BDSM – How To Be A Dominant

I love the alternate lifestyle.  It allows me to be the real me and to not feel inhibited by society standards.  I have met some of the coolest people I have ever known.  A lot of vanilla people think that people in this lifestyle are bad people or creepy, but I have yet to have that experience.  The cool thing is that we all have things in common and it makes us closer because we are open to being judged by vanilla society.

How My Interest In BDSM Began

It developed when I was a teenager.  I was always in the outcast group.  We were the group who was labeled as the “freaks”.  We were all very open minded, so I just kind of looked into it.  I didn’t really have an experience with fetish until I started wearing guarder belts in high school.  I loved the idea of me wearing it and no body knowing it.

At age 22 I ended up in the business because a glamour photographer took pictures of me and recommended that I should try it.  He was in the business and knew a lot of people.  I went to FetishCon, made connections, and it blew up from there.  I started off doing bondage, but it really wasn’t me.  I took a break from the lifestyle and business for three years.  When I came back I decided to do what I really love to do, which was domme.

My First BDSM Session

Yes.  I was hired as a dominant.  This guy has everything a dominant would possibly need.  I had him blindfolded and tied up.  I am a bit of a sadist and that’s the first time I ever figured that out.  He couldn’t take the pain, so I had to stop.   That’s when I decided I do better with subs that are all about the pain.

Appeal Of Being A Dominant

Well, simply put, I like to take out frustration.  I love to humiliate and make men feel worthless.  My favorite thing to do is trampling and butt drops. I usually get guys that like that stuff and can handle a lot of pain.  I love being funny and bratty because that goes right along with my personality.  I am extremely fit so I see it as a great workout as well.

Expectations Of A Domme

I love a good bit of humiliation.  I absolutely love it.  As I mentioned before, pain is always in there.  I like for my subs to be publicly humiliated and to wear some lingerie.  They have to serve me in any way I think of.  Of course, the activities must be within the subs limitations.

Popular Activities Dommes Enjoy

I think that humiliation is a big one.  Some subs like the sensual domination, while other ones want pain.  Some want to be paddled and others just want to be flogged.  I personally like humiliation, trample, and parading him around other people on a leash.

Characteristics Of A Good Domme

For me its all about the attitude.  There must be respect to the limitations that a sub has.  I personally like to be courteous before and after the session.  I have always gotten along with everyone so they always want to come back.  Some Dommes have different ways of doing it and it works for them.  I can do bitch extremely well, but I also like to approach it with a good attitude.

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