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  • How To Finger A Girl Correctly

    How To Finger A Girl Correctly

    I personally think masturbation is great! It is a part of my job, however, so I might be a little bias! Haha! Masturbation can be a great way to figure your body and learn more about what it is that you like. Exploring different things that you like when you are masturbating will help you communicate that to your future partner.

    The topic of masturbation has been very shunned when honestly, it shouldn’t be! Masturbating can be very fun and exciting! Plus, who doesn’t love a good orgasm after a long day?

    Do Men Know How To Finger A Girl Properly?

    Most of the time, no. That doesn’t mean that men can’t learn how to finger a girl. I feel that most men might be a little intimidated when it comes to fingering a girl, which is understandable. Fingering is like most things that have to do with the vagina, you just have to figure out what the girl likes.

    Communication is key in achieving the perfect fingering technique. Every girl is unique so getting to know your partner in bed and what they like is key to giving them an orgasm.

    Common Fingering Mistakes

    Sometimes they may be a little afraid to speak up and ask questions like “Does this feel good?”

    Don’t be afraid to ask questions! I promise you us ladies will not behead you or laugh at you for asking “Do you like that?”

    Another common mistake that most men don’t really think about is not cutting their nails. I can almost 99% guarantee that no girl is going to love the feeling of nails scratching their vagina when being fingered. Please remember to cut your nails!

    Fingering Techniques Men Should Know

    First things first, make sure you are both relaxed. The experience will not be enjoyable if you or her are tense so remember to breathe! One thing I can’t stress enough and that I mentioned above is communication is key! The trick to any good fingering technique is knowing what turns her on.

    Maybe she likes the “Come here” finger motion, maybe she likes 3 fingers, maybe she likes fisting, the point is you won’t know unless you ask. Start off slow and sensual and increase the speed/finger count with time, never start out full force or super-fast!

    Stepping It Up To Give Her That Orgasm

    Explore her clitoris or another sensitive part of her body! The clitoris can be one of the most sensitive parts of a girl and can lead to a power orgasm! Do not be too rough with it however, you might end up doing more harm than good. Always remember to start slow and increase the intensity to fit the situation.

    As always, remember to talk to her throughout the whole situation and don’t forget you can always incorporate sex toys in the bed room. Remember to pay attention to what she likes in bed and strive to help her achieve an explosive orgasm and she will surely return the favor!

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  • Masturbation & Squirting Tips From Bianka Swool

    Masturbation & Squirting Tips From Bianka Swool

    The greatest thing about masturbation is that it is always available. And it is an international body language 😉

    Favorite Masturbation Toy

    The Womanizer!!! Cause gosh what is better then something vacuuming my clit?  Haha.

    Difference Between Using Toys vs Hands

    Seriously I’m more of a object use person than some toys!  Sooo feeling something inside that doesn’t go there, it’s pretty exciting to me like SOME CANDY! Gosh I love it that’s why I use a lot in my movies I make! And my hands I just use for my mouth and my clit!

    When I First Started Squirting

    Seriously, all of my boyfriends except two, did not know how to do it LOL – boys please read about it! Cause it’s fun to show you how for like 30 min – and finally we do the job for you. But the way I realise, I can SQUIRT SO MUCH is one day by just jumping on my guy and just taking me off (cause I wanted to change position) and TADAMMMMMM, I splashed all over his chest! So guess what I told myself that I can do that? Damnnnn can we do it five times again haha and I don’t know, I just did it again after by myself with toys….hands…..etc etc.

    Fingering Techniques To Squirt

    Hummm yes there is a method! But seriously to explain it?…. pretty tough! Look at some videos guys! Porn are there not just to jerk but to learn 😉

    It feels good to squirt everywhere….. Even in my head I feel better after! Is that not weird? I just love the way it makes me feel and not only having a nice orgasm but I feel like I’m THE QUEEN OF THE SQUIRT AFTER THAT hahaha ok joking but…not

    Hello my name is Bianka Swool. I’m your typical next-door girl. I am so naughty you cannot imagine! In this interview I will share to you some sexy secrets about me! I am not just a pornstar, I AM YOUR PORNSTAR!  See you soon xxx Bianka

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  • This Is How You Should Finger A Girl

    This Is How You Should Finger A Girl

    Well, sex is a normal thing and is for old and young, straight and gay. Sex is the way to let each other know that you love each other. Sex is the way to discover each other body’s and secret places. I think without sex, the world is boring 😉

    Difference Between Masturbating & Being Fingered

    Well, I know where I have to be, I know where the special places are and how to tease and please my own pussy and clitoris. Some guys are really rude or rough and they think we girls like it, but we don’t. If you finger the right places, then they can give us an orgasm really fast and also often.

    Foreplay For Fingering

    I think, foreplay is one of the most important things. I like to give a blowjob but I love it when the men licks and fingers my pussy. Then I will be very hot and horny as well. If the foreplay is good enough, then I will squirt by the penetrate.

    Of course, the nails must bn cut and wash you’re hands please 😉

    I like that the men play with my clit as well and make me wet please!

    How To Use Your Fingers

    Bring two fingers inside and stimulate my G-spot, do it with a normal speed and I’m gonna squirt.

    Lick my clit and grab my boobs, that’s really lovely.

    Melody Pleasure – I prefer BB/BBG/GG/GGG/Gangbang till 5 men’s, no anal, no submissive, I’m a Domina.

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  • Fingering Tips To Make Her Orgasm

    Fingering Tips To Make Her Orgasm

    Foreplay is everything in the bedroom and can be easily overlooked. Fingering done right can not only be used as foreplay but also to bring on the big O, leaving your lady in a sexed out haze. Below I’ll outline some handy hot tips and my own best bits of fingering fun!

    How I Like To Be Fingered

    When it comes to my personal preference of being fingered, it can change daily! When I’m feeling particularly naughty, rough and hard is my favorite straight out the gate. However, on most days I love starting out slower and building the suspense to boiling point, increasing with speed as I reach pure ecstasy.

    My pussy can be a little particular! I am very vocal though and will always direct my guy to exactly where I love it. The sure fire motion to really hit that pleasure zone of the G-spot is the “come hither” motion. The g-spot is located only 3 inches give or take on the bladder side of the vaginal wall. It requires firm strokes to make that love button swell. Generally, 1-2 fingers are plenty, but I have been known to want to really stretch and feel filled by suggesting more than a few fingers! To get to this extreme point however, I need to be fully charged and feeling kinky as hell. Have I ever been fisted? No. Have I tried? Oh yes!

    As a side note, I have witnessed fisting and been the “fister”. It is actually amazing and you can see the pleasure from it is overwhelming, thus my curiosity. Those out there who are kinky enough to try, start small, work your way up and use copious amounts of lubricant and don’t over-do it.

    Favorite Position To Be Fingered

    My all-time favorite fingering position is from behind. Wow. Ladies if you haven’t done it, please try! Standing or bending over is equally exciting. As an added bonus, you can easily stimulate your clit also with no obstacles. Win, win! I can come from this position in about half or less of the time taken than in a front facing position due to more pressure directly to my G-spot. I think it’s a mental thing for me too as I love doggy-style.

    Signs I Am Reaching Orgasm

    A guy will actually feel my squirt (yes, I’m a squiter!) building inside me. Also, my vagina will tighten to his fingers like a glove. If that isn’t a certain indicator, being the vocal lady I am, I am sure he will hear me multiple times repeating “Don’t stop, I’m going to cum”. Haha, I make it very easy to understand!

    Other ladies will have different responses obviously as sexually we are all individuals. Our automatic pleasure responses however will help to indicate when she is getting close. Watch signs for heavier breathing, arching her back, toes curling and stretching, flushing of the chest and involuntary movements (twitching) would signal she is one happy chick! Keep doing what you’re doing and for the love of god, don’t stop at that point. She may just kick you.

    A Memorable Kinky Fingering Experience

    I really don’t have enough space for this question so I will add my most recent memorable fingering that I consider quite kinky.

    I was travelling home on a long trip with a vibrator on my clit my client had just purchased for me the day before. We had separate cars and I called him through traffic panting and squirming trying to explain how much I adored my new gift and suggested he help me to climax with some dirty talk. He had a better idea. We pull over on a quiet street and he casually walks over to my window (I was so hot by this point) and taps on my window. I wind down and he reaches in with two fingers sliding into my very wet and willing pussy. Within moments I climax. It was a very memorable fingering. Although the drive home was a little soggy on the seat!

    Things A Guy Should Never Do When Fingering

    My personal pet hates when it comes to fingering that almost always ruin the moment are long fingernails and trying to fit more digits in too early without enough lube or warning (ouch!). Everyone has their own pet peeves, so just watch her bodies cues for what’s working and what isn’t.

    Finally, anal fingering can be kinky and pleasurable, but be sure guys to lube up, go slow to begin with and definitely do not use the “come hither” motion anally. Wiggly fingers are only a pain in the ass, pun intended.

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  • How To Finger Her & Give Her An Orgasm

    How To Finger Her & Give Her An Orgasm

    I think people should have sex when they want to, as long as they want to do it and they aren’t pressured into doing it. They use protection if they don’t want to get pregnant or catch some sickness!!

    A Memorable Sexual Experience

    It was when I was 17, I had a boyfriend and after one month we thought that we were ready! He was gentle with me, we didn’t know what we were doing and I cant say that was perfect but I cant say it wasn’t bad either! After that, slowly I start to feel more pleasure and learnt how to have the perfect orgasm! Now I love it!!!

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    How I Like To Be Fingered

    Of course this is one of the best way to get orgasms! I prefer him to start me slowly, and kissing me gently then going to my clit and getting some wetness of course on it. After a few minutes, I love to get faster and faster and this is what makes my vagina wet! Of course he must keep paying attention to me to see how I feel! When I get super wet I love to first put one finger inside me, pushing in and out slowly and keep rubbing my clit with the other hand! Then to put the second finger inside and getting faster, keep rubbing my clit and like that, I can cum very fast and very powerful!!!

    Favorite Positions

    I LOVE missionary cause like that I can control myself and move my back up and down when I feel that I have to!!

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    How Will A Guy Know I Am Reaching Orgasm?

    First my breathing gets faster and deeper, and I start to move too much and of course I start to scream sometimes!!!

    Kinky Places I Love To Have Sex

    There are no kinky places when u enjoy it! But I like it in the cinema, on the beach, in the car, sometimes in the pool or in the sea!!!

    What A Guy Must Never Do When Fingering

    Push it too hard or have dirty fingers. I hate this!! And dont stop till I get the orgasm!

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  • How To Finger A Girl

    How To Finger A Girl

    My hands are my major sex organ. Human hands are capable of both finesse and power. I don’t approach “fingering” as some lower level sex act, but as fucking. My advice comes from a sample size of about 3500 women. No two women are the same, but they are similar. The actions that feel good fall within a range.

    Be Attentive

    Use your fingers to feel your partner’s body, eventually making your way to her pussy. Pay attention to the flow of blood into her lips, the pace of her heart, her breathing, her voice. Gauge her reactions, and proceed with what feels good.  Most girls either want to be stroked vertically up and down the length of the clit, have her clit rubbed back and forth, or in circles.

    I will sometimes ask a girl which of these things feel better. Don’t be afraid to ask questions in bed. One of the easiest ways I’ve found to get a woman off is to hold her from the back, kissing her or looking at her or kissing her neck, using one hand to rub her clit and the other to touch her breasts or another erogenous zone. From this position, you can touch her as she might touch herself.

    How To Enter Her

    If you want to use penetration, feel the entrance of the vagina. If she reacts well, put your fingers in. I tend to start with two, but with some partners one is more appropriate. If you’re inexperienced, start with one. Starting with more than two is an an advanced move and I don’t recommend using it without a lot of practice. Use firm pressure, but not necessarily hard. Direct your energy into your finger(s).

    Many women like it when you curve your fingers toward her abdomen and feel for an area that feels sort of spongy (the“G Spot”) and then fuck that. Stroke in and out, but with that spot as the target, increasing your speed as her arousal increases. The vagina expands with arousal. When you start to feel a space inside, you can add more girth (fingers). The reason I’ve put my fist inside so many girls is that I know how to read this sequence.

    Step It Up

    Look at your partner. Pay attention to her. Fuck faster and harder when she’s ready, not when you are. Most women do like to get fucked – they just want to be fucked right. You have better control with your hands, so not only can you pleasure your partner you can learn skills that you can transfer to intercourse. Have fun and treat your partner with love.

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  • Fingering Tips And Common Mistakes

    Fingering Tips And Common Mistakes

    I’ve always been curious sexually since I was young, first started playing with myself at 8 and had sex for the first time when I was 14. I have always been surrounded by sex early on watching movies, TV, books and porn. Sex has always come natural to me but I’m always learning new and exciting things about sex and what turns me on. I’ve always been comfortable with my own body, and when you’re comfortable with yourself naked, it creates for better sex.

    A Memorable Sexual Experience

    Well where do I start? There are so many, where do I start! I would have to say the most memorable sexual experience would have to be when I squirted for the time all over my boyfriend. I was 19 years old and dating a more experience guy who was 25-year-old. It was the first time, that I have choked and pushed and gagged. I never knew that those would be pleasurable for me. He was fingering me while choking me, and all of sudden I squirted all over place. I was so embarrassed, all over the face that I didn’t know if I peed or not haha.

    My Fingering Preferences

    It’s really difficult to find a guy that can properly figure me, better than I can. My preferences are 2 to 4 fingers deep, hard and fast. His fingers are slightly hooked to hit my g-spot. The harder the better for me, with a little bit of slapping of my pussy. It never fails if a guy does it properly, and I will squirt everywhere.

    Favorite Positions To Be Fingered

    I’m old fashioned and like to lay down or sit down with my legs spread apart. For me fingering should be pleasurable and relaxing, no need to do anything special so close your eyes and enjoy it. In my experience being fingered in different positions, you tend to be more tense and less in the moment.

    When Will He Know You Are Close?

    Oh he will know haha. I’m a screamer but when I’m close to or achieving an orgasm, I moan ever so lightly and my whole body feels like I’m on vibrate mode.

    Kinky Places I’ve Been Fingered

    I’ve been fingered in some crazy places, I don’t know if anyone else thinks they are kinky but they are pretty wild. My number one would have to be Central Park, followed by the thanksgiving table with my family, out to dinner with my ex-boyfriends parents, bars, and in the movie theatre.

    Common Mistakes Guys Make

    I would have say the number 1 mistake guys make a lot is using not enough fingers. I just don’t get pleasured by 1 finger going slow inside me. They should never stop after 30 secs of fingering you, especially if you are in a public place where having sex is out of the question.

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  • Fingering techniques to give her an orgasm everytime

    Fingering techniques to give her an orgasm everytime

    My name is Luna Lace and I sell my used panties, socks, bras, and things like that online. I am a 24 year old Latina. I would have to say that I am somewhat of a closet exhibitionist. If there is such a thing. It really turns me on to be a part of someones’ fantasies. I love to know that people are getting off to me doing dirty things. I keep my anonymity because that way it’s my naughty secret. No one knows that I’m a used panty seller and they would be so shocked to find out. The whole thing is such a turn on.

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    I love fingering! Both giving and receiving. I am a bisexual, and what they say is true, “a woman knows what a woman wants.” That’s not to put down any of the men that I’ve been with. I’ve had quite a few male lovers that have known their way around a clit. It’s just the way women are built. For a woman to get the maximum amount of pleasure, you’ve got to hit the button. Some of the best orgasms of my life have been by combining penetration with fingering. Fingering is also a very important part of foreplay. Sometimes I really need to be touched and teased in order to get my juices flowing. And it is definitely worth it if you do.

    Kinky places to get fingered…

    The answer to that is anywhere you can. It is such a thrill to do it in public places. The thrill of getting caught only adds to the excitement. It can make sex like a game or a race to see if my partner and I can climax before we get caught. I’ve never been caught. Thankfully. But I have had one or two close calls. For instance, once my boyfriend at the time could not wait to eat my pussy. It was one of the first times we had fooled around so I was extra excited. We pulled the car over into an empty parking lot and he went at it. Luckily, I was so turned on that I came pretty quickly. As soon as I had finished and we started to pull away, a cop drove past us in the parking lot.

    One of the best fingering experiences of my life was was with a woman quite accidentally at the beach. We had been flirting all night long and decided to take a late night walk by the beach. That turned into a pretty hot and heavy make out session. She reached her hand up my skirt and massaged my clit until I came. Right there in front of everyone. It was such a turn on to do it so out in the open and that no one noticed.

    Fingering techniques every men should know…

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    I think the most important thing with fingering is the build up. The clit is a very sensitive and mysterious organ. It’s not something that you can just dive right in. Start with a slow up and down motion or side to side. Barely touching. Always pay attention to the woman’s reaction. She’ll let you know if you are touching it right by moaning or arching her back. You’ll start to feel her pussy getting wetter. Once she gets good and wet, then you can start applying more pressure. Most importantly, if you find the speed and pressure she likes, don’t stop!! The worst thing you can do is find that special spot and lose it before she can climax.

    I’m also a fan of a two hand technique. Sit in front of your woman with her spread eagle. That way you get to watch too. Open her pussy and pull back the hood of the clit with one hand and rub up and down with one of the fingers of your other hand.   From this position you can also use one hand to massage her clit and stick one, two, or how fingers are needed from the other hand into her pussy.

    Don’t rush it. Take your time and she will definitely appreciate it. She’ll spend more time and effort pleasuring you if she sees that you’ve made the effort to make her feel good.

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  • Hot fingering techniques to give her an orgasm

    Hot fingering techniques to give her an orgasm

    I personally masturbate every day. Masturbation, to me, is very healthy and as a cam girl it is a big part of my job. I also deal with anxiety, and some days I will come home from a stressful day at my other job and literally masturbate the stress away.

    My preferred location to masturbate.

    I will admit I have masturbated in a lot of random places but my preferred place would have to be in my bed.

    I have a lot of dildos and vibrators, some I haven’t even used but my favorite is my Hitachi. I usually turn up really loud music and masturbate till I can’t cum anymore.

    Hot fingering techniques to give a girl an orgasm.

    Well, I mean every girl is different. But I will say that I have had a few guys that have gone full jack hammer on my vagina. Please guys, don’t do that.

    Just start out slow and work on your “come hither” finger action. Also, communication is a huge part. I run a sex blog and whenever I get questions from guys asking how to make their girl cum, I always tell them that communication is key.

    Ask her how she likes it, if she likes it and what she likes. It’s pretty easy to tell if she is enjoying it when she’s gripping at the sheets and moaning your name.

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