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  • 3 Sure Fire Ways For Successful Body Shaming

    3 Sure Fire Ways For Successful Body Shaming

    Well kids, if you’re looking for some fun this weekend or are just lying around bored with Snap Chat or the latest Netflix offering, why not get in on the latest best-est most viral-est craze modern man (and woman) has come to lately…body shaming. Yes, you can exert your unfounded feelings of superiority, bully from afar, become part of that conversation you know is always happening around you and lift yourself up to the level of one of the cooler peeps by giving some relief to that itchy Twitter or staving off texting for a millisec and call people names for what you and a few others perceive as less than perfect, or in most cases, too big body parts.

    But how do you get in on this new phenomena? What are the rules and tools needed to play to win? Let’s face it, not everybody is going to be good at this, some people just won’t have the guts or won’t be smart enough to keep up.

    But we know you can do it, right?

    Below are Three Sure Fire Ways For Successful Body Shaming so you can rise to the head of the class of being a jerk.

    1. Be a celebrity. Really, nobody cares what you have to say. Your friends on Instagram are part of the great unwashed just like you are. What you really need to truly wage a successful body shamming campaign or to make a mark beyond just your friend’s Twitter feed is to be famous. If you are, then when you call a girlfriend out for her small breasts or cellulite, or a guy friend for not having abbs as tight as yours, your shamming will go that much farther and further, upper and outter. And no, the person you are shamming doesn’t have to be a celeb like you (though it helps).

    2. Be perfect yourself or if not perfect, make sure to photoshop those parts of you that aren’t.

    3. Only ever shame across social media. Really, what is this 1984?? when we look somebody in the eye and tell them face-to-face what we think of them! Snap Chat, Twitter all the rest of it was invented exactly because we don’t really want to see the other person face-to-face, leave our houses, be physically present when we interact or insult somebody. Download the necessary apps, get your fingers up to speed and be constantly checking your phone…as any above the line competent shammer does these days.

    There are plenty more tips to being a good body shammer, but begin with the above and work your way up to expert. The net is your oyster, go call-out those fat pearls.

    Ralph Greco, Jr – I am the P.R. liaison for The Erotic Heritage Museum: http://www.eroticmuseumvegas.com/ writer for the blog here at: https://dawnamatrix.com/ editor-in-chief of this global latex quarterly magazine and its site: http://vongutenberg.com/ editor-in-chief of this weekly column: http://www.shortandsweetnyc.com/category/features/sex/ and a teacher/freelance writer in the adult field.

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  • What You Must Know About Sex Parties

    What You Must Know About Sex Parties

    Sex parties are some of my favorite events to attend – and not just for the orgasms! I love the open and free environment that these parties foster. There is always fun to be had and memories to be made, even if you don’t end up getting frisky on that particular night. Plus, the people I’ve met at sex parties are some of the most friendly, open, creative, and wonderful people I know. And as far as the sex goes – there are endless opportunities to try new things, play with new people, and fulfill fantasies!

    How Sex Parties Are Organized

    It depends on who’s organizing them and where they’re held. Usually they are organized by a core team of 2-5 people, with some extra volunteers if necessary. The ones I’ve been to are non-profit, community based events, so most attendees help out with things like set up, music, bringing food and drinks, or clean up. There is usually a Facebook event for them, as that’s an easy way to share information and keep everyone updated.

    As far as accessibility goes, these are private, invite-only events. Usually the organizers invite people they know from the community, and often those invited are allowed to bring a friend or two along, but it depends on the size of the space and the rules of the party. It’s important that everyone at the party feels safe and comfortable with each other, and that everyone can be trusted, which is why there are never public open invites.

    This doesn’t mean that these parties are impossible to attend though! If you make an effort to get to know people in your city through Fetlife (the BDSM social network), swingers communities, clubs, or even burner communities, you will probably start hearing about local events in no time.

    What Typically Happens At A Sex Party

    There’s always such a wonderful variety of interactions happening at sex parties, so I wouldn’t say that there’s anything really “typical”. From cuddling and dancing, to massages and Shibari, to wild foursomes and intense Master/slave play. At the first sex party I ever attended, one of the first interactions I saw was a 5’4” woman flogging a 6’2” man for 20 minutes straight!

    I had one of my most memorable experiences later that evening – I was naked on a mattress in the middle of a room, giving a blowjob to someone. People started asking if they could join us and/or touch me, and next thing I knew I was also giving a hand job, receiving oral sex, and being touched by 5 or 6 people in total. I lost track of who’s hands were who, and it was really overwhelming in an absolutely wonderful way!

    Basic Sex Party Rules To Follow

    I’ve been to sex parties at a variety of places, including private apartments, BDSM dungeons, and rented event spaces. There are always some basic consent rules that can be summarized into “don’t touch anyone, initiate sexual acts, or escalate a sexual situation without getting clear verbal consent first.” There is a zero tolerance policy for breaking that basic rule at all of the parties I go to.

    There are also sometimes rules around sobriety – many people choose to have a couple drinks, but getting heavily intoxicated is at the very least looked down upon, and at the most a violation of rules.

    Some parties also use the PAL (Pervy Activity Liaison) system. In this system everyone must have one or two PALs at the party who are decided on in advance. PALs must know and trust each other, and arrive at the party together. You are responsible for your PAL’s behavior and they are responsible for yours, so if anyone violates the rules both (or all three) PALs will be held responsible. This helps keep everyone responsible and ethical, and prevents people from bringing along that one friend they worry will break the rules.

    Tips When Attending A Sex Party For The First Time

    I think it’s easy to get nervous and intimidated if you are attending an event like this for the first time – so just relax! People I’ve met at sex parties tend to be the most kind, friendly, and welcoming people I know. Don’t be afraid to ask questions, and definitely don’t feel like you have to jump into anything you’re not ready for yet!

    I also really recommend volunteering to help decorate, organize, or set up, if that is something that is needed for the event you are attending. It’s a great way to get involved and meet people before the event starts. I helped decorate the space before the first sex party I attended, and not only was it fun, but it really helped me feel comfortable in the space and with the people.

    Lucy Huxley is a cam girl, model, and porn performer based in Berlin, Germany. She is a polyamorous Domme, hedonist, and feminist. She currently produces ethical porn with her partner Hunter S. Johnson. Follow Lucy on:

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    Upcoming Works: My partner Hunter and I have a very special project coming up in June. Make sure to follow us on Twitter for updates!

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  • Escort Etiquette Advice For Clients

    Escort Etiquette Advice For Clients

    Before I began working as an escort I was a certified Pillow Princess! I was too shy and self-conscious to take control in the bedroom. Sex was enjoyable for me but inherently intimidating, especially with someone I really liked or admired. But now? Sex is nothing short of liberating, an exhilarating adventure with every encounter!

    There are the obvious reasons why sex can create instant intimacy for most… The sensation of touching one another… Syncing your gyrations to move as one… Exploring each other’s hidden carnal desires… The ecstasy fueled release in climax… But, in my opinion, the best part of sex is EXACTLY what used to intimidate me the most! It’s the connection that is created between you and the other person in that stolen moment. It’s the eye contact, the giggles, the moans, the voyeurism in watching one another climax. For me, it’s more than just touch and sensation that creates intimacy, and good sex is impossible without intimacy.

    I love creating and partaking in those passionate moments. Escorting has helped me to overcome my insecurities and mental blocks to really enjoy sex without getting wrapped up in “doing it right.” Now I’m able to let go in the moment and venture with another to find that connection in tried and true, yet pleasurably unique ways every time.

    Clients I Prefer Seeing

    The only preferences I have regarding clients I am willing to see are that they must be hygienic and respectful. A cleanly shaven face (or well-groomed beard), FRESH breath, clean and trimmed fingernails, as well as a working knowledge of why one must never venture from front to back… are all vastly underrated and GREATLY appreciated qualities in clients. As far as being respectful goes there is not a punitive, demanding, or vindictive bone in my body. If you try to contact me and you are pushy, uncouth, start trying to negotiate donations, or avoid screening, I will simply disengage. I have never believed in doing anything that feels like a waste of time or energy. Therefore, I have no interest in arguing or begging, nor do I have the patience for either. No booking is that important to me.

    How My Screening Process Works

    I do not make appointments over the phone. Other providers might, and more power to them! But it has proven to be more of a hassle and a drain on my time and energy reserves trying to do so. Every call I receive, I respond with a text redirecting you to my website as soon as my schedule permits me to do so. Sometimes I will screen or take information via text, but I prefer to correspond via email (ExclusiveJourdanJames@Protonmail.com) or to receive meeting requests via the secure booking form on my website.

    Importance Of Personal & Client Privacy

    As of right now my privacy, health, and safety are all equally paramount and non-negotiable aspects of escorting for me. There are providers who show their full face in their ads and social media, but I don’t see that in my future any time soon. I have so much admiration and respect for career escorts, but that trajectory is not why I began escorting. I don’t think escorting should affect someone’s other personal and professional endeavors, but I can’t really control the sway of social stigma..

    Right now I’m just hoping to use escorting as a stepping stone into the next chapter of my life. I have not been contacted by someone I know personally in a professional capacity and truthfully, I hope it never happens. I’d only be willing to share my legal name with a sponsor who is interested in entering into a formal arrangement. But that’s the type of dynamic that requires a substantial amount of mutual trust. That level of trust can only be fostered and proven with actions that betray each individual’s character over a significant amount of time.

    Common Mistakes Clients Make

    A guaranteed way to get blacklisted or ignored by me is to contact me and attempt to goad me into giving you a moment-by-moment breakdown of our prospective time together. I am a companion. I provide an experience. If you really are eager to meet me, then why not expedite the process by reading through my website and reviews before contacting me? If you are unsure about anything you’ve read I would be delighted to clarify any concerns you might have! But once you start throwing acronyms at me and pandering for a play-by-play, I move your information to the blocked list. If you read through my website most of the questions you could have will likely be acknowledged there. I don’t have the energy for time-wasters and I have no interest in incriminating myself.

    Tips For First-Timer Clients

    A lot of girls will refuse to see you unless you provide them with your legal name, regardless of any screening site or review board membership you might have. We don’t care who you’re married to or who your boss is, and I’m sure as hell not going to call anyone (though some providers do and that is their prerogative). We are just looking for some basic information to verify your identity for our safety. Historically, there have been a lot fewer providers who can behaviorally be likened to Glenn Close in Fatal Attraction and a lot more clients who can be likened to Christian Bale in American Psycho. Having “BulgingJohn6969” saved in our calendar doesn’t do much to lead the police to our body after we’ve lost in a race against you and your chainsaw, if you know what I mean.

    I can promise you, I am just as anxious and eager to meet you as you are to meet me! So when you reach out to me, make it easier on both of us and help expedite the process. Fill out the booking form on a provider’s website as completely as possible and with as much information as possible. Better yet, contact a provider with a quick introduction and the date, time, and desired duration of your meeting (feel free to throw in a modest compliment if you’re feeling flirty!).

    Follow that introduction with a link to your LinkedIn profile or work website and the websites and email addresses (or phone numbers) of 2 providers you’ve met with recently. Follow these instructions and you can contact me personally to complain if the lucky lady you’ve messaged isn’t concealing a raging river flowing with excitement and anticipation the moment she opens the door to meet you!

    Jourdan James is Chicago’s premier executive companion. She’s eager to please, but I wouldn’t recommend asking her opinion if you don’t want to hear the truth! There’s nothing she enjoys more than creating a private world wherein you are the center of her universe. Her dry wit, effervescent personality, and effortlessly sensual demeanor will always leave you wanting more. Follow Jourdan on:

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    In the coming month Jourdan will begin publishing a monthly blog post to her website! If you’ve enjoyed her unique perspective here at SimplySxy, be sure to head over to her website or follow her on Twitter so you don’t miss out on updates!

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  • My Sex Preferences and Favorite Positions

    My Sex Preferences and Favorite Positions

    Sex is wonderful. Sex is amazing. Sex is so many things. It can be a kinky, hot, sweaty mess or an amazing opportunity to connect with someone. Our urbanized society puts such a taboo on it that we forget how fun, orgasmic and liberating it can be. Sex is the reason I get to have so much fun doing what I do.

    Sex is what brings us together. Look at me, sounding like a hippie. Really though, you build chemistry the moment you meet, connect physically, do what turns you on and have amazing orgasms. It’s so simple!

    Some of us get so caught up hiding our porn, our sexual preferences and our deepest sexual desires that we forget to let them loose with the right people. Which really sucks. I get so turned on when a guy comes to me and says “I have something I want to try with you.”

    Sex should be liberating. It should be a go to, an escape, an amazing experience, and most of all it should be explosive. Orgasmic. Let’s have more sex, and create more orgasms.

    One Major Mistake Men Make During Sex

    Worrying. Stop it. I know it’s like saying “calm down” when you’re pissed but it ruins the whole experience. Guys worry so much if they are “doing it right” that they forget to just relax and enjoy the experience.

    All you have to do is show up and enjoy yourself. Do what you want and enjoy. If you push the limits I will let you know but I want to see you enjoy. It turns me on.

    My Favorite Sex Position

    Me on top or doggystyle any day. Something about the way I can really feel a man inside of me during both of those.

    When I’m on top I have more control, but something about the way I can feel the man completely inside of me when I am sitting on top of him, really gets me going. I’m wet just thinking about it right now.

    Doggystyle allows a man to grab me from behind and have their way with me. I find that such a turn on.

    Quickies Or Long-Lasting Sex?

    Both. They are so different. Long-lasting sex can lead to multiple orgasms, exploration of each other, different positions and acts, and of course moaning. Long lasting sex can leave you in a daze hours after.

    Quickies are like a straight shot, a concentrated dose of pleasure in a short amount of time. They leave you breathless.

    How I Love To Kink Sex Up

    I like to grab onto a man or at least touch him somewhere like his leg or his shoulder during the act. It’s an extra boost to the pleasure.

    Changing the speed of our rhythm during the act. When it’s really heated up, slow down. It gets you to the edge and back, leaving you wanting to come even more.

    Brielle Barnes – Real, classy and unique. I have a great smile and an all-natural body. I’m sensual, adventurous, discreet and flirty. I am open-minded so we can build a great connection together. I’m your sweetheart girl next door with a wild side. Our time together is laid back, yet full of passion. Find out more about me on:

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/briellebarnes7
    Website: www.briellebarnes.com

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  • What I Love About Blowjobs!

    What I Love About Blowjobs!

    I personally think giving your man a blowjob is the most loving and caring thing you can do for him. When I’m giving him a blowjob, I am being completely submissive and just focusing on his needs. Nothing is sexier in my mind than allowing a man to be a man.

    Why I Love It!

    Like most girls, I gave my first blowjob to my high school boyfriend before I was ready to have actual intercourse. As I matured as an adult, and matured through the years sexually, its always been my go to foreplay especially when it’s unexpected. I’m the girl who will grab for your zipper, drop to her knees and start blowing you. I love everything about it from the moan to the taste after a guy cums.

    Do You Get Turned On?

    I’m so turned on by giving a guy a blowjob, especially when he moans loudly, completely relaxing him and demonstrating his intense enjoyment.

    Any Penis Preferences?

    Personally, I have no preferences towards penis size or shape. I think men obsess more about that than women. It’s very similar to how women often obsess about not having large enough breasts. Obviously, if a guy has a smaller penis, we have to be open to trying different positions, until the desired penetration is satisfying to both people involved.

    Favorite Blowjob Moves

    I’m a zipper grabbing, drop to my knees kind of girl. I love giving my guy oral. I try to use little hand action and take as much of the cock in my mouth as possible.  I love running my tongue up and down the shaft in between sucking. I love it when a guy moans loudly. The louder you get, the more action I will give.

    To Spit Or Swallow?

    I’m a swallower even before I was in porn.  When I’m giving oral and my guy is close to orgasm, and I pull him out of my mouth to jerk him off, I feel like I’m leaving him hanging because his orgasm isn’t going be as intense. Cumming feels great, I know, but not as good as when the guy is about to cum and he can let himself go and enjoy. I’m so turned on by a guy who moans loudly and is comfortable with me letting himself go and filling my mouth or pussy with his amazing cum.

    Danni Dawson – I love being an adult film actress! I began camming a few years ago and then decided became a porn actress, which I absolutely love. I’ve always loved sex, and to be in front of the camera having sex is just unbelievable! I am so grateful for my growing fan base, and can’t wait to shoot more scenes and hopefully win an AVN!

    Follow Danni Dawson on:
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    ManyVids: DanniDawson.manyvids.com 

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  • Illinois Model Penny Aphrodite

    Illinois Model Penny Aphrodite

    Hi Penny it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Thank you so much for having me! I was born in Heidelberg, Germany, and now I currently reside in Central Illinois.

    Photo: Fine Art Photography ( www.fineart-adel.com )

    What do you love about modeling?

    The ability it gives you to be different characters/people, to take you to different worlds and different era’s, and being able to dress up in all sorts of fun outfits!

    Fine Art Photography ( www.fineart-adel.com )

    How will you describe a typical day for yourself?

    This is going to sound strange, but I usually wake up and start my day around 3pm. Once I wake up and get ready, I either go to rehearsal for a local theatre production I’m in, have burlesque practice, or go out and do a photoshoot. Once the night starts I head off to my day to day job, which is night audit at a nice hotel in my town.

    On my off days I usually am watching my favorite TV series/anime, playing video games, or sewing either my cosplay or burlesque outfits.

    Photo: Sparky Seduction ( www.facebook.com/Sparky-Seduction-1625941324336929/ )

    Is there an experience everyone should try at least once in their life?

    Travel. I can not stress enough how strongly I recommend going on vacation to your dream destination, either alone or with company. So many people I meet let work schedules, finances, fear of leaving, everyday life – anything, to prevent them from seeing the world. Take the time, save up, and spoil yourself at least once. There’s so much out there, and everyone deserves a chance to see it.

    Photo: SKGlamour Photography ( www.facebook.com/skglamor/ )

    Which is the sexiest item in your wardrobe?

    Only one? My whole wardrobe seems to consist of leather, lace, and lingerie. I actually have a harder time picking out outfits for everyday wear then for a night out.

    Photo: SKGlamour Photography ( www.facebook.com/skglamor/ )

    What motto do you live by?

    “There is only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.” – Aristotle

    Photo: SKGlamour Photography ( www.facebook.com/skglamor/ )

    If you could describe yourself as a flavor, what will it be?

    Vanilla! Original, a classic, and you never grow bored of it.

    What do you find attractive in the opposite sex?

    I’ll be generic and say personality. However if I’m being fully truthful, I tend to be drawn to men with power, or those in charge. I’m into dominance and people who have their life together, I guess. Also, a tattoo or a piercing here and there doesn’t hurt, either.

    Photo: SKGlamour Photography ( www.facebook.com/skglamor/ )

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Penny. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Compassion, character growth, and confidence. xoxo

    Follow the beautiful Penny Aphrodite on:
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    Featured images courtesy of SKGlamour Photography ( www.facebook.com/skglamor/ )

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  • How To Deepthroat & Love It

    How To Deepthroat & Love It

    Personally, I just find deepthroating to be really fun. And I think for me, as far as at least blowjobs go, the reason I like doing it is because I like seeing the reaction. Like the reaction I get out of the guy. With sex you’re kind of distracted. It’s a two way street, whereas giving a blow job it’s just me focusing on him kind of thing. And so I can see what causes certain reactions.

    Do You Love Deepthroating?

    Yes, actually I really do. As far as it goes, if I’m not deepthroating, I can’t stand the feeling when it gets stuck in the back of the throat. And you know how some girls can only go so far into their mouths and then that’s it for them. And I’m like brah there’s a whole frigging inch that I didn’t even freaking touch and that’s so boring to me. That and the fact that I love the facial reaction when I finally do, because most people don’t see it coming.  It’s fun.

    How It Feels When Deepthroating

    Honestly it’s not very describable, you can feel your throat squeezing against it.  And if you aren’t panicking, it doesn’t hurt at all.  It’s just hard to put into words.

    Does Size Matter?

    I think once you hit a certain point, large is large. If it can physically fit down my esophagus then yes I can take it. After I hit like a 5 to 6 inch mark, I can take anything down. I haven’t met one that I can’t yet. So, yeah.

    Tips To Deepthroat Successfully

    One is finding the right angle. It is very hard to try and go against the way your throat is naturally shaped. So like I said before, if you do it in the laying down position where the guy is laying down and you’re kind of on top it’s easier to do it in a 69 position. But you don’t necessarily have to have your vagina in his face because that’s distracting for you, but it’s easier to do it in the 69 position because you can curve with your throat. If he’s sitting down it’s a little bit easier.

    And then one of my personal favorites is when you hang your head off the end of the bed. Because it’s more of a straight shot, it makes it a little bit easier instead of having to you know, work against it. But if it is a situation where you have to work against it, don’t think about it. If you have to think about it and you have to tell yourself, hey I need to swallow at this point, you’re just going to get distracted and sometimes it doesn’t work the way you want it to; but if just start at the very top and just go down in one fluid motion, it works a lot easier.

    Instead of you know, hitting a point and you’re like oh fuck now they’re at my throat, what the fuck do I do. Just boom go straight down without thinking about it. And it helps if you like take a breath and swallow. But another problem with trying to force is you can cause a gag reflex and you can end up vomiting and that’s never a fun situation. So part of the reason I say, don’t ever force it. Don’t think about it. Just jump in off the diving board.

    What You Should Never Do When Deepthroating

    Um, I think going back to that whole trying to force yourself. If you can’t do it at the time, don’t make yourself do it because it can end up going badly for you and you’re going to end up like I said before, vomiting and activating your gag reflex and just kind of makes it harder and then don’t hold down longer than you can, like don’t black out. That’s not something that you want to do. You have to come back up and take a breath, be proud of yourself that you made it all the way down and then try it again once you got more air.

    And don’t just deepthroat, it gets boring when you keep doing the same thing over and over and over again. Sometimes I keep a bag of tricks and I hold those tricks off to the side and it’s like rotating your wardrobe almost. Like I don’t wear the same shirts all the time. I’ll wear like the same 4 shirts and then I’ll go and I’ll rotate out my wardrobe and I’ll wear a bunch of different shirts. It’s kind of the same thing as what you are doing with blowjobs, like don’t use the same trick every time because then you get predictable and boring.

    How Do You Like Him To Finish?

    Okay if I am doing it for a scene, I do facials but that’s just because it kind of works towards the viewer a little more as they can actually see how it ends, but if it’s just me doing it on my own personal time, I’m a swallower. I really like to swallow. Everybody looks at me like I’m crazy when I say this, I actually like the way it tastes. Don’t get that a lot, I know it’s weird.

    Little Miss Kay is a very knowledgeable and talented individual despite her young age. Her skillset includes massive squirting, deepthroating and some more fun stuff we all like but she’s being recognized for her not common 36F boobs. Because her name comes from the BDSM term “Little” which is absolutely cute to admire whenever she’s on that mode, you’ll get to enjoy her wild side whenever she’s not in it.

    Follow Little Miss Kay on:
    Twitter:     www.twitter.com/XLittleMissKayX

    Videos: https://www.manyvids.com/Video/297025/Little-Miss-Kay-Casting-Couch/

    https://www.manyvids.com/Video/297031/Kay-meets-Mark/

    https://www.manyvids.com/Video/368855/The-Crew-Guy/

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  • Malaysian Host, Emcee & Speaker Mei Sze

    Malaysian Host, Emcee & Speaker Mei Sze

    Hi Mei Sze it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I am a host, emcee, speaker, and youth ambassador for the National Cancer Society of Malaysia. I have been in the United States for 6 years before I made a decision to come back to Malaysia to continue my PhD research, and reach out on psychological issues through the media. I have gotten my PhD in developmental psychology and use my knowledge to speak, write in columns and also through my work with the National cancer society of Malaysia.

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    You inspire me.

    What is a typical day like for you?

    After waking up and making my breakfast, it’s to rush for meeting or to host an event, lunch, followed by a shoot or interview with a magazine, workout, dinner, and of course some rest and catch up with the family before bedtime. If the event I host spans a day, then my entire day is taken up for the event.

    Tell us 3 things you love most in your wardrobe!

    My jackets, one piece dresses, and handbags.

    How much of a travel adventurer are you?

    Too much, I am constantly wanderlusting.

    If you could time travel, where will you choose to go?

    To the future, just because I want to see how it’s like :p

    Which food best describes you?

    Rice.

    What can a guy do to turn you off on a date?

    Talk about himself constantly.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Mei Sze. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Sexiness is confidence in a person’s body, and capabilities!

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  • A Courtesan’s Advice For Clients

    A Courtesan’s Advice For Clients

    Sex is something that is ever changing from having a deep connection to it just being carnal lust.  It can involve multiple partners whether it be another woman, a man, or even both. That’s why I love it so much! It is never the same experience.  The creativity of each intimate encounter is always unpredictable but my anticipation and excitement aren’t.  Growing up in a conservative European home, sex was considered taboo. We never spoke of it nor was it ever acknowledged. It wasn’t until I reached high school that I first discovered myself and sex. It was empowering as much as it was arousing. It became one of my favorite things to talk, write, and experiment. The intimate moments of ecstasy, the humorous orgasmic expressions, the droplets of lustful sweat, the secretive fantasies and kinks, the erotic whispers and moans, etc. Sex has endless possibilities of exploration bringing out a part of a person that isn’t publicly displayed.

    Types Of Clients I See

    Clients come in different ages, sizes, races, gender, and backgrounds. However, my preference seems to lean towards older men. It is not that I am not keen on men my age, it is just the majority have a strong attitude of self entitlement and lack mannerisms. Older men are finely aged and have an array of interests. I am quite selective of whom I see and I always favor a person who takes their time to send me a lovely email describing themselves. Discretion and safety is always of concern hence, why a screening process exists. This process is in place to keep both myself and the client safe. There are different methods of screening to accommodate everyone’s comfort. From employment verification, background checks, references, or verification services such as P411. As always discretion is of the utmost importance and verification information submitted is deleted after an initial engagement.

    What A Client Is Expected To Know Before Booking

    A smooth booking occurs after a proper screening. A mistake that is often made is when a client fills out a screening form incorrectly such as submitting a false name or information. Another common mistake is inquiring about detailed services whether it be with the usage of acronyms or not.  Both of these mistakes can easily land someone in the Do Not See list. Filling out the form correctly will assure for a smooth process. Clients should rest assure that their information is handled with discretion and will never be shared. Remember, discretion is a two way street.

    Mistakes Clients Make When Meeting

    To err is human and mistakes often occur.  A lot goes through someone’s mind when they first meet and without realizing they often forget to place down the envelope. I understand for I have also been taken by the moment our eyes met. To avoid interrupting the flow of an engagement it is best to place the envelope down as soon as you meet. If you are in a public setting it is proper to place it in a greeting card or in a gift bag. It is incredibly disrespectful to hand the envelope directly or having me wait until it is awkwardly brought up.

    Another frequent mistake is lack of consideration towards their hygiene. A lovely English gentleman once visited and greeted me with toothpaste kisses. He later explained that he had just smoked and ate some toothpaste to avoid tasting like cigarettes.  If you feel the need to freshen up please feel free to excuse yourself to the restroom. I take my time to be presentable and expect my date to do so as well. From time to time I encounter a gentleman who with good intent brings their own lubricant or toys. While it is a gesture with harmful intent I personally do not utilize it. I only utilize my own products that I know will not effect my body chemistry. As for toys if they are in an unopened package then I will gladly use them after cleaning them.

    Is Any Topic Of Conversation Out Of Bounds?

    I am lover of conversation and feel like a wide spectrum of topics helps get to know someone. Often, people say not to discuss politics nor religion for it can cause conflict. However, I have yet to have a problem arise from doing so. There is an art and beauty into the attempt to understand someone else’s point of view.  One of the topics that makes me cringe in the inside is when they talk about the similarities I share with their daughter. I don’t mind hearing about their children but it is a completely different thing to be compared. Aside from that the time spent together is a time to truly liberate yourself and share anything you desire.

    Claire Lamoureux – Originally from Southern France, this wanderlust debutante became a worldwide courtesan. She is an international companion who adores jet setting adventures and collecting books. Although she is only twenty two years old she has an appetite for culture and languages. Claire is a multilingual biochemist with an insatiable lust and true passion for opening others to new experiences.

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  • Exploring Impact Play

    Exploring Impact Play

    My interest in kink started when my interest in sex started in general. I’ve never really been into “vanilla” sex, I’ve always been on the more extreme side of things; especially when it comes to sado-masochism.

    What Is Impact Play?

    Impact play is when one person (typically the Dom/me) hits another person (typically the Sub) repeatedly for sexual gratification. This can be with a hand, paddle, flogger, cane, crop, or other instrument.

    In a typical scene (though I don’t think any scene is “typical”) the Dominant will bind the Submissive to something and hit them (spank, flog, cane, whatever) repeatedly and with increasing force for the sexual gratification of both partners. Some Submissives (meeee) can even achieve orgasm from impact play alone, even if the genitals aren’t stimulated at all! Impact play can be VERY powerful, and is a great way to get into “sub-space”.

    Popularity Of Impact Play

    I can’t vouch for how “popular” impact play is as a fetish, but I will say I know a lot of people who are very into it. I personally participate in impact sessions at least once every week or two. It’s a great form of stress relief (just like any sexual activity) and is honestly the best form of foreplay for me personally.

    Preparation For Impact Play

    To start you’ll want either your bare hands, or some type of tool as I mentioned above: a paddle, a flogger, a cane, a crop, or something similar. I’d also recommend something for bondage, like cuffs or rope, but that’s not absolutely necessary.

    Typically the process of impact play begins with the Dominant “warming up” the submissive, by hitting them lightly with what they’re using for play. For example, my preferred method of impact play is flogging (giving or receiving). So, for instance, with a flogger the Dominant would lightly flick the flogger against the Submissive’s skin to draw the blood to the surface. You want to use an area on your submissive that has a lot of meat or fat (i.e. back, butt, thighs). You warm them up so that you can hit them harder later without seriously injuring them.

    Some Submissives enjoy bruising or marking (*cough* me *cough, cough*) some do not. This is why communication is VITAL. For any type of BDSM experience, but especially those involving pain play. The Dominant is responsible for making sure the submissive is having a comfortable experience. You can go to town on your submissive for a bit, but it’s important to come in close, touch them, whisper to them, remind them that you’re there and that you care. Be sure to ask them if they like what you’re doing regularly, and especially after harder strikes.

    It’s always important to have a safe word as well, so that if it becomes too much the submissive can say their safe word (which should be a word that would never be used during play! “No” and “stop” should not be safe words. For instance, mine is “mango”) and end the scene.

    How Impact Play Is Used As Punishment

    I suppose impact play could certainly be used as a punishment in the context of BDSM, but I personally use it as a pleasurable thing. I beg my Dominant to flog me.

    That being said, it would be extremely simple to incorporate as punishment. Is your submissive behaving poorly? Bind them up to a Saint Andrew’s Cross (or anything of course), tell them why they’re receiving punishment, and begin. As always, a safe word is vital, but more often than not Submissives enjoy their punishments. Even if they don’t enjoy the feeling, they enjoy being trained right from wrong by their Dominant.

    Precautions For Safe Impact Play

    All you really need for safe impact play is to PAY ATTENTION. Constantly communicate with your Submissive. “Is that okay?”, “Do you like that?”,“Is that too hard?”. And Submissives: be TRUTHFUL with your Dominant! Don’t endure something you really really don’t enjoy just to please your Dominant. It’s important to voice when something is TRULY unpleasant. You may enjoy going out of your comfort zone, or intense pain, TO AN EXTENT, but always keep your own well being in mind.

    Does your submissive want to stay mark free? Be sure not to hit them too hard. There are still ways to increase or decrease the intensity of your strike without hitting them hard enough to mark them.

    Does your submissive want to be left with marks, or maybe even bruises? Give them that! But after an intense strike, always ask them how they felt about it. I cannot stress enough that communication is key in ANY BDSM scene.

    Kaitlyn Isabelle – I’m genuinely just a normal, down to earth, total goofball who happens to be a sex worker! In my daily life, I enjoy video games, reading, and binge watching Bill Nye Saves the World. In my professional life, I mostly cam, and make custom videos, but I’m working on making my own videos soon! Sex work has given me an amazing creative outlet that I don’t know where I’d be without!

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