I’m a very open person towards sex. For me, sex and love are absolutely not connected with one another. As the English so wonderful say, we make love… or… we just had sex! I see no reason to be jealous of my partner for having sex with someone else.
Sex is some game you have to find pleasure in. Each person will have his/her preferences. It always should be very exciting. The first kiss you have, you will always remember, but it will not be exciting anymore.
In that way, one will evolve in its preferences and experiments. As I’m a real physical person, I have developed a real high standard and often it surprises me that people are not ready for some actions. However each and everyone needs to follow his own way and discover it!
Why I Love It Rough
I absolutely do not like vanilla and romantic sex. I do love cuddling and kissing with my partner, that is love, not sex.
Rough for me is brutal, kidnapping, rape, BDSM, bondage, blindfolding, just name it! I do like to feel that someone really takes me. It is most exiting when you don’t know what is coming up to you. To feel your clothes ripped roughly from your body, hands all over you, items you don’t know what they are being used.
There is so much to explore and sometimes there are sessions which I like more and others less… that is part of the experience. Getting cocks pushed inside you (mouth or arse) and really rough pounding forces, until they unload gives me a real thrill. I could go on here for hours but I think it will be wise to dig deeper into some subjects later on.
Ways To Get Started
Get a video, or watch someone else having it first. In the hetero scene, there are clubs who will give initiation days so you can see and not have to participate.
For the gay scene sex, it is so much easier to find and to discover. If you get exited about the imagination, you most certainly must find out more about it.
See the movie 50 shades… it’s also new to her but actually she loves it. So set aside your good moral education and let it go, you’ll see where you end up.
(I always love to end up tied up and blindfolded in a sling)
Props To Use
The feeling of leather or rubber is really wonderful but I also love the feeling of ropes, chains and of course a lot of toys on my skin. Blindfolds make it extra exciting, and a mouth gags makes you drool. Whips, clamps, candle wax, needles etc give you pain in a most fantastic way.
A pain that gives me a rock hard cock. By the way, I mostly wear a cock ring during sex, but I also love to wear it in my suit during work.
Electro-sex is great fun to, you never know when a shock comes, it makes you nervous and it helps in edging. Edging is a real torture. A master teases you, plays with your genitals until you are about to come, and than stops you from shooting the load….
The click of a camera makes it all even more exiting but I guess that is my exhibition site showing.
Ensuring Safe Rough Play
BDSM or rough sex is always based on trust!
Get to know your master or sub well before you start giving yourself over to him/her.
For masters, there are really good education possibilities. Mind that you are playing with a body and a person who is gonna scream and cry, and you have to know when to stop. If you do bondage, feel frequently on the feet and hands that they do not become cold!
A lot of things can be real dangerous if not done right, for example inserting a needle in a nipple can infect the sub with diseases.
Know what you are doing and how fast you can go.
You will not get a fist inside your arse without a real training programme that will take some months.
Kinking Up Rough Sex
Don’t keep it in your own bedroom… go out, have sex at a club, in a dungeon, etc. This is a really tough question for me to answer. I’m so advanced that there is not much new to find out about. And most games seem to be like normal to me. I guess finding other sex partners or more at the same time will give you more different feelings.
For me it is starting up a great foreplay. When I know I will go out to a club, I prepare myself mostly the day before. Wearing ball stretchers, a cock ring and butt plug under my suit at work… it makes me hotter and hotter. I once went to a meeting with an electric remote controlled butt plug up my arse. I was not wearing any underwear and I did not know when the thing would be turned on.
When it turned on it made me so exited and rock hard that I’m sure some of my colleagues must have seen my boner. The chock end vibration of the plug is not to be hidden either.
At the end I would like to tell you to use your imagination… It’s all between the ears before it gets into the body
Sebastian Rolls – Just a normal guy in a suit with some real kinky feeling. I just love to talk and fantasize about sex games and of course to play them out. I do speak fluent English, Spanish, French, Dutch and German. I love making porn, It does not pay the bills but it is so great to do. Just the idea some people getting exited over you is so hot!
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