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  • Japanese Wanderluster Haruna Suzuki

    Japanese Wanderluster Haruna Suzuki

    Hi Haruna it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I was born and raised in Tokyo, Japan. I have lived in the U.S. and I LOVE travelling, especially to countries overseas.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    I would have to say my study abroad experience in the U.S. is what I’m most proud of. I received a scholarship and I studied so hard before and throughout the entire experience. Many people go to study abroad nowadays, but I really had the time of my life challenging myself, having new experiences, and growing up with amazing people there.

    Jumping into somewhere you don’t understand the language and culture can be scary but it definitely was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made! Not only did it change my mind, it also had a huge impact on my style, beliefs, confidence, and life vision. I can honestly say that I am who I am now because of the experience.

    Do you have any favorite quotes which you like to use in life?

    “All roads lead to Rome.”

    Shortly after coming home to Japan, I joined a company and began to lose sight of the path for what I want to do in my life. It was unbearable and I decided to quit my job. I went to Paris by myself to reset my mind to get a fresh restart on life.

    A guy who I met in Paris told me this quote. All roads lead to Rome; to me it means that there is always a way to achieve your goal even if something didn’t work. (If you know where you want to go, you will eventually make it there whichever the path you take).

    A year after that, when I went to Rome with my mother, I bought this leather bracelet with this quote written in French, but… I accidentally left it at the hotel. I was so sad but I just thought it means something. I know I need to make it to Rome, to get it back.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Hmmmm when I posted a movie of me walking around in Italy on Instagram, this guy left a comment “You are a princess Haruna, you deserve 24/7 protection”. Haha I thought it was unique.

    I also appreciate every single comment on Instagram so much and I try to reply to all of them!

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    I try to focus on the way that my clothes fit my silhouette and am particular about how the colors match with my skin tone. I often enjoy having themes for my OOTD. I pick up fashion trends from all over the world and try to dress like a local wherever I go to. For example, when planning to go to nature-rich countryside, I would wear denim with a plaid shirt as if I was from the American countryside, or try to wear a princess-like flared skirt when in Europe. It’s just really fun to match the OOTD and the place you are in especially when travelling. I also get inspiration from celebrity’s outfits and some YouTubers’ channel.

    If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    I would like to get rid of all kinds of discrimination.

    People are different in so many ways. I just think that we should celebrate our uniqueness more, not discriminate each other based on it. I believe in the beauty of discovering the differences among people/countries and one of my life’s themes is to explore the world and see different cultures. It goes without saying, but I think that diversity is wonderful.

    Even the disability should be like “different ability” since I read that “If ropes were standard in getting to the second floor, could you as you are now climb it and make it to the second floor? If no, would you call it a disability? How about the people in wheelchairs who cannot climb the stairs.” Our standards are based too much on what is the most common, forgetting that there are always alternate possibilities that are just as pragmatic.

    What flavor would you say best describes you?

    Chocolate mint… I guess? Lol That’s what my best friend told me. I actually had never thought of that. Haha but when I asked my best friend, she said that I am like chocolate mint because it has sweet parts but overall it has a unique and cool flavor. I honestly think it perfectly describes myself though. Lol

    Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    A foreign guy asked me of the destination on the street and ended up being so annoyingly persistent that I gave in and exchanged contact information with him. Ever since that time he hasn’t stop texting me with super long “I can give you a million dollars and we can live together” kind of text in obviously automatically translated Japanese (which makes no sense). He didn’t even try to speak English nor Japanese and just sent the same message once every month… and yes, I ended up blocking him…

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Haruna. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think “sexy” is about having confidence and maybe also being strong. In Japan, we do not have the same definition of sexy as the one popularized in western cultures. Instead it is more closely correlated to being erotic and is limited to visual aspects of an individual.

    But, I think it’s not just about showing more skin or a specific way that you dress. It’s about the way you carry yourself, the atmosphere you have, and being strong mentally, emotionally, with intelligence.

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    Instagram: @haruna.s1206
    Blog: suzukiharuna.wordpress.com

    Images courtesy of Haruna

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  • What You Should Know About 420 Intox

    What You Should Know About 420 Intox

    I thoroughly believe that kink/alternative lifestyle gives you a sort of freedom to express yourself like nothing else. There’s no judgement passed by anyone, unless of course someone is being hurtful/discriminating. Other than that, we’re all here for the same exact reason, to interact and connect with others just like ourselves. Being a part of this lifestyle gives you a lot of opportunities to form new friendships and relationships, and explore your own interests and passions comfortably.

    What is 420 Intox?

    420 intox/herbal intoxication is the act of consensually “forcing” the submissive to consume cannabis for the dominant’s amusement. The sub’s mind becomes even more intoxicated by my power, allowing them to go into a dream-like/relaxing state. I’ve noticed personally that it’s much easier for the sub to focus all of their energy solely on me, and to leave their normal thoughts, perception, and “normal” lifestyle behind.

    All of their fears and stress points are nowhere to be found. The submissive caves in so easily, and appears more serene in the process. It came about naturally, I suppose. I’m already a heavy marijuana consumer, so when it came down to sex and kink, integrating weed was a given. It was just something I was already used to.

    How Cannabis Is Integrated To Kink

    Cannabis is integrated into kink in many different ways; whether it be a certain 420 fetish, or just using cannabis infused lubricant. Cannabis and kink can be wonderful experiences on their own; but combining the two, that’s when the magic happens.

    How It Adds To The Experience

    It’s all about having fun, and being yourself. I feel consuming cannabis before any sexual experience can give you so many wonderful emotions and accessibility to push your limits in a more comfortable way; for both parties (domme/sub). Euphoria and thrill rushes through your veins, leading to an incredible, more heightened climax. It can be a powerful and memorable experience.

    Safety Precautions To Take Note Of When Intoxicated

    While high/intoxicated, senses are much more amplified.  Desire is increased, emotions are enhanced, and pain receptors can become a lot more sensitive; this can be a good and bad thing. A common symptom during sexual activity while being high/intoxicated is vaginal dryness; lubricant is your best friend!

    Also, everybody has a tolerance. A normal amount to me can be a large amount to the sub. Sometimes they’ll feel intimidated by me, try to keep up with my consumption, and end up having a bad time. Neither of us want that! The key is communication. We’ll create a safe word they can say to hint that they’ve reached their limit; and that same rule should also apply to any sexual activity you’re about to partake in.

    Emery Dalliance – Financial Dominatrix and Clip Producer. Her expertise’s are; Financial Domination, Female Domination, Forced Intox (cannabis/alcohol) and Tease and Denial. She resides in Southern California.

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/emerydalliance?lang=en

    Niteflirt: https://www.niteflirt.com/listings/show/11432742-Emery-s-Surprise-

    Personal Website: http://emerydalliance.webstarts.com

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  • Nurse & Blogger Jessie Chung From Hong Kong

    Nurse & Blogger Jessie Chung From Hong Kong

    Hi Jessie it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy. Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello everyone 🙂

    My name is Jessie and I’m from Hong Kong. Some of my friends would call me SuSu as they think I look like a hamster LOL.

    Give you 30 seconds to guess what I do in life…..

    You might be surprised haha.

    My major is in pharmaceutical and I’m now working in a hospital pharmacy to dispense medicine.

    I know it sounds boring but I think my job is so meaningful because I can help people and contribute to society.

    Photo: ShiBBi @shibbi_babi

    Do you have any hobbies?

    My hobbies are quite diverse. I like both active and quiet activities. I like to go hiking and to the beach sun for tanning, dancing, reading, and watching movies. Always up for an adventure and trying new things.

    Photo: Taeyang Sze @berealbesze

    Where do you usually love to shop from?

    I like to go shopping while I’m travelling to other countries so that it is less likely to have my outfit clashed with others in my home town. Also I shop online too, for some brands as they are only available on online shops only.

    Photo: Henry L @henrypattanin

    Which is your favorite type of food?

    I like spicy food so Korean and Thai food is always my priority!

    Photo: Taeyang Sze @berealbesze

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    I’m more of a morning person as I need to have my beauty sleep at night to keep my skin glowing and I like to go exercising in the morning to start a brand new day:)

    Photo: Taeyang Sze @berealbesze

    If you could have a superpower, which will it be?

    I wish I could erase some bad memories selectively which causes pain sometimes.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Ummm that is quite funny. A guy asked me how to go somewhere and after teaching him how, he asked me for my contact number. It is a kinda old-school method LOL.

    Photo: Jeff @jeffvancy

    What is your ideal dream guy?

    My ideal type of guy…ummmm I wish he can be my love one and best friend at the same time, loyal and caring. Make each other better, challenge each other to go beyond average, pull out the greatness from within each other.

    Photo: Zac Syswerda @young._sinatra

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jessie. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think sexy is an attitude and personality, it isn’t about showing skin. For me, sexy people are their confidence and kindness. Always be yourself to make you look more sexy xoxo.

    Follow the beautiful Jessie Chung on:

    Instagram: @jessie.csy

    (Better follow my IG for most updated photos and life stories)

    Facebook: Jessie Chung

    Upcoming Works: I’m going to have a YouTube channel with friends so keep an eye on my IG @jessie.csy being updated!!!

    Featured image courtesy of Yin Lau @yin03__02

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  • Kelly Kane Loves Her Fashion & Music

    Kelly Kane Loves Her Fashion & Music

    Hi Kelly it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello and thank you for having me! I’m 24 this year and I’m from Singapore! I grew up in a really simple family. I have a really supportive mum who really encouraged me to pursue what I love to do!

    What is your beauty regime like to looking so fabulous?

    To be completely honest, I don’t have any beauty regime. I don’t even own face wash. But! I do put on a mask once in awhile, especially when I travel!

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    I think all compliments are great! I do feel happier when someone compliments my outfits or anything to do with my acting/singing/hosting etc…

    How is a typical weekend like for you?

    Hanging with my friends! Anything from movies, karaoke, coffee to drinks!

    What is your dream superhero to be?

    JEAN GREY!!

    Do you have any phobias?

    I am terrified of butterflies/moths. Dragonflies come next.

    What genre of movie do you enjoy watching most?

    I watch a lot of movies! I like darker themed movies like crime, psychological thrillers etc.. Just not a huge fan of the typical romance movies haha

    My top 3 all time favorite will be 1) Leon the professional, 2) Gia, and 3) Spirited Away

    Is there something you don’t get about guys?

    I feel like there’s a lot of things I don’t get about the human mind in general. Not just for guys!!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Kelly. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Intelligence. That’s sexy!

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    Instagram: @kellykanez 

    Can check out ‘UNCENSORED’ on  INCENTRAL

    Images courtesy of Kelly

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  • Role Playing: Spice Up Your Relationship With These 9 Naughty Ideas

    Role Playing: Spice Up Your Relationship With These 9 Naughty Ideas

    Every now and then things can get quite boring in a relationship. You know the feeling when you already know what will happen because it happened so many times before? Well, that’s exactly the point where relationships start to suffocate.

    If two love birds don’t recognize it and act accordingly, it may be the very end for them; let’s face it, no one likes boring stuff. This applies especially to one part of a relationship ‑ sex. Therefore, according to performance insiders, most men try and seek for a solution; like Kegel exercises for men, for an example; and they do all of that they can in order to be better in bed.

    Although it isn’t and shouldn’t be the center of a relationship, sexual intercourse is very important as it has the power to bring two people closer together, or separate them far away. Kegel exercises may help a man last longer, but even so, your sex might still be boring and feel the same; it will only last longer.

    Complications in a relationship may even lead to ED (short for erectile dysfunction). To make things worse, according to Consumer Health Digest, this may trigger all of the erectile dysfunction types. And you know what? ED is a man’s worst enemy; his scarecrow. If you want to know why all that you need to do is check this medical research (one of many) and realize how frequent and devastating ED really is.

    So, what can you do to avoid getting dumped, refresh your relationship and avoid ED (at least avoid this possibility)? Luckily for you, this article will give you some ideas; 9 of them, to be precise.

    9 Naughty Ideas that Will Boost Your Relationship

    If your sex life became dull, maybe all that you need to do is change one aspect of it ‑ foreplay. If didn’t practice foreplay before, you absolutely must include it to your “game”. As we can see from this research, both men and women love and need foreplay in order to get them into the right mood for sexual intercourse.

    So, here are top 9 things you have to try in order to step up your foreplay game! Let’s check them out.

    1. New Sex Positions

    Okay, seriously now, if you haven’t experimented with your partner (of course, this applies to those of you who are with your partners for a long period of time), what are you waiting for?!

    You can’t possibly expect your partner to feel satisfied only with one or two poses each and every time you have sex. On top of that, YOU will feel better if you try something new out as well.

    What you can do is tease the pose before sex. Try something similar in a “dry hump” way. So yes, the key here is ‑ be open-minded and experiment.

    1. Dress up

    Another way to bring some heat to your sex life is the popular “cosplay”. You can visit a Sex Shop near you or simply be creative and try something on. You can also get into roles of your characters.

    For an example, she can be a teacher and you can be a student; or vise versa. As you can see, you have to be creative for this one as well.

    It wouldn’t be a bad idea to talk to your loved one about what or who she/him wants to see you dress up as.

    1. Talk During Sex

    Forget about feeling embarrassed! This one needs you to let yourself go and feel for once, not think!

    What is very important in sex is the talk; not just the touch. It is a known fact that men love when women talk to them during sex (about how good it is or something similar; definitely not the negative talk, of course). So, it would be good to “sweet talk” yourselves during your foreplay.

    Of course, you can and should do it while you are having sex as well.

    1. Massage Each Other

    Massages are excellent ways of relaxing the mind and the body. That’s what sex stands for as well, right?

    So, why not mix the two. As we can learn from this medical research, massages have their own way of dealing with our psyche and relaxing us (something that feels like meditation).

    A fine way of spicing things up between you two is the Nuru massage. The Nuru massage is different from the rest, as you two will be massaging one another at the same time. Did I mention that you would be doing that completely naked on a mattress, and covered in special oils? Oh well…

    1. Buy Beverages

    One of the best ways to get your blood pumping is to buy some alcohol and food before you have sex. Make a nice atmosphere, drink a few glasses of vine, for an example, and then proceed to the sack.

    1. Send Sexy Messages 

    Before you actually meet up and jump “to it”, try sending some sexy messages or sexy calls. This will heat the moment up even more and make both of you excited for the real deal.

    1. Decorate your “place of wonder”

    This one goes extremely well with number 6 from the list. To be honest, everything goes with everything, but make sure not to mix it up too much!

    Think about what your partner would like (or what both of you would like), where your partner wants to go and try and mimic that place by decorating your room.

    1. Watch sex before actual sex and buy some props before sex

    You can watch a movie that has sexual scenes in it, or simply watch porn together. This way both of you will be heated up and ready for the main dish.

    I know that visiting a sex shop may be difficult and embarrassing in most cases, but this is serious; you want to save your relationship and bring something fresh to it. It would be good to talk to your partner about what he/she wants and isn’t afraid to use.

    1. Play with your partner’s body

    Think of this as of art. Don’t just meet up to have sex. Try and appreciate your partner and please his/her body. If you focus on the “sweet” spots and take some time for that before sex, the main event will look way better.

    The Final Verdict

    This would be it for this article. Now that you have a general idea about what to do, well, go for it!

    Like I have said, you can mix things up (not more than three)! The whole “science” behind this lays in your imagination. Figure out what your partner likes and lusts for and try to give that to him or her.

    Some points from this list require mutual trust and communication, so don’t rush into all of them without talking about them with your partner. Good luck!

    References:

    https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1071543/

    Kegel Exercises For Men: How Kegel Exercises Will Transform Your Sex Life?

    Married Sex: 38 Sex Ideas & Naughty Tips to Spice It Up & Stay Passionate

    https://www.consumerhealthdigest.com/male-sexual-health/erectile-dysfunction-types.html

    Ben Arnold – Ben Arnold is a freelance writer and a health and beauty adviser. He has been giving beauty and fitness advice to thousands of people all around the globe. Through his advanced studies, he has gain enormous experience in nutrition and healthy diet. His articles have a source on personal and practical experience. Apart from health, he likes reading books and listening music in free time. You can follow him on Facebook, Google +, Twitter, StumbleUpon and Pinterest

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  • Beauty & Art Enthusiast Tiffany Phua

    Beauty & Art Enthusiast Tiffany Phua

    Hi Tiffany it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi, I’m Tiffany Phua, currently 19 years old. Bachelor of Architecture from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia. Also, I’m enthusiastic about beauty and art.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Basically simple, comfortable and with a hint of elegance.

    Do you have a strict beauty regime you follow?

    Nope.

    Photo: @fdqmstffa

    Are there any favorite quotes you have that you use in life?

    Doubts kill more dreams than failure ever will.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    3, I don’t party frequently but I still do when my friends throw a party.

    Photo: @fdqmstffa

    If you could be a cartoon character, who will it be and why?

    Blossom from Powerpuff Girls. Isn’t she cool to lead the girls into victory and save the day.

    Would you rather give up bathing for a month or give up the internet for a month?

    This question gives me dilemma because both are so important to me. But honestly I think I would rather give up the internet for a month. I can’t even imagine myself without bathing for one day.

    Photo: @fdqmstffa

    What is an ideal first date to you?

    As simple as it can be. Perhaps… an ice-cream date.

    Photo: @ajajphotos

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Tiffany. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Deep V neck, bodycon dress, mini skirts all can make you look sexy but frankly, self-confidence is the one that makes a person sexy from appearance to inner strength and thats how I define sexy .

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.phua/

    Featured image courtesy of @fdqmstffa

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  • Influencer & Makeup Artist Marianna Rudus

    Influencer & Makeup Artist Marianna Rudus

    Hi Marianna it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Thank you for having me. I’m from Latvia but currently I’m living in London, United Kingdom. I’m a social media influencer and freelance makeup artist.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    “You have inspired me so much.”

    You have many photos wearing different coloured wigs. Which are your most favorite so far?

    Yes, I like changing my looks a lot. I don’t have a specific favorite wig but I really love the pink one that I’m wearing in some of my pictures. But I like them all.

    How is your fashion style like?

    It’s a mix of everything. Most of the time it is casual or sporty but if I’m going out, it can be elegant as well. It really depends.

    What items or accessories are a must have in your wardrobe?

    Probably a black classic coat, black shoulder bag and skinny jeans because I can wear them with anything. I really love over the knee boots as well.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    My favorite hobby is makeup. Makeup is really my passion. But I have other hobbies as well like photography, eating healthy and fitness.

    Would you rather spend a day at the beach or up in the mountains?

    I would rather spend a day at the beach I think because I haven’t been there for a long time. But I woudn’t say no to going to the mountains.

    Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    There have been many but I think the most ridiculous was just texting me and asking me to marry him on the first message.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Marianna. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    It is about being confident and feeling comfortable in your own skin.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mariannarudus/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/mariannarudusx/

    Snapchat: mariannarudus

    Images courtesy of Marianna Rudus

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  • Model, Fashion Blogger & Stylist Viktoria Myr

    Model, Fashion Blogger & Stylist Viktoria Myr

    Hi Viktoria it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello! I am from Ukraine, but live in USA.

    When did you get started into modeling?

    I started modeling at age 15 (I had been mini, miss my city) and blogging at 17, and now I am 22 years old .

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    I received it from my childhood friend who said that I am special and that by making my own criticism of myself, I force myself to unconsciously grow and become better and that in the year that we did not see each other I became even more beautiful, smarter, more interesting and successful – to me it was very nice to hear it, because the very fact that he watched me all the time of our communication and then made an objective evaluation hooked me.

    How is your fashion style like?

    I would characterize my style with the following words: freedom, elegance, fashionable details, pleasant tissues to the body, romnintichnost.

    What items or accessories are a must have in your wardrobe?

    Necklaces, which for me serve as talismans and a large number of earrings without which I can not do without at least a day.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    Yoga, meditation, writing the essay (thought in the ear).

    Would you rather spend a day at the beach or up in the mountains?

    It depends on what the weather (from season) is, if it is, summer I prefer mountains or if it’s winter time, I prefer more beaches then mountains 😉

    Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Perhaps this was the situation when a guy came to find out the time and then followed me for half an hour asking me this all the time and trying to get acquainted in many ways.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Viktoria. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I believe that sexuality is displayed in our eyes, in our walk, movements, behavior and that clothes can only emphasize, and not create sexuality. Nowadays, many people confuse vulgarity with sexuality, but there is always a line between them, which every self-respecting girl must learn to feel.

    My advice to the girls, if you want to look sexy, start with love for yourself and adopt the technique of coquettes from French women, which you can partly adopt to yourself through movies and books about French women.

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    Blog: http://look-book.ru/theycallmemyrcom
    Instagram: @viktoria_myr

    Images courtesy of Viktoria Myr

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  • What You Should Know About Rope Bondage

    What You Should Know About Rope Bondage

    BDSM is a form of escapism from the everyday grind of life for me. It is also a way I choose to form relationships with intimate partners. BDSM allows me to let go of inhibitions, societal pressure and stress. BDSM is about trust, communication and expanding of knowledge. It is also an amazing way to meet new, interesting and wonderfully accepting people.

    How My Interest In Rope Bondage Began

    I met a guy who was very into the rope scene at a swingers party. He took me along to a fetish event and I saw all the wonderful and crazy things everyone was doing. We started experimenting in private and I started attending my local peer rope. Eventually, I started exploring at events on my own and with other partners. Since I started as a bunny (a person who is tied) nearly 6 years ago, my interests and wants/needs have changed and I now identify as a switch (someone who can be both a bottom and/or a top during play scenes)

    How It Feels To Tie & Be Tied

    For me, being tied up is about freedom. Which sounds very contradictory. Being tied up allows me to be still and calm, be in the moment, release stress and sometimes if I’m lucky, to fly. It allows me to stop thinking and just be. Does it hurt? Sometimes, and when it does, being tied up becomes about challenging yourself and overcoming whatever the rigger (person doing the tying) is putting you through. The endorphin rush during and after don’t hurt either.

    Tying another person is a whole different kettle of fish. Having someone trust you with their body and sometime mental and emotional state is amazingly humbling. Each person I tie is different and what they want to get out of a rope experience can change from day to day and person to person. My job as a rigger is to allow the bunny to enjoy the experience and get what they want out of a session while ensuring they are safe and (mostly) unharmed at the end.

    Common Positions To Be Tied Up In

    This is a more complex question than it seems. There are many different styles of rope bondage. If you are just tying a partner up for some sexy times in the bedroom the spread eagle is a common one. If you are more into western style bondage, you will often find hip harnesses and double column ties (rope handcuffs especially). Shibari or Japanese style rope bondage uses a takate kote (box tie) as the bases for many of its ties as well as futomomos (frog-leg tie) and hip harnesses.

    Positions can also vary depending on if you are doing floor work vs suspension, are wanting a loving connecting scene vs a sadistic scene. Rope is a vary versatile tool and can be used in whatever way you and/or your partner is feeling at that time.

    Introducing Rope Bondage To Someone New

    For me, it always starts as a conversation. Asking a person if they would like to try out this thing I am into. Communication and consent are key with any sort of BDSM activity. If they seem keen to give it a try, I usually start with something very simple like a tie on the wrist or ankle, then work our way from there.

    If someone asks me how they can get into rope bondage themselves as either a rigger (person doing the tying) or a bunny (person being tied), I try to point them towards a peer rope or rope dojo close to where they are. I think building connections within your local community with like minded people can only help you get better skills and more experience.

    Various Ways To Kink Up Rope Bondage

    Of course there are. Blindfolds and other sensory deprivation tools are commonly used with rope, as is wax from wax play candles. You can incorporate many sensations like fingernails, biting, kissing, spanking (with hands or impliments). Hot and cold with ice and warm oil. For something more extreme, and not for the faint of heart, I once saw a performance when the bunny/model had her nipple pierced while in a very tricky suspension. You are only limited by your imagination and what your partner will consent to.

    Please make sure you ASK your partner before trying any sort of bondage or BDSM activity with them. Pick an easy to remember safe word like “RED” or “ENOUGH” and when your partner indicates that they would like to stop or uses your safe word, ensure you stop IMMEDIATELY. CONSENT IS KEY.

    Rose Demore – Rope and bondage lover. Sweet and Sadistic. Poly, opinionated, and like to stretch and open the minds of everyone I meet.

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  • Actress and Model Jenna Nolen

    Actress and Model Jenna Nolen

    Hi Jenna it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi, well I’m originally from Philadelphia, Pennsylvania. I lived there for most of my life but I just recently moved to Los Angeles to pursue my acting and modeling career! I am an only child, and I know what you’re thinking, “Wow that’s awesome, you must love it”, but when I was a kid I got so bored you have no idea.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Honestly I have two. The best compliments I ever received came from two people, my aunt Bern and my Mother. My mom said to me one day, “You are so strong and you are my hero, I couldn’t have done half the stuff you have accomplished at your age, you are so brave.” That really spoke to me, especially since it came from your mother, because I’m usually the one that looks up to her, she’s such a hard working, amazing, selfless woman. Hearing her say that about me, meant the world.

    My aunt Bern, man if you met her you would love her instantly. She is such a joy to the world and she really makes you proud to be who you are. She said to me “I brag about you all the time because Jen, you are just such an amazing person, you’re such an old soul and you came in my life at the right time. You’re drive, you’re love and care for people is amazing, and I love you just the way you are”. My aunt and I have gotten so close, I consider her my second mom. It’s amazing the amount of love I have in my family.

    How is your beauty regime like to looking so fantastic?

    Honestly I wake up and wash my face, do my hair, and look in my closet at all the nice outfits I have, then I’ll go into my dresser and pull out sweatpants and probably a t-shirt. If you see me out in public I’m probably wearing sweatpants. I only wear jeans or something nice if I’m going out to an event or with a group of friends.

    I usually will put on some makeup. My favorite products honestly come from Elf , Sephora , and Nyx . I love doing my makeup with a sassy song playing in the background so I can feel on top of the world, kid you not. If you’re going to go out and slay, you got to have a song playing that fits that mood.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    Well I was in college for a semester, and I didn’t like it at all. I went through a really, really rough patch there and I just knew I needed to get out. The worst part was, I come from a family of scholars, and family who all for the most part went to college, and graduated. I didn’t want to let anyone down honestly because I was the next to attend college so I did, but not for myself, for my family to make them proud. When I was in college, acting was drifting away from me, and when I would come home from college for a weekend, I never wanted to go back because it was hell for me.

    I finally made the decision to leave college and follow my dreams to pursue my acting and modeling career, and honestly at first, no one in my family was okay with it and they weren’t happy. I knew I just had to prove myself to them, so in April of 2017 I moved to California, and once they knew I was moving everyone was happy, but also concerned, but I went and by far it’s the best decision I’ve made. I’ve done so much career wise and I couldn’t be more proud of myself than I am now.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    I really like to play volleyball, I love playing it. I love getting together with friends and have a game on the beach or something. Also I love to paint, even though I’m not a great painter, I love painting pictures, it’s so calming and relaxing.

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    Hmmm mind reading, because you go into an audition and they’ll say “Wow you did great” but are they lying? Hahah you never know! So I would definitely want that.

    How long do you think you’ll survive a zombie apocalypse?

    Honestly I think I would survive a good month, mainly because I saw a lot of zombie movies and they all look like they’re dying from food, and I love food, so I give it about a month.

    What turns you off on a date?

    Hmm, honestly guys bragging, or talking about all the stuff they’ve done, not even in a tasteful way, because if you brag in a tasteful way, that’s fine, but when they do it because they think they’ll win you over, absolutely not. So not attractive. Also when they chew with their mouth open, I can’t, so disgusting.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jenna. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy to me is being comfortable in your own skin 🙂

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