I’m a very open person when it comes to my sexuality, I feel like sex and owning your “sexy-ness” is a form of empowerment, YOU give YOUR own sexual experience and nobody can replace or copy what you do, and everyone is different and amazing in different ways. I like to push boundaries in sex, I like to know what makes the other person tick and I want them to know what makes me tick as well. I like to find out how far we can go and how intensely hot we can make it. For me it’s as much of a mind thing as it is a sexual feeling, I like to feel like my mind is out of reality.
Why I Love Rough Sex
I like to feel out of control, not in a scary way and not ever in any way that I feel unsafe, but I really do enjoy when I have no control. I like to have control in every aspect of my life, in fact I almost need control in my life, but then as soon as the bedroom door closes…. I want to be completely taken control of.
Rough sex is fun and exciting to me, it’s almost like a drug. Once you experience something so intense, nothing else compares.
Types Of Rough Sex
I like to be pushed to my very limit. I stay safe, and only engage in rough sex like that with my significant other but there have been times where I almost passed out because of the roughness, but I like that feeling. I love to be spanked, having my hair pulled while the other hand is around my neck. That type of thing. Anything that makes me feel like I’m not in control. I always have a safe word though!!|
Fun fact!! : My safe word is Watermelon!
Common Misconceptions
Oh there is plenty, “She must have daddy issues”, “She must have been sexually abused before”, “I wonder if her boyfriend beats her too” … None of that is true! I mean that stuff happens to people no matter what you’re into sexually. For me, it’s just one big mental and physical fantasy of losing all control.
Do’s And Don’ts For Rough Sex
Don’t ever let yourself in bed with someone you don’t trust and feel safe with. Rough sex can sometimes get a little carried away so you need to be with someone who can see when you need a break. Do share your dark secrets beforehand, tell your partner the dirty and rough things you’ve always wanted to do, and then let them do it to you. Don’t force yourself or push your body if you feel like something is wrong, always listen to your body. Do let yourself fully lose control at some point and let the other person just sexually take you, I promise you will both love it. After having that rough connection with someone you crave it.
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As I’ve always been pretty adventurous in bed, anal has been one of my favorite things since the very beginning. I’ve always been into rough sex, even before I understood the difference between rough and vanilla, and anal is perfect for that because it can make the most mundane sex extraordinary if done right. Experimenting with anal has given me my most intense orgasms to date, it’s just a whole different level of pleasure than I can achieve with vaginal or clitoral stimulation alone and I love it.
Why Every Lady Should Try Anal Sex
While I do know anal isn’t for everyone, I do think everyone should try it once because it really can open new doors for pleasure and sensation you can’t achieve with vaginal sex. I won’t downplay the importance of having a good partner to start out with though, many of the women I know who have had bad experiences with anal had a partner who went too fast or hard for their limits, which ultimately led to a painful and unhappy experience. My advice for anyone starting out with anal is to start small, use plenty of lube, and don’t be afraid to tell your partner to slow down or stop if you need too. But trust me on this, when done right, anal can bring you to whole other dimensions of pleasure.
Always Lube Up
Without adequate lube, I would say the chances of having a good time with anal are extremely low. If you plan to make anal a regular part of your sex life I suggest investing in a good silicone based lube, which will last longer and cut down on the number of times you need to reapply. If you’re just starting out and aren’t sure if you’ll enjoy anal, you can get away with a good quality water based lube, but remember to always add more if you feel like you need it.
Foreplay Before Anal
When I was first starting out with anal I needed a lot more foreplay than I do now. I’d start by having my partner finger my asshole and get it all nice and lubed up. Then we’d pull out a medium sized plug and slowly insert it, making sure to take time to stretch me out and get my body ready. Once we got to the actual anal part, we still made sure to start out slow and steady before we finally got to the rough stuff. Nowadays though, I’m more in tune with my body and sometimes all I need is to rub some lube in there and I’m ready to go!
My Ideal Anal
Definitely fast and rough! Of course I do always suggest taking it slow at first to make sure everything is properly lubed and stretched out, but anal always feels so rough and primal to me, it’s definitely not something I would do with a gentle lover.
Favorite Anal Positions
Doggy is hands down my favorite position when it comes to anal, it just feels so good when a guy is pounding my ass from the back. I especially love it when he adds in spanks and hair pulling to amp up the mood. When it comes to me and anal, the rougher the better in all honesty.
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My views towards sex are very broad and open. I don’t really have any set views on sex, asides from that it is different with everyone and that I would never judge someone based on what they enjoy; or what their own views are towards the topic. I am very comfortable when it comes to any area related to sex, but that doesn’t mean that the next person is, and that is perfectly okay. For myself, sex is an experience to connect with someone in such an intimate way, and it’s something I want to share with very few people in my life. For someone else they might view sex in a complete opposite way. I think it’s actually kind of interesting how unique it can be from person to person. This is why it is so hard for me to really answer this question, because there are so many different views, I don’t think I could limit myself to only view sex in one way.
How I Got Into Exhibitionism
I didn’t realize exhibitionism was a thing until I got sucked into the world of webcam girls. It started after following a more popular girl on Instagram, at first I didn’t even realize that she was a cam girl on MFC. That’s when my general interest in camming came about, and it wasn’t until months later that I actually got in front of the camera. As far as becoming interested in exhibitionism, it kind of just happened I suppose. During one of my first few shows I felt so comfortable being naked, even in front of dozens of viewers, it was so empowering. I felt admired, and above all sexy. It is definitely thrilling to be watched, and those first few shows online made me realize how much of a turn on it actually was.
Being Naked Turns Me On
There is practically an endless list as to why being naked turns me on, and I really think everyone should feel like that. Being able to just be naked is so freeing, it’s a person’s natural state and everyone should be comfortable in their own skin. Being able to feel comfortable and confident while naked is probably top on the list. Not only is feeling confident in myself a bit of a turn on, but when my partner is also confident being nude, it’s a huge turn on. The saying “confidence is key” definitely rings true for me.
Next on the list is definitely just loving my naked body as is, yes I might have chubby thighs and a bit of a tummy, but I absolutely love it all. The natural curve of my body, mixed with my little round booty is a top turn on. Everyone is made differently and there is beauty in that, this is the only body I have, so why shouldn’t I feel sexy. The fact that I can share what I love about myself with other people, both in person and online is amazing, and if that gets me going, then so be it.
My First Exhibitionist Experience
The first time I ever logged online, I never actually got naked, it was more of a, get my feelers out sort of experience, and that alone was terrifying. The awesome members that visited my room made it so much easier, along with a few shots of liquid courage. My first experience with exhibitionism was my second show on MFC. I don’t remember the details, but it was definitely nerve wracking. Before that moment I had never been naked in front of more than one person at a time. At first I was slightly uncomfortable, but shortly after that initial moment I realized how exciting and fun it was. From there it kind of just grew, I realized I loved the way being naked in front of others made me feel. After really successful shows, the after glow kind of makes you feel like a sex goddess, its kind of like a high so to speak. Now I don’t really cam for the money, its more for the fun of the whole experience, and to hangout with my regular viewers.
Naked on Cam and in Public?
I have yet to get naked in public, and I don’t know if I ever will. Comparing the two, and my own experiences, I would think they are very different. When I’m on cam, yes there are real people there, but they are in different parts of the world behind a computer screen not in the same room as me. Getting naked online almost seems slightly more private or intimate, rather than being fully exposed in a public place. With that being said, I would definitely commend and support someone who was into getting naked in a truly public place. Everyone is into different things, I think that’s what makes us unique, and if you are into that, you go girl! (Or guy!)
Tips To Being Comfortable On Cam
I would say just go for it! Maybe start small and work your way up. Everyone has different comfort levels, so I think just stepping outside of that comfort zone is a good start. I can’t speak for all cam girls, but for myself, I rarely just jump online butt naked. Get to know your crowd a little bit and work your way up to full blown nudity, I find its easier like that. After the first time or two, it goes from nerve wracking and daunting to comfortable, fun and exciting. Other than that I don’t think there is anything else I can say about it, I think you are either into it, or not. I just don’t take myself to seriously, and have a good time; I think that’s all that matters with this sort of thing.
Being Naked Improves Your Sex Life!
That would be a definite yes. It’s not that I was uncomfortable before, but learning to love my body, and becoming a bit of an exhibitionist has definitely improved my confidence in bed. This allows me to be more open with any potential partner(s). In any relationship sexual or not, openness is a big factor, and exploring exhibitionism has allowed me to expand what I enjoy when it comes to sex. Not only in my sex life, but also in most things I no longer limit myself to close-minded thoughts like I used to, which I think leads to a happier life. Being a cam girl and an exhibitionist makes me happy, and in reality, if anyone is happy, which for me directly translates to a better sex life.
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I think threesomes are a lot of fun. I prefer FFM threesomes but MMF can be fun if done with the right people and the right way. I am a very sexual gal and I love to play. One on one sex is fun but when you add another person, it just increases the pleasure for everyone. If the chemistry is there, a threesome can be a whole new world that you get to discover. If you are open to the experience and want to learn some new things, I highly recommend threesomes.
Why Are Threesomes So Kinky?
Threesomes are kinky because there are more than two people who are involved. Three different personalities all trying to get on the same level and having sex. So many different thoughts, opinions and idea. So many new things that you will be able to try. MMF threesome can be a lot of fun especially for the girl because she usually gets spoiled. I think another reason threesomes are so fun is because it makes you feel like you are breaking the rules of sex. Most people who think of sex think two people, not three.
The Feeling Of Being Double Penetrated
When I am in double penetration it is a rush. I mean 2 holes being penetrated at once, that is a lot of pounding which causes a lot of happy juices flowing. I think it is super hot and when in a MMF threesome, it is a must.
Great Positions For MMF Threesome?
It is really hard for me to recommend some great positions for a MMF threesome because the ones I have experience were not good. I had a lot of fun, but it could have been better.
The guys need to be comfortable with each other otherwise the threesome does not work very well. They need to realize their swords might cross and not freak out when this happens. A position that is fun to try but is difficult is the female riding one male but not sitting down all way and she lifts her butt up in the air so the other guy can insert his cock in the other available hole.
Another position that works well is the female is on her hands and knees sucking on a cock and the other one takes her from behind.
One other position is one of the males picks up the female, puts her on his cock as she wraps her legs around him and the other male takes the other hole from behind. (this position is difficult but can be a lot of fun if done right).
Tips To Make A MMF Threesome Hotter!
Some tips I could share to make the MMF threesome hotter are:
Make sure all parties are comfortable with each other and all rules have been discussed before starting.
Make sure to have plenty of lube especially if you are going to go with DP.
Just have fun and try to relax. Some of the parties might be tense because it’s a new experience, but if you all relax, things will be so much more fun.
Sex should be fun not stressful.
I am Lady Serra, a new Cam Model and previous Stripper. I love talking about sex. I am a fun very energetic gal who enjoys talking to people and being playful. I love getting attention and giving it too. Follow me on Twitter@LadySerra69_MFC or on MyFreeCamshttp://profiles.myfreecams.com/LadySerra
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I used to be so repressed when it came to sex. I really craved it all the time, but thought that it was shameful and hid it. Women weren’t supposed to be sex-crazed. Well, I decided that was bullshit. There is nothing wrong with being comfortable with your sexuality. Sex doesn’t have to be romantic (though romantic can be fun!), nor does it have to be serious, nor does it even need to be meaningful. It’s just something most of us enjoy, and there is no shame in that.
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Unsatisfying Sex
I feel like when someone makes it only about themselves, it’s going to be unsatisfying. And yeah, I’ve had that happen. I’ve also had sex where my partner came way too fast–or instantly, in one case. But those experiences weren’t always unsatisfying. There are other ways to satisfy me than simple PIV sex, so even if that ended early, there’s always fingering and oral!
Common Mistakes Guys Make?
Not enough foreplay! Getting hard and just wanting to pop it in without any warm up is just… unpleasant. I mean, it doesn’t always feel bad, but it’s going to be a lot hotter if you grab her, rub her clit, and slide some fingers in beforehand (and maybe some choking, slapping, and dirty talking in her ear).
Fingering is also where guys mess up! If she’s not wet yet when you’re trying to rub her, spit on your fingers (or get her spit on them). Pay attention to how her body reacts. If she’s not feeling it, change what you’re doing, and be gentle with the clit at first! What I think is super hot is not going for her pussy right away. Move your hands lower and lower while you kiss on her. Let your fingers trace her inner thighs. Build up the anticipation! Rub the outside of the panties first (if she has them on). It’s a bit gentler on the skin honestly, and it makes her crave more. See if you can soak her panties this way! Finally, when you’re ready, start exploring under the panties and slip inside her.
Make Me Orgasm Through Oral Sex!
If a guy is going to go down on me, I want to be excited. If there’s been no build up, it just feels uncomfortable (especially when it’s dry). There are a few things that can get me excited (it varies depending on the person, so keep that in mind). Be forceful with me! Grab me from behind, slap my face, choke me, grope me, rub my pussy. Pick me up and throw me on the bed, the couch, or set me atop a counter (my favorite). Push my legs apart, kiss and nibble on the insides of my thighs, and then you can go for it. Build up is everything!
When it comes to the actual oral itself, you want to start off slowly and gently. Don’t go full blast from the beginning. Slow licks encircling the clit, some gentle flicks. A few sucks here and there. You can go heavier when excitement starts to build up. And then insert a finger or two (more later) and make a pulling motion with it, a “come hither” if you will. Alternate between licking/sucking the clit and rubbing it with your thumb. See the reactions, keep doing what feels good but change it up a bit, too. Switch between a few things with good reactions. It might take awhile, so don’t put on pressure to cum.
It’s not gonna happen if you seem to be bored/annoyed at how long it’s taking. If you expect your dick sucked for however long, you can eat pussy that long, too. Also keep in mind, orgasming isn’t always the goal. It can be a great time without an orgasm. Obviously orgasms are great, but if it doesn’t happen, don’t take it as a blow to your ego.
There’s Always Orgasms From Sex…
Orgasms aren’t going to happen if you’re lying there like a limp fish grunting, sorry. How to do cowgirl right: the work isn’t all on her. Grip her hips, bounce her on you. Smack her ass, tell her how hot she looks riding you. When you’re ready, pick her up, put her in whatever position you’re craving.
One I really love is when the guy stands carrying the woman with her legs wrapped around him, his hands on her butt bouncing her on his dick. Honestly it feels amazing, but I know it takes a lot of strength and stamina so don’t feel bad if you can’t manage it! It might be easier if you pin her against the wall while you do this (which is hot in of itself).
Obviously doggy is great if she’s into it, and I think it’s pretty hard to screw up. I think it’s generally a safe bet, but ONLY doing it can be pretty boring, and sometimes it’s hard to look back and I think eye contact makes things a little more intense.
Want to know what I think is hot? Fucking her against the counter in the bathroom where the both of you can see your reflections. I’ve only done this once, actually, but it was an experience I will NEVER forget. Seriously, go for it! Just don’t feel like you have to limit yourself to pre-set positions. Try new things out!
Changing up the scenery is really fun, I think. If all you’re ever doing with your girl is fucking her on the bed, sorry, it’s going to get old. Counters, tables, bouncing her on your lap while you sit on the couch, even the floor! Shower sex can be hot if you’re VERY careful. Get one of those shower handles (or two) so you can both grip on and reduce the possibility of falls. If you can find a secluded spot, fuck outside.
Ask her what her fantasies are, tell her what yours are. What one person might be into can be so different from someone else. Talk about it beforehand. Discuss limits, ESPECIALLY if you’re doing anything kinky. Talk about it during sex itself, let her know you love hearing how she likes it and what she wants to do next. Always pay attention to facial reactions. If she doesn’t like something, chances are her face will show it. Whisper filthy things in her ear. Some women won’t like it. Again, pay attention to her facial reactions! Other women will tremble with desire from it. Really, the number one sex tip is communication! And if you cum before her, that’s fine! Ask her if she’d like it if you fingered her or went down on her. I dated a guy who didn’t last all that long, honestly, but he could still get me off and I really appreciated it. If she doesn’t want it, that’s fine, too. If she really can’t cum from penetration, rub her pussy while you fuck her or let her use a vibe. Even if she can cum from penetration, these things still feel nice.
In summary, change it up! Put effort in! And always, ALWAYS, remember that communication is key.
I’m Dolly, and I’m a cam-girl turned porn princess living in Bay Area who’s particularly into power-exchange as a sub-leaning switch exhibitionist (sorry for the mouth-full). In my free time I like to game, read, and eat–both food and women. I frequently model for fetishpros.com.
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The shameless expression of sexuality and the act itself has been, for many places and eras throughout history, deemed as a forbidden fruit. And while admittedly, that can be part of its charm, (like all things that are considered naughty) I truly do love it best when it is an outspoken subject. Even though not everyone can relate to loving sex, or to finding power in it, there’s almost nothing more enlightening to me than “breaking through” the barriers inside myself; the ones that were created by the society in which I grew up in; to find peace and normality in its subject. And with that, to find artistic beauty and euphoria in your own body and in your pleasure, as well as in the body and pleasure of other people. Because after all, not everyone is cut out for reserving their sex life to a shadowy, private bedroom where only one pair of eyes will ever get to see what you have to offer. If that’s your cup of tea, great. But for others, that is like fitting squares into circles.
I would say that I’ve had quite a lot of sex for my age, and have definitely been fortunate with my partners in that department. I look back at my past and present sexual experiences with a vast amount of fascination. The alchemy that I create with my partner is often the marque of the relationship. It’s not the foundation, but it has always been the cherry on top. Sex is awesome. I feel a great deal of empathy for it, especially when it is expressed artistically. It fills your brain with natural chemicals that demand for you to block out the world and concentrate on chasing desire until it surrenders. Or it can just be plain beautiful. You can have a bad relationship, but you can never have bad consensual sex. I – for one – would never want to allow that.
My First Time
It was two months before my sweet sixteen. As the moment ensued, I remember knowing that I was confident and ready. It was not my first opportunity, but it was the one I felt most ready for. It was a relinquishment of sorts, not planned and yet not exactly freely given either. I just knew that I wanted it to happen, very much. Recalling his facial expression upon feeling how narrow my hymen was around him is my favorite part of the whole thing. Yet I almost laugh now thinking about how awkwardly I had performed – in a way that definitely made my inexperience obvious, of course. But I had been looking forward to it, ever since I knew what sex was. One detail in following through with its action I want to mention is that it was intentionally done as a one night stand. I know him somewhat, but there are and never were any strings. The reason for this is because I feared the thought of someone thinking that they owned my heart and my life just because they had popped my cherry. I didn’t want to be thought of as being sexually meek and easily stuck-on, but someone who was confident in themselves. And that if someone wanted a relationship with me, it would be because they wanted me for who I was, not because my sexuality had only belonged to them. That was an important point that I went out of my way to make for myself. It was not a point to be promiscuous all the time, because I never really was. Simply put, it would allow me to seek out something more emotional afterwards without having that fear. It was the right decision for me; not right for everyone.
I remember that it hurt to an extent despite the gentleness, and that it was obvious that I didn’t quite know how to move or please him – at least, no where near pornstar level. My hymen area and inner muscles felt so numb that there were times I wasn’t sure if he was even inside (but don’t get me wrong, his size was considerable). It mostly felt like an enormous amount of pressure which left me breathless and excited. No regrets there, except for one – that I can’t have it happen again!
Then after a parting hug, I immediately experienced a really strange feeling. The anxiety that had been within me was enveloped by a calm atmosphere in the room. I felt powerful and in control. Content. Like there was a giant weight lifted off my shoulders, or a huge amount of knowledge that I had inevitably discovered and was letting settle. It’s difficult to put a finger as to why that happened, but it was mesmerizing.
With Experience And Practice…
This is obvious, but it becomes more and more fun as my skills are honed. Different partners liked different positions, among other things, so with experience I was able to offer a few surprise moves that were pleasantly received. I became more able to make suggestions that my partner might not have ever tried if not for my involvement, such as anal. That is the number one thing that distinguishes myself from how I was then to now. The versatility of the performance, made possible by the knowledge collected from previous experiences.
When it comes to more intimate situations, one would think that I would have it all down and be completely fearless. Sometimes I am, but truth be told with each new partner a bashfulness is reborn – until that person becomes my boyfriend. Or not. I guess it comes with the territory of being more physically inclined than emotionally inclined. My current partner, however, has been able to work some kind of magic on me and has made me much more of an emotional person. This has allowed for a more affectionate kind of sex, with small but powerful bursts of the roughness that I’m used to. So while I have been softened up around the edges, he still makes sure that the sex remains raw and exciting. So even though I thought that I was the one who was going to rock his world and bring him something he never experienced before, maybe the tables got turned on me – and now I am the one who is learning something new.
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I’ve always been curious sexually since I was young, first started playing with myself at 8 and had sex for the first time when I was 14. I have always been surrounded by sex early on watching movies, TV, books and porn. Sex has always come natural to me but I’m always learning new and exciting things about sex and what turns me on. I’ve always been comfortable with my own body, and when you’re comfortable with yourself naked, it creates for better sex.
A Memorable Sexual Experience
Well where do I start? There are so many, where do I start! I would have to say the most memorable sexual experience would have to be when I squirted for the time all over my boyfriend. I was 19 years old and dating a more experience guy who was 25-year-old. It was the first time, that I have choked and pushed and gagged. I never knew that those would be pleasurable for me. He was fingering me while choking me, and all of sudden I squirted all over place. I was so embarrassed, all over the face that I didn’t know if I peed or not haha.
My Fingering Preferences
It’s really difficult to find a guy that can properly figure me, better than I can. My preferences are 2 to 4 fingers deep, hard and fast. His fingers are slightly hooked to hit my g-spot. The harder the better for me, with a little bit of slapping of my pussy. It never fails if a guy does it properly, and I will squirt everywhere.
Favorite Positions To Be Fingered
I’m old fashioned and like to lay down or sit down with my legs spread apart. For me fingering should be pleasurable and relaxing, no need to do anything special so close your eyes and enjoy it. In my experience being fingered in different positions, you tend to be more tense and less in the moment.
When Will He Know You Are Close?
Oh he will know haha. I’m a screamer but when I’m close to or achieving an orgasm, I moan ever so lightly and my whole body feels like I’m on vibrate mode.
Kinky Places I’ve Been Fingered
I’ve been fingered in some crazy places, I don’t know if anyone else thinks they are kinky but they are pretty wild. My number one would have to be Central Park, followed by the thanksgiving table with my family, out to dinner with my ex-boyfriends parents, bars, and in the movie theatre.
Common Mistakes Guys Make
I would have say the number 1 mistake guys make a lot is using not enough fingers. I just don’t get pleasured by 1 finger going slow inside me. They should never stop after 30 secs of fingering you, especially if you are in a public place where having sex is out of the question.
I’m a 22 year old, recently started cam modeling a few months ago on myfreecams. Outside of camming, I’m finishing my masters in media studies, part time professional ballerina, and drawing. Love to try new exciting things sexually, life, food, and talking/meeting new people. Follow me on Twitter@farfromrest1 and MyFreeCamswww.mfc.im/Farfromrest.
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I have always loved sex. I think it’s a great sensual experience to share with another person and is also a great way to make both people feel good. To be honest, before I started camming I would always be awkward about talking about sex or porn though, kind of like that giddy high school girl kind of vibe you know? But when one of my past relationships ended, I decided to try camming on MFC. The guy was overly sexual and always mentioned he loved porn (although I never watched it with him) and I just thought, well sex for money seems like an interesting endeavor so why not try it.
It opened my eyes to how many ways people can express their selves sexually. After starting I have just been so much more open to sex and talking about it. I even joined fetlife to connect with kinksters to further my endeavor into how different sex can be for others. I found some interesting and some not so interesting people but they all had their different kinks and ways they liked to have sex and I respect them for how different they are. Overall I love sex and how you can connect with someone on a whole different level if you know how the other person works and what turns them on, you can just make each other very happy.
Common Fetish Request
Simply put, feet. Everyone wants to see my feet, a lot of cam girls will say the same thing as well. In the camgirldaily group which I am a part of, we talk about all the fetishes we come across on our sessions and feet has been the most common.
I don’t think any fetish is weird, I think that they are unique. Everyone has something that makes them turned on, so why not embrace it. But if I had to choose, I would choose watersports, when people piss on each other. I don’t like being dirty so maybe it’s the germaphobe in me though lol.
My Favorite Fetishes
I’m a pretty big fan of bondage, be it ropes or just cuffs that attach to each other. I just like being tied up. Recently though, I’ve found tying up guys is also something I enjoy, and even more so I found I actually kind of like feminizing guys. Currently the person I am with enjoys when I feminize him. At first I thought it was a little odd but after months of talking about it and actually trying it out, I love the fact that I can make him wear a thong in public and no one knows about it but we will both be turned on.
Sure I bet some people think it’s weird that I like to put a wig on him and call him a sissy slut but his look of humiliation makes it all the more better when you know you have control of when he can cum or do anything else. I also enjoy pegging, although before this year I used to deny ever liking it but then I started to think about it a bit more this year and realized I really loved putting a strap-on on and fucking a guy in the ass. It is odd to put on a strap-on and basically have a fake dick to fuck a guy with but it gives me another sense of control over them and usually they like the feeling of not being in control.
A lot of guys won’t admit it but ass play is very stimulating for them and pegging is just a fun way to play. Other than feminizing and pegging guys and being tied up I also like when guys take complete control, that can be a fetish right? I mean nowadays there are so many. But I love when they know how to make me feel good and just make me sit back and tell me I have no choice but to take it. Maybe I have more fetishes that I’m not aware of but that’s the point of trying new things and I can’t wait to find out what else turns me on.
Complimenting Fetish Into My Sex Life
I’ve only recently been complimenting the fetish in my life. Before this year I would just tell guys I like rough sex and being tied up. Rarely did they tie me up but the sex was rough but sometimes not in a good way, sometimes too rough of sex hurts. But now I have someone who is probably just as kinky as me and loves trying new things as well, so whenever we have a chance we see if a new fetish may turn us on. I guess you could say he brings out the best in me and if he didn’t come around I kind of doubt I would be so open about my kinks with someone else.
Hi guys, my name is Lyla Lee and I’m a 22 year old part time cam girl and full time engineer. I’ve only been camming for half a year now and it’s been a hell of an experience. I love both of my jobs and I especially love how different they are and how they let me meet such unique people. When I’m not working though I love playing videogames and watching anime. My favorite videogame of all time is Legend of Zelda Orcarina of time (I have a replica of the orcarina and no I’m not ashamed) and my favorite anime is One Piece. It’s always good to have a productive hobby right? Overall I’m just a nerdy girl who loves nerdy things! Follow me on Twitterhttps://twitter.com/NerdyGamerxD1 and Fetlifehttps://fetlife.com/users/4986906.
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If I could summarize my personal belief on sex and masturbation in one word, it would be – healthy. It’s healthy to practice self love and spoiling your own body with pleasure. It’s a way of connecting to ones’ self, and it feels damn good! Sex is a bit trickier. As humans, we ruin a lot of things with irrelevant emotions (not all emotion), and/or ego. Sex is a beautiful celebration of two bodies connecting. Whether it be for eternity, or just for the night. Enjoy sex, but BE SAFE!!
My First Masturbation
The first time I really remember the sensation of an orgasm or “edging”, I was 7 years old. I have earlier recollections of touching myself, but cannot recall the feeling vividly. It felt sweet. That’s how I describe it to this day. It was the sweetest tasting sensation.
What Makes Me Horny
I get turned on by different things, some of which aren’t even sexual. Take food play in sex for instance: licking whipped cream off of your partners body, trailing chocolate sauce over them just so your tongue can slowly follow the contours. You’re involving other senses. So anything that stimulates me in a way that feels more intense, I can become sexually aroused. I hope this made sense.
First Sex Toy Experience
I was 20 years old when I bought my first sexy toy. I went to Spencer’s Gifts with my boyfriend [at the time] and purchased a neon pink bullet vibrator to make our play time more intense. I couldn’t wait to get home to try it out, so once we were in the car, I slid my panties off and teased myself in the passenger seat the entire way home. Suffice it to say, my boyfriend was fighting the urge to ravage me right then and there. This changed my sex life forever. I don’t always use toys during sex or masturbation, but it’s always a nice option to really enhance the sexual experience.
Toys Are Amazing
Fingers are nice, but sometimes you want more. That’s why toys are such an amazing addition. Sometimes I want to be mildly stimulated just to tease myself, so I’ll go with my fingers and a bullet vibrator. Other times, I crave penetration and I’ll reach for a dildo. My favorite is the Icicles No.2 Hand Blown Glass Massager.
How To Get That Orgasm!
There are times I find it difficult to achieve orgasm during masturbation and sex. Honestly as women, a lot of our ability to orgasm is mental. We have to be clear minded and really in the moment. I masturbate when I feel most comfortable and calm. I take my time to explore and tease myself. It’s also important to share a bit of foreplay with your partner before diving into bed.
Call me Mae. I’m a 23 year old CamModel with just a little over half a year of broadcasting experience. I’m an open minded individual who considers herself to be a student of life. Always welcoming new and exciting experiences. Find me via the links below to stay up to date on my future endeavors!
Hey there! I’m Bambi, a 19 year old CamGirl living in the U.S.A. I have been camming for almost a year now and it has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I grew up in a small town and later a small city in the NW United States. I love to read, garden, and listen to “old” music (my favorite musician of all time is David Bowie, seriously, I have an obsession). I played the clarinet semi-professionally in a junior symphony as a young adult, overall I have played the clarinet for almost 10 years now. I have also spent time as a costume designer at my local college theater and held a good amount of “vanilla” jobs in my short life time. I live in an apartment in a quirky part of town with my two cats, and future husband.
My personal views and experiences toward sex were fairly negative growing up. My family was extremely conservative as most families are in my area. They never gave me any details about what sex was when I was growing up, except that it was forbidden until marriage. Any LGBT sexualities were shunned or just flat out ignored and my discomfort toward anything intimate was extreme for most of my life. When I turned 16, I became very aware of my pan-sexuality, unfortunately this came about as my parents were divorcing. Normally their reaction would have been to ignore the problem, but with the added stress my mother lashed out telling me to “just be normal.” Luckily being the person I am, I ignored her completely.
No one not even my mother will stand in the way of me being the person that I am. I love my family but this was the time I started to experiment with the idea of sexuality even though it was against their wishes. I do not regret this, in fact I am thankful I didn’t just listen to my mother, I have become the person I have always strived to be because of it. Even now I struggle with the ideas that were pushed on me as a kid, but camming has helped me break through so many of those barriers. I have become a healthier more accepting person by embracing my sexuality and those of everyone around me.
How I Started Camming
I hated my vanilla job as a cashier with every bone in my body. It payed me next to nothing, even though I was working my ass off. My boyfriend who had experience in the porn industry and recently come across a few camming websites while we were looking into some exhibitionist options, was the first to expose me to the camming world. After watching a few rooms over the next few weeks, he suggested that I might try it out, knowing how much I hated my dead end job. I immediately shot down the idea, stating that I was far too plain and boring for such a thing. He continued to show me examples of the type of people who cam (literally anyone), and I started to warm up to the idea a bit. Finally after much debate and research I decided that I would try it out, even if I made the same as my minimum wage job (which wouldn’t be much of an accomplishment), I would at least be working from home.
The first night was nerve wracking, I nervously arranged our bedroom and applied makeup while Mr. Bambi set up the computer. We had made a run to a local sex shop earlier in the evening to get my very first sex toy, a little red vibrator and some lube. I had never even been in a sex shop before so it was fun to see all the gadgets and gizmos that were on the market. I had chosen our favorite cam site to visit, Chaturbate, to broadcast on that night. Nervously I turned on my crappy little webcam on my laptop and finally started up. Nothing really happened at first but then a flood of people entered my room, I was overwhelmed but definitely enjoying the attention and friendly welcome I received. I immediately made a friend who modded for me for months after my first night and made a little over $100 in 5 hours. I was floored. Not only had the money come in, but it had been SO fun! I had enjoyed every moment of it! The next night I met my Mod that I still have today who goes by RubyRodd, he is a good friend and has been with me every step of the way.
Which Cam Site To Join?
I ended up choosing the one I most liked to watch. Chaturbate had been the first cam site I came across and ended up being the one I stuck with. I enjoy the layout which is one of the cleanest I have found, I also enjoy that you can interact with everyone even if they don’t tip. Chaturbate also has some of my favorite models and has relatively steady traffic. I have broadcasted on CAM4 a few times but I don’t really like it as much as CB which generally has a friendlier community in my experience.
What To Do Inside Chaturbate?
Chatting with me and trying to get to know me goes a long way! Also abiding by my rules that are included in my biography below my cam is a very important aspect to enjoying my room. I really appreciate when people are polite and just try to enjoy my company as well as that of my regulars. We have a lot of fun in my room both sexually and just in general! I love to talk about music/movies/books or anything that might spark conversation. Also tipping when you can is lovely, since this is my job and like everyone else I must pay the bills. Tipping in my room is always rewarded and I try to make it as worth while as possible.
How I Make Money
I make the most by doing private shows and from my regulars who love to spoil me with their love for which I spoil them back. Overall I just goof around and try to bring in viewers by chatting and posing in a way that shows off my best assets (hehe ASSets). The more people in the room that I can connect with the more chance I have of having a good night financially. Although to be honest it isn’t all about the money for me, I am more focused on enjoying my time on cam rather than how much I make, that is what makes it all worth it for me.
Bambi’s Office
Likes And Dislikes About Camming
What I love about camming is the diversity and honesty that is displayed in the community. Any type of person can be a cam model if they are willing to work for it. We are all fairly honest about what we do and do not like and you experience the most intimate part of peoples lives. It is very nonjudgmental and I really enjoy that. I also like how my guests in my room expose me to new things, I have discovered so much about my sexuality this way. The friendships that I have formed are also a big part of what I love about this job, I have met some really amazing people in the last 9-10 months of my time in camming. The potential of growth is also really intriguing, you can expand your “business” in so many ways, from selling videos and pictures to writing and selling erotic stories. Some cam models even vlog on Youtube. So overall I really, really enjoy being a cam model.
The few things I don’t enjoy about camming can be challenging. Society’s outlook on my profession is typically incorrect and riddled with assumptions. So often I can’t tell people what I really do for work due to the fear of them rejecting me completely. My family doesn’t really know what I do for a living, currently they think I am a telemarketer at a local building in my area. I am always wondering what would go on if they found out. I fear they will not understand and shun me from their lives, and even though I know that they very well might I still want to be around them. They are my family of course. So even with the downsides of this job I still enjoy it more than anything I have ever done for work or even as a hobby.
Bambi’s Toys
Common Misconceptions About Camgirls
Common misconceptions people have about CamGirls are that:
1.We make easy money
2.That we are “selling ourselves” and,
3.We lack the intelligence/skills to get a “normal” job.
Honestly these assumptions hurt, and are very untrue. Making money as a CamGirl is very challenging, just like any competitive field we have to constantly be thinking of something to draw people in. I have days that I make a surprising amount and others I make less than $20 which can be pretty disappointing. This is especially true when I know I have bills to pay, just like everyone else.
Secondly we aren’t “selling ourselves” I hate that phrase, we are merely sharing our sexuality with others while we also benefit from it socially, sexually and financially. We make another person’s day better by also making ourselves feel good, so how is that a negative thing? Those who do not want to be there may better fit that phrase but for serious CamGirls who enjoy their job nothing could be further from the truth. One of my fans even described my job title as “Online Fantasy Engineer”. I make their fantasy’s come true in ways they might not experience in reality.
The most disappointing misconception I have come across is that we lack the intelligence/skills to get a “normal” job. I have held many “normal” jobs successfully and enjoyed none of them. During the time I have been employed in these jobs I have been very unhappy, which should not be what you look for in your career especially if it is long term. So in my personal opinion I prefer camming to “normal” jobs and I understand that some people may not share that opinion. I started college 2 years early and preformed classical music semi-professionally when I was younger, which I don’t find to be a indicator of lack of intelligence. Other CamGirls my age have also made amazing achievements both academically and in other impressive areas in their lives that only shows how intelligent they really are. Even if they haven’t that doesn’t mean that anyone should be judged on their intelligence based on their profession. Especially since the profession itself takes someone who is business and tech savvy which do require intelligence.
I am a 19 year old CamGirl (Online Fantasy Engineer) who is live almost every night PST on Chaturbate. In my off time I love to read, listen to “old” music, garden and surf reddit. Don’t hesitate to contact me at lovebambi66@gmail.com!
