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The Life Of A Camgirl

Hey there! I’m Bambi, a 19 year old CamGirl living in the U.S.A. I have been camming for almost a year now and it has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. I grew up in a small town and later a small city in the NW United States. I love to read, garden, and listen to “old” music (my favorite musician of all time is David Bowie, seriously, I have an obsession). I played the clarinet semi-professionally in a junior symphony as a young adult, overall I have played the clarinet for almost 10 years now. I have also spent time as a costume designer at my local college theater and held a good amount of “vanilla” jobs in my short life time. I live in an apartment in a quirky part of town with my two cats, and future husband.

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My personal views and experiences toward sex were fairly negative growing up. My family was extremely conservative as most families are in my area. They never gave me any details about what sex was when I was growing up, except that it was forbidden until marriage. Any LGBT sexualities were shunned or just flat out ignored and my discomfort toward anything intimate was extreme for most of my life. When I turned 16, I became very aware of my pan-sexuality, unfortunately this came about as my parents were divorcing. Normally their reaction would have been to ignore the problem, but with the added stress my mother lashed out telling me to “just be normal.” Luckily being the person I am, I ignored her completely.

No one not even my mother will stand in the way of me being the person that I am. I love my family but this was the time I started to experiment with the idea of sexuality even though it was against their wishes. I do not regret this, in fact I am thankful I didn’t just listen to my mother, I have become the person I have always strived to be because of it. Even now I struggle with the ideas that were pushed on me as a kid, but camming has helped me break through so many of those barriers. I have become a healthier more accepting person by embracing my sexuality and those of everyone around me.

How I Started Camming

I hated my vanilla job as a cashier with every bone in my body. It payed me next to nothing, even though I was working my ass off. My boyfriend who had experience in the porn industry and recently come across a few camming websites while we were looking into some exhibitionist options, was the first to expose me to the camming world. After watching a few rooms over the next few weeks, he suggested that I might try it out, knowing how much I hated my dead end job. I immediately shot down the idea, stating that I was far too plain and boring for such a thing. He continued to show me examples of the type of people who cam (literally anyone), and I started to warm up to the idea a bit. Finally after much debate and research I decided that I would try it out, even if I made the same as my minimum wage job (which wouldn’t be much of an accomplishment), I would at least be working from home.

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The first night was nerve wracking, I nervously arranged our bedroom and applied makeup while Mr. Bambi set up the computer. We had made a run to a local sex shop earlier in the evening to get my very first sex toy, a little red vibrator and some lube. I had never even been in a sex shop before so it was fun to see all the gadgets and gizmos that were on the market. I had chosen our favorite cam site to visit, Chaturbate, to broadcast on that night. Nervously I turned on my crappy little webcam on my laptop and finally started up. Nothing really happened at first but then a flood of people entered my room, I was overwhelmed but definitely enjoying the attention and friendly welcome I received. I immediately made a friend who modded for me for months after my first night and made a little over $100 in 5 hours. I was floored. Not only had the money come in, but it had been SO fun! I had enjoyed every moment of it! The next night I met my Mod that I still have today who goes by RubyRodd, he is a good friend and has been with me every step of the way.

Which Cam Site To Join?

I ended up choosing the one I most liked to watch. Chaturbate had been the first cam site I came across and ended up being the one I stuck with. I enjoy the layout which is one of the cleanest I have found, I also enjoy that you can interact with everyone even if they don’t tip. Chaturbate also has some of my favorite models and has relatively steady traffic. I have broadcasted on CAM4 a few times but I don’t really like it as much as CB which generally has a friendlier community in my experience.

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What To Do Inside Chaturbate?

Chatting with me and trying to get to know me goes a long way! Also abiding by my rules that are included in my biography below my cam is a very important aspect to enjoying my room. I really appreciate when people are polite and just try to enjoy my company as well as that of my regulars. We have a lot of fun in my room both sexually and just in general! I love to talk about music/movies/books or anything that might spark conversation. Also tipping when you can is lovely, since this is my job and like everyone else I must pay the bills. Tipping in my room is always rewarded and I try to make it as worth while as possible.

How I Make Money

I make the most by doing private shows and from my regulars who love to spoil me with their love for which I spoil them back. Overall I just goof around and try to bring in viewers by chatting and posing in a way that shows off my best assets (hehe ASSets). The more people in the room that I can connect with the more chance I have of having a good night financially. Although to be honest it isn’t all about the money for me, I am more focused on enjoying my time on cam rather than how much I make, that is what makes it all worth it for me.

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Likes And Dislikes About Camming

What I love about camming is the diversity and honesty that is displayed in the community. Any type of person can be a cam model if they are willing to work for it. We are all fairly honest about what we do and do not like and you experience the most intimate part of peoples lives. It is very nonjudgmental and I really enjoy that. I also like how my guests in my room expose me to new things, I have discovered so much about my sexuality this way. The friendships that I have formed are also a big part of what I love about this job, I have met some really amazing people in the last 9-10 months of my time in camming. The potential of growth is also really intriguing, you can expand your “business” in so many ways, from selling videos and pictures to writing and selling erotic stories. Some cam models even vlog on Youtube. So overall I really, really enjoy being a cam model.

The few things I don’t enjoy about camming can be challenging. Society’s outlook on my profession is typically incorrect and riddled with assumptions. So often I can’t tell people what I really do for work due to the fear of them rejecting me completely. My family doesn’t really know what I do for a living, currently they think I am a telemarketer at a local building in my area. I am always wondering what would go on if they found out. I fear they will not understand and shun me from their lives, and even though I know that they very well might I still want to be around them. They are my family of course. So even with the downsides of this job I still enjoy it more than anything I have ever done for work or even as a hobby.

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Bambi’s Toys

Common Misconceptions About Camgirls

Common misconceptions people have about CamGirls are that:

1.We make easy money

2.That we are “selling ourselves” and,

3.We lack the intelligence/skills to get a “normal” job.

Honestly these assumptions hurt, and are very untrue. Making money as a CamGirl is very challenging, just like any competitive field we have to constantly be thinking of something to draw people in. I have days that I make a surprising amount and others I make less than $20 which can be pretty disappointing. This is especially true when I know I have bills to pay, just like everyone else.

Secondly we aren’t “selling ourselves” I hate that phrase, we are merely sharing our sexuality with others while we also benefit from it socially, sexually and financially. We make another person’s day better by also making ourselves feel good, so how is that a negative thing? Those who do not want to be there may better fit that phrase but for serious CamGirls who enjoy their job nothing could be further from the truth. One of my fans even described my job title as “Online Fantasy Engineer”. I make their fantasy’s come true in ways they might not experience in reality.

The most disappointing misconception I have come across is that we lack the intelligence/skills to get a “normal” job. I have held many “normal” jobs successfully and enjoyed none of them. During the time I have been employed in these jobs I have been very unhappy, which should not be what you look for in your career especially if it is long term. So in my personal opinion I prefer camming to “normal” jobs and I understand that some people may not share that opinion. I started college 2 years early and preformed classical music semi-professionally when I was younger, which I don’t find to be a indicator of lack of intelligence. Other CamGirls my age have also made amazing achievements both academically and in other impressive areas in their lives that only shows how intelligent they really are. Even if they haven’t that doesn’t mean that anyone should be judged on their intelligence based on their profession. Especially since the profession itself takes someone who is business and tech savvy which do require intelligence.


I am a 19 year old CamGirl (Online Fantasy Engineer) who is live almost every night PST on Chaturbate. In my off time I love to read, listen to “old” music, garden and surf reddit. Don’t hesitate to contact me at lovebambi66@gmail.com!

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E-mail: lovebambi66@gmail.com


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Bambi

I am a 19 year old CamGirl (Online Fantasy Engineer) who is live almost every night PST on Chaturbate. In my off time I love to read, listen to “old” music, garden and surf reddit. Don’t hesitate to contact me at lovebambi66@gmail.com!

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