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How To Have Amazing Sex

Some people enjoy watching football on television, other people like reading books, I enjoy sex. I enjoy other forms of entertainment of course, but sex is fun and is there to be enjoyed and explored.

I’ve heard people take sex very seriously, and it is a very personal experience that everyone has different views about, but when you’ve met someone who you connect with and you start laughing at each other’s jokes, the sex can be amazing.

Sex is fun, and it’s there to be enjoyed. Don’t feel pressured into doing it, but don’t be scared to embrace it either. Don’t feel guilty about getting home at 7am after a night out with someone who has pushed all of your buttons in the right way, be proud that you had an amazing experience (and don’t be scared to tell your Uber driver all about it, haha).

Meeting people, whether they are strangers over an app, friends at a bar, or even if you’ve organised a meeting with a professional, it’s all about making connections. Smile, laugh, tell stories, and get to know each other. If you know each other, you’re more in sync with who they are, what they are about, and that definitely transfers into the bedroom.

Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been no stranger to a crazy night out screaming over loud music at some sexy guy before giving up and just kissing him. There are many ways you can make a connection, with the way you both dance, that look you swap from across the room; every little thing lets you know what a person is like.

Trust your feelings when you meet someone, don’t feel pressured to do anything you don’t want to do, and enjoy yourself. Many women I know don’t take the time to feel liberated with their sexuality, that they will be branded as cheap, or slutty, if they want sex. Sex is natural and nothing to be ashamed about.

Be honest with yourself, be honest with other people. Don’t be afraid of your fantasies and fetishes (if they don’t hurt anyone), and if you’re curious to try something out, there are so many people you can talk to about them these days. God bless the internet!

Most Memorable Sexual Experience

I wasn’t always this open about sex, and for many years I was terrified to try anything different or adventurous. One day I met someone who made me feel safe, and encouraged me to explore what I wanted, rather than pushing his own “sexual agenda”. It felt liberating to talk about sex and not having anyone looking at me like I was some kind of pervert. To this day I remember how scared I was doing things that now just seem so, natural?

I never saw myself as being an object of sexual attention growing up; in fact I had very few boyfriends at school. But now I found myself brave enough to attend a swingers party with my new friend, and I remember being so terrified and thinking that I was fat, ugly, the usual things that go through your head.

But for the first time, I was in a space where people were honest, open and willing to explore. I felt like a kid in a candy shop with so many people approaching me, though to this day I don’t remember the sex, but I do remember how amazing it felt to be wanted.

Since then I’ve had a lot of sexual experiences, many of them have been amazing, but the one thing that sticks in my head is that first party. The way I felt welcome, how we connected, and how everyone got along. Each memorable sexual experience since then, whether it was with a man or a woman (or several at the same time) was special because we took the time to know each other and didn’t rush into anything.

Aside from that, there was this threesome in Vegas I had with two men….wow. Sometimes you just get lucky!

Things Men Don’t Get!

Guys love sex, we get it. Sometimes I think that guys are expecting us girls to lay them on the bed, take off their pants, do a sexy little tease, and then tell them that we’re not interested anymore. Men can treat sex like a race, they rush into it because they think that their partner will suddenly cut off their “sex privileges” and leave them high-and-dry.

Either that or the guy is amazed he’s even there, and decides he’s going to make the most of the situation as fast as possible. There’s a difference between passion and urgency, so just relax guys! If your partner is standing at the end of the bed shaking a little booty at you from beneath a tiny skirt, enjoy the moment. The tease is a part of it, and it makes us feel sexy too.

One typical question I get from guys is: “Did you orgasm?” Men can think that they’ve not pleased me, or done their job, if I’ve not had an orgasm. Perhaps they feel that they’re not very good in bed? But in truth, sometimes we girls just don’t orgasm during sex. Maybe it’s performance anxiety or perhaps we only orgasm in particular ways, but that doesn’t mean we don’t like sex.

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September 7, 2016
Tips For Your First Time
The first time we make love to another person should be special. Note that I use the words “make love”, not fucking, screwing or any of the other hundreds of words that could be used.

All societies in one form or another say that we should do it with the person we love and preferably be married too, but in reality most of us don’t live up to that standard.

My first time was a bit of a disaster. At the time I was in England attending a boarding school and I really liked a guy in the small town where the school was located. We dated for a few weeks during the spring, walking hand in hand and stealing kisses when no one saw us. I was sixteen at the time and he was a couple of years older, and more experienced.

One sunny day he took me to a field and we sat down by a little creek and began making out. One thing led to another and before I knew it I was naked and he was on top of me.

What followed can only be described as disappointing. It was not what I had expected. He wasn’t as exercised as I had thought and was in a hurry. I knew how “things worked” and what I was supposed to do; spread my legs, kiss him and hug him. But my brain froze ones he was inside me and I just lay there like a dead fish. He didn’t last for more than a few minutes before he pulled out and came on the grass. I hadn’t felt a thing, apart from a little pain and his weight over me.

Things didn’t get much better during the following months and when I left school in July I had only done it three times, and none of those times were the earth shattering love making that I had expected.

So, what went wrong?
- I was too shy to talk about what I liked.
- I had no idea what I liked.
- We didn’t use protection.
- We were on a field, not in a bed.
- I was nervous and so was he.
My tips for those of you who are thinking about having sex for the first time are the following:
- Get to know your body. If we don’t know what we like, how can we tell our partners? Spend some time exploring your own sexuality, it is OK to masturbate and learn what turns you on and what doesn’t.
- Talk to your partner. I don’t mean have a meeting, but when you are in the bed and the light is turned off, whisper in his ear what you like. Using sounds will let him know what he is doing right, or wrong.
- Use a bed. Outside or in a pool might sound like fun, but it is not the best place for your first time.
- Use protection. You don’t want to become pregnant or catch a STD during your first time.
- This one is for the guys. Be patient with her. Sex is not like in the porn movies. Girls don’t have instant orgasm as soon as you put it inside them, we don’t moan loudly the first time. Be gently, use your fingers, kiss her, touch her, make her comfortable and feel secure.
- Another for the guys. Don’t try all the positions available. Start with something simple like the missionary, or with her on top. Many women like to be in control, and it might help them relax knowing that they decided how fast and how deep you penetrate them.
- Oral sex is a great way to please each other before penetration. Either you can take turns or use the 69 position. The hornier the woman is, the easier it will be to penetrate her.
- This is for the women. Not all men can last for thirty minutes, most don’t last for more than ten. It is normal if your man comes faster than you, and that’s why it is so important that you both enjoy foreplay before he enters you. The closer you are to an orgasm before he enters you, the more likely it is that he will make you come with his penis.
- Have fun together! Sex is fun and should be enjoyed on equal terms.
I hope this short article has helped you in some way or form. After my disastrous first times, it took me a year until I did it again, and that time was fantastic!

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August 26, 2016
Ways To Last Longer During Sex

To me sex is a language where the body expresses what the mind feels. Which means that the “conversation” can only be as good as the connection between the sex partners. And it’s also the only universal language anybody and everybody can understand regardless of your age and where you’re from.

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Ways To Maintain An Erection Longer

First it takes some serious stamina, the best way I found to build some is by keeping up with a serious workout routine and also prolonged fuck sessions in my personal life. The reason for that is simple, you need the muscles and core from working out but then there’s a kind of endurance that you can only build with long and sweaty sex seshs.

Eating right and taking vitamins are also big part of it since “you are what you eat”. So I would definitely recommend to have a good meal a few hours before attempting a marathon fuck session cause no one would start a road trip with only a gallon or two left in the tank and your body is no different. The choice of food and amount is different from one person to another so the best way to learn about your body is trial and error so you can figure out what works best for you.

And last but not least, the girl or girls you’re shooting the scene with can change the vibe a great deal between having an “easy day” or a long one cause ultimately it takes (at least two) to tango and there’s only so much one of the partner can do without the help of the other one(s).

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Tips To Delay Orgasms

For me there are positions where I can come pretty easily and some where it probably only happened once or twice so I would say if you feel you’re getting close trying switching position to something where it’s usually hard for you to come and go back to the easy one when you feel that it’s the right to pop.

Also it’s always nice to switch to some pussy eating / ass licking anytime during sex, either because you’re getting close to come or because you need to take a little break and the best part about that is that your partner is gonna appreciate that much more having sex with you if she can sit on your face in the middle of a pounding marathon.

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Exercise To Have More Stamina

Yeah totally, sex is a full body workout so be sure to remember that while at the gym and not skip leg day cause you need your legs just as much as anything else. So yeah, a full body workout is the best, doesn’t need to be all in one gym sesh, it can be split up during the week, it all depends of how much time you have to work out.

A good way to find a routine and track it down is to use a free app anyone can download called Bodyspace, there’s a lot of really good routines on there. One muscle group probably more important than any other one when it comes down to having sex is your core, so make sure to incorporate 10/15 minutes of core / abs at the end of every workout, it doesn’t have to be the same exercises all the time, switch it up, make it fun!

And for that, planking is probably the best core / abs exercise you can do. Alternate front plank with side plank on each side, use a timer, you can start with only 15 seconds segments and build up from there, try to not take any break and do a few sets of front, left, right back to back so you can feel the burn!

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Sex Positions To Last Longer

I think for guys in general, it’s always good to alternate positions where the guy is doing most of the work with positions where the girl is doing more, so you can have a little bit of that push / pull dynamic. So for example, doing doggy then cow girl then missionary then reverse cow girl… Spoon is also a good one to start slowly or to take it a little easy in the middle if both partners need a little breather, but for that as I mentioned earlier, you can also do a little pussy eating or 69. Once again, all that really depends on both partners preferences and I think the key to any fun fuck session is the level of communication and understanding between the sex partners cause ultimately everybody is in the same team and the goal is for everybody to come!

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August 23, 2016
How To Satisfy A Woman In Bed

What are my personal views on sex? I think it’s really fun! This lighthearted sort of view stems from the idea that if any one of us lives long enough, it will/does stop being fun at some point. This is probably true for women sooner than it is for men, very generally speaking. So that’s why I think: Have the fun while you can!

While it’s immensely pleasurable, sex is also a very primal thing. Maybe that’s why it’s a topic that evokes a lot of curiosity, while also being somewhat uncomfortable to talk about. The curiosity can be a bit one-sided, meaning, while it may be natural for others to be very curious about other people’s sexual affairs, many value privacy with regard to their own sexual escapades.

I think that in one’s sexual adventures as fun, one should consider a few important elements. Respect, empathy and common-sense are the few that I can think of at the moment. Respect – meaning respecting your sex partner via investment of time, effort and/or so on and also, being sensitive to your partner’s boundaries. Empathy is important because sex is one of the states in which one is most vulnerable.

A sexual dynamic, whether one is the recipient or provider of sex, invites for the opportunity to dehumanize and abuse the other party. Empathy is important to counter that risk. Common-sense refers to staying/playing safe, and going to the doctor to ensure one’s health for one’s sake, as well as his/her past, present, future partners.

My Turn Ons

I’m not someone who requires physical perfection to be attracted to someone. Rather, I am someone who sees beauty in imperfection because I feel as though imperfection is the very thing that makes us all human. As a general rule, I like older men, and always have. As far as more specifics as to what I find attractive, I think it’s difficult to know what really turns me on until I see it and experience it. It’s almost as though I have to try it to know if I like it!

Sometimes, the attraction is purely physical and immediate. I see someone across the room and go “wow”. Maybe it’s something about his lips, hair, or as he walks closer, the way that he smells. Then ensues the slight discomfort of anticipation of what may unfold. As he gets closer, the space between us feels like pressure inside a champagne bottle waiting for it’s cork to be popped. Sometimes the attraction is more elusive. Maybe it’s something about the sound of his voice; or, the deliberate yet gentle way he glides across the room; or, the way his hands slide down my back in an embrace. Other times, the attraction begins as cerebral-like, for instance, after a thoughtful conversation. In that case, it is the intellect which serves as a sexual catalyst.

As you can see, there are more than one ways to become aroused. Generally, I’m not someone that finds it difficult to become excited about having fun! Most important thing is: Just be a nice guy.

Foreplay Mistakes Men Make

One of the most obvious mistakes is foregoing foreplay entirely. Of course, this only applies to guys who are overly eager and/or inexperienced. What I need the guy to do exactly, as part of foreplay, depends on where we are and how much time we’ve allotted to our fun. If the act is completely spontaneous, no foreplay may be required at all. In that case, we may be both already so thoroughly in the moment and excited by the prospect of the act to even remember foreplay as a requirement.

Otherwise, being the very tactile person that I am, touch is usually a good start. It can include the more obviously erotic areas such as what’s in between a lady’s legs, or the more erogenous zones like the back and neck. Caresses, fingering, or kissing are good options. Some women also like toys as part of foreplay. And then, there is also 69/mutual oral which some might find especially fun!

As for the breasts, as much as my partner is enthusiastically willing to provide is fine with me. I don’t have any specific breast play that I favor.

Ready For More!

Whether or not I require oral depends on how much time my partner and I allotted to the experience. Sometimes the circumstance is simply not conducive to making oral sex a priority before penetration. So with that said, from experience, I know that I can definitely go without. Penetration usually happens as a natural course of things. Sometimes, the partner asks outright. Other times, the partner intuitively knows when to put it in, as much as he knows as to where.

At this point in my sexual adventures, I think I’ve graduated to liking various styles of sexual positions. It all depends on the circumstance.

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August 22, 2016
Ways To Satisfy Her Sexually

I think sex should be discussed openly and honestly and everyone just needs to get over it already, haha. Everyone has sex. Be safe about it and enjoy yourself!

Guys, quit watching unrealistic porn and then assuming you now know how to drive a woman crazy. Get to really know a woman’s body first and don’t be afraid to ask for directions. Know your ABC’S!

Experience Or Penis Size?

Definitely experience. I’ve been with a couple guys who were very well endowed but had NO clue what the hell to do with it or anything else… With experience, and maybe if they’re not so well endowed, then they’re probably pretty good with a lot of other, more important things like foreplay and oral, etc… In my experience, the bigger the simpler; and that’s not really what I go for. I don’t want 5 minutes, I want 2 hours.

Foreplays That Turn Me On

Any kind of massage, honestly. Lots of lotion or oil… The more relaxed I am, the more turned on I get.

Going Down South

Work down to it, haha. I don’t like a guy to just dive right in there, I like a bit of a tease. Also; know Your ABC’s, guys!

Signs I’m Enjoying It

I’m very vocal, so it’s not hard to tell when I’m having a good time. I also squirm a lot, I’ve been told.

Spitting. If I get spat on, it’s over. That’s what lube is for. Also, name calling. I don’t like to be called, “Bitch” or “Little Slut” or anything like that. Total mood killer for me.

Orgasm Before Or After Sex

I prefer before sex, because after an orgasm I get pumped up and it’s go time! Haha.

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August 19, 2016
How To Satisfy A Girl And Make Sex Exciting
I love sex. Even before I started shooting porn I was very sexually adventurous and free. I have always been bisexual even through my personal life. This is why porn is a perfect fit for me because it gives me an outlet to try new things and I love that. I believe that porn is a form of art and everyone whether they shoot porn or not, should be free to express themselves in whatever way makes them happy!

Why I Love Girl On Girl

I love girl on girl because the experience is very passionate for me and girls in general are very in tune to their partner’s needs. When I have sex with a girl, I tend to be more dominant as opposed to being submissive with men. It is a different side of me. We focus on foreplay and getting each other off. I believe that men love watching girl on girl because a lot of men don’t like to see another naked male in their porn. This is why scissoring is so popular in lesbian porn because when men watch two girls scissor, it reminds them of the motion of typical straight sex without watching a naked man.

Is It Easier For Girls To Satisfy One Another?

I think that it all depends because I have had both girls and guys satisfy me. If you are in tune to your partner it shouldn’t matter what your gender is. I love both, so if you’re good at sex then you’re good at sex, it doesn’t matter if you’re a girl or a guy.

Tips For Guys To Satisfy A Girl

I would say the most important thing is to take your time. Move slowly, tease her, tell her she’s beautiful, all that. If you make it all about you and jump straight to shoving your dick inside her I promise she won’t enjoy it. Eat her pussy, make sure she’s wet, and give her the D once she’s begging for it! She will love you for it.

Heat Things Up

Yes! Especially when I am with a girl. I love using a Hitachi on the girl I’m with, I can say from personal experience that it feels amazing. I also love exploring light bondage. Being tied down, choked, spanked, and flogged adds more adrenalin to the experience and it gives the person experiencing it a type of high which amplifies the sexual experience. There are also some simpler, less intense things you can try.

Try having sex in the shower! I love having warm water running down my body while my girl kisses all over me. Another thing is roleplay. Sometimes I like to pretend in public that we’re strangers, we both have different names, and then roleplay that this is the first time we’ve met and then have a one-night stand. That is a big turn on for me.

3 Things Never To Do During Sex
1. NEVER skip foreplay. I mean never. Your girl needs a warm up session before all the excitement happens.
2. Are you trying to break ground in our pussys? Don’t pound away. I’m all for rough sex……. but there’s a point where in becomes uncomfortable. I read something one time that said “You’re not doing to strike gold hammering inside your lady’s vagina.” Remember, she has things up there that will hurt horribly if you slam right into them.
3. Pulling a fast one. In other words, don’t use your lady to get yourself off. It’s about her too, make sure both parties enjoy it. I know it’s exciting, but if you finish after one minute you leave her unsatisfied and wanting more. If you want to get off really quick, just go jerk it off in the bathroom.
Those are just my personal views of what turns me off in the bed with a man. In all honesty though, if a girl has agreed to have sex with you then you already know she’s into you. Now she’s biased and she’s going to love anything you do in bed. It will be incredibly hard to make some “huge mistake.”

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August 16, 2016
Fetishes You Should Know About

I’m about liberation. Sex is beautiful, magical, creative… it is one of the most important things in life.

I have always enjoyed exploring my personal fetishes. The earliest example of this I can remember is secretly wearing black lace stockings and suspenders under my school uniform when I was a teenager. No-one else knew that they were there, but just feeling them could help me feel good and have a better day.

Fetishes I Love

My list of personal fetishes includes certain kinds of lingerie, bondage, foot worship, and certain fabrics. They may sound a little disparate, but in my mind, they overlap perfectly.

I love to wear erotic vintage lingerie in sensual fabrics that look and feel good, like satin or tulle. Corsets, girdles and deep suspender belts are a beautiful examples of a kind of bondage worked into an everyday garment that you could wear to a church picnic, if you wanted to – they are not restricted to the bedroom, but that sense of physical restriction when you wear them is an echo of rope bondage. I love classic rope bondage and associate it with the 50s, when every woman wore fabulously sexy lingerie as a matter of course.

I am so in love with foot play, vintage lingerie, stockings, bondage, satin, sheer clothing and high heels that I am going to make separate websites dedicated to each! I just can’t get enough.

I never put off trying a new fetish. Why wait? If something looks like it might be fun, I want to try it. I did a photo shoot for Time Out London where I was dressed as a latex cat and led around Paddington Station in London on a collar and led by a beautiful blonde journalist.

Sex & Fetishes

I don’t see sex and fetish as two separate parts of my life; they are part of my everyday life and who I am. I’m not like, “Tonight is vanilla sex night. We’ll do fetish stuff tomorrow, darling.” Very few people only want to have missionary sex with the lights off and nothing else. Everyone likes something special – everyone is a fetishist.

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August 11, 2016
How To Spice Up Your Sex Life

My personal views on sex are vast. I find most people acquaint their sex life to dating type relationships. What most refer to as vanilla. To me sexuality is a huge playing field, from trying out new toys to swinging and fetish. It’s a chance to explore and become more self-confident while satisfying inner most desires. Sex is an important factor of a balanced life whether I’m in a relationship or not. Sex is beneficial for the mind and body. As long as no one is being harmed, there is no right or wrong. It’s all about what’s right for you. I actually categorize sex as a form of self care.

Experiment!

Experimenting is something I find to be really fun with a partner. I’m a visual person. Toys are a lustful interest of mine. I have several luggage bags full of vibrators, dildos and such from my experimental journeys, whether alone or on a group venture. It’s my feeling that experimenting brings couples closer together. My consorts always keep me mentally stimulated with an amazing variety of interests. I adore going along for the ride. Sometimes we have to play a little naughty doctor or maybe dress up. A man isn’t a man until he has strapped on a garter and heels. Other times they like diving into a true release with a little domination or sensual bondage. As long as there is no physical or mental damage taking place. I am all about experimenting. Fear doesn’t belong in the bedroom. You need to push boundaries to discover new areas of enjoyment. You may even learn something about yourself along the way.

Non-Existent Sex Lives

Any relationship is work. To have a great sex life, you have to put effort into it like any other aspect of your relationship. Very often, kids and a busy lifestyle are the main issue for couples trying to stay intimate. It’s really hard after a long day to feel sexy. Unresolved arguments, or lack of communication can also be the culprit. Feeling like you’re never on the same page is an easy way to hinder sex. When you’ve been together for years things are bound to get boring. If your intent is to have a healthy sex life, some efforts in the right direction are easy to spice things up.

Ways To Spice Things Up

The first step to spicing up a couple’s love life is communication. I know this may sound cliche. You would be surprised how often couples are not even on the same page when it comes to sex. Building trust through open communication is the step that launches you into a better sex life. I’d advise setting aside time to have an open honest, non-judgemental conversation about things you’ve been dying to try. This can lead to experimenting with different toys and positions. It can start off simple, perhaps a strategically placed vibrator during oral sex for him or her. Often, role play or a trip into a bit of submission territory with her at the wheel.

I find that many couples who have gotten that far have an amazing sex life. Playtime can then escalate to new adventures. Encounters such as threesomes may come into play. Which for this I always advise hiring a professional escort. It’s just a safer way to go both emotionally and professionally. It alleviates any concerns of affairs or gossip after the fact. Women or men well versed in entertaining couples can help guide the way to a truly intimate, exciting and eye opening experience.

Another suggestion I like to make is separate bedrooms. If you have the space to do, it’s not wrong to have your own space to sleep in. This aids in two ways. One, you always get a good night sleep. Two, when you do come together for sex it can almost be a bit of a date night. It actually takes some effort and thought. There’s something special about it. No one is rolling over for a quickie. Although you may argue over who has to sleep in the wet spot.

The Benefits Are Endless

Adventurous couples are very often best friends, lovers and life partners who live enriched lives through these experiences. The act of experimenting together helps create a deeper level of trust and intimacy. The openness to communicate desires, boundaries and curiosities can only make a relationship stronger when approached as a team effort. Physical benefits also prevail. Sexually active men and women tend to be healthy and carry less stress versus their less active counter parts.

Endorphins are believed to help fight depression. Serotonin has a euphoric effect on the brain. This is why humans are often in “in love” after having a sexual encounter. Women can greatly benefit from regular orgasms. These muscle reactions actually help to tighten the vaginal walls, which helps fight off muscular atrophy which occurs as we age. The perks to spicing up your sex life are amazing to the mind, body and relationship in more ways than most people truly recognize.

I’m Arden Moon a career courtesan and industry adviser. When I’m not planning the next erotic adventure. I can be found enjoying my fitness routine, golf or writing. I’ve authored two books relating to the internet escorting industry. Residing in the playground called Las Vegas. Life is a non stop party. You can catch me in a city near you as I tour the US in 2016. Follow me at ArdenMoon.com, Twitter @VipArdenMoon and Instagram @ArdenMoon

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August 4, 2016
Useful Tips To Spice Sex Up On Your Wedding Night

Getting married!! You already have butterflies in your stomach. As the day progresses, the anxiety well starts to build up; more if you have not known your husband or wife for long before the wedding. The wedding night or first night is the most significant period in the couple’s life, what happens that night will be imprinted in your mind lifelong. So don’t rush.

Sex can happen or cannot, so go with an open mind. It’s more important to relax in each others company and to control your nervousness. Try and connect emotionally first rather than get physical. The husband should always make the first move and give hints to his partner that he is getting aroused in her presence and politely and passionately convince her that you will not cause her any pain.

It’s very easy for couples to get excited on their first night even if they have known each other for a long time. The trick here is to keep it slow, take time to understand each others body. Kissing, hugging, and fondling each other should be a kick start to have wonderful sex on your first night. Husbands should be more patient, unselfish and in control to satisfy his wife. Being pushy on the first night could lead to repulsion.

The first night act is not only the husband’s responsibility, but the wife also needs to be actively involved in it. Women feel shy in opening up about their body and feelings and many times resist having sex on their first night. These days girls are becoming more matured and listen to their body and don’t consider having sex as a mere duty to please their husbands, but would like to be a part of it. Exercising regularly and stretching the pelvic muscles will help reduce pain on the first night.

Taking a shower together, it will help you open up and also relax in each others company. It’s advisable to keep the lights off and have candles lit all around to create that perfect atmosphere and to explore each others body. Proceed once you are comfortable, step by step, which will build a great bond of trust and understanding. Husbands should understand his wife’s fear of having sex for the first time; it can only be less painful if there is good intense foreplay involved. At times you can also use artificial lubricants to relieve pain. After all it’s how much you love your wife and care about her.

It’s not necessary that you end up having an intercourse on the first night. You can try giving your partner a massage to relieve the pressure and when the time is right make your next move. There are couples who would like to take some time, just enjoy foreplay and sleep naked in each other arms till passion takes over them completely, because this is not the only night you are spending together, your first night will determine the pleasure level for all the coming years.

Pratibha Soni, an author, is passionate writer of health fitness and fashion trends. She has also researched extensively on health and fitness which is very useful in today’s busy life. She can be contacted at http://www.naughtyme.in/blog/

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July 19, 2016
Ways To Tell If She Is Enjoying Sex

Sex is many things to me. I consider it to be a basic human need, like the need to breathe or consume food. Just as I prefer to eat delicious food and breathe crisp clean air, so too do I prefer sex to be more than just meeting a need (mine/my partners). Sex is the most intimate way to share yourself with another, and should always be enjoyed by both parties.

I have always loved exploring the bodies and minds of others-and let’s face it, in the most mind blowing sex the two are closely intertwined. In a sense, sex is everything boiled down to the basics: flesh, guttural sounds, and unbridled passion. At the same time, what brings you to that point of surrender is part physical, part mental; the mind is the greatest erogenous zone. It is a delicate game that, when played correctly, everyone wins.

Arouse Her

Physical attraction is a funny thing, particularly to a sex worker. We are bound to come across people who may not initially spark a physical desire within us, and yet we aim to provide a genuine service. Let’s not underestimate the seductive power of willingness to exchange money for time; before any date starts, I am already slightly aroused by the fact that the client is paying for my time and fantasizing about what our time will be like. In my experience, there is always something that ‘attracts’ me initially, be it a smile, a shy blush, or (my weakness), broad shoulders.

Exceptional hygiene goes a long way as well. Booking a long enough date to allow for some banter and possibly a glass of wine is essential too as this builds upon the initial attraction. After some subtle flirting and a few shared laughs, I am usually noticeably flushed and aroused even before hitting the sheets, and things flow easily beyond that point. I would say I am quite easily aroused!

Turn Her On With Foreplay

Foreplay begins before we meet. The anticipation, the pampering before our date, the long bath, and selection of lingerie and what to wear are where it all begins for me. Once we’ve gotten to know each other a little bit, I can’t say it enough: gentle, sensual foreplay is where it’s at for me. Every lady is different, but I am very sensitive everywhere. Passionate kisses that build slowly in intensity, gentle kisses and nibbles on my neck, back and everywhere else, soft stroking and teasing will have me begging for more!

Who Takes Charge During Sex?

This depends on the situation, the person, and the mood…I am quite comfortable taking the lead (and can find it very arousing), but I can also be sensually submissive and enjoy letting my partner take the lead to start in general. This way I can get a sense of his (or her!) pace, and what they enjoy. Often I find the take-charge role is one that is given and taken throughout a session, which I find extremely hot!

Signs She’s Enjoying It

For me, there are many indicators of enjoyment; for one, I get VERY wet when I am really turned on, and my face and neck get flushed. During sex, I tend to moan and whisper things to arouse myself and my partner, and when I climax it is quite obvious!

I also tend to get a bit grabby (in a good way) when I am into it, and will find myself burying my hands in a gent’s hair or latching on to his back while I arch into him.

Don’t Ever Do This Guys

The number one mistake men make is sticking with something that is not working, usually because it worked for someone else. If you pay attention to body language you will have lots of indication as to enjoyment. For example, if I am not enjoying something you are doing I might pull away instead of pushing into you, or I may suggest we do something else or switch positions. If this is lost on you then I will have to ask you to stop outright, which may be a mood-killer for some. Every woman is different and what works for one may not work for another, so don’t be afraid to ask and to listen if you want the experience to be mutually enjoyable!

Simone Loren is an independent Toronto escort who caters to men, women & couples. University educated, world travelled, and with a classic beauty reminiscent of past-era movie starlets, she boasts a uniquely well-rounded sensuality.

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July 12, 2016