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  • How To Enjoy Sex

    How To Enjoy Sex

    I believe sex is a very natural part of life, and every consenting adult should have the right to enjoy it. Sex is an emotional and physical experience that I honestly believe is connected to the soul. Sex is also not restricted to what we’ve been socially conditioned to think it is; it’s an everchanging state of being that varies from person to person. What you believe sex is could be the opposite to someone around you. Sex has the capability of being a pure spiritual experience that opens us up to a spectrum of emotions.

    Preparing Myself Before Sex

    Sometimes I must mentally prepare myself to have sex as it’s an incredibly vulnerable experience. Sex is an immersive experience, and if I’m not in the right mindset it can be hard to be present. Usually I just have to meditate and clear the thoughts from my head and focus on being in the moment.

    Having An Enjoyable Sexual Experience

    Sex has always been a hang-up of mine, as I very rarely had enjoyable sex, especially when first exploring my sexuality. I’m lucky enough now that I have pleasurable sex frequently, but sometimes it can be impossible for me to immerse myself in the experience. I’ve always found it difficult to orgasm and require a lot of stimulation before reaching that point.

    How To Have Enjoyable Sex

    It may sound incredibly ridiculous, but I meditate regularly. I’ve found that for me to have enjoyable sex, I have to slow my thoughts and get myself into a meditative state. I used to be shy when it came to anything sexual (even in the middle of sex) but I’ve since gained a lot of confidence in the bedroom. This led to me speaking up about what I wanted from sex, and being able to verbalise the things my partner could do to pleasure me. It shouldn’t be such a taboo to ask for things during an intimate relation, but sadly many women don’t feel comfortable speaking up about what gets them off.

    Common Mistakes Men Make During Sex

    In my experience, sexual partners can be selfish. Guys, spend time solely pleasuring your partner. Don’t make it all about you, and don’t assume they’re ready to go. It’s really hot when a guy asks sensually, “do you like that?” instead of not checking in. Pay close attention to the way our bodies move against yours. When do we moan? When do we press into you? When do we pull away? Be aware of physical cues and body language. The major mood killer for me is guys being too rough on my clitoris. If you think you’re being gentle, back it up by at least 100 per cent. The clitoris has thousands of nerve endings, and it can really hurt when you press into it.

    Natalya Rosewood – Natalya is an Independent Escort from Brisbane, Australia. At 22-years-old, she is well-educated in arts and culture, and is currently attending university. Specialising in GFE, she is good-humoured and cheeky – the ultimate girl-next-door.

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    Twitter: https://twitter.com/NatalyaRosewood

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  • Meet The Fit & Fiesty Sarah Rav

    Meet The Fit & Fiesty Sarah Rav

    Hi Sarah it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi! Thank you so so much for featuring me – it’s an absolute honour ?

    I’m a 19-year old Medical student from Melbourne, Australia. However, in my spare time, I also run multiple Instagram accounts including @fitandfiesty (health & fitness focused, with 1.5 million followers) and @tasty.hub (food and cooking based, with 800K followers). Both themes are huge passions of mine, so it’s a lot of fun running them!

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    My proudest achievement would probably be getting my Instagram accounts to where they are today. Given that I started them as hobbies, without ever imagining that they would grow into much more than that, it amazes me every time when I stop and think about the fact that I have a network of over 2 million.

    Not only that, I am incredibly thankful for the fact that I can make such an impact on the lives of others. Especially with my fitness account. I receive over 200 DMs daily, the majority of which are individuals who thank me for helping motivate them to get up and go to the gym/switch or a healthy diet or to thank me for a specific tip that I’ve posted. Although it can take up a lot of time, replying to questions from followers and finding content, this makes it all worth it!

    Which are your favorite quotes you like to use in life?

    My favourite quote is by Taylor Swift, which reads “Life isn’t about how to survive the storm, it’s about how you dance in the rain”. I love this because honestly, my life and routine is FULL ON. From a completely objective point of view, it sucks. I’m on the go/working/studying/training pretty much every single minute of the day and essentially, hardly have time to lounge around and do what I would like to do (which would probably be to lie in bed with a bowl of ice-cream and a good TV show and never get leave).

    Nevertheless, I actually ENJOY my hectic timetable. I thrive off it.

    There is nothing more satisfying to me, then going to bed at night completely exhausted, but feeling extremely satisfied after getting heaps done that day. So, I guess, the quote helps me maintain a positive outlook on what could be considered a “storm” of a schedule.

    How is your workout regime like?

    My workout routine is pretty intense, but going to the gym is often my favourite part of the day. I usually go every day, but allow myself to take one day off if needed to recover (or if life gets in the way, which can happen).

    I start with a 30min walk from my house to the gym, then 20-30minutes cardio whilst there. After that, it’s usually 1.5hrs of weightlifting before I walk home and collapse.

    I alternate between legs, push (shoulders & chest) and pull (back).

    If I can, I always try to go to the gym in the morning so that I have the rest of the day to recover and get on with other things. I find that if I go in the afternoon, I always feel so much more tired and I tend to put it off until much later than I should.

    If I’m on Uni break or have some spare time, I love going for afternoon walks too!

    Do you have any guilty pleasures or indulgences for food?

    Okay, so anyone who knows me will tell you straight away that I am TERRIBLE when it comes to pancakes and donuts. Like, they are the two foods that I constantly crave ALL THE TIME. However, I keep my cravings under control by allowing myself one cheat meal a week. This means that during the week, when I really, really want something sweet, I am much more able to stop myself because I know that I will be allowed to indulge soon.

    Besides, I’m all about maintaining a balance. Just because you’re living a healthy lifestyle, doesn’t mean you have to cut out all the things that you love. Treats like this can be included here and there – it’s what keeps you sane and happy!!

    If you could meet anyone past or present, who will it be?

    This is a tough one! I honestly have had to think about this for a while.

    I think I’ve decided on Michelle Obama. I have the upmost respect for this incredible lady due to the way that she handles herself with such grace and elegance, even whilst dealing with issues of incredible importance.

    She is so intelligent, and every decision she makes is calculated in order to achieve the best outcome. If I got to meet her, I would love to get an insight into her thought process and how she dealt with such a stressful job.

    It would also be interesting to hear a woman in power’s perspective, rather than speaking to Barack Obama himself.

    Would you rather have supersonic speed or the ability to fly?

    100% supersonic speed. I don’t think I’d need the ability to fly if I had supersonic speed, because I would still be able to get everywhere I needed to – at that speed, I’d probably be able to run across water so going between countries wouldn’t be an issue.

    Plus, it would make running at the gym/doing cardio a heck of a lot more fun!

    Funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Ahh, this one’s too hard for me to answer! I don’t want to embarrass anyone ☹ Let’s just say that I get a lot of requests via my Instagram DMs.

    I’m was actually super surprised to realise that there are SOO many guys out there who would be willing to pay for flights and accommodation to the other side of the world just to meet up. They are also super, super adamant. Like, even after blocking a guy, sometimes he’ll start ANOTHER account just to pester me further.

    Whilst I am somewhat flattered, I just wish they would realise that NO means NO.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Sarah. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    This one’s easy. Sexy = confidence.

    I don’t believe that there should be any other definition.

    It shouldn’t be defined by a particular body type, race, feature nor personality trait except CONFIDENCE.

    If a person feels GOOD about themselves and they are confident in not only the way they look but ALSO what they are capable of, then that is extremely attractive!

    Follow the beautiful Sarah Rav on:

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/fitandfiesty/

    https://www.instagram.com/sarahrav/

    Upcoming Works:

    I do have a FITNESS APP that will be launching in the New Year (2018).

    However all information for this will be provided via my Instagram, so if you could please direct your readers to FOLLOW @fitandfiesty to keep updated.

    Images courtesy of Sarah Rav

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  • Model Aidana From Kazakhstan

    Model Aidana From Kazakhstan

    Hi Aidana it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I am from Kazakhstan.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Usually I wear smart casual or classic clothes.

    Is there a preferred side you have to taking selfies?

    Yeah my right side 🙂

    What favorite quotes do you have and use to motivate yourself?

    Have less, do more, be more.

    Or

    Less is more.

    Where can we find you hanging out during weekends?

    It depends on where my friends are when I’m going out. Ce La Vie, Bang Bang, Club Street, employees only. It’s very different when I’m going out. Places don’t matter but people does.

    Have you ever been in an embarrassing situation that is funny now?

    Yeah a lot but can’t tell you 🙂

    Will you rather be stuck on an island alone or fight in a zombie apolcalypse with everyone?

    Fight and die in a zombie apocalypse while protecting my friends or family.

    Is there something you totally don’t get about guys? 

    Their ego.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Aidana. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is being comfortable in your own skin.

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  • Fisting Tips For Beginners

    Fisting Tips For Beginners

    #1 avoid injury and infections!

    Scrub hands and nails thoroughly with hot soap and water. If you aren’t fluid-bonded, you should ideally be using a latex or nitrile glove. I keep nitrile gloves on hand for everything, and pass on latex since some people are allergic. Trim your nails short, and make sure all the edges are buffed smooth. (I’ve had people with longer manicured nails fist me, but their hands were pretty small, and there was a lot of communication. This is NOT a novice move.)

    I’ve been fisted by about 20 people, myself included (yes, you can fist yourself if you’re limber and confident). I’ve been fisted by women, men, queers, hets, cis, trans, bi, Doms, subs, cucks, bulls, partners, and one night stands. I have also fisted other women. You could say I’ve been a busy girl. I really do love my fetish. I’ve been fisted by people with almost all hand sizes.

    Because it’s not a common fetish, I’ve had to teach a lot of these people how to fist me. I can say that for the most part, anybody can pull this off. There are bell-curves of course on size differences, and just as you might find a petite person on one end of the spectrum that would not enjoy being fisted by someone big and tall, you will also find petite people that can take anything you throw at them (or, at their vaginas). Remember this is supposed to be PLEASURABLE. When it comes to a woman’s vagina, whatever she says, goes. Period. The main point to remember is that most fists are smaller in circumference than an infant, which most women are capable of passing through their bodies. We should all be able to enjoy fisting, but none of us should feel pressured to.

    Unless you are one of those rare birds that likes painful sex, fisting should be approached sensually. Do not rush. Do not take a goal-oriented approach. When a woman is ready she may seem to suck the fist inside her. But, you can’t talk her into it.

    Start with a single finger. Then two. Then three. Fuck her with them. Play with all of her spots. Get your digit-al freak on. She should want and enjoy every finger you add. She should be sopping wet. If she’s not asking for more, what are you really trying to accomplish? Once a woman is greedily humping all four of your fingers and half your hand, that’s when she is ready to take more.

    To insert the hand, you want to make a duckbill shape. Keep in mind that the knuckles are the widest part of most hands and usually the most intense part of insertion. Your hand should be well-lubed, but GLOB the lube onto your knuckles in particular. Yes, it looks weird to have little hills and peaks of lube balancing precariously on your knuckles, but that’s about the amount that will get the job done. At this point you should be able to feel all the bones that are pressing against your hand (the bones of her pelvis). These aren’t going to move out of your way, so you need to rotate your hand into a position where it can pass between them.

    Generally, it’s a good idea to point down at an angle inside her, as if you were moving toward her colon. Everyone is shaped a little differently, so the precise angle will vary, and you should experiment to find the one that works for the pelvis in question. Once your hand has inched all the way inside, you will probably find it wants to curl into a ball (the vagina isn’t super long). Be careful not to scratch her with your nails when you close your hand. Boom, you’re in.

    Now what? I can say that the question of fisting technique is thoroughly covered in the FetLife fisting forums. There are many things to try, and far more options exist than can be covered in a single article.

    Last but not least: when it’s time to remove your hand, you want to remove it by reversing the path that you used during insertion. It might help if she pushes at the same time. NEVER just yank it out. You could hurt her. If it seems stuck, try to break the suction by inserting a finger of your opposite hand between your inserted hand and her vagina.

    Things you may have to deal with:

    Accidents can happen. It is normal to get a bit of rug burn from fisting. There will most likely be some swelling after fisting. A small amount of blood that stops rather quickly usually isn’t a big cause for concern. It’s also something that should only happen the first time, or the first time with a bigger hand. If there is a copious amount of blood, or a lot of discomfort, or any visible signs of tearing (LOOK at your pussy), a doctors visit is in order. Just be honest about what happened, smile, ignore the looks of horror, and graciously decline the offer of talking to a trauma/abuse counselor (unless you need to of course!).

    I’ve been to the ER a couple times. And to my doctors’ office. These were after an unusually aggressive (consensual) fisting, just to make sure everything was ok. I’ve never needed anything repaired. And, my neighbors haven’t figured out what I’m howling happily about in my bedroom. Medical records are private. I HAVE gotten bacterial infections (hands are dirty! Wash them!) and taken more flagyl than most people do. If you are monogamous, this should be less of an issue.

    Goddess Anat – I’m a professional BDSM Dominant (Dominatrix) and Session Wrestler working in the southern California/Los Angeles area. I have over 10 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle. I can be sadistic and sensual, rough and playful, filthy and pristine. My BDSM palate is eclectic. I thrive on variety, thrills, and energy exchange. I love wrestling, edge play, impact play, medical play, electricity, foot worship, stocking/heel worship, degradation/humiliation and generally anything that inspires you to grovel and drool at My feet.

    Follow Goddess Anat on

    Website: www.goddessanat.com

    Twitter: @goddessanat

    Instagram: @goddessanat_official

    Clips Store: https://iwantclips.com/store/194821/Goddess-Anat-Official

    FetLife: Goddess_Anat

    Travel updates are available through my website: www.goddessanat.com/travel

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  • Entrepreneur & Founder of My Fantasy Hair, Ashley Stanga

    Entrepreneur & Founder of My Fantasy Hair, Ashley Stanga

    Hi Ashley it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi! I’m Ashley Stanga and I’m from Olive Branch Mississippi. My husband’s name is Chris, and we have three boys: Austin, Landon and Colton.

    What inspired you to start your own company, My Fantasy Hair?

    Well about almost 7 years ago, my husband and I owned a fence company and we had just been married. I was expecting our first child soon and I had some extra time while he was out working. It was hard watching him go out with the crew and work long hours in the hot sun and doing such hard labor. My husband has owned several businesses throughout his life, and has a lot of business experience. I started to notice that there was not a lot of clip-in hair extension companies online at that time.

    After buying a set of my own extensions from a well-known brand, I wasn’t happy with the quality. I also noticed that other people were not happy with the quality of hair they were receiving from these brands as well, so I quickly started researching suppliers overseas to see where there may be a better quality option. I was inspired to start MFH for these reasons, but also to build a much better life for my family. My husband and I closed the fence company, and with his business experience and my creativity we have built an online company we are very proud of.

    Which were some of the challenges you faced when building your company and brand?

    We have faced every challenge imaginable! Lol. We have owned small businesses in the past, but an online business was completely new to us. We have had to learn everything on our own, and have done everything on our own. I built our website myself from scratch in the beginning, and we actually started this business with “rolled change” from a bucket in the closet. We sure have come a long way since then. It’s crazy now to think about. I think the most challenging events you face when building an online business are the ones you can not control.

    Website goes down for a day, hackers, emails won’t load properly.. etc. When everything is through a computer, so many things can go wrong, and you better have a way to fix it immediately. Fortunately through trial and error over the years, we have a back-up plan for the back-up plan so that we avoid any of these things from happening. It just happens in the first year or two of operations, but you learn how to prepare ahead of time. So we are definitely prepared now!

    Are you able to share some of your all-time favorite or popular hair extensions?

    Yes, we recently released our Ombré extensions in 5 new shades.. And they are stunning!

    Also we have recently released our Virgin Extensions. And “Virgin Hair” just refers to pure human hair that has not been color treated. This hair type is in its purest, original form. This allows the extensions to be colored by the customer much more easily if they wish to. It is much easier to add color to human hair that has never been color treated, rather than adding color to hair that has recently been colored. All of our hair extensions are 100% pure Remy human hair. To gain their color dye is added, but our Virgin line has not had color added.

    What is a typical day like for you?

    My work day starts by taking my 6 year old to school, he is in the first grade. Then I do some cleaning around the house. I usually work from my home office, which is great so I can stay home with my 5 year old. He is not in school just yet, he will be starting this fall. The rest of my day is tending to our website, maintenance, and brushing up on some improvements in advertising. We have some big things coming, and we are very excited!

    How do you spend your free time?

    Any free time I have, I’m spending it with my husband and my boys. A great day for me is a rainy day laying on the couch with them watching movies. When we go out we like to do things outdoors like fishing, 4-wheeler riding, vacations, road trips, and taking the kids to do things that they like.

    Is there something you have always wanted to do but haven’t found the time?

    Traveling is difficult with the little ones. My husband and I have wanted to take a vacation out of the country together for a long time. We don’t have someone to watch the boys and make sure Landon gets to school, but we are working on that so we can travel outside the U.S. soon. I just got back from a cruise not long ago, but unfortunately wasn’t able to take Chris with me. So hopefully we can get away soon.

    If you could have a superpower, what will it be?

    Super power.. Lol! I want to fly. Then I could take that vacation wherever and whenever I wanted..

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Ashley. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    “Confidence.”

    Nothing is sexier. Accept every part of yourself, stay kind to others, be humble, and always walk into a room like you know everyone there.

    Follow the beautiful Ashley Stanga on:

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    Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/ashleymyfantasyhair

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  • Blogger & Instagrammer Angelle

    Blogger & Instagrammer Angelle

    Hi Angelle it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hey you!! I’m Angelle!! Wow it’s a really good opportunity to having this interview.  I’m 18 and I love to create good content in my Instagram like modelling, foods and personal fashion scenes.  On the side,  I’m a student who is studying business. I’m from Kuala Lumpur but I moved to Johor Bahru recently.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Hmm…my fashion style is “complex”  It can be very casual, it can be very sassy, fancy, street-style or feminine. Basically, I love to try different styles. You can see me wearing a shirt with short pants and the next day I’ll wear a dress with high heels. I wouldn’t say that I’m a fashionista but I love to follow up on the trends.  One last thing is wearing whatever you like. Be bold and young!

    What is your secret to looking so fantastic?

    There’s a secret, be confident.  Confidence is self-assured. Be yourself cause you are amazing, don’t change.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    I love photoshoots even if I’m not a professional.  Listening to music is part of my life too, any kind of music. You can follow my Spotify playlist at (Everything You Need) because you will see properly that I listen to everything. That’s how weird am I. I do love running too when I’m free.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    Coffee or matcha? Cause both of them are my favourite, specially matcha. It changed my life a lot, matcha describes my life. It’s tremendously sweet but sometimes it’s bitter than has ever been. That’s why matcha is bittersweet.

    How much of a foodie are you?

    I’m a food lover as you can see, I like to explore new foods and recipe everywhere.

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    It probably will be “being transparent” because I can do whatever I like without being watched by other people.

    Is there something you totally don’t get about guys?  

    I don’t know why some of the guys love to hurt their loved ones? If you really love a girl, why do you still do hurtful things to her? It’s heartbreaking.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Angelle. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is not how you show off your body. It’s an inner part of your body. It’s about how amazing you are. It can be defined as independent, courageous and kind.  Sexy is girl power.

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    Instagram: @Angelleleii
    Blog: https://angellelei.wordpress.com/

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  • Music & Tattoo Lover Shanon Lee

    Music & Tattoo Lover Shanon Lee

    Hi Shanon it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello I’m Shanon, and well my Instagram is @sjw.xx. I’m 17 this year, I love music and tattoos!! My favourite animal is dolphins and the wolf:) I have four tattoos in total, each tattoo has its meaning but some are ridiculous. I’m a shopaholic and I love night life. I may look fierce in real life but actually I’m not cause I’m friendly and outgoing!! And I’m from Singapore!!

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    The way I style myself is according to my mood actually, but mostly I’ll wear black cause it’s easier to match with everything!!

    Is there a story behind one of your tattoos?

    My wolf tattoo doesn’t have a story behind but I put it to remind myself that I should be brave and strong mentally:)

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    I only believe in some superstition.

    Which kind of movies do you enjoy watching?

    I enjoy watching horror, romance, comedy, musical and action movies.

    If you can time travel, where will you go?

    I would go to the future to see what happens.

    Where is your dream holiday destination?

    I would love to go Paris or London!!

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to approach you? 

    Using some pickup lines that they created themselves and it doesn’t make any sense.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Shanon. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    The way I define sexy is the way you have confident in yourself, you don’t need to be skinny or having the ideal shape of body to be sexy.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sjw.xx/

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  • Attraction & Misconceptions Behind Vaginal Fisting

    Attraction & Misconceptions Behind Vaginal Fisting

    I started exploring BDSM about 11 years ago. I have been in the “lifestyle” for many years. And for just a little bit longer than that, I have been aware that I had a particular hunger for extreme penetration. I’ve been an avid fistee and sometimes fister, for as long as I’ve been involved in the lifestyle. Over the last two years, I developed a business as a dominatrix. My specialty (what 70% of my clients hire me for) is mixed wrestling/grappling. I also enjoy electrical play, medical play, heavy impact play, humiliation (giving), and am still hoping to become an eventual rope expert (these things do take time). Today I am writing about a long-time personal fetish of mine.

    I used to have a lifestyle Fetlife profile, where my handle was FistMePlzLA. After starting my business I found it necessary to deactivate it, to avoid confusion about what kinds of services I was and was not offering to my clients. You can still see some of my writing and comments in FetLife forums having to do with vaginal fisting and other extreme penetration. I still have the goal of sticking my foot up someone’s a**. Maybe someday…I am not monogamous, although I’m not so much of a swinger as much as an aspiring cuckholdress. I do have a “Mistress” mentality, and prefer devoted service-oriented partners. I am accepting of pretty much all sexual expression (between consenting adults). Like everyone, I have preferences for my own life.

    Vaginal fisting is about inserting an adult hand into a woman’s vagina, for the woman’s pleasure.

    Attraction Behind Vaginal Fisting

    If you asked ten people, you would probably get ten different answers. The most commonly given reason by women is that the feeling of being “stretched”, or feeling “full” is enjoyable. It has to do with the distribution of nerves in the vagina. The vagina feels pressure and stretching better than it feels touching or stroking. So, fisting then is upping the anti on that sensation, and making it very intense.

    From the side of the person that is doing the fisting, you will never get closer to a woman’s orgasm than this. You will feel every squeeze and pulse of her vagina, and every contraction of her uterus. It’s a very intimate and intense experience for both people. I’ve never had someone come away from fisting me and not feel we had “connected” deeply through it (except for that one guy with aspergers).

    Some men in particular love how it looks, or how it feels to fist someone, or just enjoy how fisting gives their partner a cascade of multiple screaming orgasms. There is a lot to love about fisting.

    Misconceptions About Fisting

    The word “fisting” conjures up images of forcefully punching a closed hand into and out of the vagina. This is not how it works. Insertion takes patience and maneuvering. It’s common to have your hand in the shape of a duckbill when it’s being inserted. Once you’re in, you may (or may not) then close your hand into a fist (depending on your partners comfort). The motions of a hand in the vagina usually start out very slow and delicate and build up to whatever level of movement she finds most pleasurable. For some women, this can then start to look like plunging back and forth, but for many others it’s more about little twists of the wrist, pulsing the fist slightly more open and more closed, and/or rubbing sweet spots with your knuckles. It’s important that the person being fisted takes the lead on just how much motion there is.

    I’ve never heard someone say that they enjoy getting punched in the cervix (FYI: if you can’t find it, you aren’t ready to fist someone yet). Although, now I’ve put it out there, I probably will, lol.

    Another common misconception is that fisting will stretch out a woman’s vagina. This isn’t true. The vagina is elastic. It will snap back to its original shape. How long it takes depends on several factors, like the health of the woman, how often she gets fisted, how much exercise and kegels she does. One of my smuggest trophies is a collection of texts from a bull complaining about how sore he was after having sex with me, because I clenched him so tightly inside me.

    Another misconception (and a pet peeve of mine) is that the woman’s vagina needs to be “trained” to take a fist. There are many elaborate methods people have employed to  encourage the vagina to stretch, most of which are based on a misunderstanding of how the vagina works. Any stretching that needs to happen, can be done right then and there during the act. No exhaustive prep is needed. Vaginas naturally become more pliable and “unfold” when a woman is aroused and properly stimulated. Working your hand in takes skill, practice, and lots of lube, not “training”.

    Goddess Anat – I’m a professional BDSM Dominant (Dominatrix) and Session Wrestler working in the southern California/Los Angeles area. I have over 10 years of experience in the BDSM lifestyle. I can be sadistic and sensual, rough and playful, filthy and pristine. My BDSM palate is eclectic. I thrive on variety, thrills, and energy exchange. I love wrestling, edge play, impact play, medical play, electricity, foot worship, stocking/heel worship, degradation/humiliation and generally anything that inspires you to grovel and drool at My feet.

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  • Indonesian YouTuber Cassandra Stephanie

    Indonesian YouTuber Cassandra Stephanie

    Hi Cassandra thank you for taking the time to answer our questions on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Greetings to the readers! First of all, I would like to thank SimplySxy to make me a part of this. I am a 19 year old Indonesian girl who loves to sing and share my experience and knowledge with people around me both in real life and on YouTube. You can check out my YouTube channel at www.youtube.com/stephaniecassandra98.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    I do not have a distinct fashion style as I like to try out new things. Be it a feminine style or boyish kind of look, I don’t really mind.

    When did your interest in beauty and makeup start?

    I actually realised the need to makeup when I was 17 years old which was when I entered University. Beforehand, I did not really do makeup by myself and I realised that there was an increasing portrayal of beauty by doing makeup. Hence, I started watching more makeup videos and applying makeup. However, I still believe in inner beauty which many girls often forget.

    Do you have any must have beauty accessories?

    To me, hair is the most important feature for a girl and thus I really need hairbands with me, and bobby pins!

    Is there something in life you can’t get enough of?

    I can’t get enough of sweet desserts as I have a sweet tooth! No matter how much I have eaten, I will always have space for desserts. You can always challenge me on this!

    If you can have a superpower, what will it be?

    I will want to have a power that is able to feel through people’s emotions, and make cheer them up.

    Where is your dream holiday destination?

    Personally, I have no particular dream holiday destination. I think the most important thing is WHO you are going with and the experience during the holiday.

    Have you had a bad date experience ever? 

    As for now, I haven’t and I don’t want that to happen! haha

    It is a pleasure to feature you Cassandra. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I personally find the definition of sexy to be seen as a negative connotation. However, it has a meaning where one is very alluring and has that strong vibe that emerges out of them.

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  • Sarah Caram3llo Cosplay From New Jersey

    Sarah Caram3llo Cosplay From New Jersey

    Hi Sarah it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hi, hi! Thank you so much for featuring me! Well, my name is Sarah, or otherwise known as Caram3llo Cosplay. I am 21 years old, I’ve been cosplaying for 8+ years, I’m from New Jersey, I’m just a friendly, nerdy potato.

    Photo: Dan Seiter Photography

    How did you get started into cosplaying?

    When I was about 14? Myself and a group of friends were on the interwebs late of night (so rebellious LOL) and discovered cosplay. So we all ran home (we lived in the same neighborhood) threw together a closest cosplay (we all did Death Note characters, I was Misa) and that was the start of my cosplay adventure.

    What is your most memorable cosplay experience so far?

    Oh man, there are so many. One of my favorites happened at AnimeNEXT 2015 I believe. I was cosplaying Lightning from Final Fantasy XIII and there was a panel for the music of XIII that day. I waiting in line, first in line, for hours lol, and I NEVER go to panels. We got front row seating, it was awesome. They had people there from the orchestra, and the composer! Right before the panel ended he pointed at me and said, “I see a Lightning in the crowd. Why don’t we get her a chair and have her come on stage.” Everybody started cheering, I was the only Lightning in the room.

    I went up, and he and I both did a Q & A, expecting I was answering as if I were actually Lightning. After the show, he and the other guests gave me their autographs, a free CD, stickers, and asked to take a picture of me to bring with him to Japan to Square Enix, since that’s where he was going the next day. I wanted to die.

    Do you have any guilty pleasures when it comes to food?

    Oh food is life. So my top guilty pleasure/comfort food would be chips, literally any kind, taco bell, chicken broccoli Alfredo pasta. Mmm.

    How much of a party animal are you?

    I used to be. I mean, I wasnt crazy, never ever did like hard drugs or anything wild, drank with some friends, I used to be a big raver though. I’ll party once in awhile for occasions and at conventions.

    Photo: KG Photography

    If you could travel to anywhere in the world for a vacation, where will it be?

    I have like top three places I wanna visit. Germany, Ireland, Japan

    Which was the last movie you watched and was it any good?

    Donnie Darko for the 100th time. And yes! It’s one of my favs.

    What turns you off on a date?

    If you don’t have manners. I more particularly mean like, if you’re on your cellphone the whole time, not listening, rude to the waitress, etc. I don’t mind if someone doesn’t put their napkin on their lap lol, not that kind of manners. It would take a lot for me to be turned off from a date. I must already like you if we are on a date because I don’t go out much.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Sarah. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Thank you so much for having me!  And that’s a hard question, my brain jumps to people that radiate confidence and you can see they feel sexy and that is what sexy is, but then again there are those shy people that are so beautiful and they don’t see it, they are “sexy” too. I mean, I don’t ever feel sexy or confident and I’ve been told I am so I’m just like *shrug*. I think I just don’t really like that word, there so many other compliments you can give to someone that mean more other than sexy lol.

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    One of my newest cosplays is going to be Aerith from Final Fantasy VII

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