I adore the practice and play of BDSM. When practiced with a critical eye and consent – it is really an incredible way to experience life. I see BDSM as a safe space to push on the boundaries of our identities and our interactions with others. It can enable us to feel into our edges and recognise how to exist with them in a productive and enriching way.
Personally, BDSM has helped me to explore aspects of myself that society has shunned – my personality as a dominant female to be specific. It has helped me to frame it in a way that I accept and that is accepted and even enjoyed by others.
What Is Slave Training
BDSM slave training is the process of ‘training’ a submissive into a role of service – namely, the role of what is termed a ‘slave’ in BDSM. The actual process is always different depending on the preferences of the Dominant party. But essentially it’s familiarising a submissive with the protocols, behaviour and preferences of the Dominant – in order for the submissive to function to serve or please the Dominant in the best way possible.
Appeal Of Online Slave Training
I have created an online slave training program and filmed slave training video clips because it enables me to reach a much wider audience. An audience that may never have had the chance to session with me in person. It also provides a bridge for many who may be wary of meeting a Domme in real time. For them to get an experience and a better understanding of what it is like to serve someone well versed in the art of Domination. It also provides an extension of knowledge for those who are practicing real time. A chance for them to get to know me, from anywhere.
I really adore slave training because I find real value in seeing my submissives grow into my desires – and into becoming more self-aware and considered beings as a result of their service. It is much more fulfilling for me to see them grow rather than to cater to individual fetishes or kinks. I am also a Lifestyle Domme (where D/s is a natural joy to me); and I’m also a bit of a protocol fetishist – which suits slave training and behaviour modification perfectly.
Training My Slaves Online
All submissives can join my slave training program at youwillpleaseme.com; which has daily tasks, courses, images and videos to guide you into your slavery to me. There are different levels all the way from learning how to dream over my images, to making a commitment to my slave agreement.
Submissives can also watch my slave training Femdom video clips – which feature instructions on different kinks such as foot worship and strap on training…
My Expectations Of Slaves
I have a whole slave agreement that goes through many points hah.
But essentially the thing I prize above everything else is honesty – to myself and their own selves. It is important that subs come with either an awareness of where they are at (emotionally, psychologically, intellectually, financially); or that they are ready to start looking at themselves under my guidance.
Without this you are not the sub/slave-in-training for me. I enjoy my slaves to be self-aware or on the path towards it. This makes for the most sustainable and strongest slaves. Slaves that can bring as much to the relationship as I will.
I understand that this can sound intimidating for new submissives – but that is why I have different courses. They allow different personalities at different stages to feel out what service might be like – whichever stage they are at or interested in.
Things To Consider Before Being A Slave
It is good to be aware that every Dominant will have their own nature and therefore every relationship will be different.
With this in mind, it is good to do your research – feel out the personality of your Dominant before you approach them (if you can). Or take your time to get to know their personality, priorities and preferences before making any long term commitments.
Also, don’t beat yourself up if it doesn’t work out. It might not be the right Dominant for you – or, you might not be as submissive as you thought. BDSM is about exploring the potential of human personality and sexuality – don’t limit yourself to roles or activities as best you can.
Mistress Eva – Mistress Eva is a lifestyle Domme with an accomplished past in professional domination. A classically trained Dominatrix, Mistress Eva has toured the world since 2012. She is now semi-retired in the tropics, runs an online slave training platform (youwillpleaseme.com), films XXX Femdom videos and owns a stable of international personal slaves. She meets them and other potential recruits once a month in cities worldwide.
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