A Beginners Guide To BDSM

Kink and alternative lifestyles are my lifeblood, if no one was freaky in bed and no one lived differently than the standard relationship, I’d be a sad girl. I’m very open minded to all kinks, whether it be feet or flogging, pain or punishment. I love to surprise people with this, because most don’t expect this from me.

Why BDSM Appeals To Me

What drew me into BDSM, and a large reason of why I believe it’s popular, is because it plays on control. For someone like me, who is in control of everything all the time, switching it up and letting someone else take the reigns and decide what to do is fun. It doesn’t hurt that I’m a bit of a masochist and giggle when flogged.

Introducing BDSM To Someone New

If I meet someone who is nervous, but wants to try BDSM, I’ll show them how to use the tools on them first, nice and light, just so they can feel how it’s supposed to go. For example, someone wanted to use my flogger on me, but has never used one before, I lightly flogged their backside, just barely enough to sting, next to a mirror, so they could see how I was swinging it as well.

Tips For Beginners To Find Their Kink

If you’re new to BDSM and trying to find your thing, I’d suggest trying a little bit of everything. If you already know pain isn’t for you, then I wouldn’t go trying electricity.

If you know you love littles, I wouldn’t look for a Dominant MILF. Be open minded and if you try enough things (or watch enough porn), you’ll find your kink eventually!

Aurora Roseris – Sweet ‘n’ kinky. I love nature, cooking, pain, and gaming. I can be a bratty sub or a cruel mistress, you decide.

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