What’s the best way to introduce her to Kinky sex?

From my experience it’s been easiest to just suggest certain things and see the persons reaction. Such as mentioning the new 50 Shades of Gray movie or maybe even going to a strip club. I would base moving forward by their reaction to whatever it is you mentioned. If they display interest in some kinkiness then visit a strip club or maybe even go to a sex toy shop and look around. Point things out while you’re there or maybe even buy them an undergarment. If they display a negative reaction, then either drop the subject for that time or it may be that that person is just not the sexual partner you’re looking for at the moment.

I’ve worked at ten different strip clubs. So obviously I’ve talked a lot about sex and different styles and what not. Before I began dancing professionally, I was very stand-offish about sex and kept it pretty traditional. I’ve done web cams, bachelor parties and live sex shows since then so I’ve used vibrators, dildos, straps, handcuffs, lubricants, restraints, butt plugs, etc. I’ve dabbled in a little playful BDSM as well but nothing too extreme. I love anal sex with the right person and 69 can get a little kinky!!!! I’ve actually never tried a threesome but I’m looking forward to it someday!!!!!!

Some kinky sex ideas a couple can try if they are looking for something exciting are:

69 sex position.  Where one partner lies down and the other on top and you both give head. Although it usually works best with the female on top 😉

Light spanking. Just tap the ass a little bit. It kinda just gives a little spark , not too sure how to explain it.

Watching Porn. I personally like softcore when I’m watching it with a significant other. Some girl on girl action or even some playful bondage. I’d save the extreme gangbanging etc for when you both are completely comfortable being a little kinky. 🙂

Cock rings. Its a little ring you slip on the penis that vibrates !!! Trust me it works wonders.

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Currently going to tour with a band to New York and have a few things in the works as far as Porn, music video appearances and touring to different strip clubs.

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