeons
People usually hear the word “dungeon” and they get all freaked out that it’s a “Big Scary Place.” This is not the case, it’s a safe and fun place to play where people can express themselves and their kinks.
Most people can share their darkest secrets without worry that they normally can’t share with anyone else and truly feel free. It can be quite cathartic and therapeutic for most people who visit.
Rules & Boundaries In A Dungeon
Every Domme has their own set of rules and set of boundaries that they instill with their clients, as each Domme is independent and does not work for the dungeon.
In general, we keep the dungeon safe and sanitized. We like to keep the privacy and safety of the dungeon, we do not provide the address of the dungeon until immediately before the session to any new clients until they have paid a deposit and have valid references.
We try our best to keep the dungeon a safe, consensual, hygienic, and private location for the benefit of everyone who visits.
How Can A Sub Prepare For Their First Dungeon Experience?
A sub should do their research, and research the Domme they want to have a session with beforehand to see if their styles will mesh well with one another. Send a respectful e-mail with a list of interests and boundaries so they can collaborate with the Domme for the best possible experience.
A list of general interests is best, as all the Dommes are all professionals and can provide a very natural flowing session from the sub’s interests expressed to them. All of the Domme’s are very talented and inspired, so a sub should keep in mind to let the Domme do what they do best and follow her lead at all times. Give the Domme free reign, but still set their own personal limits and boundaries.
Clear communication from the beginning of the session and during is the most important aspect for an enjoyable session. The more respectful a sub is, the better their chance is to book a session. Tipping is in everyone’s best interests.
Sorceress Bebe – LA based pro Domme, findomme and fetish clip artist. I am fierce when it comes to psychological domination and once you fall under my spell, there’s no going back. You’ll be hooked, spellbound and begging for more. The way I get into your head becomes an addiction from which you will never recover, but why would you want to?
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