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  • How To Spice Things Up With Roleplay

    How To Spice Things Up With Roleplay

    Whether between a heterosexual or homosexual couple, sex is sex. Beyond that however, sex is an addition to body language as it’s a way of communication through touch and sound. You can learn to know someone’s interests through the arch in their back or moans of satisfaction. Even with sex by yourself, you’re able to understand your body better. Some find sex to be a dirty thing and in actuality, it isn’t all about a sweaty race to orgasms. Sex can help with sleep, reduce tension and ease stress. It’s healthy, natural and best between consenting safe playing partners.

    I genuinely love sex and would have it every day if I could. Whether it’s in a committed relationship or a no strings attached one, it’s best when we’re both interested in mutual satisfaction. Selfish lovers aren’t welcome here. I like to switch it up by having sex in different positions, places and even acting as someone other than myself. As a matter of fact, at the age of 19 was when I roleplayed for the first time. Using my baseball player Halloween costume, I enhanced the look with heels and surprised my boyfriend at the time. You can say I took one for the team and had many hits out of the park.

    Why Roleplay Is Popular

    Roleplaying is popular for spicing things up because new additions are being brought into the bedroom. In some cases, sex and most importantly foreplay, can become quite of a routine resulting in a diminishing desire for intimacy between couples. Roleplay allows for an escape and exploration into a new world while having the ability to try new things. Imagine coming home after a long day of work to your partner laid back on the couch. A note for you reads “Congratulations on your new Dreambot! Kiss, lick and squeeze. Yes, I’m ready to please”.

    Favorite Roleplay Scenarios I Love

    Two of my favorite scenarios are daddy/daughter and teacher/student roleplaying. Though both consist of a couple elements within BDSM which include the “DS” being dominant/submissive, they are different in their own way.

    Acting as daddy’s girl, I generally portray two types of personalities. One being somewhat naïve and innocent, I hesitate but don’t resist. I’m compliant and unbeknownst to me; ready to please.

    The other is boldly ready and willing with an “I won’t tell” type attitude. I don’t take control but I’m easily seduced. When it comes to acting as a schoolgirl, I’m sweet but I could be bratty. I don’t care for much and always in trouble. That is, until I get my one on one lesson.

    Is Roleplay Difficult The First Time?

    When trying roleplay for the first time, it shouldn’t be difficult to act like a character outside of yourself but it may be challenging to take things seriously. You may find your partner and especially yourself fighting away the giggles as you go through a series of dialogue and that’s ok. Burst out laughing, continue or start again.

    Don’t expect perfection the first few times because it will be a bit awkward. There are the few that will feel comfortable in roleplay while their partner may be nervous or shy. If your partner stops, don’t break your character in starting over but use that role to help them ease into theirs.

    Do’s & Don’ts When Engaging In Roleplays

    DO:

    Participate with a willing partner. No one likes to partake in anything they’re not truly interested in.

    Discuss the storyline. Who has what role? What are you interested in and looking to explore?

    Do your best at staying in character. Even if you mess up, try again. Encourage each other to continue in the role.

    Write a script. This allows for the scenario to flow rather than the delayed responses when thinking of what to say.

    Add props and costumes. Sometimes having the full illusion can increase enjoyment.

    Have a safety word if your scenario includes elements of BDSM (restraints, infliction of pain etc).

    Talk about your likes and dislikes once the scenario has finished to decide what can be changed for a better experience next time.

    DON’T:

    Don’t perform acts without prior permission. The fastest way to ruin the mood is having something done to you or another that wasn’t expected.

    Don’t assume that just because you initiated a surprise scenario that you could perform anything on your partner.

    Don’t expect perfection at the beginning. It will take some time to ease into the roles and especially become quick-witted with your dialogue.

    Don’t become upset if your partner doesn’t catch onto the hang of things as fast as you. Patience is key.

    Don’t talk out of character. While you may be doing a great job paying off the debt to your “pizza deliverer”, there is no need to remind them at that point that their mother called earlier.

    Tips For An Unforgettable Roleplay Experience

    To make the experience of roleplaying an unforgettable one, communication should be top priority. You and your partner need to discuss the type of scenarios that will be explored and whether or not the two of you are comfortable in it.

    If you’re really looking to step things up, take your scenarios outside of the bedroom. While at work, send an email or a text in character. Not only are you sexting but you’re building up anticipation through extended foreplay. You could also try picking each other up at the bar or grocery store. Acting like strangers meeting for the first time can make for an exhilarating experience.

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  • Malaysian Model & Fashion Lover Farisya Zul

    Malaysian Model & Fashion Lover Farisya Zul

    I’m Farisya, I live in Petaling Jaya and now I’m working in fashion industry and I’m doing modeling as well. I’m a people-person. I love meeting new people and learn about their lives and their backgrounds. I always enjoy meeting new people and love making new friends.

    I would describe myself as an outgoing, fun, open-minded, cheerful person. I am easy to talk to and a good listener. I understand people and I make friends very easily. I like to explore new things in life and traveling as well!

    How will you describe your fashion style?

    My fashion style? I like to dress according to my mood but I’m more into street wear style and sometimes sexy fashion style, and I love wearing slip dresses and wearing it with stiletto heels or boots.

    Are there any accessories or items in your wardrobe you can’t live without?

    It’s a must to bring my black sunglasses everywhere I go!

    Do you have any favorite quotes you like to use in life?

    “Many of life’s failures are people who did not realize how close they were to success when they gave up.” -Thomas A. Edison

    “Don’t worry about failures, worry about the chances you miss when you don’t even try.” – Jack Canfield

    I always read this whenever I feel like giving up in life. It gives me hope to keep going and never stop achieving my goals.

    If you can have a superpower, what will it be?

    I wish I can read people’s minds. I think it would just be an awesome feeling to know what everyone’s thinking.

    Which is your travel destination?

    I always wanted to go to Rome! One of the main reasons I want to go there is to visit their museums especially the famous Colosseum.

    Have you been in an embarrassing situation before that is funny now when looking back?

    Yes of course! I remembered waving at a stranger thinking it’s my friend. She gave me the weird impression. It was an awkward moment for me.

    What turns you off on a date?

    Honestly what turns me off on a date is not talking. If my date goes radio silent, that date is effectively dead. Another thing that turns me off is bragging. It’s supposed to be a chance to get to know the other person better instead of showing off.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Farisya. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”?

    Honestly, what defines ‘sexy’ is not just how you look or wear but it’s more about the personality. For me what defines sexy is to have great personality and attitude. What is sexy to me? It’s having a great sense of humour. A great sense of humour is able to take things lightly and laugh at oneself and life situations, in effect making people comfortable in what could be unpleasant or uncomfortable moments.

    Second is confidence not conceited. No one likes anyone who is full of themselves. Be kind to others and animals as well. Respect and appreciate people and don’t forget to always be humble in life. Maturity is needed. I also think intelligence defines ‘sexy’ , it is to have knowledge and a good amount of mental ability.

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  • What It’s Like To Do Porn In Latin America

    What It’s Like To Do Porn In Latin America

    We feel sex as an energy that does not start with anyone. There always has to be a morbid and a connection, and without a doubt, we are not referring to physical attraction. We are creative people, we have 1000% our imagination and we also believe that this is an important part in each orgasm.

    Culture & Attitude Towards Porn In The Dominican Republic

    It is an island where the majority of the population is Catholic / Christian. The male chauvinist culture embraces everything it can and I really mean everything!

    Doing porn can be really demeaning and unacceptable for some but as is common, for others it generates a lot of curiosity and curiosity towards the forbidden. Our public would love to grow producers here in the country, and they support us even though for us, I think that would be too big a challenge.

    Dominican Republic has a few other actresses and porn actors, but very little of them is found. And currently they do not live in the country. Nor is professional content produced.

    We have been limited to just us on stage. Caring for our sexual health, which is the most important because the taboo is not only towards pornography but towards sex as such. There are many people who have never had an STD test in their life, perhaps out of simple shame and we do not want to put ourselves at risk.

    The Inspiration Behind Producing Our Porn

    Ria – When I was about twelve years old, I started watching porn and just coincidentally, one day I appeared late on television making of The Bunny Ranch. And I loved the idea of ​​being behind the cameras in those intimate moments, you could feel how the connection and naturalness in the intimate scenes was real and without worthy stereotypes.

    Carel – Just the detail of mixing art, beauty and curiosity, today brought us here. We flowed very well because one was very assiduous to porn and the other wise to see beauty through the lens. We only took the first step and from the point of our first idea, we try to improve each time.

    Favorite Scenes To Shoot

    Ria – My favorite scenes to shoot are those of blowjobs. I like the sound of saliva, and how dramatic it can be when the makeup runs.

    Carel – Mine is hardcore, many positions, lots of action, sweat and energy. I like to feel the adrenaline.

    How The Response Has Been

    AMAZING. We definitely did not imagine so much attention and support, from the beginning. They love the idea of ​​porn as a couple, they also love the idea that even though it is a couple, it is not romantic porn, and they know of course that it is not fake. They feel very identified.

    Does This Inspire Other Couples Too?

    Absolutely yes, we have received proposals from couples who would like to do the same, we often interact in our Instagram account (when it is not reported clearly, hehe) with other couples who ask us for advice about jealousy, orgasms, trust and self-confidence.

    What Couples Should Know Before Trying It Out

    They must be prepared and very sure of wanting to do this, and make sure they have the support of each other; they will become a team from now on. The work is in pairs that is what really matters.

    My advice is to show your true love, warm up as much as you can and let everything flow.

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  • Import Model Amanda Faith Vistro

    Import Model Amanda Faith Vistro

    My name is Amanda Faith Vistro and I’m from the Bay Area.

    Which is the best compliment you have received?

    The best compliment I’ve ever received is that I have such a strong personality and will say what’s on my mind, no matter what.

    Do you have any hobbies or interests?

    I love to rave and go on late night drives. More of a night owl.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a foodie are you?

    10

    Are you more of a morning person or night owl?

    NIGHT OWL!!! Nocturnal for life.

    Do you believe in any superstition?

    I believe if you say something like, “You know if I crash […]” to knock on wood three times, so that it doesn’t happen.

    Which flavor best describes you?

    I’m made of milk tea.

    What do you not get about guys?

    Ehh, every guy is different. Can’t really say.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Amanda. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is however you feel in your own skin or what you do. Where you feel like a bad bitch, walking with your head high.

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  • Managing & Meeting Sexual Expectations

    Managing & Meeting Sexual Expectations

    For me, sexuality is a really important part on human relationships. I value respect and consent above all. I love looking into people’s eyes and seeing the story behind them, creating a real and deep connection.

    Also, we talk a lot about sex, but not in the best way, so I think there’s socially a lot of misinformation about this topic. Usually, when they talk to us about sex at school, is related to reproduction.  And it is not that everytime I want to have sex is to have kids. In fact, most of the times I have sex, it doesn’t involve a penis penetration. This practice is conceived to be the only possibility in Girl-Boy sex. Well, it is not. I love giving anal pleasure when I am sexually involved with a man. Rimming, penetrating him with my fingers or with a strap-on. A male’s anus is an incredible source of pleasure, and it is a pity so many men around the world are missing that because of gender roles and social impositions.

    Other sexualities are also invisible, as women who like women, fat people or people with different abilities’ sexual desire… We tend to conceive gender as something binary: women and men. But there’s also non-binary folks, transgendered people and loads of different identities that the system doesn’t let us express or see.

    Do Men & Women Have Different Expectations On Sex?

    I think everyone needs affection, attention and to feel desirable, independently on their gender. Either way, I think the way they express it, can be different because of the way we have been socialized in an oppressive system.

    When I was younger, I found myself getting in bed with men and most of them didn’t want to give me oral sex (but they expected me to do so), didn’t touch my clit (or they did it, but in an unpleasant way) and didn’t know how to make their fingers reach my G spot. As it is kind of difficult to reach an orgasm only with penis-in-vagina penetration, I used to fake my orgasms. Nobody ever told me that I could ask things I like or say “no”. In this situation, to decide I wouldn’t fake an orgasm in my personal life never again was something liberating.

    I’ve never felt the same pressure with other girls. I don’t mean us girls and other gender identities don’t have to check what we are doing as well, everybody can behave in an abusive way if we don’t take care of people we share ourselves with. But, also because of the patriarchy, women, trans and non-binary people I had sex with empathized more with me than men.

    Now I still have sex with other women, trans and non-binary people, but men I connect with this time, behave in a really communicative way and I also enjoy sex with them.  In the end, it’s all about deconstructing the behavior patterns we’ve learnt.

    How To Meet Differing Sexual Expectations

    Communication. And education, not only in sex, but in each part of our lives.

    Misconceptions About Consent

    I heard people telling that asking for consent and talking during sexual experiences turns them off.  What? Really, what turns me off is thinking my sexual partners can be uncomfortable, may want something different or even they’re feeling forced to make a sexual practice.

    All of us have boundaries, things we don’t like to do, things we would do in another moment but not right now and it is so important to be able to express them. In addition, nobody knows your body better than you, so why wouldn’t you want to express your needs and desires, as well as to hear your lovers’?

    What Everyone Should Know About Sexual Consent

    For me is the base to have, not only pleasant, but ethical sex. As loads of activists say, consent is not silence, consent is not “hmm… alright”, consent is not “no, no, no, okay, yes” (only for you to be quiet and stop being so insistent). Consent is a big YES (saying this I don’t want to invisibilize sex workers, we sometimes consent sexual practices without really craving about it and this doesn’t mean they’re raping us).

    The fact that I told you “yes” when it came to have sex with you doesn’t mean now we can do anything.  Maybe I want to get in bed with you, but I don’t want to be penetrated. Maybe today I don’t feel like giving or receiving oral sex. “But yesterday we did that, and it was so cool”, yay, but doesn’t mean I always want to do the same things. I don’t want to eat salad everyday, for example, so it happens the same in here.

    The fact that one day we had sex, doesn’t mean you’re entitled to fuck with me again. Or even if we have a strong relationship, doesn’t allow to have access to my body anytime you want. And the same works for me. We can always change our mind, as well. We both (or more) may be naked and wet, but if one of us suddenly changes their mind, then we have to respect that decision. Everytime we change the sexual practice, it is okay to ask if our sexual mate is in the mood for doing so. Also asking for the level of intensity, the speed, etc. is necessary.

    How Underrated Is Communication?

    There is the misconception that, when you talk during sex, the experience is not “flowing”, that something must be wrong. Socially, people doesn’t expect an opressed person to talk, so imagine in bed.

    To sumarize it all, I would like to encourage people to rethink the way they create and maintain their relationships so they can be more healthy. It’s time to speak up!

    Hi! This is Ivy de Luna, a feminist X performer who began her career one year ago. I want to make the kind of scenes I’d like to see on the screen. I love having sex with other women, trans, and non-binary people.

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  • Idaho Model Kristen Tatilian

    Idaho Model Kristen Tatilian

    I’m a 28 year old full time SAHM and part time model based in Boise, Idaho. I’m also a pageant veteran; I’ve been competing in pageants for over ten years and it’s something I absolutely love.

    What is your fashion style like?

    It really depends on the day and my mood. Some days I’m “hobo-chic”, other days I’m sexy-sophisticated. Most days I’m laid-back and comfy.

    Which is your proudest achievement so far?

    I have two!

    Being a good mom. I thought I never wanted kids and when I was pregnant, I thought I’d be a bad mom. Turns out, I feel like I’m truly good at it! The proudest achievement is that I’ve raised a happy, kind, intelligent, social three year so far and she’s my little bestie.

    The second would be walking in Miami Swim Week! I’ve loved modeling and have wanted to model since I was a child. Finally these crazy dreams are turning into reality!

    How do you like to spend your free time?

    I don’t usually have a lot of free time, but when I do, I like to spend it unplanned. I enjoy eating lunch on a patio, with a glass of Sauvignon Blanc. Binging a new Netflix series. On occasion I’ll shop till I drop!

    Is there something you can’t get enough of in life?

    Sleep! One of my fantasies is to take a weekend to myself at a hotel, sleep as much as I want, order room service, and sleep more!

    Where have you always wanted to travel to but have yet to find the time for it?

    I adore traveling! I’ve been all over the United States and I’ve been to six countries. If I could choose anywhere to go at this moment, it would be somewhere tropical. Maybe Fiji or Bora Bora. I want to visit Egypt, Thailand, Brazil, South Africa, and France…literally everywhere!

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    Again, it totally depends on my mood! I can be a -2 or I can be a 12. I’d say on average, I’m a 3. Partying doesn’t entice me anymore. I’d rather spend $1000 on fine dining than a club.

    What flavor best describes you?

    Pistachio. If you’ve never tried it, you might be a little apprehensive. But if you try it and enjoy it, you can’t get enough! On the other hand, it’s not a flavor for everyone, haha.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Kristen. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    I think being sexy is being 100% authentic! Don’t try to be like anybody else, just do YOU! And when someone is confident being 100% themselves, that is sexy.

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  • How To Have A Successful Gangbang

    How To Have A Successful Gangbang

    I love being in a gangbang. I love the attention. I love being a slut. I love all these guys there to please me. I love seeing how horny I make a group of guys. As a female, if you haven’t been a part of a gangbang, then you are missing out. I have had three gangbangs and held eight BBC parties which just turned into gangbangs and they were all amazing.

    What Makes A Gangbang So Hot?

    It’s all about me. A bunch of guys show up just to have sex with me. That makes me feel hot. It’s dirty, wrong, and taboo.  It’s not how a lady is supposed to act.  I can be free and just be totally taken by a group of men.

    There is something empowering about the situation while also submissive, for a brief moment in time everything is about me. I just become a subject of desire for a group of men and all other cares and concerns of normal life are completely out the window.

    The Ideal Gangbang Number

    Eight has seemed to be perfect.  My personal record for number of a guys in a night is eight and that was a great time. I wouldn’t hold a gangbang with any less than six. Some can play while other’s rest. Eight usually allows you to always have at least two or three playing at all times or you can have five run a train and take a break and have three ready to go.  The options are endless. Most guys cum at least twice, I had one guy cum five times in one night, he was an all-star.

    You need to select a number which you think you can handle and also that you think you can please. You never want a guy to leave unsatisfied.  Also, it really all depends on what you are looking for. Something more casual and you may just want four guys. If you want to really feel used and slutty, maybe like twelve.

    Preparing For A Gangbang

    Getting ready is easy. I like taking a bubble bath and making sure everything is shaved up perfect.  A little makeup on my face and I’m ready.

    Setting up the gangbang is a different story.  First finding guys. We have used everything from Craigslist (now Doublelist), Twitter, Whisper, SLS, KIK, and then have a vetting process of getting pictures and verifying people and talking to them about their experiences.  Usually my fiancé takes over the planning. Then we get their phone numbers if they seem like a good fit and all information is distributed through text.  Communication is key, always over communicate. Send out some dirty pictures to make sure they stay interested and confirm they will show. Then expect half of them won’t show up. So, if I want eight guys, we will invite sixteen.  It never fails, half are no shows.

    Find a nice hotel and request a room far away from everyone else.  Get extra towels. Make sure to bring some water, hydration is key.  Text the guys the room number and explain to them where the room is, because it sucks when a guest ends up at the front desk asking where the gangbang is, yes that happened.

    Does Everyone In A Gangbang Get Equal Action?

    They don’t! Some guys can go three or four rounds. Some are one and done. Some guys end up not being able to perform in front of others.  Some guys show up and don’t get along well with others. I have found that the room generally self-polices so most issues work themselves out. I luck out because my fiancé is 6’7” so if a problem doesn’t work it’s self out, then he will.  So there are a ton of factors as to who goes when and for how long.

    I will say though, the guys gangbanging me have been some of the politest I have ever met.  I’ll be getting pounded really nice and deep and a guy will stop to offer my pussy to another guy. “Would you care for a turn?” I’m moaning for him to keep fucking me and he’s worried he’s taking up too much time in my pussy. Situations like that are actually much more common than someone trying to dominate the situation.

    Gangbang Do’s & Don’ts To Follow

    Do bring lots of lube and condoms – Safe play only in groups for this girl, and most. And condoms dry me up so you got to have lube.

    Don’t expect bareback sex – Meet me privately with a test for that. I can’t keep track of who does and doesn’t have a test in a group.

    Do clean up after yourself – I hate when guys throw condoms everywhere. It’s just disgusting.

    Do be courteous – There is plenty to go around, and everyone is there to enjoy. There is something charming about a bunch of guys working together to please a woman.

    Do be hard – There’s a bunch of guys there ready to go.  You need to be hard when you approach the girl.  Don’t expect everyone to wait for you to get fluffed.

    Don’t be smelly or dirty – Take a shower and be clean.  This goes for every sexual situation.

    Do be comfortable with yourself and relax – You should have already sent pictures of yourself and what you’re working with. No other guy is looking at you, they are there for the women. And she should have already selected you based on your pics and conversation.  You are already in, stay out of your head and enjoy.

    Do be able to perform in front of others – If you can’t then don’t sign up for a gangbang. It’s not for everyone and that’s ok.

    Do be on time – No one likes a hotel room door opening and closing while there are a bunch of naked people in there and it’s just rude to not be on time.

    Don’t get drunk – If you need to drink or use drugs to attend and gangbang, then it’s not for you.  No one wants to fuck or deal with someone drunk in a situation like this. It’s a good way to be asked to leave.

    Roxy Dover – Just your typical horny milf turned amateur pornstar.  I love being a slut for a big cock, especially, but not exclusively, a BBC.  I seem to be a swinger first and a pornstar second.  My private sex life makes my on-screen sex life look vanilla.

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  • Glam It Up With Ivy Chew

    Glam It Up With Ivy Chew

    My fashion style? On normal days, I wear whatever feels comfortable to be honest. I’m usually pretty simple when it comes to fashion, most of the time I’ll be in leggings and my boyfriend’s hoodie! Haha. But I do dress up sometimes, depending on the occasion.

    Where do you love to shop from?

    I love shopping at H&M! 90% of my clothes are from H&M, I love it because they always have pretty good deals so it’s pretty great as their quality is good too!

    Do you follow a strict beauty regime to look so amazing?

    Nope, I don’t have a strict beauty regime, it’s too much work! I like to keep things simple and as natural as possible. You wouldn’t believe me when I say this but, I’m using a handwash as my cleanser!

    And it works wonders for me as I have super sensitive skin and the ingredients in the handwash that I’m currently using on my face is all plant-based. So after I cleanse my face, I’ll just use a toner and moisturizer, and a face mask twice every week, that’s it!

    How much of a party animal are you?

    Oh, I’m not a party animal at all. I did enjoy the fun at one point when I was younger but now, I’d rather stay home and be in my own space. I feel like being party animal is really tiring and it’s not my thing at all, because let’s be honest, that lifestyle can be quite a waste of time and money!

    What have you always wanted to do but have yet to find the time for it?

    I’ve always wanted to learn dancing and to improve my martial arts. I hope I get to make time for it soon!

    Is there any food or drink you don’t take?

    Food wise, I actually don’t like Petai, it’s a type of bean and it is a popular local dish among Malaysians, I don’t fancy it because it makes your breath and farts stink! Haha.

    For drinks, I don’t like beer as it makes me feel bloated with all the gas.

    What is a funny or awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    A funny and awkward attempt? There is quite a few but it happened so long ago I’ve forgotten about it! Haha.

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Ivy. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    My definition of sexy? Everyone can be sexy in their own way, it is how you carry yourself. Confidence, honesty, kindness and intelligence. That’s sexy.

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  • Ways To Explore BDSM & Fetishes

    Ways To Explore BDSM & Fetishes

    There’s a huge taboo around kink and anything beyond the heteronormative views of sex that we are fed in common culture and media today. Ask the Average Joe these days and sex means penis in vagina, missionary – maybe doggy if you’re feeling crazy, and oral if you’re really out there.

    Besides the fact that this view basically makes queer sex impossible, I don’t think even Average Joe thinks that it really fits the definition of great sex. When it comes to our views on what makes sex amazing, almost every person I know is at least a little bit kinky.  Whether it’s wishing your partner would get a little rougher, bite a little harder, or completely take over tenderly and sweetly worshipping every inch of your body, that’s a desire for kinkier sex!

    I think more people should embrace kink. It leads to greater intimacy, a better sense of who you are and what you want and ultimately, better sex.

    How I Got Started Into BDSM

    I mean, I grew up Catholic, so getting off on shame came very naturally to me. All jokes aside, I feel like I was one of those people who was just born with darker tastes. Even in my earliest memories of learning about sex and discovering my sexuality, I craved power imbalances and a kind of love that felt so good it hurt. I think I always looked for those kinds of examples in books, art, movies, etc.

    It wasn’t until I got into college actually that I started to learn about BDSM itself and I started to explore the kink community. I think I got the idea from a roommate who was ranting about how terrible 50 Shades was/is, and I was finally old enough and independent enough to feel comfortable seeking more information in books and on the internet until I felt good and ready to start meeting people in real life.

    My first munch was at this horrible diner in NYC and I had to take an hour long train to get there, but it was really awesome and I’ve never looked back.

    My Favorite Fetishes

    OOF. That’s a toughie because, as a performer, I have favorite fetishes in content creation and then I have personal favorites. I think my favorite fetish is probably tease and denial. I love embracing my inner Goddess, taking control of a partner – especially if they’re much bigger than me and could otherwise overpower me – tying them down somewhere and then teasing them until they’re a writhing, sobbing mess under me.

    I love, love, love torturing them with pleasure. I think it looks great for the camera and it is really fun to record.

    Know This Before Exploring Your Fetishes

    Make real plans for how you will handle it when things get ugly. Any time you try something new, failures are a given and even if you’re usually cool with that, experiencing it in the bedroom where all your vulnerabilities are out in the open is a totally different experience.

    Don’t make the mistake of thinking that there’s a way to explore sexuality and push limits without ever reaching one. I’ve had my share of scenes that I thought were going to be so fun and I ended up in tears, but it was OK because I had talked with my partner about what to do and how we would recover from that. You really need to ask yourself, what will make me feel safe if I get too scared? What will make me feel better if I get too embarrassed? What will calm me down if I start to panic? And go from there.

    Have an exit strategy – you don’t want to be caught in a situation where you thought, “yeah let’s try pegging” and then whatever you ate for dinner has other plans and things get messy real fast, but those knots you used to tie up your partner take even longer to undo. Communicate and be prepared!

    Misconceptions About BDSM & Fetishes

    I don’t think people respond to the words the same way. If I tell people I’m into BDSM, their mind goes straight to pain and sado-masochism. If I tell people I have a lot of fetishes, they go straight for feet and cosplay and odd insertions.

    I think the biggest misconception is that there is one way to engage in kink, one way to be a Dom, one way to be a sub, etc. The truth is that there is no template that a person can use to decide how to have sex. You have to figure these things out for yourself by just experimenting and communicating.

    How To Introduce A Fetish To Your Partner

    It can be really difficult to start a conversation with your partner about a secret desire you have, but it’s so worth it. I think the best way is to find an example in media of some kind, whether that’s an erotic novel, a movie or a porn film, and give it to your partner to take in some time when they’re alone. This takes the pressure off your partner to have the reaction you want and allows them to really sit with their own thoughts and feelings about a scene like that.

    For instance, I’m really into consensual non-consent, where I want my partner to continue doing whatever they want to me regardless of how I say no or struggle and only stop if I use my safe word. That can be a really intense and scary experience for people and I didn’t want my partner to feel like he had to do that for me. So I told him it was a fantasy of mine, sent him a literotica link, gave him some space and then asked about his thoughts.

    Turns out he was really cool with it, but he thanked me for the space because it gave him time to think about what it would be like and to think about what his limits would be and how he would envision the scene playing out. That’s what you want. Don’t surprise someone or put them on the spot – it won’t lead to a good scene.

    Pearl Sinclair is an up and coming adult performer with dreams of a long career in the industry.. Originally from Atlanta, Georgia, Pearl is now based in Portland, Oregon where she lives with her partner, their ginger cat and their smush-faced dog. She creates her own content as well as working with producers on larger projects and hopes to someday work with companies like TrenchcoatX, Transfixed, Girlsway and Tushy. She enjoys rosé, harlequin romances, stilettos and black coffee.

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  • Fashion Model & Banker Miko Chua

    Fashion Model & Banker Miko Chua

    First of all, thank you SimplySxy for featuring me! Hi everyone! I am a 23-year old part time fashion model, and full time banker from Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia.

     

    What is your fashion style like and where do you usually shop from?

    My style, outfit changes with the seasons! But normally I prefer outfits that go with classy, simple, and elegant. I usually shop at Zara, Miss Selfridge, Warehouse & Reformation.

    Do you have any favorite quote or mottos you like to use in life?

    There’s a lot of quotes that motivate me, but if I have to choose one of the best ones, still I will say, cherish what you have today and the biggest rewards in life are found outside your comfort zone. Live with it. Fear and risk are prerequisites if you want to enjoy a life of success and adventure! ‘Be kind & be loved’

    How do you like to spend your weekends and free time?

    I spent most of my free time eating. I LOVE to go on food trip. Especially high tea on my free times!

    Is there any food or drink you can’t live without?

    YES! Definitely can’t live without steamboat, especially steamboat sauces!!

    If you could learn anything in this world, what will it be?

    Surfing!! I love to watch surfers surf on the beach.. It looks so much fun and challenging.

    On a scale of 1-10, how much of a party animal are you?

    I think 8? Cause normally I don’t party, but I drink a lot when I’m partying. YAY!

    What is the funniest or most awkward attempt a guy has tried to know you?

    One guy actually waited outside my house for two days..

    Thank you for taking the time to answer our questions Miko. One question before we end, how do you define “sexy”? 

    Sexy is not momentary, sexy is not slave to a certain characteristic, sexy is more than raw intelligence or a certain feature that just doesn’t let you focus anywhere.

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