I personally think masturbation is great! It is a part of my job, however, so I might be a little bias! Haha! Masturbation can be a great way to figure your body and learn more about what it is that you like. Exploring different things that you like when you are masturbating will help you communicate that to your future partner.
The topic of masturbation has been very shunned when honestly, it shouldn’t be! Masturbating can be very fun and exciting! Plus, who doesn’t love a good orgasm after a long day?
Do Men Know How To Finger A Girl Properly?
Most of the time, no. That doesn’t mean that men can’t learn how to finger a girl. I feel that most men might be a little intimidated when it comes to fingering a girl, which is understandable. Fingering is like most things that have to do with the vagina, you just have to figure out what the girl likes.
Communication is key in achieving the perfect fingering technique. Every girl is unique so getting to know your partner in bed and what they like is key to giving them an orgasm.
Common Fingering Mistakes
Sometimes they may be a little afraid to speak up and ask questions like “Does this feel good?”
Don’t be afraid to ask questions! I promise you us ladies will not behead you or laugh at you for asking “Do you like that?”
Another common mistake that most men don’t really think about is not cutting their nails. I can almost 99% guarantee that no girl is going to love the feeling of nails scratching their vagina when being fingered. Please remember to cut your nails!
Fingering Techniques Men Should Know
First things first, make sure you are both relaxed. The experience will not be enjoyable if you or her are tense so remember to breathe! One thing I can’t stress enough and that I mentioned above is communication is key! The trick to any good fingering technique is knowing what turns her on.
Maybe she likes the “Come here” finger motion, maybe she likes 3 fingers, maybe she likes fisting, the point is you won’t know unless you ask. Start off slow and sensual and increase the speed/finger count with time, never start out full force or super-fast!
Stepping It Up To Give Her That Orgasm
Explore her clitoris or another sensitive part of her body! The clitoris can be one of the most sensitive parts of a girl and can lead to a power orgasm! Do not be too rough with it however, you might end up doing more harm than good. Always remember to start slow and increase the intensity to fit the situation.
As always, remember to talk to her throughout the whole situation and don’t forget you can always incorporate sex toys in the bed room. Remember to pay attention to what she likes in bed and strive to help her achieve an explosive orgasm and she will surely return the favor!
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