I believe sex is a beautiful experience, however it is just a biological function at the end of the day. I look at sex like eating, sleeping etc. It’s a necessary function where you are allowed to get creative and show another person how much you appreciate them even if it’s just for their appearance.
What An Amazing Sexual Experience Is To Me
An amazing experience is when all parties can live in the moment. You don’t want it to end. You are matching her rhythm and vocal cords and all parties become one. Everyone feels satisfied afterwards.
What Turns Women On
I find that each individual woman has their own hot spots. You have to take your time with each one and find them. My go to move is going for neck kisses, then down to the breast.
3 Favorite Sex Positions
I love when a woman is riding because she is expressing her desires on you. I also love missionary because of the passion involved. Face to face during sex is one of my favorite positions. I also love that from-the-side early morning position.
Tips To Bring Her To Orgasm
Exercise and take your herbs (Maca root, horny goat weed) so you can last longer. Women love longevity and living in the moment. Listen to the way she screams when you hit certain spots and follow suite.
How I Love To Finish
I love to ask her if she is ready for me to nut then I will ask her where. I always let her decide but my favorite way to finish is creampies.
Mr Side Dude – An amateur film performer with over 100 scenes. Based in the midwest and east coast, he films with beautiful ebony women from all over the U.S.
Hi, thank you for reaching out to me. I’m Mitzi, and yes that’s my first name. I am currently a full-time model. I’m from the Philippines, Manila but I’m currently living in England now. I love to travel and paint and I also have a little one named Zyra 🙂
How long have you been modelling and what do you enjoy about being a model?
I’ve been modelling since I was 14 years old, I stopped when I turned 21 and this year I am back modelling again, unfortunately, the pandemic happened. So I think it’s about 10 years or more now.
I love modelling because I feel so different and confident once I’m in front of the camera, with all the makeup, hair and outfits. The fact that I can be myself in front of the camera too or imagine that I’m a different person without any limitations keeps me loving and coming back for more. The funny thing is I’m shy when I’m not in front of the camera but when I’m modelling, I feel confident and beautiful.
Do you have any favourite genres of modelling you prefer?
Hmm, I will accept any modelling jobs as much as I can and also if I know I can do it, I try to avoid modelling jobs that are “too sexy”
Is there any food or drink you can’t live without?
OHH! I love M&M’s peanut. I consume two big bags of it for a week (sharing size) and when I travel too, I should have it inside my bag.
If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?
Gosh, I feel like there are so many things that I want to change about the world. One of the biggest things for me is taking care of the planet. Trying to stop using finite resources. Moving to sustainable products that will allow future generations to enjoy the planet.
I wanna have equal rights for every person in the world no matter what nationality, race, religion, sexuality, gender, colour, etc. I’ll make sure that every child has the opportunity to change to who they wanna be.
Have you been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?
Yes.
So many things haha, one that always comes to my mind is when I first tried drinking beer and I got drunk so bad that I puked inside my purse with all my stuff inside, was so embarrassed and I went out of the club carrying that purse of mine with my errr vomit inside.
Would you rather be able to taste colours or see smells?
Taste colours, I think they are gonna taste good.
What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?
Pick up lines, I hate it too much, sometimes it’s funny but doing it too much is annoying.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions, Mitzi. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
It’s a pleasure. Sexy in a person is self-assurance, which is another way to say confidence. It’s knowing who you are, what you got, and not being afraid to show it.
In a world where people rarely understand each other in any other aspect, it is so wonderful to have a medium that transcends most of the things that divide us as people. For myself, coming to the US with minimal English skills made it very hard to communicate and form bonds, leading to misguided acting out that made me seem like a trouble-making class-clown, but art is such an effective medium to have for expressing yourself, from your shallowest thought to the subconscious songs of your very heart. Art has given me a voice and I intend to never take it for granted.
Bodypainting is specifically very important to me because I love the human body and feel everyone should be more aware and in love with their own bodies; I get the necessity for clothes but it has come to the point where people value the clothes they drape on themselves more than they care about the individual within the material things. We came to this world naked because that is all that is absolutely vital to us, our naked bodies.
The human body is the most perfect original art provided to us and I hate seeing anybody ashamed of their gift; it brings me joy to remind people how beautiful their body has always been despite the clouds of conformity we all have to wade through on a daily basis.
How My Interest In Body Painting Started
I was always trying to hold onto everything I learned in painting class back in High School, then one day my eyes were introduced to Skin Wars on Netflix and I was baffled to see all the places paint could go, both literally and figuratively. It was a competition between body painters and I fell in love with the limitless art pieces they could create to tell any story prompted by the judges.
But simply wanting to make the move from a regular canvas to God’s on canvas was not enough, I was lucky enough to have my friend Megan at the time, who was comfortable enough with her body for the both of us, taking away my fear of messing up my first time putting brush to body. The Venom painting on my Instagram gallery was the very first actual attempt at bodypainting.
Does Having A Background In Photography Help?
My background as a photographer has come in handy for my bodypainting in two key ways: First and foremost, it helps cut out the middleman when capturing certain visions that I have carefully curated. Certain messages and emotions can’t afford to be altered in the portrayal process.
Second, photography has made it second nature to envision models in any desired setting, thereby allowing me to inversely picture how best to portray a scene on a model.
Does Body Painting Require A Lot Of Artistic Ability?
Consider how difficult it already is to paint on canvas, now add depths (3D body) that you have to now counteract with your own depth from shading and blending. It’s definitely harder but that just opens up the door to a whole new world of perspective depth, which is what really makes body painting stand out.
Challenges When Painting On A Body Compared To A Canvass
Other than the battle of depths that I mentioned earlier, models are a bit more animated than regular canvases; I usually have to go over areas multiple times to retouch cracked or smudged paint, but honestly that’s just a small price to pay for the potential masterpiece I see in my head every time.
Typical Process Of A Body Painting Session
Oh it’s a whole mess. My process involves choosing some random picture I think looks vivid, then I change my mind about 20 times, research any other artists who might have done the same idea so I can put a new twist on it, then I stare at the picture for a long while to see if it fits on a body in a clever way.
So far I’ve mainly relied on my classic paint brushes and skin-safe acrylics, but I am currently developing my skills with an airbrusher so I’ll be incorporating that into my projects when I’m comfortable enough for it not to disrupt my painting process, which on average, takes about 2-3 hours (First time it took me five hours, felt eyes glaring down on me as I painted past the four hour mark, you live and learn.).
Christian Chick – Male photographer and bodypainter, born in Cameroon, based in Los Angeles. Other passion other than art and media, sports, specifically soccer. Ex-mechanical engineering major. degree in Japanese, 6ft tall, Sagittarius.
My thoughts on sex are that, in general, it usually can be pretty complicated. Personally, I’m more turned on by the idea of foreplay that could last for hours. But, whether we like it or not, it also can define a major part of your life. Thankfully, I’ve manage to be pretty damn good at it.
One Misconception About Having Sex With A Transgender Person
That you may not, or wouldn’t enjoy it.
Communication Is Key
As someone who has had quite a few experiences of a guy telling me that I was the first trans girl that they were with or wanted to be with: while some other people might find that endearing, it pretty much kills any kind of sex drive I may or may not have had at that moment.
My advice would be this: communicate that you are 100% clear with the fact that you know he/she/they are trans, but you’re still down to fuck, suck or whatever else pleases the both of you without actually saying it.
Tips When Having Sex For The First Time
Use some type of protection against STD’s, lube is always a good thing to have, and ask what your partner wants done to them; if what they say isn’t something you wanna do, they’re someone you probably shouldn’t be having sex with.
Spice Things Up & Make It Kinkier!
I went through a pretty slutty phase in my late teens/early twenties, so there are a lot that I have done outside of anything BDSM related or having to do anything that comes out of your body.
I’ve been to a sex club before, and it’s something I wouldn’t mind doing all again in the future.
Aphrodyte – I’m 25, born and raised in New York, picked the name Aphrodyte because I’d like to think of myself as a modern day sex goddess. I’ve been told I give the best head more than once, and I can make myself cum multiple times (meaning more than five) in less than an hour. 😉
Thank you SimplySxy for reaching out to me! My name is Joelie and I was born and raised in the heart of Vancouver. I work as a dental receptionist full time currently in training to become the office manager.
On the side, I enjoy shooting inspiring content/videos for my Instagram platform which showcases fashion, lifestyle and travel.
What inspires your fashion style and where do you love to shop from?
I love looking for styles and colour palettes that are in trend for the season and I get inspired seeing content from amazing bloggers and YouTubers I admire. I often shop at boutiques and consignment stores.
Sometimes, I’ll go thrifting at Plato’s Closet to hunt for some amazing pieces that are versatile and affordable! A few of my favourite stores are The Latest Scoop, Hollywood Boutique, Aritzia, and Oak + Fort.
Do you have a lifestyle or fashion hack that you can’t live without?
One of my favourite fashion hacks is styling basic tops and dresses in different ways where you can dress it up or down. It also helps if you are on a budget. The best part is reusing items from your closet to pull the entire look together.
You can pair a versatile sweater, jacket or cardigan over a basic dress for a chic look. You can also tie a basic shirt in the front or side and pair it with jeans, trousers or pants.
Which 3 things do you enjoy doing most in the city you live in?
I love going on adventures and finding new places to hike and explore. I enjoy shopping along Robson Street and searching for scenic views in the city.
On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?
I am totally a big foodie! Anyone who knows me knows that I love to snack and munch a lot. I love trying new pastries and different food but pasta has to be one of my favourite dishes! I would say on a scale of 1-10, it would be an 8!
If you can have a super power, what will it be?
If I were to have any super power, it would be to fly! Travelling the world is one of the things on my bucket list so I think it would be amazing to visit different cities and countries around the world.
What kind of music are you into and do you have any favorite artists?
I have been listening to a lot of contemporary R&B and Hip Hop lately. Some of my favourite artists are Smino, Frank Ocean, Joji, Mereba, Lil Tecca, and JID.
What is a cringey or funny attempt a guy has tried to know you?
I have been getting weird DM’s on my Instagram from random sugar daddy’s and I just find it hilarious and super cringey reading the messages.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Joelie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
I would define sexy as one who is confident in themselves and empowering.
I think kink and kinky people are great! Kink helps people express themselves and it’s what makes us all unique.
What I Love About Spanking
I have been obsessed with spanking since I was five years old. I am a spanking fetishist, as pure as they come. I had been thinking about spanking for a long time, so when I began indulging in my spanking fantasies when I was 19 years old, everything came quite naturally for me. I had a few different play partners that I switched with, and many of my partners gifted me with implements, and that’s how my implement collection quickly began to grow. I attended my first spanking party (Shadow Lane in Las Vegas) in 2017 and began my professional spanking and modeling career then. I’ve been doing this for over three years now.
I love that spanking is so pure and domestic. I especially love the headspace, pain and passion that goes into each scene. You really don’t need any fancy whips or paddles or implements to do it. All you really need is a willing bottom and a good hand and you’re good to go. But you can also grab a hairbrush off of your nightstand, or whip off your belt. That works too. 😉
Why Is Spanking Popular?
I think spanking is so popular because you can make it any way you want it to be. It can be soft and sensual like a relaxing massage, or disciplinary and harsh, or a blend of both. The butt is so round, so soft, and simply the safest and sexiest place to hit!
Favorite Props For Spanking
It all depends on the situation and if I am topping or bottoming. I personally love anything leather, because the impact feels so divine. When I am delivering a good, hard strapping, it gets me into a wonderful buzzing headspace.
I recently had purchased a new leather belt. I was shopping with my play partner, Miss Rachel, and had her bend over so I could give her a few swats with the belt. She approved and returned the favor, it was a done deal.
I also really love the hairbrush. It is so classic and feminine. You can also carry it around discreetly in your purse, a secret little thrill!
Is There A Correct Way To Spank?
Absolutely. It is important for anyone to know that you must avoid hitting any bones or vital organs. That means don’t be hitting too high (too close to the tailbone) or too low (thighs are okay to hit, but not every bottom enjoys being smacked there, so discuss with your partner). Your main focus is on the fattiest, juiciest area on the behind; just below the equator. Avoid wrapping too far around the side of the butt/hip and striking one cheek more than the other. Keep in mind symmetry and keeping things even. Both sides need love.
Checking in with your partner is key! That goes to say, everyone has their own style. I spank both right and left handed, which helps even things out a lot. As a switch, I think all tops should get a feel for the implement they will be using so you can gauge what the implement feels like and what works and doesn’t.
Recommended Spanking Aftercare
After a good spanking session, I rub lotion on the spankee’s bottom and give them a nice butt massage. I recommend Cetaphil’s body moisturizing cream for very dry, sensitive skin.
Post-spanking, the bottom tends to dry up, so moisturizing really helps restore and repair the skin.
Cassidy Lau – I am a Professional Spanko-Switch and Entertainer and based in Austin, TX. I provide in-person spanking sessions as a top, bottom or switch. You can also interact with me and my real-life Top and spanking partner, Miss Rachel, on our OnlyFans page. We livestream weekly real-life spankings and discuss our home life and domestic dynamics.
Pre-COVID, I had traveled a lot. Assuming things clear up in 2021 with COVID, my travel schedule will be as as followed: Atlanta, GA: January 15-16 Las Vegas, NV (Shadow Lodge Spanking Party): February 25-28 Dallas, TX (Texas All State Spanking Party): June 24-28 Houston, TX (Lone Star Spanking Party): November 11-14
I am based in Austin, TX but I travel back home to Seattle once a month.
My name’s Emily and I’m a model and full-time biomedical science student.
What inspires your fashion style and where do you love to shop from?
I wouldn’t say I stick to one specific style. My style is broad, and it ranges from various phases of my life. For example, I love dressing in a grungy, gothic style sometimes as it reflects my 2015 emo phase.
Yet, sometimes, I like a softer, pinker style that reflects the time in my life I spent cosplaying and watching anime (I still watch anime from time to time). I like to get my clothes second hand as I don’t like feeding so much into the fast fashion industry and I find that you can find the most individual clothing pieces that no one else has if you shop second hand.
Do you follow a regular workout or beauty regime?
I can’t say I have any sort of workout routine, although I probably should, but I do follow a simple skincare regime. Nothing too ridiculous though as I live a relatively busy lifestyle and I doubt I could keep up with an intricate skin care routine.
How is a typical day like for you?
I’m a student studying a biomedical science degree currently and, since I’m on my placement year now, I work a lot. I typically start my day off with a coffee and head into work in the laboratory for my typical shift.
Once home, I like to wind down and burn some scented wax and just chill out in the evenings with a movie and maybe some snacks.
What have you always wanted to do or learn but have yet to find the time for it?
I’ve always wanted to get better at roller skating. I’ve done it for around 10 years on and off and even used to work at a roller rink. Although, I’ve never had the time to learn tricks or anything other than how to go fast. I still keep my roller skates in my car though… just incase the situation calls for roller skates.
Have you been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?
There was a time at Starbucks when the woman serving asked me if my name was spelt Emily with a ‘y’ or Emilie with an ‘ie’ and I jokingly said, ‘the right way with a ‘y’’. As I got my coffee, I looked at her name tag and it was Bethanie with an ‘ie’…. I felt terrible…
Would you rather be able to play every musical instrument or master every type of sport?
I would love to be able to play every type of musical instrument as I’ve never really been able to play anything other than the stereotypical wonder wall on guitar. I own three guitars but can’t play any of them.
I also love music and spent quite a few teenage years playing roles in musicals and shows but could never do anything more than sing.
What turns you off on a date?
I haven’t been on a date in quite a while, but I’d have to say general manners. If, for example, I were to be taken to a restaurant and the person I was with was rude to staff, it’d be over really quick.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Emily. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
For me it’s most important to see one’s self as sexy, it’s not necessarily due to physical attributes either. I’d have to say that self-confidence is how I would define sexy.
Kink has been part of My entire adult life. I am not sure if I am wired that way or if it was finding an old stash of True Detective magazines as a youngster. For those that don’t know, those mags pictured women bound, gagged, etc. My first long term boyfriend was kinky and we explored a lot together but none of it was specifically tied to BDSM.
FemDom didn’t come until later, again at the introduction of a significant other. It was a natural fit, coinciding with a time when I was very engaged in a corporate career. It further boosted My confidence by allowing Me to own My sexuality and take that power of confidence into the workplace. Little is more powerful than a woman who knows the affect she has on you and uses it ruthlessly. I never looked back.
What Is Gender Play?
It’s a broad spectrum form of play and it just keeps getting broader with our exposure to non-traditional gender identities like non-binary, gender fluid, transgender, etc. Regarding My gender play, which is almost exclusively with men, it’s about taking them out of the confines of their born gender – what they are programmed to feel and believe about themselves, and how they identify with their gender.
That can be as simple as donning a pair of panties and teetering around in high heels, to full transformations and getting a public response to them in a feminine role – and everything in between. And it’s more than just the physical aspect. For many, taking on feminine characteristics and wearing womanly trappings pushes their comfort zone, makes them feel out of control and therefore more submissive and that is where D/s play enters.
Gender play often provides a jumping off point for FemDom and BDSM scenarios. Gender play on its own is not specifically part of FemDom or BDSM, in My opinion.
Misconceptions Of Gender Play
The biggest one is that it’s all about humiliation. Up until the last five years or so, I would say that was mostly accurate. At that time, gender play revolved mostly around sissy play and emasculation of the male ego. Now I see more and more men who want to feel empowered by feeling feminine and being viewed as a woman. Because of that, My skills have had to grow. I took lessons in transgender makeup and fleshed out My client wardrobe to include elegant attire too.
The other big misconception is that gender play is only for bi-sexuals. That is an absolute falsehood.
Reasons Subs Loves Gender Play
Well, for most it’s just kinky fun. For sissies, the erotic humiliation gets their juices flowing. For others, shedding their male responsibilities for a few hours and feeling the dichotomy of what women often feel; sexy, desired, objectified, pursued, vulnerable exposed – can be a real rush.
But there can also be a serious side to gender play. I have had more than a few clients that are exploring the possibility of transitioning and a professional dominant can provide the safe space for them to take on that role for a manageable time.
What A Typical Gender Play Session Is Like
I don’t know if there is a true “typical” but nowadays I enjoy the “female empowerment” scenes best. I’ve always felt that using feminization to emasculate a man was unfair to the female ideal. Why should being feminine make you less of a man and therefore humiliated? Shouldn’t a man be honored to be remade in the image of Us? I think that is just one of the ways our thinking is slowly changing.
So, the scenes that involve full transformations and realistic cross-dressing are My current favorite. I love to wait and reveal the final results after everything is done: hair, makeup, dress, shoes, nails, etc. The look on some of their faces is priceless. Of course, the transformation is just the first part of the scene for most. Sometimes we engage in medical play that can result to a trip to the OBGYN table and maybe a mock castration and gender reassignment. Maybe we discover the goddess Venus is resident in them and engage in strap on play. Public outings are always fun and liberating too.
What To Expect Before Exploring Gender Play
As I briefly mentioned earlier, gender play will not make you gay or cause you to question your sexuality in a negative way. Some men get fully dressed for the first time and declare themselves lesbians. Others crave to suck cock, but I don’t think it’s done anything more than bring to the surface what has been swirling around underneath.
As with any form of play, choose your partner carefully. If seeing a professional, make sure they have all the accouctrement you seek. If you want a full transformation, make sure they have a good stock of fem gear and preferably a dedicated feminization area. A verifiable track record of working in gender play is imperative too. Seek out reviews and other information outside of their website to make sure you are a good fit.
In short, do your research, choose well and communicate your desires and limits clearly.
Mistress Ayn – A professional Dominatrix residing in Atlanta, Georgia. She has been part of the BDSM lifestyle for over 20 years and a professional dominant since 2010. In person sessions are conducted at the renowned Atlanta Dungeon and in 2016 she launched the incomparable FemDom Mansion. Mistress Ayn was recognized by her peers for her contributions to the FemDom community as a Guest of Honor at DomCon 2019.
Hi everyone! My name is Gaby, I live in the south of France. I love animals, photography and travels.
What is your fashion style like and where do you love to shop from?
I like to wear comfortable clothes, shorts pants or joggers. I often shop and also like to find new clothes at online shops such as Lounge Underwear or Boohoo.
Do you have any fashion accessories that you cannot live without?
I cannot live without jewels and bags. They are essential to me and I never forget them anywhere I go.
Which 3 things do you enjoy doing most in the city you live in?
Because I live in the south of France, the weather is very sunny. It is almost never cold and rainy. I enjoy going for walks around the vineyards or along the sea side, to take pictures and hang around with my friends.
On a scale of 1-10, how much of an adventurer are you?
I think on a scale, I will be an 8 out of 10! I really enjoy traveling, discovering new landscapes, new animals or even insects! But I also like to find myself at home after a long adventure!
If you could time travel, where will you like to travel to?
Right now, if I could go anywhere, I would choose to go to the Maldives. Island’s landscapes are my favourite. During this complicated period, all I want is a relaxing and warm holiday on the seashore.
Would you rather have super sensitive taste or super sensitive hearing?
Without hesitation, I want to have a super sensitive taste. I can be very picky with food.
What do you not get about guys?
I never found a guy having the same expectations as me.
Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Gaby. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?
To me sexy means, being funny, elegant and being well in your own skin. Self confidence can be very attractive.
I have been amazing, taking this time to reflect on myself and pinpoint exactly what my goals are for the near and far future. Before Covid hit, I was initially supposed to be on tour in as a runway model for the clothing line Masion De Couture. As that is on pause, I’ve been focusing on my music and dropped my single “Roll Up” which is now quite poplar on TikTok.
The Challenges of Covid
As much as this pandemic caught me off guard, I accepted that this is what it is and put my full trust in God as he has bigger plans for all of us. A challenge I faced was accepting within that I may not be accomplishing as much as I’m used to but being okay with that and remembering that everyone is experiencing the same thing.
How I Have Adapted During Covid
I adapted to the changes in my life by focusing all of my good energy into my work such as improving on my vocals, etc. This pandemic gave me a time to sit back which ultimately motivated me to work that much harder towards achieving excellence.
I was fortunate to get the opportunity to model for Rockstar Energy Drinks which was an amazing experience. I am also so excited for everyone to hear a song that I’ve been working on with Young Stitch and Serani.
Plans For My Career After Covid
Once this pandemic is over, I am excited to film the music videos for my songs and get back to doing photo shoots on the regular. Leading the industry in achievements and continuing to set the bar for the next generation coming up behind me.
Riley Sawyer – Toronto artist, superstar actress, model and influencer
