Get Kinky Sex Tips From Kelly Quell

I am a very sexual person and I really am in tune with people’s energy. Sex is a fantastic interpersonal tool for really getting to know someone and really experiencing pleasure on a different level.

I love to get to know how each person likes to be touched and get to see and feel what each person’s sexual style is like, for example, how they touch me.

How My Interest In Kinky Sex Came About

Hmm I’m not sure.  Probably when I was much younger. I remember always being really into scenarios when I had my hands tied. I remember being actually really into medieval times and dungeons when I first learned about them. At the time I was young and never really understood why I would get aroused thinking about dungeons. It definitely  became apparent in the last 5 years or so. I love being restrained. And I love being at the mercy of my partner. I am big into electro play and degradation.

Does Kinky Sex And Rough Sex Go Together?

Well, I don’t really know how to not mix the two for me. I am truly a submissive and a bottom. I know what I want and I know how to be satisfied. For me it is not really fulfilling if I have kinky sex but not rough sex. My kink is that I like it rough.

I hang out in very kinky queer circles, where BDSM and sex go hang and hand but also separately.  You can have a good BDSM scene with someone without actually having to have sex.  However. I prefer my BDSM with my sex.

Why Rough Sex Turns Me On

I think it is about letting my imagination run free.

I like to pretend I’m in situations where I’m being used by multiple men at the same time.  Where I’m in forced situations. I like to feel like I am there to be obedient to my partner and if I’m not, I should be punished. I love being called names the most, such as “fuck toy“, “good girl“, “fucking ass whore“, “slut” etc.

It’s more about mental than physical for me. I honestly love being made to feel like someone’s fuck toy. It really gets me off. I can’t even get off unless I envision a fantasy where  I’m being fucked rough while being bound in a public place. Like on a pool table at a bar. I really want to act this out sometime soon.

Forms Of Rough Sex I Love

Being fucked really hard with a dildo or fingered really hard while having my hair pulled, being slapped in the face, choked and told to “shut the fuck up”, this is my favorite type of sex to have with another femme. I love sex with all genders but it seems like I enjoy certain styles of sex more with femmes versus with masculine identified people. I feel more satisfied sometimes with rough lesbian sex with me as the bottom.

However, I love cock too and I love being used as a place to deposit cum.  I love facials with no warning and I really really enjoy getting face fucked. Pretty much, I like feeling like I have no control.

Are There Any Safety Precautions To Follow?

Yes. You always need to be in constant communication with your partner. You need to have a safe word and you need to always make sure everything being done is consensual.

Communication is key. Even words and names can ruin everything and leave you or the other partner(s) involved feeling hurt and upset.

Always practice safe sex. My sexual partners and I frequently get all our STI tests up to date. About once every month or so.  As a rule, I never sleep with people that I do not already know first.

Hello, my name is Kelly and I enjoy putting on webcam shows from time to time. I am very queer and very into DIY culture.  I am an aspiring queer porn star and am looking forward to working with some of the greats in queer porn. 

I am very much a bottom and a submissive and I love rough sex and BDSM.  My fetishes include being submissive, exhibitionism, rough sex, bondage, group sex/threesomes, being spanked, being choked, having my hair pulled, being called a slut, leashes/collars, toys, anal sex, oral sex and much much more. 

Aside from sex, I play guitar in a math-core/shoegaze band and I scream in a Queercore band called Hussy. I live on the east coast surrounded by artists and musicians and tons of queer people. Follow me on:

Twitter: @KellyQuellTS

Instagram: Kelly_Marie_Quell

Website: http://kellyquell.com/

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