I view sex as a way to release emotions, pent up frustration or excitement. It’s a way to connect with others but it’s also a way for us to connect to ourselves as humans. Sex is an exploration of our feelings and our bodies. I believe we must have sex, we must release to stay healthy. Sex is very healthy.
As a trained Cranial Sacral Therapist, I have seen the damage that can be done if we don’t let go sexually. We get pent up and it all gets stored in our lower sacrum. People can suffer from back pain that can be tied to not having enough healthy sex.
Biggest Turn Ons and Turn Offs
My biggest turn on is when I’m teased with light domination. I enjoy playful sex. I want to giggle, it can’t be too serious, it has to feel free, and I have to feel heard.
My biggest turn off is when I’m not being asked if I’m enjoying what going on. It’s a real turn off when men assume I’m really enjoying what they’re doing without asking me. Especially if it’s our first time together. I can guarantee you don’t know what I like cause we haven’t even met before. Don’t be shy or ego driven, ask me how I like it.
Signs If You’re Interested In Him
A guy can tell if I’m a little distant. I tend to hide and observe someone if I find I like them. I may be shy, a little cocky but very present.
Sex On The First Date
I don’t have sex on the first date. If I like you, I’ll want you to like me back so by putting out so early you’ll lose respect for me and therefore not like.
And if I don’t like you, you’ll know it and there won’t even be a kiss.
Mistakes Men Make On First Dates
A big mistake men make is assuming they’re going to get laid. Hahaha this always makes me laugh. You can tell when a guy thinks he’s gonna get some. When I see this in a guy, it’s such a turn off, I’ve been known to play along, really make them think they’re getting it, and then just totally leave lol. I think after assuming I would put out, you deserve it!
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