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  • Make These Ordinary Sex Positions Extraordinary With A Bit Of Crossfit

    Make These Ordinary Sex Positions Extraordinary With A Bit Of Crossfit

    ‘Strong is the new sexy.’ Why do I like that trending phrase? Because it’s true! All of my girlfriends who started exercising a year ago, whether it would be running, athletics, powerlifting or CrossFit, they all look like they could compete for the number 1 spot on FHM’s 100 Sexiest Woman 2017.

    Speaking of ‘sexiest woman’, I’m pretty sure that every female wants to make love like a powerful Greek goddess.

    Furthermore, I’m sure that every female wants to impress their partners with their sports skills. They want their partners to know that they have the best girlfriend in the Solar System! That is why you do some math and make these ordinary sex positions extraordinary with a bit of Crossfit.

    By the way, I was inspired to write this article after one wild one-night-stand a few months ago. You won’t be able to find an article like this anywhere on Google.

    #1 The Sumo Squat Cowgirl

    If you include them in your workout, then you know the many wonders that squats can have on your tush. So, why not give a mundane sex position a boost and squat your boyfriend?

    The cowgirl can get boring for active couples and sex-fueled singles. Why? The only method of the cowgirl that you could think of doing is moving your hips up and down.

    Plus, you can galvanise the cowgirl by adding in the sumo squat form. You spread your thighs apart, clench your buttocks, and move your hips up and down like you would if you’re doing the squats at your local gym.

    Your boyfriend will definitely love the view of you bouncing on him with your thighs apart, trust me, I know. Moreover, the more times you do the sumo squats in the bedroom, the less time you’ll need to do them in the gym.

    In fact, your partner may ask you to do your workouts at home, at a good spot where he can watch you do Crossfit all night long…

    #2 The V-Up Missionary

    If you’re like my girlfriends that aim to have washboards for stomachs, you work on your abs almost every time you exercise. FYI, crunches and planks will only strengthen the muscles; your rock-hard abs won’t simply appear after you’ve done 1000 reps in one session.

    If you do Crossfit, you may have heard of the ‘V-Up’ workout, where you lift your arms and legs up while keeping your butt on the floor. You know the missionary position, right? Well, who wouldn’t know that sex position? It was probably the one that you did when you popped your cherry!

    If you mix the v-up crunch with the missionary, it will make the missionary position more exciting than usual? How is that so?

    Well, you can alternate the pace where have to move slowly while lifting your upper body, and faster when lying on your back. You can even give your boyfriend a kiss, a slip of your tongue, or a bite on the lip every time you do a sit up. Personal tip: if you want to make the missionary awesome, make it kinky!

    #3 The Pull Up Standing Up

    When you want to show your partner how strong and sexy you are, It’s wise to jot some notes down from this section.

    To perform this sex position, you’re going to need something that you can swing onto like a spider monkey. Any sturdy bar would do, but I would recommend getting your own  pull-up bar so you won’t have to deal with any DIY fixing…

    It’s incredibly hard for a woman to gain ultra strength in their chest and arms, but it’s not impossible. It’s not good to over train one set of muscles. However, if you felt like you could have done your last arm workout better when you were at the gym, then hey, knock yourself out. Or, more so put, knock your boyfriend out with your killer triceps.

    Ok, having sex while standing up can be  pretty awesome if done right. But when you’re sitting duck and your partner is doing the work, it can get boring after a while. So, here’s a thought that  could spice up this sex position: why don’t you do the work and he just stands?

    Lift yourself up and down his shaft while you do a few pull-ups at the same time. The only thing your boyfriend will have to do it hold your buttocks in place and moan at the sheer delight of you mastering this sex position.

    Now, I know how tedious and aggravating going to the gym and working out can be when you have too much apathy for the hobby. But I  gotta tell you, if this advice blog doesn’t make these sex positions extraordinary and make you fall in love with exercise, let alone Crossfit, then I don’t  know what will!

    Zoe Jaspers has been writing about sex, porn, and the world of escorting for nearly two years, and she still continues to enjoy writing about all of those topics, along with her sexual encounters. Even though she is informative in her written work, she likes to include a bit of humour in it too, because she believes that sex can be both fun and funny. Follow her at:

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  • New York Model & Beauty Blogger Lucy Doll

    New York Model & Beauty Blogger Lucy Doll

    Hi Lucy it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi guys! For the past 2 months I’ve been building an Instagram page dedicated to three major themes: Fashion, Makeup, Beauty. Although I’m fairly new to this, the publicity and attention I’m getting are unexpectedly a lot. Instagram is a great platform to start beauty blogging. I’m from New York and honestly, I haven’t gotten to know this city much until I started this page. New York is top-notch for photography and modeling around.

    What perks do you love about modeling?

    Opportunities. I’ve received many offers from companies with paid photoshoots and product promotion so not only am I enjoying the hobby I’ve picked up, I can also build a career off of it. I also love dressing up and finding new fashion or makeup trends to indulge in.

    What do you usually do during your free time?

    Besides taking selfies or surfing the web for beauty updates? Not much. Just kidding, I also enjoy a variety of other things besides beauty such as reading the news, cooking, online gaming, etc. I think it’s important to have a good balance of doing various activities other than focus on one thing in life.

    How much of a party animal are you?

    Haha, I’m a natural party animal. I love going out once in a while to enjoy the New York nightlife. It’s important to loosen up every now and then to break away from work and for me, partying is one way to do that.

    Which is your proudest achievement so far?

    My proudest achievement would have to be when I turned being laid off from a 5 year job to starting a photography blog and finding an even better job than I had before. Although I work hard on my Instagram page, I also spend much of my time working for my current full-time job to build an additional stable career path for myself. People are multi-talented by nature and one should always utilize their potential to the max.

    Are you more of a bikini or lingerie babe?

    I actually don’t do both since I’m more of a “casual-clothing” model hah. But if I had to choose, I’d be a bikini model. I enjoy outdoor scenery for my pictures and my favorite season is the summer.

    If you could describe yourself as a flavor, what will it be?

    Sweet. I’d like to describe myself as happy, optimistic, loving, friendly—everything that describes a sweet person. Oh, and I love desserts…which are sweet.

    What is the lamest attempt a guy has tried to hit on you? 

    One time, a guy and I were flirting and he was talking about how the touch of his magic hands can make boobs bigger and I told him no wayyyyyyy. Well he’s my current boyfriend now. Lame.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Lucy. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    I love sexy. Sexy is always fun to be and sexy is in anyone who wants to believe it. Sexy is when you dress how you want despite societal judgment. Sexy is pursuing a career that you’re passionate about. Sexy is fighting for what you believe in no matter the obstacles and differing opinions. Be sexy.

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  • What’s Happening When A 65 Year Old Becomes A Sub

    What’s Happening When A 65 Year Old Becomes A Sub

    I must admit that getting some attention from younger guys is a real turn on. As an experienced woman and 10 years in the domination and devotion scene, I thought I’ve seen a lot of things. From married man to early 20’s year old guys who play it cool, up to teenagers. I survey a large amount of fetishist and kinky desires from people I trained during all those years. But, well, do I see everything? I, now, might say No!

    Two years ago, with one of my day-job clients, I’m in Finance as you know, I had a business dinner together. He announced to me that he was moving on the ending side of his career and told me that it was a great pleasure and enjoyed each moment during all these years of working together.

    But it turned out to be a different way. He admitted that he had a crush on me. Well, what can I say! He’s married, happy, has a good wife as he told me but…

    In his mind, he had the urge to get dominated by a strong businesswoman for years. A fantasy he refused to admit but now at 65 years old, why resist? To me, it sounded more like I want to fuck you! He’s the kind of man that nobody can say no to, surrounded by a lot of Yes man.

    Acting shy at first, he asked me to help him. He didn’t know anything about my part-time life as a Goddess. He just asked for it because he saw the power that surrounded my attitude in life. So, I faked that I didn’t know how to do it but I agreed and set up something for later that week. He explained to me what he would like to try as a first timer. Come on! It’s crystal clear that guy wants to fuck malice a slut.

    But I don’t care because I managed to start things in my way to slowly initiate him in this fantasy zone I know so well.

    Rule no.1 :

    My subs have to pay  for the hotel room, expensive, as it should be. For him that wasn’t a problem here, and prepare the place. It means cleaning the room, having a bottle of good white wine, flowers, etc.

    “Everything’s ready?”, I asked when I entered the room. “I’m going to stick the pervert out of you and make you beg to become my little pet toy.” I was wearing my long trench leather coat, a corset with a leather skirt and as you might guess, my black thigh high leather boots. I left my military cap at home for this one.

    It was, possibly, the first time somebody talked to him like this in all his entire life. Also he didn’t expected to see me dressed as a Dominatrix, a woman with so much power.

    “Yes dear, I am a real one! Couldn’t guess this fact for all those years of working together?”

    He unzipped his pants and start stroking his cock right in front of me. I yelled, “Stop bitch! Who gives you the right to jack your tiny dick? I didn’t tell you to touch your wimpy so-called manhood! You make me laugh to see such a poor thing!”

    He froze, jaw dropping, tried to mumble something. I said, “Who gives you the right to talk now? Did I? No! So, shut up!” This man is so powerful, owns a lot of business. He can even decide if it‘ll be a rainy day or a sunny one! He could buy everything.

    …and he was standing there waiting for instructions!

    A good dominatrix talks, a top one just has to to be! That’s what I am! I don’t talk when I do sessions but you’ve to train your new sub a little bit.

    I sat on the couch, lifted my hand to showed him the empty glass, and he understood on the fly what were the rules here. He poured me a glass of wine and stood up next. Then I pointed to his pants and he dropped them immediately on the floor. I had my long opera gloves and while I was sipping the wine, I slowly and gently slapped his cock with the tips of my finger to make him hard. He tried to reach my hand to help him jerk his cock. But I squeezed his balls tight, looking up to his eyes angry. He was so excited, I thought he’d come right there. My mouth was at about one inch from his dick, puffing hot wine aroma on it to tease him.

    Then I put the glass of wine under his cock and gently push it into the liquor. I start stroking his cock inside the glass of wine. I love to see the reaction of my subs toys when I manage their cocks, they shiver. I keep going to slowly stroke this so-called dick.

    No words were heard. Total silence! Only the movement of my leathered-hand gloves around his shaft slapping the nectar inside the glass. Then I slowly slide one finger up and down his butt’s crack. For the first time of his life, he felt the loving movement of a finger inside his butthole. Slowly caressing the rim of his ass. Opened it in and out with my finger. He was shaking, on the urge to come. I can see pre-cum floating inside the glass of wine now.

    I was stimulating his prostate,  a 65 year-old virgin ass. Each time I pushed my finger in his butt, I saw his penis becomes harder and harder. Stimulating his prostate and keep his cock in the glass of wine. Then I inserted all my finger in that virgin-butthole and initiated him into the extreme and unbearable pleasure of ass-fucking. I could feel him tighten up his ass around my finger each time I kept pushing it faster and harder. Three more strokes and then he came all over the floor. The sperm reach a distance of 5 feet, hit the carpet and the coffee table. All this just by fingering an ass. He came so hard and fast, I almost haven’t the time to move away the glass of wine from his cock.

    Again, he tried to thank me. I stopped him by pushing my finger even deeper in his butt.

    “Now you aren’t a ass-virgin anymore!” I said. Then I lifted up the glass of wine with a lot of his pre-cum floating all over the surface to his mouth and added, “Drink it!”

    He resisted. I slowly stood up from my chair, looking through his eyes, standing firmly with my arms behind my back on my 5 1/2 high heels, a 5’11 tall Femdom! …and he knew who was the Boss.

    He drank the whole mixture! “Next time, it could be my Golden nectar.”

    “I need to go now. I’m done with you!”. And told him to clean the mess only when I leave the room.

    “I want to see you here next month. But you’ll have to shave your ugly legs and crotch. It is disgusting! I want to have my sub’s toy clean.”

    …and I left the room!

    Second part’s coming soon!

    Classy Lady Eve – A 50 year old Canadian Milf and businesswoman who does entertaining her fans on Twitter with 140 characters or less and some glamour pics. Known as the one and only most attractive nipples on the Net, she teamed up with her hubby in 2007 and started producing classy style looks and explicit adult content pictres and videos. Life’s full of surprises and she’s now sharing us her most recent experiences here. Some are real and sometimes… Enjoy! Follow her at Twitter @ClassyLadyEve

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  • Techniques To Give Awesome Blowjobs

    Techniques To Give Awesome Blowjobs

    I absolutely love blowjobs! I love the feeling of a long hard cock pulsating in my mouth as a warm creamy load spurts down my throat! I love feeling empowered and in control and being able to completely satisfy my partner with a good blowjob.

    Tips To Use Your Tongue Well

    I always try to use my tongue in any way I can to deliver extra sensation as I’m giving a blowjob. I love to cup my tongue around the bottom of the cock and slide it across the underside while I’m pulling back and forth. I also find it drives a man wild to swirl my tongue on the head of the penis as I suck more towards the top of the cock. I listen to my partners’ reactions as I’m working him in my mouth and the way he reacts to where I’m placing my tongue, and once I find a pleasure spot, I just keep at it until I get my creamy cum load reward!

    Is Saliva Important?

    Yes! The more saliva the better. I love making a pool of saliva at the base of the cock and then I use it as “lube” to massage the balls while I’m giving a blowjob. I always salivate when I’m turned on and know my partner is too and the saliva just flows. I love pulling back and watching the strings of saliva hang from the tip of his cock all the way to my mouth..it’s just so erotic!

    How To Keep Those Teeth Away!

    I’ve always been told to wrap my lips around my teeth to avoid scraping the penis (ouch!) while giving head but that doesn’t come naturally and feels weird. I purse my lips around the cock (almost like a kiss) and that helps force my lips forward so my teeth don’t touch the cock at all. It works like a charm every time.

    Good Positions To Give Blowjobs

    Besides the standard giving a blowjob while on my knees with the guy standing or sitting (which is cocks up my favorite!).  I love giving a blowjob in the 69 position or lying beside the guys’ body. My mouth is upside down on the cock and I can get it deeper in my throat in that position. I also love lying down face up on the end of the bed and laying my head back. I’ll relax my throat and let the guy basically throat fuck me. It’s a little tricky if you have a strong gag reflex which I don’t, and it is loads of fun.

    Ways To Finish Him Off

    I prefer taking his cum into my mouth and deep in my throat so I can swallow it. I love the way it tastes, the sensation in my mouth and on my tongue. I think that shooting it on my face, boobs, or pussy, is such waste of yummy cum! I guess I’m what you would call cum addicted and honestly can’t get enough of the taste, feeling and swallowing as much as I can!

    Hi guys, I’m “Little Oral Andie!”  I’m 24, originally from the Outer Banks of North Carolina, and now living in Upstate NY. I fell into the adult entertainment business a year ago by becoming a Pornhub Verified Amateur and sharing a few homemade videos there to help bring in a little extra money. My first year so far, I now have 85 videos to my credit, I have won Newcomer Of The Month, won Video Of The Month several times and won Pornhub Newcomer of the Year for 2016! I‘m having a blast and have enjoyed the support of the community as a whole, because the fans are amazing and I have made quite a few great close friends with some of the other amateurs on Pornhub.

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    Want more? Come check me out on Pornhub, Manyvids and Twitter for updates about my upcoming projects and current events. For comments, questions, and/or custom video requests, email me directly at: littleoralandie@gmail.com. Thanks!

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  • Sex Work & Feminism

    Sex Work & Feminism

    For me, and for all the sex workers I know, sex work is work. That means that it is a job that is just as valid as any other job, with its definite pros and cons, and some people love their job while others hate it, just like in any other field of work. A lot of people who are not familiar with the sex industry tend to confuse sex work and sex exploitation.  The former implicates a choice to be in this line of work, while the latter implies coercion. All sex workers are opposed to sex exploitation.

    With that being said, my personal way of seeing sex work is one of exchange, connection, and intimacy. We all need to be touched and desired from time to time. What I am selling is not my body, but my time, my companionship, the way someone feels in my presence, and a true connection on a human level – all of which are key elements to intimacy. I like to describe myself as a professional fairy: I create a multi-sensorial bubble in which my partner and I are free to discover one another, and, sometimes, a little bit of ourselves.

    Misconceptions About Sex Workers

    One of the biggest misconceptions about sex work is, as I already mentioned, the fact that people don’t differentiate work from exploitation. In that line of thinking, there is a widespread theory among some types of feminism that states that any money transaction in a sexual context takes away the person’s ability to consent to said sexual activities. The problem is that kind of thinking denies all agency to sex workers, who are grown women who are otherwise perfectly able to think and decide for themselves. There is just as much violence in denying a person the ability to consent, as there is in not respecting that consent. (As a parenthesis, I just want to add that the vast majority of the sex workers I know are especially intelligent, strong and grounded people, able to stand up, speak, and provide for themselves, usually better so than most people.)

    Another misconception that is often encountered, is that sex workers have necessarily suffered abuse, or live with mental health problems. The thing is, some sex workers have had traumas in their lives, while others have not. Some sex workers do live with a mental health condition, but then again a lot of people who are not in the sex industry do too. It is also important to mention that we, as a society, tend to judge more severely women when they make a choice that is considered “risky,” and associate it with emotional instability, instead of bravery as we would naturally do with men.

    Why Is Sex Work Stigmatized In Society?

    As developed by Gail Pheterson in “The Prostitution Prism” and “The Whore Stigma,” the oldest form of prostitution is marriage.  Historically as societies, we have used marriage to keep women in line and we have put on them the whole burden of sexual, domestic, and emotional labor, expecting them to care for everyone in the household without any form of compensation. Nowadays, marriage has been replaced by the traditional monogamous heterosexual relationship, but the expectations towards women have barely changed. That is why, when a woman takes control of her own sexuality, and chooses to sell her sexual and emotional labor, we collectively feel like what she is doing is inherently wrong. We keep sex work as a taboo, we ostracize sex workers and clients (thus making their work even more dangerous), because on top of not offering all that labor to a single man, the women who choose to do sex work get an immediate and direct financial compensation for the work they do – how dare they, right?

    What I Love About Being A Sex Worker

    I especially love the freedom that sex work gives me. I am an independent courtesan, so I get to make my own schedules and choose the clients that I see. I am also a full time student and a writer, so a job that gives me both free time and a lot of inspiration is the best for me!

    Another positive side of sex work to me is the fact that it forces you to set limits for yourself. Surprisingly, I found that having to word out those limits in a professional environment made setting them in my personal life easier, thus making my overall sexual life healthier.

    Can Sex Work Be Empowering?

    Absolutely! As Virginie Despentes writes in her essay “King Kong Theory,” it is all about the mind state and the consciousness of what one is doing. For example, dressing up in a sexy way and wearing high heels, when done strictly to please men, or when done without thinking about it, can be considered a symbol of female oppression – because society forces that look on women and tells them that it is the only way to be beautiful and desirable, and the subtext of that tells women that being desirable to men should be their main goal in life at all times. But, from another perspective, if a woman is wearing heels and lingerie in order to get a direct benefit from it (such as money from a client) and she is conscious of it, the choice of clothing switches from being oppressive to being subversive. The same goes for body hair removal, makeup, or having phallocentric sex. When you are a woman, the act of consciously complying to a societal sexist imperative in order to make money off of it is in itself an act of rebellion, and should be celebrated as such. 🙂

    Léonie Stein – A professional fairy and independent courtesan from Montreal. Free-spirited, curious, and adventurous, as a full time student and writer I thrive on art and literature, as well as on pop and internet cultures. I am both easygoing and sophisticated, and human beings fascinate me. I consider myself a radical feminist and a sex workers’ rights advocate.

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  • Hong Kong Freelance Model Yoko Lam

    Hong Kong Freelance Model Yoko Lam

    Hi Yoko, thank you for taking the time to answer our questions.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello! I am Yoko from Hong Kong. I’m 19 years old. I’m also a student and a freelance model. It is my pleasure to share with you here.

    How did you start modeling?

    It started on a summer holiday as I wanted to make a breakthrough. Therefore, I searched for modelling jobs that suited me at first. Later on, more agencies and companies approached me. Since then, I have been offered extra jobs such as photo shoots, promotional events and shows. However, I paused my model jobs recently since I am quite busy with my studies. I will be back soon! I am always looking for opportunities to enrich my experience.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    I love art, music and shopping haha! I enjoy doing art a lot such as drawing and handicrafts. As for music, I enjoy listening to electronic dance music and rap music.

    What is your secret to looking so beautiful?

    Dressing up well and make-up are important. Know your own style and choose a suitable outfit because clothes can affect one’s appearance, confidence and boost mood. When you feel self-assured, you will look more beautiful.

    Which is your proudest accomplishment so far?

    Getting awards on creative projects that were directed by me.

    Where do you usually party?

    I prefer having house parties with my friends. Besides, I love going to music festivals, especially EDM events and it is one of my favourite activities!

    If you could change anything in this world, what will it be?

    All animals to be safe.

    How will you describe an ideal date?

    Haha romantic dates are the best, maybe with a little surprise. Yet, as long as I feel comfortable with my special someone, I will enjoy the moment no matter what we do.

    It is a pleasure to feature you Yoko. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Sexy is an attitude aside from physical attractiveness. It is about one’s charisma, intelligence and self-confidence.

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  • Hong Kong Model Stephanie Sum

    Hong Kong Model Stephanie Sum

    Hi Stephanie it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I’m Stephanie, 24 years old this year. I’m from Hong Kong and I studied in UK  before. I love sun tanning and I’m suntanned!

    How did you get started into modeling?

    My friend is a booker from Sun Esee Model Management and she invited me to join the family.

    Do you follow a strict beauty regime daily?

    Not at all, I am one kind of lazy person.

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    “One more Stephanie would be great”

    Do you have any other hobbies?

    Swimming, I love swimming and working, I enjoy busy times.

    If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    More love.

    What song would you say best describes you?

    Shots by Imagine Dragons.

    What do you find attractive in the opposite sex?

    Well, their mind I guess. I like guys with deep minds.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Stephanie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Confidence, not from how beautiful you are or what do you wear or how fashionable you are, but confidence about yourself when you have naked face and most important, profoundity.

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  • Tips For Having A Threesome

    Tips For Having A Threesome

    I’m a great fan of sex. Not only does sex feel good (which is great), but I also believe that people have an innate need for intimacy and physical contact. A lack of touch can make anyone feel depressed or anxious, and the right touch – like sex – can help both your physical and mental health. For me, sex is all about open communication and finding beauty in every person (and about exciting adventures of course)!

    How My Interest Began & Why I Love Threesomes!

    I have loved threesomes since I realized I was bisexual and fantasised about being with a man and a woman at the same time. I have been lucky enough to have had more than my share of threesomes (and more-than-three-somes!) with people of all genders in all combinations, and I have loved all of them.

    I adore giving pleasure to people, and for me one of the great things about a threesome is the chance to pleasure more than one person at the same time! I also love making people’s fantasies come true, and thankfully I often get to do that by introducing people to threesomes.

    One thing I love about threesomes is that sex with more people tends to be extra sensual – it is impossible to keep track of who is doing what, so at some point you just give in to sensations and stop thinking altogether. That is such a great experience!

    Difference Between MFM & MFF Threesome

    I don’t think there are specific differences between MFM and MFF threesomes, but I do think there is a massive difference between threesomes where everyone is into each other (so an MFM threesome where the men are bisexual or an MFF threesome where the women are bisexual) or a threesome where everyone is straight. I find that threesomes where everyone is straight often makes the pleasure of one person the central focus, and that can be an incredibly hot thing! I personally love being the centre of attention in a threesomes, but it is also great to lavish someone in all the attention and pleasure 4 hands and two mouths can give..

    A threesome where everyone is into each other is often an enthusiastic mix of giving and receiving pleasure all around – with the added advantage of the occasional moment when your two partners are pleasuring each other and you get to watch the most sexy show of your life. So there is definitely an advantage to all types of threesomes.

    My favourite type of threesome is an MFF threesome with a couple where the women wants to try being with another woman for the first time. It is such a special honour to be invited into an established relationship like that, and I adore seeing two people who love each other explore sexy adventures together. Plus, I love being a woman’s first Sapphic adventure – every woman who is bi-curious should get to try sex with another woman!

    My Favorite Threesome Positions

    I recommend going down on someone together – it is a unique sensation for the person who receives it, and it is very hot for the people performing oral sex. Another great sensation which you can only get in a threesome, is oral sex while you fuck. In an MFF threesome I would recommend one woman sitting on the man’s face while the other woman rides him. But of course in any threesome you can also go down on whoever is being fucked – this causes some of the most intense orgasms I have ever witnessed.

    But my absolute favourite experience in threesomes is to go down on someone while being fucked (I recommend partner 1 to lie down on their back, partner 2 be on their hands and knees going down on them, and partner 3 to fuck partner 2 from behind, which gives everyone a fantastic view). I once had the pleasure of being in the middle of that and making both partners come at the same time – it was the hottest thing I have ever experienced!

    Threesome Etiquette For An Enjoyable Time

    I would always recommend having a chat together about expectations and boundaries. Like anything to do with sex, the first time is probably not going to be perfect, and good communication will help with that. It’s great to know what everyone involved is looking for, so find out if your partners would like something sensual, or kinky, or any other preferences they have. You will also want to talk about safer sex and condom use, and make sure to switch condoms between partners

    For an established couple, a threesome can sometimes bring up feelings of jealousy or insecurity. It is important to know that this is very common, and I’d recommend talking about it both beforehand and afterwards. The best way to prevent jealousy is to pay equal amounts of attention to both your threesome partners, so neither of them feel left out. Another solution is to invite a professional to join your threesome, so you are sure you can have the best experience without the strings attached!

    Anna Williams is a sex-educator and professional escort in London, UK. She specialises in threesomes, new experiences, and safer sex education. She believes strongly that natural beauty, communication, intelligence and feminine curves are sexy. She also believes that everyone should have the threesome of their dreams at least once in their lives!

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  • Chicago Based Cosplayer Whitney Wickham

    Chicago Based Cosplayer Whitney Wickham

    Hi Whitney, thank you for taking the time to answer our questions.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I feel like I’m kind of from all over the place. I was born in Idaho, grew up in Montana, lived in Los Angeles, France and Germany and have now found myself based in the Chicago area! I am kind of a nomad.

    When and how did your interest in cosplay start?

    I was always that kid who was putting together costumes out of my closet. I lived for Halloween and any chance to dress up. I suppose that may be why I was so heavily involved in Theater. But in Montana we didn’t have comic cons and cosplay wasn’t something on anyone’s radar but I was performing as characters at birthdays and events since the age of 16. I only recently in the past 3 years began taking it super seriously and began making my own cosplays.

    Do you have any quotes or mottos that you live by?

    “Do or do not, there is no try.“- Master Yoda and “We all must face the choice between what is right and what is easy.“- Albus Dumbledore

    Is there something you can never get enough of?

    Guacamole….I suppose it’s a good thing it’s good for you! And TRX workouts.

    What is a typical day like for you?

    Generally I get up and go to the gym because it’s a great way to get energized for the day. I also have a 4 year old at home so between teaching him letters and numbers, I’m either making patterns for costumes, sewing or creating props, or doing a photoshoot. On weekends most likely you will find me on a film set acting or doing a charity event as a character.

    How much of a foodie are you?

    I’m allergic to a lot of things so I don’t get to try as much as I would like to, but I will admit I’m a bit of a food snob. That doesn’t stop me from chewing down on some sinful foods every so often though. Sometimes there isn’t anything better than a corn dog or pizza. My favorite food however is sushi and love to go to those all you can eat sushi places. I also just discovered Chinese Hot Pot…I may have a new addiction!

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    I would love to learn all of the languages so no matter who I meet I could always communicate. I feel bad when I’m in a character and a child sees me and they speak a language I don’t. There is nothing more magical than inspiring another person.

    Have you ever had a bad date experience to share?

    I once was taken out to a typical chain restaurant where my date had not only some bad gas he didn’t excuse but paid for the entire date with coupons. In a way I have to commend him because he was who he was and unashamed to show it.

    It is a pleasure to feature you Whitney. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I feel sexy is defined by ones own confidence. Being comfortable in one’s own skin no matter the shape is what makes a person sexy.

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  • Actress & Model Tara Cosplay

    Actress & Model Tara Cosplay

    Hi Tara it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi there! so excited to be featured! I’m an actress, model, filmmaker and cosplayer. I’ve been acting basically all my life, since I was 4 years old. I just recently added professional modeling to my list of things I do and I’m completely loving the experience! I live on the West Coast now…BUT…I’m originally from the East Coast! I’m quirky, nerdy and very much a homebody. Partying is not my thing. I much prefer a good book or an episode of Star Trek TNG. I’m also the host of  “Nerdtabulous” on YouTube! People in the acting world know me as Tara-Nicole Azarian, but the cosplay world and YouTube know me as Tara Cosplay.

    How did you get started into cosplay?

    Well, I was THAT kid who always had to be a princess or a fairy every time we went to Disney. Mom would help me deck out in complete princess attire including facepaint. So, cosplay has always been in my blood. I began to do “grown up” cosplay when I was about 12.

    Which common misconceptions about cosplay still exists today?

    Oh I think the biggest one is that some people think that the cosplay community is a bunch of weirdos…and they are very, very wrong! Cosplay is a form of art and artistic expression and the cosplay community is full of outstanding and talented people. Yes, lots of us are kind of shy in person, but just say, “hi” we’ll talk back to you, I promise!

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    Honestly the nicest thing I hear is that I’m kind. When someone comes up to my table at a convention, I give them my full attention. I’m very protective of my nerd community and I want every fan of mine to feel special. I’m human and I’m sure I fail on this sometimes, but I try very hard to make every Tarabyte (fan) feel special.

    What do you enjoy most about acting?

    Ohhhhh acting is amazing. It allows me a socially acceptable outlet for behaving ways that normally would not be okay. I love to play against my natural personality type. Playing mean or crazy is a ton of fun and helps keep me normal in my real life…I get all my funk out on set.

    If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    I’m going to sound like a pageant queen here, but “world peace.” I hate to see people suffer…especially children. I just really wish that the powers that be could stop the whole who’s junk is bigger contest and just negotiate like evolved humans. Hate is taught. We need to see the similarities in one another and come together to make a safe and peaceful world. That’s what I’d like to see anyway.

    What song would you say best describes you?

    “Why Not” by Hilary Duff. I feel like life is short and whatever goals or dreams I have I should jump in with both feet and just go for it. Go big or go home.

    What do you find attractive in the opposite sex?

    I like a tall man. As far as looks go, that’s the only thing that catches my eye. What attracts me to a man is if he is kind. Kindness is so undervalued in our society, but it’s a deal breaker for me. If you are arrogant and full of yourself, I will have zero interest in you. If you are a gentleman, open doors for me, listen to me, respect my feelings, connect with me every day (even if I’m away working) then we’ll hit it off.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Tara. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    I think intelligence is sexy. I graduated High School early and run my own business so I am attracted to intelligence. A smart man knows what he wants, how to get it and how to keep it. That is very sexy!

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    IMDb: http://www.imdb.me/taranicoleazarian
    Google+: https://plus.google.com/+TaraNicoleAzarian

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/nerdtabulous
    Print Store: http://taracosplay.storenvy.com

    Upcoming Works:

    Yes! I have been cast as “Carol” (one of the leads) in the new feature film, “Candy Corn” by director Josh Hasty. I also just wrapped a short film called, “The Best Words” which is now doing the film festival thing!

    Images courtesy of Tara Cosplay

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