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  • What You Need to Know About Legitimate San Diego TS Escorts

    What You Need to Know About Legitimate San Diego TS Escorts

    As a major metropolitan city, San Diego is home to a wide variety of people who come from all walks of life. This includes trans escorts who are available to provide companionship services to clients in need. Whether you’re looking for a one-time experience or a regular companion, it’s important to understand the basics of finding a legitimate San Diego TS escort.

    In this blog post, we’ll discuss the various options and requirements for finding legitimate San Diego TS escorts and provide some tips to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience. We’ll also discuss the legal framework for hiring TS escorts in the city and how to make sure you avoid any potential risks in the process. So, if you’re considering hiring a trans escort in San Diego, keep reading to find out what you need to know.

    What to Expect from a TS Escort

    When considering a TS escort, it is important to know what to expect. Generally, a TS escort is a transgender person who provides companionship and/or sexual services in exchange for money. This person is usually a professional and highly skilled in providing a pleasurable experience for their clients.

    When booking a TS escort, you can expect them to be well-groomed and dressed in an appropriate manner for the occasion. They should be punctual and courteous, and will be happy to discuss any of your needs before the date starts. They will also be able to answer any questions you have about their services, and will be willing to negotiate the terms of the date.

    Legal Requirements and Restrictions

    For any individual wishing to provide TS escort services in any jurisdiction, it is important to be aware of the local legal requirements and restrictions in place. Depending on the jurisdiction, there may be various regulations and laws governing TS escorting, and it is important to understand these before embarking on such a venture. For instance, in some jurisdictions, it is necessary to obtain a license or other registration in order to provide TS escort services.

    Additionally, some jurisdictions may have restrictions on advertising or require that certain criteria be met when providing TS escort services. Furthermore, depending on the jurisdiction, some activities related to TS escorting may be prohibited, such as providing services to minors or soliciting for services in certain areas.

    Security Measures to Take

    When considering hiring a TS escort, it is important to take all necessary security measures to ensure a safe and comfortable experience. Before meeting the escort, you should thoroughly research the agency or individual to make sure they are reputable and trustworthy. Additionally, it is important to verify the identity of the escort in order to ensure they are who they say they are. Make sure to ask for proof of identity and always ask for references.

    It is also a good idea to familiarize yourself with the laws and policies in your state or region regarding TS escorts. Knowing your rights and the restrictions of the escort service you are using will help ensure that you and the escort are both following the law.

    Services Offered

    San Diego TS Escorts offer an array of services for their clients. From traditional companionship services to more intimate experiences, they provide a wide variety of services to cater to their clients’ needs. Their experienced and informative staff will help you find the perfect companion for any occasion. Whether you’re looking for a romantic evening out or a night of pure passion and pleasure, they have the perfect match for you. Their escorts come from a variety of backgrounds and walks of life, making it easy to find the right companion for any occasion. Each escort brings their own unique personality and charm to each encounter, making their services highly sought after.

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  • What To Know Before Having Sex With Your Trans Partner

    What To Know Before Having Sex With Your Trans Partner

    My thoughts on sex are that, in general, it usually can be pretty complicated. Personally, I’m more turned on by the idea of foreplay that could last for hours. But, whether we like it or not, it also can define a major part of your life. Thankfully, I’ve manage to be pretty damn good at it.

    One Misconception About Having Sex With A Transgender Person

    That you may not, or wouldn’t enjoy it.

    Communication Is Key

    As someone who has had quite a few experiences of a guy telling me that I was the first trans girl that they were with or wanted to be with: while some other people might find that endearing, it pretty much kills any kind of sex drive I may or may not have had at that moment.

    My advice would be this: communicate that you are 100% clear with the fact that you know he/she/they are trans, but you’re still down to fuck, suck or whatever else pleases the both of you without actually saying it.

    Tips When Having Sex For The First Time

    Use some type of protection against STD’s, lube is always a good thing to have, and ask what your partner wants done to them; if what they say isn’t something you wanna do, they’re someone you probably shouldn’t be having sex with.

    Spice Things Up & Make It Kinkier!

    I went through a pretty slutty phase in my late teens/early twenties, so there are a lot that I have done outside of anything BDSM related or having to do anything that comes out of your body.

    I’ve been to a sex club before, and it’s something I wouldn’t mind doing all again in the future.

    Aphrodyte – I’m 25, born and raised in New York, picked the name Aphrodyte because I’d like to think of myself as a modern day sex goddess. I’ve been told I give the best head more than once, and I can make myself cum multiple times (meaning more than five) in less than an hour. 😉

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  • How To Be A Good Lover For My Trans Partner

    How To Be A Good Lover For My Trans Partner

    I believe that sex is the glue that holds and strengthens the bond between two people in love. Whatever a couple does in private is only important in that they meet each other’s needs.

    For me as a heterosexual man from a conservative family I was nervous about receiving anal intercourse from this beautiful Trans woman the first time. Even more so was performing oral sex. But I felt completely natural because we loved each other. I should point out for clarity, we were a versatile couple.

    What I Love About The Transsexual Community

    The transsexual community offers a wonderful openness once they know you are true in your motives. I found a love, devotion and passion I’d never known.

    Tips To Be A Good Lover

    Listen to your partner, talk about what pleases her. Like any couple, communication is key.

    Be open to new experiences, you’ll be much happier for it. And finally, give all the passion you have.

    What To Avoid

    Remember, you’re with a woman, even if the sex acts are a little different. Treat her like the woman you adore.

    Dr.  Michael Justice – I’m a 50 year old retired medical researcher who was disabled by a truck vs. car accident. I was the happiest in my relationship with my transgender girlfriend and welcome another.

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    I’m hoping to write a book on love and the transgender woman

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  • Do’s & Don’ts For Having Sex With A Transsexual

    Do’s & Don’ts For Having Sex With A Transsexual

    My personal thoughts towards sex……I think sex is something wonderful that not only allows us to express ourselves in many different ways, it feels amazing in just as many ways – and I’m not just talking about the organsm part which is amazing in itself.

    I also feel sex is something way too many people make complicated. Sex shouldn’t be planned – it should be spontaneous . I always have an open mind about it as well and I never look down on others based on what they are into or who they are.

    In short, sex is a wonderful thing that I enjoy in many different ways, places and with all types of people. Cis males and females, and Trans males and females.

    Misconceptions About Having Sex With A Transsexual

    That us who have big cocks (no offense to anyone) like to top. Not so – only a small percentage like that. Keep in mind we are FEMALE, we like to take cock and sometimes with another Trans female or Cis female giving it.

    We are not all dirty – not true at all . Us who do adult videos especially – we get tested every two weeks.

    Not all Transsexual females have had our dicks removed. A lot of people think when we transition, we have that removed – not so – and many of us do not want it removed and that does not make us any less of a woman.

    Also, that we are all crazy. Also not true, most of us are very normal and down to earth .

    And one I personally hate. Men who fuck transsexuals are gay. First, there is nothing wrong with being gay. Here is a fact for you, 99% of men are infatuated by a cock. It doesn’t matter if it’s on a man or a woman, and no, that does not make them gay. Second, gay men are not into transsexuals sexually and transsexuals aren’t into gay men sexually.

    Third, and most important when you’re with a trans female, you’re NOT with a male, you’re with a FEMALE and don’t forget that – if you have to question if you’re gay for finding transsexuals attractive – then your experience with one when you do meet one is not going to be enjoyable. Especially if you ask her if she thinks you liking her is gay that is a very big NO NO.

    What You Should Know Before Having Sex For The First Time With A Transsexual

    Don’t ask us if we think its gay. Don’t ask us about when we transitioned or why it does not matter.

    If you can’t take us out in public, then don’t worry about the sex part.

    You can speak to us normally like you would any other female.

    Things Not To Be Brought Up During Sex

    I would refer back to the last few questions…. Do not bring up transitioning or why or how long. Don’t ask if it’s gay. Don’t ask why or if I plan on removing my dick, if I wanted it gone, it would be gone. I feel my dick makes me a little extra special, if you know what I mean.

    Sex Tips To Have An Orgasmic Time

    Most important – there is more to us than our cock, a lot of guys don’t get this. We are females, we have tits, ass, sexy legs and feet, lips, and all the stuff between. And yes, we have a brain as well, and yes, they, like your cocks, all need to be stimulated.

    Mandy Mayhem – Southern bell turned porn star. Originally from MO. I moved out to Vegas to pursue my music career but found myself getting into adult video very fast – which i love! I am a total nympho – so doing porn just came natural and its lots of fun. I love showing off in front of the camera for others. I love to be nude and to be seen nude nothing at all to hide or that I’m ashamed of showing….. There is NO shame in my game – i am an open book and always speak my mind even if its not what you want to hear.

    When I’m not doing porn i love spending time with my dogs, making beats/ playing my guitars , going to concerts , hiking , going on road trips, and i love to cook as well.

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    https://twitter.com/TsMandyM

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    I shoot exclusively for my own site so all plans are geared towards that.  have lots of new stuff coming and planned like gangbangs bukkakes lots of outdoor and public stuff and as always working with all genders races and orientations

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  • How To Have Sex With Trans & Genderqueer Persons

    How To Have Sex With Trans & Genderqueer Persons

    I love sex! And sometimes I hate it. Not the act of sex, but how sex is portrayed by some aspects of culture, how it gets bound up in the darker side of human nature. I love everything about fucking, tender intimacies and desperate, sweaty quickies, long drawn out journeys based on touch and scent with no goal other than experiencing every feeling your body and your partner’s body(ies) can communicate to you. From kinky BDSM scenes, to vanilla softness; I love what sex can teach us about ourselves and about consent and our culture.

    Misconceptions About Having Sex With A Trans & Genderqueer Person

    There are many different types of trans person, and every trans person’s body is different. The main type of a trans person you see in porn is a trans women; but there are trans men, non-binary people, gender fluid people, a-gender people, and every permutation of gender possible. The categories I’ve listed are only some terms used by English-speaking cultures to describe the complex rainbow of genders available. Gender changes with culture and language, and I think it is a beautiful thing to have so much diversity at our fingertips.

    Tips For Having Sex For The First Time

    Get to know the person a little bit. How do they present themselves in the world? How do they describe themselves? Transgender and non-binary people do not always have surgeries, and do not always use hormones. There are many different kind of surgeries and hormone therapies. People who identify themselves as transsexuals are usually pursuing (or have completed) some form of hormone therapy or surgeries.

    It’s never wrong to ask someone how they prefer to be addressed and how to best respect their gender. If you’re hiring a professional escort or BDSM worker, look at their promotional material. This will give you an idea of who they are, what services they provide, and how they prefer to be contacted and spoken to and about. Take note of those things and your experience with that sexy professional is sure to be amazing.

    Things One Must Never Do

    Slurs and verbal abuse are never acceptable unless it’s part of a specifically negotiated scene. It is considered rude to ask about “the surgery”, as there are many different kind of surgeries a trans person might pursue.

    Tips To Have An Orgasmic Time

    Communication, communication, communication! Tell them what you’re into, how you get off, what parts of your body are the most sensitive. Ask your partner how they like being touched and fucked. Talk about if you have an injury, illness, or STI. Know your limits and boundaries and respect them and those of your partner’s. And piles of cash directed at your trans lover never hurts. 😉

    Cory Cocktail – International adventure consultant, bespoke power exchange architect, body artist.

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    Website: http://adventureconsultant.me

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  • My Journey To Being A Trans Domme

    My Journey To Being A Trans Domme

    I have been into fetish since I was 18, my first girlfriend used to say, “I may have taken your cherry, but you corrupted me into PVC and bondage”. And that really says a lot about me LOL.

    I have always been kinky and as I got older, I experimented more and more, pushing the sexual envelope with partners that I trusted with my dirty secret… that I was as kinky as they come. Now, vanilla sex bores me!

    Give me latex, give me restraints, give me strap-ons, give me pain, give me a subbie slut, give me a strict Domme, give me a tight hole or a huge cock…. Don’t give me missionary with the lights off.

    I may work as a Domme, but in my personal life, I am a switch. In all of my major relationships, it has played a big part in our sex lives. I have taken so much enjoyment out of being an obedient sex slave, and being a sadistic Dom/me.

    But I also don’t take it too seriously. Me and my ex-partner used to be poly and swingers, we would regularly get sexy at Fet clubs. I used to call it “recreational fun humping”. I don’t let it consume my life, though I admit it is a big part. But it is a part of my life I love.

    I think everyone should be lucky enough to find a partner to explore their kinky sides with. Dear readers, don’t suffer (or want to suffer) in silence, date on the fetish scene!

    How My Interest In BDSM Developed

    That is actually a… hard question (sorry, cant resist a good pun).

    As I said earlier, I got my first girlfriend into kink. I remember how terrified I was when I told her I wanted her to Domme me in a PVC basque (I’d yet to discover latex) and suspenders with her knee high boots. But she was far more sexually experienced than I was and simply said, “yeah, lets try it”. I will never forget how she tied me to a chair and rode me, and it’s one of my favourite sexual memories.

    I found as I went on that the majority of girls I was dating were subs, so I got into being a Dom (I considered myself male at the time, hence Dom not Domme). I found I was actually a sadistic bastard, and torturing them got my cock (aka now, my clit on a stick) rock hard. I experimented with different types of pain, control and bondage, I got quite good, Though I still had my inner sub that needed playing with occasionally too.

    My fetishes evolved too. Knee high boots, stiletto heels, latex, seemed stockings, strap-ons, BIG strap-ons, latex, face sitting, breath play… Did I mention latex already? The more I went out to fetish clubs, the more they evolved, the more techniques I learned and experiences I had. The better I got. Being an experienced switch gave me an edge too. I was a great Dom/me because I knew the subs mindset, as I occasionally had one. This insight allowed me to further hone my skills.

    To the point now that I actually charge for it!

    The Appeal & Attraction Of Being A Dominant

    The appeal is control, it is the sadism. But the greatest gift a sub can give to me isn’t money, gift cards or flowers (don’t get me wrong, I love to receive all of them), it is their submission. There is no greater show of trust on this earth, than when another human being gives their submission to another. “I give you my body and mind to do as you will, punish me, train me, fuck me, abuse me. I do this because I trust you will respect my hard limits and safe word“.

    I am a sadistic person, an imaginatively sadistic person. While I know some subs go into subspace, I once went into Dom/me space. A friend had asked me to teach him pressure point tortures (my specialism, will go into later). I tortured his partner’s whole body, she was writhing in agony, I was loving it. At the end, I flopped on the bed in a kind of exhausted high that I had never experienced before. It was magic, peaceful and blissful. I call it Dom/me space as I can’t thing of anything else.

    When a person offers me their body and mind, I push and use both, and I get off on it. I get off that this person is paying ME to pleasure ME. I have them suck my clit on a stick, lick my ass, and one person was actually able to take my clit on a stick up his arse too. I have complete sexual control…. and I love it. I get to tease them and torture them (within agreed limits) and it’s all about MY pleasure. Though Ds isn’t just one way (that’s abuse), both parties need to get what they need out of it. They meet my needs, and I make sure the way they do that meets theirs ( I will do other things too within my agreed limits if I enjoy them), and both of us are happy. That is Ds. Mutual play, not one way. when two peoples’ demons play well together.

    My Journey To Becoming A Trans Domme

    My journey has taken me about 19 years, Since my first steps into the kink world at 18. It was a long and painful one at times. But filled with amazing people who taught me a lot. After spending most of my adult life in fetish clubs.Llearning my skills as a Dom/me (as that was how I felt as a man that was expected of me), and occasionally as a sub. I experienced so much and had some awesome encounters with colourful people. Had kink based sexual relationships with some colourful people, and some unfortunately toxic ones, but we have all been there.

    But it’s the last year I think that is what you are all interested in, my journey from male kinky bastard, to transgendered Dominatrix. Okay, I am going to bare a bit of my soul here because it concerns my private life, a world I try and keep separate from my kink life.

    In 2016, I separated from my wife. I’m not going into that. We were still in regular contact and trying to remain friends. I was financially struggling when she reminded me that I always said if money was hard enough, I would become a male escort ( I had slept with a lot of men, and was a blow job queen with an ‘accommodating’ ass hole).

    So, I signed up to adultwork.com and within a fortnight I had my first client. It was a bit fun at the start, but I didn’t really like it. I was always giving the pleasure (granted I was good at it), I was always on my knees. it was vanilla gay sex and bored me. I advertised more as a kinky escort, but to no real avail. Business was scarce and I wasn’t finding it full filling (LOL, bum pun).

    Then by chance about 3 months ago, I posted a pic of me in my latex hood, PVC corset and suspenders. This was a pic of me at a club, as a sub. Then, quite quickly I had a message along the lines of, “Oh Mistress, you look amazing, please make me Your slave”.

    Something in my head woke up and took notice, she uncurled herself and sat up, put on her high heels and walked to the front of my mind. I had always considered myself genderfluid, always felt more comfortable, natural and sexy in women’s clothes and underwear. So I thought about it, wanked a lot about it too. Talked to a few pro Dommes I knew and asked their advice.

    Then I decided I would give it ago as a experiment. I changed my profile from that of a kinky male switch, to Mistress Danni TV. I changed all my blurb and names on Fetlife and Twitter, and upped my prices too. Business was twice as much in the blink of an eye, and turns out I was a fetish!!!! I was sexually happy with the work, I haven’t sucked a cock since, I get sexually pleasured all the time. I LOVE the control, but most of all I love the outfits I get to wear, the latex, the corsets (now in a 26″ and can fully close it) the boots, it is the sexiest I have ever felt in my life.

    I love being a trans Domme. It is a big part of who I am. My new years resolution is to become a resident Domme in an established dungeon and further my kinky career.

    It led though to some startling realisations, uncovering of memories long hidden and some troubling thoughts. I realised from being Mistress Danni TV, that what I always saw as genderfluid and cross dressing went a lot lot deeper than that. It made me realise that I’m not a genderfluid man, but a transgendered woman. I have altered my profiles now to Mistress Danni TG, seen my GP and have got a referral to the trans clinic. I am starting down a path I never thought I would take, but I have good friends around me, and for that I am very thankful.

    Favorite Kink Activities

    As a Domme (beyond the sexual side) my favourite thing to do to a slave, is tie him down and edge him, mercilessly. Gods I fucking love that!!!! To see him writhing about in utter sexual frustration gets me so hot. Making him beg, plead and just denying him. Taking him to the edge and stopping, seeing the tears run down his face…. fuck I love that!!!!!!!!

    I experienced it a few years ago as a sub, from a woman I was seeing who was a Domme, and it blew my subbie side’s mind. I found out from a few Dommes that lots of men do want it. And I’m not surprised. So, part supply and demand, part personal selfish sexual sadism, I do it in session.

    My other favourite activity as a Domme, is pressure point torture. I have done martial arts for 18 years. The main one I studied was Ninjutsu (I have a brown belt), and I can safely manipulate a persons pressure points to cause pain, pleasure and utter agony in a session. I love it because unlike hitty toys, it is more intimate.

    It also takes skill and the pain levels can be very finely controlled, doesn’t leave marks (well flesh tearing techniques do, love them too) and the pain is instantaneously on, and instantaneously off. I recall I had a client who said he couldn’t be marked, so tried to disobey, I simply put pressure on a nerve under the clavical, looked him in the dead in the eye and said “I can cause you utter agony without leaving a single mark”. He behaved for the rest of the session 😉

    Mistress Danni – Pro Domme, Over a decades of enslaving pathetic subs. Love edging, T+D. Pro Piercer.

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    Websites:

    www.adultwork.com/MistressDanniTG

    https://fetlife.com/users/57397

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressDanniTV

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  • Things You Should Know Before Dating A Transgender Woman

    Things You Should Know Before Dating A Transgender Woman

    Dating has always been difficult for me for several reasons. First I am a Transsexual woman who is involved in the Adult Industry. It’s like a double edged sword as I am either seen as a “fetish” or seen as “Wendy Williams” the Pornstar.

    I tend to believe I am passable enough in public so when I meet men it’s difficult to know what or if they know that I am a transsexual then that leads to the conversation of having to tell them. Too many Trans women are being killed because of their gender so I am not going to lead anyone on and not be upfront immediately. I also use sites like Tinder for dating and I put it in the first paragraph that I am a pre-op Transsexual and if they don’t know then please look it up, LOL. You would be surprised at how many guys don’t bother to read and then get mad when I ask “Have you been with a Transsexual before?”. With Trans women becoming more visible on television and in Hollywood we are becoming more the norm but have light years to actually feel equal to our genetic female counterparts.

    As a Pornstar most (well almost every) guy assumes that the conversation needs to be about sex or my career. It’s difficult for these guys to see past my film career and see me as a woman , let alone a Trans woman. I have been the Industry for 15 years so I’ve heard it all and seen it all. When you add my gender to the equation it makes for a interesting and difficult dating relationship.

    Dating Challenges Faced By Transgenders

    I think most Trans women will say the “fetish” element. To their defense most men have been only subject to Trans woman in the sex industry. Mainstream its always been Jerry Springer or the “hooker” story line on a television show. I guess men don’t understand why we don’t want to talk about our penis or sexuality in the early stages of our relationship. I always ask “Would you ask a genetic female about her pussy in the first week?“.

    I as a Pornstar understand the fetish aspect as I’ve used it to sell DVD’s and website memberships but I would hope that people understand Porn is more fantasy and not reality, therefore don’t bring those expectations into potential relationships whether personal or sexual, especially in the beginning.

    Misconceptions About Transgenders

    Let me say before I answer this that I speak from a Sex Workers perspective so my views are from a different place compared to someone who lives a vanilla lifestyle. Being a bit older, things have changed quite a bit over the past 10 years for Trans women. In the beginning it was all Trans women were hookers, had HIV, couldn’t be professionals, etc. We have seen a major shift with visibility so many of those stereotypes are changing.

    Being a Pornstar I am held to the same testing standards (every 14-30 days) as the genetic female Pornstars. We are NOT classified in the gay side but with the straight Industry because the majority of men who are into Trans women identify as straight. I think that’s the biggest misconception when it comes to men who are into Trans women. These men are attracted to the feminine qualities and how we present ourselves to society and the fixtures are just a bonus.

    Tips To Follow When Dating A Transgender

    You have to understand that terms like “shemale” and “tranny” are derogatory for many trans women. Those terms were introduced by the adult industry as a way to pitch us to a market of people who have never seen, let alone met, a trans person. But in every day usage, we don’t like it. So just relax and don’t make it harder for us – just refer to us in the way you normally refer to women.

    Unless you are meeting on a site that is specific for hooking up or casual sex, then please don’t bring up sex or our bodies, especially our private parts, in the first initial conversations. Many trans women feel like most men objectify us sexually as a fetish or experiment, and it doesn’t help to defeat those stigmas by asking about our penis or if we are a top or bottom. Ease into those conversations once you know us better, or allow us to make the first move. For newcomers, it’s especially important to be careful and not anxious or your first impression won’t be what you intended it to be.

    We hear things like, “It’s my first time” or “I’ve never sucked a cock” or “My ass is tight” or “I’ve always had this fetish“, and you need to understand that this is a really big turn-off in early stages of any relationship. We’re not here for your sexual education; we want this to be pleasurable for both of us.

    We understand that most men are trying to figure it out as they go, hell we are too, but please don’t start the dating process unless you really want to date a Trans woman and not just a hook-up.  Be 100% comfortable when it comes to going out in public or introducing us to your friends and family.  It takes a confident and strong man not to listen to the taboo part of society who thinks we should be dirty little secrets.

    Wendy Williams – I am a Transsexual Pornstar, Producer, Publicist and Activist from Lexington, KY. I am a AVN Hall of Fame Inductee and won Awards from most every major Adult Award ceremony in the Industry. Follow me at:

    Website: www.wendywilliamsxxx.com

    Twitter: twitter.com/tswendywilliams

    Instagram: @tswendywilliams

    PR: twitter.com/hotwendpr

    Spanchat: “tswendywilliams”

    Monthly Parties I host: lexingtontgirlparties.com

    Images courtesy of Wendy Williams
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  • What can parents do when they first find out their child is gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender?

    What can parents do when they first find out their child is gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender?

    Have a question on your mind about sex or seeking advice? Ask us on any topic and we’ll provide you with the answers from an expert. Send them in to editorial@simplysxy.com. 

    We have collected your questions on the topic of LGBTQ, and are delighted to have Arielle Scarcella to answer them below.

    What are the different stages in coming out?

    Coming out stages varies for everyone. For some, it’s all about telling people one by one. For others it might be making a YouTube video. Everyone’s experience is very different.

    What can parents do when they first find out their child is gay/lesbian/bisexual/transgender?

    They can contact an LGBT center, call up a hotline for tips, watch LGBT YouTubers and learn and simply but most important, talk to their child about it!

    Do lesbian couples always reflect a butch-femme relationship?

    Lesbians come in all shapes, colors, sizes and gender roles. Some butch women like other butch women. Some femmes like other femmes. And some are more like a traditional heterosexual relationship. All are OK.

    What are the types of lesbians?

    Butch, femme, tomboy, andro (Shane type) femme artsy, And everyone else in between.

     

    Hi, Girlfriends and Boyfriends! I’m Arielle! I’m the best friend you’ve always wanted. I share crazy experiences / advice on dating, LGBT issues, relationships and sex. I’m a big lesbian.

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  • Kaitlyn Gender: Based on a Not so True Story

    Kaitlyn Gender: Based on a Not so True Story

    Trans500 Studios has officially wrapped their first Parody DVD  “Kaitlyn Gender: Based on a Not so True Story”.  With all the mainstream buzz about Caitlyn Jenner and her transition it was only appropriate to find the current “IT’ T-girl and shoot a worthy Parody.  Trans500 is no way making fun of any Trans woman’s transition struggle but Porn has never been the measure for morality and being politically correct.  Director Josh Stone and crew made sure to be aware that some may find the issue touchy but also to give viewers a high quality comedic Parody with an all-star cast.  The part of Kaitlyn Gender is played by Jonelle Brooks, who is a Florida conservative Transsexual with glamorous looks and perfect comedic timing.  Cast includes Ramon (Track Coach), Duncan Black (Athlete Juice Gender), Wendy Williams (Reporter Diana Sword), Toby Springs (Photographer), TS Kylie Marie and GG Pornstar Angelina Castro as Kimmie.  Jonelle gives a heated hardcore with Castro,then seduces the photographer and finally a seductive toy solo.  Williams after her Interview with Brooks delivers a solo with a big money shot, and Ramon gets to fuck Transsexual Starlet Kylie Marie.  That’s five scenes of hardcore and solo action in this Parody of 2015!

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    Kaitlyn Gender will be released on DVD September 24th by Pure Play Media.  Currently Award Winning retailer AdultDVDEmpire has the DVD for pre-order.  Trans500.com will also team up with VOD Company AEBN and release it exclusively for pay-per-view options.  KaitlynGender.com will also provide the scenes available for streaming and download in September.

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    “We really think that fans who enjoy a good Parody will be happy with how it turned out.” says Director Josh Stone.  “If you are a fan of Jonelle Brooks you get treated to seeing her be a top in two hardcore scenes and a intimate toy solo.”

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    Check out KaitlynGender.com for more information or follow on twitter @kaitlyngender.  Retailers can reach Pure Play at sales@pureplaymedia.com.  All Press/Media directed to Wendy of HotWendyPR.com

    Images courtesy of Trans500 Studios

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  • How can you support a Transgender family member or friend?

    How can you support a Transgender family member or friend?

    Have a question on your mind about sex or seeking advice? Ask us on any topic and we’ll provide you with the answers from an expert. Send them in to editorial@simplysxy.com. 

    We have collected your questions on Transgender health issues, and are delighted to have Gavin Everard to answer them below.

    Question: How do I support a Transgender family member or friend?

    1. Believe and affirm their experience of their felt sex/gender. People usually struggle for years and years internally before they finally feel strong enough in themselves to come out to friends and family. It’s getting better, but most trans people still don’t even know that it’s possible to be transgender when they are growing up, or are told that they are bad or wrong for having those feelings.

    2. Use your friend or family member’s preferred pronoun, even if it feels hard at first.

    3. Support them financially if you can afford to do so. As mentioned above, most trans-specific care is not covered by insurance because insurers are bigoted, not family with the newest research and guidelines, and they make money by coming up with reasons not to cover care. This care, if people want it (not all trans people do) is vitally important for people’s mental and physical well-being, and people are often forced to delay getting it for years while they save up. Helping your friend or loved one reach their medical goals sooner can help them avoid more serious health problems down the road. For example, trans men who bind their breasts to get a more male-appearing chest develop back, lung and even heart problems over time due to the constant squeeze.

    4. Advocate for trans people in conversation with your friends or co-workers. Don’t let people say bigoted things on your watch. Correct people, educate them, and make it clear that hateful or ill-informed talk about transgender people will not be tolerated in your presence. We don’t do the work of making the world safer for transgender and gender non-conforming people on our own. We need your help.

    Gavin Everard is an acupuncturist who works with primarily queer and trans clients on chronic pain, urogenital issues and trauma healing. Gavin also trains healthcare providers on how to give trans-competent care.

    Images courtesy of Gavin Everard
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