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  • Top 9 Sex Travel Destinations for Swingers

    Top 9 Sex Travel Destinations for Swingers

    When it comes to talking about the best places to travel to as a swinger, there are many differences in opinions. There are three basic things to consider when choosing your sexual vacation: resort quality, price of the trip, and how erotic you want the experience to be. Each of the following options (in no particular order) will give you a different experience and as such, all are not for everyone. And so … pack up your luggage and here we go:

    Hedonism II. Probably one of the more famous and talked about resorts. It is located in Negril, Jamaica and is very well established. That is both good and bad depending on what you are looking for in your vacation. A well-established resort also means an older one, but they have done some major renovations in recent years. In addition, such resorts also tend to attract an older crowd. As such, my suggestion would be to find a compatible group which has organized a trip there and travel with them. Swingers Group Trips are the best ways to experience all that the resort has to offer.

    Desire Resort & Spa and Desire Pearl Resort & Spa. I put these two resorts together as it is hard for me to talk about one of them without a comparison. They are both located in the Riviera Maya area of Mexico, and while their facilities are nicer than the ones you will find at Hedonism, do expect to pay more for your stay. These are strictly couples-only resorts, except on special occasions where they have weeks dedicated to threesomes. Again, I would suggest traveling with a group that is already going because it can be a little quiet during off-peak season. Both Desire resorts are definitely above average in their “hotness”. If you are looking for something more on the erotic side but also quite upscale, then spring for Desire Pearl, it will cost more but it is worth every penny for the extra luxury.

    Cruise Ship Takeovers. These are not your average cruise vacation. A swinger’s cruise can be as spicy as you want; you decide the areas of the ship you visit! From the clothing optional pool deck to the “play rooms”, things can get pretty wild. It is pretty much a non-stop swingers party where most of the guests are between mid-30s to mid-50s. If you are not up to going to the group rooms for sex and prefer things a bit more low key, then meet new friends at the pool party or hang out in the disco or other dance areas where while things are erotic and sensual, but no sexual activities are allowed. If you want to dive into the action, then make sure to visit the “play rooms” where you can literally expand your sexual horizons. Each cruise is different and there may be theme areas like dungeons, dark rooms, and even rooms just for the ladies.

    Hidden Beach. Now, this is the only “true” five-star resort in the swinger’s category. It is operated by the company that owns El Dorado Resorts, a four-star resort and its sister property. Hidden Beach is a totally private, clothing-optional resort that is both elegant and exquisite. All guests of Hidden Beach can enjoy the restaurants and amenities at El Dorado (which is not clothing-optional).

    Spice Resort. Located on Lanzarote, one of the Spanish Canary Islands, Spice Resort was established in June 2010 as an all-inclusive, adults only, clothing optional European-based property. Spice resort compares favorably to Desire Resort in Cancun, although the former is attractive to open-minded nudists as well as swingers. The offering of high-end food rounds out this erotic resort. In fact, this may be an easier travel destination for those coming from Europe.

    Temptation. This resort is located in Cancun, Mexico and is a good start for those who are not too keen to jump on the idea of a full-fledged swinger’s vacation. It is topless optional rather than clothing optional which can be less intimidating for some. Their upbeat sensual vibe is instrumental in creating an enticing atmosphere which is both invigorating and relaxing. This resort caters to all adults as compared to couples-only resorts such as Desire. They are also a little less blatant in their sexual nature and are recommended for those who just are not sure if a sex vacation is for them … yet.

    Caliente Resort. This is officially a nudist resort, but in recent years Caliente Resort has been catering more towards the sensual side of one being naked with special theme nights catering to swingers. They are located in Florida just north of Tampa and have amazing accommodations. This is definitely a great travel destination for those in the US looking for somewhere a little more local.

    Rama Kien Lifestyle Resort. Located in the heart of Pattaya, Thailand, it is a small hidden resort where liberated couples can fulfil their sexual fantasies in a mysterious and exotic location. It is a small resort (only 15 guest rooms) where guests can meet each other around the pool and then proceed to make their own party. Every day at Rama Kien is a new day to explore your fantasies.

    No matter which trip you decide you want to try, I’d strongly suggest that you try and arrange your schedule to travel with a swinger’s group as this not only makes it easier for you to meet people, it also allows you to book your trip getting the best rate available. In addition, there are also speciality group trips catering to “bucket list” locations, or mini-takeovers of a floor of a hotel somewhere exotic, like Italy or Iceland. Whatever the nature of your holiday may be, let us know because we are here to help at Tryst Travel.

    Enjoy, Sandi

    www.SandiOnSwinging.com

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  • The Single Male’s ‘P’s and Q’s’ to Swinging

    The Single Male’s ‘P’s and Q’s’ to Swinging

    Why are all single guys not allowed into swing clubs? Well, that is actually a pretty easy answer for me. Basically, it is because most single men don’t know how to behave. Now I’m not asking every single guy out there to be the perfect gentleman (although that would be nice), what I am saying is that just because you are at a club filled with swingers, that does not mean you are guaranteed to get sex, let alone sex from any woman that you fancy.

    I am sure you will encounter a lot of women who spark your interest, especially when they are most likely dressed VERY sexily—I’m talking skin tight dresses, high stiletto heels, stockings, and very possibly … no panties. A typical single guy who finds him surrounded by all these delicious ladies will most likely approach them and assuming that they are also there for sex, he probably doesn’t see the need to be polite to them. He may be grabby, had too much to drink (because of nerves), or could even be somewhat crude. Well, I’m sorry, but just because she is there with the intention of having sex does not mean she should not be treated like a lady!

    Make that tiny bit of extra effort and treat her well. Compliment her looks, outfit, and those beautiful eyes. Then once she gets to know you a bit and gives you some signals that she is also interested in you, ask her nicely if she would like to go to the play room. This will definitely go a long way into getting you laid and honestly, this is pretty much how you should treat a lady in a normal non-swinging situation as well.

    Now that you realize how many women have been groped, talked down to, and basically just treated poorly in swingers clubs just because the single men there have figured they are there for sex, so they can be treated badly, you are probably starting to understand why single men are not permitted into all swing clubs. That said, there are some clubs out there that will allow single males in as long as they are ‘chaperoned’ by a couple that is pretty much responsible for him and will vouch that he will not act aggressively. A couple of other clubs have special nights that allow singles to enter. In fact, these days, with the increasing number of couples looking to add a single male into their mix, there are even some that welcome. single males with literally ‘open arms’. This can be either in the form of a third (wife’s fantasy of having two men at the same time), or a male engaged to have sex with a woman while her husband watches.

    There are lots of rooms (no pun intended) for single men in the world of swingers. So look around and find a club that best suits your preference and when you go, PLEASE remember to act like a gentleman.

    PS: You can also find swingers looking for single men on my site. Give it a try—what do you have to lose?

    Till then, enjoy!
    Sandi
    www.SandiOnSwinging.com

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  • Are my new friends swingers?

    Are my new friends swingers?

    So … you’ve found a couple of people both of you find appealing and now you are thinking that you are interested in swinging with them, but how on earth can you discreetly find out if they are swingers or have even considered swinging? Honesty, that won’t be as easy as it sounds, but it is possible. First off, there is always the secret swinger’s handshake 😉 Don’t worry if you don’t know that one yet, it is more of a joke among swingers than an actual thing. With only about 5% of the general population being swingers, there is a good chance that they will not be interested.

    The key here is to go slow. Get to know them, learn their likes and dislikes. That will give you clues as to their swinging interest.  There are a few really good swinger ‘indicators’. Talk about places you like to travel and encourage them to tell you where they have been. If you say you’ve been to Jamaica (if you want to be less subtle then say Hedo) and find out if they have as well. Ask if they have ever come across a bartender named Delroy—that will let you know that Hedo is on their list of play resorts. If they say they use www.TrystTravel.com to book all their trips, you are all set!

    If they (or you) have a hot tub, joke about whether suits are required. You can tell a lot about them from their responses. If they mention that they always wear suits because it would just be awkward otherwise … my advise is to give up … at least for now. However, if she grabs your butt as she strolls by, or much better still, your lady’s butt, you’re golden!

    My point is, odds are that your new friends are not swingers but that does not mean that won’t change over time. Some people have just not been exposed to swinging yet, and you can slowly ‘nurture and educate them’. In the meantime, focus on building the friendships as you’ll never know what’s in store for you. Though I must caution you that you stand a very high risk of losing your new friends by trying to introduce swinging to those who are not ready to embrace it (and the majority are not). In addition, jealousy can be a terrible monster and can quickly emerge in the wrong situation, sending your new friends running for the hills. So be careful, because just by asking if they are swingers could lose you some really potential good friends. So remember, slow and steady gets the sex!

    Enjoy,
    Sandi
    www.SandiOnSwinging.com

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  • Secrets to Getting Your First Invite To A Swingers House Party

    Secrets to Getting Your First Invite To A Swingers House Party

    So you want to get invited to a house party designed for swingers. Well, I have to warn you that it can be both easy and hard at the same time to get that elusive invite. Don’t worry, I know it sounds confusing, but you have me to help you through it!

    The easiest step is to get things started. All you have to do is find a swinger who is hosting a swinger’s party, or simply someone who is going to attend one, and then convince them to let you tag along. Okay, so that first step is exactly not as simple to accomplish as it was for me to write it down.

    Let’s start with meeting someone first.

    Always keep a lookout for the outgoing couple as they usually get more than the average of number party invites. Guess having a fun personality is something people want to be around. Go figure. So next time you are at a swing club, don’t be that wall flower hiding in the corner. Instead, why not take a seat at the bar? It is so much easier to meet other people when you are at the bar; everybody will want a drink at some point throughout the evening so there is a good chance they will end up right beside you. Now, get the ball rolling by saying something really ‘interesting’ to them like … “Hello”, keeping in mind they are there to meet compatible people too. By just saying hi, you have made yourself open for them to speak with you as these very people may be a little nervous as well, so do your best to keep the conversation going. For all you know, you might just end up chatting the night away with someone really interesting. The more people you meet the more likely you will find someone compatible.

    During such conversations, be sure to mention that you are thinking about attending a house party, that you have never experienced one and that you are curious as to what to expect. Never be aggressive, just inquiring. Showing an interest can be the one thing that will get you an invitation. Remember that although there are swinger house parties that take place on a regular basis, the group of people you are talking to may not have one planned out at this point in time. Be patient and you will be on your way to your first house party circuit. In the meantime, do continue to enjoy yourself at the club and strike up friendship with some of these great folks.

    House party attendees generally consist of a good mix of seasoned veterans and newbies. A lot of hosts like to help beginners get started in a low pressure atmosphere, which is precisely what a house party is. Tell the people you meet that you are new (that is if you are—it is not a good idea to lie) and the odds are that seeing you are a newbie, someone will definitely ‘jump on you’, so to speak. In fact, what I am saying is that since everyone has been a beginner at some point, we all aim to help the “newbies” out, which is what you will be called for a little while. Don’t worry though, it is not that bad and you will grow out of that label really fast.

    Congratulations! You now have a friend or two in the <a href=”http://www.SandiOnSwinging.com“>Swingers Lifestyle</a>. Now, we are off to your next swinger’s house party or … you can also come visit me and maybe you will  <a href=”http://www.SandiOnSwinging.com“> meet other fellow swingers </a> too … Enjoy! 🙂

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  • Let’s Introduce Your Partner to Swinging

    Let’s Introduce Your Partner to Swinging

    So you have been thinking that you and your partner should trying swinging. Why not? It sounds like a lot of great (sexual) fun, doesn’t it? Well … there are a few things you should know before you dive right in.

    First, you need to approach your partner to see if she or he is even interested in having sex with another couple. I have suggested to many people who have contacted me for advice on this, that I feel the best way to approach the subject is while both of you are in bed. A great way to bring this up would possibly while making love, you could take the opportunity to tell your partner, “So imagine that there was someone else here with us, doing … to/with you”. Later on, you can ask them if they found the thought of someone else in your bed erotic and exciting and then you have your answer as to their interest level.

    We’re both interested… Let’s have sex!
    Not quite yet.
    Next, you need to make sure you two have talked about it in details. Finding out what limits your partner should be a priority. You should set some ground rules with your partner first to be sure you are on the same page, otherwise you could run into problems when things get down and dirty so to speak. Don’t worry; you should totally expect your rules to change and evolve as you get more comfortable in the swinging world. Just don’t force your partner or anyone else for that matter, into doing anything they don’t want to do.

    Many people, especially men, tend to want to dive right in and start having sex, lots and lots of sex. But things will turn out so much better if you take things just a little slower.

    So ground rules are set… Let’s have sex!
    Still not just yet.
    Now you have the challenge of finding other couples to play with. You can approach friends (I would not recommend that unless you are willing to lose them as friends-and possible have word get out that you two are swingers). You can go to a swingers club (good way to meet a lot of people in a shorts period of time). You can also post a profile on any one of the many swingers sites out there (takes some effort on your part to fill out your profile and reply to other members). All three of these options have their pros and cons and you have to try to figure out which method will work best for the two of you. That said, don’t feel that you are limited to one, try all three ways to meet other swingers if you want.

    So what else before we can have sex?
    Actually, that is the basics of what you need to know. If you want to learn more before jumping in, I would suggest you visit my www.SandiOnSwinging.com site and read some of the info I have posted there especially for new swingers just like you. I will also be going into more details here on this site, so keep your eyes out for my next post. Till then, enjoy yourselves … Sandi

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  • Sex Swings …They Aren’t Just for Kinky People

    Sex Swings …They Aren’t Just for Kinky People

    Sex is truly one of the safest sports that you can take up these days because it stretches and tones so many of your muscles and it is far more enjoyable than any exercise I can image. Sex is spine-tingling. It’s the greatest tranquilizer out there and it is 10 times more effective than taking Valium. Why then is sex becoming more and more extinct in the bedroom? My guess is that couples get accustomed to their every day routines and they become disinterested in the every day thrills of love-making. Why not breathe some new life into your bedroom that until now may have become stodgy? What if I told you that there is something that will seduce your fantasies and give your taste buds something to savor for hours and hours? It’s time to meet your new best friend …

    Move over dildos and vibrators, there’s a new sheriff in town. For years and years, these sensual adult toys have been the bomb-diggity of every woman’s fantasy playground. They have been our favorite play toys when our partner is away at the golf course, meetings or at the workplace. What happens when your mate comes home and you would like something else that is erotic, intimate and offers hours of pleasure and fun? Truth be told, as thought provoking as it may be, the jackrabbit (every woman’s favorite vibrator) can only do so much until she gets bored with it. They may retain 3 speeds, 5 or 10 speeds, and they may go forward and in reverse but you eventually long for much more. Sure they are amusing, but do they satisfy you both? No, not really, especially not for a lengthy amount of time. Sex is all about foreplay. Your erotic behavior and self-discipline prior to your sexual encounter is the steamy interlude to your night of passion. That’s right, nothing says come-hither more than a woman dressed in sexy lingerie while twirling around in a sex swing. Dominating in the bedroom is an aphrodisiac of intimacy and it is no longer a role just for men. Ladies are baiting their men in a predominate way and men are enthusiastic about their woman’s need to call the shots in the bedroom.

    Just a few years ago, statistics confirmed that over 78% of women were not completely satisfied in the bedroom. Ouch fellas! These numbers have increased over the years and are now hitting close to 80%. Both men and women are taking a good hard look at their relationships and asking what can they try to give both parties hours of endless pleasure and physical stimulation? If you are seeking something new and you are looking for a gadget that is titillating and will prolong a sexual form of fantasia lasting for hours, search no more. Might I suggest the sex swing for self-indulgence and everlasting sexual positions?  The weightlessness of any of our sex swing gives you the opportunity to really concentrate on your partner while focusing on new maneuverings into the perfect positions.

    Sex swings are invigorating and have been designed to improve the position of lovers so that each may be relieved of the every day physical stresses we endure when making love. Love-making using a sex swing will illuminate those unwanted calories that you piled on with your romantic dinner. There is nothing more enticing than putting your mate in this swing and taking full control of him/her, but this is just the tip of the iceberg …Untitled

    Sex swings are not just for strip clubs and swingers clubs, like so many people tend to think. They serve an even greater sexual experience right in the privacy of your own bedroom. Amongst using this sweet contraption for your own sensual desires and needs, they also provide other purposes than just being a hanging devise for your naughty needs, and on the contrary to what so many people believe, they absolutely aren’t just for kinky people. Their functions are unlimited. The sex swing offers relief for back pain sufferers, thus meaning no more aching. This takes the strain off of having to physically support oneself while on top hovering over your partner. It facilitates love-making for those with disabilities. The sex swing is great for prenatal exercises as well as birthing practices. They are great for stimulation as you massage your partner in areas sometimes not so easy to get to, and lastly, it improves the health of your relationship by enhancing the connection. Did you know that sex relieves headaches? Did you know that making love could relieve tension in blood vessels that go to the brain? Lovemaking also offers stuffy nose relief. Sex is a natural antihistamine that can help combat asthma and even hay fever … betcha didn’t know that either? Sex swings free both partners from having to always constantly brace themselves. Now couples can have the freedom to have both hands free to stimulate one another while enjoying pleasure and eye contact. Repositioning your partner has never been easier.

    Sex Swings are not at all difficult to hang,and are quite easy to set up. Nevertheless, if you desire something less strappy, you can buy a stand to make it easier to hang in a not so permanent position. For travel and when space is limited, use the door hanger swing or the stand is preferred. Swings allow you to enjoy more mobility.

    With that in mind, let’s kick it up a lewd notch now shall we? Oral sex takes on a whole new meaning when you use a sex swing. Using the sex swing, you can recline your partner in a chair like position while you lick, suck and tease your mate without pain in your neck as well as suffering arm fatigue which generally does happen 9 times out of 10 during oral sex. You also have the option now to lower the swing a more mutual sex position such as the ’69’ which is much more easy to achieve and enjoy for a longer duration of time. This type of dalliance creates orgasms that are off the charts so much so to make a woman’s toes curl and we all know that women love foreplay. Intercourse now becomes much more exciting and you are able to penetrate deeper into your partner without stress and tension. It frees you from having to constantly brace yourself and restrains you from back pain.

    Couples ask me; “Is a sex swing a good investment?” My answer is yes! If you wish to rejuvenate luscious adult fun with your partner and encounter a new kind of rendezvous, the sex swing offers the ability to add a full dimension to your sex life. If you are seeking tons of new fun in the bedroom with endless positions, and virtually no more complaining, search no more; the sex swing is a necessity. If you’re ready for something that tastes sweet, visit our full adult fun stuff area @ Simply Delicious Lingerie for the lowest prices and our view our most sold sex swings.

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