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  • My Journey To Being A Trans Domme

    My Journey To Being A Trans Domme

    I have been into fetish since I was 18, my first girlfriend used to say, “I may have taken your cherry, but you corrupted me into PVC and bondage”. And that really says a lot about me LOL.

    I have always been kinky and as I got older, I experimented more and more, pushing the sexual envelope with partners that I trusted with my dirty secret… that I was as kinky as they come. Now, vanilla sex bores me!

    Give me latex, give me restraints, give me strap-ons, give me pain, give me a subbie slut, give me a strict Domme, give me a tight hole or a huge cock…. Don’t give me missionary with the lights off.

    I may work as a Domme, but in my personal life, I am a switch. In all of my major relationships, it has played a big part in our sex lives. I have taken so much enjoyment out of being an obedient sex slave, and being a sadistic Dom/me.

    But I also don’t take it too seriously. Me and my ex-partner used to be poly and swingers, we would regularly get sexy at Fet clubs. I used to call it “recreational fun humping”. I don’t let it consume my life, though I admit it is a big part. But it is a part of my life I love.

    I think everyone should be lucky enough to find a partner to explore their kinky sides with. Dear readers, don’t suffer (or want to suffer) in silence, date on the fetish scene!

    How My Interest In BDSM Developed

    That is actually a… hard question (sorry, cant resist a good pun).

    As I said earlier, I got my first girlfriend into kink. I remember how terrified I was when I told her I wanted her to Domme me in a PVC basque (I’d yet to discover latex) and suspenders with her knee high boots. But she was far more sexually experienced than I was and simply said, “yeah, lets try it”. I will never forget how she tied me to a chair and rode me, and it’s one of my favourite sexual memories.

    I found as I went on that the majority of girls I was dating were subs, so I got into being a Dom (I considered myself male at the time, hence Dom not Domme). I found I was actually a sadistic bastard, and torturing them got my cock (aka now, my clit on a stick) rock hard. I experimented with different types of pain, control and bondage, I got quite good, Though I still had my inner sub that needed playing with occasionally too.

    My fetishes evolved too. Knee high boots, stiletto heels, latex, seemed stockings, strap-ons, BIG strap-ons, latex, face sitting, breath play… Did I mention latex already? The more I went out to fetish clubs, the more they evolved, the more techniques I learned and experiences I had. The better I got. Being an experienced switch gave me an edge too. I was a great Dom/me because I knew the subs mindset, as I occasionally had one. This insight allowed me to further hone my skills.

    To the point now that I actually charge for it!

    The Appeal & Attraction Of Being A Dominant

    The appeal is control, it is the sadism. But the greatest gift a sub can give to me isn’t money, gift cards or flowers (don’t get me wrong, I love to receive all of them), it is their submission. There is no greater show of trust on this earth, than when another human being gives their submission to another. “I give you my body and mind to do as you will, punish me, train me, fuck me, abuse me. I do this because I trust you will respect my hard limits and safe word“.

    I am a sadistic person, an imaginatively sadistic person. While I know some subs go into subspace, I once went into Dom/me space. A friend had asked me to teach him pressure point tortures (my specialism, will go into later). I tortured his partner’s whole body, she was writhing in agony, I was loving it. At the end, I flopped on the bed in a kind of exhausted high that I had never experienced before. It was magic, peaceful and blissful. I call it Dom/me space as I can’t thing of anything else.

    When a person offers me their body and mind, I push and use both, and I get off on it. I get off that this person is paying ME to pleasure ME. I have them suck my clit on a stick, lick my ass, and one person was actually able to take my clit on a stick up his arse too. I have complete sexual control…. and I love it. I get to tease them and torture them (within agreed limits) and it’s all about MY pleasure. Though Ds isn’t just one way (that’s abuse), both parties need to get what they need out of it. They meet my needs, and I make sure the way they do that meets theirs ( I will do other things too within my agreed limits if I enjoy them), and both of us are happy. That is Ds. Mutual play, not one way. when two peoples’ demons play well together.

    My Journey To Becoming A Trans Domme

    My journey has taken me about 19 years, Since my first steps into the kink world at 18. It was a long and painful one at times. But filled with amazing people who taught me a lot. After spending most of my adult life in fetish clubs.Llearning my skills as a Dom/me (as that was how I felt as a man that was expected of me), and occasionally as a sub. I experienced so much and had some awesome encounters with colourful people. Had kink based sexual relationships with some colourful people, and some unfortunately toxic ones, but we have all been there.

    But it’s the last year I think that is what you are all interested in, my journey from male kinky bastard, to transgendered Dominatrix. Okay, I am going to bare a bit of my soul here because it concerns my private life, a world I try and keep separate from my kink life.

    In 2016, I separated from my wife. I’m not going into that. We were still in regular contact and trying to remain friends. I was financially struggling when she reminded me that I always said if money was hard enough, I would become a male escort ( I had slept with a lot of men, and was a blow job queen with an ‘accommodating’ ass hole).

    So, I signed up to adultwork.com and within a fortnight I had my first client. It was a bit fun at the start, but I didn’t really like it. I was always giving the pleasure (granted I was good at it), I was always on my knees. it was vanilla gay sex and bored me. I advertised more as a kinky escort, but to no real avail. Business was scarce and I wasn’t finding it full filling (LOL, bum pun).

    Then by chance about 3 months ago, I posted a pic of me in my latex hood, PVC corset and suspenders. This was a pic of me at a club, as a sub. Then, quite quickly I had a message along the lines of, “Oh Mistress, you look amazing, please make me Your slave”.

    Something in my head woke up and took notice, she uncurled herself and sat up, put on her high heels and walked to the front of my mind. I had always considered myself genderfluid, always felt more comfortable, natural and sexy in women’s clothes and underwear. So I thought about it, wanked a lot about it too. Talked to a few pro Dommes I knew and asked their advice.

    Then I decided I would give it ago as a experiment. I changed my profile from that of a kinky male switch, to Mistress Danni TV. I changed all my blurb and names on Fetlife and Twitter, and upped my prices too. Business was twice as much in the blink of an eye, and turns out I was a fetish!!!! I was sexually happy with the work, I haven’t sucked a cock since, I get sexually pleasured all the time. I LOVE the control, but most of all I love the outfits I get to wear, the latex, the corsets (now in a 26″ and can fully close it) the boots, it is the sexiest I have ever felt in my life.

    I love being a trans Domme. It is a big part of who I am. My new years resolution is to become a resident Domme in an established dungeon and further my kinky career.

    It led though to some startling realisations, uncovering of memories long hidden and some troubling thoughts. I realised from being Mistress Danni TV, that what I always saw as genderfluid and cross dressing went a lot lot deeper than that. It made me realise that I’m not a genderfluid man, but a transgendered woman. I have altered my profiles now to Mistress Danni TG, seen my GP and have got a referral to the trans clinic. I am starting down a path I never thought I would take, but I have good friends around me, and for that I am very thankful.

    Favorite Kink Activities

    As a Domme (beyond the sexual side) my favourite thing to do to a slave, is tie him down and edge him, mercilessly. Gods I fucking love that!!!! To see him writhing about in utter sexual frustration gets me so hot. Making him beg, plead and just denying him. Taking him to the edge and stopping, seeing the tears run down his face…. fuck I love that!!!!!!!!

    I experienced it a few years ago as a sub, from a woman I was seeing who was a Domme, and it blew my subbie side’s mind. I found out from a few Dommes that lots of men do want it. And I’m not surprised. So, part supply and demand, part personal selfish sexual sadism, I do it in session.

    My other favourite activity as a Domme, is pressure point torture. I have done martial arts for 18 years. The main one I studied was Ninjutsu (I have a brown belt), and I can safely manipulate a persons pressure points to cause pain, pleasure and utter agony in a session. I love it because unlike hitty toys, it is more intimate.

    It also takes skill and the pain levels can be very finely controlled, doesn’t leave marks (well flesh tearing techniques do, love them too) and the pain is instantaneously on, and instantaneously off. I recall I had a client who said he couldn’t be marked, so tried to disobey, I simply put pressure on a nerve under the clavical, looked him in the dead in the eye and said “I can cause you utter agony without leaving a single mark”. He behaved for the rest of the session 😉

    Mistress Danni – Pro Domme, Over a decades of enslaving pathetic subs. Love edging, T+D. Pro Piercer.

    Follow Mistress Danni on

    Websites:

    www.adultwork.com/MistressDanniTG

    https://fetlife.com/users/57397

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressDanniTV

    Images courtesy of Mistress Danni

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  • Hong Kong Model Janice Jim

    Hong Kong Model Janice Jim

    Hi, I am Janice, 24 years old this year and from Hong Kong. I love Korean culture, dancing, watching movies, sports and am also a model.

    你好, 我叫Janice, 今年24歲, 是個熱愛韓國文化的香港女生, 平常喜歡跳舞, 看電影, 運動等等, 現在是一名模特兒

    What do you enjoy most about modeling?

    It is most interesting when there is exposure to a lot of different roles to shoot. You can play a teacher today, or an athlete the next, followed by an office lady, which you can’t do in other professions.

    我覺得當一名模特兒, 最有趣的時候, 是拍攝時可以嘗試很多不同的角色, 今天是老師, 明天是運動選手, 後天是OL, 這是其他職業不能辦到的

    Where do you like to shop from?

    For clothes and jewellery, I will go to South Korea to buy, and shop online too!

    衣服, 首飾等 我大多是去韓國買的, 還有就是網購!

    Do you have any hobbies?

    I love sports, watching movies, dancing and eating. Eating delicious food makes me feel satisfied and relieves stress.

    我喜歡運動, 看電影跟跳舞, 還有也很愛吃. 吃到好吃的食物, 會讓我覺得很滿足, 也可以舒緩壓力

    What kind of food do you love?

    I like to eat meat very much, although it is not very friendly but I can’t quit eating. And I love desserts too. In fact, I love to eat anything, haha.

    我很喜歡吃肉, 雖然很不環保, 可是肉實在是戒不了….

    我也很喜歡吃甜點, 其實什麼都愛吃, 哈哈

    If you were to describe yourself as a flavor, which will it be?

    I think it will be sweet as a lot of people say that my smile is sweet? They say that it helps make them feel a sense of healing which I don’t even realise. Eating desserts also gives me a feeling of healing, so I guess it should be sweet?

    我覺得是甜吧, 很多人說我笑起來很甜? 說看到我的笑容, 有療癒的感覺, 我自己也不太知道, 吃甜點也會給我有療癒的感覺, 所以應該是甜的?

    Have you experienced a funny or embarrassing moment before?

    I remembered when I was volunteering in a school, and while teaching halfway, there was a commotion among the students, they began to whisper to each other and started laughing. I told them to stop and a student suddenly came up to me told me that my zipper was down. I ran to the bathroom and found that it was broken and couldn’t be fixed. So I wore a coat and went back to class and pretended that nothing happened. It was really embarrassing…

    我很記得有一次, 我去某一間學校去當義工, 教小朋友, 教到一半, 他們突然吵了起來, 低聲說,大聲笑的, 我就叫他們不要吵, 突然有一個女生走出來, 在我耳邊說, 老師你沒有拉褲鏈, 我立刻跑去洗手間, 發覺我的拉鍊壞了, 怎麼拉也拉不上, 最後只好用外套蓋住, 回去時, 還若無其事的, 繼續上課, 還真丟臉啊….

    What turns you off on a date?

    I have had dates who talked about themselves, how tough it was and I would sit quietly, nod my head and wishing to go home as soon as possible. I feel that confidence is not a bad thing but too much feels like arrogance.

    我有遇過男生在吃飯途中, 一直在聊他自己的事, 運動有多厲害, 讀書考第一, 我只好默默在旁邊, 一直點頭, 心中只想快點回家, 哈哈

    我覺得有自信不是一件壞事, 可是太有自信, 就變成了自大了.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Janice. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I feel that sexy is a feeling. It doesn’t meant that wearing less is sexy, and whatever a woman wears, she is sexy. Sexiness comes from within!

    我覺得性感是一種感覺, 不是說你穿的少就是性感, 我覺得一個女人性感的話,她穿著密密實實, 也會很性感, 性感不是外在的, 是從內發出來的, 才是真正的性感!

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/janice.jim/

    Images courtesy of Janice

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  • Fashion & Beauty Enthusiast Bella Zade

    Fashion & Beauty Enthusiast Bella Zade

    Hi everyone, I am a Chinese-Persian currently living in Singapore! I am a fun loving person that enjoys trying out new things!

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    I don’t have a specific fashion style to describe because the way I dress depends on how I feel on a particular day, sometimes I feel gothic, sometimes I feel elegant, sometimes rough. So if I were to describe it in a word it would be “different”.

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    “WHY ARE YOU SO GOOD AT EVERYTHING??” (It was more of a frustrated yell from a friend, but to me it was a compliment.)

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    Probably a 7.5, not too hard but still kinda hard.

    Is there something in life you can’t get enough of?

    A good Steak!

    If you can have a superpower, what will it be?

    I’d want to be a mixture of invisibility and teleportation. But if it was just one then invisibility.

    Which reality TV series best suits your skills to win it?

    A judge on any “got talent” show, I’m good at critiquing.

    What is one thing you don’t get about guys? 

    How they get into painful fist fights and be okay but wince in pain when I try to get a pimple out of their face.

    It is a pleasure to feature you Bella. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I would define sexy as charisma, rather than showing a lot of skin, I believe one with more charisma and charm is sexy.

    Follow the beautiful Bella Zade on:

    Instagram: @Bellazade

    Images courtesy of Bella Zade

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  • Owned

    Owned

    Angel

    It’s the dead of the night with no one around for miles and miles. You’re standing in the middle of a darkened room with absolutely nothing on, alone, barefooted and cold waiting for me to appear.

    Your heart is racing out of your chest in anticipation, your warm breath vanishes, and then suddenly you freeze. Something catches your attention, you can sense it moving in closer but you can’t make out what it is. The darkness throws you, even though I’ve taught you to embrace it.

    An involuntary shiver shoots through your nerve endings and fizzes around your stomach. You twitch as you feel the cramp and attempt to compose yourself but I’m already behind you.

    I suddenly appear behind you with a chill. My fangs sharp, poised, hovering over your neck. Am I fully human or part beast? You question yourself due to my unhinged animalistic nature. I could devour you right here and no one would ever know, and you’d let me.

    The room shifts and suddenly you feel the force of gravity pin your body down. You’re on a bed with no end, no sides, stretching into the distance of endless ripples.

    I whisper softly in your ear but you’re frozen, although not by fear, but obedience. Instinctively, you submit signaled by the accentuated arch in your back. I can sense how wet you are, I know you want me to fuck you until you pass out. I know you want it all – Don’t you. So fucking say so, tell me.

    “I want you in my veins so bad it hurts, Sir”, you say, but you daren’t look me in the eyes. You want me all over you, fucking your mind completely, leaving you never quite the same. The old you is dead, your spirit is unleashed, finally rid of the shackles of judgment. You are now awoken by intense arousal, full of dark lustful power.

    Trained in the art of submission, you long for my touch to set you free. Can you feel my mental vibrations gently stroking your clit? Yes, I know you can. I’ve put a spell on you, you can’t resist, can’t say no, you’re completely owned. It’s time to open your mind and soar with me above the limitations of the physical plane.

    A featherlike touch caresses the side of your neck and you inhale my essence. You want to feel me, you’re craving the release you’ve been denied for so long. Feel me in you, on you, throughout. Breath, relax and open up your mind. Let my words follow the contours of your body and then take me in.

    That’s right, deeper, deeper, deeper still until you can feel me in the depths of your soul.

    Your yoni is dripping wet but your body is still, only the exhalation of frustrated tones penetrate the air. I grab you by the neck and squeeze, and squeeze, ever tighter. You second-guess yourself for a moment because you know you’re powerless, unable to resist as my grip tightens around your throat.

    Now your oxygen supply is completely cut and your becoming light headed. All the blood rushes to your face. You start to lose consciousness but I bring you back to the light with vengeance. Finally, I allow you to gasp for air. Your bloodshot eyes ping open, and almost instantly you feel the hard sting of my slap on your face. You’ve momentarily forgotten the rules and you’ve allowed yourself to slip.

    Then everything stops. You know it’s not acceptable and I require more. Without saying a word I can hear you ask for forgiveness. I caress the side of your face, kiss you softly; you’re the most beautiful thing I’ve ever seen, do you know that?

    “Thank you, Sir, I am what you want me to be”, you tell me, blushing with sexual energy and tension.

    Then I take you under, your eyes roll back in your head as gravity takes over again. Can you feel these words gently massaging your clit? Yes, you can, I can see that; but this time it’s even more intense, even more potent.

    You can feel me slowly moving around inside your pussy. Stroking your insides up and down with the tip of my finger. Do you like that? Does it feel good? Do you want more?

    You release another groan, this time more frustrated than the last. Panting like a cornered gazelle about to be eaten. Good, let it out, give in and let the darkness take over. You’ve lived your whole life never knowing this place even existed. And now look at you, you’re hocked, you want me, you need me; I am your thoughts.

    Your body and mind belong to me now, to do with as I please. Shall I let you release your orgasm into the ether? Or should I let it swirl around and round that pretty little head of yours? Hum, what do you want? Tell me…

    “I want you Sir” you exhale, laden with anguish. Your feet are moving back and forth, straightening the sheets as you try to control yourself to no avail. You release a teardrop despite your eyes still being closed. I’m on top of you, our warm bodies charged like atoms ready to combust.

    Your entire body is now consumed by my energy; we are connected, we are one. My soft words caress every inch of your insides like no one else. I’m so deep inside, all you can do is lie there and tremble. Your mind is racing and you want to cum so badly but you know your orgasm belongs to me. I decide when and how you release, if at all.

    Your orgasm feeds my soul, this is why I nurture you so, this is why you are always in a constant state of arousal. And now you are losing control, slow it down baby, slow it down, that’s better, good girl, hold it, breathe in, now exhale through your stomach and let it emanate outwards, down your thighs and all the way to your toes. You’ve never experienced anything like this before but you instinctively know this is how it’s supposed to feel. This is what’s been missing.

    You are now levitating, your body is in spasms; I’ve possessed you. You can no longer hold the urge to release and you beg for permission. Again, a hard sting hits the side of your face and you recoil – another tear falls. Don’t fucking speak, I want you to let it completely take over your body, let these words fuck you. Deeper, deeper, deeper still, so deep all you can do is surrender to my voice.

    It’s so intense your stomach is weak from the constant muscle cramps. You lose all sense of ‘YOUR’ reality as you enter mine. I’ve sworn a sacred oath to nurture and mould you into the Phoenix you are destined to be. Now rise from the ashes and drench me in your essence. Don’t hold back, let it go, I want it all over me, everywhere, dripping wet with your juices.

    As you lay shaking on the bed, I’m left in awe of your pure unfiltered release. You bathe me with cosmic energy potent enough to nourish the world. This is why I nurture you; this is why I invest in you so completely.

    This is why I own you.

    Note:

    If you’d like to develop a much deeper understanding of mental Domination and submission you can download a copy of my ebook below:

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    By Madison James

    Images courtesy of Madison James. Original article republished courtesy of Madison James from https://www.themadisonjames.com/single-post/2018/02/24/Owned

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  • Tampa Cosplayer Alexis Victorious

    Tampa Cosplayer Alexis Victorious

    Hi! It’s great to be featured! I’m originally from New York City, but I’ve been living in Tampa for the past 6 years. I moved to Tampa for college, and I’ve just sort of stuck around, for now. When I’m not working on cosplay, I’m either at my boring office job, playing video games or reading. Most recently, I’ve been getting back into playing Kingdom Hearts, but I’m trying to play all of the games in order. I’m also really into  loose leaf tea lately!

    How did your interest in cosplaying start?

    I had admired cosplayers for years, but my confidence wasn’t very high. It was a bit of an impulsive decision that made me actually start. I was a on a website that sold Spider-Man patterned lycra suits, and really just said, “why not?” After that, I posted my first photo to my personal Instagram and that was it!

    I recognized how much more there was to cosplay, like foam smithing and sculpting, as well. I actually changed my major in college from art to a more general study, because I had been cautioned so much about job prospects with an art degree. I’m disappointed that I didn’t follow my initial intuition, but cosplay gives me a great opportunity to work with my creative skills.

    What is your most memorable cosplay experience?

    My time at San Diego Comic Con was definitely fantastic. I made a point to wear a different cosplay for each of the 4 days I had a pass for. Wearing so many different costumes really let me interact with so many different people from so many different fandoms. At the end of the day, I’m at conventions for the same reason as everyone else; to meet people with shared interests.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    Someone at the Anovos booth, the company who makes the official Star Trek uniforms for the movies, said I looked like Nicole Nichols. Day made!

    Is there something in life you can’t get enough of?

    Travel, for sure. I love traveling and seeing new places, but I can only travel so much with my day job. If I could drop everything and go on a worldwide adventure tomorrow, I definitely would.

    How long would you survive a zombie apocalypse?

    Not long at all! If I’m being honest with myself I would probably try to hide out in a bunker for as long as I could. The only athletic ability I have under my belt is yoga, so unless I can convince a zombie to see who can touch their toes the longest, I’m doomed!

    Would you rather have the ability to fly or breathe underwater?

    I would fly! I hate driving, so flying would be perfect for me!

    What is the lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Spamming my inbox. I try to respond to everyone on my page, but one person recently sent me a new message every hour or so, even late into the night. I can guarantee that I’m not going to feel anything but annoyed if I’m being asked the same question every hour for several weeks straight…

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Alexis. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

     For me, sexy is all about confidence. When anyone is really comfortable with themselves and what they’re doing, that’s definitely sexy.

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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisvictorious/
    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AlexisVictoriousCosplay/

    Images courtesy of Alexis Victorious

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  • Published Model Bri Kumelski From Houston

    Published Model Bri Kumelski From Houston

    Hi! I’m a model from Salt Lake City, Utah, but now I claim Houston as my home. I am a Capricorn through and through, if that means anything to you. My favorite color is green and genuinely enjoy long walks.

    When did your interest in modeling start?

    I guess I’ve always been intrigued by fashion. America’s Next Top Model has been a large source of inspiration when I was little.

    Photographer: @angiejustshootme | Styling: @Subertwinstyles

    Which is your most memorable photoshoot so far?

    One time while on a location shoot in the bayou, we saw four giant spiders above us each at least 6 inches long, an alligator, and a couple snakes. I absolutely love the outdoors but the spiders were so close to my head and I was so scared they were going to drop on top of me during a shot!

    How is a photoshoot like and what does it involve?

    There are so many elements to a photoshoot, and it involves a lot more time and effort than just being at the location and taking photos. There are so many people: the photographer, the model, the makeup artist, the hairstylist, the wardrobe specialist, the location scout, sometimes assistants, sometimes editors, etc. It’s amazing really!

    Photographer: @sedricacevedo

    What misconceptions about modeling still exists now?

    The modeling world is very peculiar. I wonder if I’ll ever fully understand it. In a way, I think that’s one of the biggest misconceptions, that anything about this is ‘simple’.

    Photo: @devinnpierre

    If you could meet someone past or present, who will it be?

    If I met someone, I would want it to be devoid of any egos or professions. Just two people meeting each other, sitting down for tea, and maybe discussing local art or music. If this were the case, maybe the Obama family? They seem so real. Or Basquiat, the painter. He seems really nice.

    Photographer: @juanalvaropadilla | makeup: @alluringcomplexions | styling: @trichstylesme | designs by @greenwear_designs

    Which genre of movie do you like most?

    I like comedies or indie films. French film really intrigues me. Lately I’ve been watching a lot of cooking shows? Which, I know aren’t movies, but I absolutely love the cinematography of a couple shows on Netflix. (Chef’s Table)

    Photo: @devinnpierre

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I actually don’t get a lot of pickups! But my first and only boyfriend did DM me via Twitter… so if anyone’s out there: Shoot Your Shot 😉

    Photographer: @sedricacevedo

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Bri. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I didn’t really know how to answer this question. If you try and type that into Google you find a lot of articles that display pictures of beautiful models or expensive red cars, but is that ‘sexy’? To me, sexy is how someone could feel. I think sexy is a personal emotion, not a description of appearance. Sexy definitely comes from within, and is a choice or feeling or action.

    Thank you so much for this opportunity!

    You can find me on Instagram at @nightimebri!!

    I’m still working on a website but I have a ton of new projects I hope you’ll really like, so stay involved with all of those new releases very, very soon 😉

    Follow the gorgeous Bri Kumelski on:

    Instagram: @brisboobs

    Featured image courtesy of @visualsbymichelle and styling by @subertwinstyles

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  • Malaysian Model Rekha

    Malaysian Model Rekha

    Hi thank you for taking the time to interview me. Well I’m from Penang, I have 5 siblings including myself and my dad’s Northern Indian, and my mum’s chinese.

    When did you get started into modeling?

    20 years old, but I was most active this year and I’m so grateful for all of the opportunities given to me.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    I think the best compliment I’ve received is not when someone compliments my physical appearance, rather when they acknowledge my independence.

    How do you pamper yourself?

    I pamper myself by travelling in Malaysia and other countries.

    What do you usually do during the weekends?

    I enjoy my weekends by exercising. Not only it makes me feel healthy and fit but it also makes me feel very relaxed after a long day.

    If you could meet anyone past or present, who will it be?

    It would most definitely be my late grandparents. They are truly amazing people.

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    Yes I do. I believe that we have to be clean before going to bed to avoid nightmares when we are asleep.

    What turns you off on a date?

    I honestly can’t stand someone who is a narcissist.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Rekha. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Personally for me sexy is not defined by the amount of clothes you have on your body or how fit you are. I would find a person is sexy when they know how to carry themselves with maturity, compassion, independence and respect.

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    Instagram: @rekha1420

    Images courtesy of Rekha

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  • How To Date A Porn Star

    How To Date A Porn Star

    Hello, my name is Sailor Luna! You may be asking yourself what qualifies me to write about such a thing? Let me tell you a little about myself before we get to the article. I started dabbling in sex work as soon as I turned eighteen. I sat down at my laptop and began to research the interesting world of web camming. I joined Cams.com under the pseudonym Bunny Robinson and made about $100 before I slowly stopped logging on. Unimpressive, I know, however I learned a lot over that short course of time.

    Then, I wanted to try professional domination. I was inspired by a documentary on Netflix called “Fetish” about a place called Pandora’s Box in New York City. The documentary depicted a variation of lifestyles based around a professional dungeon… I was inspired. I put out a few ads and found a submissive on Craigslist. Fast forward about a month, we met up at a local drive motel for our first session, the motel assumed I was a prostitute and forwarded my information to the local police department. Shortly after that I had a knock at my mother’s door from a police officer looking for an underage run away. The officer thought I had bought the motel room for her that fateful day and he wanted to search my house for her. It took a lot of convincing to get him to leave and he still did not believe that she was not in my house. Luckily, that was the end of that and the department must think I am some sort of Mother Mary prostitute buying hotel rooms for runaways. Maybe they thought I was recruiting her into the sex trade. It was too much for me to fathom so I quit.

    My entrance into the adult film industry started with an incest-themed amateur studio based in my hometown in South Dakota. The owner of the studio approached me on Facebook (we were already friends on the website) and asked if I was interested in shooting, sent me links and was very professional. I shot a little over 20 scenes with him when we parted ways and now a year later I am signed with Skyn Talent. I continued performing during that year and some of my favorite shoots have been with Infernal Restraints, Reality Junkies, Score group, ATK, Strokies and Pascals sub sluts.

    Now to get to the knitty gritty.

    Since I started creating porn I have personally had some struggles with dating directly related to being in the adult industry.

    First, I want to address the number of partners I have had that knew I was in porn before entering into the relationship. It is not respectful or okay to ask your partner to quit their desired profession, no matter what you think is right or wrong. Even if your intentions are good and you think you are helping your partner. A good non-sex work example of this would be if I started to date a detective, police officer, or even an EMT. Hypothetically, I realized how dangerous their job is after dating for a while and asked them to quit immediately. I have pure intentions, I love them so much and maybe I just didn’t understand their career completely before we started dating but is that okay for me to ask of them? Of course not. The same goes for sex workers on every level.

    Secondly, if you are pursuing a sex worker, do not put them up on a “pedestal”. I have had this issue even before my adult career started but it applies very well to this article. Sex workers of all kinds are sometimes seen as more desirable then a “civilian” partner because of the fact that we share our bodies. Just as people see it as disgusting and crude, others see us as confident and sexy. It is always appropriate to treat your partners with gifts, love, care and respect but there is a point where things can be taken too far. I would suggest courting your new love interest with an appropriate amount of affection for each situation. It is easy to make anyone uncomfortable if you are overzealous with compliments, gifts and attention. There is a lot of truth in the old saying of “playing it cool”!

    Third, I want to mention how frustrating it is to be dating someone and then they start talking about how they want to start doing porn too. I admire everyone in my own field and I try to support new actors but when it’s coming from your own boyfriend/girlfriend it can give off the wrong impression. It can make a sex worker question your intentions when you immediately want to enter into their same line of business.  I also am a musician and another great non-sex work example would be like starting a band with your partner. It just doesn’t work. I think that having similar interests are important but spending too much time together can be detrimental to the relationship. I suggest that anyone looking to enter into the adult industry to do so by applying at reputable adult agencies with professional photos and not to pursue any serious relationships until you know how long you will be in the industry.

    Now that we have covered some of my main concerns, SimpleSxy has sent me a list of questions on behalf of their readers that they would like me to answer!

    Common misconceptions about sex workers and dating

    I think one of the biggest misconceptions non-sex workers have towards their sex worker counterparts is that they fall in love with the idea of a performer and not the actual person behind the performer. It’s easy to idolize someone when you see them performing online frequently so I just urge people to be realistic when you try to pursue a performer and remember that they are normal people like yourself with ticks and flaws.

    When or is there a right time to tell the person you are dating that you’re a sex worker?

    I can’t give a straight black and white answer to this because I have spoken with so many sex workers that decide to wait before being honest about their profession. Personally, I would be upfront because if I want a functional relationship then my partner needs to know and if it is an issue then it’s better to get it out of the way and move on. I have had a number of sex workers tell me that they wait until the relationship develops because they want to be given a chance. I don’t think there is anything wrong or deceptive about that because sex workers are so stigmatized.

    Do you get clients asking or trying to date you and is that a relationship you’ll consider?

    I haven’t had any fans approach me looking to start a relationship but I am positive that happens frequently. It’s not a relationship that I would consider and I don’t think most performers really leave room for that sort of opportunity. There needs to be an established boundary between “fan” and performer, between client and performer and I think most sex workers are firm on that boundary.

    Is it easier to date someone who is in the sex industry?

    I think it’s much easier to date a sex worker because most of us are Polyamorous and/or Bisexual. Most sex workers do not conform to societies standards of a traditional monogamous relationship so having an open relationship may be exactly what some of us need. It is obviously much more challenging to maintain a healthy dynamic but ultimately the freedom to be romantic with more than one partner can be very helpful if you’re not receiving the level of care you need.

    I hope that this was informative and helpful, if your questions were not answered here do not hesitate to ask a question in the comments section!

    Sailor Luna – Hello, I’m Sailor Luna and I am an adult actress, singer, musician and content creator. I grew up in the Midwest where my beautiful pet cat still resides, Glitch. I enjoy art, the outdoors, writing and now recently performing disturbing sexual acts on camera for many to enjoy!

    Follow Sailor Luna on

    Twitter: @sailorlunaxxx

    Instagram: @sailorlunaofficial

    xvideos: xvideos.com/profiles/sailor-luna

    I have about seven scenes coming out on “Team Skeet” and their network of websites, a two part scene with “Brazzers” that I am about to finish in Mach and a solo masturbation/pissing video that I am in the process of editing now and will be available directly through my email: sailor.lunaxxx@gmail.com J

    Featured image courtesy of Shutterstock

    All article photos by Sailor Luna

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  • Beauty & Fashion Entrepreneur Cindy Cheung

    Beauty & Fashion Entrepreneur Cindy Cheung

    Hi Cindy thank you for taking the time to answer our questions on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    Hello SimplySxy, my names’ Cindy, my mother is from Shanghai and father is from Hong Kong, and I grew up in London.

    I’ve recently graduated in Engineering and currently working on my first jewellery collection (PlumeLdn.com).

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    I would describe my fashion style as quite simple, no more than 2-3 colours, beautiful but minimal jewelries and slim fit. If I’m in a monochromatic outfit, it would most likely be black.

    What is your most memorable life experience so far?

    My most memorable life experience so far was back when I was 15, I performed Capricho Arabe (Classical Guitar) during the Christmas music festival in school and was able to fully lose myself, that feeling was unforgettable.

    Do you have any favorite quotes you use for inspiration?

    “If you have integrity, nothing else matters. If you don’t have integrity, nothing else matters” – Alan Simpson

    Not sure if the next one is a quote, however:

    “Money can’t buy: morals, manners, respect, character, common sense, trust, patience, class, integrity and love.”

    Is there a food or drink you can’t get enough of?

    I love watermelons and seafood. Drink wise, tea, simple English breakfast tea – throughout the day.

    If you can have a superpower, what will it be?

    Allowing people to see themselves in third person.

    Have you ever been in a funny or embarrassing situation before?

    I pronounced ‘baubles’ as ‘babbles?’ in front of a year 8 class. Lets just say it took them a while to settle down after that incident.

    Did you have a bad date experience before? 

    Probably not the worse out there, but this was my experience.

    Long story short, I met this guy in Uni and this was our conversation:

    Setting the scene: walking to a pub

    Guy: “You’re quite tall for an Asian”

    Me: “I’m 1.70m.”

    Guy: “You must be studying either, Art, finance or medicine”

    Me: I’m studying Mechanical Engineering

    Guy: “I don’t believe you, you don’t look like someone who studies Engineering”

    Me: “Well, I’m studying Engineering, surprise”

    Guy: “I don’t believe you”

    Me: Believe what you want

    5 mins later…

    Me: “I got a tummy ache, I’m gonna go home, sorry”

    It is a pleasure to feature you Cindy. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Thank you very much for having me, to finish off; to me, Sexy is used to describe someone with Ambition, Confidence and Class.

    Follow the gorgeous Cindy Cheung on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lotsoflovecindy
    Blog: www.PlumeLdn.com

    Upcoming Works: Online Jewellery store on PlumeLdn.com Launching August 2018

    Images courtesy of Cindy Cheung

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  • Alternative Model & Suicide Girl, Noel Jamisen

    Alternative Model & Suicide Girl, Noel Jamisen

    Hi Noel it is a pleasure to feature you on SimplySxy.  Please share with our readers a little about yourself and where you’re from?

    I was born in raised in Orlando, Florida. I’ve lived everywhere from Tallahassee to Miami, due to my inability to make up my mind about where I wanted to go to school. Growing up in Orlando isn’t as magical as everyone makes it seem. When people think of Orlando, they immediately think of Disney, assuming everything here is just perfect and fun! However, poverty and violence are everywhere here. Growing up anywhere in Florida is crazy. From fights, to suspensions, to driving without a permit and stealing my mom’s car, shit definitely goes down here.

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    The best compliment I ever received was when I was told I had a beautiful mind. I work really hard to educate myself. Through my education, I have experienced tremendous growth. I always think about the person I used to be – the girl who didn’t know much and didn’t care about much either. After attending 5 different college/Universities over the past 6 years, I have picked up so much information, as well as experience.

    It feels good to know that others (who know me) can also recognize that growth and how it contributes to the better woman I am today. Those things are important to me. My mental growth ultimately contributes more to this planet than my looks, not to mention I work harder for it. I’m constantly trying to learn something new. I’ve been called pretty my entire life, something I already know and understand. Those comments don’t phase me.

    Are there any favorite quotes you like to use in life?

    Two of my favorite quotes are:

    “Love looks not with the eyes but with the mind” – William Shakespeare, A Midsummer Nights’ Dream (I love theatre and poetry)

    “Nature never rushes and she manages to create the entire universe” – Unknown (I love nature and science)

    “She asked do you love me I tell her only partly. I only love my bed and my momma I’m sorry” – Drake (BECAUSE WHAT ELSE IS TRUER!!!)

    Do you have any guilty pleasures when it comes to food?

    Oh man. Guilty pleasures? I LOVE donuts!!!!!!! My favorite are the little fried cake donuts. It’s kind of sad because I eat like crazy (when it comes to sweets) and I should really weigh 300 pounds! HAH! Not all of the time but when I indulge, I indulge! Chocolate is my other favorite. I can get weird with cheese too. I put cheese on everything (chips, veggies, sandwiches, soups, etc.).

    Can you share a story behind one of your tattoos?

    The tattoo on the middle of my chest is a pink rose that I got when a friend of my named Kristen passed away. The stem, near the bottom, is in a K shape. She was my boss at the time. One night we said goodbye to each other after work, and the next day I come into work and they told me she was hit and killed in a car accident. She was 7 months pregnant and the baby died as well. It was a horrible experience. Everyone was crying. No one at work could function so we closed down. As a matter of fact, at her funeral, no one spoke on her behalf. Not even her family or her “friends”.

    It’s something I regret every day of my life. She deserved better than that. She deserved to be spoken well of. But I was too scared to get up in front of everyone and speak. The tattoo reminds me to have strength and courage, even in the toughest times, even when you are being challenged to the point where you no longer want to continue…or to do something that forces you to step outside your comfort zone. I do it for myself and I do it for her.

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    Definitely a night owl. I’ve been bartending and serving since I was 16 so I’m used to the late-night hours. I like to wake up on my own time. As I get older, I find it harder and harder to get up early. And if I do get up early, I can’t function after 10 PM. I require a lot of sleep. I mean, between three internships, being a full-time student at UCF, working 25 hours a week at the restaurant, AND working out, I need a lot of sleep. I only love my bed and my momma, I’m sorry :p

    If you could have a super power, what will it be?

    If I had a super power, I would choose to change people’s minds. Essentially, I would like to eradicate homophobia, sexism, xenophobia, racism, etc. This would require me to be able to inject research, history,  and other valuable information (we aren’t taught in public school) directly into peoples’ minds, making them “smart”.

    I believe the reason things are the way they are (in the United States at least) is a direct result of poor education. The United States is the most developed country in the world yet we are ranked lowest among educated, developed countries. This is something my superpower would fix, further eliminating the problems that come with poor education.

    Is there something about the opposite sex that you don’t get?

    Unfortunately, I know exactly why men are the way they are. We have raised a society of broken boys where men are not allowed to, and therefore cannot, emotionally communicate. As a 25-year-old woman, I constantly deal with men and the first thing they say is “I don’t want a relationship”. From the jump, men immediately cut themselves off from becoming emotionally attached. Which leads to all of the complex “talking” stages my generation is plagued with.

    Men are too scared to start anything in fear of the emotions that come with it, and they avoid those emotions at all costs because they don’t even know what they are or how to process them. They have been suppressed for so long that it’s difficult or near impossible for men to fully express themselves without social backlash. When dealing with men, I am very straight forward with them to eliminate that confusion, or  I confront their lack of willingness to tap into those emotions. If there is something I don’t get about them, I ask. I make them comfortable enough to be vulnerable with me (in a non-forcing way) so that I don’t get to a point where there is never something “I don’t get”. I don’t play those games.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Noel. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is embodying and OWNING every single part of you ALL OF THE TIME! Sexy is embracing the stretch marks on my thighs, those freckles on my tummy, the birth mark on my leg, and the random black hair that grows out of my left nipple. SEXY is loving you all of the time and being unapologetic as fuck about who YOU are.

    Follow the beautiful Noel Jamisen on:

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/noeljamisen/

    My first photoset goes up on SuicideGirls.Com in April !!! <3

    Images courtesy of Noel Jamisen

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