The modern world of sex toys is one that spans far and wide, as there are currently an endless number of little devices aimed to help you enhance your sex life in both self and partner play. With this vast collection comes a variety of different characteristics in your toy, as each maintains a unique size, shape, and curvature.
And the unique nature of all of these toys, especially a vibrator for women that can range so greatly in size, arises the truth that yes;
Sometimes sex toys do get stuck inside you!
And if you have found yourself in the position of frantically wondering what you should do if a vibrator gets stuck inside you, then before getting into the more detailed advice, please-
Start First With Breathing!
Although there are quite a few necessary differences in the steps you should take if a sex toy gets stuck inside your vagina versus your anus, start first with taking a few deep breaths! No matter what, breathing will help you to lower your heart rate, and relaxing your tense body is one of the most essential steps in helping to remove a vibrator as it will assist in not making your current situation worse!
Seriously, just know that everything is going to be entirely okay and this is a normal occurrence, so never feel embarrassed or afraid to seek help, whether that be from your partner or a healthcare provider, and breathe slowly to approach the situation with a strategically calm mind.
What To Do If A Vibrator Gets Stuck Inside Your Vagina vs. Stuck In Your Anus
I am going to be blunt here because it is the best advice for you… If a sex toy is stuck in your butt, then unfortunately you are going to need medical care, so keep breathing slowly and seek immediate attention. You see, a sex toy getting stuck in the vagina is usually a totally different experience, as the cervix of your vagina will act as a literal wall to prevent that little hand-held bullet vibrator for women from entering the womb.
Pretty handy of evolution to hand us that one, right?
Yet the anal cavity just isn’t quite there on preventative measures. If a sex toy gets stuck in your anus, then there is a chance that it will continue to move further up and eventually into the digestive tract which will require surgery (Hint: This is why it is important to use body region-specific sex toys like the high-quality butt plugs from “V for Vibes”) to remove it safely.
Your best bet is to not try and reach your fingers inside to grab it out as this will even further push the toy in, and instead head to the doctor. Like I said, your doctor has seen this before and it is nothing to be afraid of, so take the lesson learned and get yourself all fixed up!
If you have a vibrator stuck in your vagina, however, then although you can always seek medical attention as the best and safest means to get it out, there are also plenty of effective techniques you can implement to get your favorite little woman’s vibrator out of you!
What To Do If A Vibrator Gets Stuck Inside Your Vagina
Lay Down and Breathe
Remember that breathing is the most important thing in this situation! Lay yourself down flat and continue to relax your entire body by closing your eyes and breathing slowly. It will indeed feel difficult to enter a meditative state when you know that something is stuck inside you, but you have to do your best to try!
This is because the key to getting anything out of your vagina begins with pure relaxation of the muscles, as your vagina is quite strong, and any extra tenseness will further tighten that grip on the toy. By laying down, you will help your entire pelvic floor to relax. To further do this try bringing your feet together.
This position feels great during sex as it enhances stimulation as a result of calm muscles, but it is also a great position to try and get a stuck toy out of your vagina for the same reasons. When you are calm, breathing, and laying down with your heels together, slowly reach your fingers inside and see if you can’t find a grip on the stuck vibrator.
Chances are you will be able to feel it, and once you have, keep breathing while you pull it out. Just be careful to not take this too fast, as you don’t want to injure yourself further, and wallah!
Use Gravity To Your Advantage!
Gravity is one heck of a force, so try utilizing a squatting position to enhance the natural ‘downward and out’ direction of the vibrator with gravity. Get out of bed, keep those deep breathes a-comin’, and place your feet about shoulder-width apart to enter the squatting position.
Lower your core until your butt is hanging down around your knees. Once you are squatting, begin increasing the strength of your breaths to push the toy out of your body. Not quite as crazy as giving birth, but be strong with your force while ironically remaining as calm as possible.
If the gravity and pushing together do not bring the sex toy completely out, then use your fingers as well while still in the squatting position to try and grab it. The position of your body should allow you to easily feel inside yourself and snag that sneaky little vibrator for women right out!
Lube Is Your Friend
No matter what method you choose in finding an answer as to what to do if a vibrator gets stuck inside you, regardless of such;
There is no such thing as too much lube!
Lube is your friend, and it is an extremely important asset in removing a stuck sex toy. Not only will lube help to prevent any stretching or tearing of the vaginal wall, but it will also help give you the lubrication required to comfortably stick your fingers inside and up to the cervix.
Just remember, vaginas are technically made to stretch, but you never want to force anything that is beyond your comfort zones. If you simply cannot bring yourself to what it takes to reach your hand inside to pull it out, then seek medical attention to do so for you. But if you can, then use a ton and a ton of lube to make the sex toy removal as smooth as possible.
When You Can, Ask for Help!
Unless you have accidentally had too much fun using your vibrator for women by yourself and inevitably lost it inside, then chances are there will be a partner with you who can help you out in this situation. First of all, as soon as you realize a vibrator is stuck inside you, you need to stop any further sexual activity.
Tell them what has happened so that nothing is done that will push the toy deeper inside. And then, approach the situation together!
An extra pair of hands will do you a lot of good here, as they will have a lot better of an angle in finding and grabbing the toy with their fingers. Just as well, it can help you to further lay back and straighten out your body by preventing the awkward lean that occurs from reaching your hand down towards your vagina. If it helps, use your hands to spread your vagina apart so that your partner can easily navigate and see to remain as delicate as possible in this process.
Take A Moment To Look Around You
I know this might seem silly, but if you really cannot get the sex toy out of your vagina, then you must question one time if it even got stuck! Look diligently around the area and under every one of your sheets. Sex toys are slippery and they can be small, so maybe you did not lose it inside yourself but instead lost it somewhere else!
Double-check and take but a few moments to look around you before moving on to the next step in getting it out.
Always Seek Medical Advice
Please please, your body is your body, and to look out for your health in the best manner possible, the safest and most efficient method in removing a sex toy or vibrator from your vagina is to simply seek medical care in doing so.
Your doctor will ensure that everything has been done properly and that nothing else has slipped inside(like a battery), so if it feels right simply do not wait any longer and get yourself professionally checked out for the absolute best results!
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