Do you have tips or ways for me to prolong or delay my orgasm during sex?
Sure, prolonging and delaying orgasm is easy and it’s such a shame that so many men struggle with the problem of unintentional ejaculation.
Begin by learning to explore and savour low levels of arousal. Imagine a number scale of zero to eleven, zero representing no arousal and eleven representing ejaculation. How familiar are you with the joys of each number along the way?
Explore the lower levels of arousal when self-pleasuring first, then with a partner. Learn the joys of soft-penis pleasure, before and after ejaculation. You will have more fun and feel more relaxed in sexual encounters, and also you will sensitize yourself to the whole trajectory of arousal and gain orgasmic mastery.
You can use your breath and imagination to circulate erotic energy through your whole body. Breathe slowly, relax your muscles and imagine the circulation of energy from your groin through your torso, neck, head, arms and limbs.
Do this when your sexual energy is cool, in the 1-4 range, and then practice when its medium and hot.
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Caffyn Jesse is a widely-respected teacher of sexuality. She teaches the Canadian Professional Somatic Sex Educator Training with Dr. Liam Snowdon. She offers a Certificate in Intimacy Education training to advanced students. Read her profile below!
More resources: Caffyn’s book on Erotic Massage for Healing and Pleasure: http://www.amazon.com/Erotic-Massage-Healing-Pleasure-pioneering/dp/0973833211/ref=tmm_pap_title_0
and her video courses
Orgasmic Mastery for Men : http://www.erospirit.ca/product/orgasmic-mastery-for-men/ and
Learn Erotic Massage: http://www.erospirit.ca/product/learn-erotic-massage-for-healing-and-pleasure/
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