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  • Why You Should Enjoy Seattle With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy Seattle With A Companion

    I have been a companion in Seattle for almost five years. One of the things I have learned about companionship is that it provides an escape for those who are going through changes in their lives. This can be because they came into more money, their relationship has taken a different route, or other reasons that may not be evident. Everyone needs someone to turn to when change happens, and companions are the best people who can walk you through these changes.

    How The Escorting Industry Is Like In Seattle

    Personally, I think the industry here is changing because it is being forced to change due to FOSTA/SESTA. But our market is over saturated by one review site. This doesn’t help things when there are many clients who are not wanting things to change or prices to go up. With the use of Instagram and Twitter and other new sites popping up, clients are now understanding the need to follow our rules, screening, and everything else that you can think of. Views don’t change overnight especially when one advertising site has held the spotlight for our city for years.

    Another thing is that new escorts constantly think this business is easy, but it’s not. It’s even harder to make money right away since Backpage went down. Now, it takes effort. Social media accounts, accounts on different ad sites, and websites are now the way to make money. This helps clients find you and learn more about you.

    What Makes Me An Ideal Companion

    I am a book nerd but an absolute southern belle (without the accent). I don’t have an accent anymore because of moving a lot as a child. I love to have fun and I love to laugh. I laugh at almost everything. My world revolves around my Pembroke Welsh Corgi, Manchester, and school as I am less than a year away from completing my bachelor’s degree.

    What makes me an ideal companion is my love to satisfy my clients mentally, emotionally, and physically. I love to make my clients feel like we are the only people in the room and that they have my undivided attention.

    The Best Duration To Enjoy Seattle With Me!

    I would say the best duration would be two full days or more, which you can book via email with me. There is so much to do in Seattle that you can’t get it all in in one day. But two gets more activities in. The best places to shop are in Pike Place Market, which is where we can get a bottle of wine and enjoy the year-round farmers marker there. The Seattle Art Museum is another must see and near the Pike Place Market.

    Another must see is the Space Needle, especially since its renovation with the only rotating glass floor. Enjoying dinner there is an amazing feature. And every romantic trip needs a right on Seattle’s Great Wheel, with it’s beautiful port views. And last but not least, enjoying the Seattle Symphony is one of my favorite things about the city.

    How A Gentlemen Should Prepare Prior To Our Engagement

    All gentlemen who want to visit me needs to read what I expect from them on my website. He must be willing to provide his real-world information, and be prepared to make a deposit, if asked for. Or, if he must cancel, he must have his cancelation fee ready.

    And he should totally listen to all the episodes of client etiquette on The Sexy Escort Guide podcast (which I am working on a blog post with all of my favorite episodes for my clients to listen to).

    Rules A Gentlemen Should Follow To Be My Favorite Client

    Always take personal pride in your hygiene. We take pride in keep our incalls ready for clients as well as our personal appearance.

    Also, if you really want to get on my good side, bringing cash tips, flowers, wine, and/or gift cards will only add to you becoming my favorite.

    Shelby Forbes – An astute young woman full of adventure. She loves her corgi, wine, and traveling. She is a current undergraduate, almost finished with her bachelors. She dreams of going to graduate school, working in policy, and meeting so many wonderful gentlemen.

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  • The Stigma Of Sex Work Part II – How It Compromises Sex Workers

    The Stigma Of Sex Work Part II – How It Compromises Sex Workers

    The vast number of people I see and speak to are very respectful and they appreciate the time I give them. There are people that feel they have a right to waste our time, maybe because they don’t feel sex workers should be respected; they will ask for you to send free pictures or videos, as if it is our job to encourage their business by giving them free services. I usually ask them, “would you go to work if your boss wasn’t going to pay you? So why should I?” There can also be complete disrespect for your work/life balance as they feel you must work 24/7.

    I have a very strict boundary around my work and my personal life and my work does not happen at my home. If I had £1 for every time someone asked if I could do a video call in the bathroom whilst I’m at home with my family, I’d be a millionaire!!

    There is also the nastier side to the stigma around sex workers, that make some people feel like they have paid for us so our body are theirs to use as they wish, regardless of our own personal boundaries and limits. I am very fortunate that I have never seen anyone like this and I truly feel that organisations like Client Eye and National Ugly Mugs help identify these individuals and ensure escorts have a better understanding of the people they will potentially meet, but I am aware that not all sex workers have been as lucky as me.

    It is not just clients we have to be cautious of. The police are also a cause for concern. These are the people who are supposed to protect every citizen, the people I pay my taxes to ensure they are defending our streets. There should not be bias or prejudice and yet some of them are.

    In 2013, 25 premises in Soho, London were raided by the Police. The police invited members of the media to take pictures and document the raids. It was stated that the raids were to look for stolen goods, drug dealing and to tackle trafficking but sex workers were removed from their flats, some dragged out half naked into the street and arrested. Their money and possessions were confiscated by the police. This was all done to ‘save’ the sex workers from this life but the way they were treated was disgusting. Any migrant sex worker was turned over to the UK Border Agency under the assumption that they were victims of trafficking.

    Many of the sex workers stated that they were not being forced to work, but were handed over regardless. The officers during this raid did not care about the safety of these women or the effect it would have on their personal lives. The media and the general public who posted pictures of these women online didn’t care for their safety or the effect it would have on their personal lives. Sex work is legal in the UK. There are elements that aren’t, such as no more than one sex worker in the same property. There was no evidence that any of the women from the raids were in that situation yet they were all treated as criminals.

    When the people that are in the position of holding up the law, treats sex workers like vermin and allow the press to be part of it, how can we possibly break down the walls of stigma and prejudice.

    Is This Situation Due To A Lack Of Education Or Ignorance?

    I think it’s both. Generations have looked down on sex workers. Families have educated and continued to embed these same false stereotypes to their children but thankfully, the current young generation are questioning all they are being taught and as a result have become more open, liberal and accepting, to the groups of people that for generations, have been tarnished with these stigmas and stereotypes. The young are starting to make change possible.

    Mainstream media does not help at all. Just a few months ago, there was a show broadcast in the UK that had me screaming at my TV because they portrayed the sex workers in the show in a very negative light. I believe they wanted the nation to think all sex workers are ‘broken’ but that isn’t the case. Sex work empowers both men and women to take control of their sexuality. This work has empowered me and so many others; so many sex workers choose this profession over regular jobs. I have never been as enthusiastic and passionate about any other job than I am about my work right now.

    How Can These Stigma Be Removed Or Reduced?

    Why do newspapers, TV, media feel that showing sex workers in a negative light is the right way to portray us? I am sure they think that they will encourage a whole generation to become sex workers but that would not be the case. The same way that I could not be a carer in a nursing home wiping faeces from pensioners arseholes, is the same way not every person could be a sex worker. It takes a special kind of person and it’s not for everyone.

    I know there are many men and women in the sex industry that have had horrific experiences and I don’t wish to disregard what has happened to them and I don’t wish the media to overlook them either but until the media starts showing sex workers from every angle, the good, the bad and including male sex workers, who never seem to get a mention, then people won’t be able to see the full spectrum of sex workers, from street sex workers to high class escorts and everything in between. Every one of us has stories to tell about our experiences, whether positive or negative but we need a non-judgmental, non-biased format to do it. Not a TV company knowing how they want the end production to look like, but an open-minded production that allows the stories of everyone to naturally progress rather than twisting them.

    We live in a world that makes it very difficult to change people’s opinions. Even though society has progressed massively with regards to sex, sexual orientation, gender identity, race and religion, those changes have not been quick and are still nowhere near eradicated. The stigma and stereotyping around sex workers will not disappear over night.

    In all of the cases, to quote the late Whitney Houston, “I believe the children are our future”. They are the ones who will question the bigots and the uneducated. They are the ones who will demolish those walls, but there are many things we can do in the meantime.

    We all need to do our bit to start removing the bricks from those walls. Portray the image that we want for sex workers, demanding the respect we deserve, call-out the media when they are negatively portraying us. We can make a difference, even if it’s only small because if we aren’t willing to fight for the equality we deserve, who else will.

    “Be the change that you wish to see in the world.” – Mahatma Gandhi

    Sadie – I am a sexy, sensual British SSBBW, UK size 32. I’m an escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator. I am very down to earth and my clients say I’m very easy to talk to and to open up to. My main escort service is GFE (Girlfriend Experience) as I love kissing, touching and caressing and my clients really enjoy that with me. I am also part of the Rose Talks Sex debate team, which you can follow on Twitter @rosetalkssex .

    Follow Sadie on

    Twitter: twitter.com/Sadie_SSBBW

    Fan Baits: fanbaits.com/u/sadiessbbw

    Only Fans: onlyfans.com/sadie-ssbbw

    Everything else can be found on All My Links: allmylinks.com/sadiessbbw

    With COVID, all escorting is on hold but I am working very hard to create more content for online and give my subscribers and buyers what they want. I’m looking into setting up my own website although that will take a while. I am also making contact with other sex workers so that we can collaborate on some work once it is safe to meet up after COVID. So watch this space!!

    Images courtesy of Sadie

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  • The Stigma Of Sex Work Part I

    The Stigma Of Sex Work Part I

    I am an Escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator and I love my job. I’ve been escorting for nine years now (on and off) and web-camming for almost two years but it’s the last year that I have really been expanding my business and my ‘brand’.

    I love meeting new people, whether that is in person or via webcam and helping them explore their fantasies. I love interacting with people on webcam and the phone. But more than anything, I love helping those people that need the special interaction that only sex and a sex worker can give them. For those people, it isn’t just about sex; it’s about being intimate and close to someone, which is something they don’t get in their personal lives.

    During the COVID pandemic and lockdown, I have not been able to meet clients, so I have turned my focus to online services; webcam sites and uploading videos and pictures onto selling and subscription sites. I have been very aware that so many people need someone to talk to, especially if they are isolating at home alone and I always greet people who come into my chatrooms on the webcam sites as I want everyone to feel welcome, whether they have money to spend or not; it’s a difficult time for everyone at the moment. So many people have thanked me for talking to them. Those who cannot afford to pay for private shows today, might be able to another day.

    With any job, there are parts of it you don’t enjoy; time wasters are a nuisance and some people feel you are there just to talk to them any time of the day or night without any mention of paying for services. I get phone calls from private numbers a lot which can get very annoying; it’s very disrespectful but over time, you develop ways to handle them.

    There’s more admin than most people realise. We don’t have a team of administrators (I wish I did) so every phone call, text message and email can only be replied to by me, and every promotional poster and social media post is created and uploaded by me. I also have my accounts to produce for my tax returns. I wouldn’t want to do any other job though.

    Stigma That Surrounds Sex Work Today

    There are many people that are completely fine with sex work and find it all really interesting. There are other people that are fine with the online work but isn’t comfortable about the escorting. Unfortunately, the vast majority of people see it as a negative. They think it’s dirty and seedy and can’t understand why someone would sell themselves. They also believe, all people that seek services from sex workers are grubby, middle-aged men that have no regard for you as a person. In my experience, this has not been the case and these assumptions and stereotypes are incorrect.

    Dehumanising sex workers happens too often. Sex workers are made to feel like they don’t matter or that their lives aren’t important due to narrow-mindedness and people’s morals. The media doesn’t help this by only reporting on the very tragic or the very glamourous sex workers. It feels very apparent that the media doesn’t want to normalise the sex industry.

    Simple things, like opening a business bank account has been very difficult for me. I am registered as self employed with HMRC (Her Majesty’s Revenue and Customs) as an Escort. Escorting in the UK is legal. I had four bank account applications turned down. My credit history is very good. I was not asking for an overdraft or a bank loan; just a bank account in my business name so my clients did not know my real name and keeps me and my family safe. Three bank accounts would not explain why my application was declined. The fourth one was honest enough to tell me that “we cannot support someone in your line of work”. In the end, I seeked advice to ensure I couldn’t get in trouble and applied for a bank account as a beautician. My application was accepted within a few days. Since then, I have moved bank accounts and it is stated on their terms and conditions that you cannot receive any money for sex related work. It is a worry but I need a business account.

    Adult content and web-camming sites have shocked me, as the vast majority of them are very anti-escorting. It is fine for you to sell pornographic material or sell private webcam shows but if they find out you are an escort they can delete your page without warning and in most cases, keep the money you have earned. I didn’t realise how split the adult industry was; some aspects of it is okay yet other aspects aren’t.

    Even in my personal life, stigma is everywhere. My parents don’t want anyone to know what I do because they are embarrassed. They support me the best they can but they would rather I had a “normal” job. My family lie to my grandparents, uncle’s and auntie’s, and in turn, so do I.

    It is the negative connotations and stigma surrounding the job I love, that stops me from shouting from the rooftops that “I’m a sex worker and proud of it”!! This is a career I have chosen but I know my children would have a difficult time through bullying or name calling if locals knew and I don’t want that for them.

    The media love to portray the extreme cases, either the tragedy or the glamorous but there are people like me that sit nicely in the middle that are just as important in this industry. It is only by showing the full spectrum, can people start to understand what our work is like, and hopefully walls can start to be broken down. I can’t help but feel like the media doesn’t want to ‘normalise’ sex work.

    Sadie – I am a sexy, sensual British SSBBW, UK size 32. I’m an escort, a Webcam model and a Content Creator. I am very down to earth and my clients say I’m very easy to talk to and to open up to. My main escort service is GFE (Girlfriend Experience) as I love kissing, touching and caressing and my clients really enjoy that with me. I am also part of the Rose Talks Sex debate team, which you can follow on Twitter @rosetalkssex .

    Follow Sadie on

    Twitter: twitter.com/Sadie_SSBBW

    Fan Baits: fanbaits.com/u/sadiessbbw

    Only Fans: onlyfans.com/sadie-ssbbw

    Everything else can be found on All My Links: allmylinks.com/sadiessbbw

    With COVID, all escorting is on hold but I am working very hard to create more content for online and give my subscribers and buyers what they want. I’m looking into setting up my own website although that will take a while. I am also making contact with other sex workers so that we can collaborate on some work once it is safe to meet up after COVID. So watch this space!!

    Images courtesy of Sadie

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  • Why You Should Enjoy Greece With A Companion

    Why You Should Enjoy Greece With A Companion

    My personal views of companionship is that it’s a real job that is not only about sex as most people have in mind. Most of the companions are independent women who do everything by themselves, and have degrees. Being a companionship is not about just sex but conversation and emotional bonding.

    Meanwhile, you have to take care of and run your website, do advertising, photoshoots and all the PR and marketing of your business by your own. For sure it needs more than just a “nice” body to be successful.

    What My Personality Is Like

    My personality, I would describe it as bubbly, laid back, with me being passionate for all the things I love. And also having a big sense of humor .

    The Best Duration & Time To Enjoy Greece With Me

    Most of the people think that the best duration and time to visit Greece is in summer because of the Greek Islands like Mykonos that you can party or relax in a private villa and visit all the nice beaches and Michelin restaurants.

    Also, Athens is a wonderful destination for both summer and winter, giving so many options for someone that wants to explore it with a sexy companion by his side.

    Common Requests I Receive & My Specialty As A Companion

    Common requests are dinner dates or overnights from men that want to spend quality time. Also FMTY (fly me to you) in their business trips or just for a mini vacation.

    My specialty is the GFE (girlfriend experience) as it can transform effortlessly from the fun girl next door to the dressed-to-kill stunner in your arm with an appreciation for champagne and a Michelin dinner, as the occasion may require.

    Etiquette & Rules To Follow During Our Time Together

    My etiquette is that I require good hygiene, respect my boundaries and never make me uncomfortable or feeling disrespectful. And also, I don’t support reviews as I believe that anything that happens between me and my client is strictly private.

    Leslie Laurent – Your Greek muse. Elegant, luxurious, bright, steadfast, and loving.

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  • How Should Men Behave On Dates?

    How Should Men Behave On Dates?

    Dating is my favorite activity if I’m being honest. I say this because a date can be anything; something as mundane as dinner and a movie, or as exciting as jet skis and Mai Tais. But in my professional life, it’s part of the gig, and my clients usually choose to get to know me over dinner first. I believe the creativity that can be put into a date is what makes them so exciting.

    Is It A Misconception That Women Have Higher Expectations Of Dates Than Men?

    I absolutely think it’s a misconception! Everyone wants a date to turn out well. Good conversation, a fun activity and a nice story to tell your friends after is something all genders look forward to. I sometimes believe *civilian men expect sex with as little effort as possible, that seems to me the only expectation that many women don’t share in my experience.

    Dating Turn Offs For Me

    I love the opportunity to show out, get dressed up, and put my best foot forward. In return, I expect the same. Often, civilian men fall short of this. Like the idea that men can throw on a t-shirt and jeans for a date while a woman gets plucked, primmed and prettied. NOT ON MY WATCH.

    That’s why I love my clients, they always show up and show out. Effort is sexy, you don’t need a $900 suit on. I just need to know you care about how good we look standing next to each other. I once was taken to an expensive restaurant in a beautiful dress while my civilian date had on cargo shorts, a jersey and knee high socks. I was so embarrassed!

    Do First Impressions Matter?

    Yes! But I think a second impression matters more. I get first impressions in 30 seconds. But I think second impressions come later after actually listening to the person, getting past any misconceptions or assumptions I made from the first 30 seconds. For instance, a man can be a great date and polite to me. That’s a wonderful first impression, but if he’s disrespectful to wait-staff, that leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Second impressions matter more.

    Signs I’m Enjoying Myself On A Date

    I’m engaged when I’m enjoying myself, I’m nodding emphatically, I’m smiling, and I’m complimenting him. There will be small hand touches or rubbing my foot up the side of his leg if I’m really enjoying myself. I’m a polite woman so I don’t often show when I’m bored but typically, I avoid making eye contact and focus on my drink more than my date.

    Don’t judge me, but I’ve taken my phone out before, usually to text my friend to save me. A date would have to be terrible for that to happen though, and not just boring.

    Who Should Set Up A Second Date?

    The man should do it, no questions asked. If you enjoyed yourself, there’s nothing wrong with saying so once you both arrived home. A second date should be set up within three days.

    Angelique Graye is a courtesan, activist, and Outreach Coodinator for SWOP Behind Bars. She is based in Tampa, FL but travels frequently to Orlando. She’s currently fighting for decrim and to repeal bath law ordinances in her city. She loves good drinks, exciting experiences, and spending her time in the ocean; it is why she is frequently referred to as a siren.

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    Niteflirt: 1 800-863-5478 ext. 1140-5782

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  • Benefits Of Hiring Escort Services

    Benefits Of Hiring Escort Services

    If you’ve never hired an escort, you may be wondering if it’s worth it—it is! Escorts are just like any other working professional. You hire them to do a job, and they do it well.

    What does an escort do? What are the benefits of hiring escort services? At first blush, an escort is simply a professional companion. You can hire one to attend a social function with you or offer conversation, and virtually anything else you’d like in-between, but the benefits of those services far exceed this simple explanation.

    Read on to get a better idea of the benefits of hiring an escort service.

    Enjoy Companionship Without Commitments

    If you don’t want to be in a serious relationship, hiring an escort may be the best option. Unlike a serious relationship that can be complicated and long, connecting with an escort is simple and easy. You can get almost the same benefits of having a girlfriend or boyfriend in a short-term manner without negatively affecting your lifestyle.

    You will enjoy great companionship without the need for exclusivity and responsibility. Just like a relationship, you can also talk to them about anything, including your personal life, if you so choose. They won’t judge you and are excellent conversationalists. Show them the respect they deserve, and they’ll respond in kind.

    Get To Know A Variety Of Interesting Escorts

    Since you’re not committed to one person, you can always choose a new companion if you want to. This aspect can work to your advantage if you often travel to different parts of the country. Many agencies provide escort services in different locations. Simply log in to the website, and you will find a wide range of profiles for professional escorts and models.

    Escort profiles usually include a photo, nicknames, ages, locations, and interests. Browsing through these profiles can help you quickly find the right person to accompany you during your trips, gatherings, and other events.

    Help Maintain Appearances

    For some people, maintaining appearances is essential. This point holds true for many business people who don’t want to be seen alone. Having a beautiful companion by your side helps you make a good impression on your colleagues.

    If you’re looking to maintain appearances, hiring an escort to accompany you during formal and informal gatherings can be the best option. Most companions employed by escort agencies undergo intense screening before they are hired. These agencies have specific standards for professionalism, so you won’t be disappointed when hiring one.

    You can even specify the kinds of clothing you will want your escort to wear if there is a dress code for your event.

    Get A Discreet Plus One

    Speaking of maintaining appearances, with an escort, you don’t have to worry about your business becoming public. Professional escorts are carefully vetted and trained to understand confidentiality laws.

    They make perfect dates for business affairs where there may be sensitive information you don’t want just anyone every hearing, or to attend events you don’t necessarily want your friends and family knowing you attended.

    An escort is even a quick, easy way to appease relatives at those pesky family gatherings if you’re sick of hearing people ask when you’ll find someone nice to settle down with—from weddings to family reunions, your plus one isn’t a problem with an escort service. No matter where you’d like to go, or what you’d like to do, and escort ensures your privacy.

    Personal Travel Guides

    Hiring an escort can be especially helpful when traveling. By hiring a local escort, you’re getting someone with local knowledge of your destination. They know all the best restaurants, clubs, and hotels—and they know which ones to stay far away from. There’s no better way to stay safe on your trip and avoid the shady parts of town.

    If you’re visiting a non-English speaking city, your escort will also speak the language (many services have bilingual escorts just for this purpose) and can act as an interpreter. You get a travel guide, companionship, and a translator all for one fee! All in all, an escort is an excellent way to ensure you have a good time on your next trip and stay safe, whether for business or pleasure.

    Get Dating & Networking Advice

    If there’s one thing an escort knows—it’s relationships and networking. If you’re stumped on how to approach a first date, strike up a conversation, form new business connections, or get the attention of that special someone, an escort gives you an excellent opportunity to trial-run your skills and get pointers from a professional in the process.

    One of the biggest benefits of hiring an escort, no matter why you hire one, is that they’ll never judge you. You can feel free to ask questions, be yourself, and expand your comfort levels with dating and networking. An escort can serve as much more than simply companionship, depending on your needs.

    Take Away Your Stress

    You may be dealing with problems at work or with your family. Yes, there are plenty of stress-relieving activities to choose from, like playing sports and binge-watching movies online. However, there’s nothing more fun than going on a date, forgetting about life for a while, and engaging in deep conversations.

    Relaxation is perhaps the best reason to hire an escort. Escorts can help you let go of the stress of your day-to-day life as they can bring you to a different kind of reality. Most escorts are well educated, talented, and creative, and they tend to be good listeners and effective speakers.

    Unique To You

    This list is just a small sampling of the benefits of hiring escort services. The true advantages you’ll find in an escort’s company are going to be unique to you, and the best way to find out what those benefits are is to give it a try—hire an escort today! Even better, if you’re a local guru, excellent conversationalist, or socialite, consider becoming an escort yourself and get paid to keep good company.

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  • What It’s Like To Date A Black Man (from A White Woman’s Perspective)

    What It’s Like To Date A Black Man (from A White Woman’s Perspective)

    I grew up in a semi-small town in Missouri where interracial dating was non-existent. If it did exist, it would have been discouraged, if not attacked outright. I dated white guys simply because it was what girls were supposed to do. But, I always had an attraction to Black men. My white boyfriends seemed to always carry some racist attitudes which in a way, made me even more curious.

    Of course, a teenage girl hears the rumors about Black men. That peaks our interest as well. Interracial dating is like an entirely different ballgame. It’s different. It has challenges because racism is still very prevalent, especially among white males who despise the competition. But, interracial dating is like joining a very elite club. Couples support one another and strangers very often ask me about it. Other women seem very curious and ask me about it.

    Why I Find Black Men Attractive

    I started dating white boys when I was 14. I dated four of them before I had enough. My best friend, who is white, knew I had an attraction to Black men, so she pushed me to go on a double date with her. She dated a Black man and set me up with her boyfriend’s friend who was also Black. I was 21.

    There are always exceptions with Black men, like anything else. Not everything I find attractive about Black men is not found in EVERY Black man. But, I have always found a Black man’s style to be attractive. His swag. Black men have a classy, sexy style that’s very alluring to a white woman. Black men naturally have a dominant presence. I love dark Black men. Their dark skin is very masculine especially next to my fair skin. The contrast is alluring. Black men typically have a stronger physical stature. I find that powerful and very attractive.

    And yes, typically Black men are bigger down there. I love a Black man’s penis and the way he uses it. Black men are better in bed. They have more stamina and they’re very uninhibited and passionate. Their style and swag; their physical makeup; their minds and attitude. Their “Blackness” is very sexy.

    My Experience Of Interracial Dating

    It’s generally very positive and exciting. There is still a lot of racism though. It seems mostly to come from white boys. But, other white women are very supportive. When I go out with my boyfriend, other girls often pull me aside and ask me what it’s like to be with a Black man. It used to embarrass me. But, I’m used to it now. I tell them the truth, “it’s amazing!”

    Is Interracial Dating More Open In Recent Years?

    It’s growing. Everyone knows that. Even racist white boys see that it’s becoming more and more prevalent. I think society is opening up to it because popular opinion is shaping that. Interracial resources are everywhere. In popular culture, interracial can be found out in the open. In the adult entertainment circles, interracial is among the top three most viewed search, behind “girl-girl” and “hardcore”.

    Sites like Deeper.com, Blacked.com, and Darkx.com are proof that interracial sex is hot and growing. The occasional resistance we get is pretty much reduced to angry white boys who don’t approve of the way things are going.

    Tips For White Women Who Want To Date Black Men

    Do it! There’s no time like right now! Don’t let friends or family frighten you or hold you back. Go with your gut and satisfy your attraction. It’s not “weird”; it’s not “wrong”. Society’s acceptance is growing; now is a great time to try it. If you can double date, that will calm some of the anxiety we face going into it for the first time.

    We’re strong and we can make up our own minds. If it’s what you want, you have the right to do it. If you’re just wanting to try it for the sex, go for it. No one has to know about what you do in your private life. “Don’t die wondering” is what my best friend told me when she introduced me to my first Black man.

    Differences Between Black Men & White Men

    Again, there are no absolutes. Not every Black man is this-way and not every white boy is that-way. But, from a general perspective I will say that there are some major differences. The penis is the one thing that comes up most often. Typically Black men are bigger. Not just in length but also in girth. Black men seem to hold an erection a lot longer which goes well with their stamina.

    The sex with a Black man is uninhibited and passionate. A Black man typically likes to please us before he pleases himself, which is very refreshing! There are a lot of physical and mental differences between Black men and white boys, most of which I went over previously.

    Would You Date A White Man After Being With A Black Man?

    Personally, no. I know that some women might go back and forth between black and white. But, I’m very satisfied with Black men. Not to mention, I’m more attracted to the style of a Black man. I don’t find white boys attractive.

    Andrea Dillinger – American made 25 year old scorpio with a taste for dark chocolate.

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    I currently revamped both of my Instagram pages while closing my Facebook. My personal page requires my accept. But, my project page @_signme.up_ is open to the public.

    Images courtesy of Andrea Dillinger

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  • Love The Curves – By Bella Petite

    Love The Curves – By Bella Petite

    The first photo edition of Bella Petite’s photobook is available. Check out never seen before photos and enjoy this visual treat! Here are two photos from the book courtesy of Bella!

    Purchase and enjoy the rest of Love The Curves here – https://www.bellapetiteescort.com/buy-bellas-books

    Bella Petite – I’m a deep thinker and often find myself-looking at the big picture. I enthusiastically believe in raising the bar. My desire is for you, the client, to confidently know without hesitation you are employing my services with the same level of trust, quality and professional etiquette and accountability you would expect from any other highly successful business.

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    Website: https://www.bellapetiteescort.com/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/BellaPetite4

    Other Sites:

    https://escortify.co.nz/wellington-escorts/bella-petite-6094

    https://availableangels.com.au/escort/bella-petite/

    https://www.nzpleasures.co.nz/escort/bellapetite/

    https://wellington.locanto.co.nz/ID_3830213569/Bella-Petite.html

    Images courtesy of Bella Petite

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  • What It’s Like To Be A Provider

    What It’s Like To Be A Provider

    Companionship is a mutually beneficial opportunity for people to connect in person to do basically whatever floats your boat.  It is good company, lively conversation, cocktails in hand in the company of a sensual young lady wanting to show you a fun time.  Life can be a whirlwind in the city that never sleeps.  How lucky am I to get to be the girl who slows down time, chats about everything or nothing and makes sure you have the time of your life?

    How The Idea Of Being A Provider Came To Me

    I have always been attracted to men older than me.  I was online dating and swiping professionally secure gentlemen.  They were often busy with their careers and children.  That was fine by me as I’m distracted by school and friends right now.  It only made sense to monetize what I am most passionate about.  I’ve always been very sensual.  I enjoy and crave sex.  Frankly I’ve received very positive feedback even before entering the world of escorting. Now I’m able to enjoy the company of true gentlemen and experience a high-end lifestyle while doing what I’m most passionate about.

    To be honest, escorting came very naturally to me.  I was already dating distinguished men.  That along with my sexual nature gave me the confidence to be successful.  I suppose I had the most amount of nervousness with my very first date as I rode the elevator to his hotel room.  Once in the room he began making small talk and starting fussing with the radio and walking around showing me every corner of his space.  I quickly realized he was the nervous one and invited him to the sofa to enjoy a glass of wine with me.  I can always tell when it is someone’s first time and try extra hard to make him or her feel at ease with me.

    Challenges I Face Most Being A Provider

    I want to start by saying I absolutely love and am proud to be part of the sex work industry.  Anything you do in life always comes with it’s own challenges. Mine include a minor but manageable few.  My clients are very busy professionals and I am sensitive to that.  It is tricky however when I am given less than a day notice.  I am completely understanding that the thought to find a date can be sporadic or even last minute.  It does not make our logistics any easier though.  I show up showered, dressed in high-end classy sexy professional attire, makeup, manicure, pedicure, hair done and all items needed.  It takes a lot of time to prepare and longer if I need to travel to you.

    I once had someone give me 13 minutes notice and I was an hour and a half away from his requested location.  I would have loved to meet this person if only I had at very least 24 hours notice.  On the flip side I have gone through all of said steps only for the client(s) not to show.  I do not give those gents a second chance on a date particularly if I found a place to stay unnecessarily.  I often get what I refer to as time wasters. These may consist of folks who never had any intention of seeing me, spend a lot of time texting anything other than logistics, and those who continuously ask for more and more photos.

    I have plenty of very recent professional photos on my website and social media or OnlyFans if you’re even more curious.  😉  The more notice given, the more screening info provided and the more you give the impression you will be kind and safe will likely lead to a fun and relaxed first date.

    Managing My Personal Life As A Provider

    Managing time as a provider is a bit tricky because there is no real set schedule.  My regulars reach out to me when they’re in town and I do my best to see them.  For this reason I am not able to work a traditional 9-5.  I have just enough time to be a successful student, spend time with my gents (sometimes ladies) and any free time I keep balance by visiting friends and family.  If I ever say no to a date it’s simply because I can’t.  Organization is crucial.  I take what I do very seriously.

    From an emotional perspective I think it is very very important that sex workers have a confidant they can talk to.  This work has many benefits and has allowed me to truly be myself. It also comes with a unique set of challenges. Unlike other professions, most of us providers choose not to share the good, the bad and the in-between with friends and family. I can’t imagine it’s healthy to hold all that inside.  Experience has given me the confidence to trust in myself.  I have gotten to a point where I have created equal balance in the amount of work I am doing.

    What Should Gentlemen Who Have Never Engaged A Provider Before Know & Behave?

    Thank you for asking!  First of all, clients should know that it is completely normal to feel nervous especially on our first date.  While I wouldn’t call myself nervous, there is always that initial meet and greet butterflies.  It is very important to me that a gentleman (or lady) does their homework before meeting me.  Proper etiquette and donation amount are clearly written on my website.

    Bonus points to the gents who research even further online or through a friend about how to treat a provider particularly if it’s your first time.  For example, as a provider I want to offer an optimum girlfriend experience.  This is very important to me. During our time I want you to feel cared for, sensual and listened to.  For that reason, it is mandatory your donation for our time together is left in an envelope in the bathroom.  A key ingredient to ensuring a fun and mutually beneficial relationship is to treat your provider with kindness and respect and it will be reciprocated.

    Initial contact with me (texting or email only) should reflect true gentleman behavior just like in the civvy dating world.  If you begin a text with “hey baby” or explicit requests or request we “party” together please understand I cannot / will not respond.  An ideal client will show up with asked for donation without negotiation.  While tipping and gifts are not mandatory I have been grateful for the fair amount of gents who go above and beyond to be generous.  It is always appreciated and likely to ensure future dates. 🙂

    I arrive to our date freshly showered and groomed.  Like all providers, I do expect my gents to arrive with the same attention to hygiene.  You are welcome to use my shower before and after our date within the allotted time.  Speaking of time, we have a reserved time slot for a reason.  It means (like you) I probably have somewhere else to be afterwards … either professional or personal.  Either way please be respectful of time.  I will surely not waste yours. 😉 When I visit Disney World, I would never ask Mickey Mouse to remove his mask.  In the same regard, I kindly ask not to engage in conversation that breaks the fourth wall.  For example, “what is your real name?”  Let’s simply enjoy Disney World!

    Please accept all of the above as means to a great time together as opposed to a list of no’s.  With mutual respect and fairness to one another, a sexy evening will feel fun and organic.

    Something My Clients Should Know About Me

    I truly believe what separates me from most other providers is my open minded, non-judgmental, and adventurous views of sex.  During our date, I can guarantee a true girlfriend experience. I’m an excellent listener and affectionate. Please don’t underestimate my girl next-door appearance or shy demeanor.

    For example, I’ve always enjoyed giving oral to completion.  My gents have been extraordinarily complimentary. 😉 Toys always add a little spice to our fun.  I have experience with girls, couples, and transsexuals.  I love it when my dates feel comfortable enough opening up to me allowing us to explore together.

    Corinne Reilly – Hi!  I am Corinne Reilly from Manhattan. You can often find me in NYC and spend quite a bit of my summers in CT.  When my nose isn’t in school books I love to travel and grab cocktails with my girlfriends.  Let’s be adventurous together!

    Follow Corinne on

    Website: www.corinnereilly.com

    Twitter: www.twitter.com/CorinneReillyNY

    OnlyFans: www.onlyfans.com/corinnereillynyc

    You can also find me on Slixa, Eros and Tryst!

    Upcoming Tours:

    Aug 12-13 NYC
    Aug 19 NYC
    Aug 20 CT casino area.

    August 26-27 NYC

    Fall / Winter NYC

    Images courtesy of Corinne Reilly & Aldo Antonio Photography

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  • Why I Believe In Female Superiority

    Why I Believe In Female Superiority

    As far back as I can remember I always felt that Women were superior to men and that their natural position is to rule over men. I’ve always had an irresistible need to serve and obey Women. To be slapped, whipped and put to work through protocol, to be guided, trained and disciplined by a strong Woman is natural for me.

    Once again, protocol is essential for I live to slave and must slave to live. The physical glamour, stilettos, and leather always represents superiority, strength, intelligence, and beauty.

    I think that kink and the alternative lifestyle serves as a tool to bring people together, allowing the savage within to come out and express itself as it may.

    How My Interest In Female Superiority Started

    Long before puberty, I looked up to Women and recognized their dominance, therefore I wanted to serve, obey, be disciplined and ruled by a Woman. So being submissive wasn’t forced but rather, alive inside of me. It was, and is natural. I am built that way and I recognize and accept the fact that it is who I am. It is a necessary component of myself, and that strengths me in my endeavours to submit to Women.

    Exploring Female Superiority

    In my adolescence years, I displayed humility to women when having the shit slapped out of me while subduing the feeling of getting on my knees and licking their boots And kissing their feet and how good it would have felt to be whipped unmercifully and left to worship them and being put to work.

    In my teens, I went to prostitutes to be disciplined, slapped, whipped with a belt and boot, and foot worshipped. But from there, I went to New York where I experienced a professional Dominatrix with a no sex protocol, Florentine Whipping, obedience training. And would continue to go to New York on a regular bases. All the way from Chicago.

    Why I Believe In Female Superiority

    I have a need for female authority to serve domestically, to be ruled and disciplined, to serve her and make her life easier. Her satisfaction is my goal. To honor, obey, love and protect.

    What I Have Done So Far For My Dommes

    Wait on her hand and foot, and domestic service. Giving myself, time dedication and devotion.

    What It Takes To Be A Good Submissive

    Willingness is the key along with protocol, and communication, a fervor to serve and a spirit to obey.

    Currently, I’m seeking to have a dominatrix in a Collared LifeTime Relationship 24/7. Someone special, and I am retired willing and able to relocate in the U.S. or abroad.

    Though communication is essential, as a slave I should be seen and not heard, my possessions are turned over to my Mistress. I will work diligently at my assigned task, and the luxury and pleasure goes to my Mistress and the chores and ass kickings goes to me. I will make sure that her boots and shoes are cleaned with saddle soap and shined properly at all times and strive to do her bidding.

    Currently I’m seeking to be collared in a 24/7 relationship

    Joel – I am a small, petit black male 510 ht, 165lbs, in my early 60s, kink wise I’m into servitude and corporal, hobbies are cooking, grilling, and barbecue, reading, book club, movies, music,, concerts, traveling, and entertaining cooking having people over, playing cards, interest language and martial arts. I’m fit in good health.

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