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  • Hong Kong Flight Attendant Karry Tsang

    Hong Kong Flight Attendant Karry Tsang

    Hello! I am born and raised in Hong Kong. I am a flight attendant of more than 10 years and I am a mother of two daughters as well.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    My hobbies are jogging, reading, movies, cycling, hiking and above all travelling around the world. I’ll also describe myself as a typical foodie and shopaholic. 

    What inspires your fashion style?

    I enjoy watching fashion channels, observing what local people are wearing from around the world when I’m traveling. I’ll also take a balance between comfortable and trendy. So I enjoy mixing and matching styles and trying different outfits.

    How will you describe a typical day like for yourself?

    If it’s on a typical working day, I’ll make sure I get enough rest before going for a flight. To get ready my luggage, have a shower, put on my make up and uniform, set my hair and most importantly, study any information that would be related to the flight.

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    If I could have a super power, I’d make use of my power to sustain the peace in the world and make sure everyone will live happily.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a risk taker are you?

    I am quite a high risk taker and I would say the scale reaches up to 8 out of 10. It is because I enjoy exploring new things and new places in the world. I’ll also bring my curiosity to be involved in different things that will be of my interest.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    I will say I’m sweet most of the time but I can be spicy when I get annoyed by difficult people.

    What do you not get about guys?

    I have no idea why guys will have the tendency to lie/hide about some minor stuffs. This action will only help in creating trouble for themselves when the girls discover everything later on. 

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Karry. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    In my eyes, sexy is not about how less you wear on your daily life. Sometimes it’s more important to dress yourself just right in a proper manner. Sexy is more related to what you have in your mind. Living a healthy life and being positive, appreciate the people and things around you can also be one type of sexy.

    Follow the pretty Karry Tsang on:

    Instagram: @karry113

    Images by Karry Tsang

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  • How Should Men Behave On Dates?

    How Should Men Behave On Dates?

    Dating is my favorite activity if I’m being honest. I say this because a date can be anything; something as mundane as dinner and a movie, or as exciting as jet skis and Mai Tais. But in my professional life, it’s part of the gig, and my clients usually choose to get to know me over dinner first. I believe the creativity that can be put into a date is what makes them so exciting.

    Is It A Misconception That Women Have Higher Expectations Of Dates Than Men?

    I absolutely think it’s a misconception! Everyone wants a date to turn out well. Good conversation, a fun activity and a nice story to tell your friends after is something all genders look forward to. I sometimes believe *civilian men expect sex with as little effort as possible, that seems to me the only expectation that many women don’t share in my experience.

    Dating Turn Offs For Me

    I love the opportunity to show out, get dressed up, and put my best foot forward. In return, I expect the same. Often, civilian men fall short of this. Like the idea that men can throw on a t-shirt and jeans for a date while a woman gets plucked, primmed and prettied. NOT ON MY WATCH.

    That’s why I love my clients, they always show up and show out. Effort is sexy, you don’t need a $900 suit on. I just need to know you care about how good we look standing next to each other. I once was taken to an expensive restaurant in a beautiful dress while my civilian date had on cargo shorts, a jersey and knee high socks. I was so embarrassed!

    Do First Impressions Matter?

    Yes! But I think a second impression matters more. I get first impressions in 30 seconds. But I think second impressions come later after actually listening to the person, getting past any misconceptions or assumptions I made from the first 30 seconds. For instance, a man can be a great date and polite to me. That’s a wonderful first impression, but if he’s disrespectful to wait-staff, that leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Second impressions matter more.

    Signs I’m Enjoying Myself On A Date

    I’m engaged when I’m enjoying myself, I’m nodding emphatically, I’m smiling, and I’m complimenting him. There will be small hand touches or rubbing my foot up the side of his leg if I’m really enjoying myself. I’m a polite woman so I don’t often show when I’m bored but typically, I avoid making eye contact and focus on my drink more than my date.

    Don’t judge me, but I’ve taken my phone out before, usually to text my friend to save me. A date would have to be terrible for that to happen though, and not just boring.

    Who Should Set Up A Second Date?

    The man should do it, no questions asked. If you enjoyed yourself, there’s nothing wrong with saying so once you both arrived home. A second date should be set up within three days.

    Angelique Graye is a courtesan, activist, and Outreach Coodinator for SWOP Behind Bars. She is based in Tampa, FL but travels frequently to Orlando. She’s currently fighting for decrim and to repeal bath law ordinances in her city. She loves good drinks, exciting experiences, and spending her time in the ocean; it is why she is frequently referred to as a siren.

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    Tryst: AngeliqueGraye.tryst.link

    Twitter: www.Twitter.com/AngeliqueGraye

    Instagram: www.Instagram.com/AngeliqueGraye

    Switter: Bookchampagnea

    https://anchor.fm/AngeliqueGraye

    Niteflirt: 1 800-863-5478 ext. 1140-5782

    Article images courtesy of Angelique Graye, featured photo by picjumbo.com from Pexels

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  • What It Takes To Be A Cosplayer

    What It Takes To Be A Cosplayer

    For me cosplay is for fun, it’s about expressing the things you love. Making your favorite characters into real life, you can meet a ton of amazing people who like the same things and grow into a friendship, and learn so many new things (make up, making costume, acting, etc).

    In my opinion, there’s absolutely nothing wrong with cosplay. It’s a fun hobby and a way to express yourself, so don’t be shy or afraid with other people judgement.

    There are lots of great reasons to cosplay, and while I have several I can point to, the real driving force for me has been self-confidence. I spent many years of my youth feeling awkward, ugly and unwanted. Cosplay has helped turn that around. It’s helped me be more comfortable not only with my outward appearance, but to be more confident emotionally.

    How I Got Started Into Cosplay

    I love watching anime, reading manga and playing games since I was a child. And I’ve dreamt of what if my favorite characters appeared to me in real life. But in the past, I didn’t have any friends who had the same hobbies with me.

    I’m an introvert person, and I’m too shy to express my love towards the things I like. When I grew up, I finally was brave to express the things I liked and decided to go to anime conventions (and in that time I still had no friends to go to anime convention with me).

    This was the first time I saw cosplayers and was fascinated. They were so cool, they looked happy to become the character they liked and I wanted to be like that too. I wanted to make my favorite characters come into real life too, I wanted to have friends to share what I liked without feeling like a weird person, and I wanted to have confidence too.

    So, I started cosplaying in 2017. I cosplayed as Suzumiya Haruhi and went to anime convention alone. I looked like a lost kid in that place LOL.

    But I’m very grateful and never have a single regret. That time many people wanted to take photos with me, and after that they were so happy. I’m happy because I’m doing the things I like and I can make other people happy too. What a blessing. I want to cosplay until I’m old.

    Overcoming Challenges As A Cosplayer To Be Successful

    Sometimes there are people who assume that cosplaying is stupid, silly, and childlike. They say it’s a waste of time and money, weird, etc. And there will be people who judge you that “your cosplay is so ugly because you are ugly”, bodyshamming, etc. So, in other words, many people will be judges and critic you a lot.

    But as you know, don’t ever hear what they say, as many people will support you too. Hear their suggestions that make your cosplay improve and don’t hear what makes you down.

    I’m doing what makes me happy and I can learn so many things from that. I always remember that I can’t make EVERYONE happy, there always will be people who dislike cosplay or hate me for no reason. So, don’t think about it too much, do what you like and keep moving forward.

    I have a full-time job and it’s taking up the majority of my time. It can be hard to come home from a long day at work and have the energy or focus to styling wigs, making costumes, and doing other things. Actually you can buy costumes too but sometimes, costumes don’t quite fit right just out of the box and you need to fix it. But, I enjoy what I do. Cosplay is my work too, I have been invited as a guest star, influencer and performer in many conventions also invited me as judge in cosplay competitions. So I try to balance my full time job and my part time job as a cosplayer with better time management.

    What Is The Cosplay Community Like?

    The cosplay community is fun, it’s a place where you can share your favorite anime, game, manga, or cosplay tips. It is a way to find new friends who have the same interests with you.

    But like any other community, you also find many different people in there. You can’t force them to instantly like you, once again, there are people who will dislike you no matter what you are doing. But don’t worry, there are a bunch of kind people too.

    So, just enjoy the community, enjoy the cosplay, and have fun.

    4 Things People Should Know More About Cosplay

    Cosplay is never consent. Always ask first to hug or pose with someone, and never touch them without their permission. Every cosplayer puts time and effort into their work. Never pick up or handle their props without their permission

    Always ask permission before taking photos or videos of other cosplayers. Most might not mind it, but everyone wants to know first if they’re on camera.

    If you’re cosplaying, remember that you’re representing a character loved and looked up to by fans. Keep it classy, and don’t do or say anything that might tarnish their image of that character.

    And I wish everyone can freely cosplay without worry about society judgement. I wish people don’t think of cosplay as weird, silly, childish, etc.

    Vanilla Vania, cosplayer from Indonesia since 2017 and have won many cosplay competitions, have been invited to many anime and game convention as Guest Star, Judge, Performer and influencer.

    I love anime, game, manga and dancing.

    Follow Vanilla Vania on

    Instagram: @vanilla.vania

    https://www.instagram.com/vanilla.vania/

    Facebook Page: Vanilla Vania Cosplay

    https://www.facebook.com/vanillavaniacosplay/

    Twitter : @VanillaVaniaCos

    https://twitter.com/VanillaVaniaCos

    YouTube: Vanilla Vania

    https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCUqRtHSvNuvSqcGTKkZsEEQ

    Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vanillavania888

    Please kindly check my Instagram Highlight story for my portofolio, achievement and schedule for upcoming event.

    Images courtesy of Vanilla Vania

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  • Singapore Influencer & Model Shannon Faith

    Singapore Influencer & Model Shannon Faith

    Thank you for the opportunity to feature me over at SimplySxy! I’m Shannon and I’m a Catalogue Model and a beauty and lifestyle content creator based in Singapore, all whilst pursuing my Bachelors in Journalism and Public Relations.

    What inspired you to be a model?

    Prior to modelling, I was a DJ playing sets at local clubs and festivals. One day I was approached by a modelling scout if I would be receptive to being represented by their agency. I’ve always wanted to do modelling so I signed with them for a duration of two years and that’s how my modelling career pretty much kickstarted.

    Which is a memorable photoshoot you have done before that you enjoyed every minute of it?

    It was actually a magazine cover shoot for a local automotive magazine and that was actually my first paid modelling gig! At that time, I was still new to the modelling industry and I didn’t know how to pose and work my angles. I felt really conscious of myself as well as facing ‘imposter syndrome’. But the clients and team believed in me, and I felt myself feeling more and more comfortable on set and eventually I felt confident in myself as well.

    If there is one thing that you could improve about the modeling industry, what will it be?

    Stereotyping that models are supposed to be tall. For modelling, gigs that requires models to be tall are usually on the runway, fashion showcases and maybe editorial as well. I’m standing at a height of 167cm and often I get skeptical looks when I mentioned that I model as well. However, in other areas of modelling such as in commercials, prints, catalogues etc there isn’t really any height requirement for it.

    What are 3 fun things you like to do in the city you live in?

    Ice skating, virtual reality gaming and yachting.

    How is a typical day like for yourself?

    Getting dressed to create contents for my social media, heading out for castings, meeting sponsors, attending evening classes, having dinner with my family and working on my assignments.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    Sweet and salty popcorn.

    What is a funny pickup line or attempt someone has tried on you?

    “Are you a parking ticket? Because you’ve got fine written all over you.”

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Shannon. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy to me is having confidence but not being cocky. Being intelligent but at the same time, socially aware. And of course, humor!

    Follow the beautiful Shannon Faith on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theshannonfaith/

    TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theshannonfaith

    Website: https://www.theshannonfaith.com/

    Images by Shannon Faith

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  • Actor, Singer & Burlesque Performer Valentina J’Adore

    Actor, Singer & Burlesque Performer Valentina J’Adore

    I am a performing artist currently based in Houston, Texas. I am from College Station, Texas but haven’t spent much time there since I left for college. I have a degree in Musical Theatre from Sam Houston State University and have spent the better part of time after graduation in Houston.

    Photo: Juan Cardenas

    How long have you been a burlesque performer and what do you love about it?

    I have been a burlesque performer for four years now. I love the artistic freedom it allows, the glamour of it, and the thrill of getting to interact directly with my audience. It’s a beautiful art form that celebrates the human body and sexuality in a unique and smart way; that’s what drew me to it in particular.

    What kind of training does one have to undergo to become a burlesque performer?

    One doesn’t have to undergo any one type of training to be a burlesque performer. There are artists from many different backgrounds in the field and so there are many different types of burlesque. As someone who is highly trained in musical theatre with dance being my strongest form, I tap into my choreography skills, my dance technique and my understanding of how to tell a story to help me when I am creating an act.

    There are also elements of my training I had to unlearn in a sense because they did not serve me in burlesque the same way they had in a musical. But other performers, such as someone who comes from a circus background, is going to bring skills and strengths to their acts that are very different from mine but still translate just as beautifully into burlesque. That’s the beauty of it, it has space for all types of artists.

    Photo: Mikah Danae

    For those who have never been to a burlesque show before, what can they expect when attending one for the first time?

    Lots of sexy fun! Burlesque is most likely going to bring a smile to your face and audience participation is usually encouraged. Unlike a traditional theatre setting, we want you to clap, hoot and holler as loud as you can for the things we’re doing! As far as what to expect from the acts, you really have to be ready for anything!

    Some shows have classic burlesque, some have neo-burlesque and some have a mix of everything. If you can, do a little research about the show you’re going to attend before you go. Always come prepared to let loose, have fun, make noise and not take life or sexiness too seriously.

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    I don’t really believe in superstition but I do believe in energy and karma. I have my own spiritual practice to keep myself centered and grounded.

    Photo: DMR Depictions

    If you can learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    How to be a director. I love putting all the pieces together when it comes to creating and I would love to someday learn how to be in the director’s seat of a production.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    Mystery flavor.

    Photo: Vincent Kirk

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Valentina. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    It’s beyond beauty or age, it’s a confidence and an attitude. It’s there for the taking if you want it.

    Follow the gorgeous Valentina J’Adore on:

    Instagram: @valentinajadore
    Tik Tok: @valentinajadore
    Upcoming projects: Bewitched Burlesque – IG Live Burlesque Show, streaming soon in July

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  • What It’s Like To Date A Black Man (from A White Woman’s Perspective)

    What It’s Like To Date A Black Man (from A White Woman’s Perspective)

    I grew up in a semi-small town in Missouri where interracial dating was non-existent. If it did exist, it would have been discouraged, if not attacked outright. I dated white guys simply because it was what girls were supposed to do. But, I always had an attraction to Black men. My white boyfriends seemed to always carry some racist attitudes which in a way, made me even more curious.

    Of course, a teenage girl hears the rumors about Black men. That peaks our interest as well. Interracial dating is like an entirely different ballgame. It’s different. It has challenges because racism is still very prevalent, especially among white males who despise the competition. But, interracial dating is like joining a very elite club. Couples support one another and strangers very often ask me about it. Other women seem very curious and ask me about it.

    Why I Find Black Men Attractive

    I started dating white boys when I was 14. I dated four of them before I had enough. My best friend, who is white, knew I had an attraction to Black men, so she pushed me to go on a double date with her. She dated a Black man and set me up with her boyfriend’s friend who was also Black. I was 21.

    There are always exceptions with Black men, like anything else. Not everything I find attractive about Black men is not found in EVERY Black man. But, I have always found a Black man’s style to be attractive. His swag. Black men have a classy, sexy style that’s very alluring to a white woman. Black men naturally have a dominant presence. I love dark Black men. Their dark skin is very masculine especially next to my fair skin. The contrast is alluring. Black men typically have a stronger physical stature. I find that powerful and very attractive.

    And yes, typically Black men are bigger down there. I love a Black man’s penis and the way he uses it. Black men are better in bed. They have more stamina and they’re very uninhibited and passionate. Their style and swag; their physical makeup; their minds and attitude. Their “Blackness” is very sexy.

    My Experience Of Interracial Dating

    It’s generally very positive and exciting. There is still a lot of racism though. It seems mostly to come from white boys. But, other white women are very supportive. When I go out with my boyfriend, other girls often pull me aside and ask me what it’s like to be with a Black man. It used to embarrass me. But, I’m used to it now. I tell them the truth, “it’s amazing!”

    Is Interracial Dating More Open In Recent Years?

    It’s growing. Everyone knows that. Even racist white boys see that it’s becoming more and more prevalent. I think society is opening up to it because popular opinion is shaping that. Interracial resources are everywhere. In popular culture, interracial can be found out in the open. In the adult entertainment circles, interracial is among the top three most viewed search, behind “girl-girl” and “hardcore”.

    Sites like Deeper.com, Blacked.com, and Darkx.com are proof that interracial sex is hot and growing. The occasional resistance we get is pretty much reduced to angry white boys who don’t approve of the way things are going.

    Tips For White Women Who Want To Date Black Men

    Do it! There’s no time like right now! Don’t let friends or family frighten you or hold you back. Go with your gut and satisfy your attraction. It’s not “weird”; it’s not “wrong”. Society’s acceptance is growing; now is a great time to try it. If you can double date, that will calm some of the anxiety we face going into it for the first time.

    We’re strong and we can make up our own minds. If it’s what you want, you have the right to do it. If you’re just wanting to try it for the sex, go for it. No one has to know about what you do in your private life. “Don’t die wondering” is what my best friend told me when she introduced me to my first Black man.

    Differences Between Black Men & White Men

    Again, there are no absolutes. Not every Black man is this-way and not every white boy is that-way. But, from a general perspective I will say that there are some major differences. The penis is the one thing that comes up most often. Typically Black men are bigger. Not just in length but also in girth. Black men seem to hold an erection a lot longer which goes well with their stamina.

    The sex with a Black man is uninhibited and passionate. A Black man typically likes to please us before he pleases himself, which is very refreshing! There are a lot of physical and mental differences between Black men and white boys, most of which I went over previously.

    Would You Date A White Man After Being With A Black Man?

    Personally, no. I know that some women might go back and forth between black and white. But, I’m very satisfied with Black men. Not to mention, I’m more attracted to the style of a Black man. I don’t find white boys attractive.

    Andrea Dillinger – American made 25 year old scorpio with a taste for dark chocolate.

    Follow Andrea on

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/anniedill25/

    https://www.instagram.com/_signme.up_/

    I currently revamped both of my Instagram pages while closing my Facebook. My personal page requires my accept. But, my project page @_signme.up_ is open to the public.

    Images courtesy of Andrea Dillinger

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  • Get Your Fashion Inspo From Jesslyn Lim

    Get Your Fashion Inspo From Jesslyn Lim

    Hi! I’m Jesslyn from Malaysia!

    What inspires your fashion style?

    Definitely Instagram. I love scrolling through OOTD posts on Instagram. I always find fashion style Inspo from different influencers.

    Do you have any quotes or mottos you like to use?

    Everyone is beautiful in their own and unique way. Never try to change the facts that make you special just to be someone else.

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    I would love to learn magic!

    Which is an unforgettable travel experience you have had before?

    Last year  I went on a trip to UK with my family. London has always been my favourite city and I would love to study abroad there if I had the chance. I love the street vibe there and Nero Caffe sells the best hot chocolate. We also spent some days in Liverpool, Edinburgh and Glasgow. Overall, it was really a great experience.

    Would you rather be able to mind read or control objects?

    Control objects!

    What is a typical day like for you?

    Wake up at 8, have a simple breakfast, do some revision, workout and cycle in the evening to catch some breeze outside; watch some dramas with my family and do a little reading before bed.

    What is an ideal first date to you?

    Sitting down at a cafe, munching through cakes while getting to know each other better. Having dinner together also sounds great to me.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jesslyn. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is a personality. Not really based on an hourglass body figure but showing confidence and loving yourself for who you really are.

    Follow the pretty Jesslyn Lim on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jesslyn1007/

    Images by Jesslyn Lim

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  • Love The Curves – By Bella Petite

    Love The Curves – By Bella Petite

    The first photo edition of Bella Petite’s photobook is available. Check out never seen before photos and enjoy this visual treat! Here are two photos from the book courtesy of Bella!

    Purchase and enjoy the rest of Love The Curves here – https://www.bellapetiteescort.com/buy-bellas-books

    Bella Petite – I’m a deep thinker and often find myself-looking at the big picture. I enthusiastically believe in raising the bar. My desire is for you, the client, to confidently know without hesitation you are employing my services with the same level of trust, quality and professional etiquette and accountability you would expect from any other highly successful business.

    Follow Bella on

    Website: https://www.bellapetiteescort.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/BellaPetite4

    Other Sites:

    https://escortify.co.nz/wellington-escorts/bella-petite-6094

    https://availableangels.com.au/escort/bella-petite/

    https://www.nzpleasures.co.nz/escort/bellapetite/

    https://wellington.locanto.co.nz/ID_3830213569/Bella-Petite.html

    Images courtesy of Bella Petite

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  • Model & Artist Anna Psy

    Model & Artist Anna Psy

    Dear SimplySxy, thank you very much for your interest. I will answer these questions as a model, I guess this is why you have my name. My page is www.instagram.com/annapsyartist.

    How did your interest in photography begin?

    My first photoshoot probably was when I started pole-dancing. I won a place in a competition and was asked to pose for photos due to my flexible back. Afterwards I was asked more and more to model. I did hundreds of tfp photoshoots. I always wanted to have some idea in all my photoshooting and always liked to think more about styling and making various decorations.

    At some moment I was tired of similar photoshoots and wanted to go bigger. I contacted a photographer whom I was a fan of and ordered an art photoshoot with her. It was quite expensive for me at that time, but it was very very worth it. After that shoot I was more and more into art and conceptual photography. I was posing for world known artists during their workshops and also was invited for private collaborations. Quality attracts quality and it accumulates. This is why today I can be proud of the result my modeling career has brought me.

    What is important to taking a good photo?

    It is important is to be prepared. Spontaneous shoots can be great, you can have luck, but the best is to be prepared.

    Preparation means:

    – Think about your concept, styling, location, photographer, model

    – Think about light/natural light and how it will work positively on your results

    – Plan the team and logistics, communication!

    – Have options and flexibility if something goes not according the plan

    And for me of course, it’s important if the photographer knows what he/she is doing. Experience is preferable.

    Which is a memorable photo or videoshoot you have done before?

    I think it’s the shoot I had in Iceland.

    Together with my team Art Photo Projects I organized a tour to Iceland in 2020. It was meant to be big and amazing, but due to covid-19 most of the participants couldn’t come. However we (team) still took a risk and directly after Iceland borders were opened, we flew to Iceland and did magical photoshoots with over 30 outfits!! It was so crazy, we dropped dead every day after the intensive schedule, but it was definitely worth it.

    If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?

    I would love to collaborate with tour-agencies and make it possible for more people to travel and have magical photoshoots and workshops. I know there are already such tours with wedding photography ideas, or with some leading photographer, but I really want to make it “art” and open for everyone. I also would love to collaborate with more designers and magazines. I am having a few conversations now,

    Is there any city or country you like to travel to visit when given the chance?

    Right now I dream to visit Baikal Lake in Russia, New Zealand and Japan.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now when you look back?

    Yes, for sure. One day during a photoshoot in a lavender I had a see-through dress. It was very beautiful but I forgot my lingerie and needed to be without. It was very embarrassing for me to be so unprepared, but afterwards it was easy for the photographer to retouch…

    What turns you off on a date?

    If a person I am dating is not interested in my story, but only in sex.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Anna. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Quality that reveals sexual interest and easily attracts attention.

    Follow the gorgeous Anna Psy on:

    Instagram:

    www.instagram.com/annapsyartist
    www.instagram.com/artphotoproject

    Upcoming Works: Iceland photography tour 13-19 June 2021

    Images by Anna Psy

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  • What It’s Like To Be A Provider

    What It’s Like To Be A Provider

    Companionship is a mutually beneficial opportunity for people to connect in person to do basically whatever floats your boat.  It is good company, lively conversation, cocktails in hand in the company of a sensual young lady wanting to show you a fun time.  Life can be a whirlwind in the city that never sleeps.  How lucky am I to get to be the girl who slows down time, chats about everything or nothing and makes sure you have the time of your life?

    How The Idea Of Being A Provider Came To Me

    I have always been attracted to men older than me.  I was online dating and swiping professionally secure gentlemen.  They were often busy with their careers and children.  That was fine by me as I’m distracted by school and friends right now.  It only made sense to monetize what I am most passionate about.  I’ve always been very sensual.  I enjoy and crave sex.  Frankly I’ve received very positive feedback even before entering the world of escorting. Now I’m able to enjoy the company of true gentlemen and experience a high-end lifestyle while doing what I’m most passionate about.

    To be honest, escorting came very naturally to me.  I was already dating distinguished men.  That along with my sexual nature gave me the confidence to be successful.  I suppose I had the most amount of nervousness with my very first date as I rode the elevator to his hotel room.  Once in the room he began making small talk and starting fussing with the radio and walking around showing me every corner of his space.  I quickly realized he was the nervous one and invited him to the sofa to enjoy a glass of wine with me.  I can always tell when it is someone’s first time and try extra hard to make him or her feel at ease with me.

    Challenges I Face Most Being A Provider

    I want to start by saying I absolutely love and am proud to be part of the sex work industry.  Anything you do in life always comes with it’s own challenges. Mine include a minor but manageable few.  My clients are very busy professionals and I am sensitive to that.  It is tricky however when I am given less than a day notice.  I am completely understanding that the thought to find a date can be sporadic or even last minute.  It does not make our logistics any easier though.  I show up showered, dressed in high-end classy sexy professional attire, makeup, manicure, pedicure, hair done and all items needed.  It takes a lot of time to prepare and longer if I need to travel to you.

    I once had someone give me 13 minutes notice and I was an hour and a half away from his requested location.  I would have loved to meet this person if only I had at very least 24 hours notice.  On the flip side I have gone through all of said steps only for the client(s) not to show.  I do not give those gents a second chance on a date particularly if I found a place to stay unnecessarily.  I often get what I refer to as time wasters. These may consist of folks who never had any intention of seeing me, spend a lot of time texting anything other than logistics, and those who continuously ask for more and more photos.

    I have plenty of very recent professional photos on my website and social media or OnlyFans if you’re even more curious.  😉  The more notice given, the more screening info provided and the more you give the impression you will be kind and safe will likely lead to a fun and relaxed first date.

    Managing My Personal Life As A Provider

    Managing time as a provider is a bit tricky because there is no real set schedule.  My regulars reach out to me when they’re in town and I do my best to see them.  For this reason I am not able to work a traditional 9-5.  I have just enough time to be a successful student, spend time with my gents (sometimes ladies) and any free time I keep balance by visiting friends and family.  If I ever say no to a date it’s simply because I can’t.  Organization is crucial.  I take what I do very seriously.

    From an emotional perspective I think it is very very important that sex workers have a confidant they can talk to.  This work has many benefits and has allowed me to truly be myself. It also comes with a unique set of challenges. Unlike other professions, most of us providers choose not to share the good, the bad and the in-between with friends and family. I can’t imagine it’s healthy to hold all that inside.  Experience has given me the confidence to trust in myself.  I have gotten to a point where I have created equal balance in the amount of work I am doing.

    What Should Gentlemen Who Have Never Engaged A Provider Before Know & Behave?

    Thank you for asking!  First of all, clients should know that it is completely normal to feel nervous especially on our first date.  While I wouldn’t call myself nervous, there is always that initial meet and greet butterflies.  It is very important to me that a gentleman (or lady) does their homework before meeting me.  Proper etiquette and donation amount are clearly written on my website.

    Bonus points to the gents who research even further online or through a friend about how to treat a provider particularly if it’s your first time.  For example, as a provider I want to offer an optimum girlfriend experience.  This is very important to me. During our time I want you to feel cared for, sensual and listened to.  For that reason, it is mandatory your donation for our time together is left in an envelope in the bathroom.  A key ingredient to ensuring a fun and mutually beneficial relationship is to treat your provider with kindness and respect and it will be reciprocated.

    Initial contact with me (texting or email only) should reflect true gentleman behavior just like in the civvy dating world.  If you begin a text with “hey baby” or explicit requests or request we “party” together please understand I cannot / will not respond.  An ideal client will show up with asked for donation without negotiation.  While tipping and gifts are not mandatory I have been grateful for the fair amount of gents who go above and beyond to be generous.  It is always appreciated and likely to ensure future dates. 🙂

    I arrive to our date freshly showered and groomed.  Like all providers, I do expect my gents to arrive with the same attention to hygiene.  You are welcome to use my shower before and after our date within the allotted time.  Speaking of time, we have a reserved time slot for a reason.  It means (like you) I probably have somewhere else to be afterwards … either professional or personal.  Either way please be respectful of time.  I will surely not waste yours. 😉 When I visit Disney World, I would never ask Mickey Mouse to remove his mask.  In the same regard, I kindly ask not to engage in conversation that breaks the fourth wall.  For example, “what is your real name?”  Let’s simply enjoy Disney World!

    Please accept all of the above as means to a great time together as opposed to a list of no’s.  With mutual respect and fairness to one another, a sexy evening will feel fun and organic.

    Something My Clients Should Know About Me

    I truly believe what separates me from most other providers is my open minded, non-judgmental, and adventurous views of sex.  During our date, I can guarantee a true girlfriend experience. I’m an excellent listener and affectionate. Please don’t underestimate my girl next-door appearance or shy demeanor.

    For example, I’ve always enjoyed giving oral to completion.  My gents have been extraordinarily complimentary. 😉 Toys always add a little spice to our fun.  I have experience with girls, couples, and transsexuals.  I love it when my dates feel comfortable enough opening up to me allowing us to explore together.

    Corinne Reilly – Hi!  I am Corinne Reilly from Manhattan. You can often find me in NYC and spend quite a bit of my summers in CT.  When my nose isn’t in school books I love to travel and grab cocktails with my girlfriends.  Let’s be adventurous together!

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