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  • What Is It Like Being Asexual?

    What Is It Like Being Asexual?

    An asexual is someone who doesn’t experience sexual attraction to any gender.  It’s the same neutral feeling a straight person has towards their own gender; only I have that neutral feeling towards everyone.

    In a way, I always knew.  For the longest time, I considered my lack of sexual attraction a personality quirk rather than an orientation.  I read my first article about asexuality when I was 22; it was less of a sudden revelation and more of a quiet realization.  I openly identified as asexual not long after.

    Common Misconceptions About Asexuals

    The most common is that asexuality is a choice.  Like any other orientation, asexuality is not a choice; abstinence or celibacy is a choice.  It’s who we are and there’s nothing else to it.  An asexual may choose to be celibate, but a celibate person is, by definition, not asexual.

    Another is that we’re heartless or incapable of having a meaningful relationship.  There are many different types of relationships; just because we don’t see our partners as sexually attractive, doesn’t mean we don’t desire an intimate relationship with them.  Everyone experiences asexuality differently; some want to be in relationships and others don’t.  And a successful relationship isn’t inherently dependent on the sexualities of the individuals; it’s dependent on how well you communicate your needs and desires.

    The worst, I believe, is that we haven’t slept with the right person yet.  It’s often stated as a challenge by people who see us as closeted gays (or straights). And they usually follow-up with invasive questions such as: “How do you masturbate?”, “Do you still have sex?”, or “Are you asexual because you were raped?”.  There is no sincerity behind these questions, and it’s frankly none of their business.

    Does It Affect Dating Choices?

    My sexuality doesn’t affect my dating choices or relationships at all.  I did have to explain why I left the dating pool for a while, but it’s not something I feel left out of.  I’d rather spend my time alone then with an intimate partner, and embracing my sexuality had made that easier to accept.

    Asexuality doesn’t change how we seek out relationships.  We look for partners or friends based on shared interests, beliefs, and values; just like everyone else.

    Personal Views Towards Sex

    It’s not something I enjoy or would do again, it’s just awkward and uncomfortable.  Even watching or reading porn was a challenge, I stopped trying a few months in.  Masturbating can be a bit tricky, but I find it much more pleasurable than partnered sex.

    Despite my feelings towards partnered sex, I don’t view sex itself as repulsive or something to be ashamed about. (It would just be contradictory to my work if I did.)  I believe that consenting adults have the right to experiment and engage in safe sex.  If you have sex daily or don’t have sex at all, it’s no matter.  Your body, your choice, right?

    How To Have A Relationship With Asexuals

    I’m going to tell you the secret to having a healthy relationship with an asexual.  Talk. With. Them.  That’s it, that’s all there is.  Just as in any other relationship, you should be discussing what you are and are not comfortable with.  Not every asexual is the same.  Some enjoy sex, some are neutral about it, and others are repulsed by it.  A few are kinkier than I would have guessed.  Discuss what you would like to happen in the bedroom, or what you would like to avoid.  They might prefer to engage in different forms of intimacy.  Or they may be opposed to any form of contact that would be considered sexual.  I recommend reading articles about mixed relationships with asexuals; they offer more advice than I can in this short article.

    And honestly, it may not work out.  While it may be devastating in the short-term, it’ll be much better for both of you in the long run.  Neither of you are wrong for wanting more (or less) from your partner. However, it is wrong to expect your partner to alter their entire personality and/or sexuality for your own benefit.

    Understand Asexuals Better

    Asexuality.org and whatisasexuality.com are great resources for anyone interesting in learning more about asexuality.  Wiki.asexuality.org keeps track of academic journals, interviews, and articles written about or by asexuals.  And some dedicated members of the community have made wonderful infographics and comics explaining the basics of asexuality.  These are excellent resourcing for the curious or the questioning.

    Summer – I started selling my panties by accident thanks to a few resourceful friends.  For about a year, I worked freelance before I decided to switch to an online platform.  It’s been a slow transition, but is certainly better than my previous haphazard methods.  Feel free to follow me on Snapchat as I do exciting things such as: laundry, painting my nails, and watching all 8 Harry Potter movies in one sitting.

    Follow Summer on:

    Site: pantytrust.com/summer
    Tumblr: tumblr.com/blog/summers-wet-for-you
    Snapchat: agreysummer

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  • Satisfy Her Breasts With Sexy Play Tips

    Satisfy Her Breasts With Sexy Play Tips

    Honestly I love sex! I’ve always loved sex from a young age. I saw my first porn at age 6 and after that I wanted to have all the same feelings I saw the girls on TV have: and that was all the time. I began to explore my body at the age 7, masturbating with my teddybears and stealing my brothers’ porn. After the horrid of “popping my cherry” with my middle school boyfriend, I just knew I had to get it right. I was always on the quest to have great sex but I wasn’t even aware of what having an orgasm was until I turned 16.

    When I finally reached high school and I was introduced to the more experienced boys, I figured I had a chance to finally achieve “that feeling” and I did but to a certain extent. I realized the boys were enjoying me more then I was. I soon became attracted to females, my first experience with another female taught me to be sensual and really opened my eyes to pleasure, to the deep dark ward of pleasure. I now vow that every time, I have sex to make it memorable, for my partner and I.

    Importance Of Foreplay

    Extremely, I feel like we both need a warm up before we let the actual games begin. He’s not just going to stand at attention and my flower doesn’t water itself.  Getting an oily full body massage with some sensual body worshipping definitely gets my rivers running. My pierced nipples and my neck are my super spots, you could just breathe down my neck and my panties are sure to be soaked. I love tantalizing my partner with a very seductive strip tease, taking one thing off at a time is sure to get his wheels a churning. Teasing a man before actually touching him heightens his senses; tasting, hearing, seeing smelling and feeling … A lot of deep french kissing, teasing and rubbing before actual intercourse will makes the connection during sex mind-blowing.

    Breast Play Tips

    Take your time and be gentle, please! Ask a woman what she likes before assuming anything. A women’s breasts and nipples are not cow utters so please don’t squeeze like you’re trying to fill your morning bowl of cereal LOL. Nipples are one of the most sensitive spots on the female body so treat it as such. When licking and sucking on nipples, remember, your tongue is the magic maker and your teeth are the enemy, depending on the female.

    Do’s & Don’ts During Breast Play

    Please don’t bite like you’re trying to chew gum unless the young lady asks for it, there’s no bigger turnoff than a severely sore nipple. If she has piercings, do not yank, nipples are ten times more sensitive and one yank too hard might leave a nipple in your hand LOL. Smashing breasts together like a toddler with toy cars is not as comfortable as you think. Refrain from using a lot of extra spit when licking or sucking nipples, save that for further down south LOL.

    Breast Play Tips During Sex

    Play with me while I play with you; I like my breasts being caressed from behind during doggy style, use my breast to pull my body close to yours. When I’m riding, I know my breasts are bouncing uncontrollably so placing them in an open mouth is highly preferred! I love the feeling of a warm tongue on my cold piercings.

    Milan Antoniette – A professional, upscale West Indian companion(escort) for gentlemen or woman looking for a unique sweet and spicy Caribbean oasis experience without the hassle of packing. Passionate, sultry, confident and funny. I’m a determined nursing student,  part time receptionist, babysitter and wig maker, I’m the Jill of all trades. I love reading, traveling and hot naked yoga. My life motto is “ Quality over quantity”.

    Follow Milan Antoniette on:

    Twitter: @Milanantoniette
    Website: www.milanantoniette.com
    Tumblr: MilanAntoniette

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  • Ordering Custom Videos With Used Panties

    Ordering Custom Videos With Used Panties

    Like most fun things that happen in life, my Panty Seller site came about purely by chance. I’ve been Mistressing for some years now and was often being asked by Submissives if, for an additional tribute, they would be able to take away the panties or stockings etc that I had been wearing for our session. (I was even occasionally asked for my shoes or boots!) So, of course, if I felt that the additional tribute was worth my journeying back home from the dungeon minus panties or stockings, I would sometimes oblige!

    Then, one of my regulars suggested I’d be a very popular addition to a Panty-Selling site he used. So I investigated and subsequently launched a profile page on that site (Panty Trust link) . . . and to my surprise I began receiving requests from all over the world almost immediately.

    Two years on and I am still continually adding new items to my page on Panty Trust, but in order to offer a more “personalised” interaction with my used panty lovers, I last year launched my own dedicated “Mistresses Lace” website.

    Why I Love It

    It’s thrilling for me to receive requests for my Panties, Pantyhose, Bras and Lingerie, as well as other personal items such as shoes and used personal toys, straps and paddles . . . and, of course, custom videos which I film exclusively to order.

    I absolutely LOVE sliding on a pair of lacey panties, or tight pantyhose or stockings, that one of my gentlemen has specifically ordered, and wearing them for him for several days, knowing that very soon he will be squeezing himself into those very same items. And, of course, personally feeling and experiencing my dampness and musky scents.

    It’s also wonderfully enjoyable and fulfilling to receive lovely emails expressing thanks and satisfaction, often with photos attached displaying the gentleman wearing my item (with very obvious excitement!!!).

    And also, of course, equally thrilling to receive repeat orders from my regulars.

    Requests For Custom Videos

    I’ve been filming custom fetish Femdom videos for quite some time and am continually surprised and intrigued by the nature, and range, of requests I receive.

    I find it fun, and very often, quite exciting filming a new scenario . . . and usually am able to fulfil most requests I receive.

    As I say, the range of fetishes and desires is huge, from simply putting on and taking off a particular item a gentleman has ordered; to role-playing tease and denial scenes; from just wiggling my naked feet to perhaps painting my toe nails; or walking on a hard-wood panelled floor in stiletto heels; from pulling on my silver elbow-length gloves and slowly straightening the fitting on each finger; from shower and even bathroom scenes . . . and so on.

    My most recent video request was quite memorable in that I was asked for a 15 minute clip smoking one of my large Cuban cigars in a very famous central city park. Being a lovely bright and sunny day, it was crowded with tourists who obviously thought the sight of a lady walking around smoking a huge cigar (with an accompanying camera-man) was quite an unusual sight. It gave me quite a thrill actually.

    So anyway, if you’ve tossed and turned at night dreaming about it then I’ve probably been asked for a custom video of it.

    Making My Panty Smell Good

    I work really hard to fulfil every gentleman’s wish regarding scents and aroma. Some may ask for an extra day or two of wear, some may ask to have them actually damp (very damp in some cases). But I always do my utmost with regard to “special” or “additional” requests!!!

    Most Popular Lingerie & Panty

    I get asked for, and always try to provide, all sorts of different panties, stockings, hose, bra’s, lingerie, socks etc, even if I don’t have a specific item, or colour, listed on my website. (And, as I said earlier, even shoes and used “personal toys”). But the one thing that I have learnt over the past few years of both my Mistressing and Used Panties experiences, is that there is no definite, or most popular, of requests.  As with all things in life, everyone is different . . . and everyone has different desires and fantasies and kinks. That’s what makes it so enjoyable and so much fun!!!

    Mistresses Lace – I am a London housewife (married over 30 years), swinger, hotwife and recently . . . (in my spare-time LOL!!!) . . . a Femdom Mistress. My continually developing “open” lifestyle has given me wonderful fun, enjoyment and fulfilment over the years . . . and I’ve always enjoyed meeting new and different people . . . and trying new and different things. And it’s been more amazing than I ever imagined.

    And over the past few years a number of friends that I have met in those swinging and femdom adventures, began asking me to leave behind my panties, or stockings and tights . . . as souvenirs!!!

    Follow me on:

    Website: http://mistresseslace.com/

    Mistress Modesty Ablaze at PantyTrust: https://www.pantytrust.com/modesty-ablaze.html

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/MistressesLace

    Tumblr: https://mistresseslace.tumblr.com/

    Submit to Mistress Modesty Ablaze FemDomme: http://mistressmodestyablaze.com/

    Fetish Video Clips: http://mistressmodestyablaze.com/MyClips/

    As I mentioned I absolutely LOVE fulfilling Custom Video requests so please feel free to ask from my Contact page at:

    http://mistresseslace.com/contact.html

    Images courtesy of Mistresses Lace

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  • What You Should Know About Lingerie

    What You Should Know About Lingerie

    There’s nothing I feel sexier in! It’s something that can feel deeply personal. I work part time in a library, so I have to present myself a certain way; modest and professional. While I’m not constricted by a uniform, there’s definitely limited options as to what I can wear. What’s underneath my clothes is a whole different story! I can wear whatever I want and it’s my little secret. It makes me feel so sensual and naughty to know that I am wearing the most provocative lingerie underneath my ‘professional’ demeanor. There are so many possibilities when it comes to lingerie that you’re guaranteed to find something that you’ll love. There’s just so much freedom of expression, it gives you a chance to explore a whole other side of yourself.

    My Favorite Lingerie

    I have a fairly extensive collection, but what matters to me are those ‘signature pieces’. I have around 3 or 4 sets that are my go-to and lots that depend on how I’m feeling. My personal favourite is a simple black lace bra and panties set with a garter belt. Stockings are one of the best parts of lingerie, in my opinion, and using a garter belt instead of hold-ups makes me feel amazing. Garter belts are a little fiddly to get used to but they’re well worth the effort! There’s something so elegant about them, I just can’t resist. My taste varies day to day, so I like to keep lots of different colours and styles at hand!

    Different Lingerie For Different Occasions?

    Definitely! If I’m wearing them under clothes, I tend to go for things that won’t be obvious to someone looking at you. For example, if I’m wearing a tight blouse, I find a bra that doesn’t have too much detail so it doesn’t show through the fabric of my shirt. Same goes for panties if I’m wearing a tight skirt.

    It all depends on my mood. If I’m feeling powerful and dominant, I choose bold reds and blacks, usually all in lace! But if I’m feeling more demure or want to tease someone, I’ll usually go for whites and light pinks, or maybe something in satin. Lingerie really does give you a wonderful opportunity to wear something that completely reflects who you are or what you’re feeling. For parties or social events, I love to wear something erotic. It gives me that extra bit of confidence. I once wore crotchless panties to a housewarming party!  Sometimes, when I’m at my day job, I’ll wear a little white lacey thong with a matching bra. Just the thought of someone potentially finding out what I’m wearing under my clothes gives me a huge thrill.

    Lingerie Buying Tips

    The best tip I could give you is to make sure it fits! A lot of people wear the incorrect size bra or panties and it has a huge impact, on both your appearance and your confidence. I can almost always tell if someone is wearing the wrong size, it does not sit as well as it should on your body. For a while I thought a certain style just didn’t suit my body type, but I went a size bigger and it looked 100% better. If you’re wearing the wrong size of anything, whether it’s bra, panties, or garter belt, it probably won’t be comfortable.

    Feeling comfortable in what you’re wearing immediately makes you feel better in your body. When you feel confident, you’ll feel (and look!) sexier! It makes the occasion you’re wearing it for so much more enjoyable. In terms of style, if you don’t like something, that’s okay! There are hundreds of styles out there, you just need to keep trying them on until you find one you like. It’s practically impossible to look or feel good in all types of lingerie, so keep at it! In my experience, if you aren’t happy in it, men can usually tell. For both people to enjoy lingerie, you need to be secure in the fact that you look amazing!

    What Men Should Know Before Buying Lingerie

    Again, the biggest issue is to make sure the sizing is correct! It’s heartbreaking to find a gorgeous set of lingerie only to find out it doesn’t fit! When buying as a gift, I think it’s important to keep in mind the personality/character of who you’re buying it for. For example, someone fairly new or cautious about ‘dressing up’ in lingerie probably won’t want to go straight for crotchless panties! Try something simpler, like introducing a garter belt and stockings. If you’re ever in doubt about it, ask a few subtle questions about what they like or dislike. What’s their favourite colour? What kind of underwear do they normally buy? Do they like to play innocent or do they have a naughty side? Or maybe they’ve got a secret desire to roleplay! If you take the time to think about what they’ll like the most, the more fun you’ll have when you go to take them off!

    Evie – Hi! My name is Evie, I’m a 20-year-old panty seller from England. It all started when a partner commented on my sweet taste and smell. One thing led to another and I was soon taking naughty pictures of myself for my blog! I then discovered the whole world of the fetish industry and started selling my used panties, bras, socks, etc. to have fun and perhaps pay for some university textbooks as well! I have a part-time job as a librarian and also am studying for a degree in Psychology. Already having a part-time job means I get to really enjoy panty selling as I don’t have to rely on it for money. Plus, it makes it even more exciting when the people around you, don’t know what you’re up to.

    Follow me on:

    Blog: https://eviebliss.tumblr.com/
    Panty Trust: https://www.pantytrust.com/evie-bliss
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/EvieBliss96

    Images courtesy of Evie

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  • Masturbation Misconceptions & Preferences

    Masturbation Misconceptions & Preferences

    Gosh! What don’t I like about masturbation? I find that I’m almost always a bit horny so masturbation is a pretty common pastime for me. The fact that masturbation can help me in so many different ways is one of my favorite aspects of masturbation. It’s a great way to get relief from my sexual frustrations or to help me de-stress from a long day. Though I may enjoy masturbating in private, it just gets more enjoyable with an audience! ;P

    Misconceptions About Female Masturbation

    There are so many misconceptions about masturbation, but there are 3 main ones about female masturbation that bother me the most.

    Misconception 1: Women don’t masturbate.

    Whenever I find myself talking about female masturbation with men, I usually get the response, “Wait, women masturbate?” and I always reply with a resounding YES. Of course women masturbate, we may not do it as often as guys but oh boy does it happen!

    Misconception 2: Women need a huge set up (candles, bubble bath, music, and wine).

    Sure sometimes women want to be pampered and sometimes it takes a nice relaxing mood to get in the mood… but that doesn’t mean women need it every single time. Sometimes we just sit there in our desk chairs with our hands down our pants trying to conceal our moans from the people right outside. Mondays can be stressful, y’know?

    Misconception 3: Women don’t watch porn.

    Boy oh boy is this one off the mark. Some women do great using their imaginations, I’m sure some men do too, but others may need a bit of help. Whether it’s a dirty magazine, a sweet romantic sex scene, or a raunchy porno – women are looking at porn too when they want to get off.

    The list could go on and on, but really when it comes down to it, female masturbation is something that happens and it’s not all rainbows and butterflies. It can be a naughty little release for when we’re feeling particularly horny or stressed out, or hell even when we’re just a bit bored!

    How Often I Masturbate

    When I first found porn, I also discovered how amazing masturbating can be, and I haven’t stopped since. I probably masturbate at least 3 times a week. Sometimes for a few minutes just to get the tingle and rush of being stimulated and other times I go all out for 20-30 minutes reaching multiple climaxes.

    Sometimes all it takes is a nice breeze when I’m going commando in a cute new skirt or a sale on my favorite salty snacks (Sun Chips, yum!). Other times it takes a bit more. A particularly attractive man (or woman) can do the trick, but it’s not all about the looks. The idea of having my body caressed or my ear nibbled gets me going when I’m feeling delicate, but a good choking and spanking are what I’m looking for when I’m naughty.

    I love the idea of having a partner watch me masturbate, but one of my biggest turn ons is knowing that someone else is getting off on something I’ve done. Whether that’s the smell of my used panties or watching me touch myself, it’s a great feeling. All this talk about turn ons is getting me going (hehe)..

    My Masturbation Style

    I have a pretty calm routine when I’m just trying to get some quick release – clitoral stimulation with a bit of penetration. When I’m really horny though is when I start experimenting. I have a decent sized naughty toy box in my closet where I keep all my sex toys. Although it is a limited collection (hopefully this will change soon), it does the trick. Toys aren’t the only way I experiment either. I’m a bit of an exhibitionist so I’ve masturbated in public areas quite a few times. Classrooms, park benches, movie theatres, house parties – very few areas are off limits to me. To add to the fun I even filmed my most recent naughty excursion at a local coffee shop!

    What Goes Through My Mind When Masturbating

    Usually I imagine what it’d feel like to have certain things (either from porn or my thoughts) to be done to me. I like to focus on what each action would feel like and what my partner would feel like if I weren’t going solo. Sometimes though I find myself getting distracted and thinking about errands that need to be run later in the day!

    Maria – I’m a starving college student working my way to a career. I first heard about selling used panties in high school but was too young and shy to do something like that. After a few years in college I learned more about myself and my sexuality and finally decided to try it out. I’ve only been doing it for a few months but I’m in love with it! I love the idea of fulfilling someone else’s fantasies and the extra cash is definitely a bonus. Just the idea of someone else enjoying my scent as I do is a huge turn on.

    Follow me on:

    Website: https://www.pantytrust.com/maria and https://www.projectmaenad.com/m/Maria
    Twitter: https://twitter.com/maria_panties

    I’ll be uploading a series of videos and photo shoots in the next few weeks so keep an eye out for those on my Panty Trust and Project Maenad pages.

    Images courtesy of Maria

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  • Why You Should Book An Escort For Your Couple Threesome

    Why You Should Book An Escort For Your Couple Threesome

    I get the greatest sexual pleasure from the intimacy and passion within which sex is experienced. From the moment I walk through your door, catching a glimpse of you undressing me with your eyes, I get butterflies knowing how much you want to devour me. As I sit down with you, my heart skips a beat as you reach for my hand and give me a cheeky little kiss. I grow closer to you as we discuss topics dear to both our hearts. I let you stimulate my most powerful sexual organ – my mind. This is where sex begins for me.

    Sexual acts only come in to complete the picture, but are hardly the centre of the experience. I can tell you which position will make me orgasm the quickest, but will always ensure that you know it is never the end goal. Well, not mine anyway. What matters to me most, if you want to please me, is the quality of our time together, the connection we share and the passion we enthral ourselves in (and just so you know, these intensify my orgasms).

    Chances are we will share a precious few hours together and days, weeks or months will pass until we see each other again. In between these times, while I will remember you for how much pleasure you have given me, what truly leaves an imprint in my heart is the person that you are and the way you make me feel.

    Why I Love Couple Sessions

    As a lover of men and women, I adore couple sessions. With men, I love feeling feminine and vulnerable in their presence. From their strong embraces and masculine touches, I delight in sexual energy. With women, I relish the sensual and visual of the feminine form, the emotional closeness and special female bond. Couple bookings give me an opportunity to experience the best of both worlds and I am always almost too excited when I receive an enquiry for one!

    My interest in joining couples started before I became an escort. It was one of the things that I had wanted to try since the day I knew I was bisexual. But it had taken me a long time before I finally met a couple where both people were attracted to me and whom I feel comfortable with. My first couple play turned out to be all that I had dreamed of. He knew how to multitask (gentlemen, take note!) and she was the most delicious thing that certainly knew her way around the female body. I was spoilt rotten from the very start.

    As both of them were keeping me busy, I lost count of how many orgasms she and I had in that long lustful session (and he swore he was the luckiest man alive). Since that day I have joined many more couples in my personal life as well as professionally as an escort. What I enjoy most in couple bookings is being able to help partners share an adventurous sexual experience of a threesome, knowing that I have added a little spice to their relationship and made their life just a little richer.

    Why Should Every Couple Try A Threesome With An Escort

    The theory is that female sexuality is more fluid than that of male’s (I am not going to bore you with the details but if you are interested here is one of the many studies on the topic http://onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1111/brv.12278/abstract). In short, women are rarely strictly heterosexual. When it comes to what turns them on, women are either bisexual or gay. Their sexual preferences tend to be a grey area rather than black and white. So even though women say they are straight, they may sometimes be attracted to beautiful women.

    This is often the experience I share with the female part of many couples I have come to know. Many women in heterosexual relationships craves a woman’s touch and are excited at the thought of being sexual with another woman. Inviting a second lady into your bedroom (with your partner’s consent, of course) is a great way to allow her to explore her sexuality in a safe environment. However, having spent considerable time in the swinging scene (please don’t judge) I can tell you that it is nearly impossible to find genuinely bisexual, sexually liberated, willing AND attractive single females to join you for a threesome because they are highly sought after by couples like yourselves, plus all the men in this world. This is why they are often referred to as the “unicorns” in the swinging/polyamory community because it is so rare to find one in the real world, almost as if they are a mystical creature!

    Most unicorns will realise at some point how valuable they are and turn professional (like yours truly). Hiring a professional is therefore much easier. Because there are so many of us, you will have a privilege to choose one that tickles both of your fantasies, plus a sex worker that is experienced in couple bookings can guide you into the direction that will yield the most satisfying result for you both, especially if it is your first time.

    Less common in my experience is one partner gets involved only to please the other partner and that is fine, as long as you do not feel pressured into it but please take precautions that I will discuss in the next section. Keep in mind that booking an escort to join you and your partner in the bedroom means that you are allowing someone else to enter into the sacred and a very intimate space between you two. It can therefore evoke some strong emotions and is something I will recommend only if you have considered and discussed in length with your partner.

    Do’s & Don’ts When Booking A Session

    As I have been on both sides of the equation, I can give a little advice for any couples who are looking to enrich their relationships with the help of a professional escort.

    DO’s

    Do know why you are doing this for. Is it for her to explore her bi-curiosity? Or she is fully bisexual and craves a woman’s touch once in a while? Is it for him to realise his fantasy? Or you are trialling the idea to see if it can spice up your sex life? There are various reasons why a couple may seek to book an escort for a threesome and these different reasons should guide how you and your escort tailor the experience to be satisfying for both of you.

    Do know your boundaries and talk it out with your escort. Often the boundaries you set will be linked to the reason why you are doing this in the first place. As a professional unicorn, I often find that different couples have different levels of comfort. For a total satisfaction for both female and male of the couple, I recommend that you find out among yourselves where your comfort level lies. It is important to go at the pace you are both comfortable with, no need to be too brave especially if it is your first time. For example, if you are doing this for her to explore her bi-curiosity, you may agree to a full lesbian play between the females and only foreplay between the male and the escort. See how you go and decide if you want to go further next time. No one should be pushing anyone to do what they are not comfortable with

    Do observe how your partner is feeling at all times because they should come first if you care about your relationship. If at any point you notice that your partner is being consumed by jealousy, stop what you are doing and attend to their feelings. Any professional experienced with couples would understand when this happens and it does more than you may think. You may have discussed the idea with your partner plenty of times before actually taking the plunge, but the reality might be very different from what you expected. Keep in mind that you are entering a territory where logic does not apply. So even if you think you are above jealousy, you may not be and that is absolutely fine (because hey, love isn’t rational anyway!) This will be the opportunity to acknowledge that your relationship may not be ready for this just yet and remember that most relationships will never get there and that is fine. There are plenty of fun things to do sexually. If you still want to explore threesomes, discuss the problem in length with your partner, increase your boundaries, start from tiny baby step (how about starting with you two ladies play while your man watch and he is allowed to touch only if you feel like it? I’m sure he doesn’t mind that)

    DON’Ts

    Do not do this just to please your partner when you are not into it yourself. Likewise, do not push your partner into this if you feel it will only be for your pleasure. Remember, threesomes should be all about enhancing your relationship and reinforcing your connection, so the motivation to do this should come from both of you. If only one of you is keen on the idea, it is time to re-evaluate what is important in your relationship. Are you making your partner feel inadequate because you want to add somebody else to the equation? Are regret, distrust and insecurities worth a couple of hours of fun? A threesome can wait. There are and will be endless supply of providers experienced in couple bookings for when you are ready.

    Tips For Equal Threesome Play

    As I have explained before there are different dynamics of a threesome which can be tailored to your desire and best discussed with an experienced provider. This means equal playtime may not be a requirement. But if you are worried I would advise you to learn to multitask (very important, gentlemen). Ladies, if you are anything like me, you will appreciate another female form being presented in front of you and I am sure you will find the way to keep each other busy!

    Another thing is, do not be afraid to be creative. In threesome textbooks, there are proper positions that you can learn and that is fantastic (have you heard of the Eiffel Tower?!) but in reality, most of the time you will find yourselves entangled in awkward positions and that is great too. I think it adds to the fun to improvise and try to utilise that idle hand or tongue!

    My name is Monica La Bella. I’m a professional sweetheart, hopeless romantic and strikingly beautiful distraction. Available to please and inspire in Melbourne, Australia and world-wide by invitation

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  • Wonder Woman vs Wonder Woman

    Wonder Woman vs Wonder Woman

    I’m proud to say I played Wonder Woman in the XXX version of Batman vs. Superman by porn parody director Axel Braun and it was amazing. Not only did I have the chance to dress up as my favorite superhero, but I also got the chance to have sex with Batman AND Superman, and wait for it — AT THE SAME TIME. Though I didn’t get to bring anyone to their knees with my Lasso of Truth, and I didn’t get the chance to deflect bullets with my wrist cuffs, I did get to break up an argument between the legendary rival superheroes, which ended very well for all involved, especially me.

    Photo: Wicked Pictures

    So of course, you can imagine, I was very excited when I heard there was a mainstream blockbuster Wonder Woman movie coming out, but I admit, I was disappointed when the news was released that Gal Gadot had been selected to play Wonder Woman. The Princess of Amazons is supposed to be strong and bold and well, Amazonian, which means tall, voluptuous, curvy and all that good stuff.

    For me, being tall and thick wasn’t always my favorite. At one point when I was a teenager I really wanted to be tiny and because of that, I had horrible posture when I was in middle and high school due to the fact I would always slouch trying to fit in. It wasn’t until I started getting into competitive in sports that I started to embrace my height, and once I started to embrace it, it became a feeling that was forever growing and evolving. And that is something I try to share with the girls that I train as a fitness and yoga instructor. As soon as you embrace your body and your strength, it will flourish. You can’t create something amazing from a place of hatred and shame. It’s wonderful to see women embracing themselves and their strength more and more these days.

    Photo: Isaiah Mays

    Though I thought the role would have been better suited for someone else, it was hard trying to pick a different actress for the role of Diana. I think Gal Gadot is absolutely, stunning and now that I’ve seen her in the role of Wonder Woman, it’s hard to picture someone else (Great job Warner Bros). But I do think a lesser known actress like say, Taylor Cole would have done well. Cole was on the TV show Heroes and I might be biased though considering she, like me, has a volleyball background.

    I am so happy to report that I was wrong. (And that’s not very often because women are never wrong). Not only did Gal Gadot do a wonderful job of bringing Wonder Woman to life, she did it in a strong and sexy way. I loved the fight scenes in the movie, I felt they were done very well. It was awesome to watch a bunch of women kick some ass. Strength is what really made me fall in love with Wonder Woman to begin with. Being a strong woman and standing at 6 feet tall myself, I can truly relate to the whole Amazonian persona.

    Photo: Isaiah Mays

    The seemingly innocent sexual chemistry between Diana and Steve Trevor (Chris Pine) kept me on the edge of my seat. I loved that the focus of the movie stayed on her and her mission to end the war, and that their romance did not end up taking over the plot which I felt was really, well played. But I was lusting for them to get it on, and then I had to remind myself it wasn’t that kind of movie (Oh yeah, I starred in that version).

    All in all, I am happy with Wonder Woman, I thought it was great, and I will watch it again. Gal Gadot did a wonderful job of bringing the Amazonian Princess to the big screen with grace, beauty and a fantastic right hook.

    Alison Tyler – Alison Tyler is the epitome of the healthy girl-next-door fantasy girl; tall, curvy, large breasted with green eyes, chestnut colored hair and an irresistible sprinkling of freckles across her nose, and that is why she became one of the biggest names in the adult entertainment business. Before Alison became known for getting physical for sports sex in front of the camera, she rowed crew in college and was a rodeo beauty queen. Now Alison has a new outlet to get in touch with her body, she’s a certified yoga instructor and fitness trainer with plans to open her own studio in the Orange County, California area. While she still shoots exclusive content for her award nominated website www.alisontylervip.com but also has her own health website that is www.balancedbodieswellness.com.

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  • Ways To Have Amazing Sex

    Ways To Have Amazing Sex

    My thoughts toward sex is that it’s a beautiful connection between two or more human beings. I feel very honored when I get to share a moment as such with someone. That other person, man or woman, are at their most vulnerable state. It’s almost like they have nothing else to hide because they literally let everything out on the table for you.

    I consider an amazing sexual experience is when both parties reach an orgasm together. It’s no fun if just one party climaxes and the other doesn’t, it defeats the purpose of sex.

    Most Memorable Sexual Experience

    My most memorable sexual experience was with a client. We first started out having dinner at an Italian restaurant where I teased him not only physically but mentally as well. I had just enough cleavage revealed for my breasts to say hello. As my innocent eyes and naughty smirk made it very clear that I wanted him to fuck me on the dinner table. He couldn’t resist me anymore and wanted to get a hotel room immediately.

    We went up to the room where he ripped off my shirt. Before we knew it, we were both in the shower together. This was where I received the best head ever. I never cum so hard. It was funny because he had a little fall in the shower. He remembered me telling him at dinner that one of my many fantasies was to have sex in an elevator. He gave me one of his long shirts and he just wore sweatpants. We ran to the elevators and pressed the emergency stop button. We did every position you could think of in those close corners. That was when I found out how flexible I was haha.

    We went back to the room and passed out on top of each other. We both woke up with huge smiles on our faces. We checked out and got in his car where we continued to part 2. I sucked his dick so well he couldn’t take it anymore and wanted to be inside me. He cum twice very hard. He was late to work but it was well worth it of course. This was my most memorable experience because we put each other first. Also he listened to me and made one of my fantasies come to life.

    What Men Don’t Get About Sex

    Every women is different when it comes to pleasing them. Not every girl likes oral the same way. Men don’t pay attention to the women’s body. If a women is moaning and rocking her hips, that means that you are doing the right thing. A lot of men assume all women like the same thing and that is not the case at all. If you are unsure, just ask.

    Being Experimental & Open

    I am very open to trying new things, that is what makes sex exciting. One way to spice up your sex life is to have sex in different locations, such as the kitchen or front yard. Or have sex somewhere where you know someone would hear you or you would get caught. Like the movie theater, restroom, or even the park.

    The fun part is that you will have an audience. Also try to bring in toys, try new positions, or even someone else to the party. Also, switch roles, if you are more submissive, try to be more dominant or vice versa.

    I’m Brooklyn, your 19 year old teenage dream. I am the youngest companion in all of Philadelphia! Let me seduce you with my sexy smile and young tight curves. My rich cocoa skin is velvety smooth and my lips are plump and soft. I am known for my open mind and eagerness to please!

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  • Why Do Men See Escorts

    Why Do Men See Escorts

    I love sex!  Sex is best with someone you care deeply for, but I have enjoyed it greatly when that’s not the case as well.  I waited a while to become sexually active in life, but have always had a positive, empowered, guilt-free, drama-less relationship with the act of sex.  It’s one of life’s great pleasures…no church, government or individual is going to convince me that it’s ever something about which we should feel shame or upset.  Relax, folks…we all do it, it’s great (when consent is there…duh), and it’s just not that big a deal.  If it’s causing problems, perhaps you’re doing it wrong.  Haha.

    The Appeal Of Escorts To Men

    Successful escorts are usually very beautiful, very good at dating/conversation/flattery/attention-giving, able to devote time and energy to men because they’re not otherwise occupied or employed with other things, and are new and “unspoiled” to the client by virtue of not being a woman he’s had fights or much negative history with.  It’s all the benefit of the perfect new companion, for as much time (can be a single appointment or a relationship of decades, or anything in between) as the client wants, and gone whenever he doesn’t want.  It’s on-demand attention from a gorgeous woman, with a supply of hundreds of thousands of different types, and no hassles when the client doesn’t want them around.  Who wouldn’t find that appealing?

    Difference Between Visiting An Escort & A Brothel For Sex

    An escort does not sell sex (escort and prostitute are not synonyms, despite many prostitutes calling themselves escorts in an effort to evade law enforcement in countries in which prostitution is illegal); I think you may mean the difference between hiring a prostitute and visiting a brothel?  If so, I’m not sure, as I’ve never done either of those things.

    Reasons Men Visit Escorts

    To be around a gorgeous new woman, to be paid attention to, to have a new and exciting relationship, and mostly (I suspect) to enjoy time with a woman who is paid to be attentive and undistracted by the normal perhaps-boring-to-the-client other parts of life in the way that a wife or girlfriend can be.  But you’d have to ask them…in my experience, the reasons men hire escorts are as varied as men themselves.

    Does It Always Involve Sex?

    No; to my knowledge and in my experience, sex is not what’s hired when one hires an escort.  I have read and heard that the two (escorting and sex) are often combined in a job that’s partly emotional labor and companionship, and part sex work…but societies don’t really have a term for that at this time.  Escorting, by definition, is not a job that includes sex.

    Amy Taylor is a native Californian.  While spending nearly 2 decades as a published model, she also received her undergraduate degree in Berkeley, MBA in Los Angeles, and commercial pilot’s licenses in Arizona.  When she’s not found in front of the camera, she’s enjoying the sunny skies flying, keeping fit at her local gym, or at the beach playing with her dog.

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  • How To Be An Escorts Favorite Client

    How To Be An Escorts Favorite Client

    I’ve been in this industry for 13 months, and it was the best decision I ever made. Like most, I had no idea the business existed. I simply assumed that my male colleagues had long lunch meetings.

    The more time I spend in this business however, the more genius it seems. Both the client, and the escort gain from their arrangement. I get an opportunity to explore my sensuality, and am paid to have stimulating conversations, and try things I’ve always wanted to try anyway. My client, gets the opportunity to be unjudged, appreciated, and ravished.. then sneak back to his regular world.

    Typical Clients I See

    A huge misconception of men who see escorts, is that they’re seedy, unsafe, or crooked individuals. This is entirely the opposite. The mass majority of my clients are white collar, educated, even attractive gentlemen who treat me like gold. I see real estate agents, graphic design artists, doctors, senior finance professionals, and more.

    Tips To Be My Favourite Client

    Escorting, like any job, requires the worker to feel appreciated and valued in order to keep working. Many clients don’t realize the many hats we wear, and how much time, money, and emotional energy we spend making ourselves the perfect companion. It’s sometimes physically and emotionally exhausting.

    My favourite clients, are the ones who get it. They treat me with respect and dignity, and show ample appreciation. That could mean basic things such as leaving on time, and investing a few minutes of our date on conversation.. to more extravagant things such as tipping or bringing a small gift.

    I’ve had new clients show up, and dash to the shower without so much as a hello, then expect intimacy immediately after. Granted, that is the jyst of what a client is paying for, and I understand that. However, nothing makes you feel more like a blow up doll than obvious disinterest in you as a person.

    Madison Winter – Consider me your approachable, yet classy girl next door. I love nothing more than sharing a meal or glass of red wine over stimulating conversation. Let’s unravel the layers of each other; I really love to take my time exploring… Cant wait to discover you.

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