I think kink is whatever you make it to be. I have had relationships that wouldn’t function or last without kink, but I’ve also had perfectly vanilla relationships. Kink can be a wonderful supplement to relationships, and I find that I definitely prefer kink to be a big part of it.
What Is Session Wrestling?
Session wrestling is when men pay strong women to wrestle them for an hour at a time. I love it because I’m a very physical person, and I love the adrenaline rush of a hard wrestling session, and I love the satisfaction of dominating someone who is supposed to be stronger than me.
Reasons Subs/Men Love Session Wrestling
Sometimes they’re submissive, sometimes they’re not. For submissive men, it’s clear why they enjoy it. They have a very Dominant woman that can overpower them in a very physical way. They are literally forced to be submissive.
As for the non-submissive men, I’m not sure why they enjoy it. I ask them almost every time, and I’ve gotten a lot of different answers. Some just love wrestling. Some wrestle both men and women. Some like to have a girl sit on their face, or being smothered by breasts. Why not?
Misconceptions About Session Wrestling
I think people have all sorts of ideas about session wrestling. Some probably think it’s a sexual thing, or it actually is another label for escorting (it isn’t).
Others likely think it’s pro-style, like you see on TV (it can be, but I’ve never done that). It can be just grappling, like what you did as a child.
What A Typical Session Involves
Typically the client tells me what kind of session he wants via email. He might request a particular outfit (like a bikini, or pantyhose), and tell me he wants either submission wrestling, fantasy wrestling, semi-competitive, etc. Sometimes he has a specific fantasy he wants to enact, and sometimes he’ll specifically request a certain type of smother or scissorhold.
He’ll send me the deposit (usually about $100) to confirm the session, and I’ll give him my address, if we’re meeting in Chicago. I have wrestling mats in my basement, and he’ll come over and usually strip down to his boxers. I’ll be in whatever outfit we discussed. We’ll start on our knees facing each other, and then, I take him down, in whatever way we discussed. Again, and again. There’s usually lots of breaks, laughing, and talking.
Tips For First Timers
Remember that neither of us are out to hurt each other. This is supposed to be fun. Sometimes people can get hurt, especially if we’re doing submission wrestling, which is the reason that’s not my preference. Stretch a little before starting, and just making sure to be gentle.
Bettie Brickhouse – Bettie Brickhouse is a session wrestler, Dominatrix, and adult performer based in Chicago. She’s been wrestling for 7 years, and constantly on the go for longer than that. She’s a constant world traveler, splitting her time sword fighting and meeting interesting people in the sex work industry.
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