Developing Sexual Intimacy With Strangers

I think that sex can be an amazing release and a way for us to lose ourselves in pleasure, whether that is simply the pleasure of another’s body or the thrill of living out a fantasy. Sex can be many things, but in the right context it can be healing and rejuvenating.

One Of The Top Sexual Fantasies

There is definitely an element of sexual arousal at the thought of having sex with someone you have only just met – dropping all the cultural conventions of ‘getting to know you’ and following our desires fully. This in itself is a source of fantasy; it’s certainly a part of my work that I enjoy!

However, for many people there are also other dynamics at work in this kind of encounter. Often I think we crave sexual connections with strangers because, oddly, they can allow people to let go and behave more freely than would be possible in daily life. With a paid companion the experience is also confidential, allowing desires and feelings to be explored that might not be so easy to talk about with partners and friends.

Sex With A Stranger vs A Partner

I alluded to this a little already, but I think sex with a companion is not the same experience as sex with a partner. This is not to diminish the importance of sexual connection between long term partners; simply that sexual encounters with paid companions play a different role to those with everyday lovers.

I have sometimes come across the idea (from those who have never spent time as a client) that booking a paid companion would be an awkward, embarrassing or stilted experience. The reality couldn’t be further from the truth. As a professional companion, I have a knack for making people feel comfortable and at ease in an extremely short period of time. A session with me will allow you to let go of yourself, even if only for an hour. The sexual and emotional release that this grants can be a fantastic feeling! Many of my clients are first-timers and my inbox is full of thank you notes and messages expressing delight at our amazing time together. Whilst I imagine Tinder dates have the potential to be somewhat awkward, those with professional companions are anything but.

Creating Intimacy With A Stranger

The needs and wants of my clients are very different, so the way that intimacy builds for us in our sessions together is always a unique process.

As in any human relationship, listening and mutual respect will almost always serve to enhance sexual intimacy. It’s important to listen to body language, as well as words. Open discussion of our desires, fantasies, and feelings, as I mentioned earlier, can often be easier with a paid companion than with those we see on different terms.

In fact, in a long term provider-client relationship, our sexual experiences usually just get better and better. Our bodies become more familiar with each other and our individual rhythms, likes and desires. This enhances the trust and shared connection that exists in these relationships.

Tips For An Amazing Sexual Experience

My main tip would be to always listen to your partner(s) and respect their wishes fully. Practicing good consent is an indispensable part of having an amazing sexual experience, whether with a stranger (paid or otherwise) or someone in your personal life.

If there’s a specific fantasy you’ve always wanted to explore, or you’d simply like to spend a few hours in my arms, just get in touch. I’ll make sure your experience is an amazing one!

Chloe Vega – Chloe Vega is a petite, independent English escort with long locks of hair, porcelain skin and a youthful style. She loves to travel and can be found working her magic in Berlin, London, Melbourne and Edinburgh. Chloe offers a vivacious and sensual Girl Friend Experience, as well as kinkier sub and switch sessions.

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