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  • Emcee & Host Amanda Andrea From Kuala Lumpur

    Emcee & Host Amanda Andrea From Kuala Lumpur

    I’m your city girl from KL! Studied locally but worked in New Zealand for quite a number of years. In New Zealand, I started presenting for a fintech company I worked for in New Zealand. That branched out to other small opportunities which include pitching, creating presentations and presenting on other companies behalf.

    As of now, I’m focused on my career as a professional emcee for all sorts of events from casual, formal to corporate. I’ve also been blessed with the opportunity this year to host for Bio Oil and Motherhood.com.my. I absolutely love hosting, so hopefully this year will continue to bring in more opportunities for that! Little gigs on the side include reviewing sponsored products or services on social media and attending events as well.

    Non-work related fun facts:

    I work out regularly (minimum 4x a week),

    I love salsa dancing (though I’m a complete amateur),

    I can play the piano,

    And I love to cook!

    How did you get started into being an emcee?

    I got started with encouragement and support from a good friend and mentor, Slyde. He encouraged me quite early on back in the days when I first started out in the freelance industry as a part time model. I used to be ridiculously shy when I was first given the opportunity to emcee at a wedding and had no idea how to shake off the stage fright.

    Other than Slyde, I did actually have a few other people who had asked if I emceed when I hadn’t even started out just yet. I guess it’s because I had no problems chatting up a storm with an absolute stranger and loved making new friends. Speaking into a mic with all eyes on me was foreign and intimidating at that time, and I had never expected to be as comfortable with a mic as I am today.

    What do you love about being an emcee and is it a lot harder than it looks?

    I love making an impact at every event. I absolutely love hosting events where crowd interactions are mandatory! I love everything there is to love about being an emcee, our responsibilities and the role we play. We’re the face of the event through good and bad, we control the flow of the event, we have to be quick on our feet to cover up for any hiccups at an event, we bring attention to the right people at the right time and heck, sometimes we’re considered as part of the entertainment as well!

    In all honesty; it doesn’t technically get easier, you just get better. You learn from mistakes, you learn to improvise, you learn new tricks to engage with the audience. The first few times may be nerve wrecking! But these things take time, the courage to fail and learn, and most importantly the desire to host.

    Which is a memorable or unforgettable event you have done before?

    I love this question, thank you for asking me this! The most memorable event I hosted for, would be the World Cup finals last year at One Utama. There was quite a big crowd, and also lots and lots of freebies that were provided by the event’s very generous sponsors. It is unfortunate that I never got the video of my funny antics but I remember coming up with an idea to get the crowd really hyped up. There were about at least 30 people that were pretty much ‘in my face’ and I told them to scream the loudest at me while I closed my eyes and threw the freebie in my hand, towards the direction of the person that screamed the loudest.

    It was absolute fun and I used that trick over and over again at my other events during crowd interactions. It was one of the best emcee moments that I’ve had, where I was able to garner the focus of so many people at the same time and be so interactive with them. I absolutely loved that moment. From then on, I replicated the situations throughout my other events that allowed for me to do so.

    Your IG has quite a lot of great quotes. Do you have any quotes or mottos that you always use regularly?

    I’ve decided to design my IG in a way where you see a consistent pattern of quotes and photos. Some photos that are posted immediately after the quotes bring significant meaning to the quotes itself. There are two of my favourite quotes that I have not yet posted, but will be posting eventually.

    Throw me to the wolves, and I’ll return leading the pack.”

    She needed a hero, so she became one”.

    These are both very strong quotes on thriving on your own, being pushed to the depths where you are caught in distress but still being able to come out right on top. Despite the incredible support system of a loving partner, family and friends; I still sincerely live by these two mottos day by day.

    Where have you always wanted to travel to but have yet to find the time for it?

    This is more of a financial issue rather than timing! But most definitely JAPAN! They say, if you can afford Europe it doesn’t mean you can afford Japan, but if you can afford Japan you can definitely afford Europe. At least that’s what I’ve been told. I absolutely love Japanese food, am intrigued about their culture and have fallen in love with the sakura blossoms before I’ve ever met them.

    When I travel to Japan, I will not be skimping at all. I will pamper myself lavishly from street food to Michelin star restaurants. I will taste their outlandishly overpriced fruits that were carefully taken care of and I will most definitely hunt for the best Wagyu and Otoro out there. Just responding to this is having my head and tummy go into a frenzy!

    If you could learn anything, what will it be?

    If I could learn anything and be really good at it as well, it would be martial arts. And I’m trying to get into that direction too! Have just started going to some kickboxing classes too! On a ‘softer note’, I would also love to be able to play the violin. There’s something so elegant but somehow badass about being able to play the violin!

    Is there something you can never get enough of?

    I have pillows, bed sheets and lingerie obsession. I have about 15 pillows in my living room, and 6 on my bed (2 large pillows). I absolutely love Egyptian cotton sheets, silk sheets (or pillow sheets at least-those babies are expensive!) and bamboo sheets too. I particularly love lace and silk and I get overwhelmed with beautiful long robes. I simply adore the robes and silk dresses from the Brad Pitt and Marion Cotillard movie “Allied”.

    I never seem to have enough of these!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Amanda. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To put it simply, being sexy is being confident. If you’re in the most beautiful silk and lace lingerie with that gorgeous hair all made up but somehow feel insecure and unsure; that will render that confident girl in that t-shirt and jeans way sexier than you. Overconfidence isn’t sexy, there was to be a right amount of confidence and a little attitude all while being humble about it too. That will make you ooze in sexiness and elegance too. Being sexy is being confident, believing in yourself, knowing that you are beautiful. Sexy isn’t a shape, it’s an attitude.


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  • Ways To Enjoy London With The Ideal Companion

    Ways To Enjoy London With The Ideal Companion

    Companionship fulfils a multitude of social and intimate needs. It can be a way to find a missing spark or passion that is missing in someone’s day to day life. To explore desires and sexual fantasies. Sometimes, it is simply to reach out and spend time with someone who is understands a need for human connection, seduction and intimacy.

    I entered this world as a university student and quickly discovered there are many misconceptions about companionships and there is no ‘one size fits all’ companion or client.  That’s what makes it so exciting.

    Being A Companion In London

    Before the pandemic, which has altered life for many people, London was a vibrant and exciting place in which to be a companion.  It has an array of nightlife, restaurants, modern and classical art galleries and museums, beautiful parks and historic hotels that have been the basis of many wonderful dates.

    Many of my clients are familiar with London from previous business trips and so sometimes, playing the tourist was a wonderful experience that I sorely miss.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I would say I’m quite warm, lighthearted, non-judgmental and curious about people. My degree is quite heavy so it’s nice to change tack and just enjoy listening to people’s stories and life experiences without labelling them.  This world attracts fascinating people and I adore finding out what makes people tick and why they studied the discipline they did, chose the career path they did…all useful research for me! 

    Regarding intimacy, I consider experiencing pleasure, sexual exploration and having an open mind as vital to our happiness. I revel in relaxed, intimate GFE private encounters, though consider myself vanilla with a hint of spice.  ‘Never say never’ is a wonderful mantra to live by. Mutual respect, courtesy and communication allow this to happen. I make my clients, feel relaxed and be able to express how they feel and how they would like our time together to unfold. 

    My Ideal Date & Dating Turn Offs

    An ideal date would be spending time with someone interesting, courteous and respectful. Someone who has taken the time to discover me and my interests, (we all leave breadcrumbs!) and brings a small gift, even just chocolates or a book or a card, makes me feel special!  Unlike a relationship, and knowing that our encounter is temporary, I always feel it’s best to make it as wonderful and romantic as possible. 

    I don’t have many turn offs and to be honest I haven’t had any terrible dates yet, (knock on wood) but I imagine someone who has bad manners, is rude to waiting staff or unhygienic would definitely turn me off.

    Best Things To Enjoy London Together

    I love art and also dining out so, if I were being greedy, a perfect date would involve visiting the National Portrait Gallery in Westminster which is a favourite of mine, Lunch at J Sheekey, a wonderful classic British restaurant, and to end with private time in a beautiful luxury hotel.

    What Should A Gentlemen Do Prior To The Appointment?

    A gentleman should approach me as he should all companions, by reading our website in full to get an idea of who we are and whether we’d be compatible. We have particular contact and screening methods detailed on our site and prospective clients must ensure they are comfortable with and can provide them.

    A perfect introductory email to me would contain a little introduction, something that tells me who you are and why you’d like to meet, your screening information and a range of dates and times we can meet. A compliment at the end never hurts!

    Etiquette Rules To Follow

    Just to be respectful, clean and courteous. Time is a precious commodity in life and when you have the chance to spend it with a beautiful woman in beautiful surroundings, treat it as a ‘real’ date and as such, talking about other providers is off limits.  It is, after all, a wonderful chance to escape for a while. 


    Kio Jones – Your London lover. An exotic au naturel siren who is  adventurous, open minded, and authentic. I’m adept at drawing out your most secret desires and fulfilling them completely.

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    Twitter: @KioJonesLondon

    I’d like to announce that I’m taking selected multi hour dates in London from December 5th 2020


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  • Californian Blogger Lilly Ashley

    Californian Blogger Lilly Ashley

    I am an Account Coordinator and blogger from Southern California.

    What inspires your fashion style and which are your favorite brands to shop from?

    I love pulling style inspiration from a lot of places including Instagram, Pinterest, old magazines, vintage, and even the occasional movie or television show.

    Do you have any favorite quotes or mottos you like to use?

    I love the quote “Simplicity is the true keynote of elegance.” and I also believe in the motto that trying your hardest is the best you can do and when you work hard, you can accomplish almost anything.

    What are 3 fun things you like to do in the city you live in?

    Living in Southern California, there is always so much to choose from. In the summer I love the beach, and in the winter, heading up to the mountains is always a good time.

    In my city, I love to visit my favorite local coffee shop, they have the best toast and bread options to choose from.

    Is there any food or drink you can’t live without?

    Coffee and french fries, but maybe not together, haha.

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    I’m definitely more of a morning person. I use to be a night owl, until I got a job in LA and had to leave by 5am to get into work on time. Now, I can’t stay up past 11PM.

    If you could time travel, what will you like to witness or experience?

    I love history so it’s hard to nail down one specific time. I’d definitely be interesting in going back, experiencing the Renaissance in Europe or the 1940’s in Britain.

    What is a lame attempt a guy has tried to know you before?

    When guys come on too strong and try to share their whole life story with you on a dating app before you have even said “Hi”.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lilly. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Self confidence to be yourself and make no apologies for it.


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    Twitter: @thrivinglilly

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  • How To Have Anal Sex For The First Time

    How To Have Anal Sex For The First Time

    I think anal sex is something every person should do from time to time. It’s not only human nature, but also a healthy activity for everyone’s day to day life.

    Do You Remember Your First Anal Experience?

    Yes haha. My first anal experience was around when I was maybe 16. It was during Christmas. Back where I am from, we usually have a basket of tangerine (I guess it’s mainly duo to the lack of vitamins from the old days). I had a couple with me in my room and probably was horny at the time, so I thought “why not?”.

    I shoved one up there (I don’t remember if it hurt or not) and then shoved another one. After that moment I kept shoving things up my butt, like a kid shoving keys into an outlet.

    Is Anal Training Required?

    DEFINITELY.  As much as I love the act of anal, it’s a very risky and dangerous act if not done properly and can do some serious harm even in the long run.

    Riley Cross

    How Important Is Lube?

    Very. When I first started I couldn’t afford lube for a long time, so I mostly used spit. Spit is also a very good lubricant, since it’s natural and goes well with the body, but you gotta stay hydrated since you gonna be using a lot of it.

    I don’t think you can ever have enough lube (better safe than sorry) , but if your ass is covered in it and starting to feel like you rubbed raw eggs all over it, then I think you have enough for the time.

    Recommended Positions For Anal Sex

    I just like riding mostly. Since it’s easier to push down and get even the bigger stuff inside, plus your hands are free to do what they want. But if it’s someone else, then doggy, since it opens up the outer rectum really well and makes hitting that G-spot feel amazing.

    Tips For First Time Anal Sex

    It isn’t a race. Go slow and at your own pace. You may not be able to get it on the first try, so try the next day. If you feel any kind of pain, then try to stop and do it sometime later (you don’t wanna hurt yourself and then never be able to do anal again).

    A good way that anyone can do is just use your fingers. It’s easy to put one in, but not everyone can fist themselves, so you can always work your way up.


    Riley Cross – Amateur pornstar you just like making anytime of porn and having fun. I also enjoy video games and anything that other people are interested in.

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  • Mini Lau of Mini Tattoo Studio

    Mini Lau of Mini Tattoo Studio

    Hi, this is Mini. I am a tattoo artist based in Hong Kong. I brought the fresh breeze of Small Tattoo to Hong Kong few years ago. After learning the technique from Korea, I opened my own tattoo studio, Mini Tattoo, which focuses on small-scale tattoos.

    How did you get inspired to the world of tattoos and be a tattoo artist?

    My tattoo style is mostly inspired by the Korean tattoo trend. It is colorful, petite, and the lines are thin and less bold. Most of my work is inspired by nature. Dainty flowers, exquisite feathers, and simplistic dream catchers are popular commissions among my clients. I guess that is why my tattoos are popular among young women and first-time tattoo-ers.

    I have been interested in tattoo art since secondary school. I have always had a passion for drawing, so I had the idea of becoming a tattoo artist instead. It was not easy at first. I looked up tattoo shops online and went knocking on their doors with my portfolio, asking if they would take me as a student. Only one tattoo shop took me as student. I started my journey to become a tattoo artist when I was 16.

    What is your specialty of Small Tattoo about?

    For me, I think small tattoos can be an art form that is here to stay and hope that my creations bring “a steady stream of creative spirit” to those who wear them.

    Which are the favorite tattoos you have done before?

    I once tattooed a client suffering from depression.  I know that her parents divorced when she was young, and her parents-in-law took care of her. She tried to hurt herself and committed suicide when she was unhappy. She still had many scars on her hands. She had been sexually harassed by her cousin when she was young. 

    Fortunately, her personality changed after raising a dog, and she later published a book for it.  The puppy was very sensible and knew that she was unhappy, so the puppy kept struggling to grab the door and saved her many times. Among the many tattoos, this impressed me very much.

    For someone who has never gotten a tattoo before, what do you recommend for their first?

    I always ask my clients to think thoroughly before considering getting a tattoo, because it is a permanent thing. Tattoos hold meanings for people. They are a form of art and it means a lot to clients and tattoo artists.

    I once had a customer who asked me to tattoo a robot design that was just a random sketch from someone. It was a quite simple pattern, but what hit me the most was the reason behind that tattoo. I asked her why she wanted such a simple tattoo, and she replied matter-of-factly, “Because it makes me happy. I laugh whenever I look at it, so I want to find a way to preserve it forever. ”

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    Usually I will travel to different countries as a guest tattoo artist. Due to Covid-19, I stayed in Hong Kong this year. I started to prepare my tattoo course. I wish the virus would go away. Wish everyone a safe passage through this difficult period.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Mini. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think getting tattooed is very sexy. Tattoos can make people feel confident and express who they are.


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    Website: https://www.minitattoo.com/

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    https://www.instagram.com/mini_tattooer/

    Mini Tattoo – tattoo course will be started from Jan 2021.

    I hope that my students can find their own unique style and position in the process of learning tattoo and become a unique tattoo artist.

    Our new collection of tattoo sticker is available now!!

    World wide shipping: https://www.minitattoo.com/collections/all


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  • How To Have A Good All Female Threesome

    How To Have A Good All Female Threesome

    I like threesomes! Of course, there needs to be chemistry and cooperation, but they are really fun when they work out.

    How Does An All Female Threesome Feel?

    In my personal experience, there is less of a central focus on one person in an all female threesome. In MFF or MMF threesomes, where the people involved are straight, the focus tends to be mostly on the one man or one woman in each respective group. In an all female scenario however, everyone is attracted to each other so the focus is divided more equally.

    Why I Love It

    All female threesomes feel less ‘goal oriented,’ which I really love. In a sexual scenario with a man (cis men in particular), the sex seems to revolve around making him cum, and the sex often ends after his orgasm. Threesomes just with women don’t have such distinct end points and orgasms often don’t feel like ‘goals,’ but just bonuses 😉

    Favorite Positions & Activities To Do

    I shot a threesome with Jay Taylor and Serena Blair once where Serena put me in a chokehold with her legs while Jay rubbed my clit until I came and it is one of the hottest things that has ever happened to me, so maybe that position!

    Other than that, I love positions that are comfortable, like laying on your back or side. In porn, we often do a lot of crazy positions to get good shots of the sex, but they’re not always practical for real life.

    Do’s & Don’ts To Follow

    This goes for any sexual experience, but consent and communication are the number one most important thing. Check in with your partners throughout the threesome, and ask for consent before trying something new.

    Communicating what you like sexually will also help you achieve more and better orgasms!


    Lyra Lockhart – I’m a slutty college student that found her way into the porn industry a couple years ago! I love creating sexy content and shooting all sorts of scenes, from lesbian to anal to fetish. When I’m not being a slut, you can find me baking cookies, doing yoga, and hanging out with my cat.

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  • Actress, Emcee & Producer Tammie Chew

    Actress, Emcee & Producer Tammie Chew

    Hi, I am Tammie Chew. I’m a Singaporean actress, widely known as “Happy” from TV drama “Menantu International” and “Couple Cosmo”, from 2015 to 2020. I’m also an emcee and producer.

    Was being in showbiz something you’ve always wanted to do growing up?

    Actually no. Growing up in Singapore, I’ve been taught to be practical about my goals. If my friend didn’t sign me up for a beauty pageant, leading to my first TV role, I will have probably continued in my office job. So there were plenty of times when I doubted my career choice, wondering if I should just quit.

    What tips or advice can you give to aspiring actors and those who like to go into acting as a career?

    As an actor, you need to be resourceful, resilient and very hardworking. All that while still looking your best.

    You need to be resilient when facing rejections in auditions, audience’s response, the drastic difference in the highs and lows. You have to understand that rejections and fluctuations in your career is not directly related to your worth. There are simply too many factors to decide whether you’ll have work or be recognised for your work.

    You have to be resourceful to find opportunities and make an impression. Even if things are not moving, you still need to continue pushing and improving yourself.

    And when you have work, you have to give it your all, make it count, be professional. People need to know that you are good to work with, so your career can have longevity.

    What are your proudest achievement so far?

    I remember when I first walked the red carpet of the awards ceremony, I felt like all my hardwork and perseverance was worth it. I was nominated as the Most Promising Actor Award at the Mediacorp Pesta Perdana

    I thought that was my proudest moment. But it was until much later when my producer told me something that made me realise that being an actor is much bigger than just myself. Someone told my producer that he used to be racist and stubbornly believed that all Mainland Chinese are bad and have no manners. But after watching my show, he realised that he should not be so fixated on his thinking, and is now willing to not be racist. It was then that I realised, as actors, our shows and what we do have an impact in people and the society. And to be able to bring about a positive change is my proudest moment so far.

    Do you have a strict beauty or exercise regime that you follow?

    I do. I try to exercise at least twice a week. I meditate, try to always have warm drinks instead of chilled drinks. I usually use 7 to 10 skincare products on my face every morning and night.

    If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?

    I have been saying this in multiple interviews and people always laugh when I say this. So, I really want to act alongside Nicholas Tse, and have him as my co-star. Or rather, be his co-star. Other than the fact that he is an awesome actor, I think I will definitely learn a lot from him. But also mainly because he has been my idol since I was 15! I’m ok to not get my actor’s fee just to be able to act alongside my idol. Haha!

    Do you have any other hobbies or interests?

    I love music and movies. I also love the sun and the waters. So if I am not working, you will probably find me playing the guitar and singing, or in the ktv, or movies. Or jogging, cycling, rollerblading at the beach or reservoirs.

    What is an ideal first date to you?

    An ideal first date will be… when you are really comfortable with that person. To have long conversations over some wine, without realising that time just flew by.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Tammie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    To me, sexy is an attitude and state of mind when you want to share the best you with the world or with that someone. But fundamentally, you need to first be truly confident and embrace all of yourself. Only then, you will be able to share that with others.


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  • How To Satisfy A Lady Through Oral Sex

    How To Satisfy A Lady Through Oral Sex

    Being a male sex worker for women – I love sex.  It is – and should be – a fun way to explore and experience your body and your partner’s.  It shouldn’t be a source of shame.  It should be a way to grow as a person

    Why I Love Giving Oral Sex

    I love giving oral sex just for the experience itself, but also to be able to do something that a woman enjoys and is just about her.  I like feeling her respond and finding what works for her best and hopefully helping her to reach orgasm.

    Are There Men Who Don’t Enjoy Going Down?

    Most women tell me that the men they have been with, short and long term, simply aren’t interested in giving oral sex, or actively don’t like to do it – or in some cases are just really bad at it.  Despite a lot of progress in the last several decades, there are a lot of men who still feel no pressure (by example, education, or even porn) to give their partner oral. 

    Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky (to some degree) made men receiving blowjobs from women more acceptable.  Perhaps we need an equivalent political scandal to let everyone know that it’s ok (actually good) to give women oral too…

    John Oh

    What Do Women Want?

    Every woman is different in what she wants.  Some women are *really* sensitive.  Some women aren’t.  Some women like intense oral.  Some don’t.  Some women like deep G-spot stimulation with fingers, or a toy.  Some don’t. 

    You need to ask her what she likes and wants and listen when she tells you – even (especially?) if she says “I don’t know“.  Biggest mistakes that men make: not asking/listening, being in a rush (to do other things), putting too much pressure on their partner to have an orgasm (plenty of women love oral even if they don’t orgasm from it).

    Ways To Kink Up Oral Sex

    There are plenty – but before you do anything that pushes boundaries, you need to ask for and get consent from your partner and make sure you continue to do so during play.  It could include: anal play, which most women enjoy *if* they are introduced to it responsibly and consensual (and with plenty of lube). 

    You can also just add any other kinky play you can think of, like restraint, spreader bars, voyeurism – whatever works for you and your partner.


    I am John Oh, a straight male sex worker for women.  I live and work in Sydney, Australia and have been a male sex worker for women since 2010.  I offer everything from virtual online experiences (text and email chat and video), to in person bookings (from an hour or two, to overnight, to multi day bookings), to interstate and overseas travel (pandemics permitting).  I am in my late forties, tall and medium of build.  I’m Australian born and university educated.

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    Website: https://john-oh-escort.com


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  • Influencer & Entrepreneur Lena Yi Jia

    Influencer & Entrepreneur Lena Yi Jia

    I’m a university student studying ICAEW in Sunway College. I’m from SEREMBAN which is famous for siew pao. I’m 20 years old and I’m also running my own online business. 

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    My fashion style is minimalism.

    I prefer to wear simple and comfortable clothing but it doesn’t mean that I don’t care about my attire. It’s all about doing more with less. 

    Where do you love to shop from?

    I prefer shopping from Taobao as their selection is constantly updated and the prices are extremely affordable. 

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    I would like to learn psychology because I like to explore the emotional experiences of others. 

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    I would rate myself 6-7. I like to party but I also enjoy the occasional quiet night at home. 

    Would you rather have the ability to fly or talk to animals?

    I would prefer the ability to fly as I’m an explorer. I’m very curious about the world so with the ability to fly, I’m able to visit and experience what the world offers.

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    I’m not a superstitious person but I do believe that there are spirits and beings in this world.

    What is a funny or lame attempt a guy has tried to get to know you?

    During secondary school, someone bought a ticket to a concert from me just to have a picture with me. 

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Yijia. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    A lady who is confident with herself.


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  • How Important Is Attraction On A Date?

    How Important Is Attraction On A Date?

    To me, real intimacy means an authentic connection and a sense of comfort. It’s rooted in feeling safe enough to be vulnerable but also aware and conscious enough to hold space for the other person. I feel there is nothing more intimate than focused attention.

    My Ideal Date

    My ideal date would begin with drinks somewhere beautiful like The Beekman Hotel bar or Bemelman’s Bar at The Carlyle Hotel and catch up over bubbles. Then we’d go to Sushi Nakazawa – my favorite restaurant in NYC – for their incredible Omakase. If time isn’t a factor, a trip to the top of the Empire State Building makes for a lovely nightcap before dessert…

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I’ve been described as fun, lighthearted and easy going. I love getting to know people, especially from walks of life other than my own. I consider myself a lifelong learner so I’m always reading and researching subjects that pique my interest, quite a few inspired by my dates.

    My variety of interests means I have just as much fun snowboarding and racing supercars at the track as I do shopping at Saint Laurent and sipping champagne at the beach. One thing is for certain – I’m a sucker for a good time!

    How Important Is Attraction On A Date?

    I think it’s a myth that attraction must be instantaneous – in my experience, the most authentic attraction may start with a spark but grows in intensity as you get to know each other. I have been fortunate enough to experience relationships and attraction that grows even more extraordinary over years of seeing each other and creating lasting memories.

    My Dating Turn Offs

    My biggest turn-offs include suboptimal hygiene, stinginess, and a negative attitude.

    I like to be around people with open hearts and minds.


    Brooke Nichols – All-American Bon Vivant & Champagne Bubble About Town

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