If I could summarize my personal belief on sex and masturbation in one word, it would be – healthy. It’s healthy to practice self love and spoiling your own body with pleasure. It’s a way of connecting to ones’ self, and it feels damn good! Sex is a bit trickier. As humans, we ruin a lot of things with irrelevant emotions (not all emotion), and/or ego. Sex is a beautiful celebration of two bodies connecting. Whether it be for eternity, or just for the night. Enjoy sex, but BE SAFE!!
My First Masturbation
The first time I really remember the sensation of an orgasm or “edging”, I was 7 years old. I have earlier recollections of touching myself, but cannot recall the feeling vividly. It felt sweet. That’s how I describe it to this day. It was the sweetest tasting sensation.
What Makes Me Horny
I get turned on by different things, some of which aren’t even sexual. Take food play in sex for instance: licking whipped cream off of your partners body, trailing chocolate sauce over them just so your tongue can slowly follow the contours. You’re involving other senses. So anything that stimulates me in a way that feels more intense, I can become sexually aroused. I hope this made sense.
First Sex Toy Experience
I was 20 years old when I bought my first sexy toy. I went to Spencer’s Gifts with my boyfriend [at the time] and purchased a neon pink bullet vibrator to make our play time more intense. I couldn’t wait to get home to try it out, so once we were in the car, I slid my panties off and teased myself in the passenger seat the entire way home. Suffice it to say, my boyfriend was fighting the urge to ravage me right then and there. This changed my sex life forever. I don’t always use toys during sex or masturbation, but it’s always a nice option to really enhance the sexual experience.
Toys Are Amazing
Fingers are nice, but sometimes you want more. That’s why toys are such an amazing addition. Sometimes I want to be mildly stimulated just to tease myself, so I’ll go with my fingers and a bullet vibrator. Other times, I crave penetration and I’ll reach for a dildo. My favorite is the Icicles No.2 Hand Blown Glass Massager.
How To Get That Orgasm!
There are times I find it difficult to achieve orgasm during masturbation and sex. Honestly as women, a lot of our ability to orgasm is mental. We have to be clear minded and really in the moment. I masturbate when I feel most comfortable and calm. I take my time to explore and tease myself. It’s also important to share a bit of foreplay with your partner before diving into bed.
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