I’ve been an escort for five years. My personal view on sex work and escorting has changed since I started when I was 24 years old. At first, I saw it as a means to an end – a good living so I can work on “what I really wanted to do,” which, at 24, had no idea what it was. As time went on, I started seeing the profession as more of a career – and a fulfilling one at that. I am the way my clients de-stress in a judgment free zone. I am a way for couples to bond and come closer together – a concept I think couples would only understand if they’ve have experience with an escort. I am a way for individuals to experience intimacy if they find themselves lacking comfort from someone.
While I think anyone can get into any career for the wrong reasons, I believe escorting to be a way where women can play amongst men that a glass ceiling might have prevented them to be around. And I get to hang around with those men in the best way – not to work for them, but to play with them.
Misconceptions About Escorting
The most common misconceptions are two: that there’s no way someone could have *chosen* this life and that the people that book us are “losers.”
Not only have I chosen this career and chose to stay in this career because of the opportunities it has afforded me and how much fulfillment I find in my day-to-day interactions with my clients, but every other escort I’ve ever met has chosen this life for the same reasons. It’s easy to think that someone else pushes us into this, as popular opinion would have you believe, but many of my contemporaries are intelligent, entrepreneurial ladies who can’t imagine themselves ever doing anything else! While all careers have their tough day, there’s a lot of fun and adventure that’s hard to find in any other profession – at least in the way I like to engage in fun and adventure!
The majority of my clients are men, and these men are the furthest from “lame” that could exist. My clients are professional, respectful men that are simply looking for a drama-free, easy way to let their hair down and relax. I’m a professional adult entertainer with an uninhibited sense of adventure. For a professional man with the disposable income, what better way to let loose then with a sexy lady that knows exactly how to look, what to wear, how to carry herself, and that will look offer you a good time with no drama or strings attached?!
Advantages Of Engaging An Escort
The biggest advantage to booking an escort is for a drama-free, good time without the risks and uncertainty attached with engaging a complete stranger with unknown intentions at a bar or wherever you may find yourself. My intention is for my client to have the time of their life, because it’s my profession to entertain. What can you say about the intentions of a random stranger? You know exactly what you’re getting when you book an escort, and there’s A TON of value in a sure thing!
Main Reason Main Engage Escorts
I’d say the main reason men engage an escort is to have fun and de-stress. It’s the experience and value that comes with having someone who they can say absolutely anything to so they feel heard, validated, and not judged.
Do’s & Don’ts To Follow
One important DO, is to treat the profession like any other profession and approach the escort with respect. Read her website and get to know her. Not only will he/she appreciate it, but you will be able to make a better decision.
A major DON’T is not mentioning anything illegal. You are paying for time and companionship 😉
I wrote a book on this subject because I know this secret world with secret decorum is hard to navigate for a first timer. It’ s an easy, 10 minute read and can help give the new client confidence in taking the first step – and doing it right!
Lana Blanc – I’m Lana! A curvy model, escort and travel companion available in Philadelphia, NYC, DC, Houston, and San Francisco and for domestic and international travel. I have five years of experience and absolutely love meeting new people and making connections.
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