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A Pornstar Guide To Facials and Swallowing

Given that my chosen career is a professional sex-haver, my views on sex are very enthusiastic! I view it as a great way to maintain good health and emotional well-being of yourself and your relationship.

My Choice Between Facials And Swallowing

I enjoy the taste of cum, even when it fluctuates I find something enticing and interesting about savoring the flavor of someone’s pleasure. It also doesn’t leave a mess! Although I do really enjoy the slutty feeling of getting a facial and strongly empathize with male pleasure of seeing your semen all over a smiling girl’s face! In off-camera sex I tend to do more swallowing and in on-camera sex there is more of an emphasis on facials when it comes to choosing between the two.

Why Men Love Facials

If I were to stretch my psychoanalysis muscles, it would probably have something to do with unabashed enjoyment of sex and sexual fluids – wanting to rub your body all over the object of your desire is by far the best method of communicating your enjoyment. Most men that have discussed sex and attraction with me, unequivocally desire to be desired as their primary turn on and what better way of signaling that you love everything relating to penis and orgasms, than giddily covering yourself in its fluids!

One Tip To Prepare For A Facial

I smile, stick out my tongue, and try not to get too much of it in my eye!

Make Facials Kinkier!

I do porn and I already think facials are pretty damn kinky! Ubiquitous but still very naughty and scandalous. To up the kink factor, consider having your partner masturbate in front of you with the explicit and singular purpose of ejaculating on your face.

Swallowing Is Not As Bad As It Seems

Flavor can be a major detractor but often women approach oral sex and swallowing with preconceived notions of disgust and that instantly cuts off any opportunity for discovering enjoyment. In fact, blow jobs and swallowing in particular are the first on the list of “doing you a favor” sex acts and when women set up sex as a business transaction for which they are owed, they reduce their own ability to find pleasure in what is supposed to be a mutually enjoyable activity.

Proper diet heavy in raw fruits and vegetables (at least 24 hours before sex) and genital hygiene does wonders! However none of that will make a difference to a woman who has set herself up as doing for someone else a favor and not seeking her own enjoyment.

A Swallowing Etiquette?

Often women report that the times they have had the best sex and felt most fulfilled is when their partner focuses on their own enjoyment instead of fretting about whether or not he is doing every little thing right.

I would say this depends on the type of relationship. If your female partner is one of the rare few who prefers to have a lot of dialogue around sex boundaries and likes/dislikes then by all means engage in the conversation of discovering what does and doesn’t feel good to both of you. If you just met for the first time two hours ago and now find yourselves in bed together, a “warning” in the form of dirty talk or moaning that you’re about to blow is sufficient to give them time to react accordingly without completely ruining the mood (and therefore the woman’s emotional memory of the entire event).

How To Make Every Swallow An Enjoyable Experience

First, make sex be your “play zone”. The time and place to completely let go and practice unconditional approval towards yourself and your partner.

Get out of your own head and empathize with the pleasure of having a happy, caring woman suck you off and love every last bit of it so much that she doesn’t let a drop escape. Think of sex as an extension of the golden rule, behave towards others how you want to be treated. Be the change you want to see in the world!

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Anna Cherry – Independent pornstar and camgirl, freelance writer, cosplayer, and avid gamer.

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December 27, 2015
A Camgirls’ Take on Masturbation and Orgasms

I personally feel like masturbating is a very spiritual thing. We learn our bodies, we feel a sense of passion and self-love. Masturbation has this sort of, taboo on it. Like bringing yourself to orgasm is something to be ashamed of and it’s not. If you know how your body works, figure out what you like, teach yourself how to make your own fireworks and you will be more comfortable with another person in the mix. Less wondering, more knowing when it comes to getting you off.

My First Masturbation Experience

I don’t remember the exact first time I ever masturbated, but it was around 11 or 12 years old when things started up. There was some curiosity from a jet bathtub, a little hand-over-the-panties action with the doors locked. Lots of fear of being caught with my hands down my pants, as my family grew up under the whole ‘masturbation taboo’.

There is one time that sticks out at me from back in the day. I guess I was ‘practicing’ my riding skills on an oversized teddy bear and my mom’s friend walked in. I froze, he froze. We never spoke of it again. I’m pretty sure he never said anything to my mom, because that was over 10 years ago and it has never been mentioned.

My Favorite Sex Toys

My toy box currently consists of a few toys, my favorite being the classic vibrator. It was the first toy I ever bought myself, purple plastic with five god sent speeds. I still use it to this day, he’s my handy dandy travel buddy, and I can always count on a good orgasm. Masturbating with sex toys can be fun, sometimes more intense.

However, at the end of a long day I just need a quick go to before I crash into bed. I also play with a glass mushroom tip dildo that can be warmed or chilled for different sensations. And I own a set of metal jewel tip plugs, but currently only the smallest one gets used (;

What Turns Me On

I used to joke that I was pretty much a light switch stuck in the ‘on’ position. Well I’ve noticed lately that it isn’t much of a joke. I’m very easily turned on, but just as easy to turn off if I’m not feeling it.

When a man smells good, brushes his fingers on my throat, tattoos, muscles, things that pop up on my twitter feed, a sexy voice, lumberjack beards, coils of rope, zip ties, safe words, thinking about the last time I was choked, watching threesome porn, my friend sending me random messages telling me he wants to fuck my brains out or smack my ass so hard its red, spankings, cooking for me, knowing that a man wants me, this list could go on forever because honestly, something new turns me on every day.

That being said, I only masturbate once or twice a week. I don’t want to burn myself out or get carpal tunnel haha. Not to mention, for stress relief! Let it build up and then go pet your kitty. It feels twice as good if it’s been a few days!

Various Techniques I Use

How do I masturbate? Like a checklist through all the tips? I’m not sure anyone can give one of those. For me, it all depends on where the horny hits me! Sometimes I can’t exactly run off to the restroom and rub one out, but I have brought myself to the brink during a psychology lecture. Sexy professor, dim lights, and the seam on my jeans was rubbing just the right way if I rocked back and forth.

Let’s just say I didn’t learn much in Psych 101. When it comes to home though, I usually search a little porn, get myself worked up, pull out my vibrator and take care of my needs. If it’s taking a little longer than expected, I sit up and grind. You really just need to lock the door, take an hour or so and learn your body. What feels good to you? What makes you quiver? How far can you bring yourself?

Courtneycums is your favorite 22 year old camgirl princess who loves to tease and please. Between writing, Netflix, and massive caffeine doses, I make pictures and videos and mail love letters to each amazing connection I’ve made. Visit the links in my profile below to follow me on MyFreeCams (Myfreecams.com/#courtneycams), Twitter (@Courtneycums), Tumblr (Courtneycrush.tumblr.com) and MyGirlFund (Mygirlfund.com/courtneycumsXx)!

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December 19, 2015
Be A Tease And Turn Him On

Sex is awesome, to put it simply. I never really got into my sexuality until just recently, and I thought to myself “I’ve been missing so much this whole time!” I mean, what’s not to love? Between the different positions, outfits and places you can experience this pleasure, there is literally nothing not awesome about anything sexual.

Why I Love Being A Tease

I’ve been known as the tease for as long as I can remember. There’s just something about being flirtatious and sensual that really turns me on, because it’s so hot knowing I have the upper hand.

Teasing turns men on because men are naturally drawn to something they feel like they can’t have. So, when you tease it’s like showing the man that maybe they can have you but maybe they can’t. They’re drawn to this chase.

What I Wear

Honestly, I don’t usually get too dressed up in elaborate lingerie when I striptease for a man. Sometimes I’ll wear a short skirt without underwear and a short crop top that shows underboob, and there are other times where I’ll wear little boyshorts and a loose fitting cami that I can play around with. It’s all about the tease. It’s about playing the game.

Also, I’ve come to find that most guys prefer the “All American Girl” look.

Strip To The Music

Usually, I like to play certain music when I strip. Something that’s fun to dance to, but also sexual.

For example, I love to move to The Weeknd because they produce music that everyone wants to have sex to. I bite my lip a lot and make lots of eye contact, but in the actual strip tease itself, there’s not a lot of dirty talk that actually goes on. Before and after, sure! You know, I make sure I call the guys’ baby or babe before I start dancing though for sure.

Even saying their name if they tell you their name. That’s hot.

Flaunt Your Body!

There’s not really a way you can move that won’t keep a guy interested, as long as you at least know what you’re doing a little bit. I’m personally known for having a great butt, so I flaunt that aspect. I move it, shake it, and slap it.

Guys LOVE a girls’ behind… It’s like kryptonite.

My name is Madi and I’m a cam girl on MyFreeCams. I’m 20 years old and a junior in college. I’m a chill girl who likes sports, the beach, and going out on the weekends. Becoming a cam girl is probably the most fun and eye-opening thing I’ve ever done, I love it! Follow me on MyFreeCams (profiles.myfreecams.com/madimoon) and Twitter @missmadimoon!

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December 18, 2015
Why Asking Me How to Be a Sex Worker is Annoying For Me, and Bad for You

We all complain about it on a regular basis. Yet the questions keeps pouring in. “Tell me how to be a cam girl!” “Tell me how to be a stripper!” “Tell me how to be a full-service sex worker!” While my experience is mostly in “Tell me how to sell my nude photos/masturbation clips!” we all hear all of the above constantly. And now I am here to shine a light on why it’s not only terribly annoying for us, but also why asking us is pointless for you, and a waste of both of our time.

The first thing people need to understand is that no two sex workers have the same experience. None. Just because I make as much doing sex work as I do at my vanilla job doesn’t mean you will. Just because I can balance sex work, a vanilla job, and going to a university doesn’t mean you’ll be able to. Just because I’ve branched out my sex work into several different directions doesn’t mean you will. There’s nothing wrong with you if you don’t do the same things I do, or make as much as I do, but you do need to understand that you and I aren’t going to have the same experience, and that’s a crucial aspect of being a sex worker.

Asking me how much I make in an average month is not just rude—it’s useless information. It will in no way determine how much you will make and it’s kind of a ridiculous question. There is no “average” for me. I make as much as people spend. This isn’t a vanilla job, and I’m not guaranteed to make anything at all. Please consider how it feels to be at the other end of the computer screen with someone asking you for your income for the previous two years. Please consider how rude that is. I know it’s not always intentionally rude, but that tone will always exist, regardless.

Another thing people need to understand is that just taking my niche and trying to market it not only makes you come off as someone who can’t be creative by yourself, but it’s very unlikely you’re going to make sales that way. I had someone come to me talking about how they want to use “Kvlt” in their model name, and I was blown away. To me, that just screams “I’m taking what you’ve already built and am going to remarket that because I believe it will get me more sales.” And I can guarantee you: stealing concepts/niches from other sex workers will not earn you instant success, and in fact, will make people a lot less likely to buy from you. Why would someone want to buy from someone who just steals ideas from the original creator of those ideas?

The same goes with content ideas. You wouldn’t believe how many times I’ve put a set or video up for sale, only to see another sex worker, or sometimes multiple sex workers, put up the same exact thing. Even if the content itself isn’t that original, to put up the same thing an hour or two after another sex worker, once again, is not the way to go about this business. Be creative! It’s unlikely you’ll make very many sales on ideas stolen from other people.

And perhaps even worse than all of that, the dreaded question, “How do I get started?” I’ve seen this question rise more and more the more I’ve been on Tumblr and every time, it baffles me. No one coached me into sex work. I figured out everything by myself, made mistakes, did everything on my own. I would say “use Google,” but even that shouldn’t be necessary. In the two years of being a sex worker, I’ve never Googled how to do anything. Everything I’ve done, I’ve figured out by myself and I think that I’m doing fairly well considering. Honestly, if you need someone to coach you into how to be a sex worker, this is not the industry for you. Especially working independently. If you won’t take the time to figure out the ins and outs of this industry, then you definitely aren’t going to take the time necessary to be successful in this industry. It may sound harsh, but it’s the truth.

I’ve seen so many girls come into sex work and fade away just as quickly. They’re the kind of people who put up one video, never advertise, and wait for the money to roll in, and that’s just not going to work. When people send their laundry list of questions about becoming a sex worker, it’s usually also met with the final sentence, “I’m hoping to make money really quick.” Well, you’re probably not going to make money really quick. Newbies in the sex industry really need to get that idea out of their heads asap, or they’re very likely to be disappointed.

Similarly, I’ve received questions like “I’ve been doing sex work for about a month now, and I’m so upset because no one’s buying anything!” Sex work is not an industry of instant success and if no one’s buying anything after a month, that doesn’t mean you suck as a sex worker. It means you’re in an industry where people aren’t always going to buy your content, and that’s just a fact. If you drop out a month in because no one has bought anything, you probably weren’t going to make it very long in sex work, anyway. And there’s of course the questions that need to be asked: Have you even advertised your content at all? Just posting it once on Tumblr and then nothing else isn’t really advertising. Please keep that in mind.

There’s also the new sex workers who ask me for a list of where I’ve gotten every article of clothing I’ve worn in all the content I’ve sold. Please don’t just wear the same things other sex workers wear. While I understand some of us are going to wear the same lingerie sometimes and that’s fine, purposefully trying to sell content in the same things I wear after asking me for a list of where I got everything is just lazy. Look for original stuff yourself. Please.

What this really boils down to is that a lot of new sex workers want those of us who have been doing this for a while to hold their hands down the path of selling sex. Well, most of us aren’t going to do that. And if someone does, it’s unlikely their advice will help you, and in fact, their advice is more likely to damage your future career. Figure it out on your own. For the sake of us, and for the sake of yourself, figure it out on your own.

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February 25, 2015
Tech Talks – 3 Tips to get started as a Cam Girl

This article may seem a bit more orientated to those who Cam often or are looking to cam more often but the essentials of setting up a room for your photos makes all public photos for you better as well as your selfies for your private or public life.

Tip 1 – Lighting

Lighting Is the essential part of your set up, once you find your comfortable position, you must adjust your lighting. Professional lights are not necessary, a nice light stand with multiple lights will offer you the best type of lighting. You can also shoot in natural light, which depending on your theme, may be what you want. However, do remember how your photos will look depending on the weather, but we’ll discuss natural vs lamp light at a later time.

Chart A

As shown in chart A, your lighting setup should be almost the same depending on how you are shooting, dim light and other techniques get more complicated but will become easier as we go along. This stance is very neutral and more often used for camgirls, but for getting started in photos and videos, this is a good place to start as you branch out.

Tip 2 – Background

After lighting, lets look at background. Consider yourself and whoever else in the foreground. If you’re looking for a more uniform shoot, then you should stick to the solid colours in your shoot room or location. It is a good idea to avoid yellow because it often has a nauseating effect on people. While colours do have an importance, so too are your decorations. If you are camming, it may be a good idea to get a chair or something to rest your butt on, and this also applies to any photos or videos taken while you are sitting down. Blankets, dividers, pillows, and fake or real plants can all be tied in the photoshoot or video. Never forget how important your body is for the main decoration. What you have decorated your body with should fit your other decorations, or you can work with classing. For someone with lots of black Gothic style tattoos who wants a frilly pink background and decor, no one will ever say you’re wrong. If you have no body decorations, just insure your lighting is not overpowering your skin and over flushing your decorations. Lightening your skin with light is also an option. Different colours of light and types will have different effects so never fear fiddling around with light and learning what you like best.

Tip 3 – Posing

Once your room is set up and you are the center of all your photos or videos, next comes your posing, now everyone’s aspect will cause them to pose differently and there are no guaranteed positions that will have you 100% perfect. A general rule of thumb is if the camera is below your face and you’re looking down at it, this gives the viewer a submissive view to you, while the camera looking down on you gives you the submissive view. Positions will be looked at in depth later. Again positions and lighting will be very much the same

When it all comes down to it, your shoot room isn’t what markets you but your personality and who you play to be, whether it be a Lovely Little or a Towering Dominatrix. Do what makes you comfortable, and again, these are just the basics and I’ll be willing to answer any and all questions and comments.

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January 2, 2015
How Doing Porn Cured My Shyness

Remember back at school there was always that one kid who had really messy hair, spent all her time in the library and was always a bit of a social outcast? Hello! That was me! I had my fringe covering up most of my face, braces, super thick glasses and my best friend was a cake. When I look back at my school photos, I can certainly say that I was an ugly duckling. I found it insanely hard to talk to people and I’d always void any awkward social interactions.

My family moved from the south of the UK to the north and that’s when things started to change. I decided I didn’t want to be part of the background anymore. I joined a volleyball club and during weekends, my family would go swimming together. I also started to watch what I ate with a bit more vigilance. It was tough but after shedding most of my puppy fat, getting my braces removed and having a haircut, I finally felt confident to say hello to the girl sitting next to me in my maths class.

How I looked before and after:

I made some really good friends by my final years in high school and felt confident enough to begin wearing skirts and dress in a more feminine way. However, I still wasn’t sure if I was doing it right. My mum would keep telling me how pretty I was getting but who believes it when their mum tells them that? This was also around the time I discovered Reddit; mostly to talk to people about comics and video games. Reddit is a sort of sharing platform/forum/everything-internet-sort of website, and it’s huge in the geek community.

My best friend was a big redditor and convinced me to post a picture up on “Asians next door”, a sub-reddit dedicated to homely Asian girls (as opposed to the super model kind.) I was really nervous taking that first photo, however the response I received was so positive and unexpected. People really liked my photo. I was getting compliments from random internet strangers, saying that they liked my face! I’d never gotten that kind of attention before and I felt on top of the world. For the next couple of months, I posted more pictures and it became really fun to check out people’s reactions.

My favourite part was replying to comments, saying thank yous and getting to know everyone. Some people would comment on all my posts and I felt like I’d made some really cool friends. It was also weird because we’d have conversations that spanned a couple of days due to the forum style’s comments. At some point, a fan suggested that I try webcam modeling. I’d never even heard of it before, terms such as camgirl were totally alien to me and I was a little bit apprehensive about what I would be doing. It seemed like a big jump to go from posting photos of myself to doing camshows, which seemed to revolve entirely around sex.

Camming didn’t turn out to be like that though, at least, not for me. I decided to just be myself and see what happens. It was just a step up, so now I could talk to people in real time. I was so nervous the first time and I had no idea what I should be doing or saying. I was thinking how should I be sexy? How should I pose? But I didn’t have to. I was just being my dorky and clumsy self.

People seemed to really like me. I did a dance, which I called a panty dance since I was in my underwear. It wasn’t sexy, no poles were involved, but I did manage to do the running man! Everyone was laughing, but they weren’t laughing at me, they were laughing with me. Honestly. I still can’t believe it sometimes. I come online, I talk about my day and see what everyone else has been up to. We talk about movies and books and games. I do get naked and do naughtier stuff, but that feels like a natural progression. Like a date. You get to know fans on cam so intimately.

I’m having fun and it’s such a thrill to flash my boobs or wiggle my bum. I’d never thought people would even want to see that! I still get nervous every night before my shows, but I know I have friends waiting for me. I’d noticed some girls who have also sold adult videos to their fans. I thought, why not me? It’s not so different from posting photos. But I wanted to do something more personal than regular porn. I felt like it had to be more personal because sex is really personal. I decided to start filming my sex life and making videos that excite me. It’s very different to the organized professional porn videos most people are familiar with. I only ever filmed with my real friends that I really care about, and trust (who also trust me with a video camera).

Eventually, I even put all this on my own website. It’s very simple because I’m terrible with technology yet it works and it’s fun being creative and trying to do everything myself. I write a blog and share my life in words, pictures and video with my growing set of fans. The whole thing feels empowering. I am my own boss and it seems like I get paid for just living my life the way I would anyway.

I’m only a teenager and so I am still exploring and learning about my sexuality. I’m still pretty new to dating and my website and career have really helped me explore this side of myself. I find it therapeutic. My fans and I are always sharing tips on how to improve one’s love life. Some people have told me they don’t know how to categorize my work. Is it professional porn, is it amateur, am I just an out of control camgirl? The truth is, it’s just me. A girl who was super shy at school who managed to find herself and become a fulfilled, more confident person thanks to the internet, camming and making her own porn.

This is my first article for SimplySxy. If readers like it and are interested in my perspectives on love, sexuality, porn and femininity, I will be look forwarding to getting to know readers better and explore some juicy topics over the next few months. Please feel free to ask me questions in the comments section. What I love most about the internet is the two-way nature of media.

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