Intimacy for me is not limited to just the opposite sex. A lot of people equate intimacy to sex but for me, it goes a lot deeper than that. It can be a smile, a light touch or even just a quick look full of complicity between two persons. Society is evolving and as such, I think our views should evolve too on what is “intimate” and consider that one person, all sexuality aside, can be intimate with the same genre. Intimacy in my line of companionship is about being as open as I can with my companions which tends to grow deeper by the amount of times I can meet a person. I like to think of myself as empathetic and one of the reasons that I am good at what I do is my ability to connect on some level with my companions. When I do duos with my very good friend Hanna, we are intimate together as well as having fun and great sex with the man of moment.
Guys, First Impressions Count!
First impressions are so important to me but not in the usual sense. For me, it’s more about the emotions, the feelings than the purely physical. A dumb but good looking guy will never hold my attention past the first few sentences….
Usually it starts off by an email. The tone, respect and courtesy that goes into the words one uses are what initially gives me an initial sense or feeling (the butterflies in your stomach one could say) and sometimes makes the difference between wanting to see someone, seeing someone or unfortunately for some transferring his/her email to the junk folder… A well written introduction and nice words are really attractive to me.
When I meet someone or person, it all depends on how the initial contact was made, if I feel comfortable from the get go or if I am as nervous as him or her (I know I am always nervous before meeting someone for the first time…). The way he approaches me, his clothes and certainly his shoes are the best features a gentleman can put forth to insure that both of us have a good time. Inquiring and following through with my likes and dislikes (Wine, chocolate, food, etc…) are also big indicators of how the gentleman will behave himself during our encounter.
Impressing On The First Date
Charisma and intelligence are two of the many qualities I seek in a gentleman. It’s bizarre but these two are seldom found in the same person… Ideally, on a first date, the gentleman would have inquired directly or read my website and I think I give a good idea of what I look for. A nice restaurant (researched and nice does not necessarily equal expensive!!), great conversation about things and life in general are a good way to get to know each other. Great table manners and a nice approach with the waiting staff are essentials for me… After that, we get to know each other and this is where we start being intimate, where our minds connect and my heart opens up… or not…
Keep Her Interested
By being passionate!! It does not need to be about subjects that I find interesting but for me, passion about things is contagious. Now, if he talks about his car or his golfing trip for the best part of the evening, I am certainly not going to appreciate it as much as his buddies could but I think a good balancing act between talking about the things that he likes and asking questions about my life and interests go a long way to create this intimacy. I long to understand more about the world, its people and everything that is and they have to offer that I keep an open mind towards new things and my date needs to have this attitude as well.
Signs She Is Bored
This is a tough question as it’s rare that I film my dates and see how I act if I get disinterested during the evening!! I would assume that I am pretty normal in the sense that if I start using shorter sentences or just answer ”yes” or “no”, that is a sure telltale sign that I am getting bored. If I am reaching for my cell phone without a very good excuse (or if I start making these up), I think that I have pretty much established that I am bored… When I am interested in the person, the conversation or the setting, usually, I’ll have a tough time shutting up… yes…it is both a quality and a weakness.
A Note From Florence…
As a courtesan, for me, intimacy does grow over time with someone. Past the fact that there is money exchanged for my time, I do care about the people that I meet and, like everyone, long to establish a connection with the person I am with. For most gentlemen, this could equal to sexual intimacy but for me, it goes on a deeper level. As stated in my introduction, if he or she is generous (respectful and kind), he or she will receive it back tenfold from me. This statement I think is what represents me the most and words I try living by everyday… There are plenty of other courtesans out there that focus on sex, positions and services. I am not one of them and if you ask me about the services that I provide in your first introduction, there is a good chance I will wish you luck in finding your soulmate…
I am Florence, a young and sexy lady aged 25, hedonist, stimulated by new and enriching encounters, thirsty to experience what the world has to offer with a definite focus on health, fitness and trying to maintain a great balance between learning, living and keeping a good karma! People usually say that I am more sensual than sexual and they are absolutely right…For complete disclosure, I will have to confess my addiction to lingerie and great food and wine!!
Images courtesy of Florence
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