Author: SimplySxy Editorial Team

  • What Hobbies Does Rachel Tay Have?

    What Hobbies Does Rachel Tay Have?

    Hi, thanks for the feature. 🙂 I’m from Singapore and I am a fun and adventurous person that is willing to try new things.

    Where do you love to shop from and what is your fashion style?

    I can get lazy at times therefore I do my shopping online or if I’m out with my friends, I’ll be mostly in town to shop. My fashion style depends on the mood and the weather in Singapore but I’ll usually dress in something that I’m comfortable and confident with.

    What beauty products do you use to look so fantastic?

    I can’t live without my lip products and highlighter!

    Do you have any hobbies?

    Gaming, eating and sleeping.

    What kind of movies do you enjoy watching?

    My favourite genre would be action and horror movies hehe.

    If you can travel anywhere in this world, where will you go?

    I would want to visit Maldives and Paris, the city of love, because if I were to pick one of the two options, I’ll be facing a tough time.

    Have you experienced a funny or embarrassing moment before?

    Yes I did! I went drinking with my friends and I thought I was leaning onto a wall/panel but there wasn’t something for me to lean on and I fell on my back with a cute guy standing beside me.

    What is one thing you don’t understand about guys? 

    When a girl says “I’m fine” and the guy believes it.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Rachel. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Being confident is sexy.


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  • What Superpower Does Jessica Lu Like To Have?

    What Superpower Does Jessica Lu Like To Have?

    Hello everyone! Thanks for featuring me on your magazine! I’m from Sydney, Australia and I currently study science at UNSW. I’m hoping to get into postgrad genetics and becoming a genetic counsellor in the near future. My main hobby has been playing around with makeup – it just livens up my day by being able to put a bit of creativity into something.  I also really love travelling with friends and capturing memories!

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    I think the compliment I’ve cherished the most was on how good of a friend I was, it was quite simple and I was really just being there for them when I noticed they were down – I guess I didn’t realise how much of an impact I had just talking to them. It meant a lot to me to know that I was appreciated.

    Where can we catch you partying usually?

    It would either be at someone’s house, a hotel or at a karaoke. I don’t really party unless it’s someone’s birthday – I would much rather a more chill get-together type of scene.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    This is a pretty difficult question to answer because my style has really evolved; currently, I’d say really fun cuts and bright colours that’s the type of vibe I put on Instagram but on a day-to-day it’s really just whatever t-shirt and black denim shorts. My go-to accessories would be gold hoops.

    Is there a food or drink you can never live without?

    B U R R I T O E S are a real obsession for me just the combination of flavours. It’s healthy and absolutely delicious you cannot go wrong.

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    100% a night owl.

    If you could have a superpower, which will it be?

    Honestly something really OP like mind control, I mean if I have a super power might as well be as potent as possible right?

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    OMG just look at my DMs – majority of their messages are just one emoji, like I really don’t know what these guys expect me to do with an emoji. I also get the typical “you’re so sexy” messages, can they at the very least say hi? Please!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Jessica. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I don’t think sexy is and/or should be something that can be defined it’s quite a different experience for everyone. Personally, I’ve always thought that someone who exudes confidence and charisma has been sexy (not overly because that is just obnoxious). I also believe that smart is the new sexy.

    If you’ve read this far thank you for taking the time to get to know me, please feel free to DM me through Instagram if you want to collaborate with me!

    Thanks again for featuring me SimplySxy!


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    Instagram: @jessluuu

    Email: jessluu@outlook.com

    Stay tuned for some new pics that I’ll be shooting!

    I also have a discount code for Haute Swimwear (@haute_swimwear) it is “jess15” at checkout!


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  • How To Test For Low Testosterone At Home And What Foods To Avoid For Treatment

    How To Test For Low Testosterone At Home And What Foods To Avoid For Treatment

    Testosterone is a male sex hormone and that is what separates men from boys by giving them a deeper voice, larger muscles, or hairs on the body and face.  This hormone stimulates the growth of sexual organs since the beginning of the puberty, increases libido and improves mood. However, for years, the amount of testosterone declines naturally, and this period in men’s life is called Andropause.

    Symptoms of low testosterone are:

    Low libido (decreased sexual desire)

    Problems with erection

    Smaller penis

    Decreased spermatozoa count

    Decrease in overall muscle mass

    Increased percentage of body fat

    Loss of body hair

    Depressed mood

    Problems with concentrating

    Feeling fatigue

    One of the most common symptoms of low testosterone is reduced libido. In fact, almost every man suspects having a lower testosterone level, complains of having a lack of sexual desire. Apart from low desire for sex, men with a lack of testosterone are less masturbating and have lesser fantasies and erotic dreams. Parts of the brain in charge of sexual lust such as the amygdala are filled with testosterone receptors. Lack of sexual desire also causes erectile problems, but these problems are not caused by a disease. Without high-quality testosterone, penile tissue, scrotum, and testicles will atrophy and decrease. As a result, there is a decrease in the length and width of the penis. Also, there is a reduced production of sperm, but with the help of therapy, the old “glory” can be restored very quickly. Also there are some scientific ways that help you to boost testosterone levels naturally.

    An increased level of testosterone in the body creates an anabolic state, or a process in which muscles are built. In practice, this means that our organism will formulate processes for the production of proteins that will prevent muscle contraction. When the level of testosterone decreases, our body enters the catabolic state and then decomposes the muscle tissue. This is best seen if you regularly go to a gym where, despite your great effort, your muscles are “melting”.

    Even when you begin to lose weight, a part of your body will begin to grow. Unfortunately, it’s a stomach. Visceral fat is deep abdominal fat deposits that form around our organs and increase the risk of diabetes and heart disease.

    Problems with thinking and memory loss are common symptoms in men with testosterone deficiency. Some of the side effects of testosterone deficiency in addition to sexual dysfunction and weight problems are long lasting bad mood. Consequently, mood disorders such as depression and anxiety can trigger a dangerous cycle because depression can negatively affect the ability of your testicles to produce testosterone.

    Besides aging, there are the reasons that might be contributing to decreased level of testosterone:

    Poor function of the liver

    Poor gastrointestinal health

    Any acute illness

    Blood sugar or insulin problems

    Problems with pituitary gland

    How to determine testosterone level at home?

    Technology outbreaks gave us the solution for testing testosterone at home. There are several products on the market and all of those are using saliva as a specimen, which is very convenient for performing test at home. After you collect the sample of your saliva, you should pack the test kit according to product requirements and sent it by mail to lab for further testing.

    So, once again-you can collect your saliva at home by using some of the test kits available on the market, but the analysis of the saliva and determination of testosterone level has to be performed in the authorized laboratory.

    Can I rely on those tests?

    No one can deny the fact that the most accurate way to determine your testosterone level is to make an appointment at your doctor’s office who will arrange blood sampling (inserting a sterile needle in your vein on the inside of the elbow and filling the lab tube with your blood). Blood sampling is most appropriate to perform between 7 a.m. and 10 a.m., because at that time testosterone level is highest.

    However, if it is too complicated for you, home tests can use as an orientation. Unfortunately, there is still controversy about reliability of saliva versus blood tests.  On one hand, it is less stressful to give saliva sample and more convenient, since you can do that at home. On the other hand, we mustn’t forget that sometimes test results depend on how we collected the sample or handled the home test kit.

    What should I do if my test results are showing low level of testosterone?

    Either way, physical and psychological signs of low testosterone along with the poor test results are an alarm for us to see the doctor and to find out whether the testosterone loss is solely due to ageing, or there might be a disease which affects the level of this sex hormone. Nevertheless, sometimes all we need to do is to change some bad habits that make our testosterone low.

    What food to avoid if my testosterone level is not as expected for my age?

    First of all, we have to make an effort and change some of our habits. That means we have to give up some food that might interfere with testosterone production.

    We have to avoid:

    Alcohol drinking – alcohol destroys our liver, leads to gain weight and boosts estrogen, which all lead to lower testosterone

    Soya – soybeans are full of fytoestrogen which boosts the production of estrogen and lower testosterone

    Low-carb diet – such diet boosts production of stress hormone cortisol, which is further responsible for low testosterone levels

    Trans fats – all products containing those “unhealthy” fats, such as fast foods, snacks, pastry, cookies, cakes, margarine and other vegetable oil spreads affects the testosterone levels.

    There are also results of various studies available where some other foods are listed as potentially bad for adequate testosterone levels, such as any food containing high levels of sugar, microwave pop corns, mint, flaxseed and spearmint, to name some of the few. Also there are some amazing foods that are natural testosterone boosters, try taking these foods to produce more testosterone.


    Article courtesy of Gracy Liura

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  • Fitness Trainer Yuina Uno

    Fitness Trainer Yuina Uno

    I was born and raised in Tokyo until I spent my high school years in Florida for 4 years. Now I’m back in Tokyo, attending a university and working as a fitness trainer.

    When did your interest in being a fitness trainer start?

    I started working out in high school but I would have never imagined I would end up working as a fitness trainer back then. When the opportunity came, I thought, how lucky would I be to do what I love as a job – and now I absolutely love working as a trainer.

    Do you keep to a strict diet or allow cheat days?

    I don’t really keep a strict diet, I focus more on eating healthy to strengthen my body so that’s fun. I do try not to eat junky food but I still do time to time when I crave it. I think the most important thing to keep in mind is that stress is as bad as eating junks – if your strict diet is stressing you out, it’s not worth it for your body.

    Is there any gym etiquette which you wish more people adhered to?

    Umm I guess no staring at girls with only sports bras (for men) haha. It’s really uncomfortable, especially in Japan.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a shopaholic are you?

    Maybe like 3? I’m not much of a shopper but I do have an obsession with bikinis.

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    In Japan, certain years (different for each genders) are believed to be bad years and that you need to go through a certain ritual either the year before, on the year, or after. I only heard about it recently, and found out the year when I was 19 years old was the bad year – it freaked me out because that year was one of the worst times of my life.

    If you could go on a free holiday, where would your destination be?

    Umm that’s a hard question. I love traveling so I always have a lot of places in my mind that I wish I could go to. But if I were to pick one, I guess it’d be Morocco. I am dying to explore their different cities and its beautiful culture.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I’ve been proposed from a guy I met that night haha,

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Yuina. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    The ability to make others want to get to know you and having confidence in yourself, to me, is sexy.


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    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yuinauno/?hl=en

    My food Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tokyogirleats/?hl=en

    YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCrDWfVTGUoJV_wM-KNM_h6w/featured?view_as=subscriber

    Energyfit’s new YouTube channel – we have not posted anything yet, but we will be posing our workout videos and Energyfit trainers’ daily routines etc! (Energyfit is the gym I work at)

    Energyfit: http://www.fitness.mrpink.jp/

    Currently working as an ambassador for MINE BY 3M – An app with latest fashion trends and beauty tips, check it out through http://bit.ly/2kSq0xL


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  • Indonesian Model & Influencer Tabitha Budiman

    Indonesian Model & Influencer Tabitha Budiman

    Hi everyone! Thank you for having me here ? My name is Tabitha, I’m a fashion, beauty and lifestyle blogger from Bali, Indonesia. I’m an accounting graduate, but now I’m working as an Influencer and also modelling in Bali.

    How did your interest in beauty and fashion start?

    I always loved beauty and fashion since I was a kid, and it grows even more when I was a teenager, but I still couldn’t share my ideas or thoughts back then. Then, after graduate from University, there’s a lot of social media platform showing up, I feel so grateful for that and use them to share my passion that has long been buried.

    What inspired you to start Heels and Beyond, and why the name?

    It all began from when I was sharing my daily outfit pictures on social media, when the “ootd” phenomenon was started. What I wore that day, I will capture and share it on my social media (Instagram, Facebook, Twitter). But, as time goes by, I feel like it’s not enough, you know, I feel like I needed a bigger platform than these. So, I started my blog, Heels and Beyond in 2014 which is dedicated to bring any inspiration look whether it’s casual, glamour, party or formal.

    The name of “Heels and Beyond” was actually because I love to wear heels a lot, and because it used to be a fashion blog, I thought people will get the message directly from the “Heels” word. And for the “Beyond” I wanted to emphasize that it’s not limited to just fashion, I also want to share a little bit about what I experience and learn. Basically, it represent a girl’s world which is infinite and endless to many things.

    A year later after I published it, I started to receive a lot of offer for collaboration and invitations to many important events in Bali. The requests also came a lot from beauty and lifestyle brands so I expanded my blog field/categories to fashion, beauty and lifestyle blog.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    Sophisticated, sexy and constantly evolving. I always love a style that makes a statement, especially when it accentuates a woman’s body, that embraces my feminine side. Sexy yet still classy, and constantly evolving means you’re ready to change and open to new trends. What’s most important to me above all is I stay true to be myself.

    Have you witnessed a fashion disaster before?

    Yes, I have. But I think style is also a preference of each individual, as long as you comfortable with it, just go for it.

    Is there something you’ve always wanted to do but haven’t had the time to do so?

    I really want to work on my YouTube channel, but I haven’t had time because I’m so overwhelmed with my Instagram work right now.

    If you could collaborate with anyone past or present, who will it be?

    I always adore Olivier Rousteing’s Balmain design, it will be such a dream come true if I could collaborate with him. And also Michelle Phan, she’s such a big influence and inspiration in my life.

    What do you not get about guys?

    Their selective hearing. They have some issues with listening unless it’s some sensitive topic, they would listen and give full attention to you.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Tabitha. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    To me, sexy is when someone is confident and comfortable with themselves, it’s all about attitude.


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    Website: http://www.heelsandbeyond.com/

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tabithabudiman/

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/heelsandbeyond/

    Twitter: https://twitter.com/tabithabudiman

    Currently I’m working to publish my YouTube channel https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCjYUjzwDuP4WnVGP6xwhKoA, wish me luck!


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  • Stylish & Fashionable Dominique Massicott

    Stylish & Fashionable Dominique Massicott

    Hello!! I’m Dominique Massicott, 18 years old. Born and raised in Houston, Texas and currently in cosmetology school so….. let me know if you’re in need of a new look!!!!

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    “OMG, You look like Zendaya”. It honestly raises my confidence a little more each time someone tells me this!

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    I would consider my fashion style as edgy but really I just dress how I’m feeling in the moment!

    If you could change one thing about the world, what will it be?

    If I could change one thing about the world, I would definitely stop war and hate. In my opinion they’re both negative things and I genuinely deplore the negative!

    Is there a food or drink you can’t live without?

    Yes, I couldn’t live without water. It’s basically the only thing you will catch me drinking, plus it’s good for you so pretty much it’s a win-win situation for me!

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    It’s certainly easier for me to stay up late than it is to wake up early!

    Which genre of music are you most into?

    I don’t have a set genre I listen to, I’m pretty open minded about music. I can say though… when I’m by myself I like to listen to chill/relaxing music. I enjoy remixes too!

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    One time while working at Chick-fil-A, a guy came through the drive thru and I handed him his food. Then he came back around and said, “ I forgot to hand this too you, but call me”… it was his number and I never called him! Whoops!

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Dominique. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    This is an interesting question but, I would define sexy as being confident and comfortable in your own physique!


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    Instagram: @Tawnuim

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  • Get Cinspired By Entrepreneur Tey Cindy

    Get Cinspired By Entrepreneur Tey Cindy

    Hi! My (full) name is Tey Cindy, something I always get asked twice.

    I am the creator of my website, Cin City, but I like to think of myself as a ‘lifestylist’. Since 2005, I have been writing travelogues, guides, and creating content. My goal is for every ‘Cin Citizen’ to find something ‘cinspirational’, valuable or relatable every time they visit teycindy.com.

    I am from a town so small, you most likely don’t even know it exists. But I am proud of that because it taught me “it is not where you come from but how you shape yourself while chasing your dreams, to fit into the world you want to live in”.

    What is your proudest achievement so far?

    Usually I’d say the amazing sponsored trips I received or having my blog featured in the media, but really, it is becoming the person I am today.

    For having a stand in what I believe in, doing my best to earn what I yearn, and fighting for what makes me happy. Mistakes teaches a woman, but lessons make a woman; who is wiser and stronger than yesterday.

    Building that confidence has helped me live a very loved and fulfilled life, which I am very proud of.

    Do you have any personal quotes that motivate you regularly?

    Whenever I fail or feel sluggish, a simple “I can do anything I put my mind to” does it for me. I think it works because I truly believe I can; otherwise as a realist, I won’t aim for it at the first place!

    Stealing a quote from my best friend, “It takes wisdom to make it work”. So get creative, work smart, not just hard.

    Should one day all else fails, live to see more of the world and widen your mind. Then find a cause you really believe in and be part of a supporting community.

    How is a typical day like for you?

    My routine changes, as I am always finding ways to make it suit my lifestyle better.

    I start my morning with what I want to last throughout the day – I exercise to calibrate my posture and am currently taking on the 100-squats-for-30-days challenge. Then I’d listen to Spanish lesson podcasts while clearing away any house chores, before having a good shower as a little reward of the day.

    After brunch I start editing (photos / videos), writing, posting on social media, reply emails and do freelance work. For stress relief, I play with my cat Cinga. This whole chunk takes about 6 hours of my day.

    I am a domestic person by nature. Most days around 6 p.m., I’ll start cooking a nice dinner and end the evening by spending quality time with my husband or myself with a book or Pinterest.

    Is there a place you’ve always wanted to travel but haven’t found the time yet?

    There are so many! If I had to pick one, it’d be Mongolia.

    Which food or drink can you live without?

    Margarine. Everyone should be educated about the disadvantages of this harmful, high trans fat product.

    If you could be a cartoon character, who will you be?

    Sailormoon! Isn’t it such a girl’s fantasy to have a magic ruby pen, long gold locks and a mystery gentleman with red roses to save the day with?

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    I was walking along the street in Singapore, when a guy jumped out in front of me and asked if he could buy me a drink some time. I told him I am married and his response was “I’m not looking for a wife. Can I have your number?” I was like . . . “NO!”

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Cindy. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    The definition of “sexy” for men and women differs slightly to me.

    I find a woman who: is confident in taking control of her own body, understands the importance of loving herself, and knows how to have fun yet owns strong values, very sexy.

    A sexy man to me is a person who reads a lot, is experienced in life, grounded, fit, and most importantly loyal. Because can you hold high regards for a sexy man who is unfaithful?


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    YouTube: www.youtube.com/teycindy

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  • Model & Athlete Joyella Stine

    Model & Athlete Joyella Stine

    I grew up in a small town in Pennsylvania in the United States. I’m 23 years old and love anything relating to health and fitness. I am pursuing a career as a dietitian and a fitness trainer.

    What is the best compliment you have received?

    I tend to get compliments a good bit and it’s humbling and sweet when I do, because I never used to have the confidence that I do now and it’s always nice to know people who will go out of their way to compliment you. So I will compliment as much in return as I can. But the best is when I am told at the gym that I lift more than some guys haha. I love that feeling. I enjoy showing up some of the guys who think girls can’t lift as much as them.

    Do you have any hobbies?

    I love lifting weights and going to the gym. I also thoroughly enjoy reading and writing. I have always loved taking art classes and whenever I have time I love to paint. I love to model and one goal of mine is to be a fitness/swimsuit model high up. I’m pursuing that.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    My fashion style is a good bit of everything. I love to dress up. I would always rather be overdressed than under-dressed for the occasion. But I also wear gym clothes daily and feel great in that.

    Have you been in an embarrassing or crazy situation that is funny now?

    I find myself in hilarious situations all of the time. I always say you need to have a sense of humor and laugh at yourself. You can never be too serious. I can’t think of one that sticks out though worse than others.

    Is there any superstition you believe in?

    Hmmm I’m not sure about superstitions. I read into a lot of conspiracies and love those. You ever see all of the jet streaks in the sky? I have always believed that those are chem trails from the government. I have always believed that the government is 100 times ahead than we all think they are.

    If you could time travel, what will you like to experience or witness?

    If I could time travel I would like to witness Jesus on Earth. I would honestly like to see what that was like and how it compares to what we think today, whether we believe in him or do not.

    What is the funniest or lamest attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    Well I get the most random attempts a good bit in my messages from men. But the most recent one a guy messaged with a flexing picture and told me he benches 130 pounds. To which I replied with a flexing picture and told him I bench 150. Haha

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Joyella. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I define “sexy” as confidence. I find there is a fine line between arrogance and confidence and it’s pretty noticeable when meeting someone. I find that if you believe in what you have, be confident. Whether that is looks, intelligent, style, etc. You being confident changes the entire setting.


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    Instagram: @joyella_nicolefit

    Twitter: @joyella_stine


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  • Blogger, Fashion Stylist & Makeup Artist Laura Simon

    Blogger, Fashion Stylist & Makeup Artist Laura Simon

    My name is Laura and I moved one week ago to Berlin. I work besides as a blogger, as a make-up artist and fashion stylist and I love to travel. My favorite city is Los Angeles. I try to fly there every year.

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    I’s hard to describe my style with words. Because I love to experiment with it. But if I should I would say my style is more edgy.

    What inspired you to start blogging?

    There wasn’t a day where I said, “Oh I’d like to blog something“. It just came. I posted a picture on Instagram and then I started my blog.

    Are there any favorite quotes you have that you use in life?

    Where there’s a will, there’s a way! 🙂

    Is there a fashion accessory or accessories that every lady must own?

    Sunglasses and lipstick.

    If you could a superpower, what will it be and why?

    If I should pick a superpower, I would like to be invisible. Because I can be in a room and hear what others talk behind your back.

    How long do you think you’ll survive a zombie apocalypse?

    Puuuh I really have no idea. Maybe two weeks? 😀

    Is there something you don’t get about guys?

    Too many! 😀

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Laura. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    If you are free and can do what you love. I think everyone is sexy in their own special way. You should feel comfortable with yourself.


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    Instagram: @laurasimon8

    Website: www.laurasimon8.de


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  • 5 Things You Didn’t Know About Dating for Seniors

    5 Things You Didn’t Know About Dating for Seniors

    There are so many clichéd sayings aimed at seniors. Some are positive: ‘I bet you feel young at heart’, or ‘your age is just a number.’  But far more are dismissive. Older people are considered ‘over the hill.’ Seniors in film and television are particularly prone to the fallout of a culture focused on youth.

    But this is all rather ridiculous because one of life’s certainties is we all grow old. Another fact is seniors are looking after their health these days, living longer. They are also dating, in many cases enjoying love lives younger people would be jealous of! So here are five aspects of senior dating you might not have been aware of.

    Personality is way more important than looks

    If there’s one aspect of adult dating that illustrates the different perceptions between old and young it’s physical appearance. Youngsters will tend to rate someone’s appearance as being a priority. But do drop-dead gorgeous looks really out-rank a dull personality; or even worse, a self-obsessed one? Having more experience in life, seniors have cottoned on to the fact that beauty is only skin deep. Compatibility and shared interests and passions are what count.

    The ultimate goal isn’t a trip down the aisle

    A lot of younger people use dating apps or websites try and hook-up with someone who might become a partner. Before even embarking on this quest they might secretly be hoping to get introduced to ‘the one’; the person who will eventually accompany them down the aisle. Seniors may well be keen on getting hitched again, but if they are divorcees, or widows/widowers, with extended families, they’ll be quite happy keeping thing casual. Senior dating is far more focused on companionship than longer-term aspirations – although romance is still all-important.

    Nights out are to be savored

    Seniors might have spent their earlier days doing the same things the current younger generation love doing – partying, drinking in bars, socializing in lively nightspots. Age brings a sense of discernment. Okay, let’s call that fussiness, and why not! Some get to an age where they’d rather appreciate the finer things, like dining in sumptuous restaurants (especially if their retirement lump sum ensures they can do this as often as they want.) With so much emphasis on eating well these days, not to mention wall-to-wall TV cookery shows, senior dating often involves sharing a romantic home-cooked meal.

    It’s not necessarily monogamous

    Monogamy plays in important part in dating when you are younger and seeking a companion you can fall for, with trust a major issue when it comes to online matchmaking. This is less so for seniors. This doesn’t mean older people like playing the field, as if maturity is somehow making their hormones run wild! It’s merely an indication that older people are looking for different things in a relationship (or relationships.) Perhaps they have one companion they take out for a drink on a certain day. Another who shares their passion for ballroom dancing, and so on. When it comes to a physical relationship they will still tend to prefer monogamy. But senior dating is very much about individual needs rather than what society expects.

    The offline world is best

    For all that a lot of older people are far savvier with IT these days, there is still an element of wanting to leave noisy, 24/7 social media to the youth. Seniors may well flirt online with as much verve as someone younger, but they’ll be more likely to prefer old-fashioned face-to-face encounters. Senior dates aren’t conducted via a computer screen, they involve meeting in the real world.


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