As I’ve always been pretty adventurous in bed, anal has been one of my favorite things since the very beginning. I’ve always been into rough sex, even before I understood the difference between rough and vanilla, and anal is perfect for that because it can make the most mundane sex extraordinary if done right. Experimenting with anal has given me my most intense orgasms to date, it’s just a whole different level of pleasure than I can achieve with vaginal or clitoral stimulation alone and I love it.
Why Every Lady Should Try Anal Sex
While I do know anal isn’t for everyone, I do think everyone should try it once because it really can open new doors for pleasure and sensation you can’t achieve with vaginal sex. I won’t downplay the importance of having a good partner to start out with though, many of the women I know who have had bad experiences with anal had a partner who went too fast or hard for their limits, which ultimately led to a painful and unhappy experience. My advice for anyone starting out with anal is to start small, use plenty of lube, and don’t be afraid to tell your partner to slow down or stop if you need too. But trust me on this, when done right, anal can bring you to whole other dimensions of pleasure.
Always Lube Up
Without adequate lube, I would say the chances of having a good time with anal are extremely low. If you plan to make anal a regular part of your sex life I suggest investing in a good silicone based lube, which will last longer and cut down on the number of times you need to reapply. If you’re just starting out and aren’t sure if you’ll enjoy anal, you can get away with a good quality water based lube, but remember to always add more if you feel like you need it.
Foreplay Before Anal
When I was first starting out with anal I needed a lot more foreplay than I do now. I’d start by having my partner finger my asshole and get it all nice and lubed up. Then we’d pull out a medium sized plug and slowly insert it, making sure to take time to stretch me out and get my body ready. Once we got to the actual anal part, we still made sure to start out slow and steady before we finally got to the rough stuff. Nowadays though, I’m more in tune with my body and sometimes all I need is to rub some lube in there and I’m ready to go!
My Ideal Anal
Definitely fast and rough! Of course I do always suggest taking it slow at first to make sure everything is properly lubed and stretched out, but anal always feels so rough and primal to me, it’s definitely not something I would do with a gentle lover.
Favorite Anal Positions
Doggy is hands down my favorite position when it comes to anal, it just feels so good when a guy is pounding my ass from the back. I especially love it when he adds in spanks and hair pulling to amp up the mood. When it comes to me and anal, the rougher the better in all honesty.
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