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  • Filipino Model Melanie Cortel From Arizona

    Filipino Model Melanie Cortel From Arizona

    Hi Melanie, thank you for taking the time to answer our questions.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello my name is Melanie Cortel. I’m 19 years old and I live in Phoenix, Arizona. I was born in the Philippines and I can speak full Filipino. I am an aspiring model, future fashion designer and a traveler. I started freelance modeling after high school and I’ve worked with some of the best photographers in my state. I started getting noticed on Instagram for car shows such as Hot Imports Night, Spocom, Elite tuner etc… but I would love to get into more events in the future. In my free time, I like to DIY clothes and or go out for some Pho (meatball is my all time favorite!!). My favorite TV shows growing up was Ed, Edd and Eddy and Spongebob Squarepants.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    My proudest achievement so far would be getting into car shows. I’ve always dreamed about being an import model. I’m slowly getting there but I won’t stop trying until I’m there all the way.

    How will you describe a typical day for yourself?

    A typical day for me would be doing my makeup, getting ready for the day to take some bomb selfies then going out to the movies or for some food.

    Do you have a preferred side for taking selfies?

    I don’t have a preferred side when it comes to taking pictures but if I had to choose, it would definitely be my right side.

    Where can we catch you partying most of the time?

    You can catch me partying at Salt every weekend 🙂

    Which is the last movie you watched and was it any good?

    The last thing I watched was actually a show on Netflix called Good Morning Call. I’m a huge fan of Korean/Viet/Filipino/Japanese drama and if you are too, I definitely suggest this for you! It’s my favorite show and it’s really good!!

    If you could do anything in this world, what will it be?

    If I could do anything in this world, it would be to bring all of my moms’ side of the family here in Arizona to live with me so they can live a better life and experience how it is to live in the US.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you? 

    Oh jeez! This topic takes me back to when I used to work at Hooters. It was Mother’s Day and you know I’m just working, minding my own business doin’ my thang until this guy stopped me and told me “Happy Mothers Day!” I just laughed and said “Thanks but I’m not a mom” and he goes, “Are you sure? Because you look like my baby mama”. I couldn’t stop laughing!! I must admit, it was pretty smooth haha!

    It is a pleasure to feature you Melanie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    My definition of “sexy” is being confident in your own skin and knowing how to carry yourself.


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  • What To Do If Your Child Has Been Exposed To Porn

    What To Do If Your Child Has Been Exposed To Porn

    Q: Is there a video or other resource available to give age-appropriate information to children who have been prematurely exposed to it and why it is not a good thing to view porn?

    There is. I have written a book about that same subject and it is in the process of finding a publisher. I also have an online webinar that I am preparing. Meanwhile, I will share with you the main three points I advise parents to keep in mind in such situations:

    1. Breathe

    If your child has seen adult content, the first thing to do is BREATHE. Stay calm. Don’t do more harm by freaking out. Think of it this way: Just like when your toddler falls, it is best to stay cool. A toddler sometimes seeks out their parent to gauge how severe the fall was; they can register it from the look on your face or the pitch of your voice. You take it seriously, and by staying calm, your child is assured that you can handle the situation.

    Now is not the time to go into questions like “who showed you this” and “why did you do this” or “what were you thinking”. This will not help the child process what happened. You can deal with these questions later if you then still believe that it is important. Also, do not get hyper and have your voice go to the range that only dogs can hear. That is confusing and not helpful.

    1. Ask

    Ask your child what they felt and thought. Most likely your child was grossed out by what they saw. You can start by validating that – lots of the porn or adult content that is available is strange even to adults. Imagine if you are seeing it for the first time!

    If you do not know where to start, then the easiest thing to do is to ask your child what they already know. Often this includes some misconceptions you can simply correct (like “the man pees inside the woman”).

    You can also ask what they were looking for – sometimes children stumble on it unknowingly, other times they know exactly what they want to see. Maybe your child knows about sex already. Maybe they are older and are already starting to think about sex. Maybe they are considering to have sex for the first time. Asking allows you to respond at your child’s maturity level.

    1. Share

    It is crucial to communicate to your children of any age that searching the web (specifically searching for porn content) is NOT the best idea when looking for sex education. Porn is terrible sex education; it is not even real sex! Just like a romantic comedy, porn is someone else’s fantasy put on film. It is created for adults and does not portray sex in a realistic way.

    Another important item is to share that “there are things you can’t unsee.” You can relate to something they were scared or affected by and ask them if they wished they hadn’t been exposed to it in the first place (for me it was the movie “Alien”).

    Also, you can share that viewing porn is not good when you are not ready for it. A child does not know how to process it, especially when no one around will talk about sexuality. I’ve heard people use the excuse that generally telling kids about sex “breaches the firewall of innocence.” I argue that NOT telling a child about sex keeps them ignorant about a very basic human behavior, and this will lead to much confusion for the kid growing up and being exposed to other sexual behavior, imagery and concepts. There is a big difference between acknowledging and encouraging; I am only suggesting that you acknowledge sexuality.

    Make sure to follow up with real information about what sex is. Most parents look for age-appropriate information; the fact is all children are different. Even within the family, siblings can be vastly different in mental, emotional, and intellectual readiness for information about sexuality. Unless one knows your family history and background, relating specifics is tough. Information from books or sites will give a range of ages because there can be huge variance (e.g., first menstruation can be between ages 9 and 16 with an average of 12). I offer private coaching for parents to help relearn or reframe the information about sexuality that is useful and pertinent for your specific child.

    A Final Word

    Let me finish this post with a remark about the word “exposed”. There are worse things that kids are exposed to and some of these we do not think twice. Violence in cartoons for children comes to mind (e.g. Bugs Bunny and Road Runner). What does the depiction of violence do to our children long term, where characters repeatedly harm each other but suffer no real consequences? As a society we do not think about that very much. Yet, when it comes to sex and nudity we are petrified of perceived long-term consequences. Which one are you more likely to be exposed to again and again? Violence is more damaging in my mind than viewing (most) sex acts.

    Some of the adult content that is out there is scary and confusing and bizarre. The important point is to make porn viewing as much of a non-event as possible but also, enough of a lesson that children learn not to do it again. My bottom line is it is not the porn viewing that is ultimately so damaging – it is the reaction of the adults that can be problematic.

    If you want more information about private coaching, webinars, or my book when it becomes available, contact me at mamasutra@me.com

    Xxoo

    The MamaSutra


    This article has been republished with permission from Lanae St.John.
    Please visit Lanae St.John’s website  to view the original post and more of Lanae’s works.


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  • Entrepreneur & Fashion Blogger Louise Ella

    Entrepreneur & Fashion Blogger Louise Ella

    Hi Louise it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I’m a fashion enthusiast blogger turned entrepreneur. Born and raised in Sweden, however I feel like the world is my runway as I’ve lived in New York, and Los Angeles where I get a great deal of inspiration to evolve my fashion dreams.

    I’ve always loved styling my own outfits and putting looks together since I was a teen. I remember as a kid I always had certain things that in my mind would go together and according to my mother; I wouldn’t have had it any other way.

    What inspired you to start your own brand and be an entrepreneur?

    I’ve always been inspired by people who want more in life, and not just settle for a job they hate. I’ve always had a deeper feeling that life could and should be more, and that each person always has the ability to live the dreams that are placed in their heart. I wanted to work doing something I had great passion for and to be able to continuously grow. My boyfriend, who is also an entrepreneur inspired and encouraged me to make it happen.

    I believe once you work hard for something you love, doors will open naturally. It’s amazing to be my own boss and to have the control when I work. As I grow it’s also great to be able to help others along the way.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Classy, yet fun and sexy. I like to mix glam looks and casual everyday wear. I want to inspire women to be confident in their own skin and just rock any outfit they want. While sometimes I do wear name brands, many times I don’t and it’s because what matters most is how you carry yourself. Style comes from within.

    What fashion accessories are a must have in every lady’s wardrobe?

    High-waisted ripped jeans.

    A black or a nude (if I have to choose) hand bag that can go with any outfit. Over-the-knee boots for fall, and at least one pair of gold heel sandals.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Hmm, it must be something about my personality and work ethic. It doesn’t hurt if someone says they like my outfit either.

    If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?

    It would be amazing to collaborate with the Beauty Guru Carli Bybel, as I’ve loved her fashion sense since day one. I’ve always liked how she’s carried herself and while I’ve never met her, I have gained a lot of inspiration from the way in which she manages her brand with elegance.

    If I were to collaborate with a big brand it would probably be Louis Vuitton. I just love their signature print and accessories.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    I love traveling and seeing new places. There’s so much that can be learned from placing yourself into a new environment even for a short space of time. We as humans take so much for granted as we develop comfort zones and stop growing each day. I’ve found travel to be a great way to gain new perspectives in life, and I also get restless being in the same place for long, which is another one of the reasons being an entrepreneur fits me.

    In my spare time I also love learning new languages. I’m currently learning Spanish as many of my customers are Latina and I also really love the Latin food and culture 🙂

    Is there something you don’t understand about guys?

    This may not be true for all, but I don’t understand how some men hate to talk about emotions.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Louise. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    My definition of sexy is someone who is comfortable in their own skin, which is positive and uplifting to others. Being so confident that you ultimately become selfless is Sexy!


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    Instagram: Instagram.com/Loulabellee
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    Website: ShopLuxStyles.com

    Email: Louise_Ella@hotmail.com

    Upcoming Works: Soon re-launching Loulabellee.com with my clothing and swim lines


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  • Singapore Makeup Artist, Ning

    Singapore Makeup Artist, Ning

    Hi Ning it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    My name is Ning and I’m from Singapore. I’m a freelance make-up artist and I specialize in SFX makeup (yea those gory, nasty looks). I’m an absolute horror/thriller/ mystery movie junkie and I love crime documentaries. YALL I remembered binge-watching Liam Neeson’s movies for 12 hours straight during my school holidays. I love discussing philosophy. It is so compelling and intriguing since there’s no definite answer to the questions. Also, it allows me to view the world in a different perspective and helps me gain a deeper understanding of the person I’m holding the conversation with. I enjoy singing and playing the guitar as well.

    What is your secret to looking so fabulous?

    Thank you. I’m very flattered to receive this question. Hmm….. Just be genuine and kind and your “fabulousness” will shine through.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    You never fail to make me smile and brighten up my day.”

    Where do you usually love to shop from?

    Online! No particular website.

    Have you ever been in an embarrassing moment that is funny when you look back now?

    There are too many moments to recall from. Okay, there was once when I was walking towards the washroom but my eyes were glued to my phone, so I didn’t see the male or female sign. I assumed that the one on my right was for females and I just walked in with my head down. LMAO. The moment when I looked up, I saw 5 males just staring at me. I was shocked to the core and wanted to dig 5 meters into the ground and hide from the world. I just apologized and walked out calmly even though my face was flushed. Yea.. it was pretty bad.

    If you could have a superpower, what will it be?

    Well, I would wanna be able to inject happiness, love and warmth into every being in the world. That’ll hopefully help eradicate crimes and evil atrocities.

    What flavor would you say best describes you?

    Cheesy/chocolaty.

    Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    There was this cute guy who asked me to fill up a survey for his ‘school project’ so I agreed. I asked him what is the project about, and he just sent me a screenshot of the “adding new contact” page ahahaha. Yea, we talked on the phone straight after that and I don’t know how it happened, but he’s my partner now!:) Definitely didn’t regret filling up that survey.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Ning. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Personality traits: People who are confident, respectful and witty. People who are decisive, caring and take initiative.

    Physical traits: Nice smile, defined collarbones and shoulder blades, deep husky voice, sings/ plays the guitar.


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    Instagram: @ningahh
    Snapchat: @ning_x


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  • Master Me (Dante’s Purgatory, Book 3)

    Master Me (Dante’s Purgatory, Book 3)

    Trixie Meier, a club submissive who’s tired of being pushed around, has decided she’d rather be on the other end of the whip. She’s set her sights on Xavier Adams—the most enigmatic and unapproachable man in the club. Xavier’s a regular Mr. Darcy. If Mr. Darcy was covered in tattoos, wore black leather, and was built like a Sherman tank.

    Xavier has skeletons in his closet. He’s done bad, bad things. And though Trixie might be feisty and off-the-wall, she’s way too sweet for the likes of him. That’s what he tells himself just before he starts stalking her.

    When Xavier finds out Trixie doesn’t want to submit to him, but wants to master him instead, he thinks it’s the most ridiculous thing he’s ever heard. Because a big, scary guy like him, submitting to that tiny, crazy-ass woman is just ludicrous. Right?

    ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~

    “Conversing with Xavier Adams is as about as effective as talking to a brick wall. A sexy wall, that smells really good and makes you want to rub yourself up against in a completely inappropriate and pervy manner.

    Not that there are many ways to rub yourself against a wall that aren’t inappropriate and pervy.”

    —Trixie Meier

    “Trixie Meier is a kind, generous soul. She helps people, is a vegetarian because she can’t stand the thought of animals being hurt, and she hugs puppies in her spare time. She’s as sweet as they come—way too good for a guy like me.”

    —Xavier Adams

    “I love rock climbing, skydiving and anything that gives me an adrenaline rush. Now I want to dominate Xavier. Wonder if I’m taking this “I love a challenge” attitude a little too far.”

    —Trixie Meier

    “Trixie wants to dominate me?

    She’s the craziest bloody woman on the face of this earth!”

    —Xavier Adams

    Excerpt

    “Ungh, ungh, ungh,” grunted the big blond Dom who was balls-deep inside of Trixie, and didn’t seem entirely happy to be making those I’m-gonna-come sounds.

    Trixie was pretty sure he was pissed off, but since she was bent over and tied down, with her face smooshed into the padding of the table she was currently being fucked against, she couldn’t be one hundred percent certain.

    But ninety-nine percent sounded about right.

    “Come now, you little slut,” he ordered. His ragged words were punctuated by a vigorous slap to her ass and a series of involuntary pulses of his cock. “If you don’t come before I do, I’m going to punish you, you little brat.”

    Good Christ, spare me the drama. “Yes, Sir.” I’ll magically come just because you say so, Sir.

    But Trixie supposed she should thank God for small favors. This guy had been cycling through every implement he could get his hands on and fucking her like a pneumatic machine for way too long—trying to get her to orgasm from his domly skills and rough fucking. Instead, all that was happening was her vagina was getting dry.

    Speaking of dry, her mouth was quite parched, too. What she really needed was a long drink of water, followed by a hit of coffee. Some food would be nice. And a smear of Bepanthen for her vag wouldn’t go amiss, either. Oh, and most of all, she needed this Viagra-munching Viking to get the hell out of her body.

    Cue the ordered orgasm.

    Trixie panted and then grunted in synch with the slapping of Viking’s balls against her clit. She clenched her inner walls spasmodically and finally cried out nice and loud, stiffening her legs for added effect. She slumped against the table, then twitched and jerked her legs every few seconds as if she was riding out the aftershocks.

    “Fuck you,” snarled Viking, as he gave her a few particularly violent thrusts.

    Ouch! Hello? Dry vagina over here. Not that she could admit it, since she’d just gone and faked a big O and all. And then—thank you, baby Jesus—the Dom was coming, gripping her hips in a vicious hold and blowing his load in a series of short, sharp pumps, and one long, fairly intense groan.

    He pulled out abruptly—again, ouch—and disposed of the condom.

    As he unstrapped her from the table, he swore under his breath. “I should punish you for that. But you don’t even deserve my punishment.”

    Blah, blah, whatevs.

    Trixie hadn’t even levered herself up from the table before she heard the door slam shut. Man, she’d taken all that spanking, cropping, caning and fucking, was now totally dehydrated, starving to death, and had a sore hole to boot. And he couldn’t even spare her one measly “thank you.” Honestly, there was no pleasing some asshats.

    Trixie made a beeline for the staff locker room via the water cooler. After downing what felt like about a gallon of water, she hit the showers, washed off all evidence of her session with Viking, a.k.a. Carl Gustafsson, and hurriedly got dressed. Since her skin was still feeling hot, prickly and throbbing from the working over she’d received, she forwent panties and bra and pulled on loose-fitting yoga pants and a long sweater that hit her at mid-thigh. Having the soft fabric against her naked skin was about the closest thing to aftercare that she’d be getting.

    Not that she wanted aftercare. From him. He was a new member of the club, and apart from what they’d just learned about each other during that epic Ben-Hur of a session, he didn’t really know her and she didn’t really know him. It would just be annoying, having to sit there while he wrapped her in a blanket and fed her water and chocolate and patted her head or something equally inane, while pretending he gave a damn about her well-being.

    She’d rather just piss off and get her own water and chocolate. Plus, she was fully capable of patting her own head. Or banging it against a wall, which strangely didn’t sound unappealing at the moment.

    But first things first: food. Her head could have a chat with the wall later. Wait, second would be food. First…

    She delved into her locker and located a tube of Bepanthen. Squeezing a dollop onto her finger, she pulled at her waistband, stuck her hand down the front of her pants and swiped the cream over her chafed bits.

    A hand wash later and she was ready to go. Break time! Thank the gods.

    Trixie poked her head out of the locker-room door, took a quick look around, saw the coast was clear and then darted out. With her head down, she navigated the corridor, burst out the rear exit door, scurried down the side alleyway, around the corner, and into the café a few doors down, all without being seen by anyone from the club. Although it was unlikely she would have been recognized anyway, since she was missing her usual slutwear-war-paint ensemble.

    She sighed, thinking about having to don her leather-hot-pants-and-bra combo when she returned to the club to finish off her shift. If only they were having a toga-themed night. If only!

    Or if it was Halloween, she could just put a sheet over her head and call herself Casper.

    Holy burning backsides, she was so tired. So, so tired. Of everything. She mustered up a smile for the girl behind the counter—because it was so not the girl’s fault that Trixie was having a bad day slash month slash year—and ordered a tofu and roast-veggie burger plus an extra-large soy latte.

    While she sat at a little two-seater table against the wall, waiting for her food to arrive, she watched a group of girls over in the corner taking selfies, sucking in their cheeks and pursing their lips so tight, it was as if they were training their mouths to suck cock.

    Speaking of sucking cock—that was another thing Trixie was getting tired of. And these days, the taste of latex had her gagging more than the overeager or sometimes cruel Doms who liked to jam their dicks in the back of her throat.

    In spite of the topic, she couldn’t help smiling to herself. Those dudes who thought she was gagging on their huge manly cocks had no idea she could deep-throat like a champion at the porn-star Olympics, and it was the fake-fruit-flavored latex that was punishing her, not their puny pricks.

    Trixie touched a fingertip to her lips and rubbed back and forth. Her lips were chapped; it was one of the hazards of her job. She pulled a ChapStick out of her purse and gave her lips a good once-over, musing on how her job affected other areas of her life. It was plain, unflavored lip balm for her now, no more cherry (barf), strawberry (barf), or any other flavor they made rubbers in.

    She couldn’t even stomach her favorite drinks (fruit-flavored soy milkshakes) anymore, and she’d had to give away her precious collection of syrups.

    Now that she thought about it, she really should get compensation. Electricians got hazard pay. Expats got paid more to hang out in less-developed countries. She should get…BJ pay? For the fact that her taste buds were ruined and she could no longer enjoy her fave foods.

    She’d try hitting up the boss next time she saw him. She could just imagine Dante’s reaction when she explained her situation. She pictured him rolling his eyes to the ceiling and silently praying for Santa Maria (the Virgin Mary) to give him strength. It might be worth telling him for that alone.

    Although, these days, the guy was way less serious. Now he was floating on cloud nine, obscenely happy because he’d finally gotten together with Erica—the love of his life. Come to think of it, the way he’d been acting lately, it’d be more likely he’d do something thoughtful, like order everyone who played with Trixie to wear tofu-flavored condoms.

    Then Trixie would be fucked, because after about a month she wouldn’t be able to eat tofu anymore. And then she’d starve and die.

    She looked over to see the group of girls had struck some new poses, but were still sucking in those mouths like a bunch of guppies. Man, someone should warn them they were going to get premature wrinkle lines.

    She supposed no one yelled “say cheese” anymore before taking a photo. Because God forbid someone actually smiled or flashed their teeth. It was probably more appropriate to instruct them to say “mmmm” with a tight, mincy mouth, so everyone could pout furiously on cue.

    By some unknown signal that Trixie couldn’t identify, selfie time was suddenly over and all the guppies subsided into their chairs, where they promptly buried their noses in their phones, presumably Facebooking or Instagramming or Twittering their last batch of cock-sucking pics.

    As Trixie tore into her burger, she realized that in her own head, she sounded like a grumpy old cow.

    How and when had this happened?

    She was fun-loving and fucking high on life.

    Was. But she wasn’t right now. Damn it all! If she continued to walk around with a bee in her bonnet and a stick up her ass, no good would come of it.

    Especially since a whole bunch of other fuckers constantly wanted to stick things in her ass. She really didn’t need to do it to herself.

    Holy hairy ball sacs, I’m turning into such an angry little bitch.

    Trixie realized it might be time for some serious self-evaluation.

    She quickly finished off her food, made herself smile at the gu— Girls—girls, not guppies—as she left the café, and headed back to the club. By the time she waved her Dante’s Purgatory staff ID card over the electronic back-door lock, she’d come up with a most excellent plan.

    1. Alleviate restless, antsy feelings via an adrenaline-inducing activity such as skydiving.
    2. Find a change of environment to avoid day-to-day stresses and to facilitate clear thinking: wilderness hike and camping.
    3. Empty mind of clutter and achieve spiritual peace and inner calm through meditation. Note: borrow Aunt Rozlyn’s Tibetan bells and ring those little fuckers until clarity is gained.
    4. Identify who slash what is causing angry feelings.
    5. Fix the fucking situation.

    Simple.

    Trixie entered the building, mentally patting herself on the back for coming up with such a great plan, when she came face to nipples with someone standing in her way. She looked up to find an angry Viking scowling down at her.

    She scowled right back at him. Fucker gave me a sore hole!

    As he loomed over her, he continued glaring in an intimidating way. She had to admit he did intimidating well; it was in his blood. Bet he had a real interesting ancient family history. She’d bet her spanked ass there was lots of stuff of the rape-y, pillage-y variety.

    But if he thought he could turn her into a gibbering mess just from the look in his eyes and his looming, he was sorely mistaken.

    What people are saying about the Dante’s Purgatory Series:

    “St. Clair writes in a way that is deeply alluring and keeps her audience thoroughly engaged and anticipating what could come next. I highly recommend this story and author to not only readers of erotica but all lovers of drama, and impeccably written stories. This was an easy five stars. A brilliantly crafted story!” –Author Angel Strong

    “While I imagine many will read the book for the sex scenes, it’s the emotional aspects that hook me (and the prose. Ms St. Clair knows how to write—and write well).” –Author Anna Belfrage

    “It’s the kind of story-telling that marks a first-rate writer. I can say with absolute certainty that it made me a fan of Sayara St. Clair.” –Author Ken Stark

    “A dazzling story of love and desire.” –Author David Lucero

    “It’s breathtaking and heartbreaking. It’s all-consuming. It’s everything any one of us could ask for in a novel, and so much more.” —Bloggers From Down Under

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    Release date: 23rd of January.

    About The Author

    If someone told a young Sayara St. Clair that one day she would be an erotic/paranormal-romance-writing Aussie expat living in Thailand, she would have snort laughed and yelled, “You. Be. Crazy!”

    If someone told her the same thing now, she would not yell, only nod solemnly. Because that actually happened.

    Sayara has a science degree, with majors in both microbiology and biochemistry. Working in the fields of serology and tissue banking, she got to do lots of cool and sometimes slightly weird stuff. She was employed as the manager/buyer for furniture retail stores, where she had a chance to unleash her inner interior decorator. (Interior design is one of her great passions.) And for a time, she taught English to students in Asia. (Hanging about in a roomful of extremely loud, pint-sized humans is not one of her great passions.) She has written: ads for TV, print and radio; real estate brochures; website copy; and a screenplay. Now she’s writing fiction and has discovered it’s her favorite thing to do. She’s also learned that writing sultry romances is so much more fun than writing dry old scientific journal articles. No one has sex in scientific journal articles. Not the ones she wrote anyway.

    When not writing, she may be most commonly found in a horizontal position reading, in the kitchen baking, in the garden planting, or somewhere else singing at the top of her lungs. She loves music and is prone to spontaneous bouts of dancing.

    With regards to vampires and chocolate: she bites one on a daily basis and has had a lifelong obsession with the other. And she’s not telling which one’s which.

    Note from the author: I laughed like a loon while writing this book. I also cried. And fell a little in love with the characters. I really hope you enjoy reading Trixie and Xavier’s story.

    x Sayara

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  • Fashion & Lifestyle Blogger Naomi Nikola

    Fashion & Lifestyle Blogger Naomi Nikola

    Hi Naomi thank you for taking the time to answer our questions on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hey! My name is Naomi Nikola, a Filipina Kawaii fashion/lifestyle blogger currently based in Tokyo, Japan.

    Where did you get the inspiration to start your website?

    Hmm. I’ve always been a fan of creating things virtually and having a space where I could express myself. Even as a kid, I’d create themes, and mini kid blogs from kid-friendly websites.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    When I’m not doing work and school, I enjoy playing video games, doodling, and making some mixed media art of some sort.

    Which kind of movies do you enjoy watching?

    Psychology, thrilling, and funny ones. My taste in films varies quite a lot.

    Would you rather be able to read minds or time travel?

    I’d rather time travel. Oh man that would be so exciting.

    If you can change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    I wish people didn’t fear too much. Also, I wish unicorns existed equally with us as normal (and cool) beings.

    Where is your dream holiday destination?

    Hmmmm…. Hokkaido during winter. Hot springs. I’ve never tried that before!

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I don’t know.

    It is a pleasure to feature you Naomi. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Bravery, and intelligence. I find intellectual stimulation to be really sexy.


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  • Singer & Actress Cassandra Spykerman

    Singer & Actress Cassandra Spykerman

    Hi Cassandra it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Thank you for featuring me in this article, SimplySxy! It is an honour. My name is Cassandra Spykerman. I play in a cover band, SuperSonic as a full-time job and I am a freelance actress. I am born and raised as a Singaporean – Eurasian. I am of British – Chinese and Dutch – Portuguese descent.

    Photo: Jia Luo @ljcp_sg

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    I think the best compliment I have received is, “You’re extremely brave to take on a career in the arts even though you are the sole breadwinner.”

    Photo: Jia Luo @ljcp_sg

    What is your secret to looking so fabulous?

    HAHAHAHAH! I guess it would be, being kind to other people and always doing my best to spread positivity and laughter to the ones around me. Also, a ton of water, eating regular meals, taking care of my skin and making sure that I am comfortable in my own skin! OH YES! AND MOISTURISE!

    Photo: Cheryl Kuek @cherylkjm

    Do you have any hobbies?

    Yes, in fact, I do have many hobbies. I love the idea of adventure – cycling, hiking, visiting the beach, splonking (climbing in caves), travelling, writing and reading. I also enjoy dancing and learning new things.

    Photo: Nur Idris @youknowidris_

    How much of a party gal are you?

    I think I am about 75% of a party girl, considering the work I do. I am pretty crazy on stage with the band! However, I have stopped drinking alcohol for about a year now. I rarely club. I think the last time I went to a club was about 2 years ago. I only party with the band now! (:

    If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    I think I would try to change the mindsets of people. By people, I mean leaders of the world today. I would definitely try to encourage people to deplete racism, and misunderstanding of other cultures.

    Photo: Asyraf @8thshot

    What flavor would you say best describes you?

    Chilli Padi! I have been called this several times. Tiny but full of spice and a burst of flavor!

    Photo: Khairul Afwan @afwan

    Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I think it would be first complimenting the band, to asking if I’m at the location, to offering to buy me a drink. Kudos to him for trying though!

    Photo: Adam Tun-Aung @tunaunga

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Cassandra. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Being comfortable in your skin.


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    Website: www.supersonicsg.com

    Upcoming works: Watch out for Code Of Law Season 4 Episode 10 and 11


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  • 10 Signs That She Is In Lust And Not In Love With You

    10 Signs That She Is In Lust And Not In Love With You

    While love can’t be put into words, it can be best described as a strong feeling of affection, and genuine interest and care for the other party. Lust, on the other hand, is pure fire; it is raw sexual attraction based solely on the physical factor. The two feelings are not exclusive, however; they usually intermingle, and may leave you confused.

    You have been seeing someone and sparks are flying. The attraction is mutual, and the sex is mind blowing. This situation may have been going on for a few weeks or for quite sometime now, and you may be beginning to wonder about the nature of your relationship. Whether it is bursts of crazy urgent sex, or hours of tantric sex, you may be wondering if that’s all there is. You want to know if what’s going on between you both is lust or love. Here are the 10 telltale signs that it’s lust she feels for you:

    1. Dates are a means to an end

    If you are at a point in your relationship where you’re wondering if what you have is list or love, odds are you have been courting your love interest for sometime. A look at the nature of your dates can be eye opening. Do you take the time to do activities together, and enjoy things you love to do? Or are your dates more of a door leading to a bed of crumbled sheets? If she seems less than enthusiastic to go on an actual date, and would rather grab a quick bite before heading back to her place or yours, it is definitely lust, not love. In time, you may find that she wants to skip the date intro all together, and just come over to jump right into action.

    1. She doesn’t want to cuddle

    Cuddling is a sign of affection, and feels almost as good as sex when you’re involve with someone. In fact, a study has found that cuddling is a way of nurturing intimacy. Thing are different if it is lust at play, however. Although you may be spending hours and hours in a variety of tantric sex positions, you may find that once you two are finished having sex, she wants to roll out of bed and head home. This sign can take a less noticeable form in her rolling to the opposite side of the bed and using her phone or taking care of unfinished business, and answering texts… etc. If this happens, she is in it for the sex and nothing else.

    1. All sex and no conversation

    Couples in love never find themselves short on things to say. They simply cannot get enough of each other not just on a sexual level, but also on an emotional and mental level. They can get lost in endless phone conversations and texts about random things that somehow feel fulfilling and interesting to them. If, in your relationship, conversation lags when it’s not a flirtatious tread to bed, this is a warning sign that it is lust, not love.

    1. You don’t feel like she is interested in your life

    You may be quite experienced in female orgasm, showing her a good time and taking pleasure in each others’ company, but if her interest stops at what you have to offer her in bed, it is a very strong sign it isn’t love for her. Love is hungry for everything there is to know and learn about the loved one. If your girlfriend is involve with you, she would enjoy knowing the little things about you: how you like your eggs, how you feel about a political situation, your childhood memories, even your opinion about the latest star wars movie. A person in lust, though, sees these things as irrelevant; a waste of time that can be put to better use.

    1. She doesn’t share details about her life or talk about her feelings

    The flood of conversation about what book she’s reading nowadays, what happened today at her workplace and how she feels about her latest run-in with her old-time frenemy should be reassuring. They mean your girlfriend thinks about you when she needs to talk about something, and that she eels secure and comfortable in sharing these bits of information with you. Even better, she wants you to know her though all these little details. Contrarily, the lack of any shared information other than her favorite sex positions, her fantasies or her past sexual adventures probably mean it’s only about sex.

    1. she doesn’t care about your future plans

    Unless you’re talking about how you plan to last longer in bed in the future, she simply isn’t interested. People in love automatically imagine a future together, and this created genuine interest from her side about your future plans, because your future will be her future. If she doesn’t ask about your dreams and aspirations, and doesn’t seem to be interested if you bring up your future plans, then she probably isn’t seeing you as part of her future, and is only in the relationship because of lust.

    1. Her friends and family don’t know about you

    When two people are in love, they have no problem showing it to the world. They, in fact, want to let the world know that they have found their person. Lust, however, feels temporary, and best kept a secret. If your girlfriend hasn’t introduced to any friends or family, and hasn’t let them know that you exist, this is a strong sign that your relationship is only lust for her.

    Her tendency to keep your relationship quiet, versus showing it off to the world, can also manifest in the way she acts when you two are out in public. While two people in lust generally can’e keep their hands off each other, you may find that your girlfriend acts differently in different settings. You will find that she doesn’t like to have physical contact in public places near her work place or in places where you two can run into people she knows. If you two have actually met someone she knows by coincidence, to be awkwardly introduced as a friend, it is an even stronger sign that it is all about sex for her, and that she doesn’t want to make the arrangement you two have known to other people in her life.

    1. You often wonder if this relationship is going anywhere

    Love feels secure, stable, peaceful and reliable. On the other hand, lust is urgent, volatile, fiery and intense. That is not saying that there is no fire in love, but passionate love combines the fire with feelings of confidence and reassurance. If the vibe you are receiving is making you feel like your relationship is a fleeting thing, leading you to wonder where you are heading, and whether what you two have will last another week, it is probably the fast burning fir of lust that’s making you feel that way.

    1. It is all about your looks

    Her eyes are drawn to your eyes, your body and the way you move, but are they looking deeper into you? When she talks about you, does she describe you as funny and smart, or just as sexy and attractive? Is she as likely to want to hang out with you the you’re not as put together as you usually are, or does the messy hair and unshaved face seem to put her off? If it’s all about your looks and nothing else, you are looking at a girl in lust.

    1. Make up sex

    Reflect on the way you two resolve your fights. A couple in love uses rational conversation to find the root of the problem, and solve it, preventing it from coming back in the future. Lust, however, is all about instant gratification. When you’re in lust with someone, you will find that your fights often end in quick apologies and intense make up sex. The root of the problem and whether or not it reoccurs is irrelevant, because lust is all about now.

    Conclusion

    Lust and love are both connected and different. In the best relationships, you have both. Relationships start with lust or friendship and develop into love, so there is no reason to worry if what you currently have with your girl is mostly heated passion. If you can see your partners interest in more than just sex growing, and you can see noticeable progress in the shape of your relationship, you are on your way to something long-lasting. If you tick off all the above signs with no improvement for months, however, you are in a lustful relationship. Enjoy it while it lasts. After all, lust is not too bad! If you recognize it for what it is, you will be able to reap the numerous physical and physiological benefits associated with sex, and have fun while you’re at it.

    References

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23070529

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/20088868


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  • Designer & Entrepreneur Alycia Hirani

    Designer & Entrepreneur Alycia Hirani

    Hi Alycia it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello! Thank you for having me. I’m Alycia, a Welsh designer who just loves making beautiful things. After graduating University, I wanted to extend my craft, so I created my brand ‘Emiah Couture’ which specializes in bespoke bridal, corsetry and boudoir.

    What inspired you to start Emiah?

    I have always loved art and creating things, even as a child I wasn’t far from some paints or colouring pencils! In high school this developed further when I discovered how much I enjoyed the sewing classes, and grew even further when I recently graduated University with a degree in Design for Performance. Whilst studying, I realized how much sewing combines my love of creating art, with the happiness I feel when helping people to feel more beautiful.

    So I created ‘Emiah’ as this allows me to create beautiful pieces to make people look and feel luxurious. It gives me an outlet to express myself through beautiful textures and painstakingly hand crafted embellishments, which can then be adorned onto my bespoke garments.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    For me personally, I think the best compliment I‘ve ever received was when someone said that my smile made them happy, which made me feel warm inside.

    If you meant about my work, then I will always remember when a model said that she felt like a living piece of art in one of my creations. She mentioned how surprised she was with how comfortable she felt whilst wearing something so lovely, which made my heart burst, as that is my aim as a creator.

    Is there anything you wished you knew or could do better when you started Emiah?

    Hindsight is always 20/20, but I think I would have told myself to just calm down and not worry so much. I’m a perfectionist by nature, so would overthink everything I made, when instead I should have just gone ahead and made the thing and just learnt from each piece, which is what I strive to do now.

    What is your dream super power to have?

    I would love to be able to manipulate time. I always find that there are never enough hours in the day, so imagine what it would be like to pause time and be able to get more stuff done! Or to be able to fast forward through something that is monotonous and boring… that would be so useful haha.

    If you could travel to anywhere in the world, where would it be?

    I would love to travel to New Zealand one day. My favorite animals are penguins, I even named my brand after the smallest breed of penguin in the world; the ‘little blue fairy penguin’ that lives in New Zealand, so I would love to see them in their natural habitat.

    What flavour would you say best describes you?

    I would probably say I’m quite a ‘nutty’ character, but I guess most artist and creators probably are! It’s also my most favorite topping on ice cream, which might have been where I got the idea from haha.

    How would you describe an ideal date?

    Oh I’ve never really thought about what an ideal date would be for me. I guess what would make a date stand out, would depend on how they made me feel whilst being with them, I am quite an easy going person and I love to laugh, so as long as they can make me smile, then I think I would count that as a success.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Alycia. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To me sexy is when you feel confident and strong. When you’re comfortable within your own skin and love yourself I think it really shines through. I know this can be a hard thing to do in the ‘social media age’ as you can constantly compare yourself and your life to others, which is why when I catch glimpses of this confidence, I think it can be very sexy. This is what I aim for; for my clients, for them to walk away feeling confident and sexy in something that I have created for and with them.


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    Website: www.emiah.co.uk
    Facebook: www.facebook.com/EmiahCouture
    Instagram: www.instagram.com/emiahcouture (@emiahcouture)

    Upcoming works: I always have new collections on the go, the next one being inspired by the colours and textures of beautifully iridescent insect wings, which is exciting, but I am also currently open for bespoke work, to help create something special just for you.


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  • 2017 Music Playlist To Have Sex To

    2017 Music Playlist To Have Sex To

    Hello fans! This year was full of excitement for me as two hurricanes hit Puerto Rico, my CNN news appearance to talk about it all with the mayor of San Juan, me and my little dog Rambo are back and I’m happy to be in the States doing porn with power and clean water. I was able to bring the good vibes of music with me and my dog are the only things I had left after the hurricanes hit Puerto Rico. But let’s forget that mess, get drunk and let’s party mother fuckers!

    Our first stop this year.

    In Florida first

    Sex in Florida

     ” The Camsoda Model Mansion “
    1. Fuck em if they Listenin – Psycho Les ft.B-real
    2. Make it Right back – Mr.Figaro ft. j.a.p Gank Gaank “Annette Worth”
    3. Throw sum mo – Rae Sremmurd
    4. I Get Lifted (1974) – George McCrea
    5. I Got The (1975) – Labi Sifrre
    6. Galatea Guitar – Gabor Szabro
    7. Liquid Love – Roy Ayers
    8. The Model – Kraftwork
    9. Banna Brain – Die Antwoord
    10. Come fuck me pumps – Amy Winehouse

    Sex in New York

    “Club Cileo”
    1. All the way up – Fat Joe
    2. Sofrito Mama – Tony Touch ft Beatnuts
    3. Element- Kendrick Lamar
    4. Smoke Break – Statik Selekt ft.2Chainz
    5. Wet Dreamz – J Cole
    6. Needed Me – Rhianna
    7. Air – Vina Love
    8. Treat me like fire – Lion Bebe
    9. The wound – Jazzyfatnastees
    10. Can’t You See – Total ft Biggy
    11. I keep forgetting – Michael McDonald
    12. Never too much – Luther Vandross
    13. Redbone – Childish Gambino

    “Sex in Central Park”

    1. Livin With my moms – Wiki ft Nigel
    2. Hold you down – Alchemist ft Nina sky
    3. Medication – Jr gong “Damian Marley”
    4. Likes – Chronixx
    5. Hasta El Amanecer – Nicki Jam
    6. La Modelo – Ozuna ft Cardi B
    7. Now you been Seduced – Davina
    8. Might Be – My Verse (Ted Smooth) remix
    9. Nite & Day – Kid Cudi
    10. Rock Creek Park – The Blackbyrds
    11. Ma froom Bey – Cultural Vibe (Tony Humphries mix )
    12. Paradise – Jose Burgos & Duce Martinez (Club Mix)

    Sex in Seattle

    ( Halloween USC Party Freaknight )
    1. Black Beatles – Rae Sremmurd
    2. Coco O.T Genasis
    3. I Do Coke – Kill The Noise &Feed me
    4. Everyone Nose – N.E.R.D
    5. Cocaine Blues – Escort
    6. Two Weeks – FTK Twigs
    7. Better Off Alone – Alice Dj
    8. Ritual – Marshmallow ft Wrabel
    9. This Girl – Kungs vs cooking on 3 burners
    10. Wet Dream – Raylin Joy
    11. Cool for the summer – Demi Lovato

    Sex In Paris

    “The Brothel”
    1. Circus Fish – Vermilion Lies
    2. Good Night Moon – Shivaree
    3. Everyone Wants to be a cat – Dimie Cat
    4. Fever – Peggy Lee
    5. Gangster Love – Alice Francis
    6. Money Money – Suzana D Amor
    7. Satan is her name – Steve King
    8. ooh LALa – Goldfarpp
    9. Eartha Kitt C’est si bon
    10. The Magic – Lola Blanc
    11. Dreaming Of you – Jackeld Phoenix
    Special thanks to
    • My Friends The Rock Steady Crew
    • Psycho Les
    • The Dwild Music Family
    • Kid Capri
    • DJ Scratch
    • DJ Qbert
    • Pa que Piqes bar in Santurce Puerto Rico
    • Stage Seattle
    • Stop and Go on condado Puerto Rico
    • Pinkys On condado
    • La placita
    • Tattoo Conspiracy calle loiza Puerto Rico
    • Joey Martinez aka my wicked yoyo
    And new tattoo Artist
    Special thanks to Melissa Hill Raw talk radio L.A
    “Worth IT” With Sean Lawless
    And that one with bad title
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    on Twitter @Annetworth or Instagram @Annette_worth
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    Bouns tracks
    1. Top of the world- kenya gruve
    2. Sex packets – digital underground
    3. Demolition pumpkin squeeze musik-(track 1) DJ Qbert

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